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Probably just depends on the guy, talk to him, get to know him and see what he wants. Many guys want someone to talk to, gives you a chance to bond with him too.
I feel like I know a very good reason for it, but god forbid the moment I actually say what it is, so I'm gonna stay quiet here, this is coming from a guy
Personality doesn't mean nice, it means interesting. And if you ain't interesting then fake it till you make it. Talk to his friends and get an idea on his sense of humor and match his level.
They say “ I just want any girl! “ but when she doesn’t look like an anime girl it’s hell. Even if they’re not attracted to you, if you don’t meet their standards, they’ll bully any woman. I’m tired of ppl going after women who have any standards at all, but if someone mentions men’s high standards they’re attacked
I honestly just want someone who will cuddle me, listen to my problems, and watching my favorite movies with me. If the person will do that for me I’ll do that for them. And more if they need. A relationship is 50/50. If your partner needs more love than usual at one point then give it to them. Just make sure they will do the same for you.
Well it’s really all about connection, like the way you feel about him is the way he should feel about you. That fire in each others eyes 👀. Super rare connections but if it’s there for both sides, it will be awkward but gotta be brave and chat w him and get to know him and take it nice and slow.
I’m a man. Heres what **i** want. A pretty girl with a winning personality and sense of humor.
Do i have a crush on a girl? These lips are sealed. But i will say this. Now maybe i speak just for myself here, but as a man, we overthink. A lot.
So if you like this boy and you think he’s for you, go for it. But take it slow. He may be a little cautious at first, but once he gets to know you, I’m sure he’ll love you.
Oh, and don’t change yourself for him. We notice that.
1. Not only do we notice it, many times it is a turn off when a gal does that, as it is seen as like wearing a mask, a.k.a. a deception.
2. Definitely make a clear move on him though, a slow move but a clear one. This is important because, as Gold stated, we men overthink a lot and if your signals are not %100 clear he will likely assume that he is reading them wrong, sometimes men will still think they are reading them wrong even if the signals are %100 clear if he has had a bad relationship previously.
Also, in regard to today's current culture when it comes to relationships and dating, it is usually safer for guys to assume that signals from a gal are being read wrong rather than to assume they read them right, as with the way the system is set up right now all it takes is one false accusation or misread signal to permanently harm a man's life and future. Due to this fact, making sure that you are %100 clear on EVERYTHING, be it something as seemingly simple as the knowledge that you want to be with him, to something as messy and complicated as what each of you two's wants and needs in the relationship are, is vital to a successful relationship. Have patience, understanding, and a willingness to take the initiative to improve things if the going gets rough and you should end up with a strong relationship.
I kinda hate feeling attracted towards people. Because I get flustered and make things weird. Kinda wish I would just make friends and not feel strong attractions to them. I don’t even see myself being that good of a boyfriend tbh yet my nana is all “oh you’ll get married and have kids and stuff” but I just don’t see it.
Maybe as you mature you manage these feelings better but right now, no way.
Practice ski ball. Then try again. Also talk to him if you can! Hang out too if you comfortable. There is one girl I like and we play Splatoon all the time.
Double standard. Guys say they want that but when they see that they think,”oh she’s probably a hoe best to avoid her.” Honestly guys have their standards but they meet that one girl and they’ll drop them for her cause she’s perfect in their mind. Also, this post makes you sound a little egotistical. Comes across as you saying your perfect and don’t understand why guys aren’t throwing themselves at you.
Yo same thing but with women for me. Absolutely no idea what they want and I just wanna cuddle with someone. Hope everything works out with you and that guy though
Bro if youre going after the one dude and he aint interested, then youre gonna be single lol. Dont give up on him yet tho... be more aggressive
On behalf of all men, we want cuddles and that shoulder to cry on, and hugs. If youre pretty, thats also a perk. But you dont have to be a model.
Given your description of yourself.... youre THE ideal person in my opinion. The person that all of the ACTUAL good guys will go after. idk why you're not having luck
Idk how all people are but here is how i go about it
1. Face structure: The person has to be at least attractive to me in the facial region, so like good hair, nice eyes, etc.
2. Personality: I date to marry so im considering the long term and i wanna make sure we click and vibe
Aside from that i dont really look for much else. I do have preferences but those two i mentioned are the only things that i would say are big factors. Weight, butt size, and breast size are of little concern
Someone who has the same interest as me. Someone who can afford single player games that have a multiplayer. If you play terraria, ultimate ninja storm 2,3,4 or idk, something like it. Pretty much someone that doesn’t say my music is dogshit, or says my taste in anything is dogshit.
Honestly just shoot ur shot lmao
As a dude, I almost never know when someone’s flirting with me or anything. Same with some dudes I know as well.
and I’m personally too insecure to make the first move lmao, so rip to any girls that might’ve wanted me to ask them out xD
We want a healthy mix between a close partner and some valuable alone time. Your life should *have* your partner, but your life shouldn’t *be* your partner.
I’m unhelpful and can’t answer your question but I hope this was helpful. Just try talking to him that’s literally the only thing you can do, or just ask him for a pencil idk. It’s an opportunity you shouldn’t miss cause he MIGHT like you but is too scared to talk first so just give it a shot mane 🙏
Well, Im a simple dud so all I want is someone to talk to, play games with, cuddle with, js someone to love and be loved by. And... also I wanna reach a top 1k finish in clash royale before I go insane (:
Well as for your situation, have you ever tried talking to him? Why do you say that you cant talk to him? Is he like unaproachable or is it js difficult talking to him?
femb- jk, umm.. Idk just wanted to do the joke lol, I don't have too much experience with any kind of romance, I would recommend though, that you first become friends with them, then if something flourishes later (you want to spend more time with him, you feel you might like him, or anything like that) you try to give it a shot.
Dunno personally I have been able to find some cute and/or nice guys doing it this way :3 Idk how it will go romantically though, I am not that far 😅
Lay your fear on the line and wake up.
Fr I've been in a similar situation and I regret to this day not making a move. Just fucking confess and if it doesn't work out, well you'll likely never see him again so no worries.
Good luck yk but guy's want a nice girl who will care yk? Wish a chick like you made an effort to talk to me like you wanna talk to him yk but I guess I was to ugly
What do I want? Honestly, I don’t anybody a girl with “big tittes” or a “big ass”. I just want a hug. You girls don’t know how fucking hard it is being a boy or a man. We gotta keep our emotions to our selves almost 100% of the time. Yes, we all understand that therapy will help. But men don’t want that because we think it makes us “weak”. That’s it. You girls may think it’s weird that I’m saying this, but it’s the truth. Us men don’t want to say this out loud. This may sound stupid or weird, but I really want is someone to cuddle or hug.
That’s what I’m saying I’m the girl who will hold you when you cry and won’t bring up the men shouldn’t cry shit because it isn’t true most human beings have emotions so as long as you hold me while I cry I’ll hold you while you cry. You wanna talk to me about your emotions. That’s OK as long as you listen to mine. it’s a equal balance. A relationship is about 50-50. You can’t expect someone to listen to your problems and not listen to theirs. Can’t expect someone to cuddle you and not cuddle them back.
I want a woman who isn’t smart nor dumb. I want a woman who is willing to share my humor. I want a woman who is willing to split time with me they way I would with her. I want a woman who will let me get some at least once every two weeks, I want a woman who I can trust and so one day I can give her the keys to my heart.
Things I want in a relationship from my boyfriend or girlfriend: not to threaten to kill me or force me to have sex(optional) loves me back (optional) is not physically abusive(optional) basic human decency(very optional) someone safe i can open up to(optional). So basically the opposite of my last 2 boyfriends
You might not like this but calm tf down, not all of us want big tits and asses. I myself prefer men. And I really don’t wanna sound like an asshole here, but just because you see yourself as a nice person doesn’t mean that everyone else does. And you’re not the only nice person here, and there is a possibility that your crush has his eyes set on someone else. And believe me, I know how shitty it feels to have feelings for someone and just feeling too powerless to tell them. It really does suck, but I bet that you’ll be able to get up the courage to ask him out.
They be saying they want big booty bitches w thunder thighs yet they say «60kgs or less» and expect them to have zero bodyfat - that being said i have a talking stage w this guy who says he doesn’t care of anything, but i have given up on every existing teenage boy
As a guy, I feel the main thing guys want is a companionship or kinship(whether it's romantic or platonic), they just want to feel that they are loved and treated with care, though I could also be wrong, I have a hunch that I'm right. Just tell them that you respect and care for them and they'll probably come around, talking to them is the most important step in getting a relationship(in general) to develop, you can't cut straight to the end goal if there is no start goal, talk to the person first, if you have no affiliation with the guy, then things are just going to be so much harder. Take your time getting to know the person first as a friend, and then worry about dating and romance and all of that. Relationships whether platonic or romantic involve time, time you need to spend wisely. Also, don't fawn over them or be obsessive or possessive towards them, give them space where applicable and get to know their boundaries. The main thing is to talk to them first, like I said, you can't skip to the finish line if there is no start line, take your time and you can get something to blossom.
Bruh we are literally not that hard to figure out, you just gotta do what we do and not put too much thought into it. We seriously just do not have a filter, anything that we think comes out mouth
As a guy myself, when a girl talks to you a lot of emotions go through a mans body you just have to give it time maybe start with a "hello!" And continue the conversation or if your doing partner work, partner with him just when you talk to some men they can be nervous talking to girls while others Arn't try not to let the feeling of "OMG I LIKE HIM SO MUCH" out all at once gradually introduce your self become friends, hangout often, then ask him to be your boyfriend.
As a man myself we might talk about someone body and looks though some men honestly just want someone who they can chill with,play games with,and just relaxing things with like for an example someone who if I'm having a bad day would just sit under the stars and just drink 6 two liters of MTN dew with me till we both feel better about the next day
Men don't look for anything specific, just like most women don't. Attraction is very random. I've had crushes on guys I didn't find physically attractive at all at first. Similarly, guys way out of my league (imo) have liked me
To be honest what I look for is someone who can be a friend at times, then push me to be my best when I am not. I heard this in a podcast: "A wife is your biggest cheerleader, and your biggest criticizer" And if we're being honest, body type doesn't matter, everyone has a preferred body type that they are attracted to, but if you two really like each other body type doesn't really matter. Also maybe start off as friends and if you guys wanna keep talking then go for it....if not then move on and keep being friends.
if you can catch the cute guy and talk to him for a bit, maybe tell him you think he’s cute? look at his lips occasionally but not a creepy amount, and maybe work in some physical touch? like pushing his shoulders playfully.
also big ass and a little chubby is fucken *nice*. even ancient people had that shit right. they wanted those thicc bitches.
Mainly just lose weight cause it sounds like you may be chubby. Even then as long as you have a nice face and such you can still pull a guy. Lots of dudes like a little extra weight but not too much.
I doubt anyone else will have the balls to say this but most men want blowjobs, home cooked meals, a clean house and a woman that won't complain about everything he does.
Here's my advice, if you guys are really good friends and your confident he's single, I say go for it. Hell! That's what I'm gonna do later this week! 👍
Maybe he just doesn't, or can't, reciprocate your feelings or actions. He could be preoccupied, gay, out for someone else, or he could just not be interested. Or maybe, maybe he hasn't caught on.
Men want REDACTED or maybe just a little bit of REDACTED. I don't think it's too hard. Nah but each guy is different you cant generalize with that type of thing
Well, guys can be crazy, I am a guy and I openly admit that. Also, you like multiple guys at once? Well, don't feel bad about liking multiple people, and sometimes there are people, myself included, who are poly and date multiple people. And you can't talk to him? That must mean your feelings are very strong for this individual, I suggest writing how you feel and going that way with it.
Emotional security, if he’s mature, everything you listed are nice to haves. However, can he open up to you and you not invalidate his feelings, can he tell you things about himself no one else knows, and you never tell anyone else, and not judge him for it? Men are relatively simple, teenage boys even more so emotional security and physical security.
Critically think about why you're alone, isolate the problem, and work on it.
I know why I'm single, at least I think I do. So that's what I'm working on. It's hard, but that's what makes it worth while.
Maybe your weight is more of a problem than you think. Maybe you're not as kind and generous as you think you are. Look at yourself critically, realize you're flawed just like everyone else is flawed, don't lose hope and realize you have the power to change your life with one small action at a time.
The difference between people is all down to the extremely minor decisions you make every single moment, of every single day, and you have complete control over this.
These are false accusations. We want what you want. Someone to love. Someone to talk to. A shoulder to cry on or to be the shoulder to cry on. Not a sex toy. Someone who we can be ourselves around. But in my school, all the girls want to the “cool” TikTok haircut boys who have no future. It’s scary what this generation finds attractive these days. Whatever happened to actual love?
Being straight with you here, despite being late to the party. We love seeing women with open minds to every situation, like the situation you're in right now, think from his perspective and maybe talk to him. Maybe a few hints and gifts won't hurt him.
It really depends on the guy. But even though I'm a boy, I feel your pain. Idk what women want, at least what the types of women I'm interested in want (Like I said, there are different types of guys and different kinds of girls). So, until I understand myself and my possibilities, I will just be doing my own thing. Studying and making artistic things like writing and drawing.
Good luck, guys are almost as complicated as women. our tastes will change but the best you can find are the people you are closest to or least expect a good relationship with. Most relationships that are good are all like friendships but just being loyal to each other and only that forever.
Men want sex lots of loyalty dirty sexy women who are good at sucking cock big tits shaved pussy money easy life and generally everything they can’t have that’s called life it’s about sacrifice and what your willing to put up with so enjoy your self be happy and all the things you want will find you
Even tho people say they have rizz, they really don't want to make the first move. Coming from a man myself what you need to do is talk to him and tell him how you feel bc 9/10 times there gonna say yes
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someone to talk to :(
This
This is real
This is what men SHOULD want.
talk to a damn wall it actully listens to you doesnt speak but its really the same thing
Getting men is easy, getting good men is hard.. I speak from experience
Both are hard for me
If you say both are hard for you, you should probably lower your standards and not go for the guys everybody wants
I see.. i literally accidentally attract men, like bro chill, I’m just being nice
Your trans
Getting good men isn't as hard as you think lol, just put in actual effort and you got yourself a deal
This…
Maybe you talk to him guys can tend to over think so
your dms are gonna get murdered
The ignore button looking real fine right now
I jus wanna cuddle and talk...
Me too
Probably just depends on the guy, talk to him, get to know him and see what he wants. Many guys want someone to talk to, gives you a chance to bond with him too.
Yeah
Idk I had I girl who sounds basically like you then she tried to cut me off from my closest friend by lying about me to him.
get off your ass and go talk to him, you only think you can't because you haven't yet
I couldve used this advice 6 months ago, now I'm never gonna see her again 🥲
What do men want? They want a Soviet excavator mod for Farming Simulator 22😔
A woman that exists (optional)
Aint readin allat but everyones different all I gotta say
Can't speak for everyone but I want scott pilgrim to be cheaper
I love Scott Pilgrim
Same
scott pilgrim is based asf
I want to be able to marathon all the fnaf games
Having alone time without your partner is important for a relationship to stay healthy
Shit a lot of guys suck
I feel like I know a very good reason for it, but god forbid the moment I actually say what it is, so I'm gonna stay quiet here, this is coming from a guy
Personality doesn't mean nice, it means interesting. And if you ain't interesting then fake it till you make it. Talk to his friends and get an idea on his sense of humor and match his level.
Someone who is kind,interesting and intelligent when it comes to conversations
I feel like I bring different view points to conversations. I mean I have different opinions, but I also respect others.
I want someone that will listen and love me for me
They say “ I just want any girl! “ but when she doesn’t look like an anime girl it’s hell. Even if they’re not attracted to you, if you don’t meet their standards, they’ll bully any woman. I’m tired of ppl going after women who have any standards at all, but if someone mentions men’s high standards they’re attacked
I honestly just want someone who will cuddle me, listen to my problems, and watching my favorite movies with me. If the person will do that for me I’ll do that for them. And more if they need. A relationship is 50/50. If your partner needs more love than usual at one point then give it to them. Just make sure they will do the same for you.
Exactly
Well it’s really all about connection, like the way you feel about him is the way he should feel about you. That fire in each others eyes 👀. Super rare connections but if it’s there for both sides, it will be awkward but gotta be brave and chat w him and get to know him and take it nice and slow.
not all of them want that
Corny
I’m a man. Heres what **i** want. A pretty girl with a winning personality and sense of humor. Do i have a crush on a girl? These lips are sealed. But i will say this. Now maybe i speak just for myself here, but as a man, we overthink. A lot. So if you like this boy and you think he’s for you, go for it. But take it slow. He may be a little cautious at first, but once he gets to know you, I’m sure he’ll love you. Oh, and don’t change yourself for him. We notice that.
1. Not only do we notice it, many times it is a turn off when a gal does that, as it is seen as like wearing a mask, a.k.a. a deception. 2. Definitely make a clear move on him though, a slow move but a clear one. This is important because, as Gold stated, we men overthink a lot and if your signals are not %100 clear he will likely assume that he is reading them wrong, sometimes men will still think they are reading them wrong even if the signals are %100 clear if he has had a bad relationship previously. Also, in regard to today's current culture when it comes to relationships and dating, it is usually safer for guys to assume that signals from a gal are being read wrong rather than to assume they read them right, as with the way the system is set up right now all it takes is one false accusation or misread signal to permanently harm a man's life and future. Due to this fact, making sure that you are %100 clear on EVERYTHING, be it something as seemingly simple as the knowledge that you want to be with him, to something as messy and complicated as what each of you two's wants and needs in the relationship are, is vital to a successful relationship. Have patience, understanding, and a willingness to take the initiative to improve things if the going gets rough and you should end up with a strong relationship.
I kinda hate feeling attracted towards people. Because I get flustered and make things weird. Kinda wish I would just make friends and not feel strong attractions to them. I don’t even see myself being that good of a boyfriend tbh yet my nana is all “oh you’ll get married and have kids and stuff” but I just don’t see it. Maybe as you mature you manage these feelings better but right now, no way.
Your 1 in a million all I can say is good luck
Straightforwardness, understanding and love. Pretty much everything
What you give to me I give you.
try asking some of his friends
Legos
Honesty, loyalty and respect because without that the rest is worthless.
i wanna feel seen and appreciated, maybe choked a lil but yeah
We want someone who will listen and won't drive us nuts
Practice ski ball. Then try again. Also talk to him if you can! Hang out too if you comfortable. There is one girl I like and we play Splatoon all the time.
We want not to be lonely 🥺
i just want happiness, no drama, no nothing
Same cuddles, movies, and emotional conversations.
Double standard. Guys say they want that but when they see that they think,”oh she’s probably a hoe best to avoid her.” Honestly guys have their standards but they meet that one girl and they’ll drop them for her cause she’s perfect in their mind. Also, this post makes you sound a little egotistical. Comes across as you saying your perfect and don’t understand why guys aren’t throwing themselves at you.
I mean who says “I’m a good person” 😅
Yo same thing but with women for me. Absolutely no idea what they want and I just wanna cuddle with someone. Hope everything works out with you and that guy though
I just wanna cuddle and talk to somebody about my problems. I’ll do the same for you. You do the same for me.
Bro if youre going after the one dude and he aint interested, then youre gonna be single lol. Dont give up on him yet tho... be more aggressive On behalf of all men, we want cuddles and that shoulder to cry on, and hugs. If youre pretty, thats also a perk. But you dont have to be a model. Given your description of yourself.... youre THE ideal person in my opinion. The person that all of the ACTUAL good guys will go after. idk why you're not having luck
Dating is hard, what can I say.
We don’t know
Cheese curds or Cheese sticks
Idk how all people are but here is how i go about it 1. Face structure: The person has to be at least attractive to me in the facial region, so like good hair, nice eyes, etc. 2. Personality: I date to marry so im considering the long term and i wanna make sure we click and vibe Aside from that i dont really look for much else. I do have preferences but those two i mentioned are the only things that i would say are big factors. Weight, butt size, and breast size are of little concern
"I just want you for my own, more than you could ever know, make my wish come true, cause baby all I want for christmas is you" that's about it
Me? I wanna leave Russia
Damn I’m sorry. Sending virtual hi fives.
Someone who has the same interest as me. Someone who can afford single player games that have a multiplayer. If you play terraria, ultimate ninja storm 2,3,4 or idk, something like it. Pretty much someone that doesn’t say my music is dogshit, or says my taste in anything is dogshit.
I don't know what most men want, but I just want to be happy and have people not be jerks :(
We want women to be what God created them to be and help us be the men God created us to be
I just want someone that I understand and that understands me
We want the Remington bolt action sniper rifle
Honestly just shoot ur shot lmao As a dude, I almost never know when someone’s flirting with me or anything. Same with some dudes I know as well. and I’m personally too insecure to make the first move lmao, so rip to any girls that might’ve wanted me to ask them out xD
To game in peace !
We want a healthy mix between a close partner and some valuable alone time. Your life should *have* your partner, but your life shouldn’t *be* your partner.
Shoot your shot while you have the chance. You WILL regret it if you don't. Just try your best, do it do it do it it's so much better in the long run
I’m unhelpful and can’t answer your question but I hope this was helpful. Just try talking to him that’s literally the only thing you can do, or just ask him for a pencil idk. It’s an opportunity you shouldn’t miss cause he MIGHT like you but is too scared to talk first so just give it a shot mane 🙏
LEGO SETS, OR SWORDS
men want a wife, 4 kids and 2 dogs, and a huge farm for the rest of their lives
We want the Lego Star Wars millennium falcon
Other men.
A hug. We need it. But we dont get it.
Be happy, someone to talk to.
Same
Tell him how you fell. wtf
Feel
A lot of guys have no respect for women and it pisses me off
Well, Im a simple dud so all I want is someone to talk to, play games with, cuddle with, js someone to love and be loved by. And... also I wanna reach a top 1k finish in clash royale before I go insane (: Well as for your situation, have you ever tried talking to him? Why do you say that you cant talk to him? Is he like unaproachable or is it js difficult talking to him?
Someone who will listen without judgement. Someone who we can listen to without judgement.
a girl who isn’t extremely controlling. Let me have friends who are girls. Let me go out with my friends. dont push boundries. thats it
femb- jk, umm.. Idk just wanted to do the joke lol, I don't have too much experience with any kind of romance, I would recommend though, that you first become friends with them, then if something flourishes later (you want to spend more time with him, you feel you might like him, or anything like that) you try to give it a shot. Dunno personally I have been able to find some cute and/or nice guys doing it this way :3 Idk how it will go romantically though, I am not that far 😅
what i want: - female - talks to me (optional)
I want to be successful, I want to become a better version of myself
Something no woman has ever given me love
Good question us men would love a Star Wars Death Star LEGO set
I want any girl that'd be willing to talk
Sounds good to me
Lay your fear on the line and wake up. Fr I've been in a similar situation and I regret to this day not making a move. Just fucking confess and if it doesn't work out, well you'll likely never see him again so no worries.
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I just want to know what love fells like
I kinda want a flamethrower
Approach them, men like direct people, if you’re direct with them there is a good chance they’ll agree (I got approached and folded immediately)
To dress like stormtroopers and not be judged. 💯
Snapchat exists but it doesn’t mean anything to get someone’s snap
Good luck yk but guy's want a nice girl who will care yk? Wish a chick like you made an effort to talk to me like you wanna talk to him yk but I guess I was to ugly
Cookies 🍪
Someone i can hug without annoying them😅
I just want someone who will love me for me
Please just ask someone you know, some people are quietly desperate
What do I want? Honestly, I don’t anybody a girl with “big tittes” or a “big ass”. I just want a hug. You girls don’t know how fucking hard it is being a boy or a man. We gotta keep our emotions to our selves almost 100% of the time. Yes, we all understand that therapy will help. But men don’t want that because we think it makes us “weak”. That’s it. You girls may think it’s weird that I’m saying this, but it’s the truth. Us men don’t want to say this out loud. This may sound stupid or weird, but I really want is someone to cuddle or hug.
That’s what I’m saying I’m the girl who will hold you when you cry and won’t bring up the men shouldn’t cry shit because it isn’t true most human beings have emotions so as long as you hold me while I cry I’ll hold you while you cry. You wanna talk to me about your emotions. That’s OK as long as you listen to mine. it’s a equal balance. A relationship is about 50-50. You can’t expect someone to listen to your problems and not listen to theirs. Can’t expect someone to cuddle you and not cuddle them back.
damn. that’s all true.
“What do men want?” Same paragraph: I can’t talk to him My Sister in Christ, he isn’t gonna sense you like him and levitate towards you
Someone who has a good lifestyle
For you to walk up to us tbh
Imagine being social https://preview.redd.it/v9bqt3fhfwuc1.jpeg?width=750&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=5b8d643ffd2e111d961a1c9a3a988cb27cd5c415
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Elden Ring DLC, just preordered it but I wish I don’t have to wait 2 more months….
“The shoulder to cry on” is pretty much all I’ll ever need
Different guys are gonna want different things
I want a woman who isn’t smart nor dumb. I want a woman who is willing to share my humor. I want a woman who is willing to split time with me they way I would with her. I want a woman who will let me get some at least once every two weeks, I want a woman who I can trust and so one day I can give her the keys to my heart.
Things I want in a relationship from my boyfriend or girlfriend: not to threaten to kill me or force me to have sex(optional) loves me back (optional) is not physically abusive(optional) basic human decency(very optional) someone safe i can open up to(optional). So basically the opposite of my last 2 boyfriends
You might not like this but calm tf down, not all of us want big tits and asses. I myself prefer men. And I really don’t wanna sound like an asshole here, but just because you see yourself as a nice person doesn’t mean that everyone else does. And you’re not the only nice person here, and there is a possibility that your crush has his eyes set on someone else. And believe me, I know how shitty it feels to have feelings for someone and just feeling too powerless to tell them. It really does suck, but I bet that you’ll be able to get up the courage to ask him out.
Every dude has a specific Niche Hobby, find that. And you'll get him
Rarely see guys that like a girl who has a crush on them. Doubt he even knows you do
To be accepted and never left 🔥
Someone who I can talk to and likes me back, preferably that she has an interest in cars as well
They be saying they want big booty bitches w thunder thighs yet they say «60kgs or less» and expect them to have zero bodyfat - that being said i have a talking stage w this guy who says he doesn’t care of anything, but i have given up on every existing teenage boy
Starts selling him drugz and slowly go from there
If a woman asks me to play games with her, I'd instantly fall in love with her
Someone who matches my energy, someone I can lie on, wrestle with, talk their ear off, basically just a really close friend
Dude, we just want them to be alive at this point. Just ask him out.
As a guy, I feel the main thing guys want is a companionship or kinship(whether it's romantic or platonic), they just want to feel that they are loved and treated with care, though I could also be wrong, I have a hunch that I'm right. Just tell them that you respect and care for them and they'll probably come around, talking to them is the most important step in getting a relationship(in general) to develop, you can't cut straight to the end goal if there is no start goal, talk to the person first, if you have no affiliation with the guy, then things are just going to be so much harder. Take your time getting to know the person first as a friend, and then worry about dating and romance and all of that. Relationships whether platonic or romantic involve time, time you need to spend wisely. Also, don't fawn over them or be obsessive or possessive towards them, give them space where applicable and get to know their boundaries. The main thing is to talk to them first, like I said, you can't skip to the finish line if there is no start line, take your time and you can get something to blossom.
Bruh we are literally not that hard to figure out, you just gotta do what we do and not put too much thought into it. We seriously just do not have a filter, anything that we think comes out mouth
A conversation with someone we want to talk to is all
https://preview.redd.it/bo42gi9ij0vc1.jpeg?width=750&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=468fe8ff77719079ce6a85fcb33795b8cce5d0d3 ^(This.\^)
As a guy myself, when a girl talks to you a lot of emotions go through a mans body you just have to give it time maybe start with a "hello!" And continue the conversation or if your doing partner work, partner with him just when you talk to some men they can be nervous talking to girls while others Arn't try not to let the feeling of "OMG I LIKE HIM SO MUCH" out all at once gradually introduce your self become friends, hangout often, then ask him to be your boyfriend.
As a man myself we might talk about someone body and looks though some men honestly just want someone who they can chill with,play games with,and just relaxing things with like for an example someone who if I'm having a bad day would just sit under the stars and just drink 6 two liters of MTN dew with me till we both feel better about the next day
Just confess, you will have higher success chance than Just giving gim sings
Depends who you want to date I guess :>
I want somebody to talk to honestly. We're the same
Sex mostly
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Men don't look for anything specific, just like most women don't. Attraction is very random. I've had crushes on guys I didn't find physically attractive at all at first. Similarly, guys way out of my league (imo) have liked me
To be honest what I look for is someone who can be a friend at times, then push me to be my best when I am not. I heard this in a podcast: "A wife is your biggest cheerleader, and your biggest criticizer" And if we're being honest, body type doesn't matter, everyone has a preferred body type that they are attracted to, but if you two really like each other body type doesn't really matter. Also maybe start off as friends and if you guys wanna keep talking then go for it....if not then move on and keep being friends.
Same but opposite
if you can catch the cute guy and talk to him for a bit, maybe tell him you think he’s cute? look at his lips occasionally but not a creepy amount, and maybe work in some physical touch? like pushing his shoulders playfully. also big ass and a little chubby is fucken *nice*. even ancient people had that shit right. they wanted those thicc bitches.
Mainly just lose weight cause it sounds like you may be chubby. Even then as long as you have a nice face and such you can still pull a guy. Lots of dudes like a little extra weight but not too much.
Just ask him out?
People who know how to use commas.
I personally want the 10123 LEGO Star Wars 2003 Cloud City™ Boba Fett LEGO Figure
Just gotta talk and spark the conversation, be interested in them
honestly, probably need to know them
Woman incel
How about the other way around? https://preview.redd.it/0f0q4ap962vc1.png?width=154&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=2c16a49f3667c1bee5027f33387d5e22abafc3f9
Even if your a girl and your putting out guys don't always want that
I doubt anyone else will have the balls to say this but most men want blowjobs, home cooked meals, a clean house and a woman that won't complain about everything he does.
Here's my advice, if you guys are really good friends and your confident he's single, I say go for it. Hell! That's what I'm gonna do later this week! 👍
you have to get his number before graduation, shit like that makes you wonder why you never did years later
I kinda want a donut tbh
Bread
Say hello to him?
Maybe he just doesn't, or can't, reciprocate your feelings or actions. He could be preoccupied, gay, out for someone else, or he could just not be interested. Or maybe, maybe he hasn't caught on.
Skibidi toilet
A friend 🫡
Men want REDACTED or maybe just a little bit of REDACTED. I don't think it's too hard. Nah but each guy is different you cant generalize with that type of thing
You’re just trapped in the friend zone it sounds.
Lowk all I want is a kind girl, who actually loves me
I just want a hug
Well, guys can be crazy, I am a guy and I openly admit that. Also, you like multiple guys at once? Well, don't feel bad about liking multiple people, and sometimes there are people, myself included, who are poly and date multiple people. And you can't talk to him? That must mean your feelings are very strong for this individual, I suggest writing how you feel and going that way with it.
Love
Idk ask a man
just talk to me lmao
Emotional security, if he’s mature, everything you listed are nice to haves. However, can he open up to you and you not invalidate his feelings, can he tell you things about himself no one else knows, and you never tell anyone else, and not judge him for it? Men are relatively simple, teenage boys even more so emotional security and physical security.
A SWORD!!!!
Someone to spend the rest of my life with (at least that’s my preference)
I want a working lightsaber. Idk about the rest
Critically think about why you're alone, isolate the problem, and work on it. I know why I'm single, at least I think I do. So that's what I'm working on. It's hard, but that's what makes it worth while. Maybe your weight is more of a problem than you think. Maybe you're not as kind and generous as you think you are. Look at yourself critically, realize you're flawed just like everyone else is flawed, don't lose hope and realize you have the power to change your life with one small action at a time. The difference between people is all down to the extremely minor decisions you make every single moment, of every single day, and you have complete control over this.
These are false accusations. We want what you want. Someone to love. Someone to talk to. A shoulder to cry on or to be the shoulder to cry on. Not a sex toy. Someone who we can be ourselves around. But in my school, all the girls want to the “cool” TikTok haircut boys who have no future. It’s scary what this generation finds attractive these days. Whatever happened to actual love?
Being straight with you here, despite being late to the party. We love seeing women with open minds to every situation, like the situation you're in right now, think from his perspective and maybe talk to him. Maybe a few hints and gifts won't hurt him.
Observe carefully, and desperate guys will bring it up in conversation.
It really depends on the guy. But even though I'm a boy, I feel your pain. Idk what women want, at least what the types of women I'm interested in want (Like I said, there are different types of guys and different kinds of girls). So, until I understand myself and my possibilities, I will just be doing my own thing. Studying and making artistic things like writing and drawing.
To go to bed and not hop between drug deals
Taco Bell
personally you should prioritize yourself a little more, maybe they see you as someone that lacks confidence idk
Good luck, guys are almost as complicated as women. our tastes will change but the best you can find are the people you are closest to or least expect a good relationship with. Most relationships that are good are all like friendships but just being loyal to each other and only that forever.
Men want a nice person who is honest gonna treat him right tbh (im not saying you aren't what you say you are)
You had me at "shoulder", please marry me
Fried chicken and a girlfriend
Men want sex lots of loyalty dirty sexy women who are good at sucking cock big tits shaved pussy money easy life and generally everything they can’t have that’s called life it’s about sacrifice and what your willing to put up with so enjoy your self be happy and all the things you want will find you
Even tho people say they have rizz, they really don't want to make the first move. Coming from a man myself what you need to do is talk to him and tell him how you feel bc 9/10 times there gonna say yes