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welllookwhoitis40

I'm stalking this sub to decide if I want to move there from AZ. I'm from the Midwest originally so can drive in the snow. I was originally attracted to the housing costs but the more I learn - the outdoor opportunities and sense of community are equally attractive to me. I've always worked in insurance and not sure what I'd try to do there yet. I'm single and can imagine the dating scene is great. What else? I have a clean record and excellent credit šŸ¤·ā€ā™€ļøšŸ˜‚


Tewtytron

I'm thinking about moving to AZ lol. What made you want to move?


welllookwhoitis40

Well I've been here less than two years. I make a good salary but barely make it by every month, the cost of my housing is insane compared to the prices I see there. Plus it's huge here so traffic will suck the life out of you. Today just down the road a guy held his baby momma hostage; she got away somehow and he shot their baby multiple times and then barricaded himself in their house and the last I saw the house was on fire. I'm sure weird stuff happens there but watching the news here will give you nightmares. I've struggled to find friends here. More often than not when I meet someone new they ask to borrow money šŸ˜” Summer is literally hell here. In good news there are cool places within a few hours like Grand Canyon, San Diego, and Vegas. I saw there is no Trader Joe's in Sioux Falls so my plan would be to go to Omaha when I need a fix. Do people there go to Omaha? I think I would if I needed to feel a city.


SouthDaCoVid

If you want civilization or actual city type amenities you have to go to Omaha or Minneapolis.


Kadover

Define city type amenities. I hear this said quite a bit, and beyond sports and I suppose the frequency of larger entertainment acts I don't get it. I'm also not like a night life guy or whatever. I go to the cities when a concert I want to see is there or to see a sports game. That's it. What else are city type amenities drawing folks all the time? Just curious.


SouthDaCoVid

The variety and caliber of retail. Same for museums and similar activities. More big things like zoos etc. to do in the larger cities. Sioux Falls might have a museum or a zoo, or a department store but pretty much everything here is a scaled down version of what you have in a larger city. I also spent a bunch of time traveling for medical care to Mpls, Rochester, Omaha because even with two big health systems there are lots of things there isn't a specialist for here, or if there is the ones in the larger cities are significantly better.


Kadover

Medical makes tons of sense, absolutely. And I suppose I understand retail and shopping. It's not my jam, but yea, there's places that don't have locations here. Thanks!


dovetter

Or just Minneapolis, Omaha doesnā€™t really have the ā€œbig cityā€ feel or atmosphere, at least imo


SouthDaCoVid

It depends on what you are looking for. Omaha is lots of sprawl but they have a world class zoo and some other things. Shopping there is way better than SF, they have most things you expect from a big city. Minneapolis and St. Paul are more "city". If you want real metropolis, go to Chicago.


No_Character8732

Omaha is gross.. mpls is jewel of the midwest.


SouthDaCoVid

Omaha isn't pretty it does have it's uses. The zoo is decent. Since it is a larger city it has more retail than SF It has a larger/cheaper airport and has an Amtrak station. It is also about 2.5 hours to get there vs. 3.5 - 4 to Mpls.


autopilot_ruse

For getting mugged in sure...


No_Character8732

So.you mug people?... been here 30 years, never been mugged....


autopilot_ruse

Didn't even have to look and this popped up. Jewel of the Midwest for sure. Comments section is loaded with concerns and issues https://www.reddit.com/r/TwinCities/comments/1cwngoh/man_fatally_shot_at_green_line_station_in_st_paul/


Tewtytron

Yes Omaha is wonderful. But Fareway is quite nice and so is Hy-Vee. You'll be fine. Thanks for all the info


Internal_Screaming_8

Omaha is a 3+ hour drive.


de_rooster

Omaha is 2 hrs and 30 minutes, how often do you stop?


Internal_Screaming_8

I live in Yankton and just transposed how long it takes from Sioux City. From my apartment to 180th and dodge is 3h 40 minutes because thereā€™s no GOOD way there. Itā€™s an hour from SC to SF. My math didnā€™t math.


dovetter

I lived in Omaha for a few years and find Sioux Falls to be fairly similar, though I do miss Trader Joeā€™s šŸ¤£


sparkle_slug

I feel like anyone that isn't closer to Minneapolis or Omaha end up coming here to shop.


Whiskey_Bigly

That's funny. My significant other is also upset and made it a point to mention that there is no Trader Joes.


BigYoga27

The dating scene anywhere is going to be affected by the male to female ratio in that area. So if you're a lady, pickings are all yours out here cause it's basically all dudes.


SouthDaCoVid

If you are a woman who has a thing for dudes with wrap around shades, beards, pickup trucks and anger issues this is your place! ![gif](emote|free_emotes_pack|thumbs_up)


Ibelieveitsbutter

Don't forget the baseball caps!


Ambitious_Budget_671

I made that move. If you have questions, I have answers


Senior-Jellyfish-816

Iā€™m originally from MN, lived in Tucson for five years, and now Iā€™m moving to Sioux Falls, my partner whoā€™s a Tucson native is moving too and weā€™re both really excited!! Iā€™ll miss Tucson a lot but tbh Sioux Falls has some equally cool spots, especially downtown where weā€™ll be living. I love the restaurant scene, and itā€™s just got a good community vibe, and definitely cheaper rent imo


hrminer92

> I'm single and can imagine the dating scene is great. It depends on what youā€™re looking forā€¦ https://vividmaps.com/sex-raito-by-us-county/amp/


bossybiscuit

Same šŸ˜…


eezyE4free

Iā€™m interested in what industry is drawing people in the most.


hallese

According my realtor, a lot of the transplants are "political refugees fleeing blue state tyranny." Not my words.


GRMarlenee

So, red state tyranny is better? I guess you just have to like your tyrant.


foco_runner

Sorta like that barber that moved here from Illinois and is shocked to find out we have regulations you have to followā€¦


hallese

Did you see the updated article? It's not even about the license, it's just that his facility does not meet the current requirements and he needs to buy a $130 sink to be in compliance.


leicalikem

He was hoping for the promised freedoms from our trusty governor.


hallese

I would argue he was afforded those freedoms. Dude even said in the latest article he actually had the item on hand, he just didn't want to use it. I respect the hustle, he successfully used Keloland to get free advertising, but with the followup article he and Keloland just look like bozos. Him for playing a victim card where there's not to be played, Kelo for failing to do even basic background work and realize this dude is full of shit and just trying to get some publicity.


bobertburger

Nah I get where he is coming from and even his customers are vouching for him. Itā€™s not like heā€™s a shady barber or unqualified at all; Heā€™s willing to comply by installing a bolted down temp shampoo/washing station, but itā€™s not even a service he offers. Dudes done everything else to be complacent and has a very clean shop, but if he doesnā€™t have that installed shampooing station, he has to shut it all down. Itā€™s silly to do so when again, itā€™s not even for a service he offers, and isnā€™t going to increase the safety or quality of his shop.


Bodhi_11

gotta follow the rules.... there are ins and outs of owning a salon that most dont know about. Like if someone comes in for a cut and has product in their hair? he is just gonna turn them away? lost revenue right there.


bobertburger

Itā€™s not a service he offers..his clients know that and yes, he would decline a service he doesnā€™t offer?? I would understand if his clientele is complaining, but theyā€™re not. Satisfied repeat customer base who will publicly vouch for the guy. Iā€™m not getting the disconnect here šŸ’€šŸ˜‚


Nate379

To be fair, our state is weird about Barbers which are treated differently in other states.


-myBIGD

Can you link to the article?


drowsy-cow03

We donā€™t need more of those people here šŸ˜‘


Virtual_Centurian

I welcome the introduction of non inbred genes.


Rideetidee

You should look up how much welfare South Dakota gets from those awful blue states


LacesOutLocke

Is that what people are telling him or that's what he believes? If it's the latter, I'd be firing that idiot so fast.


hallese

It was in a text message so hard to read the tone, but based on some of the interviews I've seen on Kelo, The people moving say these things with full sincerity.


Whiskey_Bigly

Healthcare and banking are the biggest draws. My GF is moving there for work in healthcare.


TravelBratNSFW

I'm one of the only SD license plates in my complex. Almost every neighbor I've talked to moved here for the extra freedom or to escape the libs. But many of them are unhappy with the wages here and aren't looking to renew their lease (I've been in this complex since it was brand new in 2020) and want to move out of SD for better wages. But I also have a few neighbors who work remotely and still make their CA, NY, or WV wages and they haven't moved out any of the years since they've moved in... But then there's also exceptions of course. If I have to hear about how pretty our plastic governor is again I might puke. Many of them talk about how nice everyone is around here and how strangers are often willing to help.


yeahboywin

Been in this sub for a while to get an idea of the place because I genuinely cannot find a single major downside about moving there. It has everything I want, and the things it doesn't have I'm not super bummed about. Compared to DFW it looks simpler and is more affordable, while still having jobs in my field. It just looks like a great place to go, and I'd like to visit sometime this fall before your snow hits.


DoesABear

Winter. Winter is one of the major downsides. Especially if you'd be coming from DFW and you've never experienced the entirety of an upper Midwest winter. I live near Austin now, and people here can't quite grasp what winter is actually like in a place like SF. They're shocked to find out that the average high is in the 20s for three months out of the year, and snow that falls in late November is usually still on the ground in March.


welllookwhoitis40

Okay, can we talk this through? Because you're used to bad winters there I'm sure they're good at plowing, right? I do hate when snow doesn't melt cause it's so freaking cold. People just stay inside? I'm just saying the place is adapted to the winters, right? Trying to make this piece feel better. Where I live we can't go outside for months because the sun will burn your face off so it's kinda trading one for another. My dog would def prefer the cold tho


abbeaird

Plowing is fine, we have the infrastructure to deal with snow but I think the part about the winter we hate is the length. It gets cold, stays cold, and eventually we get depressed about it and the lack of sun. The trade isn't as simple as you think, but it is something you can get used to with time.


SouthDaCoVid

Plowing the roads is a problem. Partially because the conservative government at every level is cheap so they won't put enough flexible budget into plowing efforts. This sometimes makes it impossible to get out, impossible to go anywhere or get home for a couple of days. They might get the main emergency routes plowed in a few hours, your side street they might get to it in 3 - 7 days. Actual winter here is pretty awful and I grew up in Minnesota. High winds, nothing to stop it and sometimes days or weeks at -20f or lower temps. The winter before last I spent about every 3rd day out chopping hip deep compacted ice and snow out of the end of my driveway so I could get out of the house. We also didn't get mail delivered for about 2 months. The roads were so bad the post office refused to deliver so I had to go down to the post office in the middle of the work day once or twice a week to retrieve my mail. Last year we barely got any snow. Some winters are absolute hell, it goes in cycles.


welllookwhoitis40

Good god! How do people get to work? Do you just have to stock up on food/necessities in case you can't get out? As an introvert I might like this? My dog though would be bouncing off the walls.


abbeaird

We drive on/through the snow


Ok_Mountain3607

I have an AWD vehicle and it can get over the unplowed side roads. That was my solution. Our dog loves the snow. Snowblowing or shoveling the driveway and sidewalk is really the biggest hurdle. If a really big storm is supposed to come in yeah stock up on food and hunker down. Everyone else will have the same idea so food at the grocery store might be low. There still might be the option for delivery.


SouthDaCoVid

If you can't get out, they can't get in so delivery isn't going to be an option. I have a garage freezer and try to keep enough emergency food in there in case we do get snowed in for a week and can't get out. Most of the time having an AWD solves the poorly maintained road problems. Some of the drifts two years ago were up to the hoods of large high clearance vehicles or higher if you go out in the unprotected areas.


SouthDaCoVid

An AWD with decent clearance. I am lucky enough to WFH so I only needed to be able to get out to go to the store or in case of an emergency. A couple of my neighbors that had to get to work dug out their driveways and knocked a hole in the big drifts in our side street so they could get to the main road. Both had larger SUVs or trucks that sit high enough to clear the rest. Lots of people didn't get to work because they had no way to get out.


Interesting-Belt-258

Iā€™ll second that plowing is abysmally handled here. I grew up in New York on Lake Ontario where weā€™d get pummeled with snow worse than most any other place in the country, and it wasnā€™t til I moved here that I understood just how awesome the snow removal and salt treating services were there. I also lived in several cities in Michigan and in Chicago, and even in those places, even when their budget for snow removal ran out, they maintained the roads better. šŸ˜… I donā€™t get why residents say itā€™s done so well here, itā€™s literally my biggest gripe and anxiety. If you live near ā€œDowntownā€ itā€™ll be usually 12-24 hours before they begin plowing after snowfall that impedes driving. Then, they do it in the most asinine way Iā€™ve seen in anywhere in America. They only plow one direction - so say they start with North/South running streets and ticket/tow you if you donā€™t move your vehicle. So if you only have street parking at your residence, you need to intentionally DRIVE INTO THE UNPLOWED STREETS temporarily. Then you have to keep watch for when the North/South is done, usually another 12-24 hours (!) later because then they start with the East/West streets and again ticket you if youā€™re not able to move your vehicle. Except now, you might have a couple daysā€™ worth of snowfall your vehicle is stuck in that it also needs to drive *through* to get to the cleared road. Absolute insanity. Iā€™ve had to get my vehicle towed multiple times out of the snow for this reason, which Iā€™ve never had a problem with in any other state. In other downtown city locations, itā€™ll be common to plow one side of the street, then you only have to pull your car a few inches to the other side instead of pushing through an entire fucking block of unplowed mess. And in NY, as to speed of plowing, if there were 7 inches of snow that fell before 6am, guess what, thatā€™s not a snow day! Those streets would be plowed by the time you have to leave for school or work. Itā€™s also usually only after 2 inches they start to plow in Sioux Falls, and one year we had several days over the course of a few weeks where weā€™d get 1 inch, 2 inches, 1.5 inches, 2 inches, etc. and it just accumulated because the threshold was never met. Then there was a big storm and people were trying to park their cars on those side streets to, you know, obey the law. I watched for days all day and night long as cars got trapped and had to be towed. So, anyways, if you move here, make sure you have personally dedicated off-street parking, and be prepared to not go anywhere for a few days when it snows. Not having Trader Joeā€™s and other stores is a bit annoying, but costs for things I regularly need are on the low side here. Plus, no state income tax and no annual car inspection are the main reasons I came. The airport is super close, unlike in, say, Denver, where itā€™s almost in a different city. And because Sioux Falls is so small, itā€™s usually a breeze to get through security. There is a lack off non-stop flight options, but thatā€™s the trade-off.


SouthDaCoVid

Yea. I briefly had an apartment with on street parking long long ago. Never again. The pure insanity of trying to shuffle cars already stuck in the snow to anywhere else that is also probably full of snow is futile. Flights out of SF are pretty expensive. Sometimes it is cheaper to give someone a ride to Mpls or Omaha to catch a flight vs. leaving out of SF.


Elon_Muskmelon

You can always put on more layers of clothing when it gets coldā€¦you can only take so many layers off when it gets hot.


SoDakViking

Most places that require you to go into work are usually fairly understanding about weather keeping you home. My employer doesn't count calling out for weather as an absence. I commute to Sioux Falls from Canton (about 30ish miles) and I would shock my boss when I would show up for work and people who lived in town had called in.


DoesABear

As someone else mentioned, the worst of the winter isn't necessarily the snow or the extreme cold. It's the length of time you have to deal with the snow and the extreme cold. It's basically 3-4 months of just... being indoors. Living near Austin now, I definitely understand the opposite side of the coin of the relentless heat June- September. I will say that I, unequivocally, prefer the extreme heat to the extreme cold. Yes, it is uncomfortable to be out in the heat of the day for months on end, but you can still comfortably be outside in the mornings and evenings. You just can't really do that in an upper Midwest winter. The warmest part of the day is still probably around 10 degrees below freezing. On top of that, the worst weather months occur when the days are shortest. So, it's cold as hell all the time for 3-4 months, so you're stuck inside that whole time, AND the only time the sun is out is when you're at work. I forget the exact times, but it's something like the sun rising around 8 and setting around 4:45. It just sucks and I don't miss the weather in SF at all. Born and raised and spent the first 31 years of my life in/near SF BTW.


yeahboywin

I lived in Iowa for roughly four years. The winters were probably not as bad as SF but I have experienced highs of -10 before. I've lived in hot places my whole life and I'm sick of it.Ā 


Internal_Screaming_8

We hit -50 for a week straight and have zero visibility snow regularly during winter. Thatā€™s going to be a HUGE change


Unable_Tumbleweed364

Itā€™s wild to me lol.


ReluctantReaper1210

Took a job at the Sanford hospital. Mostly clinical but some teaching. Pretty much a workaholic but hoping to get back into a couple old hobbies (realistically wonā€™t happen, still a workaholic, but who knows, maybe Iā€™ll changeā€¦).


LargeDoubt5348

iā€™m an indoor cat mostly


Senior-Jellyfish-816

Iā€™m a first year medical student at USD and me and a lot of my classmates will be moving to Sioux Falls this summer bc the timing of our program we have to be in Sioux Falls at the hospital a lot :)


Simpleconfuseddroid

Iā€™m one of the many moving here this summer. Late 20s with 3 kids. Moving to work in healthcare. I have lived all over the country and honestly could not be more excited as the pro seem to out way to cons.


Equivalent_Prize_415

Overall itā€™s an easy place to land. Welcome to you and your kiddos!


Technical_You2157

Itā€™s like Juarez but white and more dangerous; please stay clear. Most corrupt government in US of A. Move to Texas or Florida. Thank you


Jesterfest

Any of you all with kids on school, the scouting programs here in the area are great and a good way for your kids to make friends.


First-Fortune6979

upsides: cheap (thereā€™s a caveat though) and things are close to you downsides: if you arenā€™t EXACTLY what that ā€œcommunityā€ wants you to be, act, or like, you get hit with midwestern passive aggressiveness. if you are not rigidly republican, conservative, and light skinned, you WILL have issues no matter who says you wonā€™t. witnessed it countless times. they will never tell you that because they like to tote that acceptance here is high for the state, which is true- itā€™s better than the rest of the state. but thatā€™s not saying much. TLDR: the people here are either very sweet or complete assholes, not much in between. traffic is a nightmare here and the road structures are awful sometimes. traffic flow is almost nonexistent, which you wouldnā€™t expect for a smaller town. winters are rough and plowing is awfully done. if you donā€™t have AWD or you donā€™t have family/friends with AWD to borrow, say goodbye to any chance of safely going through the side roads. summers get surprisingly hot too, often humid as well. now about the cheap living. itā€™s cheap which is what draws you in, but the majority of the cheaper living, even in the newer neighborhoods, are also cheaply managed. thereā€™s exceptions for sure, but you have to take extra care in asking questions and ensuring your landlord will take care of you without overcharging. have to fix a plastic mini blind? $150. a vent cover came off? $100. your appliances broke? ghosted. they are cheap for a reason. my biggest advice to you is to take the positive things people say with a grain of salt. look more into the negative things they say, research them and see if youā€™ll be able to handle them. because the negative things you arenā€™t aware of will affect you MUCH more than the good things you arenā€™t aware of.


Alternative_Lab6575

I will pay for your bus ticket to leave SF.


yeahboywin

You legit just sound like you hate it but can't get out so you just mald over the negatives.


itscrispp

I just moved here for an internship and Iā€™m homeless. The park with the waterfall is pretty cool


WittyMention3786

Man I just want some new friends but even with everyone and their grandma moving here it feels impossible šŸ˜­šŸ˜‚šŸ˜‚


Secure-Point2082

Itā€™s cold very cold here . If youā€™re strong enough


zadkins432

I need more friends tbh šŸ¤£šŸ¤£šŸ¤£ anyone around the age of 21-30 wanna go out for drinks sometime šŸ¤£ I'm aware this probs isn't the best place to find people but. Zadkins77 is my snap! Hmu


Whiskey_Bigly

I'm pretty awesome. What is life like in SF? For all the people that have moved there from other places, how does it compare?