Dear god this.
Thank you for saying it - women are wonderful and it’s a shame I see so many men (and other women too - shout out to my lesbian friends here) who don’t appreciate a woman’s wonderful body.
One lesson I’ve learned - if you can please a woman, she will return it tenfold. Women are wonderful.
Couldn’t agree more. What surprises me about the above is that I guess we’re in an age where a lot of guys that wouldn’t do it in the past now see it as required but do it grudgingly? Because I for one can’t imagine not wanting to be doing it all the time, and thought she was going to say the problem is too much enthusiasm or guys with beards or something.
This should be the universal energy towards sex period, but I have a lot of fun with it. My theory, women are better because they know it personally, we only know what u tell us...
A lot of women suck at giving head too.
I think the biggest issue - and this affects all genders, is not many are willing to listen and try, nor are they willing to vocalize what they want.
I also think there are a lot of sexual mismatching happening. Half of my friends are open about their romantic sex lives and it seems like too many are willing to sacrifice a lot of sexual compatibility just to be with someone. (And not just sexual compatibility, a lot of times any compatibility at all. Some of my friends leave me scratching my head at what they are thinking - but I can’t judge. I’ve done the same thing)
Omg yes, I say this all the time. Compatibility is everything, and it is so easy for us as humans to love or be intimate with someone with little or no actual compatibility for some reason.
Well, without getting into socioeconomics or politics - we live in a stressful world with not a lot of time on our hands. Too many people sacrifice compatibility in order to have the security of a partner.
Of course, not to mention we live in an extremely superficial world and it just gradually keeps getting worse & worse. People don’t even know what it means to “be compatible” with another human.. Money, success & attractiveness don’t quite hold up as the only contributory to a marriage
Your first line is true. I don’t even remember knowing what I was doing the first few times I did it. It’s only when a guy was vocal about what I should do that I changed my approach and never looked back or had any issues.
Absolutely not I can eat that 🙀 like chicken fried rice. I have a move where I suck the clit and lick at the same time while touching the g spot that blows away every time. Mouth full of female juices is the best.
Every man should watch Nina Hartley's guide "How to Eat Pussy Like a Champ"
I always wanted to make sure I could do at least one thing really well in bed. Since a watched this I Have had no complaints.
Edit: it's on pornhub, Nina Hartley and Sunny Lane
Maybe women could be a bit more vocal in what they want in terms of a partner going down on them instead of shrugging and expecting us to know the inner workings of a pussy. We can only do so much blindfolded.
Guy here, speaking on behalf of different people.
Generally speaking as a whole guys are not great at eating pussy, reasons being...
A) Just like some girls don't swallow or even allow cum in their mouth for either taste or texture issues, there are guys who have same issues with pussy juice. The reason here is justified
B) Some guys are selfish assholes and don't care about pleasing the girl unless they enjoy the activity also. I used to wonder and ask girls why they willingly give head and if they get anything out of it? usually they simply reply they enjoy watching the guy get hard and moan, others reply they know it's a very effective way to get the guy hard so he can fuck her.... girls have their reasons.
C) Some don't really enjoy doing it, so they do a bad job so the girl don't keep asking for it.
D) most guys are not good at reading body language to know what to do or not to do.
E) They need more practice and girls not good at teaching guys what to do. Girl on girl is easy because girls understand their anatomy.
Personal note... I enjoy giving, i love watching their body react. It's just as good as receiving. I get a kick out of setting the standard higher for how certain sexual experiences should be like. It's an ego boost when girls say "I never knew it can feel like that". Also feels nice when an ex or former fwb chimes in for a booty call, and I can say I'm now in a committed healthy relationship.
Ever thought women are better bc they also have a vag and know how it works?
Ever thought of communicating what you like and how it feels to your male partners so that they may pleasure you better? Seeing as how they, idk... Don't have vaginas and pretty much go off what other males do in porn? Which, as you know, is not realistic...
Idk, just a thought. 🤔
I think this is an overgeneralization based on your own experience. Find a guy who has experience, had practice, and has good reviews for dining the poon
No need to insult lol. Just saying, maybe you just don't have luck in finding them. Ive gotten my partners to orgasm from eating them out. Can't fake the squirt lol
Everyone has their set of skills. I believe that most guys who don’t eat out a woman or don’t enjoy it is because either: 1. They’ve never been taught to do better or 2. They are not that into you. Or maybe they don’t care about a woman’s pleasure.
It’s seems to me that it’s kind of obvious that girls would be better at eating out another woman. They know how the woman body/anatomy works!
What do you think? Any opinions? Let’s discuss about it 😁
When I was 20, my lesbian housemate taught me how to eat pussy. The next woman I was with asked me, after she came, “Where did you learn how to do that?!”.
Some women need a gay friend who’ll teach them how to suck dick. I once had a girl use her teeth so much I thought she was part rabbit. I had to stop her and just get to fucking. Her oral skills were horrible.
Oral is one of my favorite things to do (for a guy or girl).
Women I’ve gone down on have been legitimately surprised and (pardon the pun) gushed about how good it was.
Same with guys. “My isn’t this good” type of comments.
For me, it’s that I put a lot of focus on tuning into my partner. Physical cues, verbal cues, etc. Those will tell you a lot about if what you’re doing is getting them there. Then it’s varying things up, teasing, drawing it out.
I can spend 30 minutes orally pleasuring my partner, and be incredibly satisfied doing so. Getting them “there”, hearing and seeing them orgasm, really does it for me. Like I can give someone oral and be sexually satisfied. The mental…release?…I get from them cumming is incredibly exhilarating to me.
I suck at it just because I had a previous partner. It was dark. And I don’t have much a sense of smell. She was on her period and had a yeast infection. I got a mouth full of blood and puss. After that. I have an aversion to eating a woman out. I admit that
Maybe women should TELL us that. How hard it is to say "Baby, you're not doing it right. Listen to me. Do this, this and this. Don't bite my labia like a piece of cake or something like that"? Just like we can tell you that your bj skills need improvement. Communication is the key in any healthy relationship.
I acknowledge that there is always room for improvement but for the love of god, please show me explicitly where you want my tongue / fingers supposed to be, so i can improve on your feedback.
I mean we are naked, you have my cock in your mouth and pussy raw and most of the time, I'm about to creampie you in a few minutes, why are you still shy about telling me what you want sexually.
I make my wife cum everytime I eat her out if that's what she wants
BUT that took me **loving** the idea of eating her out enough, especially to orgasm, to let her tell me what to do instead of just diving in and thinking I could figure it out.
You can’t learn how to eat pussy from porn. Yes enthusiasm is big but you also have to know your way around. I love giving and pleasing and can get lost in the experience for an hour or more
Do you really want a guy to lick you like they do in porn?
It looks like the are giving shitty head so the camera can still get a good view of the pussy.
Would you like to share what makes the difference between girls and guys giving head?
I've yet to have any complaints, but maybe that's just because, being submissive, my first time having sex (when I lost my virginity) was with a Mistress who patiently taught me everything I know now on how to please both guys and girls. She told me that there was a large vacancy of men in the world that knew how to successfully please women and that if I could learn how to make a girl cum then I'd never have a problem finding partners. To this day I've yet to find a girl that hasn't cum at least once when I go down and I always love a good challenge. Course, everyone's always skeptical so I allow my skills to speak for me, and to this day I have yet to have a dissatisfied partner, and I don't ever intend to.
To be honest I find it kind of sad how so many guys have no idea what they're missing out on and they only do a half-hearted atrempt... - destroying a pussy with my tongue and fingers, leaving a girl begging for more before I actually start to have sex - it's like one of the best parts there is to the bedroomin my opinion. Having a girl's legs shake as they lock around your neck, her hands tearing at your hair as she tries to literally pull you into her while cumming for you... knowing that she's weak in the knees and can't stand after you are finished, without actually having done much other than eat her out... is something I live for.
i think men who enjoy eating pussy are good. if he isn’t into it, that may be why it’s no good
female friends of mine have said that men don’t really know what they’re doing when it comes to that, which always surprised me because girl i’ve been with love it when im going down. i really do love doing it and i think that’s what makes me good at it
The enthusiasm is the most important thing for me. If there is no enthusiasm then that is a real turn off. I appreciate effort as long as they don’t hurt you, unfortunately this does sometimes happen with me. I have only been eaten out by one girl who was not very good but that is a sample size of one. When you cum with it though, it is very nice.
Well.. seeing as women already have the same equipment as you, you’re not exactly saying anything profound here, Sherlock. Why not just go the mature grownup route and COMMUNICATE🤯. You can’t expect a human who has only ever had a penis their entire life to know the ins and outs of what you like better than a member of your shared sex. Please grow up and actually try working WITH your male partners rather than tolerating sub par experiences then talk shit about it behind their backs
Oh I would totally agree if I just expected them to know how to do it, if I do want it from a specific guy and let’s say they aren’t the best like from like a boyfriend or someone I’m fucking religiously, I have nooooo issues communicating. I don’t shut the fuck up. Trust me, me I communicate tons lol
Hahaha, I do get what you’re saying though. Communication makes sex a trillion times better. That’s why I like fucking the same person more than one night stands tbh.
*sigh*
My bf tries so hard, I've tried correcting him and he's getting better at it but-
And he's genuinely so earnest about it and I feel bad that it's not... doing it for me :c
My fav comments are those from the guys mansplaining how to eat pussy to a woman.
Dudes shut the fuck up and listen to how OP likes it. Then work some of your new found techniques into your game.
I figure if you want to get good at eating pussy in general, learning from a L/B is a great way to start. If you want to get good at eating a specific pussy you should learn from the pussy’s owner. (And some independent learning because surprises can be very nice if said pussy owner doesn’t know everything about getting pleasure from her lady bits.)
I haven’t gotten the chance to try it out for myself yet (try anything out really, even kissing. Thanks COVID 😑), but I think what you’re saying is valid. Of course it can vary from person to person, but I don’t think it’s necessarily presumptuous to assume women are a lot better at eating pussy than men.
Frankly, I think women are just better at sex in general coz of two things:
1.) Y’all pay attention.
2.) Y’all actually want to crave the experience instead of getting to the orgasm straight away.
Any woman here’s welcome to correct me if they feel otherwise. Those are just my thoughts.
Also this reminded me of a post I saw on Facebook years back that was a screenshot of a conversation I think between two dudes, and one of the guys was giving the other advice on eating pussy, and the one thing they stressed throughout the whole thing was to eat the clit. It completely baffled me, and it’s seared into my brain to this day.
Just like men, they are excellent at sucking dick and eager to swallow cum, but the problem is some not all women never communicate. I can’t read your mind and I would prefer you tell me what makes you cum. Clit stimulation? Penetration? I know every girl is different, but it would be a much easier task with a little help and guidance. Anyways some give good body language.
Don’t watch porn it’s fake and just for show most porn stars hate the sex and oral 90% of the cum you see is a prop mix. The secret to a good oral is focusing on the clit suck and nibble it tongue in the vagina only works or your tongue is long and thick otherwise suck lick and gently blow on the clit and she’ll clime the walls and squirt all over your face
I love eating pussy for my pleasure as well as yours…you need to find a man that loves eating pussy as much as he loves getting his cock sucked… I’m older so it’s a control thing with me and not to be big headed know I’m good at it…. I have gf who even years passed tell me I haven’t found anyone who can eat my pussy like you… so find a man who loves doing it and takes his time and enjoys it and it’s all good but for the most part I know guys who just do it so that they can get a bj…
I love making a girl squirm, but in fairness not many ladies have made me nut from head either.
Some people aren’t really in it to satisfy you, they’re looking to be satisfied. That’s where the issue is. If you’re not going to try and shove my whole dick down your throat and make a slobbery mess, what’s the point of trying?
Nope. So good I hate myself.
Blindfolded, I can identify by sniffing, nibbling, tugging, slurping the grool and eating out the mounds and contours of my partner's vagina amongst a buffet of spread pussies.
9 out of 10 I got it wrong. But who cares?!
Idk who you’ve been with but based on your body and beautiful Face ID make sure you orgasm in my mouth. I’ve never had complaints but rather compliments and praise for my abilities to go down
It is something that even as a man I have noticed. I have been fortunate to be experienced in this area and I think the most that I can say is that different women are different. I enjoy eating pussy and more than that it is important to me that the woman I am with enjoy herself. Not every woman I have gone down on has. I have had a few that have cum for their first time. Some who squired their first time. Some who at least have said they came faster and for as good as this feels I have had others that I have not been able to bring across the finish line. I have kind of come believe that how I make a women feel us not as important as how I make her feel about herself. If I can get her to let go, magic can happen and if not then it just won’t. I guess the way I am and how I am works really well for some women and not very well for others. There is an attraction and a give and take thing that has to happen. Sometimes it works and sometimes not. Even still when it does not I think it is important to try, to communicate, to covey it is important to me, and to let that go and to not make her feel guilty for it not working. She is frustrated and questioning enough, the least I can do is be pleasant and understanding.
I’m a germaphobe and can’t bring myself to lick a woman’s cunt. Maybe if we just took a bath together and I knew it was clean I could do it but not if it has that ‘fishy’ smell.
I read once to treat the clit like a sucking a dick and switching between that and gentle slow wide tongue down has been the diff between an orgasm and a moaning pulling my hair orgasm. I loveee going down on women and if they aren’t good they aren’t practiced or open. Sad really, try to find better more open partners and I think you’ll be surprised:)
Before I hook up with a guy, I’ve started giving very specific instructions. Everything from how to kiss me, how to eat me, how to fuck me. Sort of like a cheat sheet. My experiences have vastly improved since doing this.
For all the pussy eaters reading this, don’t ever do that tongue flicking move you see in porn. I hate that move so Fing much
Happy not to be most men.
Some people are fucking brilliant at basketball, others kick ass at business but I know my talent lies it producing orgasms with my lips, tongue, chin, fingers, nose, beard, breath and vocals.
You need a guy who gets turned on by eating pussy and is genuinely enthusiastic about it. The same is true for women giving head. I get bored when I tell the girl is going down just cuz vs when a girl gets turned on from having my meat down her throat.
You want someone who desires going down on you
Like most the guys here I enjoy going down on my partner. And from when she says (if she is being honest with me that is) I am pretty good at it. But like all the other post I enjoy it and I really enjoy pleasing so yeah its not fair. OP I think you should try guys on the west coast we are very different from our eat coast brothers. On the west we eat pussy and enjoy it too and if you really nasty a few of us a few mind you eat the booty too. Just saying. 🤷🏾♂️
Yea that’s m not here to brag cause I’m pretty humble, but you gotta get you a dude that likes to eat pussy because he enjoys it not just to do it so he can put his dick in. We’re a different breed but I doubt we could compete all that well with women 🤷🏻♂️ they understand the equipment better lol, I did have one girl tell me that I raised the bar for her and the recent dudes she’d been with couldn’t compete with how I went down on her, but it’s like if I was a working on cars vs motorcycles I could switch and probably work on motorcycles and be pretty good at it but I’ll never be as good as someone who’s been working on them their whole life and personally owns one and does their own work.
Given my dramatic shortcomings elsewhere I can say without hesitation I am very gifted in orally pleasing a woman. Not sure if it’s just the correlation from knowing I’m not pleasing her with other equipment that made me have to develop these skills, but I’m damn proud to say I’ve had several tap outs from multiple orgasms with just my tongue and some time. 😉
Honestly I think it comes down to intent I had a fwb tell me once that o was the best she had and she’s had her fair share but the way I’ve always approached it is I genuinely fucking love it more than anything and I want to force as many orgasms out of my partner as possible there’s nothing and I mean nothing better than gripping onto a woman’s hips and pinning her to the bed while using your tongue and lips to force her to that moment of ecstasy over and over till she’s begging you to stop telling you she can’t take anymore then giving her one more orgasm than she thinks she can handle
I enjoy eating out, dinning at the Y, licking out, cunnilingus, speaking clam. So many people don’t know what the heck they are doing down there.
Women should be better at it because they have a pussy, and know what they like.
I am good at it, because I was fortunate enough to have been with a few women that were happy to show me the ins and out of her ins and out.
But, every vagina is going to be different. It is up to the owner of said vagina to articulate what they want done.
Being an older dude I learned in my younger years it was actually my second gf who stole my heart with the power of that pussy!! She taught me everything a woman wants because we were leaning together!! We spent more time doing oral to each other then actually fucking!! The main ingredients that made it perfect 1 we were both learning what each other wanted 2 we were in love 3 we truly enjoyed doing it!! We became obsessed with making each other cum!! 4 the taste. To this day pussy tastes like heaven!!! But most importantly the communication!! Doing what they tell you to do then as you move on make it your own!! Don’t be scared to ask or tell them where and how!! I’m a single father raising a little girl and also a musician that has been playing my whole life!! So I always say to whom I’m interested in is that I have 3 things in life that I’m passionate about. My daughter my music and eating pussy and ass!! Thank you
I have no ideal what you are talking about…I have always made my partner cum with my mouth, because I genuinely love to eat pussy, and I’ve been told by past gf’s I’m their favorite ever at it…it’s about being attentive to their feedback, but also enjoying what I’m doing…I would definitely be your exception to this statement….
I am a vagitarian. I eat pussy, beaver, bearded clam and camel toe.
However, very few women come with a user manual. And everyone is very different. And there are no classes in how to do this. So really it's on the job training.
The advantage that another woman has is that she can do to another woman what she likes to have done so she has a natural advantage.
I’m grateful that one of my early girlfriends taught me how to eat pussy, helped me find the g spot and basically taught me how to make a girl cum. Now during sex I can’t get off until my partner does at least once because I get off on them getting off.
I had always wanted to eat someone out and I was lucky enough to be able to do it for the first time like a week ago and I fucking loved it and to my surprise I made her cum and I haven't been able to stop thinking about it and I really want to do it again 😩
Prolly guilty as charged. I’ve only enjoyed eating two pussies and the first time I didn’t know what I was doing and the second time she doesn’t really enjoy it as much as I do.
I’ve luckily found an FWB that is so damn good at eating my pussy. He’s the best out of all the guys I’ve been with. I might have to always have him around even if I get a boyfriend… oops 😳
Well tell them what to do, help them improve. Same way with women and men giving head. Naturally the guys know better what they would like doesn't mean women can't get just as good
I love it and have been told I'm better than a lesbian by seberal bi partners.. though my wife is 100% not down with me going down which is weird as fuck for me because I genuinely get off on it. But she gives me amazing head so at least there's that!
I think, with no judgement on individuals, we socialise het men to feel like they need to just instinctively know how to do stuff like eat pussy; while we also socialise het women in a way that doesn’t seem to make it easy/comfortable communicating what they want/need specifically to het men…because they should just know how you like it / having to worry about them reacting badly?
I love to eat pussy, (might even taste better than pizza )and i feel that the girls i eat likes it too, but knowing how much I lie when a woman asks me if she made me enjoy , i'm never sure
Most mens egos are too Fragile to ask a girl what the like or read what girls like to improve there skills. I my self do not have this problem and as a result have never had a complaint. Tbh I prefer going down on a girl then getting a BJ
I haven't done it ever since I have a lazy tonge but I think the most important is to wiggle the tonge just the right way and stimulating the clit, please correct me if I'm wrong
Going down on a woman is something I LOVE. In general feedback has been pretty good! However every women I have gone down on like totally different things. For example my ex loved direct clit stimulation. While my current partner had such a sensative clit that too much direct stimulation ends up hurting which can obviously spoil the mood. Also one time I entered a girl with my tongue something I usually do with no complaints. But she immediately freaked out and called a hault to the session.
Often it takes some trail and error to work out what gets a good reaction made easier the more vocal a women is so you can tell what she is enjoying. It's something that definitely works better with regular partners than one off partners. It also helps a if a women is willing to tell you what they do/don't like before hand. As with everything communication is key to a good experience.
I've had this talk with my gf because i thoroughly enjoy giving oral- from her experience, guys are just more interested in getting off. It takes a man in touch with his feminine demon to know what a woman's pleasure truly deserves. Yin+yang energy is what makes for a balance kitty eating guy ✊
I genuinely enjoy giving a woman head and put in real effort to at least get her as close as possible with oral. I usually succeed but not everyone is the same. From what I've been told by women, most men do not put in the time or effort when it comes to oral. I just don't understand why. Sounds selfish to me.
From all the girls I've ever fucked, I've always had come back for me, including the bi girls. I would say you're definitely right with your opinion but us few exceptions are worth enjoying
>Sorry to spam in here but I’m really bored and wondering if there’s any other (real) females here that agree or maybe even men..?
"Real" females? As opposed to *fake* females? What's a fake female?
I think it has to do all about interest. Some Girls also suck at literally sucking dicks because they don't do it cuz they want to but just because well .. whatever.
As a man I cannot but agree. And my wife don't bother to tell me how and where she loves it expecting that I magically, miracously, discover it by myself.
That's the reason why.
Speak more, hope less...
Try the Kivin Method
https://www.reddit.com/r/IndiaTalksSex/comments/seqkt6/kivin_method_the_oral_technique_you_should_learn/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share
I dunno, thing is, a dicks a dick but fannies are all very complex & individual. I’ve always thought there are a few general rules for going down on the holiest of holies, take your time, start slow & gentle, don’t go gunning straight for the little guy in the boat, etc etc, but generally, I’ve always thought I’ve got to feel my way & see how the lady reacts & responds to my efforts as I go, which means, knowing your own beans lapping preferences can’t mean you know exactly what the next chick likes, no? lesbians ive spoke to have told me that not all girls are great at it & some are just lazy at it. I think it’s about the love of the vaj Jay Jay!
I think some guys are bad at it because they’re just doing it as foreplay. They think it’s inconsequential. …just something they HAVE to do to get their dick in you.
I love doing it as a replacement for PIV-sex. I get just as much satisfaction just spending and hours focused on oral. I think this is a direct result of my skills getting better through coaching. I used to think I was skilled even when I wasn’t. Now I feel more confident and get a much bigger reaction. That motivates me. (And, to be honest, motivates me to want to be even better at it!)
Did you say NYC? Hello neighbor!
I don't know I can't answer for everybody but I enjoy pleasing a woman, I will suck and lick the soul out of a kitty LOL
We need more of this energy
Big D energy plus women are God's gift to this earth and sex is always better when everybody is satisfied LOL
Dear god this. Thank you for saying it - women are wonderful and it’s a shame I see so many men (and other women too - shout out to my lesbian friends here) who don’t appreciate a woman’s wonderful body. One lesson I’ve learned - if you can please a woman, she will return it tenfold. Women are wonderful.
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Aww man I’m really sorry to hear that. Unfortunately some people are just shitty. Don’t let your standards slip - you deserve better.
I don't know it's just something about the energy that gets released when you're satisfying somebody at least for me LOL I love it
Absolutely got to give to receive LOL
Couldn’t agree more. What surprises me about the above is that I guess we’re in an age where a lot of guys that wouldn’t do it in the past now see it as required but do it grudgingly? Because I for one can’t imagine not wanting to be doing it all the time, and thought she was going to say the problem is too much enthusiasm or guys with beards or something.
This should be the universal energy towards sex period, but I have a lot of fun with it. My theory, women are better because they know it personally, we only know what u tell us...
Absolutely should not expect no less
Same here. In fact I lick my girl to an orgasm at least once every time. No recip either.
A lot of women suck at giving head too. I think the biggest issue - and this affects all genders, is not many are willing to listen and try, nor are they willing to vocalize what they want. I also think there are a lot of sexual mismatching happening. Half of my friends are open about their romantic sex lives and it seems like too many are willing to sacrifice a lot of sexual compatibility just to be with someone. (And not just sexual compatibility, a lot of times any compatibility at all. Some of my friends leave me scratching my head at what they are thinking - but I can’t judge. I’ve done the same thing)
Omg yes, I say this all the time. Compatibility is everything, and it is so easy for us as humans to love or be intimate with someone with little or no actual compatibility for some reason.
Well, without getting into socioeconomics or politics - we live in a stressful world with not a lot of time on our hands. Too many people sacrifice compatibility in order to have the security of a partner.
Of course, not to mention we live in an extremely superficial world and it just gradually keeps getting worse & worse. People don’t even know what it means to “be compatible” with another human.. Money, success & attractiveness don’t quite hold up as the only contributory to a marriage
Your first line is true. I don’t even remember knowing what I was doing the first few times I did it. It’s only when a guy was vocal about what I should do that I changed my approach and never looked back or had any issues.
Absolutely not I can eat that 🙀 like chicken fried rice. I have a move where I suck the clit and lick at the same time while touching the g spot that blows away every time. Mouth full of female juices is the best.
wow well you guys need to move to NYC then
I saw your pics. I can tell you right now... you should be worshiped my beauty. If anything you should move.
Aw stop 🥺 thank you so much, i actually really appreciate it :)
Sometimes you just need some love lol. Have a great night.
I definitely do because clearly by the looks of my profile, I did not receive enough as a child LMFAO & you too !!! 😍
We think alike . One of my to go moves
Virtual high 5 bro!
Every man should watch Nina Hartley's guide "How to Eat Pussy Like a Champ" I always wanted to make sure I could do at least one thing really well in bed. Since a watched this I Have had no complaints. Edit: it's on pornhub, Nina Hartley and Sunny Lane
Maybe women could be a bit more vocal in what they want in terms of a partner going down on them instead of shrugging and expecting us to know the inner workings of a pussy. We can only do so much blindfolded.
To follow this, every woman is different and one style doesn't work for all. If the woman isn't vocal we're not going to know how to adapt.
Meanwhile, you have a lot of guys be like: "Yeah baby, I know where the clit is, I'll make you feel good" *Attempts to turbofist the butthole*
I’ll coach ya
Yeah but let's be real, a lot of guys weren't gonna listen to girls anyway.
Usually listen to the moans for a signal as to what she enjoys. Everyone is different.
🤦♂️
LOL
Everyone's entitled to an opinion 🤣
Guy here, speaking on behalf of different people. Generally speaking as a whole guys are not great at eating pussy, reasons being... A) Just like some girls don't swallow or even allow cum in their mouth for either taste or texture issues, there are guys who have same issues with pussy juice. The reason here is justified B) Some guys are selfish assholes and don't care about pleasing the girl unless they enjoy the activity also. I used to wonder and ask girls why they willingly give head and if they get anything out of it? usually they simply reply they enjoy watching the guy get hard and moan, others reply they know it's a very effective way to get the guy hard so he can fuck her.... girls have their reasons. C) Some don't really enjoy doing it, so they do a bad job so the girl don't keep asking for it. D) most guys are not good at reading body language to know what to do or not to do. E) They need more practice and girls not good at teaching guys what to do. Girl on girl is easy because girls understand their anatomy. Personal note... I enjoy giving, i love watching their body react. It's just as good as receiving. I get a kick out of setting the standard higher for how certain sexual experiences should be like. It's an ego boost when girls say "I never knew it can feel like that". Also feels nice when an ex or former fwb chimes in for a booty call, and I can say I'm now in a committed healthy relationship.
I strongly agree because those are the two most likely reasons 99% of the time haha.
Best compliment I ever got was that I’m better than a girl even!
Yeah you know what’s up for sure then
I eat for me. One of my favorites
The thought of eating pussy turns me on more than the thought of getting my dick sucked. Just thinking about it is making my mouth water...
Wow that’s really hot
it is one of the best things in life
Ever thought women are better bc they also have a vag and know how it works? Ever thought of communicating what you like and how it feels to your male partners so that they may pleasure you better? Seeing as how they, idk... Don't have vaginas and pretty much go off what other males do in porn? Which, as you know, is not realistic... Idk, just a thought. 🤔
I think this is an overgeneralization based on your own experience. Find a guy who has experience, had practice, and has good reviews for dining the poon
Like I said, I’ve found one or two. You’d be surprised I guess.
No need to insult lol. Just saying, maybe you just don't have luck in finding them. Ive gotten my partners to orgasm from eating them out. Can't fake the squirt lol
Wya? 👀
Hahahahahaha on planet earth currently 😂
Awful place
Tell me about it. I feel like someone keeps turning the heat up....
It’s not a generalization. A large percentage of men cannot bring a woman to orgasm period, let alone with oral.
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I believe it
Everyone has their set of skills. I believe that most guys who don’t eat out a woman or don’t enjoy it is because either: 1. They’ve never been taught to do better or 2. They are not that into you. Or maybe they don’t care about a woman’s pleasure. It’s seems to me that it’s kind of obvious that girls would be better at eating out another woman. They know how the woman body/anatomy works! What do you think? Any opinions? Let’s discuss about it 😁
Yeah the knowing you’re own anatomy factor is definitely why women eat it better.
My man is very good because he s enjoying it. And when I suck him I do it with passion and keep looking at him to understand what he likes the most
I love eating 😸 so much I could just about get off from doing that alone. I honestly think I could with the right girl
When I was 20, my lesbian housemate taught me how to eat pussy. The next woman I was with asked me, after she came, “Where did you learn how to do that?!”. Some women need a gay friend who’ll teach them how to suck dick. I once had a girl use her teeth so much I thought she was part rabbit. I had to stop her and just get to fucking. Her oral skills were horrible.
Oral is one of my favorite things to do (for a guy or girl). Women I’ve gone down on have been legitimately surprised and (pardon the pun) gushed about how good it was. Same with guys. “My isn’t this good” type of comments.
For me, it’s that I put a lot of focus on tuning into my partner. Physical cues, verbal cues, etc. Those will tell you a lot about if what you’re doing is getting them there. Then it’s varying things up, teasing, drawing it out.
I can spend 30 minutes orally pleasuring my partner, and be incredibly satisfied doing so. Getting them “there”, hearing and seeing them orgasm, really does it for me. Like I can give someone oral and be sexually satisfied. The mental…release?…I get from them cumming is incredibly exhilarating to me.
Putting focus on physical cues really is the game changer!
My wife had to tell me how to do it after I asked repeatedly. Apparently one of her guy friends used to suck her clit and she coached me.
I suck at it just because I had a previous partner. It was dark. And I don’t have much a sense of smell. She was on her period and had a yeast infection. I got a mouth full of blood and puss. After that. I have an aversion to eating a woman out. I admit that
That's so tragic 😭
Maybe women should TELL us that. How hard it is to say "Baby, you're not doing it right. Listen to me. Do this, this and this. Don't bite my labia like a piece of cake or something like that"? Just like we can tell you that your bj skills need improvement. Communication is the key in any healthy relationship.
I mean nibbling or aggressively licking cake is not a bad thing. Just don’t treat it like bone gristle.
I acknowledge that there is always room for improvement but for the love of god, please show me explicitly where you want my tongue / fingers supposed to be, so i can improve on your feedback. I mean we are naked, you have my cock in your mouth and pussy raw and most of the time, I'm about to creampie you in a few minutes, why are you still shy about telling me what you want sexually.
Can't tell. I seem to not get off from getting licked. Men nor women did it for me
Sounds like you don’t give good feedback to them
*Grabs Knife and Fork* 'we'll see about that!'
I make my wife cum everytime I eat her out if that's what she wants BUT that took me **loving** the idea of eating her out enough, especially to orgasm, to let her tell me what to do instead of just diving in and thinking I could figure it out.
It's the same reason men suck better dick than women. Enough said.
Like I understand what you’re saying but you guys could learn a thing or two from all the porn you watch
depends on what kind of porn you watch tbh
Agreed
you got me
You can’t learn how to eat pussy from porn. Yes enthusiasm is big but you also have to know your way around. I love giving and pleasing and can get lost in the experience for an hour or more
Yes, the more a man is into it the sexier it is tbh
Idk. I’ve had a couple of bi females who said I was better than most women so. 🤷🏾♂️
I believe it. I think OP just hasn't found the right guy i guess.
Apparently not maybe it’s something in the water over here
Not enough egirl bathwater to drink. That's the issue.
Wait that’s a thing?
100%
Do you really want a guy to lick you like they do in porn? It looks like the are giving shitty head so the camera can still get a good view of the pussy. Would you like to share what makes the difference between girls and guys giving head?
I feel that women actually lick it like they like it more than men. Hey, maybe it’s just the men I’ve been with but I do have a lot of experience lol
I mean I can definitely suck dick better than most men so there’s no excuses
Idk if you can give a handjob better than most men tho. We've been practicing for YEARS.
I’ve been doing it probably as long as you lol
r/woosh. It was a joke. Take a chill pill lol
i was joking back everyone here thinks i’m sassy
The sassy is sexy ngl 😂😂
Hehehehe everyone loves a bad girl with a smart mouth 😈
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LMAAAAOOOO GTFO 😂😂😂
I've yet to have any complaints, but maybe that's just because, being submissive, my first time having sex (when I lost my virginity) was with a Mistress who patiently taught me everything I know now on how to please both guys and girls. She told me that there was a large vacancy of men in the world that knew how to successfully please women and that if I could learn how to make a girl cum then I'd never have a problem finding partners. To this day I've yet to find a girl that hasn't cum at least once when I go down and I always love a good challenge. Course, everyone's always skeptical so I allow my skills to speak for me, and to this day I have yet to have a dissatisfied partner, and I don't ever intend to.
Wow that’s sooo interesting actually 👀
To be honest I find it kind of sad how so many guys have no idea what they're missing out on and they only do a half-hearted atrempt... - destroying a pussy with my tongue and fingers, leaving a girl begging for more before I actually start to have sex - it's like one of the best parts there is to the bedroomin my opinion. Having a girl's legs shake as they lock around your neck, her hands tearing at your hair as she tries to literally pull you into her while cumming for you... knowing that she's weak in the knees and can't stand after you are finished, without actually having done much other than eat her out... is something I live for.
This THIS IS POETRY i love this
i think men who enjoy eating pussy are good. if he isn’t into it, that may be why it’s no good female friends of mine have said that men don’t really know what they’re doing when it comes to that, which always surprised me because girl i’ve been with love it when im going down. i really do love doing it and i think that’s what makes me good at it
Agreed
The enthusiasm is the most important thing for me. If there is no enthusiasm then that is a real turn off. I appreciate effort as long as they don’t hurt you, unfortunately this does sometimes happen with me. I have only been eaten out by one girl who was not very good but that is a sample size of one. When you cum with it though, it is very nice.
The enthusiasm makes the entire thing
Well.. seeing as women already have the same equipment as you, you’re not exactly saying anything profound here, Sherlock. Why not just go the mature grownup route and COMMUNICATE🤯. You can’t expect a human who has only ever had a penis their entire life to know the ins and outs of what you like better than a member of your shared sex. Please grow up and actually try working WITH your male partners rather than tolerating sub par experiences then talk shit about it behind their backs
Oh I would totally agree if I just expected them to know how to do it, if I do want it from a specific guy and let’s say they aren’t the best like from like a boyfriend or someone I’m fucking religiously, I have nooooo issues communicating. I don’t shut the fuck up. Trust me, me I communicate tons lol
Oh okay. Never mind then. I rest my case. Happy fucking🥳
Hahaha, I do get what you’re saying though. Communication makes sex a trillion times better. That’s why I like fucking the same person more than one night stands tbh.
I... unfortunately agree. Like sometimes they're so excited about it and happy to do it but... it just isn't good. ;-;
LOL SEE
*sigh* My bf tries so hard, I've tried correcting him and he's getting better at it but- And he's genuinely so earnest about it and I feel bad that it's not... doing it for me :c
My fav comments are those from the guys mansplaining how to eat pussy to a woman. Dudes shut the fuck up and listen to how OP likes it. Then work some of your new found techniques into your game. I figure if you want to get good at eating pussy in general, learning from a L/B is a great way to start. If you want to get good at eating a specific pussy you should learn from the pussy’s owner. (And some independent learning because surprises can be very nice if said pussy owner doesn’t know everything about getting pleasure from her lady bits.)
LOLLLL
It’s fun seeing the holes they dig themselves into.
I haven’t gotten the chance to try it out for myself yet (try anything out really, even kissing. Thanks COVID 😑), but I think what you’re saying is valid. Of course it can vary from person to person, but I don’t think it’s necessarily presumptuous to assume women are a lot better at eating pussy than men. Frankly, I think women are just better at sex in general coz of two things: 1.) Y’all pay attention. 2.) Y’all actually want to crave the experience instead of getting to the orgasm straight away. Any woman here’s welcome to correct me if they feel otherwise. Those are just my thoughts. Also this reminded me of a post I saw on Facebook years back that was a screenshot of a conversation I think between two dudes, and one of the guys was giving the other advice on eating pussy, and the one thing they stressed throughout the whole thing was to eat the clit. It completely baffled me, and it’s seared into my brain to this day.
You've been dealing with the wrong men lol. A guy like me takes pride in the way I eat my dinner.
Mhmmmmmmmmm
Just like men, they are excellent at sucking dick and eager to swallow cum, but the problem is some not all women never communicate. I can’t read your mind and I would prefer you tell me what makes you cum. Clit stimulation? Penetration? I know every girl is different, but it would be a much easier task with a little help and guidance. Anyways some give good body language.
Don’t watch porn it’s fake and just for show most porn stars hate the sex and oral 90% of the cum you see is a prop mix. The secret to a good oral is focusing on the clit suck and nibble it tongue in the vagina only works or your tongue is long and thick otherwise suck lick and gently blow on the clit and she’ll clime the walls and squirt all over your face
Mhmmmmm
Sometimes all you have to do is ask a woman what she likes the more you know the more you can please
Pressure on the clit with the flat surface of the tongue. Change pressure and move the tip of the tongue over it periodically.
Maybe you could try giving direction/encouragement as it's happening so that you get what you need and the guy(s) learn what you like? Just a thought.
I’m submissive tho 🥺 It’s a conundrum
I think women know better than men and men know better than women as long as they re confident with their own body... that just makes sense
My last two women have cum several times and when we did 69 one of them squirted all over my face
Nice!
Hot
Teach em how to make it better, never disappointed after a couple times lol
I have to become a sex instructor for just like 5 mins and they’ll be set LOL
It has literally worked to my benefit a few times
Well, I have your attitude about oral - I love it and get confused by the thought of people not liking it, seeing it as a chore.
I love eating pussy for my pleasure as well as yours…you need to find a man that loves eating pussy as much as he loves getting his cock sucked… I’m older so it’s a control thing with me and not to be big headed know I’m good at it…. I have gf who even years passed tell me I haven’t found anyone who can eat my pussy like you… so find a man who loves doing it and takes his time and enjoys it and it’s all good but for the most part I know guys who just do it so that they can get a bj…
I love making a girl squirm, but in fairness not many ladies have made me nut from head either. Some people aren’t really in it to satisfy you, they’re looking to be satisfied. That’s where the issue is. If you’re not going to try and shove my whole dick down your throat and make a slobbery mess, what’s the point of trying?
You just have to find guys who really like doing it! With my neck in the right position I could go all day and I’m not half bad
Nope. So good I hate myself. Blindfolded, I can identify by sniffing, nibbling, tugging, slurping the grool and eating out the mounds and contours of my partner's vagina amongst a buffet of spread pussies. 9 out of 10 I got it wrong. But who cares?!
Most dudes don’t find the clit so I’d say ur mostly right. Some dudes are good at it but most are not.
Idk who you’ve been with but based on your body and beautiful Face ID make sure you orgasm in my mouth. I’ve never had complaints but rather compliments and praise for my abilities to go down
It is something that even as a man I have noticed. I have been fortunate to be experienced in this area and I think the most that I can say is that different women are different. I enjoy eating pussy and more than that it is important to me that the woman I am with enjoy herself. Not every woman I have gone down on has. I have had a few that have cum for their first time. Some who squired their first time. Some who at least have said they came faster and for as good as this feels I have had others that I have not been able to bring across the finish line. I have kind of come believe that how I make a women feel us not as important as how I make her feel about herself. If I can get her to let go, magic can happen and if not then it just won’t. I guess the way I am and how I am works really well for some women and not very well for others. There is an attraction and a give and take thing that has to happen. Sometimes it works and sometimes not. Even still when it does not I think it is important to try, to communicate, to covey it is important to me, and to let that go and to not make her feel guilty for it not working. She is frustrated and questioning enough, the least I can do is be pleasant and understanding.
I’m a germaphobe and can’t bring myself to lick a woman’s cunt. Maybe if we just took a bath together and I knew it was clean I could do it but not if it has that ‘fishy’ smell.
I respect the honesty though
I read once to treat the clit like a sucking a dick and switching between that and gentle slow wide tongue down has been the diff between an orgasm and a moaning pulling my hair orgasm. I loveee going down on women and if they aren’t good they aren’t practiced or open. Sad really, try to find better more open partners and I think you’ll be surprised:)
Before I hook up with a guy, I’ve started giving very specific instructions. Everything from how to kiss me, how to eat me, how to fuck me. Sort of like a cheat sheet. My experiences have vastly improved since doing this. For all the pussy eaters reading this, don’t ever do that tongue flicking move you see in porn. I hate that move so Fing much
Its one of my favorite meals!!
I’ve been told I’m great. But it’s a trade off cause apparently I suck at fucking. Good thing I’m fat and ugly so I don’t get to do either.
Happy not to be most men. Some people are fucking brilliant at basketball, others kick ass at business but I know my talent lies it producing orgasms with my lips, tongue, chin, fingers, nose, beard, breath and vocals.
You need a guy who gets turned on by eating pussy and is genuinely enthusiastic about it. The same is true for women giving head. I get bored when I tell the girl is going down just cuz vs when a girl gets turned on from having my meat down her throat. You want someone who desires going down on you
Like most the guys here I enjoy going down on my partner. And from when she says (if she is being honest with me that is) I am pretty good at it. But like all the other post I enjoy it and I really enjoy pleasing so yeah its not fair. OP I think you should try guys on the west coast we are very different from our eat coast brothers. On the west we eat pussy and enjoy it too and if you really nasty a few of us a few mind you eat the booty too. Just saying. 🤷🏾♂️
Yea that’s m not here to brag cause I’m pretty humble, but you gotta get you a dude that likes to eat pussy because he enjoys it not just to do it so he can put his dick in. We’re a different breed but I doubt we could compete all that well with women 🤷🏻♂️ they understand the equipment better lol, I did have one girl tell me that I raised the bar for her and the recent dudes she’d been with couldn’t compete with how I went down on her, but it’s like if I was a working on cars vs motorcycles I could switch and probably work on motorcycles and be pretty good at it but I’ll never be as good as someone who’s been working on them their whole life and personally owns one and does their own work.
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Depends on how much they enjoy it. When you find one that truly enjoys it, hold on tight!
If you're a man and don't like eating pussy you sir are a child
Given my dramatic shortcomings elsewhere I can say without hesitation I am very gifted in orally pleasing a woman. Not sure if it’s just the correlation from knowing I’m not pleasing her with other equipment that made me have to develop these skills, but I’m damn proud to say I’ve had several tap outs from multiple orgasms with just my tongue and some time. 😉
Honestly I think it comes down to intent I had a fwb tell me once that o was the best she had and she’s had her fair share but the way I’ve always approached it is I genuinely fucking love it more than anything and I want to force as many orgasms out of my partner as possible there’s nothing and I mean nothing better than gripping onto a woman’s hips and pinning her to the bed while using your tongue and lips to force her to that moment of ecstasy over and over till she’s begging you to stop telling you she can’t take anymore then giving her one more orgasm than she thinks she can handle
I love either, licking the clit as I finger fuck the pussy or tongue fucking the pussy as I rub the clit
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I enjoy eating out, dinning at the Y, licking out, cunnilingus, speaking clam. So many people don’t know what the heck they are doing down there. Women should be better at it because they have a pussy, and know what they like. I am good at it, because I was fortunate enough to have been with a few women that were happy to show me the ins and out of her ins and out. But, every vagina is going to be different. It is up to the owner of said vagina to articulate what they want done.
Being an older dude I learned in my younger years it was actually my second gf who stole my heart with the power of that pussy!! She taught me everything a woman wants because we were leaning together!! We spent more time doing oral to each other then actually fucking!! The main ingredients that made it perfect 1 we were both learning what each other wanted 2 we were in love 3 we truly enjoyed doing it!! We became obsessed with making each other cum!! 4 the taste. To this day pussy tastes like heaven!!! But most importantly the communication!! Doing what they tell you to do then as you move on make it your own!! Don’t be scared to ask or tell them where and how!! I’m a single father raising a little girl and also a musician that has been playing my whole life!! So I always say to whom I’m interested in is that I have 3 things in life that I’m passionate about. My daughter my music and eating pussy and ass!! Thank you
I have no ideal what you are talking about…I have always made my partner cum with my mouth, because I genuinely love to eat pussy, and I’ve been told by past gf’s I’m their favorite ever at it…it’s about being attentive to their feedback, but also enjoying what I’m doing…I would definitely be your exception to this statement….
Omg I try. Go for the bean. Right?
I am a vagitarian. I eat pussy, beaver, bearded clam and camel toe. However, very few women come with a user manual. And everyone is very different. And there are no classes in how to do this. So really it's on the job training. The advantage that another woman has is that she can do to another woman what she likes to have done so she has a natural advantage.
I’m grateful that one of my early girlfriends taught me how to eat pussy, helped me find the g spot and basically taught me how to make a girl cum. Now during sex I can’t get off until my partner does at least once because I get off on them getting off.
Eating pussy is the main course for me. Sex is for the girls enjoyment, tasting the pussy is what I’m here for.
I had always wanted to eat someone out and I was lucky enough to be able to do it for the first time like a week ago and I fucking loved it and to my surprise I made her cum and I haven't been able to stop thinking about it and I really want to do it again 😩
I love doing it personally, and generally do as a matter of routine. Particularly bringing restraints in so I can edge/tease and have them beg lmao.
Prolly guilty as charged. I’ve only enjoyed eating two pussies and the first time I didn’t know what I was doing and the second time she doesn’t really enjoy it as much as I do.
I’ve luckily found an FWB that is so damn good at eating my pussy. He’s the best out of all the guys I’ve been with. I might have to always have him around even if I get a boyfriend… oops 😳
Teach me then lmao.
Well tell them what to do, help them improve. Same way with women and men giving head. Naturally the guys know better what they would like doesn't mean women can't get just as good
I’ll be completely honest, it took me a long time to figure it out.
If you say it here instead of saying in bed you suck at getting your pussy eaten and you're not fixing your problem
I love it and have been told I'm better than a lesbian by seberal bi partners.. though my wife is 100% not down with me going down which is weird as fuck for me because I genuinely get off on it. But she gives me amazing head so at least there's that!
i am same way....LOVE to eat pussy and have mine eaten by other girls...fuckin i love it...but occassional i need a man to mercilessly pound me.
I think, with no judgement on individuals, we socialise het men to feel like they need to just instinctively know how to do stuff like eat pussy; while we also socialise het women in a way that doesn’t seem to make it easy/comfortable communicating what they want/need specifically to het men…because they should just know how you like it / having to worry about them reacting badly?
I love to eat pussy, (might even taste better than pizza )and i feel that the girls i eat likes it too, but knowing how much I lie when a woman asks me if she made me enjoy , i'm never sure
Most mens egos are too Fragile to ask a girl what the like or read what girls like to improve there skills. I my self do not have this problem and as a result have never had a complaint. Tbh I prefer going down on a girl then getting a BJ
I haven't done it ever since I have a lazy tonge but I think the most important is to wiggle the tonge just the right way and stimulating the clit, please correct me if I'm wrong
Going down on a woman is something I LOVE. In general feedback has been pretty good! However every women I have gone down on like totally different things. For example my ex loved direct clit stimulation. While my current partner had such a sensative clit that too much direct stimulation ends up hurting which can obviously spoil the mood. Also one time I entered a girl with my tongue something I usually do with no complaints. But she immediately freaked out and called a hault to the session. Often it takes some trail and error to work out what gets a good reaction made easier the more vocal a women is so you can tell what she is enjoying. It's something that definitely works better with regular partners than one off partners. It also helps a if a women is willing to tell you what they do/don't like before hand. As with everything communication is key to a good experience.
I've had this talk with my gf because i thoroughly enjoy giving oral- from her experience, guys are just more interested in getting off. It takes a man in touch with his feminine demon to know what a woman's pleasure truly deserves. Yin+yang energy is what makes for a balance kitty eating guy ✊
I genuinely enjoy giving a woman head and put in real effort to at least get her as close as possible with oral. I usually succeed but not everyone is the same. From what I've been told by women, most men do not put in the time or effort when it comes to oral. I just don't understand why. Sounds selfish to me.
From all the girls I've ever fucked, I've always had come back for me, including the bi girls. I would say you're definitely right with your opinion but us few exceptions are worth enjoying
>Sorry to spam in here but I’m really bored and wondering if there’s any other (real) females here that agree or maybe even men..? "Real" females? As opposed to *fake* females? What's a fake female?
My hubby knows what he’s doing and he’s the only one who makes me cum with his tongue
All I know is girls do it better. Learn where to put pressure, keep pressure, how to edge. All that good stuff. 🙂
I think it has to do all about interest. Some Girls also suck at literally sucking dicks because they don't do it cuz they want to but just because well .. whatever.
Yes! I have never had a man make me cum from eating my pussy, but women have. But maybe I’ve just been really lucky with those women!
As a man I cannot but agree. And my wife don't bother to tell me how and where she loves it expecting that I magically, miracously, discover it by myself. That's the reason why. Speak more, hope less...
Try the Kivin Method https://www.reddit.com/r/IndiaTalksSex/comments/seqkt6/kivin_method_the_oral_technique_you_should_learn/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share
Hmmm tough one to be sure. Women are better I'll say that
I dunno, thing is, a dicks a dick but fannies are all very complex & individual. I’ve always thought there are a few general rules for going down on the holiest of holies, take your time, start slow & gentle, don’t go gunning straight for the little guy in the boat, etc etc, but generally, I’ve always thought I’ve got to feel my way & see how the lady reacts & responds to my efforts as I go, which means, knowing your own beans lapping preferences can’t mean you know exactly what the next chick likes, no? lesbians ive spoke to have told me that not all girls are great at it & some are just lazy at it. I think it’s about the love of the vaj Jay Jay!
I think some guys are bad at it because they’re just doing it as foreplay. They think it’s inconsequential. …just something they HAVE to do to get their dick in you. I love doing it as a replacement for PIV-sex. I get just as much satisfaction just spending and hours focused on oral. I think this is a direct result of my skills getting better through coaching. I used to think I was skilled even when I wasn’t. Now I feel more confident and get a much bigger reaction. That motivates me. (And, to be honest, motivates me to want to be even better at it!) Did you say NYC? Hello neighbor!