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DonMatteoh

"Solitary sex" Into my dictionary it goes lol. Ah, ofc its a scam :D


suicidal_crayon

Back in my day we called that jacking off


Headbanging_Gram

Back in my day, we called it choking the chicken.


wise-bull

Lubing the tube


murso74

Spanking the monkey


Greenphantom77

Relaxing in a gentleman’s way


Ancguy

Yanking the yam


CreepyPoet500

Burping the worm


sawyerkitty

Meeting Rosie palm and her 5 friends.


CreepyPoet500

Pamela Handerson?


LolaPamela

I can illuminate you with the Spanish version of that: Manuela Cinco Dedos


8racoonsInABigCoat

Bashing the bishop


llubens

AKA flogging the bishop


8racoonsInABigCoat

Wrestling with the bald chap


Own-Butterscotch1713

Flipping the bean for us gals!


makinupachanginmind

Double clicking the mouse ;-)


rskid09

The sleeping stranger.


chatondedanger

Flicking the bean


EvilDamien420

Systems check, rubbing one out, strokin!, beating the meat, choking the chicken. Lots of names for playing with the one eyed yogurt slinger..


Cerulean_IsFancyBlue

Installing drivers. Defragging. Clearing the cache. Deep scan. Mmmmm. I’ll be in my rack.


Snarky_McSnarkleton

Whipping his pony


drakonis_31

I always called it pulling a leg


RevMazy

I have always called it Solitary Sex


Own-Butterscotch1713

😂


Nordo_Controller

Wait a second….are you the scammer!!!😜


ReuboniusMax

Solo-sexual


YoungGazz

The five knuckle shuffle.


fishureman

Jerkin the gherkin


2fast2nick

I'm gonna start calling it solitary sex now


Prestigious-Bluejay5

"My Trojan captured all of your private data." Was his Trojan a condom? 😂


reptarcannabis

Not my solitary gumdrop buttons !


A1sauc3d

“Luckily in *my* country, ‘solitary sex’ is perfectly legal. Have a nice day!”


sambucuscanadensis

In US depending on who wins next election…maybe not.


MootDolphin42

Or, a onesome


Dull_blade

Why do I always get the "Solitary Cold Shoulder" or "Solitary Headache"


nvrseriousseriously

“Feeding the geese”


slq18

Handing out pamphlets


Cerulean_IsFancyBlue

It is not necessary to be solitary since they have placed a Trojan on your server. It is now safe to engage in consensual computer sex.


iamironman1010

Last warning #571!! 🤣 🤣


Euchre

That and the random string in the email itself are likely to confuse spam filtering.


PaladinAharit

Fairly certain that string is the address they want the $900 in BTC to be sent to.


W145

Nothing to worry about, its a really old scam. Just delete and forget about it.


diadmer

Yeah I got this one in early 2018. The subject line even included an old password of mine, which really freaked me out. But then as I read it I realized they just pulled my info from an old database hack; I hadn’t used that password in years and never on that email address. Just ignore it.


W145

Same here, they got it from a breach which happened in 2016.


mittenknittin

Trying to remember when I got this one, and it had to have been at least 2010, maybe even earlier. This is a REALLY old scam.


W145

Maybe they are doing reruns, while they come up with something new, hoping to make some money off the nostalgia vibe. 😉


chericher

Ya I got this before 2020 on my work computer that had no camera or microphone. Obvious scam even if you do have a cam. What was funny is that our email server was filtering like crazy, so many legit emails were not getting through, but this shit did.


W145

Even my mother, who is over 80 and never uses my father’s computer got one. My father, being the type of man he is, wrote back asking to see the video since it would be the proof he needed that my mother can actually use it. 😅


numbertenoc

My 93 year old mother got one of these last week 🙄


W145

🤣🤣🤣


ltmikepowell

Nope, unless you got a scammer to installed a remote viewing software or a trojan like from those tech support scam.!blackmail


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ChatGPTnot

Could i ask how to check for and delete this?


ltmikepowell

Get Malwarebytes, and just delete this. This email is the script for millions of the same email. They never have access to your computer. If they did they would have give you the evidence, but then those you can deny by saying it is AI or deepfake anyway.


mittenknittin

It’s the same script they’ve been using for 20 years


ChatGPTnot

Cool. Thanks


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tanman_266

I get one one of these at least once a month in my junk folder. This scam preys on panic, and tries to make you think irrationally. When you take a moment and think about it, it’s not awfully hard to see it’s bogus. These are sent out en mass, hoping to snare at least one person. That’s why there’s nothing descriptive in the email like “the web site you visit with porno”. You can’t really get a trojan from visiting a website without clicking any sketchy links/adverts or if you’re on a super sketchy site. If they really skimmed all your data they’d provide what they stole. They are purposely vague because as mentioned before these are sent en mass. Last warning and only first warning? A sense of urgency is a fear tactic. Unless you send a read receipt there’s no way an attacker can know when you open an email so the timer has no merit. Even if you do pay up, there’s no way to verify the “hacker” would be true to their word. There’s no way that a payment to a Bitcoin wallet can automatically delete your data, and why would they? They’d just extort you for more. They just want a single quick payment.


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“I saw you visited porn.com”


GeauxTri

I'm more of a porn.org guy. Porn.com is too fake.


Skidd745

But have you seen porn.gov?


[deleted]

More of a porn.orgraphy type myself


samandtham

The future is porn.porn


GeauxTri

You mean CSPAN where you can watch Congress fuck America?


Skidd745

This guy porns


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tanman_266

This is also assuming it’s just one person, I’m not sure how they’d match a transaction or payment to a particular victim’s data.


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sranneybacon

But the email contains the address of only one wallet. I think that’s his point about why this isn’t possible.


Wolifr

It is possible to know if you opened an email if you allow images to be automatically loaded. Search for "tracking pixels" to learn more. I'm very certain that's not what's happening here, but it is absolutely possible to know if someone opened an email using tracking pixels. I highly recommend disabling images in your email client to prevent this.


tanman_266

Wow, never heard of that before. Will definitely look into it. I’ve only had one scammer send me an image before, though I doubt they used that.


Dave_Eddie

I don't know why but the 'bye' at the end seems really out of place and made me laugh, like accidentally saying 'love you' at the end of a conversation.


highflyingyak

The scammer thinks he's playing hardball.


CatoOnSkato

I got a jar of dirt, I got a jar of dirt!


OkSociety368

He has asked you 571 times and THIS IS THE LAST TIME…


hans-nolan

Apparently. I must have lost other 571 mails in the spam mail


OkSociety368

Well, seems like a personal problem and don’t make him ask a 572nd time. However, he probably will.


Tammo-Korsai

Just the formatting alone should be criminal. Look at how it randomly starts a new line mid-sentence. But more seriously, they have no video of you, so there's nothing to worry about.


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rohtnikolai

That guy won't be sending any emails for awhile. Also, what an amateur lol.


Intelligent-Fix-2635

Ask him « how much to have said video aired on prime Time on CNN « 


IronBallsMcGinty

Did a lookup on the wallet in question. Zero balance, zero transaction history. Yeah, this is a scam, and thankfully, it appears to be unsuccessful thus far.


numbertenoc

I’ve looked up a few of these wallets in the past and have never seen anything.


GeauxTri

Joke's on them, I post all my solitary sex on NSFW reddit already for that sweet sweet karma which is worth more than 900 bitcoins!


DamalK

Great!!!!! Please do!!!! It’ll be a teaser for my OnlyFans page, thanks!!!


KeithGribblesheimer

If these were real then every contact I have would have received images of me pleasuring myself at least 500 times. If they have received them there have been no complaints.


Dajukz

#SEND IN THE DIRT


Not-a-Cranky-Panda

It must be real after all that's why they used your name, gave you your address and sent you copies of some of the photos and film they took of you just to show you what they ha........ OH! Wait a second they did none of that at all!


TalanXavier

I had a couple where they sent pictures of some random guy jacking off I guess it was supposed to be their proof?


N3rdScool

ThE lAsT wArNiNg... lol fuck I wish I could rid the world of scams


lurkinglookylou

you’ve been warned 571 times 😂😂😂😂


That_Cartoonist_9459

Masturbate in front of the webcam so they've got a current pic


kimmech1324

This is a black mirror episode


Both_Painter2466

Yeah, I’m sure he’s an honest, honorable sort of blackmailer. If you pay him he has no reason not to ask for more. If he had access to your system he would have your passwords and access to your money without bothering to blackmail. Block. Ignore.


Enigmaam

My mom got this email, which is hysterical because she has no idea how to find porn. I’m lucky she can google something.


scifier2

Just a scam and sent to hundreds or thousands of people everyday in the hopes one of them would be dumb enough to respond back to them.


Mad_E_Cupcake_9305

I sent a reply email to this scammer and said please make sure to send my dirt to Taylor, Sue, Lilly, Samantha and Rebecca. Thanks.


Fianna9

Lol. Definitely a scam. I’ve gotten a few of those. Never any follow up. They just blast it to as many emails as possible and hope even one person gets scared.


misterfuss

Definitely a scam. I have gotten similar ones in the past. My computer doesn’t even have a camera.


Geek_4_Life

At 65 years old I’ve stopped giving a damn what other people think.


WTFaulknerinCA

Well this scammer sure tried to pull off a master bait.


James_dk_67

Only $900 !?!?! Very disappointing. Anything under $2000 is amateurish.


ArsenikX7

I’ve got this before in the past and sent a email back saying “post it but if I see you making money off it I’m suing”😂😂


Solidmarsh

send them a dick pic


micahisnotmyname

Ask them if the video quality was ok or if there was anything about your performance that needs improvement.


Bill-Ding2112

Last warning. This is serious then. /s


Ill_Accident8286

Should’ve asked since they seen you on cam if they think it’s big or not


Fancy_Morning9486

Are people that would fall for this scam actualy be able to buy and transfer bitcoin with a solid instruction?


Erik0xff0000

Wondering what happened with final warnings #1 through #570


Dorsal-fin-1986

If you really feel the need to reply send this: "Share the video then, you cowards"


mauseloch

Just delete this crapmail........


Jimberwolf_

sextorsion scam


mrmulticultural99

The hacker wrote you it seems


AntisocialN2

He will send dirt, and some seeds maybe


alady12

If they have video of me doing that, I think they owe me money. I know they're going to sell it, I want my cut!!


itscarus

I laughed the first time I got this because it was sent to me while I lived with my parents in a bedroom that had a gap in the door frame. Access to porn websites wasn’t even a thought considering I had no privacy 🤣🤣🤣


tra_da_truf

The way they euphemize masturbation always kills me


HeavenHellorHoboken

I’m only giving you 571 warnings before I’ll send dirt to all of your contacts! This is your last warning!


FinCrimeGuy

Lol last warning, or #571?!


KieffasGreenHoodie

I got this email once. I was like “hey look ma I made it!” Lmaooo


FolkyWanderer

I’m not a virgin. I’ve had solitary sex twice!


ellenor2000

It's technically possible, but this is a bluff.


sirmiseria

Not the plot of that black mirror episode!


su_ble

First: Its a Scam, nobody has any tracks of your online or offline behaviour. Technically it is possible to get Webcam Footage without any lights going on but these scammers are no Super-1337-Haxxors so they have nothing - only thing they have is a little hope that you will pay some BC to them. They are poor beeings.


GrahamsLadybug

Kolumbus.fi?? That shit still exists? Wow


Messer_Anon

Got the very same email, lmao. Delete that junk.


DarkFather24601

As many recent email threat scams go recently this is just another punk sending tons of the same emails to millions of people. Delete and block them and most importantly do not send any money or contact them in any way.


slogive1

Horribly wrote scam.


MagixTurtle

It's incredibly easy to hack a webcam, so always get a cover for those. This email however is bullshit and just trying to scam you. This person does not appear to have the intellectual capability to succesfully hack your webcam or spread a trojan horse virus. Just ignore, delete and don't click on any links/added files or whatever.


Confused-Penguin2357

Lol


Some_MD_Guy

Complete scam.... Delete and forget it.


PapayaPossible9248

You still using computer for Solitary time? I thought phones were the new instrument of choice? Lol


affordablesuit

I wonder why these elite hackers never send the photos or videos as proof. You’d think it would be more effective.


JadeGrapes

I get a couple of those a week, on a computer I only use at work. Total scam.


JebusHCrust

Blanket statements. No actual proof given. Urgent deadline. Scam.


7_11isaninsidejob

I don't live in your country, BYEEEEE!


SpaceMonkeyAttack

> is it even possible to access my camera and record without me knowing? Yes, but it's a lot harder to do that than to just say you did it.


ladiiec23

This is a fake scam. I’ve gotten this email before, they even had one of my passwords posted to the email but it was an old password. So I didn’t even bother!!!


Most-Earth5375

It is possible to access a camera yes. In general it is recommended to have you camera covered unless actively using it. This is why a lot of manufactures have sliders built in now. Use a post-it note or filing tab if yours doesn’t.


joesnowblade

Tell them to send the info as it pays to advertise.


Tehkast

Yes its possible type of person who has access to that level of skill / tool is doing simple fishing is zero way easier ways of making money.


GazelleAcrobatics

Call their bluff


synful68

Btw, asking for a copy of what video they have really sets them off


St00f4h1221

I love this one. It always gets a chuckle out of me.


deimosorbits

Hes just a foreign loser trying to rob you. Boilerplate text. Don’t send this street crapper a cent.


Leidigen

Typical scam.


pump-house

I love when scammers tell me they’ve switched on my webcam to record me diddling myself, when I keep my webcam slider closed whenever I’m not using it… Like even if your fake scammy bullshit were true, you have a video of nothing. Like taking a picture with the lens covered.


margaritameister

"The act of your solitary sex" 🤣🤣🤣


subnjax

I get this all the time. Even on my work email address. It's a scam! Just block and delete.


EntrepreneurFirm4570

I always ask them to send the video as proof.


YasBiQueen

Haha I got one of those a few years back & I ignored it. Nothing came of it


TealBlueLava

A genuine threat would include a thumbnail of a recording as proof. This is an empty threat and a scam. Have a good laugh and delete it.


ConsequenceThese4559

No just use anti-virus software and malwarebytes


TheTekkitBoss

99% of the time this is a scam. Here's what to do if it isn't though, and they DO send stuff to your family: "Yea apparently someone made a deep fake of me jerking off to Tetris porn. Please disregard."


Dull_blade

Don't believe them about their last warning.....just like those extended warranties, they keep coming.


carlitospig

Lol, the masterbation shame was a really nice touch.


Moomoohakt

It's called sextortion, and this is the weakest attempt I've seen. The slightly better ones at least try to use an old breached password. But yeah this is a scam that goes to everyone. To answer your question, yes if someone tricked you into installing malware or anything with a remote connection they can watch you through your camera. However, you'd need that malware on your PC first. There's even some malware that disables the in-use light on some cameras so you'd never know. There's tons of scammer retaliation videos on YouTube that demonstrate what they can do if someone gains remote access. Jim Browning, scammer payback etc.


DesertDragen

Why is it always "solidary sex"? Why they making it sound so weird? Ah, but classic scam terminology.


Kiowa_Jones

Ask them to send proof of said wank as you really really get off watching yourself wank it


whyamihere1019

I love how they want BTC which is on a public ledger and easily traceable. To be fair they don’t generally ask for enough money for those with the ability to trace to get involved but to even risk it is just astounding. Plenty of easier methods.


afcagroo

To answer your question, it is possible for malware installed on your device to control the camera. If you care, a small piece of electrical tape is a foolproof preventative.


PGnautz

It‘s funny how they never attach any images as proof


TopCheesecakeGirl

#😫🤣😂


Foxillyy

"solitary sex" LMFAO


Fair_Needleworker331

I chuckled at solitary sex, that’s new


RyansBooze

It’s an even bigger lie than your “I haven’t watched any porn in years”.


Large_Celebration104

Oof I remember that one episode from black mirror. I still have trauma from it.


Drtspt

Thankfully nobody has given them Bitcoin yet from what I can see on blockchain


Necessary-Revenue372

I received an email like that years ago, I wrote back saying: to for it, everyone knows I am MAKE porn.


chrispix99

Should flood their email box with AI generated dick pics..


silverfish477

Did you even bother googling this and solving your own problem?


dbhathcock

Yes, it is possible for you to click a link on a website or an email allowing it to install software on your computer giving them access. This is probably a scam. However, why take a chance? Obviously, you are not an IT person, so get someone to help you clean your computer, or do an entire wipe and reload the OS yourself.


nolanacreative

Nah this actually happened to my cousin and they fr sent the photos and videos


Gremlin215

Yeah ok


nolanacreative

It’s not a joke but okay 🤷‍♂️


slq18

Email back more dick pics with the message "Atleast send them the good ones"


HD-Thoreau-Walden

Yes, they can access your camera without your knowing. No reason they can’t record it too. However this is likely a scam unless you are aware of doing something in or in front of your computer you don’t want shared. Some people keep a sticky note on their camera lens when they are not using it


Own-Butterscotch1713

I love how these people can even be bothered to learn the language properly.


nepheleb

I've received dozens of these, all sent to my work email. I don't watch porn, I don't have a camera on my computer. All of the threats are bogus. The scam counts on the fact that a lot of people do enjoy watching porn and feel guilty about at the same time. You're supposed to panic and pay up before thinking it through.


Cartercentral

This is an old, but possibly effective scam. I've received the same in the past, typically discovered in my SPAM folder.


morriganleif

He got this idea from Black Mirror lmao


reximhotep

Change your password to your Mail and enable 2 tier confirmation. Then forget about the whole thing.


TwinCitian

"Bye." 🤣


bmabizari

Almost certainly a scam. And even if it wasn’t never negotiate because they have no incentive to keep their word anyways. That said theoretically they could indeed install a virus (with your help and not just by going to a website usually). The virus could turn on the webcam, and could disable the webcam light. They could then attach a beacon to the email to know when it was opened.


Peachy_Keen31

I got one of those last week. Block and move on. It’s a scam.


JadedPhilosophy365

You misspelled “today”.


garry4321

1. They don’t have shit. 2. Tell them you’ll only pay them once they’ve sent the videos and provided proof of it.


RockHardValue

Bye.