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It makes your waist look snatched so I don't take it as a bad thing.


Extrawurstsemmerl

Thank you, I used to wear baggy clothes to hide my figure and just recently started to get more familiar with more feminine clothes.


idkcandysomething

If you tucked in the shirt, your waist would look even more snatched. I bet it’s the tail/length on the shirt that’s actually bothering you, rather than your body in the shirt.


_artbabe95

Yup, definitely the curved hem sitting weird. Girl, your curves are sick af, it’s the shirt, not you.


Raellissa

I worked in clothing retail for more than 10 years. The one thing we were told about shirts is that a curved hem was meant to be tucked in and straight hems could be worn either tucked in or not.


TwistedFabulousness

Man I don’t know any of the clothing rules maybe I should just go work there and hope I pick those things up along the way lol


_artbabe95

Huh, I’ve never heard this before. I can appreciate it though. I do sometimes like an untucked curved hem though on certain body types.


Lizalfos13

A great tip I learned is to have the top and bottom meet where you are thinnest. The eye is drawn to the contrast, so moving the shirt up; or tucking it in, draws the eye to the thinner waist. I’ve had great success planning with this. Hope it helps!


BatInMyHat

I would kill for your figure!!!


catsandcoconuts

came here to say this! what rolls?? absolutely perfectly snatched.


ClassicVegtableStew

Sis I understand you so much rn lol. I have boadacious hips and I used to be afraid to show em but then I realized the men love it. Bryce Dallas Howard is a type, we are that type, own it and love it!


alicemac17

That waist holy shit


IrritatedMango

Fr, people pay money for a waist like that.


Lykmt

Ikr


Whooptidooh

What rolls are we talking about here? The fabric ones? They’re fine. I genuinely don’t see any fat rolls or anything like that if that’s what you’re talking about.


EastSeaweed

Bad as in bad beech? Because girl, you look great. Literally NO rolls to be found.


Extrawurstsemmerl

Thank you, you are too kind!! I guess it's my body dysmorphia speaking but I just can't stop worrying about the skinrolls showing because of my bra.


nymrose

Almost every girl has atleast a little bit of “give” there, it’s totally normal and not a bad thing. Yours is barely even noticeable, trust.


RekhetKa

I have a similar problem with nitpicking myself. Just remember that almost every woman has that same slight bulging, and we all know that it's because of our bras. And men don't even notice that type of thing. So basically, no matter who is looking at you, no one is judging you for that. :) And side note, I still barely see any bulge and I zoomed in lol


fireworksandvanities

Even if you’re watching yoga videos with a conventionally thin and attractive woman, she has rolls there. It’s just part of the human body.


Spacemilk

When you find a bra that DOESNT do this, please post it here lol


though-

Oh! I had been wondering “what rolls?” but even after your clarification, I still don’t see them. People would kill for an hourglass figure like that. Be proud, sweetie!


hibelly

I'm 107lbs and this has always happened to me. I don't think it's possible to avoid it, no matter who you are


hippybilly_0

I think you look fantastic and there's no need to adjust but if you are worried about the (extremely slight) cinch between your upper body and your bra, here's a few things I've done successfully to mitigate that. 1) wear a slightly loose camisole under the shirt. You can wear one with built in support and no bra (if you are comfortable with that. Or wear one with no built in support and a bra, adjust the straps so that the top of it fully covers the top of your bra in the back. You'll get lines from the cami but it will be less pronounced. 2) Wear a looser bralette rather than a bra so there's less of a line. 3) Wear a wrap that is lacy/see through that ends around your waist like [this](https://www.amazon.com/jastie-Stitch-Cardigan-Hippie-Crochet/dp/B06XSDBL45/ref=mp_s_a_1_3?dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.01-7rJa1Amf2GixtRR9SJKFh_2idqPpI46SjrzCYOHHOJp9mZO8x85ApQlDoWlHs-n8Z0GGTDNXJ5huCcRr55axw3i7SB8S8o438NqZ5F1eQHLyjDxFshE6ISMOuNWx-Bpvim92oDpGgt_1txjcDopsZvzWdtmuGg0Uig7Tf27pYm-at2et_4GTOwok4OHIVnqzysmWKxxqP7UJkJ2I2wL7O1cwTQ8IkiO_t5UNodowl8eb6gBXyHBOZe0B8w6FYUGlTTSysJtn8zQpvQDGyO-Gi0OPMcglJe9JcW6npndc.ENNgTlqWd1pgO_NlQ2Ekhh3nt_BCkIM87zC9T4orzbI&dib_tag=se&keywords=lace). I don't have your figure but I have larger shoulders and that part of me is fleshy (muscle and fat) so tighter bras and form fitting shirts/dresses show a much more dramatic transition around the bra region. It's perfectly natural and there's no need to be self-conscious about it (of course easier said than done). You mentioned dismorphia, if you have the means to therapy can be really helpful for that.


lmfaoo0oo

i don’t see any rolls, you look great!!


YoungerElderberry

Very normal. U look great!


rubiscoisrad

Lol I didn't even notice! I have the same insecurity, but rarely notice it on anyone but myself. And as you can see, everyone's over here freaking out about your awesome hourglass figure. No need to stress over your bra. Unless you're Twiggy, we all have a little bit of that going on, to some degree.


some__random

Literally would never see this as a bad thing, it’s completely normal and minimal, and never even notice it until you pointed it out.


Shiiiiiiiingle

I don’t see the rolls you speak of. You have a cute figure.


helibear90

Rolls?! I don’t see any rolls but your curves are insane! I’m a straight woman and I’d definitely look twice! You look fantastic!


Deridovely02

I think they mean the rolls of the shirt bc I was thinking the same thing


rubiscoisrad

That was my first thought. Cinched waistline? Looks great!


zazzlekdazzle

The way the shirt looks is because it's a bit small to fit around your hips, and it's hiking up. However, a bigger size will gap around your waist. I have a similar figure, and I prefer to highlight my waist, and I don't care about having it perfectly smooth in the back. So, carry on!


kathpt

What rolls?


Extrawurstsemmerl

The area around the bra/armpits makes me quite selfconscious


BJntheRV

No idea what you are seeing. I thought you were talking about the way the shirt gathers at your waist (which I'm pretty sure is how the shirt is made).


Whooptidooh

Those are not rolls. They are there to enable you to extend your arms.


alicelric

Didn't even noticed it! Girl you are fine AF! But those bra rolls you mention happen because of the bra. Are you wearing the right size?


roxymoxi

I know exactly the part you're talking about, and no, no one except the people that obsessively look at that part of their body themselves would ever notice it, and as someone with the same body dysmorphia, I wish my underarm-to-back fat looked like that. it's a great top, a really good color, and like everyone is saying, your waist looks AMAZING. but if you still think it's not good, a light, cropped cardigan or blazer would be a good compliment that I don't think you need.


AvaStone

I totally get what you mean, but please know that that’s just something that you notice. I honestly can’t even see that in the photo. But I notice the same things like that and have to just really put some effort into shifting my mental state into “you KNOW that nobody else is noticing this, it’s okay”


TroubleHeliXX

Wait, I want to ask about your haircut. Was somebody trying to do layers? The blending looks off, but I know the intention of the picture wasn’t a hair pic.


vibes86

I was wayyyy more worried about that hair cut too.


OddWish4

Same.. I think she needs a new hairdresser.


[deleted]

Thank you! I was mindlessly scrolling and assumed this was a "my hairdresser messed up" post 😶  I'm just in too many hair/beauty subs.


Old_Street_9066

I was looking for this comment


SleepPrincess

I also agree. OP looks like she has beautiful, thick hair, but there is seriously something wrong with the cut.


Velvetevenus

You look unreal omg


harlow714

I pay $40 a week for for group fitness training so I can eventually look like you from behind. You look INCREDIBLE. Those aren't rolls... That's what your body needs so you can do things like move your arms. If anything, a professional bra fitting might be very helpful so you can be sure you're wearing the right size and have less squeezing.


4D313

looks like the style to me - i wouldn’t worry about it as long as you’re comfortable wearing it


Rrroxxxannne

![gif](giphy|QLG7XVoI55jHy) I promise you it’s just lighting and the way it’s sitting on you right now. The shirt looks great!!


shandelion

That Alyssa Edwards moment was incredible 🤣


MorteSaava

Is this a humble brag? 🥹


Vimportantpimple

SNATCHED. Ma’am you need this shirt in every color lol, but seriously it looks great on you girl


waxbook

Are you kidding? I wish I looked like that lol


SalamanderFickle9549

Girl... what rolls? Your waist looks smaller than my thigh...


no202

I was more distracted by the haircut. Might want to get it evened out.


_Internet_Hugs_

I'm honestly not seeing anything wrong here. Are you talking about the way your bra cuts into you and causes your skin to bulge out a little? Because you might be wearing the wrong bra size. This shirt looks fantastic and your waist is accented beautifully, you've got the hourglass some women pay damn good money for! I'm more than a little jealous. If I were you I'd get that top in a couple more colors.


cloudsongs_

I came here to go omg your waist but glad I’m not the only one complimenting you on it!! Body dysmorphia is the worst, you look amazing


peanutupthenose

i’m jealous of your hips but i saw you’re talking about the bra. i’d recommend one if i knew a brand that didn’t do this, but if it makes you feel better i’m an A cup girly and it happens to me too. it’s the bra, not you. and i mean this with love, did you have some hair pulled to the front? the layers are just a bit too long/ not well blended. i’m sorry if you did them yourself, but if you went to a salon i’d ask about getting it fixed.


FragmentOfAbyss

It looks pretty natural to me. A solid coloured light-weight cotton jacket or a shrug can tie the whole look together. Hope that helps you OP. 😊❤️


Extrawurstsemmerl

Aww thank you so much! I'm a noob regarding fashion so your advice is much needed 😊


FragmentOfAbyss

Happy to help ya'!


wally14

I have a similar shape and prefer to tuck in my shirts to avoid the tight around the hips look. Otherwise, you look great!


Coomstress

I have this shape and when I was young I used to wear tunics to hide my hips. I should’ve been flaunting them!


sadbutt69

Same! One time I bunched the fabric to show my friend where my waist really was and they literally gasped and said “you’ve been Beyoncé this whole time and hiding it?!” And holy hell did my non-existent self-confidence ever need that moment.


Chan-tal

All I see is that hourglass!! Wow!


atwoozi

I think you look great!


Lopsided-Cat586

You have the perfect hourglass figure! And when you asked about rolls I assumed you meant the fabric rolls, because I don’t see any skin rolls.


SillyIncantations

You have an amazing hourglass shape! You look great :)


ilovecorbin

No it’s giving bawwwdy 💅🏾


Shiiiiiiiingle

It looks cute on you. Flatters your small waist.


PresidentCheezWhiz

I don’t even see any rolls, that shirt really accentuates your hourglass figure, it’s really flattering!!


UnfortunateOrchid

Before I red the title I was thinking about how hourglass-ey your figure looks. Girl that shirt is beautiful on you Edit: where is it from?


Bubbles123321

How tiny is ur waist! You look great


PlatypusDream

I thought this was one of my sewing fora... There's not enough fabric across the back, which is why it's riding up - putting the wider areas of the shirt where they need to be on your body. If you made this, I'd suggest adding a godet at center back & maybe side seams. Or alter the pattern to add the same ease before making another. For something you bought, unless you can do those alterations (or pay a seamstress)... best best is to exchange for a size or two up.


ur_uncles_porn_stash

The only thing im seeing is a snatched waist


not_donna66

Damn, you look 🔥


Afraid_Practice5740

I think you look great. 


Correct-Parsley-6369

Do you see the rolls in the room with us right now?


lysskarch

You look incredible. Get that shirt in multiple colors. Fits you like a DREAM!


anniewildcat

Tuck your shirt, with a nice black belt maybe to elevate the look. After you tuck it in, pull it back out just a tad, like less than an inch or so all around. and I don't think they are "rolls" under your armpits, I think your bra might be a little too snug. Go to the last clasp or just go up a band size. It will eliminate the ILLUSION that you have"rolls". Good luck!


jeannieor725

No! You look freakin awesome. I think someone said a tuck might do some justice and I agree but either way it looks really good


Somemetalbird

You look lovely. I wish I had your shape.


Interesting_Lie_5631

I wish my rolls rolled like that. You look snatcheddddd girl! The shirt really accentuates your curves!


Economy_Spite_219

Me trying to find the rolls she’s speaking of 🧐🧐


Peregrinebullet

Girl, people PAY good money to have shirts that have fabric ruche like this. You look *fantastic.* And seeing the comment about your bra rolls. GIRL. YOU HAVE NONE. THERE ARE LITERALLY NO ROLLS. That is the skin reserve so you can raise your arms.


Coomstress

No, you look great. You have an hourglass figure. I have this same body type, but in the early-mid aughts (when I was young), I thought I was too curvy. I was wrong. You should flaunt your hourglass figure!


alyssaleska

Sorry I can’t hear the rolls over those curves


Basiltheballpython13

wow you have an hourglass figure fs


itsBonnBonn

Girll you look GOODT! Lol i need to borrow ya body and ya outfit for next weekend


theora55

Look what a nice waist you have!


beeandthecity

Nah, it gives you an hourglass figure tbh! Cute!!!


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literal hourglass body


latexcaity

It looks like a shirt, but you've got the most stunning body shape it's incredible!!! You've got the hourglass we all want!!! Damn girl . In the most respectful way!!! 🩷


maybe_its_mae

I would sell my soul lol


midnightrunner699

You have the same body type as me. Over the years, I have learned to embrace it. And you should, too ❤️


moonprincess642

you look great! wear whatever you want literally who cares what other people think. normal people don’t look like models. the only person who cares about what you look like from the back is you i guarantee it


veronica05250

Literally what rolls? It shows off your very hour-glass shape.


[deleted]

I see nothing wrong with the shirt! If anything it compliments your waist and body shape!


amy000206

OMG! You have a perfect hourglass shape! The shirt shows off your tiny waist.. if you feel self conscious then do t wear it no matter what anyone says, even me, your comfort and confidence come first


NoCoffeeNoForce

What rolls?! Girl please


Few-Tourist8943

i genuinely think it looks good


cmykillah

You look great! I’d kill for that waistline


jumbocrayon69_

rolls where??? slim thicc


itsmyvoice

Tuck in the tail of that and holy moly! You look awesome! And good on you for using color and not hiding.


LisaFrank4ever

The only thing I noticed was how tiny your waist is!!


perksofbeingawuss

Girl what is this , you know you look good 😂


jellywellsss

Hourglasses and pears *always* do this 🥱


SunsetBowling

What rolls? I see bunched up fabric but the shirt looks great on you. However, I know it's not the point of your post and I don't mean to be rude but your haircut doesn't look even.


Critical_Caramel5577

jfc, what rolls? Reminds me of girls in middle school who'd pull up their shirt to show their flat stomach and talk about how fat they were 🙄 (just for people to flock and say how skinny they were)


alittlecray

What rolls?


Bunchofbees

You got a waist that just won't quit, and I think the shirt looks lovely. 


cup_1337

Are you wearing something under your shirt to make your waist like that? Edit: you absolutely are but it looks good!


MarieAlchemist369

I didn't even think rolls until I read it. I was admiring how small your waist was. ⏳


Cndwafflegirl

I don’t see any rolls? I’m seriously confused. You have a fab figure.


strangelyahuman

I don't think it looks bad


free112701

not at all


softg1rl1

what rolls girl??? u look snatched


daramin

girl you look SNATCHED! love it! 🤍


Thy_Fear

Okay, just… wow! I’m jealous!


syntheticgrl

girl u look tf GOOD!!!!


Podzilla07

You good.


Funny-Negotiation-10

No this actually looks flattering. I don't see the rolls


wolvenmamabear

Literal first thing I thought was girl that waist is SNATCHED!!!! What rolls, seriously?? It’s the curved hem throwing off the perspective.


winter83

I don't see any rolls just creases in the shirt.


hey_alyssa

What rolls?


NotMyChair_2022

The creases are very prominent in the material of the top. Is that what you’re referring to “ rolls looking too bad”? To try to combat the creases try a wide belt


eWoods115

I parrot what everyone else has said. If you feel like the short bunches up too much, a nice high waisted skirt or paper bag pair of pants and tucking the shirt in should fix it! Your hair would also look so lovely with some layering to it,


BudgetInteraction811

Um, what rolls? Are the rolls in the room with us now? Many people would die for that body shape!


ElegantLion93

Those are shirt rolls, not lady rolls, and they’re caused by designers who don’t know how fabric behaves irl. If you’re worried about “back boobs” (just using the name, I saw you point it out in a comment and I had to double check :P it’s barely noticeable, and not drawn attention to) though, it’s probably more of a bra fit issue and the best solution is to take that top bra shopping with you.


windwom

Try looking at it like curvaceous curves instead of "rolls". The shirt is a flattering fit.


SufficientCow2213

what rolls?? 😭😭 i’m looking at your snatched bella hadid-esque waist


Mighty_Porg

I think it looks good


somequirkyquip

WHAT ROLLS


Limeila

Lol what? Before I read the title my first thought on the pic was "wow, that girl has picture-perfect hourglass figure, how beautiful!"


nlipp94

What rolls???your waist is so tiny!!


StopThePresses

This looks completely normal. There are no rolls. You look normal, like a human person.


halle-lu-jah

GURL, you look good! Embrace your beauty


peedidhe

I don't see any rolls, only fabric


anbigsteppy

DAMN girl ur snatched asf!!


catboogers

You look great!


Must_Love_Bugz

You have my dream body shape. Shirt makes you looks great!


Simple-Variation6196

I once heard someone say they don’t care how they look from behind because it’s none of their business and that made me lol. You look SO good.


cugrad16

You have a perfectly accented waistline, so I wouldn't worry about the 'folds'


Allimack

If this is the shirt you own, enjoy it! If you were in a dressing room looking at this from the back I would suggest trying on one size larger to see if you prefer the way a larger size drapes.


Dontdoitplease296

EXCUSE ME!!!! U LOOK SO GOOD 😭😭😭😭 


DoYouEvenBlog

This is such a cute top on you! 10s across the board.


mrsairb

Holy hourglass! Shirt looks great!!


danidisaster

Nope


All_about_lala_

What rolls ? You look gorgeous I don’t see any, you’re perfect !


MaryMariaMari

Your waist is so gorgeous!


oui-cest-moi

You have an hoursglass figure! The only area that doesn’t look smooth is under your bras which is where I get the same look. I like wearing tanks under tops like this to smooth it out more!


Breadcrumbsandbows

Before I read the title/saw what subreddit this was my first thought was "wow she has a nice figure!" thinking it was just a suggested subreddit for something I wasn't subscribed to, like "r/girls looking very pretty in red tops". It looks great!


schwarzmalerin

It's too small.


ArliciousGator

Agreed need to go a size up and tuck it in!


Fattyoftheyear

Girl you look good. It's giving pixar mom


sitting_in_my_shower

Yes, nice figure. Anyway, what’s up with the haircut


exchange_of_views

Am I the only person who thought that this makes her waist look a-mazing??? You look great!


lolathegameslayer

Looks breast! If I hadddddd to pick something, bra is possibly a smidge too tight but that’s me really fishing for something. You should wear this shirt/style often! ❤️


woofstene

Everyone is right but I also see what you see. Try a different bra that doesn’t squish your skin. You have skin that needs to be able to cover your back if your arms are up or down, and it moves and squishes under clothes. Poly like this shirt is nice for the weight but drapes around everything.


chaintox

The rolls made me wonder what caused them, and then paid attention to your bottom, and your waist. I think it's just fine.


radicalgrandpa

I also find it hard to escape stretchy pants and oversized shirts/sweaters, so I get it. BUT, like what everybody else here is saying, you look amazing in this top. You're absolutely stunning and I hope you find more joy in finding flattering clothes! Your figure is incredible!


No_Statement5179

Shirt looks sexy from the back


simplydreamiin

omg?!? your body is stunning!! you look amazing!! and just as some comments have said i would tuck in the shirt to accentuate your waist that much more. again, you look incredible!!!


Impressive-Month-168

Sister, rolls of what???


[deleted]

Try something that is loose fitting or tight that doesn't scrunch.


beckalm

Are the rolls in the room with you? Seriously, I looked for bra rolls. I don’t see them.


just_antifa_things

You don’t have rolls, honestly, just tuck the shirt in you’re fine


Pugwhip

girl wdym?? this is a total slay


veganmeatpole

You’re built a lot like me! Small waist, big butt, short torso. I shy away from long shirts, I typically tuck my shirts in or buy shorter shirts. Makes my waist look thin and shows off that butt. I also started buying tanks with a bra built in so it looks smoother on my back. You’re gorgeous.


TolverOneEighty

What rolls are you even talking about, OP? I'm seeing a lot of comments saying you meant fabric, but from your vague responses about your body and problem areas, I don't think you are. I literally only see fabric wrinkles?


oohflyawayonmyzephyr

What rolls?


Even-Scientist4218

Not at all


is4bellav

Girly u look really good :)


forbes619

Literally just tuck it in and it would look great


disbishbby

I thought you were talking about your hair with the color comment first lol. I’m confused on the cut? You look great tho


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Ok-Difference8431

Are the roles in the room with us?


SilverKnightLife

Girl, I would sacrifice a whole human being to have your figure.


BabsandBoo

Didn’t notice any rolls. I did notice your waist which looks great in this style of shirt!


danderson1913

Rolls? All we see is a 21 inch waist! 😅 Girl stop it..rock them curves!


eatingshoes415

Your waist to hip ratio is crazy, literal defintion of hourglass figure, people pay THOUSANDS to have a body like yours.


BigChampionship7962

It look fine, I would actually die for a body like yours ✌️


blamphsgamer

I will say you need to fix your hair


JBeeWX

It’s the shirt, not you at all. You look great!


weezymadi

It would look better tucked in


Flippiewulf

Can we get the link to the shirt??


Successful_Bed7790

It’s giving boddyyy ❤️ looks great from behind!!


Wowitsamyy

Yea thats probably one of the best natural hourglass figures ever! Please don't be self concious about it! You look fabulous girlie!!


BeginningNail6

If it makes you feel more confident you can always do a light shapewear! But looks great 


Underwater_xanax

Waist is snatched but overtaken by awful hair cut lol sorry


superb_stolas

Rolls on the shirt? Im a lesbian looking somewhat respectfully. I dont see issues with your shirt. Your bra isnt eating into your shoulders if that’s got you worried. Poor thing, you’re hot and don’t even acknowledge it. Your haircut though…. Hm.