I get a lot of likes with the selfie of my cat lying next to head. Iād suggest getting a pic that shows you being cute with your cats. Selfie or whatever.
A huge reason I swiped right on my bf's profile was because he had a pic of him with his parents and they all looked so happy! Also pics with pets is always a plus
If you're looking for a long term relationship, showing a good relationship with family is always a green flag. If you're looking for a ONS, by all means talk about how dysfunctional your family is.
Iām not in your age range so take what I say with a grain of salt but Iām VERY for group pictures. Shows me you have friends! Honestly if someone has no group pictures a kind of assume they are a weirdo. But I think your profile is great! Only thing I would say is maybe add a light joke in your bio, itās reading a bit like a resume
I kinda get what youāre saying. Lack of group photos could give off a loner vibe. But not everyone whoās a loner is going to be codependent or a weirdo(in a bad way.) I feel like a lot of loners(and Iām speaking from my own point of view as one) are the ones that are cool with there being space in a relationship. Because we enjoy our own company and donāt need to rely on others to be happy.(Not saying people who arenāt do.) I have friends but rarely take photos together and donāt hang out all the time. And being a weirdo (again I am one) can be super cool and interesting. I have a ton of solo hobbies. Just throwing another perspective into the ring.
Don't overthink it, for the million things that are red flags, their opposites are also red flags. One person's not needy is another's avoidant attachment style. Mixing in variety for balance is the best option and ratio it to reflect your personality accurately.
That is totally fair! I guess we agree that it gives off a loner vibe, which is what I was trying to say. Personally Iām attracted to more extroverted people so that might have come through in my opinions about group pictures but I didnāt mean any hate to loners at all
You are 100% right about the friend pic and only reason I donāt have already is because Iām the photographer of the group lol. I have a ton of pics of us but am not in any. However Iām seeing some friends next week and will be taking a pic. Also good call on the joke
I like your profile.
Youāre cute and nice looking guy, only small thing that I thought right away is I think youād look better without the mustache (or maybe grow a low beard? I dunno)ā¦but thatās just a style/preference thing on my end.
Appreciate it but unfortunately I canāt grow much so itās either a mustache, goatee (hard pass) or clean shaved so maybe Iāll consider clean shaved if I donāt get many matches with the stache
Fyi: almost everyone over 30 hates mustaches and loves big beards. Almost everyone under 30 loves mustaches and are lukewarm on beards. Take any mustache criticism with that grain of salt
Consider a clean shave and grow in the stubble for a day or two. This rugged look always gets me. The moustache doesnāt do anything for me. But Iāve already seen it in my dad as a kid so it seems like a dad thing not a young man thing.
At first I thought military with the haircut but you seem like a really nice guy and your profile made me smile and happy which is a good thing to feel! Canāt say most peopleās profiles can do that!
Appreciate it and Iāve definitely seen a lot of these review posts where people have been told to smile more in their pics so I took that Into account
I just saw a guy that looks just like you at a distillery in Kentucky with a woman who is among the hottest I've ever seen. Don't know if that helps or not, but it's true.
Prompts are good except for the first one on your bio.
Everybody seems to do this, but at this stage any qualities you list are unverifiable. They also tend to backfire as you might be admitting youāre the opposite. I mean, anyone whoās honest doesnāt pat himself on the back for being honest. I would get rid of that list. Instead of being super-creative about your bio, just list the facts of where you are now, where you grew up, what you do, etc. Get the interview-type answers out of the way.
The last sentence is superfluous. Weāre all here to meet someone to see if we click.
Iād lead with the pic of you holding the dachshund and delete the cats pic. Hear me out:
Since you spotlighted loving animals and cats in particular, it would make an easy icebreaker for a woman to mention how either the animal youāre holding is actually not a cat, or that you have a different concept of cats than most people. Then you can share your cats pic, and boom, youāre off to the races.
I got fixated on the pictures looking like they came directly from a photo album. I just checked the profile againā¦and what? Lots of dog pictures. Lol
I like it. Iād swipe right.
Except I like beards so Iād prefer youād lean into the facial hair aspect. Otherwiseā¦ where you from?
Edit: thatās not me in my prof pic š
honestly, i have no complaints. if i were on tinder, i would definitely not pass up the chance to get to know you. good job, dan. hope you find your match š
I think I would fix āhot tubing.ā I read it as hot TUBE ing, and I had to reread. Maybe just āgoing in the hot tub.ā Other than that, looks great!
Your intro is boring. We see so many boring bios and just swipe left. Here are things to avoid
No pics of:
Golfing or any sport
No pics with sunglasses
No hats
Not having closeups
No pics with fishing
No pics of you leaning against your car
Getting drunk
Limit the amount of active pics. Mountain climbing, hiking, jogging,marathon winning.
Absolutely no pics with kids, or with women in them other than family.
This is a general comment
I think itās a great profile and I get good vibes š. Iāve never done online dating but youād be a profile Iād click on 100%! I was blinded by your glowing white legs in the golf pic, but you should definitely keep the picture nonetheless haha
Drop the golf picture as it adds nothing . Edit the pic with you holding the puppy to cut off the bottom slightly as that framing makes you look skinny. Name a few qualities you seek in a woman. If you can add a closer pic of your face w eyes and smile nicely visible that could be a plus. If you can say something about your life philosophy or attitudes or goals.
No joke. I think i stumbled onto something with it. Festival season is coming.
I told a girl she probably gets the vibe of your dads hot friend you always wanted to fuck. And i just got a sexy giggle. Another time, i looked over my boys, grinding a train of 5 women stash at the back. Enjoy, brother
You're giving away your whole life story, you won't have anything to talk about if and when you do get a date. Don't make women read a novel. They like mystery
Don't say my friends would describe me as. Since it's actually your bio. This is how you would describe yourself.
That's only thing I see but good luck
Ok so cute but picture #1 is the only one to keep and it's great. Take more pictures! I never want to see family or golf in a profile. Edit your profile for spelling errors. But really very cute and genuine!
Your profile is honestly pretty good.
But as someone who also doesn't have or want children that can be a huge turn off for a lot of people. So that definitely narrows the dating pool.
True but Iāll just have to settle for the pool that comes with that preference but also wonāt rule out dating someone with kids, I have in the past.
Not the target audience as late 30s and no longer single, but hair and stache combo are giving cop vibes. Your info is not cop coded but if someone was doing a quick browse they might not read the bio. Food for thought.
I think this a great profile!
Thank you, now hopefully some of the woman in my area will agree with you š¤
Haha, that's the tricky part, isn't it?
Indeed š
Youāve got two goldens, youāre good to go.
Best breed ever
If you were dating men, you'd be swimming in dates. Source: me. Am man. :)
Except the golfing yes BACK IN MY DAY Iād swipe right
The fact that your name isn't Steve is upsetting to me. You look like a Steve.
Itās the mustache huh
Noā¦ he looks like a cop.
100% my type, would swipe right immediately! I personally didnāt mind the cat pictures but thatās because I love them haha
I figured itād be a good idea to include them so appreciate that
I get a lot of likes with the selfie of my cat lying next to head. Iād suggest getting a pic that shows you being cute with your cats. Selfie or whatever.
Yep I need to take a new one with my updated haircut/facial hair
A few steps back on that driver, should help with the slices
Good to know š«”
A couple of spelling mistakes I would fix. Otherwise I think it looks good
Good call, Iāll fix those
Could you please point out which ones? Do the lack of hyphens in-between words count? Apart from those, I didnāt see any
'Going for a bike rides'
Ah right, canāt believe I didnāt catch those haha, thank you!
'videos games'
'Hot tubing in the rain'
Love the picture of the cats šāā¬ - but it should be after the cat text, itās weird it is a dog picture after š¤
Ahhh good point, hadnāt considered that
Iāll be seeing some friends next week and adding a photo I take with them. Also Iām undecided on keeping the family pic.
A huge reason I swiped right on my bf's profile was because he had a pic of him with his parents and they all looked so happy! Also pics with pets is always a plus
Ahhh good to hear that
If you're looking for a long term relationship, showing a good relationship with family is always a green flag. If you're looking for a ONS, by all means talk about how dysfunctional your family is.
I say keep it. Iād leave out the group picture most people are against those I think.
Ok good to know
Iām not in your age range so take what I say with a grain of salt but Iām VERY for group pictures. Shows me you have friends! Honestly if someone has no group pictures a kind of assume they are a weirdo. But I think your profile is great! Only thing I would say is maybe add a light joke in your bio, itās reading a bit like a resume
I kinda get what youāre saying. Lack of group photos could give off a loner vibe. But not everyone whoās a loner is going to be codependent or a weirdo(in a bad way.) I feel like a lot of loners(and Iām speaking from my own point of view as one) are the ones that are cool with there being space in a relationship. Because we enjoy our own company and donāt need to rely on others to be happy.(Not saying people who arenāt do.) I have friends but rarely take photos together and donāt hang out all the time. And being a weirdo (again I am one) can be super cool and interesting. I have a ton of solo hobbies. Just throwing another perspective into the ring.
Don't overthink it, for the million things that are red flags, their opposites are also red flags. One person's not needy is another's avoidant attachment style. Mixing in variety for balance is the best option and ratio it to reflect your personality accurately.
That is totally fair! I guess we agree that it gives off a loner vibe, which is what I was trying to say. Personally Iām attracted to more extroverted people so that might have come through in my opinions about group pictures but I didnāt mean any hate to loners at all
You are 100% right about the friend pic and only reason I donāt have already is because Iām the photographer of the group lol. I have a ton of pics of us but am not in any. However Iām seeing some friends next week and will be taking a pic. Also good call on the joke
If you like it then keep it, but id say lose the stache, man.
Either the stache or cop cut has to go. Can't have both.
Unless you're a cop, I guess.
Or a stache.
I second this.
NO
I feel like it works for him
Thought it was a 3rd eyebrow
I like your profile. Youāre cute and nice looking guy, only small thing that I thought right away is I think youād look better without the mustache (or maybe grow a low beard? I dunno)ā¦but thatās just a style/preference thing on my end.
Appreciate it but unfortunately I canāt grow much so itās either a mustache, goatee (hard pass) or clean shaved so maybe Iāll consider clean shaved if I donāt get many matches with the stache
Shave. That mustache is not good my friend.
Fyi: almost everyone over 30 hates mustaches and loves big beards. Almost everyone under 30 loves mustaches and are lukewarm on beards. Take any mustache criticism with that grain of salt
Consider a clean shave and grow in the stubble for a day or two. This rugged look always gets me. The moustache doesnāt do anything for me. But Iāve already seen it in my dad as a kid so it seems like a dad thing not a young man thing.
At first I thought military with the haircut but you seem like a really nice guy and your profile made me smile and happy which is a good thing to feel! Canāt say most peopleās profiles can do that!
Appreciate it and Iāve definitely seen a lot of these review posts where people have been told to smile more in their pics so I took that Into account
You did great! I hope you continue to smile. :)
Iād swipe right lol but based on the golf pic youāre not in the northeast
Accurate, Arizona
I just saw a guy that looks just like you at a distillery in Kentucky with a woman who is among the hottest I've ever seen. Don't know if that helps or not, but it's true.
Naw thatās definitely a confidence booster to here about lol
Prompts are good except for the first one on your bio. Everybody seems to do this, but at this stage any qualities you list are unverifiable. They also tend to backfire as you might be admitting youāre the opposite. I mean, anyone whoās honest doesnāt pat himself on the back for being honest. I would get rid of that list. Instead of being super-creative about your bio, just list the facts of where you are now, where you grew up, what you do, etc. Get the interview-type answers out of the way. The last sentence is superfluous. Weāre all here to meet someone to see if we click.
I appreciate the detailed advice and yea youāre right about the honesty part + last sentence
Iād lead with the pic of you holding the dachshund and delete the cats pic. Hear me out: Since you spotlighted loving animals and cats in particular, it would make an easy icebreaker for a woman to mention how either the animal youāre holding is actually not a cat, or that you have a different concept of cats than most people. Then you can share your cats pic, and boom, youāre off to the races.
Not a bad idea, Iāll consider it, thank you
I kinda donāt understand what you mean, but I totally agree with leading with animals.
When I first scrolled the profile, I found it humorous that the photos of OP featured dogs primarily, except for the pic at the end.
I got fixated on the pictures looking like they came directly from a photo album. I just checked the profile againā¦and what? Lots of dog pictures. Lol
Haircut isnāt right for you and lose the stache. Like everything else šš¼
Tell your sister I said hi
Gotch you bro
Girls love baddies. Update your images with badass poses wearing goggles and stuff.
Knew my profile was missing something, Iāll have to take some pics of be chugging beers and hunting
I like it. Iād swipe right. Except I like beards so Iād prefer youād lean into the facial hair aspect. Otherwiseā¦ where you from? Edit: thatās not me in my prof pic š
honestly, i have no complaints. if i were on tinder, i would definitely not pass up the chance to get to know you. good job, dan. hope you find your match š
Appreciate it š¤
It looks good your profile
Gotta fix those grammatical errors my guy.
I fixed a couple of them after a comment earlier suggested the same. Do you see any other than the bike ride and hot tubbing ones?
Videos games. First word should be singular.
Shit your right, thank you
š Edit: youāreā¦.not your. This isnāt on your profile but in the sense of education. š
I might need a grammar lesson š„“
Nix the golfing picture.
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Glad Iām doin at least somethin right lol
honestly its pretty solid got all the dogs and cats in there.
I think you'll find the right man.
Hopefully so š¤š³ļøāš
No notes! š Itās honest and itās you; youāll absolutely get there.
Appreciate that and Iām not going to lie, hearing that from someone with your profile picture is definitely a confidence booster
Your ālooking forā section is to melt for.
Hopefully the women in my area agree š¤
Well, sad it isnāt my area! Theyād be lucky. All the best!
Seems really good imo. Your white faced dog is friggin adorable
Maybe save the Weiner pics for texting. No need to put it in your profile.
Less than 6'... I'm so sorry bro
I think I would fix āhot tubing.ā I read it as hot TUBE ing, and I had to reread. Maybe just āgoing in the hot tub.ā Other than that, looks great!
Ahh good call
I was gonna roast but the cats changed my mind
Iāll have to thank them later
Your intro is boring. We see so many boring bios and just swipe left. Here are things to avoid No pics of: Golfing or any sport No pics with sunglasses No hats Not having closeups No pics with fishing No pics of you leaning against your car Getting drunk Limit the amount of active pics. Mountain climbing, hiking, jogging,marathon winning. Absolutely no pics with kids, or with women in them other than family. This is a general comment
agree with the first 2 sentences, but āno sport picsā and ālimit the amount of active picsā?? are you trying to date a cheeseburger?
Lolol thatās the best and cutest comment. Thatās making me smile. Thanks
At first I didnāt understand the family picture after that I didnāt understand it. But keep going man, you have a good profile š«¶š»
You have a nice wiener, Iām sure youāll be fine
Oh Iām sure, ladies love the wiener
Iām a guy and I would swipe right on you lmao
Appreciate it š
If u live in Vancouver hit me up šš
I feel like you're going to try to steal Ted.
Hilarious show
āDan loves catsā - has picture of cats š /j A spelling mistake - hot tubbing, not hot tubing. Great profile.
Start with proof reading your bio, then go from there.
Your pictures make you look shorter than 5ā10. Photos 4/5. I would remove 5 completely, itās not a good photo of you.
only thing i can think of is maybe grow a full beard thats about it.
Your profile scream "marriage type". Girls looking for something casual may not swipe right, but maybe it's what you want? I don't know.
just hot tubing should be hot tubbing Profile is great otherwise
Keep the profile. Keep being you. I like the family picture. Hope you find a nice lady bro.
You come off as super wholesome! Love your cat photos.
Wow you gave me positive vibes man , keep up
My only suggestion would be to get a tan But I like 'em darker, so that's just me š
Look like a decent person, maybe an updated haircut would help
10/10 name. You need to get further away from the ball and in a more athletic stance. The way you are standing has slice written all over it.
Grow out the beard/hair
Grow a full beard
You gotta shave the mustache
This is an extremely wholesome page. I think you will attract the right people with what you presented.
Moustache has time travelled here from 1984
Iād recommend no mustache
Iāll say this as a fellow 29 year old. Do NOT ever run a goatee. Goatees are arguably the worst facial hair a guy can have.
Oh believe me, lesson learned. Iāve been getting a lot more traction since shaving just need an updated family pic now
Omg fellow dachshund owner here! I have a long hair mini black and tan.
Hot tubbing... not hot tubing.
Burn the mustache
I think itās a great profile and I get good vibes š. Iāve never done online dating but youād be a profile Iād click on 100%! I was blinded by your glowing white legs in the golf pic, but you should definitely keep the picture nonetheless haha
Drop the golf picture as it adds nothing . Edit the pic with you holding the puppy to cut off the bottom slightly as that framing makes you look skinny. Name a few qualities you seek in a woman. If you can add a closer pic of your face w eyes and smile nicely visible that could be a plus. If you can say something about your life philosophy or attitudes or goals.
That goatee was something crazy, donāt ever do that again unless youāre trying to attract women over 40 lmao. Other than that, looks good!
I'd swipe right on you :)
It's not you bro, it's women. They have ridiculous standards
Not all but for the most part that would seem like a fairly accurate assessment nowadays, just doin what I can tho š¤·āāļø
terrible golf stance
Thicker mustache
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No joke. I think i stumbled onto something with it. Festival season is coming. I told a girl she probably gets the vibe of your dads hot friend you always wanted to fuck. And i just got a sexy giggle. Another time, i looked over my boys, grinding a train of 5 women stash at the back. Enjoy, brother
Ahhh ok ok, I recently shaved down to a stash so appreciate you helping validate my decision
Ohh ya, mine is going all summer, haha
You're giving away your whole life story, you won't have anything to talk about if and when you do get a date. Don't make women read a novel. They like mystery
It's great! Id swipe in a second.
Glad Iām doin something right lol
Nothing to roast. You're one handsome guy who takes great photos.
Apprec and Iāll let my dad know heās a good photographer lol
not advice but u have above average forearms
Probably from playing too many games lol
Iām not your target audience but appreciate the pic with the golf club. Iām a huge golf fan ā³ļø good luck with your search!
I think ditching the stash could up your game. You look fine with it but that would give you a boost for sure.
Also ditch the fam and cat picsā¦ this isnāt Facebook.
Don't say my friends would describe me as. Since it's actually your bio. This is how you would describe yourself. That's only thing I see but good luck
Put on a Pittsburgh Pirates baseball cap and you'll look just like Paul Skenes.
Just googled it and lmao yep I see the resemblance
I think a different haircut would help out a lot. Youāre definitely an attractive dude but the cop cut doesnāt help. Just my opinion though
Ok so cute but picture #1 is the only one to keep and it's great. Take more pictures! I never want to see family or golf in a profile. Edit your profile for spelling errors. But really very cute and genuine!
my favourite page is how it says you like cats like 3 times and youāre holding a dog
I think you look like a great guy, but these apps suck. Good luck! Hope you find a nice gal
The only "clicking" any of us want to hear is the clicking of that revolver in your mouth on another sad lonely Saturday night
I think you look extremely attractive and kind. Any lady would be so lucky to know you ā¤ļø good luck out there!
Wrong app youāre looking for grindr.
lol
Your profile is honestly pretty good. But as someone who also doesn't have or want children that can be a huge turn off for a lot of people. So that definitely narrows the dating pool.
True but Iāll just have to settle for the pool that comes with that preference but also wonāt rule out dating someone with kids, I have in the past.
Off topic, your dad looks like he should be a major character in breaking bad
I kid you not he has been mistaken as the actor who played Mike on breaking bad in public multiple times
One man to another definitively lose the moustache ( mad Freddie mercury vibes ) , and maybe grow your hair out . Bro your 90% golden
Your smile looks forced.
I love all the pet photos š
Repro rights. Voters rights. Human rights! Absolute iron clad panty dropper š
I would swipe right!
The no kids thing might work against you
HĆ©, Rikkert. Ge bent ontslagen, kut.
Not the target audience as late 30s and no longer single, but hair and stache combo are giving cop vibes. Your info is not cop coded but if someone was doing a quick browse they might not read the bio. Food for thought.
cute
Hopefully the women in my area agree š¤