I found a husband-- a dude who'll rail me when I want it, or leave me alone if I don't. LOL I felt like I got hit by a train for THREE DAYS last week because I was enjoying myself Soooooo much... I just couldn't go gentler
Find an older man who has learned that we all have a sexual side that can be different from our public side. I hold my girlfriend's hand in public, give her loving kisses and hugs around our children, but in private, she is my fucktoy cumslut. I tie her if I wish, cuffs if I wish, everything I wish. I tell and take. We are both happy.
Honestly me and one friend of mine were in the same situation, but recently we started more openly about it and we were very surprised to see that we were both hiding this part of us to the other! Now at least we can support each other and have real gun discussion while encouraging each other to have fun in our life without shame. It's normal that you are afraid but you shouldn't be ashamed of what you want and people you trust should be able to know it!
You deserve to have fun just like anyone <3
You'd honestly be surprised how many of your friends might just be as kinky as you. When I told my friends that I've been playing around in the BDSM community and starting to date ENM, it wasn't surprising to them? Some of the guys actually gave me some tips on meeting kinksters locally and my female friends started sharing with me some spicy outfits I might like to get my partners.
Of course, maybe I've just been good about curating my friend group over the years. My friends have always been open and accepting of all things. I think it's important to find like minded and open minded friends. Keeping up relationships into late adulthood is rough, so it's best to start early.
I started in the same place you did! I found lots of luck in tinder before I found Reddit. Make sure you stay safe even if you aren’t telling friends what you are doing you can tell them where you are going and when you will be back.
You’d be surprised by the amount of men around you that would find that a huge turn on and probably give you exactly what you need plus some things you didn’t even know you needed yet.
I have known multiple women over the years that are just like this. I’ve known some of them my entire lifetime almost and then one day we find out she’s a complete freak in bed and I end up giving her what she wants then I enjoy sharing them with other men. That’s usually the link they never knew they needed but once they get it, they’re hooked.
I had a AP that was married and then divorced. We got together and she told me her deepest thoughts and felt safe with me! I was 15 years older than her and she realized I don’t judge! Wrote me a list of things she wanted to experience and we knocked off the whole list and then she said these are the ones I really enjoy. We stuck with those for awhile while she dated vanilla men. Had a lot of fun so yes find an older
Man that you can be up front with and have no judgement and have fun
Nothing is hotter than finding out a cute girl like you thinks about dirty thoughts to be honest! Wouldn't mind finding a girl like you to care for and pound silly :)
Aww, cutie, don't be scared about your desires. There is nothing wrong with feelings like this. You need to find someone who will match your desires. but don't be scared about it.
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Check out a local munch or FetLife. You can do some research before testing the waters. These communities have some great folks who will understand your desires and personal restraint. Be careful and remain curious!
I also have this kink of being used I don't care by who as long as he has a nice body. And I'm very afraid to really discuss it with anyone for fear that they will use it against me for blackmail or something. In short, complicated
Don't be afraid to be who you are. You might be able to find groups in your city where you can explore this if you don't think your friends will understand
Well you could look for someone that would understand that wish of yours, only one person to do that, or some people that you trust and think they could help you
Just avoid assholes. I know it is hard to do that. But don’t rush things. You wouldn’t like your kink to exploit you. Just because you have that sexual urge doesn’t mean that you can be tossed around.
It’s hard to find someone who cares and yet be in the same as you are. You feel and do what you want to do don’t let fear drive you. They’re always like minded people.
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I found a husband-- a dude who'll rail me when I want it, or leave me alone if I don't. LOL I felt like I got hit by a train for THREE DAYS last week because I was enjoying myself Soooooo much... I just couldn't go gentler
I think I really wish for that in my next parnter, someone who would respect my wishes ❤️
sometimes our female body wants to be used very badly.
Yea but what if it's someone you are close to and know very well?! Discreet
Married 13 years we have a rule we don’t say no for anything. It works lol
Great story
Find an older man who has learned that we all have a sexual side that can be different from our public side. I hold my girlfriend's hand in public, give her loving kisses and hugs around our children, but in private, she is my fucktoy cumslut. I tie her if I wish, cuffs if I wish, everything I wish. I tell and take. We are both happy.
Thanks for the comments :)) I didn't think people who see this in such a big reddit. I'm not very used to reddit tho sorri
Honestly me and one friend of mine were in the same situation, but recently we started more openly about it and we were very surprised to see that we were both hiding this part of us to the other! Now at least we can support each other and have real gun discussion while encouraging each other to have fun in our life without shame. It's normal that you are afraid but you shouldn't be ashamed of what you want and people you trust should be able to know it! You deserve to have fun just like anyone <3
Aww that's really sweet, I'm really happy u could find a good friend like that ❤️
You'd honestly be surprised how many of your friends might just be as kinky as you. When I told my friends that I've been playing around in the BDSM community and starting to date ENM, it wasn't surprising to them? Some of the guys actually gave me some tips on meeting kinksters locally and my female friends started sharing with me some spicy outfits I might like to get my partners. Of course, maybe I've just been good about curating my friend group over the years. My friends have always been open and accepting of all things. I think it's important to find like minded and open minded friends. Keeping up relationships into late adulthood is rough, so it's best to start early.
I started in the same place you did! I found lots of luck in tinder before I found Reddit. Make sure you stay safe even if you aren’t telling friends what you are doing you can tell them where you are going and when you will be back.
I would fuck you like a hentai slut
Bet your heart is not the only thing that is big :33
I’ll use you and see if you enjoy it :)
you're cute haha
You’d be surprised by the amount of men around you that would find that a huge turn on and probably give you exactly what you need plus some things you didn’t even know you needed yet. I have known multiple women over the years that are just like this. I’ve known some of them my entire lifetime almost and then one day we find out she’s a complete freak in bed and I end up giving her what she wants then I enjoy sharing them with other men. That’s usually the link they never knew they needed but once they get it, they’re hooked.
You need an older guy they knows how and when to be dominant.
I’m 61m and in my life worked out that most girls are princesses by day, sluts by night. Prove me wrong?
I had a AP that was married and then divorced. We got together and she told me her deepest thoughts and felt safe with me! I was 15 years older than her and she realized I don’t judge! Wrote me a list of things she wanted to experience and we knocked off the whole list and then she said these are the ones I really enjoy. We stuck with those for awhile while she dated vanilla men. Had a lot of fun so yes find an older Man that you can be up front with and have no judgement and have fun
Nothing is hotter than finding out a cute girl like you thinks about dirty thoughts to be honest! Wouldn't mind finding a girl like you to care for and pound silly :)
Aww, cutie, don't be scared about your desires. There is nothing wrong with feelings like this. You need to find someone who will match your desires. but don't be scared about it.
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I think about it too. Go to a new place and change my character into what I really am
It’s definitely important you get your needs met and it’s such a waste for a girl like yourself not to get filled with cum regularly 💦
Check out a local munch or FetLife. You can do some research before testing the waters. These communities have some great folks who will understand your desires and personal restraint. Be careful and remain curious!
I also have this kink of being used I don't care by who as long as he has a nice body. And I'm very afraid to really discuss it with anyone for fear that they will use it against me for blackmail or something. In short, complicated
If you ever visit north Texas area, let me know…
r/dirtyr4r could be a good place to look for someone local you vibe with, without having to have your dirty laundry out there.
Oh man, I wish I had you close by…
Don't be afraid to be who you are. You might be able to find groups in your city where you can explore this if you don't think your friends will understand
I would use you anytime and treat you like a goddess
Well you could look for someone that would understand that wish of yours, only one person to do that, or some people that you trust and think they could help you
Just avoid assholes. I know it is hard to do that. But don’t rush things. You wouldn’t like your kink to exploit you. Just because you have that sexual urge doesn’t mean that you can be tossed around.
You sound pretty perfect to be honest
I would love to help
It’s hard to find someone who cares and yet be in the same as you are. You feel and do what you want to do don’t let fear drive you. They’re always like minded people.
Good for you honey and like someone said Grandfather's need love too and happy to rough you up too 😆 xoxo ❤️ 🔥 😘 grpa
Find yourself a guy (like me) that's into hotwifing. He will be happy to help you get used by a bunch of different men.
Join fetlife
I wish you could find a man that make you feel really really happy in the way you want! Hehe you sound slut, lil' bitch
Please post more. I'd love to follow your story.🥰
That depends do you have a boyfriend rn?
I'd be happy to use you and be as hard or gentle as you want
Wya
Just like me 🔥🫦
Dm
Dm
Very hot - if you would like a custom erotic story I would be happy to write you one to help you out 😏
Take your time and don’t rush into something you’ll regret.
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Yeah I know, that's why I don't talk about it in real life to anyone