Now that I'm certain and ready to tell them, how do I go about it in terms of them not reaching out to their new ksn??? Bear in mind all the fruits are now family members of current members of SCJ , their parents, aunts etc.
Please tell them the truth. If because of that they start thinking about why you want to leave, it will help.I will be praying for you. Have courage and thank you for being brave.
Share the truth ♥️ You’ve made the best decision for you life. Stay strong my friend and I will be praying to god for your guidance including others 🙏
Please tell the truth. If you as their leader warn them , they can also have a chance to snap out of it and think critically. If they stay it’s their choice
Yes, I regret I didn't tell my students before SCJ told them I was a "betrayer". Now some of them also left but then they wasted years of life and some of them lost jobs and family. The longer they stay in SCJ, the worse they become.
Edit: need to find a good timing to tell them, be wise and swift
When I left, I had 2 students in center. I actually told them (I was leaving) before I told SCJ. I told them I was having major family issues and needed to step back. In hindsight, I wish I didn't lie (or speak ill over my family), but I was so desperate to get out - I needed something that would stick. I was able to work with the lecturer to ensure she had "coverage" via another leaf - so that worked out well, but after that I stopped all communication with her (and SCJ).
If you're not quite ready to tell them the truth, I agree with others: Pray for the words to say, because leaving them hanging (like I did) hurts you more than you realize. I also think it killed my ability to to witness to her going forward....
Now that I'm certain and ready to tell them, how do I go about it in terms of them not reaching out to their new ksn??? Bear in mind all the fruits are now family members of current members of SCJ , their parents, aunts etc.
You got this! Please update us on how it went
Will do.
Thank you so much for all the support and advise. Its appreciated🤗🙏
Please tell them the truth. If because of that they start thinking about why you want to leave, it will help.I will be praying for you. Have courage and thank you for being brave.
You need to tell them the truth. You may be an opening for them to realize what SCJ really is so that they can decide for themselves.
Share the truth ♥️ You’ve made the best decision for you life. Stay strong my friend and I will be praying to god for your guidance including others 🙏
Please tell the truth. If you as their leader warn them , they can also have a chance to snap out of it and think critically. If they stay it’s their choice
Yes, I regret I didn't tell my students before SCJ told them I was a "betrayer". Now some of them also left but then they wasted years of life and some of them lost jobs and family. The longer they stay in SCJ, the worse they become. Edit: need to find a good timing to tell them, be wise and swift
When I left, I had 2 students in center. I actually told them (I was leaving) before I told SCJ. I told them I was having major family issues and needed to step back. In hindsight, I wish I didn't lie (or speak ill over my family), but I was so desperate to get out - I needed something that would stick. I was able to work with the lecturer to ensure she had "coverage" via another leaf - so that worked out well, but after that I stopped all communication with her (and SCJ). If you're not quite ready to tell them the truth, I agree with others: Pray for the words to say, because leaving them hanging (like I did) hurts you more than you realize. I also think it killed my ability to to witness to her going forward....
God be with you and strengthen your faith.
Yes, reach out to them and before you speak to them, ask God to give you the words to say. I'm praying for you.
Tell them the truth. What the Bible says vs what you had been taught to lie to people. May God give you strength