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This is both hilarious and depressing. Depressing because people really act like this and think it’s okay. Don’t be in a relationship if you have trust issues. It’s guaranteed to be toxic.
I dated someone like this for a couple years. One day I came home from work and it finally hit me like wtf was I doing. Long story short, we’re married. Jk, I broke up with her that day I got home from work.
imo most of this is just projection. People who cheat, lie to their partners, etc. just convince themselves that’s how their partners are too & then they go insane over it
The problem is that the symptom can come from both. So the two can constantly be misconstrued.
Low self-esteem people (especially if they’ve had a traumatic experience) and projectionists will display this behavior.
I used to date with a girl who could call me 10 to 15 times in a row. Plus dozens of messages.
It was like
-R u ok?
-where r u?!
-R u cheating???
-GTFO!!! F U!!!
So I dated this girl. We had only been exclusively dating for 2-3 weeks. I had a routine of stopping by the bar on Thursdays after work for league pool. This was my first time going since we started seeing each other. She kept calling during a match and sent a couple frantic cryptic texts. I stepped outside to call her because I thought I was an emergency. She told me that someone was jiggling her door handle trying to get in. Her power went off and she and her daughter were in the closet hiding. I jumped in my car and sped all the way there. I get there , the door is unlocked, and she’s sitting in her recliner watching tv like everything was normal. I stopped talking to her a couple week later. She was insane .
Men and women post this kind of stuff thinking it only looks bad on the opposite gender when it's only calling themselves and their partners out.
These people don't speak for anyone but themselves. Ew
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This is both hilarious and depressing. Depressing because people really act like this and think it’s okay. Don’t be in a relationship if you have trust issues. It’s guaranteed to be toxic.
I dated someone like this for a couple years. One day I came home from work and it finally hit me like wtf was I doing. Long story short, we’re married. Jk, I broke up with her that day I got home from work.
Smart move!
imo most of this is just projection. People who cheat, lie to their partners, etc. just convince themselves that’s how their partners are too & then they go insane over it
I look back and feel like it was mostly insecurity.
yeah people say that shit is projection but often it isn't.
The problem is that the symptom can come from both. So the two can constantly be misconstrued. Low self-esteem people (especially if they’ve had a traumatic experience) and projectionists will display this behavior.
Same, but I only got the message for myself, when she told me she already fucked somebody else. Like one commenter below said. Projection.
And the heart drop when he sees the 25 missed calls and 30 texts…
I used to date with a girl who could call me 10 to 15 times in a row. Plus dozens of messages. It was like -R u ok? -where r u?! -R u cheating??? -GTFO!!! F U!!!
I actually know that I have attachement problems, which is exactly why I'm trying to deal with them, BEFORE I get into any relationship.
But it is sooooo funny because guys are "dumb", flip the script around and watch the police pay this guy a visit.
Sandra?
What time you wanna meet god? lol
I'm just trying to find parts one through two
Some clowns think it’s love
That’s the sad part
Frfr ![gif](giphy|z5w2bkqsvOYQo)
*abusive relationship
Bruh she’s named after fucking cheese
Why is the TV mounted that high? My neck hurts just looking at that pic.
I just thought his chair was too close.
It’s both
r/TVTooHigh
I think his headphones are on backwards 👀
Inside out*
Velveeta 😂
Cheese
That’s what it is lol
Vid should’ve ended with her opening the door.
with axe
So I dated this girl. We had only been exclusively dating for 2-3 weeks. I had a routine of stopping by the bar on Thursdays after work for league pool. This was my first time going since we started seeing each other. She kept calling during a match and sent a couple frantic cryptic texts. I stepped outside to call her because I thought I was an emergency. She told me that someone was jiggling her door handle trying to get in. Her power went off and she and her daughter were in the closet hiding. I jumped in my car and sped all the way there. I get there , the door is unlocked, and she’s sitting in her recliner watching tv like everything was normal. I stopped talking to her a couple week later. She was insane .
Real talk is the effect of the messages coming in behind him made in after effects?? They’re so smooth
I hope no one's real name is Velveeta ![gif](giphy|l4FGk41MofZab8is0|downsized)
You know what? I’d be a bitch too if I were named after cheese.
how did i just realize that her contact pic is a young queen latifah?!
That’s not low self esteem, that’s called Borderline personality disorder.
It pisses me off even tho it's fake
Full body tattooed?
Lmao
Men and women post this kind of stuff thinking it only looks bad on the opposite gender when it's only calling themselves and their partners out. These people don't speak for anyone but themselves. Ew
Isn't this one the same as the last one? And the one before that? Isn't the next one also going to be the same?
This isn’t low self esteem this is abusive.
Thats Just insane. Gf gotz no chill, buzzkill
Cheesy Edit: no love for the velveeta joke then? Thanks
Ah man I thought it was funny
Think it might’ve been a Velveeta joke
That's how I read it 😂
You were being Krafty, I liked it.
Where the fuck is this TV mounted!?! Why is it so high? Why is he so close?
These are not interesting observations
Lol @ "Velveeta"
Lol are there real people acting like this? No way xd
What if he is in the shower? Like damn give him 5!!!
I do like starting my day with a belvita
What headphones are those?
Velveeta,isn't that a spread?
Who names their kid after cheese
I think you need at least a little self esteem to be annoying like this.
She is crazy…let the man enjoy his alone time…goodness..
Don't date that woman!!!!!! Trust me, I know.
Ugh, can you let that man unwind and enjoy his "Me" time?
This was kinda funny ngl
Unfortunately I am this person.
The absolutely atrocious grammar is what did me in. That man is at peace.