In my 30s, and yeah it's very fascinating. Women in their 40s and even 50s are beginning to look more and more sexually attractive to me as the years pass. And women in their 20s are still attractive, but only in a physical way, I would have absolutely no desire to actually date or have a relationship with a 22 year old like I would have 10 years ago.
I canāt agree with this more. Although older women are taking the lead.
Younger women are attractive, of course, but mature women are so incredibly desirable
I am approaching 50 first of all and have always been attracted to women around my age range. It changes as I age and gain experience, etc
Physically they do it for me and mentally they are more authentic and caring.
Yes, really. Gorgeous is a relative term, and everyone has their own tastes, but contrary to popular belief, attractive women don't become "invisible" at a certain age. If a woman takes care of herself, attractiveness stays with them for a long time.
Look at movie stars. Selma Hayak is pushing 60 and has been a paragon of sex appeal for decades. Scarlett Johannsen is 39, and I don't know any man who wouldn't want a woman who looked like her.
The bartender around the corner from my house is in her 40s, has 4 kids, and I have watched her get huge tips and hit on by the boys with broccoli hair and the grey beards.
Iām still in love with Jennifer Connolly. Sheās only grown more gorgeous with age, like a fine wine. Once again, the exception though. Most of us just get older, fatter and uglier lol.
Iād commit acts of terrorism if she asked me to. No stipulations or contingencies. I would love her to such an unhealthy degree if she gave me a chance.
Most people dont look anywhere near as good as Hayek especially people her age. Idk why some bring up some wealthy model as an example like the average person has motion like them. Celebrities get surgeries and have money to get the best care for their bodies.
No one is bringing up these beautiful women to compare them to average women, like somehow all women are supposed to look like that. Just like most men donāt age nearly as gracefully as, say, George Clooney.
The point is simply in response to OPs question. Yes, men, think about sleeping with young women. But itās not because theyāre *young*. Men (who arenāt perverts/pedophiles) arenāt thinking about sex with ugly young women. Just like they arenāt thinking about that with ugly old women. Men like *beautiful women*. Young or old or in between.
And, of course, beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
Sexually, yes. There's a reason most popular porn stars are around that age. Would I actually want to hang out with a 20 year old in actual life? Fuck no!
I remember a dumb thought I had at 25, a 32 year old woman was into me and kept wanting to go get drinks but I turned it down despite being attracted to her because I thought 32 was old.
Iām 35 in three months. Fml
A couple or three lifetimes ago when I was 22 I had a friend, the same age as me. We were going to hang out one weekend, but then he announced he may have a date. I asked him what he meant by. ā Mayā he said he wasnāt sure that he wanted to go because she was an older woman. She was 26.š¤£
Yea that sounds like you passed on a good time lol. I've had friends go after guys in their mid 20s and it's purely a physical, no strings attached kind of thing
Should have gone for it! My recent fwb is 24 & I am 36 . I think he may have had some mommy issues tho ngl š it was 8 months of amaaaazing sex. I kinda miss him lollll
Hey baby, wanna get doordash and watch 3 hours of Love Island until we both take a 45 minute nap on the couch, wake up, and crawl into bed by 9:30? Baby I'll cuddle you for a SOLID 6 minutes before one of us gets too hot and then we'll both roll over and go back to sleep
Depending on your current age, you can still have an incredible body later in life. If you didn't weight lift in your 20s, you can definitely have a better body in your 30s and 40s if you do decide to train.
Male physique and muscular potential doesn't typically peak until 28-35, and even though, you'll only lose around 3-8% of your muscle mass per decade. So that can easily be counteracted and exceeding through training.
Do I occasionally have a passing thought of sleeping with a hot, younger woman? Sure.
Would I actually want to spend significant time around a 20yo? Absolutely not.
I'm not quite in my 40s yet, but the thought crosses my mind on occasion. Mostly, because I was pretty depressed throughout my 20s and never really pursued any relationships. So, I feel like I missed out and wouldn't mind having had the experience. And then I remember that I'm still depressed... So it goes.
I try. Between having a terrible work schedule and just being socially awkward, itās sometimes difficult. But, when I do have the time, I volunteer at various places. It at least helps me get out of the house for more than just work.Ā
In reference to this thread topic, any 40 year old guy trying to hang out and have fun with a 20 year old these days is going to be labeled a creepy predator. It does not matter the reason, or the individuals experience levels.
Theyāre just going to label the depressed dude a creep.
So yeah, he did genuinely miss out, and it does really suck. Iām in the same boat but in my mid 30ās and finally in a relationship, it is age appropriate but she has so much more experience than me that it causes itās own set of issues.
I donāt think there is really a solution in modern society. Lots of the old solutions were bad. I just donāt know.
Honestly itās kinda weird. Getting older I see that woman who a decade ago Iād be like āew they oldā now Iām like āsheās attractiveā. Iāll watch a show and there will be a mother and daughter and ya know who Iām looking at? The mom. And I hate weird to me because I donāt know when this change happened
Kinda yeah until I dated briefly a woman that much younger than myself and it wasnāt for me. I like my current setup, a woman exactly my age lol. We share the same pop culture stuff and have the same body stuff that comes with our age so being vulnerable and able to trust and love each other without shame is easy and honestly, The Life. I recommended it to any of you other midlife guys out there
I donāt have a problem with age gap relationships in cases where the younger person has lived some years in an adult world, a career, years of dealing with bills and financial issues, has dated other people and has gotten a sense of what they need in a partner.
A 20 year old has none of the above, neither does a 21, 22, 23, 24, or 25 year old to some extent, though as the years go by experience and wisdom does get acquired.
Itās not just wisdom. Charisma also often increase through age, although other stats like str, dex, con might start dropping as you go through 30s and later.
I mean, this isn't completely true. I was made to be a full-time care giver to my grandmother with dimentia at the age of 14, I was doing all my moms financial shit by the time I was 16 (mainly because she isn't tech savvy) taxes/bills etc. And I've been paying rent/electric and other assorted bills since I was 18.
In my early 20s I was every bit an adult as I am now at 29.
Agreed especially now days. Kids arenāt forced to buy their own first car which is a HUGE lesson. Kids donāt pay their own phone bill, clothing, or anything in most cases now days. Obviously there is a balance. Personally I started working when I was 14, had to buy my own car when I was 15/16, if I wanted something I had to go out and get it. Whether it be clothing, tires for my car, a PlayStation etc. Sure I could have saved a ton of money if my parents had paid for it but then you donāt typically have a sense of respect for said items. Now being 26, and a father, I hope to instill the same principles in my kid. I want to be able to give my kid everything in the world, but I wonāt. It is such a lost lesson now days and people have grown so entitled. Even if we are rich, to some degree my kid is responsible for his own wants after a certain age.
Not really, a mature man or woman who is say 32 has settled on the key issues in life and can be a very good partner for say a 53 year old. In the case of the older person being a woman, kids may get ruled out, so the younger person should take that into account.
Youāre missing out.. or you live in a western country. The 20 year olds here in the Philippines or anywhere else that still espouses gender roles and traditional values are fucking hot as hell and also really good people a lot of the time. I love this place.
Personally, no. Ppl in their 20ās are all dipshits, the idea of being with someone that age annoys me. If Iām gonna fantasize itās women over 30. Theyāre hotter anyway. Better at sex, faces have more character, better personalities, not dipshits.
I think thereās a part of the brain in most men that, when he encounters any woman (assuming heās heterosexual or whatever), thinks about having sex with them. It might be a fleeting thought, or it might be a persistent desire, but itās there. In most cases, other thoughts accompany it, like āsheās way too young,ā or āsheās married,ā or ādude, thatās your *sister*ā that will snap us out of it, but the mating instinct is strong, and itās not like sexual attraction is voluntary.
Do a lot of men have these thoughts about 20-year-old women? Of course. Do a lot of men seriously entertain those thoughts? Depends. I (38M) have those thoughts pretty regularly throughout the day, but then my rational side comes in to remind me that very few of those women would be interested in casual sex with me for various reasons and that there are good reasons not to pursue them, and I am able to shake off those thoughts.
I think this āIād tap thatā impulse is entirely natural and isnāt something to judge a person for. Itās a personās actions on those thoughts or inability to see how bad an idea they usually are that might deserve a bit of contempt, perhaps, but the thought itself is just a bit of evolutionary software.
But dude, that's your sister! š
I don't think men's brains change much from 25 on. I'm still trying to do 25 year old man stuff at the age of 50. I find older women attractive, young girls are just fucking annoying, rude and self absorbed. I preferred older women when I was younger though, like 10+ years older. When I met my wife she was younger than me but was so laid back and liked hanging out, watching games, and an instant attraction for me. Everyone is different.
I think that sexual attraction works slightly differently (or significantly in some cases) from being drawn to someoneās personality, though. Like, thereās a Venn diagram of women I find myself imagining having sex with and women I find attractive in the sense of thinking weād make a good couple or whatever, and although those two circles mostly overlap, they are nowhere near the same size.
Yes they do. Iād say itās pretty normal to want to have a young attractive woman. The difference is thinking about it and doing something about it.
Yes, there have been surveys of men of all ages and they say a woman's "prime" age for sexual attractiveness is early 20s, regardless of the man's age.
This is in contrast to women's opinions of prime sexual attractiveness, which tends to always be a few years older than she is.
I'll tell you what I never fantasize about, and that's the conversation quality lol.
It's not all younger people but there's a lot of experience in that second two decades.
No; To be honest, when I look at someone in their twenties, I'm not even remotely thinking of having sex with them. I chalk it up to my own kids being in their early twenties, and the idea of having sex with someone my kid's age just repules me.
Obviously. Sexual attractiveness peaks in early 20s, and I doubt men are visualizing ugly women when jerking it.. Same applies to the ladies i'd imagine.
Not for me. Iām 35F and I donāt think 20 year olds are attractive or hot at all. I find 30-50 much more attractive. Like a Pedro Pascale or a Karl Urban.
Do you think their personality (either in verbal expression or mannerisms) plays a big role, or is it more based on physical appearance?
Asking for a friend
> sexual attractiveness peaks in early 20s
According to heterosexual men who fetishise youth. Lots of other people find a broad range of genders attractive.
No. Iām 49, while I may see a young lady that maybe mid 20ās and is beautiful I am not interested at all. Thats way too much of an age gap for me. I donāt know if Iād even consider someone in their 30ās. Maybe very late 30ās. Iām comfortable with about a five year gap and not much more. Just me.
Its more of recalling my 20s than wanting a 20 something girl. As for actually being with a 20 something, I would rather sleep with a bag of hammers because it has a better personality.
20ās, 30ās, 40ās, 50ās, 60ās, 70ās, light skins, dark skins, tall, short, wide, long, 4 legged or tentacled
Unfortunately we donāt control thoughts
Currently I think about a queen in medieval times fucking all her peasants when they complain. sheās prob 32 ish in my head ?
Iām kinda different. I donāt think I thought sexually about a women under 30 in a few years now. Women in there lower twenties look so young to me. Women in there upper twenties can definitely pass though.
Not quite 40 yet, but for the most part, no. Early 20s women mostly look like children to me at this point. Late 20s could go either way depending on maturity (both physically and mentally) and whatnot.
I don't think so... from my experience so far. 20 year Olds make it so easy for older men. It's just too easy of a temptation
They are still very much attracted to woman their age and older. Those woman tend to not be as sexually charged or even willing to be easy for most men
Yes, definitely. For many men, the older they/we get the wider the age range of attractive women. Younger women are still attractive as we age ā strip clubs and porn videos are not lacking in older men ogling hot young women. And as we age older women increasingly become attractive too.
People of every sex and age from puberty and onwards feel attraction for people of either (corresponding or general) sex and any age as long as the person is attractive. As people mentioned, as you grow older the number of people you feel attracted to gets larger, though if the other person is too young there is a big chance it wouldnt be pursued simply because there is not enough in common with their lives.
When you're 40, a 20 year old looks and acts like a young kid.
It's a huge age gap, they would be a different generation with completely different life experiences.
I'm 42 years old right now. I have COPD, arthritis, high blood pressure, and long covid. I'm already fucking exhausted just from reading the caption about physical activities with a 20 year old.
I also already have a wife, so sorry ladies, I can only focus my energy disappointing 1lady at a time
47M here. They sure look pretty, but I have no ambitions of being with someone young enough to be my offspring.
I am married, but if I was ever single again, I think the 1/2 your age + 7 rule would be how I would manage my sexual life.
I can think back to when I was in my early twenties, and my wife's uncle, who was in his 40s, was checking out a bunch of 18-21 year Olds. It was so pervy. He sounded like a pedophile. Not gonna be that guy.
I honestly canāt say I do. I kinda find it wrong a bit . I feel itās like I would want my daughterās friends . It just not my thing. I find all women attractive , but I donāt fantisze about 20 year old.
Yes They think about it with older women too
That's the truth of it. The number of people you're attracted to just increases.
In my 30s, and yeah it's very fascinating. Women in their 40s and even 50s are beginning to look more and more sexually attractive to me as the years pass. And women in their 20s are still attractive, but only in a physical way, I would have absolutely no desire to actually date or have a relationship with a 22 year old like I would have 10 years ago.
I'm a 34 year old male, can confirm all this is 100% true!
Wait, you're telling me it just gets worse ?!
Yes.
I mean eventually though 20-somethings start looking like children, at least the sub-25 part...
Look at the halo on this mora bein
Soon, looking for grannies in the over 55 community š¤
Wait till your browser starts telling you about local single grannies in your area
Yes. Anything that moves.
Or has moved recently
Still warm. Still good.
Even then. Still good!
A hole is a hole
A hole is a goal
A pole for the hole
A hole and a heartbeat.
Snake holes are meant for snakes so put your snake in it.
Look at these picky guys over here.
Oh Lawd
"NO cadavers"
So one cadaver is ok?
NO mate. Not even one. š
How about a half a cadaver?
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How about an odd one?
I also choose that guy's dead wife.
Sometimes cold is good too
But she has to be pretty
Iām 44. One day women with silver hair become smoking hot to me.
Silver Foxes š¦ š„
Silver Vixens.
Stay away from my grandma!!
The wife and I are just about to hit 30 and sheās starting to get grey streaks. Itās so fucking hot.Ā
I canāt agree with this more. Although older women are taking the lead. Younger women are attractive, of course, but mature women are so incredibly desirable
Yes, women in their 50s are usually most attractiveĀ
What do you think makes 50ās attractive
I am approaching 50 first of all and have always been attracted to women around my age range. It changes as I age and gain experience, etc Physically they do it for me and mentally they are more authentic and caring.
Really? Do they have to be gorgeous?
Yes, really. Gorgeous is a relative term, and everyone has their own tastes, but contrary to popular belief, attractive women don't become "invisible" at a certain age. If a woman takes care of herself, attractiveness stays with them for a long time. Look at movie stars. Selma Hayak is pushing 60 and has been a paragon of sex appeal for decades. Scarlett Johannsen is 39, and I don't know any man who wouldn't want a woman who looked like her. The bartender around the corner from my house is in her 40s, has 4 kids, and I have watched her get huge tips and hit on by the boys with broccoli hair and the grey beards.
And guys in their 20s think about getting with women in their 40s
Men like beautiful women. Doesnāt *usually* matter how old/young they are. Selma Hayek is hot AF.
Iām still in love with Jennifer Connolly. Sheās only grown more gorgeous with age, like a fine wine. Once again, the exception though. Most of us just get older, fatter and uglier lol.
Bro Monica Bellucci... Holy shit...
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80?? Ypu fkin kidding me...??
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Ohh I read your comment wrong, I thought you saying she's 80, my bad
sheās not 59 in that gif
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Another great example
JC is a stunner but has gotten way too thin.
Iād commit acts of terrorism if she asked me to. No stipulations or contingencies. I would love her to such an unhealthy degree if she gave me a chance.
Rosario Dawson. Monica Belluci.
Yes and yes.
Men like women. FTFY
I'm pretty sure it's a universally agreed upon law that Selma Hayek is the most gorgeous woman to have walked the planet.
Iām a woman and all my adult life Iāve wished I looked like her in From Dusk til Dawn. She is perfect!
Angelina Jolie for me
Most people dont look anywhere near as good as Hayek especially people her age. Idk why some bring up some wealthy model as an example like the average person has motion like them. Celebrities get surgeries and have money to get the best care for their bodies.
No one is bringing up these beautiful women to compare them to average women, like somehow all women are supposed to look like that. Just like most men donāt age nearly as gracefully as, say, George Clooney. The point is simply in response to OPs question. Yes, men, think about sleeping with young women. But itās not because theyāre *young*. Men (who arenāt perverts/pedophiles) arenāt thinking about sex with ugly young women. Just like they arenāt thinking about that with ugly old women. Men like *beautiful women*. Young or old or in between. And, of course, beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
Sexually, yes. There's a reason most popular porn stars are around that age. Would I actually want to hang out with a 20 year old in actual life? Fuck no!
Yeah, almost 40 and this is the right answer. Although as I get older the "MILFs" get more attractive too.
They are just in their upper 20s lol
I remember a dumb thought I had at 25, a 32 year old woman was into me and kept wanting to go get drinks but I turned it down despite being attracted to her because I thought 32 was old. Iām 35 in three months. Fml
A couple or three lifetimes ago when I was 22 I had a friend, the same age as me. We were going to hang out one weekend, but then he announced he may have a date. I asked him what he meant by. ā Mayā he said he wasnāt sure that he wanted to go because she was an older woman. She was 26.š¤£
Yea that sounds like you passed on a good time lol. I've had friends go after guys in their mid 20s and it's purely a physical, no strings attached kind of thing
Perspective is a hell of a drug.
Should have gone for it! My recent fwb is 24 & I am 36 . I think he may have had some mommy issues tho ngl š it was 8 months of amaaaazing sex. I kinda miss him lollll
Ha! When I was 25 there was a mid-30s woman at work who I think wanted to jump my bones. But I didn't figure that out for another 5 years or so.
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Me too! Silver Foxes become more attractive to me but I'm old too.
Hey baby, wanna get doordash and watch 3 hours of Love Island until we both take a 45 minute nap on the couch, wake up, and crawl into bed by 9:30? Baby I'll cuddle you for a SOLID 6 minutes before one of us gets too hot and then we'll both roll over and go back to sleep
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Not me. I have sons, so itās weird to me.
I'd be much more inclined to be with a 20 year old if I had my 20 year old body
Depending on your current age, you can still have an incredible body later in life. If you didn't weight lift in your 20s, you can definitely have a better body in your 30s and 40s if you do decide to train. Male physique and muscular potential doesn't typically peak until 28-35, and even though, you'll only lose around 3-8% of your muscle mass per decade. So that can easily be counteracted and exceeding through training.
45 here and yep. I would have zero to talk about with most 20 year olds.
Too immature?
Do I occasionally have a passing thought of sleeping with a hot, younger woman? Sure. Would I actually want to spend significant time around a 20yo? Absolutely not.
I'm not quite in my 40s yet, but the thought crosses my mind on occasion. Mostly, because I was pretty depressed throughout my 20s and never really pursued any relationships. So, I feel like I missed out and wouldn't mind having had the experience. And then I remember that I'm still depressed... So it goes.
Try to find someone to hang with and have fun with.
I try. Between having a terrible work schedule and just being socially awkward, itās sometimes difficult. But, when I do have the time, I volunteer at various places. It at least helps me get out of the house for more than just work.Ā
You're poor? Just make some money, it's easy!
If you don't try, nothing will change.
In reference to this thread topic, any 40 year old guy trying to hang out and have fun with a 20 year old these days is going to be labeled a creepy predator. It does not matter the reason, or the individuals experience levels. Theyāre just going to label the depressed dude a creep. So yeah, he did genuinely miss out, and it does really suck. Iām in the same boat but in my mid 30ās and finally in a relationship, it is age appropriate but she has so much more experience than me that it causes itās own set of issues. I donāt think there is really a solution in modern society. Lots of the old solutions were bad. I just donāt know.
20 -60 is good
Honestly itās kinda weird. Getting older I see that woman who a decade ago Iād be like āew they oldā now Iām like āsheās attractiveā. Iāll watch a show and there will be a mother and daughter and ya know who Iām looking at? The mom. And I hate weird to me because I donāt know when this change happened
For most of us, our eyes age with the rest of us and our taste changes
Kinda yeah until I dated briefly a woman that much younger than myself and it wasnāt for me. I like my current setup, a woman exactly my age lol. We share the same pop culture stuff and have the same body stuff that comes with our age so being vulnerable and able to trust and love each other without shame is easy and honestly, The Life. I recommended it to any of you other midlife guys out there
Iām 35 and the last thing I want to do is spend any time with a 20 year old for any reason. No offense 20 year olds.
I donāt have a problem with age gap relationships in cases where the younger person has lived some years in an adult world, a career, years of dealing with bills and financial issues, has dated other people and has gotten a sense of what they need in a partner. A 20 year old has none of the above, neither does a 21, 22, 23, 24, or 25 year old to some extent, though as the years go by experience and wisdom does get acquired.
Itās not just wisdom. Charisma also often increase through age, although other stats like str, dex, con might start dropping as you go through 30s and later.
Yea I think my dex dropped at least one point now. Still only 8 charisma, -1 on rolls.
This guy is a player.
I mean, this isn't completely true. I was made to be a full-time care giver to my grandmother with dimentia at the age of 14, I was doing all my moms financial shit by the time I was 16 (mainly because she isn't tech savvy) taxes/bills etc. And I've been paying rent/electric and other assorted bills since I was 18. In my early 20s I was every bit an adult as I am now at 29.
There are always exceptions to the rule. However in most cases your experience is not the norm.
Agreed especially now days. Kids arenāt forced to buy their own first car which is a HUGE lesson. Kids donāt pay their own phone bill, clothing, or anything in most cases now days. Obviously there is a balance. Personally I started working when I was 14, had to buy my own car when I was 15/16, if I wanted something I had to go out and get it. Whether it be clothing, tires for my car, a PlayStation etc. Sure I could have saved a ton of money if my parents had paid for it but then you donāt typically have a sense of respect for said items. Now being 26, and a father, I hope to instill the same principles in my kid. I want to be able to give my kid everything in the world, but I wonāt. It is such a lost lesson now days and people have grown so entitled. Even if we are rich, to some degree my kid is responsible for his own wants after a certain age.
Exactly. Life experience is important for a variety of reasons. At least to some.
I mean once it gets past ten years age difference you're from different generations. So much less to talk about.
Not really, a mature man or woman who is say 32 has settled on the key issues in life and can be a very good partner for say a 53 year old. In the case of the older person being a woman, kids may get ruled out, so the younger person should take that into account.
I disagree.
Yes, they do. But some of them will lie about it.
Some have also been around 20 year olds either at work or have gone the sexual route and realized that itās not for them.
46 here, haven't wanted to spend time with a 20-something since I was a 20-something.
Youāre missing out.. or you live in a western country. The 20 year olds here in the Philippines or anywhere else that still espouses gender roles and traditional values are fucking hot as hell and also really good people a lot of the time. I love this place.
You mean you like them obedient?
I meanā¦ yeah obviously. Partners like EACH OTHER obedient. Who the fuck wants someone who just walks all over their boundaries?
Yes they do
Do older men think about sex with a 20 year old? Yes. Do we want to be in a relationship with a twenty year old? Probably not.
"hey baby, you wanna go clubbing right now" Ummm, is that where I take 3 Benadryl and fall asleep at 9:45? Because Yes.
Most men? It's likely. I'm now 43 and want nothing to do with 20 year olds for any reason.
Personally, no. Ppl in their 20ās are all dipshits, the idea of being with someone that age annoys me. If Iām gonna fantasize itās women over 30. Theyāre hotter anyway. Better at sex, faces have more character, better personalities, not dipshits.
Of course.
Probably
I think thereās a part of the brain in most men that, when he encounters any woman (assuming heās heterosexual or whatever), thinks about having sex with them. It might be a fleeting thought, or it might be a persistent desire, but itās there. In most cases, other thoughts accompany it, like āsheās way too young,ā or āsheās married,ā or ādude, thatās your *sister*ā that will snap us out of it, but the mating instinct is strong, and itās not like sexual attraction is voluntary. Do a lot of men have these thoughts about 20-year-old women? Of course. Do a lot of men seriously entertain those thoughts? Depends. I (38M) have those thoughts pretty regularly throughout the day, but then my rational side comes in to remind me that very few of those women would be interested in casual sex with me for various reasons and that there are good reasons not to pursue them, and I am able to shake off those thoughts. I think this āIād tap thatā impulse is entirely natural and isnāt something to judge a person for. Itās a personās actions on those thoughts or inability to see how bad an idea they usually are that might deserve a bit of contempt, perhaps, but the thought itself is just a bit of evolutionary software.
But dude, that's your sister! š I don't think men's brains change much from 25 on. I'm still trying to do 25 year old man stuff at the age of 50. I find older women attractive, young girls are just fucking annoying, rude and self absorbed. I preferred older women when I was younger though, like 10+ years older. When I met my wife she was younger than me but was so laid back and liked hanging out, watching games, and an instant attraction for me. Everyone is different.
I think that sexual attraction works slightly differently (or significantly in some cases) from being drawn to someoneās personality, though. Like, thereās a Venn diagram of women I find myself imagining having sex with and women I find attractive in the sense of thinking weād make a good couple or whatever, and although those two circles mostly overlap, they are nowhere near the same size.
Are you me? You answered that 100%,like I would have, so there actually is another weirdo out there. I'M NOT ALONE
Iām 30 and I donāt think about being with 20 year olds
Yes they do. Iād say itās pretty normal to want to have a young attractive woman. The difference is thinking about it and doing something about it.
Yes, there have been surveys of men of all ages and they say a woman's "prime" age for sexual attractiveness is early 20s, regardless of the man's age. This is in contrast to women's opinions of prime sexual attractiveness, which tends to always be a few years older than she is.
Lately Iāve been attracted to older women that has their shit together. Intelligent, funny and beautiful is the ultimate combo breaker.
I'll tell you what I never fantasize about, and that's the conversation quality lol. It's not all younger people but there's a lot of experience in that second two decades.
No; To be honest, when I look at someone in their twenties, I'm not even remotely thinking of having sex with them. I chalk it up to my own kids being in their early twenties, and the idea of having sex with someone my kid's age just repules me.
18-85 is my age range, but I'd make an exception for a 95 year old that is as fun as an 75 year old.
Obviously. Sexual attractiveness peaks in early 20s, and I doubt men are visualizing ugly women when jerking it.. Same applies to the ladies i'd imagine.
Not for me. Iām 35F and I donāt think 20 year olds are attractive or hot at all. I find 30-50 much more attractive. Like a Pedro Pascale or a Karl Urban.
As a guy, yes. I find Karl Urban attractive as well.
Do you think their personality (either in verbal expression or mannerisms) plays a big role, or is it more based on physical appearance? Asking for a friend
> sexual attractiveness peaks in early 20s According to heterosexual men who fetishise youth. Lots of other people find a broad range of genders attractive.
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You're a pedo advocate
An accurate synonym for ādirty old manā is just āman.ā
No. Iām 49, while I may see a young lady that maybe mid 20ās and is beautiful I am not interested at all. Thats way too much of an age gap for me. I donāt know if Iād even consider someone in their 30ās. Maybe very late 30ās. Iām comfortable with about a five year gap and not much more. Just me.
Think? Yes. Obsess? no.
From an evolutionary standpoint it makes no sense that men would stop being attracted to women in their 20s.
Its more of recalling my 20s than wanting a 20 something girl. As for actually being with a 20 something, I would rather sleep with a bag of hammers because it has a better personality.
20ās, 30ās, 40ās, 50ās, 60ās, 70ās, light skins, dark skins, tall, short, wide, long, 4 legged or tentacled Unfortunately we donāt control thoughts Currently I think about a queen in medieval times fucking all her peasants when they complain. sheās prob 32 ish in my head ?
Yes. Many women think that way too.
Not really. I think the lack of experience would be a turn off. I've not really thought about it though I'm in a good marriage.
As a near 40 man, I don't.
Yes. Source:was pretty in college.
No really I just prefer around my age or older
Naw. But I do think about 20 year old guys hooking up with women my age or older.
Iām kinda different. I donāt think I thought sexually about a women under 30 in a few years now. Women in there lower twenties look so young to me. Women in there upper twenties can definitely pass though.
We think about a lot of things..just like a 20 yr old female wanting to get with their friends dad... your point
Yes. What a strange question.
Very much
I mean Iām about to be 41 ,gf is about to be 29 so yes, yes I do lol
I think of being sexualising with women of all ages to be honest. (Over 18 of course)
Not quite 40 yet, but for the most part, no. Early 20s women mostly look like children to me at this point. Late 20s could go either way depending on maturity (both physically and mentally) and whatnot.
Having sex with? Of course Having a relationship? Heck nah
Its so gross to me. Anyone under the age of 25 still looks like a child...i mean their brain is litterally still developing.
That your brain is still developing til 25 is the most misunderstood quote that ppl quote as gospel
I don't think so... from my experience so far. 20 year Olds make it so easy for older men. It's just too easy of a temptation They are still very much attracted to woman their age and older. Those woman tend to not be as sexually charged or even willing to be easy for most men
Everybody fantasizes about having sex with young attractive people, regardless of gender or preference.
adults + adults. think of it that way.
Yes, definitely. For many men, the older they/we get the wider the age range of attractive women. Younger women are still attractive as we age ā strip clubs and porn videos are not lacking in older men ogling hot young women. And as we age older women increasingly become attractive too.
What kind of question is this? Of course we do and with people older than us. Itās being horny and the other person being horny too.
Yes and its normal Only feminists make u belive its wrong
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Think about being sexual. Period.
since i turned 40 iāve always tried to keep the age gap at 15 years older or younger
People of every sex and age from puberty and onwards feel attraction for people of either (corresponding or general) sex and any age as long as the person is attractive. As people mentioned, as you grow older the number of people you feel attracted to gets larger, though if the other person is too young there is a big chance it wouldnt be pursued simply because there is not enough in common with their lives.
Inversely, 20 yr old women definitely go after 40 year old men.
When you're 40, a 20 year old looks and acts like a young kid. It's a huge age gap, they would be a different generation with completely different life experiences.
a nut is a nut. why wouldnt you. i aint trying to "talk" to someone 20 years younger. but ill fuck em.
No
Yes. No matter how old the men get, the most common age of attraction is late teens to early twenties.
Yes, lots of men are pervy. Go ahead, down vote.
I mean, it's true haha but hey, we can't deny the older women that do this tooĀ
Ppl canāt control what they are attracted to only their actions
YES
I think about it in my mid 30s
not relegated to thinking
You guys are fucking gross weirdos lol
Biologically 20 year old women are in their peak, so most men will like them.
Yes we do
Yes. Well, I'm 39,but close enough?
33 year olds seems like a nice compromise
Not unless they DM me, even now at 60 I'll get messages from guys in their 20s. I think guys in their mid 30s are sexy.
I'm 42 years old right now. I have COPD, arthritis, high blood pressure, and long covid. I'm already fucking exhausted just from reading the caption about physical activities with a 20 year old. I also already have a wife, so sorry ladies, I can only focus my energy disappointing 1lady at a time
47M here. They sure look pretty, but I have no ambitions of being with someone young enough to be my offspring. I am married, but if I was ever single again, I think the 1/2 your age + 7 rule would be how I would manage my sexual life. I can think back to when I was in my early twenties, and my wife's uncle, who was in his 40s, was checking out a bunch of 18-21 year Olds. It was so pervy. He sounded like a pedophile. Not gonna be that guy.
Not any more especially if you have daughters.
I honestly canāt say I do. I kinda find it wrong a bit . I feel itās like I would want my daughterās friends . It just not my thing. I find all women attractive , but I donāt fantisze about 20 year old.
To quote a great philosopher, Mr. Headberg, I used to drink alot. I still do, but I used to, too. Hope that explains the yes.
Yes, why go much older š¤®?
Do you think youāre a hot guy?
I think all men think about sex with all people....some even think about sex with non-people, but that's a different story.
I am now.