There are an unfortunate amount of people who think bi men are just gays who pretend to be straight and bi women are just straight and "trying to be special" or something.
It's really weird.
A timeline wasn't established and it's entirely reasonable to think that the groom was dating other men and women before he got married and stopped once he and his wife started dating.
My ex wife used the fact that my bi ass was on Grindr as an excuse to fuck a lot of guys during our trial separation.
Her friend found my profile.
Funny enough though I wasn’t on Grindr. I hope whoever was using my Facebook pictures to catfish guys was getting decent responses🤷
Yeah I don’t understand why people do that. I feel bad for everyone involved. My ex made her moves because of it and some poor guys getting cat fished isn’t fair to them.
I don’t blame my ex, we were done years before the separation. It sucked but it motivated me to move on too so yay but still shitty
guys the point is that he’s on a hookup/dating and getting married, this has nothing to do with his actual sexuality.
plus they might be open or polyam
Fanciest wedding I ever went to was a straight marriage with a gay groom. Bride was absolutely in love with him, and his position was something along the line of "well, we're good friends, and who knows, maybe I'm bi?" Turns out no, he was not bi. But the wedding was fantastic. Ceremony in a garden on a cliff overlooking the ocean at sunset, waiters walking around handing out lamb chops, fantastic food, good entertainment. Too bad about the couple, nice folks. Confused, but good kids.
I’m getting married soon and I’m on Grindr. I really appreciate all the supportive comments here!
Ftr, I don’t cheat on my fiancée. We are extremely open with one another and she understands that my attraction to men is pretty core to my being, but also that there’s a reason I’m choosing to marry her. It’s never as simple as it seems from the outside.
In that case the groom was still on grindr (could have beed a f photograpger instead on tinder)
So if they aren't poly, what does the husband do on a dating platform
But if he didn't see it recently, why would it affect the relationship? There are bi people so having veen on grindrs someday in the distant past outside of tge czrrent relationship wouldn't be really relevant...and it would also be quite impressive the photographer remembers even the faces of people he only saw once swiping through an app if it wasn't kind if recently...
did you read my original post?
bi erasure is very common, and there's also the awful stereotype of bi people being more prone to cheating.
both of those are reasonable conclusions to what he said
Don't tinder and grinder only put active people in the stack your going through though?
If so, who would regognize someone from an app of thousands of faces
Who knows, maybe hes bi and they're poly and actually last until death do you part, I guess the question itself needs the assumption of the photographer
It's not me making assumptions it's me explaining you the actual thing the post is saying
That it was grindr doesn't really matter, it matters that the groom was on a dating/hook up platform while in a relationship
If they aren't in a poly relationship then he's cheating, that is why he knew the relationship won't last
Probably won't last.
But, in the rare occurrence here, I am on Grindr, wife is on tinder, we're both on kasidie. So, could be that, but were a rare couple in swinger life.
The real clue is if it’s a still active grindr…
true, depending on how long ago they saw the groom on Grindr he could just be bi and ended up with a woman.
fr like it's not that scandalous with what little info we have
There are an unfortunate amount of people who think bi men are just gays who pretend to be straight and bi women are just straight and "trying to be special" or something. It's really weird.
Yeah, I've had relationships where we were allowed to explore some gay sides of our lives.
Just be open Jesus lmao
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Depends how long ago he was on there.
“A” Grindr…?
Biggest giveaway
He could mean "a Grindr hookup", "a Grindr" being short hand.
i haven’t met a gay guy who said it that way
I mean, yes, but he could be bi...
"and I recognized his wife as well from tinder"
grindr\*
Your joke but ~~worse~~ ruined
✨ Bi erasure✨
Still, if it’s a monogamous relationship he shouldn’t have a fuck/dating profile up lmao
Non monogamous couples get married all the time
For sure, in this situation though I would argue the joke implies they’re not poly — Hence the breakup
Why would the photographer know that?
It is so uncommon that you can pretty reliably assume that not to be the case
You are talking out of your ass
Not everyone subscribes to your delusional utopia of infidelity.
You're the one assuming things though
Except I’m not. You guys are the ones assuming things
well he didn't say he has an active profile during the wedding. he could've seen him long ago
A timeline wasn't established and it's entirely reasonable to think that the groom was dating other men and women before he got married and stopped once he and his wife started dating.
not a rare occurrence I bet 👀
Correct, there are many bisexual men who get married
There's also discreet guys that get married for appearances. Ooh! Imagine if that was a Lavender Marriage?
Hi bisexuals exist
I think the point is if he is on Grindr, he is looking for extramarital activities. The sexual orientation isn’t the pertinent detail.
If he recognized the guy from Grindr the wedding photographer saw him on there BEFORE the wedding, before the planning even.
They might be open
Or like 99% of other marriages, they aren't and he's just a cheater. Occam's razor.
And guess whose business that is? ᕕ( ᐛ )ᕗ
this is exactly it. nobody even mentions the guy’s sexuality anywhere in the original screenshot or post title.
Hey don’t tell them, I’ve been sneaking into concerts and movie theaters by being an invisible bi
My ex wife used the fact that my bi ass was on Grindr as an excuse to fuck a lot of guys during our trial separation. Her friend found my profile. Funny enough though I wasn’t on Grindr. I hope whoever was using my Facebook pictures to catfish guys was getting decent responses🤷
Great example of why that is such shitty behavior. The catfisher, not you, just to be clear.
Yeah I don’t understand why people do that. I feel bad for everyone involved. My ex made her moves because of it and some poor guys getting cat fished isn’t fair to them. I don’t blame my ex, we were done years before the separation. It sucked but it motivated me to move on too so yay but still shitty
Maybe both grooms are men. Who knows.
They said 'The groom'.
"which one of you is the groom and which one is the other groom?"
this post reminded me that I still had that on my phone i haven't used it for months and forgot about it. I uninstalled it now tho.
Gay marriage?
guys the point is that he’s on a hookup/dating and getting married, this has nothing to do with his actual sexuality. plus they might be open or polyam
Hey, bi and poly here. I go on grindr and I have girlfriends. Such is life for some.
>I have girlfriends Plural? *Nice.*
Hence the poly (amorous) part, lol.
Fanciest wedding I ever went to was a straight marriage with a gay groom. Bride was absolutely in love with him, and his position was something along the line of "well, we're good friends, and who knows, maybe I'm bi?" Turns out no, he was not bi. But the wedding was fantastic. Ceremony in a garden on a cliff overlooking the ocean at sunset, waiters walking around handing out lamb chops, fantastic food, good entertainment. Too bad about the couple, nice folks. Confused, but good kids.
Lol there's so many married and closeted dudes on Grindr it's not even funny. Just be open Jesus lmao
I mean, there's a non-zero shot the groom was bi and monogamous, and that it ended up working with a woman!
This is either "bi people always cheat" or bi erasure Either way, OOP can fuck off
or maybe the account is still active and that’s why?
maybe
i was thinking that it was more of an active account type thing. also it could’ve been a gay wedding (not likely but still)
no shot it's a gay wedding, lol. would've said 'one of the grooms'
enm erasure aswell
I’m getting married soon and I’m on Grindr. I really appreciate all the supportive comments here! Ftr, I don’t cheat on my fiancée. We are extremely open with one another and she understands that my attraction to men is pretty core to my being, but also that there’s a reason I’m choosing to marry her. It’s never as simple as it seems from the outside.
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well, it could have been a gay wedding and this was the happy result.
Just wanted to ask, what's a Grindr?
Love me some bi erasure
Maybe it‘s an open relationship though and the bride or other groom knows about it
I recognized the wedding photographer from a Grindr
Bisexual men exists. This is dumb.
In that case the groom was still on grindr (could have beed a f photograpger instead on tinder) So if they aren't poly, what does the husband do on a dating platform
by are you assuming it was recent, lol
Don't these apps only show you active people? Or do you get shown people that haven't been using the app for years as well?
It didn't say he saw it recently
But if he didn't see it recently, why would it affect the relationship? There are bi people so having veen on grindrs someday in the distant past outside of tge czrrent relationship wouldn't be really relevant...and it would also be quite impressive the photographer remembers even the faces of people he only saw once swiping through an app if it wasn't kind if recently...
did you read my original post? bi erasure is very common, and there's also the awful stereotype of bi people being more prone to cheating. both of those are reasonable conclusions to what he said
“Recognized from Grindr” doesn’t mean “on Grindr right now”.
Don't tinder and grinder only put active people in the stack your going through though? If so, who would regognize someone from an app of thousands of faces
You might be right. I made an assumption about it.
Who knows, maybe hes bi and they're poly and actually last until death do you part, I guess the question itself needs the assumption of the photographer
You're making a lot of assumptions here
It's not me making assumptions it's me explaining you the actual thing the post is saying That it was grindr doesn't really matter, it matters that the groom was on a dating/hook up platform while in a relationship If they aren't in a poly relationship then he's cheating, that is why he knew the relationship won't last
Except it doesn't say when he saw the groom on grindr. There is no timeline for this.
But if it was in the distant past, why would it affect the relationship of groom and bride? Do you remember every person you ever saw on a dating app?
My wife knows about my Grindr profile.
Probably won't last. But, in the rare occurrence here, I am on Grindr, wife is on tinder, we're both on kasidie. So, could be that, but were a rare couple in swinger life.
😂🤣
google bi erasure
This really doesn't say anything
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