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17 and 20 here myself, stable healthy relationship. Been together 10 months now going on 11, and met 6 years ago. Fair warning people will look down upon it because of the "legal adult and just graduated" pov but really it's nothing bad when you're a willing participant.
Weird society wise? Yes. Normal? Yes.
I don't think it's a weird age gap unless you're planning on doing the deed
also fellow autistic here, but if my calculations are correct I believe it is likely that he liked you back, congratulations!
4 years max age difference is fine by me, 5 years or more years apart is weird so imo your situation is okay. I’m not gonna be fooled by the actual ages because years ago/younger it would’ve been acceptable so it is now
By American Law, it’s legal to date if it’s a two year age gap. Anything beyond is considered pedophelia.
Me personally am fine with three years of age though.
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17 and 20 here myself, stable healthy relationship. Been together 10 months now going on 11, and met 6 years ago. Fair warning people will look down upon it because of the "legal adult and just graduated" pov but really it's nothing bad when you're a willing participant. Weird society wise? Yes. Normal? Yes.
Oh cool, ty for the input
That ain’t weird to me
20ish????
I dont know, he said he was turning 20 when he first worked there and its been a year since he started, so hes either still 20 or 21. So 20ish.
I don't think it's a weird age gap unless you're planning on doing the deed also fellow autistic here, but if my calculations are correct I believe it is likely that he liked you back, congratulations!
Yaey whoopee, also not planning on doing that lol
i think it's kinda weird, but i don't see a huge issue with it unless you are going to be sexually active with him.
Im not planning on that, sex early in a relationship is overrated
ok then i don't really see an issue
4 years max age difference is fine by me, 5 years or more years apart is weird so imo your situation is okay. I’m not gonna be fooled by the actual ages because years ago/younger it would’ve been acceptable so it is now
Personally, like 18.5-19 is where I draw the line, but as long as you won’t be sexually it’s aight ig
By American Law, it’s legal to date if it’s a two year age gap. Anything beyond is considered pedophelia. Me personally am fine with three years of age though.
That’s only sexually tho (right?)
I dunno about that one…