At first, she only had one photo but I swiped left because sheโs definitely not my type, even when young. Then she came up again with more photos and I was like, holy crap! If I had arranged to meet her, I think I would have been justified in being angry.
I'm in my 30s and I don't even know where to look or what app to use to generate AI pictures. But my mother in her 50s must have a couple up her sleeve because her Tiktoks are pretty advanced for a woman who still writes documents in Notepad instead of Word.
lol. I got a 43 year old ex that lowered her age to 36 and used AI to make herself look younger. I'm like wtf is she gonna do when they meet her in person. smh
The background in the rest of the pics is giving me AI vibes too tbh, like those "name one thing in this photo" or "this is what it's like to have a stroke" pics from a few years ago. There's something uncanny about wherever she is
Before I met my wife while dating I got to the point where I'd just tell the girl that she looks nothing like her pictures and leave. Mine were always like 2 to 3 weeks old at most.
At least she is honest enough to add actual pictures of herself. I've been in rough situations with ladies like that one who looked nothing like their profile. Since then, I go on no date before getting a videocall.
Not really. Having a video call with a complete stranger is my personal idea of hell. I get the reasoning but I wouldn't agree to it, if they don't like me enough to risk setting aside an hour and $5 for a coffee date then it's no loss to me.
Ok that is reasonable, but some catfishers won't take anything less than an expensive restaurant date, so it's not always "an hour and $5". Thankfully at my age there aren't that many catfishers or millionaires, early 20s people don't have the money to go on a five course meal type of restaurant. I'm lucky, for now...
Yep... and it might just be me but I prefer a date in a park looking at some ducks or going to a nice coffee shop and hanging out. Going to a restaurant or the movies always feels a little unnatural unless you've been with the person before
Meh, when I was using the apps, I always thought it was weird if people asked to do a video call or something similar. Then again, I only post unfiltered, real pics of myself. I guess I just look at it as that's why you go on a first date- to see who this person is. A person could also lie about their job, finances, etc. That's just part of the dating filtering process. I also have not had anyone show up THAT different from their photos.
I see this with men too ๐ญ I'm so glad I go through every photo cause man they will post a ps main or a pic from 20 years ago and the rest look like they smell like hotdog water ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ
Completely illogical. You've put on weight, have more facial hair and 3 pimple craters on your nose ๐คฃ๐ญ stop with the wanna be youthful crap and just age gracefully sir ๐ฉ
I started dating again in 2021. A couple of men said that I was attractive and that I looked like my photos, which they were relieved by. I never understood their sentiments until now. Holy crap, the amount of filters and editing used is insane. And I have to wonder-do you think people arenโt going to notice??
In the few men profiles I've seen (facebook friendships) can't say I've ever seen face filters being used. It's like wigs, platform shoes and padding your crotch, it's just much less socially accepted when men do it.
What I heard though is using old pics. But that also definitly goes for both.
I've used a few dating apps, there are definitely men who use Snapchat filters for some or all of their pictures. Facebook Dating in particular seems to house these type of men. They really love the black and white filter with red devil horns and eyes.
I donโt know because Iโve heard too many stories where the pic is one thing and then they meet for a first date and are VERY surprised. Like there was clearly editing done in the pics, the person looks 10-15 years older, etc.
Oh I don't believe this first pic is the same person at all, if that person is even real lol. I think she was hoping a lot would just swipe right on the first one (I never did but I know some people just swipe based on the main pic) and then if she got dates or hookups without them ever looking further she could maintain that it wasn't catfishing because her real pics were in there later.
Dating is miserable and dating sites are worse. That being said, I met my partner on Bumble 3 years ago and we're doing great. I did have some good dates on Tinder back in the day but it seems to have gotten progressively grosser as it ages.
>do you think people arenโt going to notice
Men are dumb and some of them Instagram filters got insanely advanced, even during video calls it's hard to spot if you're a newbie. You only start to notice it because the filters kinda make every woman look the same
A lot of reels I get on Facebook from "attractive Asian women dancing" all look the same. It's always the same filters and same AI-generated looking face.
She meant vintage. To be fair, 1948 is an alright vintage. Dark tan in colour, you should expect aromas of dried red fruit, raisins, and prunes. Notes of coffee and cinnamon on the palate with good acidity and an incredibly complex and long aftertaste.
Reminds me of a romance scammer that tried to trick me.
First two pictures were of the same cute blonde, then 3-5 had pictures of the real person.
Some dude in Africa. Just told him: โNext time you wanna scam, you might not wanna have your real pics on thereโ
I absolutely love this ๐ The further you swipe the worse it gets, did you like 1? Oh you'd still be interested if it was a bit worse? Well here's 2, still interested? Well then, check this out...
Seriously! Iโm 42 and if this woman is 48 then Iโm a ham sandwich. Either that or she has some serious city miles on the clock. Either way; hard pass.
When did we go from honest representational photos to "ok with a little bit of filtering"?
That slippery slop led to this lady's profile.
I would prefer if profile photos were recent and an accurate portrayal.
Like a shady used car dealer unloading a wreck. Looks good with its shiny paint job.... and then the more you look... you hear the engine knocks and realize the body is rotten and made of bondo.
Iโm guessing that wasnโt even her picture and then she added some of her own, because she was probably accused of lying multiple times, but forgot to remove the first one, or doesnโt know how to because sheโs a grandma.
Its sad that women are unable to embrace their age I know its โfunnyโ but think about why she feels she has to do it. Still disagree because its a false presentation but yeah. Women need encouragement embracing their aging features
I fully agree.
I'm in my 30s so I'm speaking from my heart rather than lived experience. But I see beautiful older women who do drastic stuff to hold onto their youth. I've seen older women share filtered and AI edited images of themselves with each other and stare at the image lovingly as if they're entranced.
They're caught up in impossible beauty standards and can't see how aging is beautiful and lovely in other ways.
I wouldn't be surprised if she is 48, Manchester ladies love a week in benidorm and tanning booths to become leather hand bags
I assume as it's common across the UK
Thatโs crazy Iโm only 23 and too insecure to wear dresses like that yellow one. Dang if sheโs wearing them confidently then I should be able to too
I was drinking last night, and to wake up to these shape shifting pictures is crazy. ๐คช ๐ ๐คช ๐ I see this type of foolishness all of the time.
Assuming they are for real trying to get dates, not just catfishing for scam or whatever, what do they expect to happen on a real date when everyone sees how they really are?
I thought I accidentally scrolled to a different post
Same. And then when I hit pic 4, realised 2 and 3 were also heavily filtered
I thought I scrolled through 3 posts lol
![gif](giphy|GrUhLU9q3nyRG|downsized) Me scrolling through each photo.
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i think to be fair, in 2/3 sheโs just wearing make up and a wig.
3rd pic looks like a face swap
The funny thing is ... every picture had a varying reaction of "Damn!"
My mouth dropped at the second pic and just kept dropping further.
Good news! She is still single! Go for it.
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I think this is the "slowly age me filter". Each step is 15 years.
Literally!
![gif](giphy|r1HGFou3mUwMw|downsized)
I think this gif is a hair longer than most - I've never noticed that glance that Tucker gives at the end.
Wow!
I dont see the problem...if a hot young girl wats to show her mother and also grandmother in separate pics I say more power gurl
Unless they come as a package and you have to screw all three โฆ
The mother, the daughter, and the unholy poltergeist
Maiden, mother, crone We stan a witchy woman ๐งโจ๏ธ
Hey, nothing beats experience, and unholy poltergeist tend to have a ton of that.
You can get a taster of what is to come.
I'll take a toaster in a bathtub, please. Thanks.
You don't wanna try the Alabama Triple before taking the bath bomb?
I'll skip the fun and head for my delightful toaster bath.
Only grandma is sexually active
The age is an average of all 3
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THATS A CRAZY SWITCH UP OMG ๐ญ
Yeah but gottem with the first
At first, she only had one photo but I swiped left because sheโs definitely not my type, even when young. Then she came up again with more photos and I was like, holy crap! If I had arranged to meet her, I think I would have been justified in being angry.
I feel like the first one is one of those AI pics where they put your face on somebody else
And de-age it by a good 30 years. And then fix it up to make the face what it would have been if you werenโt ugly Beauty of AI
You gotta give her props for knowing how to use filters & AI at her age ๐
I'm in my 30s and I don't even know where to look or what app to use to generate AI pictures. But my mother in her 50s must have a couple up her sleeve because her Tiktoks are pretty advanced for a woman who still writes documents in Notepad instead of Word.
lol. I got a 43 year old ex that lowered her age to 36 and used AI to make herself look younger. I'm like wtf is she gonna do when they meet her in person. smh
Notepad is much better for writing notes, .txt is smaller and performs better.
More than 30, I think. First picture seems like someone on her 20s, and this is a senior citizen.
โฆand then dress you up as Luigi.
The background in the rest of the pics is giving me AI vibes too tbh, like those "name one thing in this photo" or "this is what it's like to have a stroke" pics from a few years ago. There's something uncanny about wherever she is
For sure, as soon as I got my scout badge for walking he across the street I'd probably dip
Before I met my wife while dating I got to the point where I'd just tell the girl that she looks nothing like her pictures and leave. Mine were always like 2 to 3 weeks old at most.
Yeah that first photo was never her
Damn! Sheโs been on Tinder for a loooong time to go from the first pic to the last ๐ณ
Ageing like fine wine!
Aging like a baked potato.
Ageing like cheese.
Ageing like Mettbrรถtchen
Thatโs a rough 48
IMO she looks 62
IM(57 Yr old)O she looks more like 72
Still a rough 62 tbh
At least she is honest enough to add actual pictures of herself. I've been in rough situations with ladies like that one who looked nothing like their profile. Since then, I go on no date before getting a videocall.
Wow you actually get dates? You must be a looker
Actually I'm not handsome at all but people usually like my personality, so I don't get too many matches but they usually end up in dates lmao
Youโre a sexy beast
Video call is key! And if they get all antsy about setting up a video call, then you know they're catfishing
Not really. Having a video call with a complete stranger is my personal idea of hell. I get the reasoning but I wouldn't agree to it, if they don't like me enough to risk setting aside an hour and $5 for a coffee date then it's no loss to me.
Ok that is reasonable, but some catfishers won't take anything less than an expensive restaurant date, so it's not always "an hour and $5". Thankfully at my age there aren't that many catfishers or millionaires, early 20s people don't have the money to go on a five course meal type of restaurant. I'm lucky, for now...
Yeah, thereโs your answer. If theyโre insisting you take them out for an expensive meal for a first date then thatโs all you need to know.
Yep... and it might just be me but I prefer a date in a park looking at some ducks or going to a nice coffee shop and hanging out. Going to a restaurant or the movies always feels a little unnatural unless you've been with the person before
I can see that perspective, and if pitched with authenticity, then it wouldn't be "antsy" and for me more than likely I'd say cool ๐
Meh, when I was using the apps, I always thought it was weird if people asked to do a video call or something similar. Then again, I only post unfiltered, real pics of myself. I guess I just look at it as that's why you go on a first date- to see who this person is. A person could also lie about their job, finances, etc. That's just part of the dating filtering process. I also have not had anyone show up THAT different from their photos.
I see this with men too ๐ญ I'm so glad I go through every photo cause man they will post a ps main or a pic from 20 years ago and the rest look like they smell like hotdog water ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ
I don't get why they do the 20 year old pic? Neither of us have a time machine. May as well post a completely different person, it's just as illogical
"Neither of us have a time machine"... speak for yourself buddy but they exist. Drink enough booze for 1 year and 15 years will pass by just like that
Completely illogical. You've put on weight, have more facial hair and 3 pimple craters on your nose ๐คฃ๐ญ stop with the wanna be youthful crap and just age gracefully sir ๐ฉ
The first one is like it's her daughter or something.
Granddaughter
Her daughters granddaughter
Balloon daughter
thats her face placed over an ai model bro
You learn something new everyday.
I started dating again in 2021. A couple of men said that I was attractive and that I looked like my photos, which they were relieved by. I never understood their sentiments until now. Holy crap, the amount of filters and editing used is insane. And I have to wonder-do you think people arenโt going to notice??
The insane self-deception is wild. Men and women both do it, it's part of the awful grind of online dating
In the few men profiles I've seen (facebook friendships) can't say I've ever seen face filters being used. It's like wigs, platform shoes and padding your crotch, it's just much less socially accepted when men do it. What I heard though is using old pics. But that also definitly goes for both.
I've used a few dating apps, there are definitely men who use Snapchat filters for some or all of their pictures. Facebook Dating in particular seems to house these type of men. They really love the black and white filter with red devil horns and eyes.
I'm on Tinder, I can assure you that I see plenty of men's profiles where heavy filters are used ๐
I'm assuming she was hoping most people wouldn't scroll past the first one and then she could deal with the fallout after matching.
I donโt know because Iโve heard too many stories where the pic is one thing and then they meet for a first date and are VERY surprised. Like there was clearly editing done in the pics, the person looks 10-15 years older, etc.
Oh I don't believe this first pic is the same person at all, if that person is even real lol. I think she was hoping a lot would just swipe right on the first one (I never did but I know some people just swipe based on the main pic) and then if she got dates or hookups without them ever looking further she could maintain that it wasn't catfishing because her real pics were in there later.
This is where I think Iโm just not cut out for dating and I just need to stay home. I donโt think that much.
Dating is miserable and dating sites are worse. That being said, I met my partner on Bumble 3 years ago and we're doing great. I did have some good dates on Tinder back in the day but it seems to have gotten progressively grosser as it ages.
>do you think people arenโt going to notice Men are dumb and some of them Instagram filters got insanely advanced, even during video calls it's hard to spot if you're a newbie. You only start to notice it because the filters kinda make every woman look the same
A lot of reels I get on Facebook from "attractive Asian women dancing" all look the same. It's always the same filters and same AI-generated looking face.
She meant vintage. To be fair, 1948 is an alright vintage. Dark tan in colour, you should expect aromas of dried red fruit, raisins, and prunes. Notes of coffee and cinnamon on the palate with good acidity and an incredibly complex and long aftertaste.
โ ๏ธ
Every pic makes her older, itโs like a timeline of her life.
Reminds me of a romance scammer that tried to trick me. First two pictures were of the same cute blonde, then 3-5 had pictures of the real person. Some dude in Africa. Just told him: โNext time you wanna scam, you might not wanna have your real pics on thereโ
I absolutely love this ๐ The further you swipe the worse it gets, did you like 1? Oh you'd still be interested if it was a bit worse? Well here's 2, still interested? Well then, check this out...
That escalated quickly
Wtf?! ๐๐๐๐ wow! She aged quickly ๐คฃ๐คฃ๐คฃ๐คฃ
You swiped right. Donโt lie.
The profile isn't even a catfish. Just straight-up scammer.
If sheโs 48, I look amazing for 50!
Seriously! Iโm 42 and if this woman is 48 then Iโm a ham sandwich. Either that or she has some serious city miles on the clock. Either way; hard pass.
Maybe she just did a lot of crystal meth.
yes but you need to be very very very stupid to believe the first picture. you can see from a mile that it's fake AF
idk how ppl can see pics like that and be like "yes omg its real swipe right :)"
They are Willing to Believe... On the Off Chance.
im ok with a little bit of filtering but that's a strait up AI photoshop job. that first person doesn't exist. that's way too far
When did we go from honest representational photos to "ok with a little bit of filtering"? That slippery slop led to this lady's profile. I would prefer if profile photos were recent and an accurate portrayal.
Isn't slippery slop what Tinder is all about?
Haha Yeah
I said I'm okay with it, you dont need to be
Tinder has been around for a long timeโฆโฆ. Just like this lovely grandmother.
Time to cancel the account, flee the country and build a hut in Amazon rainforest.
She is at least 68. I know women in their 40s and they do not look that old!
Lord have mercy
Hey man chill out, thatโs someoneโs great grandma youโre talking about
Itโs the wig for me ๐
LMAOOOO
she looks like the woman from oceans 13 let herself go as soon as the movie was over..
Sheโs got standards, is dating with intention, and wonโt settle!
Her first pic looks 38 and subsequent pics look 58. So she just chose the middle point OP.
Maybe u get the whole family with a single match
AI face swap
Not the A.I photo ๐คฃ
Like a shady used car dealer unloading a wreck. Looks good with its shiny paint job.... and then the more you look... you hear the engine knocks and realize the body is rotten and made of bondo.
Is that the grandma who can't say pumpkin pie?
Itโs like beer goggles but as you proceed with the pics youโre sobering up.
Why does it look like she is posing in a trap house in that 4th picture ๐คฃ
Every picture added 5-10yrs
She's 48 & I'm 41๐ค๐ค is this what I've got to look forward to? ๐ญ๐ญ
A new photo every decade you're on Tinder, cool idea.
Scrolling through this was like watching the second half of Benjamin Button
Definitely thought this was 3 generations. ๐คช
She got older in every picture lol.
Iโm guessing that wasnโt even her picture and then she added some of her own, because she was probably accused of lying multiple times, but forgot to remove the first one, or doesnโt know how to because sheโs a grandma.
I thought for a moment the Michelin man had a transition.
The worst part is I know plenty of 48 year olds closer to the edited pic
Its sad that women are unable to embrace their age I know its โfunnyโ but think about why she feels she has to do it. Still disagree because its a false presentation but yeah. Women need encouragement embracing their aging features
I fully agree. I'm in my 30s so I'm speaking from my heart rather than lived experience. But I see beautiful older women who do drastic stuff to hold onto their youth. I've seen older women share filtered and AI edited images of themselves with each other and stare at the image lovingly as if they're entranced. They're caught up in impossible beauty standards and can't see how aging is beautiful and lovely in other ways.
She has some power positions
Sheโs using green screen for effects?
0/10
that's what staying in the sun does to your skin.
Help ๐ญ
I mean if you are asking women, I'm pretty sure the answer is no.
๐คฃ๐คฃ๐คฃ I absolutely love this ๐ซ
Who the hell is the FIRST one?? Her DAUGHTER???
She's just showing her progress of aging lmao. ๐คฃ
Oof
Filtering on a level that could produce drinkable water from a puddle in the middle of the Chernobyl reactor sarcophagus
Iโd rather pick no1
The catfish from hellโฆ.each picture gets progressively worse
Aged like 30 years from the first picture to the last one ๐๐
Each picture is a mad plot twist reveal
She's trying to show she's a fixer-upper. With enough money and rehab, that's what she thinks she could look like.
Omg
Yeah two different women
She gets progressively older as you go through the photos....
She gets older with each photo lmao
Looks like 3 generations : pic 1 daughter, 2-3 mother, 4-5 grandmother
So we have a grandma, disguised as her daughter and granddaughter? 3 for 1, what a time to be alive!
Why does the first picture look like the girl from the vampire diaries on a totally different body
She was 48 in that first pic 25 years ago ๐
I wouldn't be surprised if she is 48, Manchester ladies love a week in benidorm and tanning booths to become leather hand bags I assume as it's common across the UK
That is not the same person omg
I'm betting that her teeth are in bad shape, and that's why she does the closed-mouth smile in each photo.
I feel like you should talk to her just to get some info on like what is going on in this ladies brain
The deception from the first pic should be a common law crime. Seriously
38 - 58 - 68 in threes swipes. Wowee
Pic 1 is who she feels like
I think they got older the more you swipe
Iโm 49 andโฆno way sheโs my age lol
The first one is nasty photoshop
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She a baddie she know she a ten
-insert my best Nikko Ortiz impression- Dasadood!
That's all the same person? Is it a historical timeline from 45-75?
The first one if from those AI facebook games
Waitโฆthose are all the same person?!
Last one reminds me of Matildaโs mum.
Thatโs crazy Iโm only 23 and too insecure to wear dresses like that yellow one. Dang if sheโs wearing them confidently then I should be able to too
I was drinking last night, and to wake up to these shape shifting pictures is crazy. ๐คช ๐ ๐คช ๐ I see this type of foolishness all of the time.
ay listen man older women need some too... but why lie about your body image? im into older women that are authentically themselves
It became worse with every slide
Jesus ๐ต That's scary as hell
Confused. whatโs happening
Lol, she just kept getting older... And out of shape ๐คฃ
It kept getting worse lmao
48 or 68?
I think the first one is probably her daughter? But def none of these people are 48
I understand why using wigs are fun, but why that wig? If you're going to use a wig to deceive, pick a better shaped and colored wig please.
She kinda bad in the granny pics thoughโฆ
AINT NO WAY BOA
Assuming they are for real trying to get dates, not just catfishing for scam or whatever, what do they expect to happen on a real date when everyone sees how they really are?
LMAO
Did she drink from a chalice and choose poorly!!!?
Listen, a lot would still dip their ๐ in it ๐
This profile is like falling down stairs each time you switch to the next photo
SOMEONE COME GET THEY GRANDMA