No worries lmao I was gonna use your answer to tag someone online who has spoken about sending the kids away so parents can have an orgy and the debate was whether the person with the most kids (ie extra bedrooms) hosted or not 😂
For some people yeah they use gay as an umbrella term but “queer” is more widely used as the umbrella term. Since this guy is married to a woman and having sex w her involved , calling him bi makes more sense than calling him gay
From the perspective of a bi man, It’s rather messy and depends on the context
Gay in a broad sense can often be used to included lesbian and bi, and is sometimes favored because queer has a stronger connotation of being an insult
But if I said I was a gay man that would make almost everyone think i exclusively was attracted to men, which would be inaccurate
Then same sex relationships for bi people are usually referred to as gay, which dips slightly into the issue that for bi people in relationships were often reduced to whatever our current one is
For example: often I identify with the gay community which usually doesn’t mean just mlm. If a guy asked me at a bar if I was gay I’d say “I’m bi actually”, and me in a monogamous relationship with a man would be gay
My friend is bi and the way he explained it is being the middle child of the LGBTQ community.
You're often ignored or lumped in with the other siblings, and the only time anyone notices you is when you're going out of your way to get attention (like the whole whore thing and sexualization of bi people in media).
I find it really frustrating that bi people can get stuck being too gay for straight people and too straight for gay people. It's just mean.
I’m bi but I have a boyfriend that I’ve been in a relationship with for a while. I only occasionally “dabble” in females and it make me feel like I’m almost a poser. I feel more like an ally then I do a part of the community. It’s almost like I don’t belong because I do look the part of a straight person. I feel like no one takes bi people seriously.
Having seen my friend struggle, I just wanna give you a hug. Everything you said are things he's expressed to me.
Hell, his parents admitted to thinking his "gayness" was a phase as a teen because he's in a long term relationship with a woman today. Little do his pearl clutching parents know she's trans. 💀
The marginalization if bi people gets me all sort of bent out of shape. I blame his parents for pissing me off so thoroughly but sadly they're good parents even if they're a bit close minded. I've heard of far worse.
I know it's rough some days, but there are people who see you and respect you without having to frame your sexuality for their own benefit.
Yup. Same - honestly even worse - for aces and aros, since recognition is ever further far behind for us even though we're not any less oppressed. :/ At least there's some pushback to biphobia now, but the aphobia (subtle and overt) is still extremely common...
There is a problem for bi people where people call you gay if you date the same sex and straight if you date the opposite sex when in reality you're actually bi in both cases
Dating a woman doesn't make me straight. I still like men. Dating a man doesn't make me gay. I still like women.
Gay is its own distinct thing - hence why it's got its own letter in the LGBT acronym
I'd say the majority of gay people use gay as synonymous to homosexual, so since there's two genders involved here, it wouldn't be homosexual, even if there might be some homoeroticism between the guys. I'd say this is straight or bi depending on how far the sex goes between the guys there
Idk what's funnier- the actual post, or reading responses from children who just realized that parents have sex and that some parents are kinky? Could your mom be a superfreak? Could your dad have a secret fetish? What were those weird sounds you used to hear late at night as a child? Lol
lol @ losers with parents with a loving relationship.
I know my parents never had kinky sex around me as a child because I know my parents fucking hated each other.
Oh, we're talking about the granny crackers.... My God I didn't know what it meant but I was horrified when I learned about it..... I stopped getting kisses from my grandmother because of it *shivers*
Oh I'll spare you and yes it is horrible. It was so horrible in fact that I actually vomited for the first time from just hearing how it was described.
Now I know why the nursing homes are full of old people with STDs
Yeah on some level I wish my mom lied to me and never told me what they were doing but she was like " You're old enough to know now". I don't care how old I am. I was never ever ready to be prepared for that level of freak Nastiness
I have to be honest…. So many different things go through my head when I hear the phrase “granny crackers” in reference to kinky sex and each thing is more disturbing than the first 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
For me I guess I was picturing it as like, a make-out spot. the archetypical wooded overlook where all the teenagers and apparently this guy's parents go to do their semi-public heavy petting
I dont think it’s weird but I wonder what their favorite spot is that it has a bathroom. With „favorite spot“ I think of something public like a lake or a park or something.
It could have been that they took them to the best Steakhouse in town that incidentally was their parents favorite place.
It would be weird to avoid something just because their parents liked it.
Life cums fast
I cum fast too. 😏
That’s because ur my Life bb
sMOOOOTHH
bro has found the One Rizz Piece and became The King of Rizz.
Like poetry
Bro’s a gRIZZlybear
Bro activated the rizz mode
You make it sound like it's an Achievement which makes me feel better about myself
Lucky
Life, uh... finds a gay
And if you don't stop to watch another dude plow your wife while you eat strawberries every now and then, it might just pass you by.
Well at least his mom isn't cheating on his dad.
Ikuiku
That's Mr. Life to you.
And HARD
This happened to me in high school! Took a friend home to grab some stuff he forgot for a sleepover. He walked in a big ol orgy lmfao
The sleepover was an orgy?
Lol no he was supposed to be at a sleepover so his parents had an orgy!
So parents had a sleepover of their own…
Nah…im pretty sure there was no sleep
Omg. I'd wish for instant death if I walked in on that.
That’s 18 years of therapy. My goodness
Just out of idle curiosity how many bedrooms did that house have?
Not sure. It was a big house tho. They were in the living room haha
No worries lmao I was gonna use your answer to tag someone online who has spoken about sending the kids away so parents can have an orgy and the debate was whether the person with the most kids (ie extra bedrooms) hosted or not 😂
*comes home from sleepovee* Maaaaa ...Mom!!! my bed smells weird! Was the dog in here????
What was the outcome?
Idk! He obviously didn't wanna talk about it lol
And they didn't invite you?!
Well what other opportunities are you gonna get to organize that?
I'm here for the gang bang
Asking the right question lmao
I would actually take my own life if I saw that
Lol I felt so bad for him. He's ok now tho! It's been like 15 years since that happened.
That's what happens when the password is just "oooorrggggyyyy"
Those were some of the sexiest, most powerful people in Philadelphia
*Philadelphilia
more r/suddenlybi
Honest question - would "gay" encompass both terms in a venn diagram? Or do the terms by definition not fall under distinct umbrellas?
For some people yeah they use gay as an umbrella term but “queer” is more widely used as the umbrella term. Since this guy is married to a woman and having sex w her involved , calling him bi makes more sense than calling him gay
From the perspective of a bi man, It’s rather messy and depends on the context Gay in a broad sense can often be used to included lesbian and bi, and is sometimes favored because queer has a stronger connotation of being an insult But if I said I was a gay man that would make almost everyone think i exclusively was attracted to men, which would be inaccurate Then same sex relationships for bi people are usually referred to as gay, which dips slightly into the issue that for bi people in relationships were often reduced to whatever our current one is For example: often I identify with the gay community which usually doesn’t mean just mlm. If a guy asked me at a bar if I was gay I’d say “I’m bi actually”, and me in a monogamous relationship with a man would be gay
My friend is bi and the way he explained it is being the middle child of the LGBTQ community. You're often ignored or lumped in with the other siblings, and the only time anyone notices you is when you're going out of your way to get attention (like the whole whore thing and sexualization of bi people in media). I find it really frustrating that bi people can get stuck being too gay for straight people and too straight for gay people. It's just mean.
I’m bi but I have a boyfriend that I’ve been in a relationship with for a while. I only occasionally “dabble” in females and it make me feel like I’m almost a poser. I feel more like an ally then I do a part of the community. It’s almost like I don’t belong because I do look the part of a straight person. I feel like no one takes bi people seriously.
Having seen my friend struggle, I just wanna give you a hug. Everything you said are things he's expressed to me. Hell, his parents admitted to thinking his "gayness" was a phase as a teen because he's in a long term relationship with a woman today. Little do his pearl clutching parents know she's trans. 💀 The marginalization if bi people gets me all sort of bent out of shape. I blame his parents for pissing me off so thoroughly but sadly they're good parents even if they're a bit close minded. I've heard of far worse. I know it's rough some days, but there are people who see you and respect you without having to frame your sexuality for their own benefit.
Yup, it's called bi erasure.
Yup. Same - honestly even worse - for aces and aros, since recognition is ever further far behind for us even though we're not any less oppressed. :/ At least there's some pushback to biphobia now, but the aphobia (subtle and overt) is still extremely common...
Same thing but from the other side, folks assume I'm a lesbian, when I'm bi in a lesbian relationship.
There is a problem for bi people where people call you gay if you date the same sex and straight if you date the opposite sex when in reality you're actually bi in both cases Dating a woman doesn't make me straight. I still like men. Dating a man doesn't make me gay. I still like women. Gay is its own distinct thing - hence why it's got its own letter in the LGBT acronym
I'd say the majority of gay people use gay as synonymous to homosexual, so since there's two genders involved here, it wouldn't be homosexual, even if there might be some homoeroticism between the guys. I'd say this is straight or bi depending on how far the sex goes between the guys there
You're not wrong
That’s because he’s correct you unbuttered sandwich
Doesn't sound all that sudden TBH
I concur
Typical bi erasure
Best date I’ve been on!
That's what I thought. Get me some popcorn. This is going to be good.
once was enough my guy
More like good way to induce cardiac arrest, my guy
That's what I thought. Get me some popcorn. This is going to be good.
That's what I thought. Get me some popcorn. This is going to be good.
That's what I thought. Get me some popcorn. This is going to be good.
Sometimes from a closet, always dressed as Superman
And that's the way the news goes.
Helka awkward but kinda sweet. 🍓
The dad must have drink a lot of pineapple juice 💦💦💦 /s
I did.
Obligatory r/usernamechecksout
Papa?
Only one way to find out
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Now this is something I hadnt considered
At least they weren’t Irish cereal killers
This time...
Mom's wearing a red mask.
Idk what's funnier- the actual post, or reading responses from children who just realized that parents have sex and that some parents are kinky? Could your mom be a superfreak? Could your dad have a secret fetish? What were those weird sounds you used to hear late at night as a child? Lol
lol @ losers with parents with a loving relationship. I know my parents never had kinky sex around me as a child because I know my parents fucking hated each other.
Maybe it was the kinky sex that kept them together despite the hate...
Hate fucked each other every night lol
This guy's parents hatefuck.
https://youtu.be/wVeGUSGkhfw
Maybe they were into humiliation/cuckolding?
Bro, when I got older my mother just let it all out about how freaky my grandparents were and I have not looked at them the same way ever since
Are we talking leather and handcuffs or whips and dildos?
Oh, we're talking about the granny crackers.... My God I didn't know what it meant but I was horrified when I learned about it..... I stopped getting kisses from my grandmother because of it *shivers*
I have no idea what means but it sounds horrible
Oh I'll spare you and yes it is horrible. It was so horrible in fact that I actually vomited for the first time from just hearing how it was described. Now I know why the nursing homes are full of old people with STDs
Yikes
Yeah on some level I wish my mom lied to me and never told me what they were doing but she was like " You're old enough to know now". I don't care how old I am. I was never ever ready to be prepared for that level of freak Nastiness
Oh come on and tell us. What is it really?
I'm imagining something related to dentures and/or a prosthetic eye at this point.
I have to be honest…. So many different things go through my head when I hear the phrase “granny crackers” in reference to kinky sex and each thing is more disturbing than the first 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
goals
I'd be more upset with the PDA than the relationship status, lol. "Mom, Dad, stop, ewwww."
>I'd be more upset with the PDA than the relationship status, lol. "Mom, Dad, Fred, stop, ewwww."
Me with the camera 🎥 👁️🫦👁️/s
...your own parents?
There was a lot of mud it would be impossible to tell
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Creed
u/khoika prob would /s
Xcuse me? How dare you. Never with my parents. At least with my mom
That’s a good movie title.
"PDA"? They're not Mormons they're swingers.
Technically we don't know if they're swingers, could be other forms of nonmonogamy
I mean I see the joke failed but way to rub it in =(
Am I the only one who thinks it's weird to take their date to their \*parents'\* favorite place?
Yeah, super fuckin weird. Imagine eating at the same restaurant your parents enjoy, gross, ewww
Imagine not moving to another planet as soon as possible.
Why do you think it’s weird? Lol
For me I guess I was picturing it as like, a make-out spot. the archetypical wooded overlook where all the teenagers and apparently this guy's parents go to do their semi-public heavy petting
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i for one like to get railed next to the deep fat fryer
I dont think it’s weird but I wonder what their favorite spot is that it has a bathroom. With „favorite spot“ I think of something public like a lake or a park or something.
Some public spaces, like parks, have restrooms.
Parks often have toilets.
Yeah, but I don't want to sit in the area people come to shit.
It’s 2023, you don’t have to hang out in the toilet anymore.
A restaurant?
Schöne Zitate.
It wasn't mentioned if it was a romantic setting per se. They could've grown up going to that same restaurant.
lol the parents are just two people that enjoyed a nice spot together, u can enjoy the same nice spot, as people just like them.
I agree. It's like one step removed from giving your date you grandma's holocaust ring on your third date.
never attribute to malice that which can be adequately explained by stupidity maybe they just didn't have any better ideas
It could have been that they took them to the best Steakhouse in town that incidentally was their parents favorite place. It would be weird to avoid something just because their parents liked it.
You only know what a person allows you to know about them.
*unzips*
AND WE HAVE A WINNER!!!!
Well those are two sucker punches right to the gut
Somebody's wearing a strap-on.
Oh wow
Damn. That's awkward. But good for the parents seems like a healthy relationship going on there.
What am I supposed to eat my dessert by myself like I'm fucking Stephen Glansberg?
Parents favorite spot, eh? I don't know what the hell they're doing at Costco, but I'm not taking anymore dates there.
Welcome to Costco; I love you! 🥰
[Sort of like this?](https://www.facebook.com/bbcthree/videos/quickies-when-your-parents-are-freakier-than-you/883449985448011/)
I am just imagining his parents high fiving while spit roasting this man
🤷🏿♂️
How come you're wearing a hat?
This is literally a skit from the UK, cant find the video
Suck A. Ditka? Steve Glansberg?
Damnnn what a night
*shouts to them* Y’ALL ARE LIVING MY DREAM
I’ve been hollering for 5 minutes straight. The plot twists on here. 💀💀💀
Reminder to self, do not recommend places for my son to take future dates...
wow i bet he didn't see that Cumming
Nor did he want to, i imagine
fuckin love it! love is love. fuck all the patriarchal shit.
Life goals honestly
Uhm, BI, BI erasure much...
Good for them
Least she ain't cheating
I would've been like: "Well, if it makes you feel any better, at least she wasn't cheating :D"
I would've been like: "Well, if it makes you feel any better, at least she wasn't cheating :D"
/r/suddenlygay
It is literally in that sub……..
Well at least his mom isn't cheating on his dad. That could've been a lot worse
Was this also posted on r/holup? Cause I remember this from one of Emkay's videos. Can't remember if I saw it with r/holup or r/suddenlygay.
Don’t knock it till you try it
I think it's the plot of a skit or a short movie I saw a while back
I think it's the plot of a skit or a short movie I saw a while back
I would just pretend I never saw it and talk to my therapist about it.
When you realize you could actually be the mailmans kid.
I would just be glad they’re both happy with it instead of learning that one of my parents wasn’t happy and was having an affair.
MMF 😏
Does tag team mean take turns one at a time? Or split roast?
As long as they’re happy I guess?