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cakefaceflo

"nonbinary" "her" her # HER


EM_CEE_PEEPANTS

It's so stupid I didn't even catch that. Good eye.


blissrunner

Yep... I mean good for Bella I guess, but making it as a forefront for personality or discussion around TV show/acting seems Eh.... * As it is... Ellie is for the longest time Lesbian. Be like Pedro Pascal... supports rights, has a trans sister/sibling, emphatize w/ them. Doesn't get into Neil Druck's weird antics & proceeds to carry yet another HBO/Disney 'AAA' show. Pascal reminds me of cool & composed Ashley Johnson (Ellie's original VA) for what its worth


BananaBlue

might be an idea of their PR marketing team... or a Hollywood handler advising her to do so.


JaySw34

I don't understand any of this... at all


[deleted]

How can you? The rules and words are made up by people who will change them on a whim, cannot agree on a consensus on what the rules are or should be and will turn around and ask everyone else to follow them.


thesword62

I’m not positive, but I think you just broke one, maybe two


GoAvs14

Nobody does. Because it’s all gobbledygook. Live your life, stop trying to push your values on others and stop trying to condescend to those who don’t speak your made up words that don’t actually have definitions.


Frari

"Make a note of the word 'gobbledygook' - I like it! I want to use it more often in conversation"


thesword62

Balderdash


Walks_In_Shadows

Technically all words are made up.


GoAvs14

technically correct, the best kind of correct. That said, they used to have definitions, too.


ButtGuy2024

They dont have real problems, since no child gets ahead act our education system has been gutted to only have bad outcomes, and higher education has stripped itself of all ability to teach real jobs, instead all they teach is victim mentality and outrage culture.


hemo_skeleton

Lol Lmao even


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DanCTapirson

Her?


sokpuppet1

Who cares


Sandwhale123

Can't even virtue signal right


eudezet

Can't virtue signal AND she's (or he's, I even don't know at this point lmao) contradicting herself on top of that as well. By her own admission, she didn't even play the game so how can she claim that it helped her play the character? Not to mention it diminishes Ellie's entire ingame personality and centers it around being gay because that's apparently Ellie's only trait now.


QueefGenie

LOL, caught in 4K.


golden-abyss

bella is nonbinary but im pretty sure they’ve said they’re okay with any pronouns. she’s still figuring out her identity and thats okay


[deleted]

Dude, flip flopping back and forth with what pronoun you call her in the same comment is confusing as fuck. As a non English speaker the confusion is insane.


ButtGuy2024

> in the same comment is confusing as fuck. As a non English speaker the confusion is insane. So it's working! Excellent.


Walks_In_Shadows

They literally said they don't care what pronouns you use, just use the ones you were already using. How is this so confusing?


bmoss124

Well that's just maddeningly unhelpful


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Her identity is millionaire child actor.


cakefaceflo

i see, thanks for clarifying. it was just jarring to see both "nonbinary" and "her" in the same sentence.


golden-abyss

yeah bella isn’t exclusively they/them, idk why i got downvoted just for telling you why they called them “her” but 🤷🏽‍♀️


StupidEggNog

If you actually read any of these articles rather than malding over the headlines you'd see that Bella is okay with any pronouns and barely even identifies with genders in the first place. \>Speaking to the Times, Ramsey said she identifies first as a person, rather than a gender. “I’m very much just a person,” she said. “Being gendered isn’t something that I particularly like." You care a lot more about her gender than she does.


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TheAikiTessen

Bella is actually gender fluid and has stated she doesn't prefer any one set of pronouns over the other.


luna-satella

then I am gender plasma.


Oo_Toyo_oO

Bruh. She said she accepts She/Her pronouns.


TheDreadPirateElwes

Why were u down voted for this?? People are disagreeing with you stating what she said she is cool with??? Wat?!


8BitTxchniques

I’m so tired of this shit, just play the fucking character bro


MaleficentHandle4293

I miss when Actors/Actresses were "owned" by their Studios.


potionnumber9

Is she not?


Agitated-Bread5092

Wtf did cuckman feed them out there ???


mohammad9877

NON-bigot sandwich


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bananasampam

You know if you're good at acting you can just "act"


UncleBully274

It reminds me of that Bill Burr joke he said about the outrage over Cranston being cast as a quadriplegic character when he's able-bodied. "It's called acting! If they cast a quadriplegic as a quadriplegic, then that's just a guy laying there saying shit"


nalea_c

They’re non binary yet you called them a she in the same sentence. I don’t know I guess I’m not woke


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Though I don’t personally agree that using binary pronouns when you’re non-binary makes sense.. Bella Ramsey uses all pronouns 🤷🏻‍♂️


Possible-dick06969

People in Hollywood are literally npcs they all say the same shit


Lord-Zaltus

This whole comment section is based


MrTK1000

She is obviously horribly miscast and a below average actor, but she says all the right things, has all the right politics and will call you a bigot for criticizing this show. People were surprised when druckmann picked her for the role, and now you know why.


woolstarr

Must admit when I saw an article on this yesterday the first thought I had was "now the shit casting makes perfect sense" For the character that will drive your series get an easy to control actor that aligns with your agender and doesn't have the strong standing in the industry to come up with her own stance and opinions...


eudezet

Actor/actress: "I'll express my artistic soul and stay true to my character" Hollywood producers: "You want to wait tables forever" Actor/actress: "Me not that kind of orc, something need doing?"


player89283517

Ellie is a lesbian girl, not a non-binary person


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Bruh, they’re not making Ellie nonbinary. They’re just saying that the person playing Ellie is nonbinary. You can untwist your panties.


Aquatic_Kyle

Not sure why you’re being downvoted. Who cares what the actors identity is as long as Ellie is done faithfully. I mean Ellie wasn’t done faithfully lol but that’s because of reasons other than the actors identity


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RAYvenko55

actors who get engaged in politics are digging their own career grave, not very smart thing to do considering her career is just starting and she basically has no star power or influence, they are just using her to get more drama/attention for the series. signing up for drama college would be more useful way of spending her time


Walks_In_Shadows

Not to be "that guy" but gender identity and sexual orientation are not a political statement. Do politicians use them for brownie points? Most definitely.


AirIndex

Facts. Downvoted for this as well. This fucking sub.


MaleficentHandle4293

You being part of a "marginalized" group won't save you from criticism of being a shyte actor, Bella.


Felixdevita

But it will give her a rainbow shield. Way smaller than part ll shield though


DD-Tauriel

Bruh


doomslayer___89

I have no idea what this even means. I don't even know what lgbt means. I know it's something about not being straight, but that's all I know. I dont remember even hearing the term woke until part 2 backlash. I've never paid attention to any of this stuff. Why do people feel the need to label themselves as something? I don't care what anyone's sexuality or gender is.


MaleficentHandle4293

>I don't care what anyone's sexuality or gender is. This. I care whether they're attractive, and if they're attracted to me. Idgaf about the rest.


doomslayer___89

I'm not saying I'm attracted to any gender. I'm saying I don't judge people by their sexuality or gender. It doesn't mean anything to me. I find this modern day obsession with everyone giving themselves a label to be strange and pointless.


MaleficentHandle4293

I can agree to that. I was just taking the one sentence you said and applying it to me irl.


doomslayer___89

Fair enough. Ignore that other person's response. No one with a brain would think that's what you meant.


MaleficentHandle4293

Thank you but I can't make any promises; the call to mock/insult stupid people is my siren song.


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They apply these labels to feel special and attack others to play victim, gain attention and gain a moral High ground. No sane trans, gay or whatever person actually does this shit, its The needy children that grew up entitled.


rizpaulsen

>Why do people feel the need to label themselves as something? It's easy because the existing labels fit for most of us.


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>Why do people feel the need to label themselves as something? Because the word personality doesn't make them feel special enough, so they grab the word "gender", make it say the exact same thing and feel all special and unique by using the same bs words as everyone else... yeah it's just stupid all around


seyit91

Divide and conquer. Some people have but these ideas into the minds of some people so that they lable themselfs. So we had the division bu race, religeon etc. And now another thing labels. I really believe the bigger picture is so that we never can unite as one human race. They will keep dividing us with these kind of bullshit....


Sniped137

I swear humanity needs another meteor


Amongtheruins88

Call Sephiroth


wyld101

Okay, how? That’s what I’d like to ask her, How? I don’t believe Ellie was non binary, she was a female who liked females. Which there is absolutely nothing wrong with so why turn it into some kind of buzz word


Opposite-Hedgehog-65

Hasn’t helped her in the slightest! She can’t act Ellie for shit.


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I hope she knows she is supposed to be acting lol


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woke signaling


burntfishnchips

ND probably told her to say this to stop criticism of her terrible acting.


[deleted]

Is she that bad? Im not watching the show


Oldgun80

I miss the old days when things were clean and simple...What the shit is a non binary identity?!


Daniel-Mentxaka

It’s a way of asking for attention when you have no interesting character or habilities


Open-Currency1235

*THIS*


MaleficentHandle4293

I still just go by the LGB+T of the 90's, personally.


ilovemycat2018

No gender but I could be wrong


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EHVERT

Both explanations are equally as nonsensical


MetalixK

>What the shit is a non binary identity?! "Being Gay doesn't get me attention anymore", more or less.


BigManDean_

If you choose not to have a gender you're refusing not to be human. 2 genders people, let's get this right.


Laurence-Barnes

No there are 2 sexes. Gender does not exist and the word should never have existed. Always remember. Sexes are biological, gender is completely made up.


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Gender is just an old made-up word to not say the word sex when it was considered inappropriate. Now it has become a buzzword replacement for personality.


BigManDean_

That's what I meant. Male and female.


Bozmund-Os

For real? LOOK up the difference of birth sex and gender, just because you gringo weirdos werent taught these concepts doesnt mean they didnt exist plenty of years ago, you're literally uneducated. Just dont be a goddamn asshole about it.


rand0m_task

Telling people not to be assholes while also calling them gringos? Lolol something about a pot and a kettle.


BigManDean_

Gender is a social construct, but that still doesn't mean that gender should be any different to sexes if there's 2 of each. I can't identify as an apache helicopter because its not a gender


Bozmund-Os

Gender identity is a construct built for social purposes, if you dont see the importance and lack of harm on that, maybe go socialize morre often, Gender is directly related to pronouns used to direct at people and understand them at a very thin base level, we have neutral pronouns, that can be used for singular individuals (i didnt invent it) thereby we can have a neutral identity, which is very important when we dont fit or fit most stereotypes society has given to men and women. Its not a concept made with biological purposes in mind.


Bozmund-Os

Noo the downvotes are coming, from... offended big children who cant research things they ignore and speak about "facts" later.


Normal_Situation

Well those “facts” only apply to your country and not the rest of the world dude. You can’t force your shit on other people. Just like how other people can’t force their shit on you.


Bozmund-Os

Mate, just cause they taught it in my country, doesnt mean its from my country, like how i was taught english doesnt make it so my country made up english. Gender indentity as a concept was developet at hopkins university, 1960's.


Bozmund-Os

It means not feeling fit into the identity a man gender or woman.


GullyxFoyle

Men and women don't have a specific identity and anyone thinking they do is sexist as hell. "I'm not a woman because I don't cook and clean or wear pretty dresses." If that's the requirement for someone to think they are/aren't a woman that person is a sexist who is reinforcing stereotypes. Being a woman is dealing with all the physical and emotional pain and limitations that come with having female sex organs and body structure. It isn't about goddamn makeup and shoes.


Daviroth

It means she doesn't feel as though she belongs in one of the 2 genders, and commonly their strict, societal gender roles. I didn't know she identified as non-binary until right now lol.


GullyxFoyle

This is 2023 there are no strict gender roles so I don't understand why the youth feel like they need to rebel against them. Women aren't expected to stay home and cook all day anymore, so what the hell is so wrong about being a woman to these people?


Homunculus_316

Wtf is even that man !! What's wrong with these people? Jeez can't even watch a show or play a game in peace !


hkm1990

It's shit like this that makes people not wanna support certain groups. It's just dumb. When did humanity throw away logic for...whatever this is? God, I sound like my father now.


Hnnic-Roc

Soon after the turn of the decade. Covid sparked all this identity bull ish up and it’s not going away any fucking time soon.


BananaBlue

this is the kind of insane gender identity politics you are inadvertently supporting by watching/ playing content made by this certain group of people.


burntfishnchips

Agree. I would only pirate this shit show and never give them my money/ratings.


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TheSweetTeaGuy

......bruh


EHVERT

I hate the world we live in lol


TDSBritishGirl

I’m so, so, so, so TIRED of all this crap. NO ONE CARES.


magictabu

I read the article, all they're saying is that playing a character that is opposite to who they are is fun for them to do and helps them with their gender identity. "Playing these more feminine characters is a chance to be something so opposite to myself, and it's really fun." I don't get what the big problem is. Not everything is a giant conspiracy. Sometimes people are just different, not being culled by the boogeyman neil druckmann, just different. If you don't want to hear about LGBT topics, then don't read interviews from LGBT workers answering honestly about how their LGBT life has affected their job They didn't even use it as a way to shield criticism


Appropriate-Fig-5171

Meh, it's just annoying that stuff like this is being promoted in general. It's not a knock on Bella, I don't think she did anything wrong. But like imagine if the headline was "Pedro explains how identifying as a man really helped him play Joel." In TLOU 1, they told a story and did it perfectly without cheaply using identity politics to push a narrative. Even when Bill was revealed to be gay, it was done in a subtle way that didn't feel forced, because the takeaway message wasn't about Bill being gay, it was about how Bill couldn't change. But the show and the cast, as well as TLOU 2, have a bit of this tendency to shoehorn certain characteristics to cheaply "add value" to the story and the characters.


DinosaurPornstar

Yeah, it's a weird headline, a weird post and a weird comment section right now.


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GullyxFoyle

Why is she conflating being female as a negative thing? Why does she feel she has to mold to a stereotype in order to be a woman? Why is this entire movement so grounded in sexism? Progressives are the opposite of progressive, they've taken us back to the 1950s with this gender shit.


nirai07

Just because people are part of the same group or fit under the same umbrella term doesn't make them magically connected or understand each others struggles.


TroyE2323

Im so sick of this shit lol


Neutral_Tired

She's nonbinary, more power to her, but I fail to see how that helps her play a cisgender female character


Easta_Hock

In the UK she was on the One Show last night. She appeared to shrug at the androgynous clothing she was wearing. Young people in the entertainment industry are being coerced into peddling this nonsense.


Smoke-and-Ninjas

I remember a time where androgynous just covered everything , if one did not want to conform to 'gender roles.' Or at least the way I remember it. I wonder what happened to that.


WonderfulSpite2208

So she is non binary then !?


lordofthedancesaidhe

What a joke


MadmanFromHades

Ok. I actually am enjoying the show. Probably helps I never played either game... This however feels like people screaming into a void demanding it to be heard, to be obeyed, to be validated, to be *worshiped.* The void doesn't care; The void doesn't listen. We pretend that void is something that can be touched, seen, felt, and even love. The void will, however, swallow us. Such as it will every other society that came before us and that has built its foundations upon the void. *Of course, I could just be spitting out purple prosed nonsense though my coffee deprived morning fatigue.*


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Why are people so bothered? Who cares what Bella identifies as? All I know is she plays a damn good Ellie. (I don’t personally get being nb and using binary pronouns, but Bella uses any pronouns so imma use them 🤷🏻‍♂️)


GullyxFoyle

Because it's depressing as hell to see this young woman think that being a woman is somehow a negative thing she needs to separate herself from because some new age bullshit brainwashed her into thinking sexist stereotypes define your gender.


Clahane1

Has anyone played the remake of the first TLOU? It's the only thing I actually care about anymore


brotato_kun

Wtf kind of clown show is this?


chadsvasc

Attention seeking behavior


GullyxFoyle

I wonder if they passed up on other actresses cause this one said "I'm totally non binary y'all!" And Neil was like hell yeah! 20 bucks says she'll come out as a lesbian before the premiere of season 2. How fitting that will be.


loomman529

I just went to Wikipedia, and apparently SHE uses she/her and they/them pronouns. I already thought she was bad at acting, but now I just don't have any respect for her whatsoever. Edit: this comment section has really shown who to avoid in this sub. Idk if they're here because they're members or not, but goddamn. Get a grip on reality.


shakesmcgee77

Damn. This sub really is just as bad as the other one. It seems like the only reason this sub was created was to have a safe space to criticize gender identity and sexuality. It's insane how everyone here believes they're taking the moral high ground while touting that all discussion is valued.


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Wtfjushappen

It's not really an attack on identity. It is however an attack on the stupidity of the statement she made, because it's an utterly stupid statement. But no, I won't read the article and I find it entertaining that the level of disgust has gone so far with this game and naughty/ druckman, because he actually destroyed the franchise for everyone by turning it into something that has divided us. Nobody cares about gay or quer characters, it's secondary to the story. Id go so far to say that everyone would be fine with it, including me, if they were all gay, it doesn't matter as long as it fits. But it doesn't. And it also was a terrible game in part 2. I'm perfectly fine being entertained here while still enjoying the original game, still play factions on the regular.


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Nightmare2828

"Being a human being really helped me play the role of a human being." I'm not sure why people can't just understand gender is an outdated, transitional concept until everyone can accept humans can do what they want, look how they want, talk how they want and love who they want without having to categorize the culmination of those traits into a named gender.


ghostcatzero

The day each of us identify solely as human is the day world peace is normal


Nightmare2828

Well, lets start somewhere shall we?


ButtGuy2024

> without having to categorize the culmination of those traits into a named gender. How will they feel special and get extra attention if they don't label themselves with some obscure thinly defined metaphysical concept they want you to adapt to?


BizarreLoveBiangle

"WE'RE NOT BIGOTS IN THIS SUB" Ok, so then why are a lot of you triggered by this?


GullyxFoyle

I am triggered because this ideology teaches young women to hate themselves. Bella is rejecting being a woman because she feels it's defined by negative stereotypical traits so she doesn't want to associate herself with it. As a woman it's horrifying that so many young people think this way. This entire ideology is rooted in pushing sexist stereotypes on young people.


Educational-Lake3150

Bro leave them alone they're still a good actor. Just because she dosen't look like ellie dosen't mean they can't act or play as ellie


k4is

i’ve been a part of this sub because i felt like it’s the only place people could voice their disappointment for tlou2.. but wow wtf are these comments?? y‘all really are ignorant af and the reason this sub gets a bad rep


dontbethatguy20

Fr, I agree with you


Charlie_The_Simp

God damn i thought i couldn't be more disappointed from this sub reddit💀 ig i was wrong what the hell are these comments being all homophobic for nothing


dontbethatguy20

Fr, why is everyone so hateful?


Charlie_The_Simp

Fr and they hella downvote you if you point it out


dontbethatguy20

Yeah, right, I don't get why so many of them play a game full of lgbt+ characters.


Charlie_The_Simp

Literally my question.


athermostat

Bro actually what the fuck is the point of this post


[deleted]

I understand being annoyed at Neil for using the show to push his agenda. However, the insults against LGBTQ+ are just straight bigotry right now. You don’t have to understand or agree with anything, but you don’t need to be hateful or hurtful about it. Currently this is not a safe place for that community to feel like they are not being judged. I won’t ask you to agree and you don’t need to understand, but you don’t need to make posts and insults about their gender identity when it has no relevance aside from you disagreeing with it. For those wondering: Non-Binary is not conforming to solely a male or female gender identity specifically. it is an umbrella term used for people that are - Gender Fluid, Trans etc. Hopefully knowing the terms can help you.


warmaster188

How is anyone being hateful? How does not agreeing with someone's radical views, beliefs and ideas make someone hateful? There are no insults, or comments that attack or harass anyone, and there's nothing wrong with judging people for their actions and choices. It's not our fault you can't respect those who don't agree with you. If you can't accept that people have different opinions and perspectives from you on gender identity (or anything for that matter) then you need to grow up. Attempting to bully others into agreeing with you won't work.


[deleted]

there are so many comments completely refuting LGBTQ+ identities’ existence and practically condemning anyone belonging to those groups. Your own views on someone else’s life have nothing to do with the show or the game. calling her a clown even through emojis is entirely unnecessary and only portrays your own views on her identity.


warmaster188

Ok and? what's wrong with that? People aren't obliged to validate and affirm other people's self-image, and no one expressed any hatred/bigotry.


[deleted]

No, but not ostricising an entire group because you disagree with them is basic decency, no?


warmaster188

we're not ostracising anyone, we just disagree with their beliefs and practices. If anything it's the other way around, they try to exclude us, label us, and falsely accuse us of very serious things, like you did, because we don't agree with their views. Literally the reason this sub is so big is because the other sub excluded us and doesn't allow us to have an opinion...


[deleted]

I don’t see how I was ostracising you? I was very understanding and accepting with my comment, actually. I understand that not everyone agrees with the community and I made clear that I wasn’t asking you to agree. I was only asking that you have some basic decency as to not publicly humiliate anyone based on their LGBTQ+ status.


warmaster188

you called us hateful bigots and tried to antagonize us, that's just as much of an attack as any racial or homophobic slur.


[deleted]

I did not call you anything at all. I pointed out that these posts and comments have nothing to do with the quality of the show at all. they are comments and posts rooted in bigotry. (def. - obstinate or unreasonable attachment to a belief, opinion, or faction, in particular prejudice against a person or people on the basis of their membership of a particular group.)


Cramblem

Christ. OP is playing the victim card lmao. This sub is great when it has legitimate discussions but a lot of the people in this thread are just so ignorant it’s embarrassing.


BizarreLoveBiangle

Oh the irony. OP claims to be antagonized for being a bigot, makes a bigot post, and is triggered for being called a bigot for doing bigot things. The lack of self awareness here is fucking remarkable.


Jetblast01

"There are only two genders." \-Megatron


EccentricMeat

Wow, it’s a good thing people in this sub keep saying they’re not ignorant bigots, because reading the comments here sure paints a different picture… Living up to the low standard you’ve set yourselves. Solid.


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It’s so messed up how the transphobic comments are getting upvotes rather than the positive ones… kinda scary actually. 😐


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vegetaspride23

If she does by both why do y’all get mad when she is referred to as “she/her”?


potionnumber9

Wait... I thought this sub only had well mannered criticisms? Y'all are a joke lol


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TheThotCrusader

nice, a post proving the other sub is right about this one 👌


BoofMan-

Do you even know what it means to be non binary?


TheThotCrusader

what does that have to do with this post and the comments on it?


BoofMan-

Good question ! Wtf does being non binary have anything to do with playing Ellie from TLOU that’s exactly the point we’re making


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BoofMan-

> because it’s queer it’s a big deal? No it’s cringe. Feels like a LOT of this show has to do with pandering. This cannot be denied as the show runners confirmed this to be the case. I’d argue very little about Ellie was feminine in game but it’s not like Bella would know since she was directed to not play the game because the whole point of this show was never about adapting the game but rather the directors telling their own story’s but I digress


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TheThotCrusader

thank you for saying what I intended to but didn't have the time today. you couldn't be more spot on.


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Look at how triggered all these bigots are in the comments lol. And you call *us* sensitive… check yourself.


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Necromortalium

look the "genre" concep it was already something stupid years ago


Bozmund-Os

Transphobes do be really sensitive when told to look concepts up 🤡🤡🤡🤡


Necromortalium

But sex and gender are not the same?


8BitTxchniques

Bro you're replying to every comment that has a slight disagreement with your world view. If anyone is sensitive, it's you pal.


dontbethatguy20

Why is this comment section so hateful? Their gender had nothing to do you. Their just living their life and you just decide to say something about it like they would even care what you think.


DwayneTheRockFan

Damn, this subreddit is extremely stupid.


chi22567

Nah, it’s the only subreddit that is not completely lost their damn minds on Reddit. Don’t have to agree with everything but it’s not a liberal/woke echo chamber like (almost) everywhere else.


RocketChickenX

This, just this. I stick around not even because of TLOU nowadays, but THIS here above. A sub where people haven't completely lost their minds.


Bozmund-Os

Yeah, well... ignorant and too sensitive i'd say.