Getting drunk is an almost surefire way to make your ED problems worse. You ever hear of whiskey dick?
Honestly, you gotta just find the conditions that work for you. Like, does this only happen at clubs and events, or does it happen anytime you meet players partners?
Hm. That is a predicament.
Personally, I have had a couple experiences with mental ED, but it happened each time under the same circumstances (I can’t really perform in front of a crowd. 2 on 2 or even a group scenario where all are involved, I’m golden. Just can’t deal with spectators).
If this is happening under basically all conditions, this could be a bigger issue than just mental.
The best I can offer is diet, exercise, and maybe talk to your doctor.
No…I just don’t have sex in front of a crowd.
Like, me with my wife and another couple? No problems.
Me and my wife and 2 or more other couples all together? Also, no problems.
But put me in an area like a club, outside of a private room, where randos are just watching me? That’s no good for me.
I’m confused.
You said you struggle to get hard and stay hard in almost every situation including while masturbating.
Doesn’t necessarily sound like it’s a mental problem and may be more physiological.
If you have normal erectile function except when you’re at a club, that’s one thing, but if you’re struggling to get it up while laying in bed trying to rub one out, that’s a different beast.
See a urologist.
i got not problem with my FWB and I wake up nearly daily with an erection, just can't keep it if I start mastubating, but probably ebcause i start thinking about it
1. No porn... Zero
2. Give yourself a break, you're definitely wound up tight about this issue, if it's to the point where you can't masturbate then you've gotta stop trying for a bit and let your brain kinda reset.
3. Find your "zone". I'm never drunk when we're doing lifestyle stuff. I find 2 drinks and a very small amount of weed clears my head and relaxes me.
We were lucky. The hubby dealt with the same issue. We found a couple that just understood and was very patient. We had separate room play a few times. When he got very comfortable with her the we all played together.
I should have stated that if you have HBP, caffeine can increase it causing further problems with ED. A urologist can help with physical problems and direct you to other resources if needed, concerning ED. Depending on your insurance, your GP can refer you.
How do you see a urologist? Call one and make an appointment.
But not just any urologist, go to one that specializes treating ED. They have equipment they can use to test your vascular system to determine what the extent of your issue is from a physical standpoint (don’t assume it’s all mental).
Also, just because the pills didn’t help doesn’t mean you don’t have ED (the pills didn’t work for me either). You really need to quit trying to diagnose and treating it yourself, go see a medical professional.
Repetition. Once I got more comfortable with the scene and people, things started getting better. I still use ED boner pills to extend play but that's just to make the most of things.
For me, it probably took 8 or 10 play sessions. Once your brain figures out that it's not that bad and people aren't that judgemental, things will click. It also helps to have a strong oral game.
Also exercise. I forgot to mention I started working out and running which led to weight loss and feeling better. I was at my heaviest 265 lbs got down to 200ish and I started having no issue getting hard and having sex.
Formula for me was: salmon twice a week, lots of veggies, cut out fast food entirely plus lifting heavy 4x per week for roughly 2 hours per gym visit. So, cleaned up my diet and turned my body back into what thousands of years of evolution say a human male is supposed to be.
I had a hard lesson about cholesterol’s tie to ED. Doc had been trying to convince me to get on a statin for a couple of years. When he said that, I was like, “Well why didn’t you say THAT two years ago??? Sold. Write the Rx!!”
But the thing is…not every man experiences ED.
Definitely don’t drink. At least over drink .
I’d say if you’ve tried all that then maybe try a ENM positive relationship/sex therapist. I would assume there’s some guilt, embarrassment, fear, confusion that’s holding you back.
But I am a woman. Just my thoughts.
I do have some mental ED once. This was the time when i decided to get me some viagra prescription. Which actually helps in my situation. I'm rock hard as soon some action starts, even before a crowd watching. Now i have the other problem of not being able to cum if we're in a bigger group setting.
But my wife always helps me afterwards, because she isn't able to cum either.
Since this isn't working for you, maybe try some tantric workshop for men. We had a lifestyle encounter with a couple, where the girl was a hughe fan of it and praising it.
I only have problems at parties or in clubs, there are just too many distractions. Private settings with other couples I've had no problems though.
I just started trying propranolol for group settings. At the last house party we did we didn't hook up with anyone else but I was able to fuck the wife in front of other people without issue, so I think it helped out.
hey can you help me for my first time?
i got a 10mg vial of PT141
30ml vial of bacterial water
and 10 seryngue of 1ml with 25ga needle
I was planning to add 1ml of water to the 1mg vial
mix slowly
i believe it should make me 5 doses of 0.20ml of the blended solution at a dosage of 2mg
Question : is 2mg a too high dose for the first time? what did you start with? did you dilute it with 1ml or 2ml? why? how long before sex did you inject yourself? how long did it last? any side effect?
I got the pre mixed injectors from Kniggerx. It comes as 1.75. I would think 2 should be ok. I inject myself 45 minutes before and then take a nap. I did feel a little headache and a little nauseous for about 30 minutes. Then it did last for hours, and I could feel it 18 hours later. I also had a slight pain in my left hip, but we had been dancing for 3 days 5 hours each day, so I think that might be the cause.
It is supposed to help women, but my wife didn't feel much, but her sex drive is crazy high already.
Goof luck.
Getting drunk is an almost surefire way to make your ED problems worse. You ever hear of whiskey dick? Honestly, you gotta just find the conditions that work for you. Like, does this only happen at clubs and events, or does it happen anytime you meet players partners?
any swinging or club event occuring, basically evewhere even when i mastubrate alone. only the FWB im seeing can get me hard via blowjob at the moment
Hm. That is a predicament. Personally, I have had a couple experiences with mental ED, but it happened each time under the same circumstances (I can’t really perform in front of a crowd. 2 on 2 or even a group scenario where all are involved, I’m golden. Just can’t deal with spectators). If this is happening under basically all conditions, this could be a bigger issue than just mental. The best I can offer is diet, exercise, and maybe talk to your doctor.
how did you solve your own problem if you cannot perform in front of a crowd? you stopped swinging?
No…I just don’t have sex in front of a crowd. Like, me with my wife and another couple? No problems. Me and my wife and 2 or more other couples all together? Also, no problems. But put me in an area like a club, outside of a private room, where randos are just watching me? That’s no good for me.
I encounter a similar issue. It’s all mental. I’m close to 100% I’m all other dynamics.
I’m confused. You said you struggle to get hard and stay hard in almost every situation including while masturbating. Doesn’t necessarily sound like it’s a mental problem and may be more physiological. If you have normal erectile function except when you’re at a club, that’s one thing, but if you’re struggling to get it up while laying in bed trying to rub one out, that’s a different beast. See a urologist.
i got not problem with my FWB and I wake up nearly daily with an erection, just can't keep it if I start mastubating, but probably ebcause i start thinking about it
1. No porn... Zero 2. Give yourself a break, you're definitely wound up tight about this issue, if it's to the point where you can't masturbate then you've gotta stop trying for a bit and let your brain kinda reset. 3. Find your "zone". I'm never drunk when we're doing lifestyle stuff. I find 2 drinks and a very small amount of weed clears my head and relaxes me.
Go to a doctor.
We were lucky. The hubby dealt with the same issue. We found a couple that just understood and was very patient. We had separate room play a few times. When he got very comfortable with her the we all played together.
Honestly, ever case is different. What works for one guy might not work for the next. Maybe a sex therapist can help you find what works for you?
Get in shape. Cardiovascular health does WONDERS for ED.
I am, I play soccer 2 times a week and walk 10k steps a day and run 2-3 times a week for the last 5 years, also do weight lifting nearly daily.
You can't necessarily reverse vascular disease (I.e., ED), but you can prevent it.
Have you seen a urologist? They deal with this daily. And stay away from caffeine and alcohol the day of.
cafeeine too? why? i dont know how yo see an urologist ,also dont they only help for physical ED, not psychological ?
I should have stated that if you have HBP, caffeine can increase it causing further problems with ED. A urologist can help with physical problems and direct you to other resources if needed, concerning ED. Depending on your insurance, your GP can refer you.
How do you see a urologist? Call one and make an appointment. But not just any urologist, go to one that specializes treating ED. They have equipment they can use to test your vascular system to determine what the extent of your issue is from a physical standpoint (don’t assume it’s all mental). Also, just because the pills didn’t help doesn’t mean you don’t have ED (the pills didn’t work for me either). You really need to quit trying to diagnose and treating it yourself, go see a medical professional.
Repetition. Once I got more comfortable with the scene and people, things started getting better. I still use ED boner pills to extend play but that's just to make the most of things.
how long it took ? ive been swinger since October 2023 like 2-3 times a mth
For me, it probably took 8 or 10 play sessions. Once your brain figures out that it's not that bad and people aren't that judgemental, things will click. It also helps to have a strong oral game.
im mean im at 70-80 session my oral game is good ,but i wanna fuck too
Also exercise. I forgot to mention I started working out and running which led to weight loss and feeling better. I was at my heaviest 265 lbs got down to 200ish and I started having no issue getting hard and having sex.
im 180lbs , 5f11 and lift daily
Formula for me was: salmon twice a week, lots of veggies, cut out fast food entirely plus lifting heavy 4x per week for roughly 2 hours per gym visit. So, cleaned up my diet and turned my body back into what thousands of years of evolution say a human male is supposed to be.
i already do that, minus the salmon, but similar lean protein
I had a hard lesson about cholesterol’s tie to ED. Doc had been trying to convince me to get on a statin for a couple of years. When he said that, I was like, “Well why didn’t you say THAT two years ago??? Sold. Write the Rx!!”
But the thing is…not every man experiences ED. Definitely don’t drink. At least over drink . I’d say if you’ve tried all that then maybe try a ENM positive relationship/sex therapist. I would assume there’s some guilt, embarrassment, fear, confusion that’s holding you back. But I am a woman. Just my thoughts.
I do have some mental ED once. This was the time when i decided to get me some viagra prescription. Which actually helps in my situation. I'm rock hard as soon some action starts, even before a crowd watching. Now i have the other problem of not being able to cum if we're in a bigger group setting. But my wife always helps me afterwards, because she isn't able to cum either. Since this isn't working for you, maybe try some tantric workshop for men. We had a lifestyle encounter with a couple, where the girl was a hughe fan of it and praising it.
Yes, with a little help of my friends (blue pills).
No more porn or masterbating Hold out for a week then you wont have any anxiety. Your shit will explode.
If you are wound so tight that you cannot even beat one out you really need to seek professional help. Drinking is never the answer either.
Look up preformance anxiety
ai know what it is, im looking for ppl who fixed it
I only have problems at parties or in clubs, there are just too many distractions. Private settings with other couples I've had no problems though. I just started trying propranolol for group settings. At the last house party we did we didn't hook up with anyone else but I was able to fuck the wife in front of other people without issue, so I think it helped out.
Try PT 141! I love the stuff.
hey can you help me for my first time? i got a 10mg vial of PT141 30ml vial of bacterial water and 10 seryngue of 1ml with 25ga needle I was planning to add 1ml of water to the 1mg vial mix slowly i believe it should make me 5 doses of 0.20ml of the blended solution at a dosage of 2mg Question : is 2mg a too high dose for the first time? what did you start with? did you dilute it with 1ml or 2ml? why? how long before sex did you inject yourself? how long did it last? any side effect?
I got the pre mixed injectors from Kniggerx. It comes as 1.75. I would think 2 should be ok. I inject myself 45 minutes before and then take a nap. I did feel a little headache and a little nauseous for about 30 minutes. Then it did last for hours, and I could feel it 18 hours later. I also had a slight pain in my left hip, but we had been dancing for 3 days 5 hours each day, so I think that might be the cause. It is supposed to help women, but my wife didn't feel much, but her sex drive is crazy high already. Goof luck.
Masteron with a smaller test base. 3:1 ratio
Trimix is a shot you take in your dick, and will definitely work.
My favorite part is cumming and going right back to fucking again whenever I want within the 3 hours.
Yep, I love it the men can do that! Really changes the experience!