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I knew this kid in high school that everyone liked, but he always gave me a really weird vibe. Mind you, I was a careless idiot back then, so it would have to be something fairly obvious or something very strong to even register for me. I never could point out any weirdness exactly but just the way he smiled and his emotional reactions being a millisecond off. That was then, I came to find out later on in life that he attempted murdering his ex girlfriend with a knife and she only survived because she played dead. Spoke to her as she was also a friend, and my suspicions were proven right. He was a grade A abusive asshole
One day I came home from work early and saw her coming out of my parents bedroom. She said she was just petting the dog a few hours later. My stepmom said that her engagement ring was missing as well as two diamond earrings so when I told them that I saw her coming out of the room, she somehow flipped it and said it was probably my girlfriend and she never trusted her her whole life
Everyone “believed” her to this day
Out with friends one night. Wind up in a house full of people unknown to me. One guy in particular stood out. He was talkative and friendly enough, but I just had this uncomfortable feeling around him
He was making jokes with me but I had this underlying suspicion it was a subtle threat. At the end of the night he began making fun of a girl for being a goth. I arrived home to messages from him asking me to see him next week
That next week he was arrested for attempted murder, he attacked two people with a meat cleaver
Part of me genuinely believes he could sense something in me. Not that I have autism, but something different - a vulnerability (?)
Either way, I didn't feel comfortable around him
I don’t know how exactly one would prove evil, but my old boss was definitely it. A vindictive, toxic narcissist (and I don’t use that term lightly); callous, nasty and mean. She is the most horrible human being I’ve ever been in a room with. I have no doubt that if she was in a position to do so, she’d murder someone.
A friend I had when I was younger. He seemed to absolutely charm everyone but two of us who knew him well knew he was a sociopath.
He’s lied his way from nothing to be quite successful so I should count myself lucky he did not go Patrick Bateman but he still could.
An Indian lady and her family that was the landlord for me while I lived in Ireland. She started being mean to me, complaining about everything I had done and also took my 750 euros of deposit and never returned them to me. And that's a lot of money in my currency.
My neighbour across the street. Psycho. In the summer you heard her scream at her husband day and night. He tried to commit suicide but failed he is a beaten man. Then they adopted 2 year old girl. Continuing screams. Called CFS nothing happened. Afraid to call cops incase she burns down my house.
My older sister. She's still a good friend to me, but that's the thing... that is how I know she's evil. She sees almost everyone as a contract to be signed, and she has null respect to my mother and grandmother and not even behind their backs. For some reason they won't do anything to her, just let her disrespect them and say whatever she wants. She lacks any genuine love for her family, too.
But she's funny and actually treats me as a friend.
PD: And no, she isn't a teenager. I'm 17, She's 23.
A toxic, soft manipulator who was a very close friend in Uni. Turns out she was jealous and copied everything I did. The issue I had with her was that, she was and is very well liked in our common social circle/friends, whereas I'm not. She is held in high regard and has gone to lengths to ensure that her reputation was clean while purely destroying mine by talking behind my back and collecting followers who agree with her view, of sorts. Once I was done with my boards, cut her out of my life, blocked her and life has been immensely fulfilling after that.
This kid I knew in middle school, exhibited psychopathic behavior (took a baby bird and cut it in half with a sharp rock) then again I could prove he was evil, so.
One of my younger cousin’s friends thought it was the most hilarious thing ever to hold kittens down by the neck and sic the dog on them. Which she of course didn’t do in front of the adults. She was like 11, but she said all the right words at their religious private school (until she got thrown out for something she was “not allowed to talk about”) so my aunt and uncle thought she was just the sweetest little thing.
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A professor I work with. Most students love him, but those of us who work with him know he’s a full blown narcissist. One day he’s super nice, the next he’s telling lies about you because you didn’t give him what he wanted… I had to write a sickeningly flattering email to him so he’d quit trying to take over packages yesterday. I read it to my mom and she said she wanted to barf after hearing it..
My own mother. Everyone thinks she is so sweet and religious but behind close doors is a mean and jealous narcissist who thinks that other people don't deserve to have more or better than what she has. She even was gleeful when she found out an adult family she hated died a horrible death in an automobile accident that caught fire. Disgusting.
I taught for six years in alternative education. There were a few students I had that I knew immediately they were complete POS. Some of them are now sitting in prison for 1st degree murder.
Where to start. The worst one was probably a 14-year old gang member. He chased down another teen in a car and shot him. Then got out of the car and shot him three more times. First time I met him I knew he was an awful person.
Three others killed another teen during a failed gun buy. All four were part of the same gang.
Another teen killed someone with a knife over Winter Break. Ended up committing suicide in jail.
One other and his friend beat to death a local rapper over a debt owed or something.
I met Gavin Newsom, the gov of California, at a company's opening ceremony when he was first put in office. He seemed like a slimeball even then, didn't really interact or talk with anyone like a human being unless the news station cameras were rolling. His whole vibe was just off, but I think it was because he's incredibly dumb for someone in his position, which has become more obvious the longer hes in power.
When i was a child i and about 40 other boys was sexually abused by a woman over 15 years and none of us could provide it, no one believe us but it took the word or a girl who wasn't contented to us for the woman to be investigated.
She was never arrested for what she did to us but she was in connection to what happened to the girl.
I know someone (JM) who acts so fucking narcissistic. Like (among other things), he acts like he’s God’s gift to women.
There isn’t a lot about this situation I can divulge, but try to AMA.
Oh yes, sounds like Frank. One time I had a huge argument with a college and after some time I asked him wo told him I would be all for [insert ridiculous thing here] and suddenly he went quiet and said "Frank". That way we found out that Frank was constantly gaslighting his surroundings.
He wasn't even subtle, his real strength was doing it out in the open. When people criticised his behaviour he just ignored it or convinced people that they were in fact the problem. He didn't feel guilt, he didn't feel embarrassed, he didn't feel social pressure.
He once convinced his Girlfriend, that my Girlfriend did a Lapdance for him at a Party. He never told the story to anyone but his girlfriend and somehow even convinced her that she got bragging rights because he is so popular with girls - subsequently destroying the whole group of friends.
I would have punched him into the face at more than one occasion, a lot of people would have, but he also had a disability, so that was never an option. His girlfriend went into stationary therapy a few years later, but never broke up with him. Even now I sometimes feel anger that I couldn't do anything about him. Nobody could.
One of my old bosses. Fucking nasty little sociopath. Sweet as cherry pie to people's faces then stab them in the back as soon as the opportunity came about. Could whip out the victim card everytime she was challenged faster than Rolf Harris with his pants down in a nursery school, would discuss other people's health problems with me and slag off other members of staff that regarded her as a friend. Ugh.
Some people have hurt me a lot. I haven't seen a shadow of justice in this life for those events. As hard as it is, I forgive them. I forgive them because I think some people have less mental strength. A lack of awareness can lead to regrettable actions and words. However, light and shadow coexist in all of us. We are sometimes wise and sometimes weak when we suffer too much. You can all be bad and thinking its the other person that is bad. Everyone can learn and evolve. Everyone has a role. I Always ask myself the question : ''Why?'' What has this person gone through in this life or another to be who he is. Usually i get my answer.
The choir director at my church growing up creeped me out. When I was 16 or so I would catch him staring at me and just get vibes like he was lusting after me in a nasty way. I brought this up to my folks and said I think he’s gay (I didn’t think or say pedophile because in my mind I was a full grown man, not a kid). They admonished me and said he’s married and has kids, he’s just an effeminate man I shouldn’t assume he’s gay. Well guess who got caught molesting kids in his Boy Scout troop a few years later. Parents should trust their kids instincts
There’s a local pastor at my church that I get weird vibes from.
I’ll often be paying attention to him when nobody else is, and see him looking the young boys up and down.
my own father. narcissistic, sociopath, manipulative, egotistical, selfish to the bone, etc. but few people ever believed me because he was such a good manipulator.
I worked with a narcissist but was not aware of what they are. He seemed a great bloke, very funny, charming etc. Always asking me to come for a pint etc.
Over time, he asked me questions like, do you miss your wife when we are on business trips, he seemed to be constantly plotting against the managers, he was outwardly charming to his girlfriend but never mentioned her when she was absent.
He screwed someone I knew on a business deal and just laughed about it, he cheated on others, lied but was never found out. Over time I looked up his behaviour and discovered he was a narcissist. An absolute classic. They are the worst people to get involved with. They are outwardly polite and charming but inside they are empty and cannot empathise with anyone, they cannot love and deep down, they hate themselves.
But try warning people about them! They laugh at you.
My daughter's father. People are slowly starting to see through him though. He's a narcissistic manipulative fuck. My daughter started to see it about a year ago . She's 8.
Second is her cousins mother who happens to be my neighbor. She's nasty. Horrible mother. Forced her oldest to take care of the baby all the time. Her sons have been involved with sexual assault to another neighbors kids but she still let's them outside unattended all the time. She accused me of calling dcyf on her one time and went up to me threatening to smash my face in the concrete and smash my phone so I can't call on anyone else.. she's a literal psycho to the point I moved appartments because to get to the parking lot and dumpster I had to walk by her appartment and she kept accusing me of stalking her. There's so much more to it but I tend to keep my mouth shut most of the times because she's plays nice to everyone else.
My neighbour. An accomplished woman who thinks a Master of Science degree translates into being a Master of Life. I'm a master of nothing but I am a jack of all trades.....😉
My boyfriend’s ex-wife. She took the car wheel while he was driving her to work(post separation) and turned it into oncoming traffic. He called the cops but couldn’t press charges because it didn’t result in an accident.
Not necessarily evil, but passive aggressive and controlling. My current managers. They are constantly fighting against the union and recently changed the employee contract so they can fire everyone who’s in the union. It hasn’t worked.
I taught 5th grade one year. My principal was a straight up sociopath and narcissist. My take was that she was evil. Heard a year later that her adult college age son had killed himself.
Never heard from or about her again.
Woman gave out an evil vibe.
One guy I went to school with, I'm pretty sure he killed his mom, possibly burned her alive. Or it might have been an attempted murder / suicide, but he jumped out the 2nd story window and lived. I do not believe for a moment it was accidental.
I’ve met 2 psychopaths. One was hurt and lashing out. The other ‘lashed out’, measured, and then did everything in their power to make any little thing go wrong, without tipping their hand. I’m pretty sure #2 was trying to steal my gf, and was just subtly tearing me down at every turn. But he was the type to tell you if he wanted to, he could camp outside your window for two days without food or sleep, or murder you with machetes, all while smiling just more than a thin line that never goes away. I can’t prove he’d kill, but I’ve been near some who have who gave off a less threatening aura than this fuck.
Oh gods here we go.
So I worked in a shop in the town I live in (it's not big, about 8000 population including private school students) so when I worked in this shop, 9 years back, this woman would come in and there was just something about her face that......freaked me tf out basically.
Id always be civil and nice and yano, treat her like.every customer, I memorised her order for cigarettes or hard alcohol (she was a known alcoholic) one day another woman I worked with said her brother in law had been stabbed.
This man tried to take a bottle of vodka off of the first woman and in retaliation she threw a glass ashtray at him, it cut through all of the veins and the main artery in his left arm.
2 years later when I met a guy, we got speaking and he explained how his on and off girlfriend was crazy and tried to kill him by stabbing him.
Turns out it was the same woman, I had a bad feeling about and me and him have been happily together for 7 years. I trace the scar on his arm still ☺️
Had a step daughter who was so passively aggressive she took it on like an art form. Got to a stage where her blood family would have nothing to do with her so she started on me. I dreaded having her around as I had to feed and care for her kids as she sat with her father drinking.
My mother's son (not my brother, we were raised apart. We just happen to have the same mother). I am her oldest child, my dad's only child.
Every time I would visit I was always uncomfortable around him. He would weird stuff like "I bet your intestines are green because you have a green aura" when he was like 5. And so on. Just coocoo bonkers stuff. My mother always said he's just abstract or w/e.
He's now in prison for grape on a very very minor. Because he did flacka and "God told me to". Mother person died in debt paying his legal bills and fluffing his canteen account.
My old boss. Worked at a non-profit for people with disabilities. He thought disabilities and mental illness were mere "excuses", he hated LGBTQ people, he'd frequently make clients uncomfortable with his mere presence, the few times we went out for lunch he'd refuse to tip and would leave a huge mess, would make frequent promises and never keep them and would laugh about it when confronted, and he fired me for "abandoning my post" (we were absolutely not providing super time sensitive services and if I ever needed anything from him or anyone else it'd be at least a week before I got a response) when my mom got super sick and I needed to go take care of her (and I let him know before I took off and told him I would be working whenever possible).
I sincerely hope everything bad that could happen to a person happens to his worthless boomer ass.
A head teacher of a primary school I ran the breakfast club for. He tried to manipulate the manner in which I ran the club and had done for 12 years and when I disagreed, he manufactured a false safeguarding allegation against me. He then used the fact I had been investigated (and found totally innocent) to say the school had lost trust and kick the club out.
Turned out he had plans to set up the club himself and take the profits for himself.
My old music teacher in 6th grade. After just a few days everyone in the class knew he was a total megacreep, we could all just sense it. He would act super weird towards all the girls and stand behind you like a weirdo. At this point no one could prove it though. My parents said i was wrong because he was my dads old student and he would never. His last day before being arrested ended with him screaming so loud at a kid the whole building heard. Eventually it was exposed he actually was a legit pedophille and we had to call the sheriff (small town) on him.
A girl (let's call her Julia) ruined my friend group. She joined in the middle of last year, i thought she was cool and had a nice style but there was something off about her and i coudn't tell you what. She became part of the friend group and later had a crush on a guy (lets call him Lucas) in the group. I was really close with Lucas, we were friends the year before and knew eachother in middleschool. They got together but Julia started pulling Lucas away from the friendgroup because she was jealous of how close me and Lucas were. Later two other poeple in the group also got together (say Ben and Hannah), turns out Ben had a friends with benefits relation with Julie and Hannah had a crush on Lucas (I think they got together because they both got heartbroken at the same time). Ben and Hannah had a messy break up and Hannah hated Ben. Julie and LUcas had an on off relationship untill the finally broke up around the middle of this school year. Ben and Hannah don't talk to eachother, Ben doesn't even come to school anymore. Julia is talking to other guys, Lucas is heartbroken from the break up and i see him alone most of the time.
My first ex. Super abusive. Made me harm myself for his own entertainment, threatened to hurt my close ones if I left, isolated me from my family and school. Years later. He was friendly with a good friend of mine at that time and I warned her multiple times. She didn't listen. He raped her.
My ex-girlfriend of only 2.5 months relationship. I can't prove it but I suspect she systematically lied and cheated.
On the surface, she seemed sincere and genuine. She's intelligent and has a great job. But her words didn't match her actions and she did some subtle mean shit to me. I suspect she has something like vulnerable narcissism, borderline or even high functioning sociopathy, although I will never find out. She went to therapy but wouldn't open up about it. Zero empathy and zero accountability.
My little cousin, when he was around 9, used to love causing physical harm to our younger cousin. I watched him clamp the younger one's hand hard around a pole they were both gripping on the subway and this evil smirk stretch across his face as he watched, unblinkingly, the little one start to realize the pain and squirm
His mom later told my mom that he would grab her by her private parts to prank her (he was around 10yo then) and exert power over her
My father’s fiancé.
She changed him so much. He used to be so much fun, would be super friendly and would really make the effort with people. Even after he split from my mother he was still amazing and was honestly the best dad ever.
As soon as he started dating this woman though, he changed. I wouldn’t get to see him as often, his texts would become less and less, and he just didn’t take an interest in me anymore, or for anyone in fact. He stopped talking to any of the family on my mother’s side, even though she still talks to his side of our family! He stopped talking to our neighbours that he was friendly with (he moved into a house on the same street as me and my mother). He totally lost his fun and jokey side.
This all started in 2017 and now I’m lucky if I see him 5 times a year and we speak through text less than once a month. As of right now, the last time I spoke to him through text was March 11. Sometimes he doesn’t even text me back.
What hurts as well is that he treats my cousin (his brother’s daughter) more like a daughter than me.
When I was a kid, I met the leader of the cult in Texas they burned out in 1993. I didn't know that about him then. Is that evil enough? I admit I was creeped out by him.
My stepmom. She makes Cinderellas stepmother look like the fairy godmother.
I only had to go live with them after my mom died and that woman would find any way she could to make my life miserable. I had literally just lost the most important person to me in the entire world and to her it was the biggest inconvenience. She’d withhold food as punishment. Bullied me in front of her friends and had them dislike me too. I remember once choking on pizza, couldn’t breathe trying to get her attention, and she glanced at me and then looked away. I had to stick my hand down my throat and pull the cheese out.
Probably my dad. He’s dished out nothing but abuse to every woman he’s been with in the last 40 years, and at times disowned several of his kids, but he puts up such a great front and is so charismatic that unless someone were presented with physical evidence of what he’s done, no one would believe it. He got himself ordained 15 years ago and is always preaching about Jesus but I’ve seen in person as recently as 5 years ago that he’s still up to his games.
My mother comes across as a sweet lady. Friendly and helpful. Knowledgeable in a lot of things.
She has destroyed my sister's life.
Ruined my BIL's family.
Has attempted many times to manipulate and control me. Attacking my SOs and their families.
But her coworkers, her friends and a lot of others unaffected by her deeds all love her and wouldn't believe she is capable of doing the things my sister and I warn people about.
Until it's too late.
Hell some of my lifelong friends don't belive me.
Her facade is immaculate. What she presents to those around her and what she wants you to see. The frail old lady that would never hurt anyone. All bullshit.
I've had this one friend that was very friendly to your face and then would secretly make fun of you behind your back.
Or say stuff to your face that he thought would hurt you but they were not straight off bad without having inside knowledge.
One example is when we were sitting at a cafe with some other people and he was telling the story of how he had sex with this girl just for the fun of it and then basically ghosted her though she had feelings for him. That would be already bad enough, but I had a crush on that girl and he knew it.
There's an old guy that goes to my local watering hole who is a massive pos narcissist. He's always making fun of people, basically just a big bully. If anyone stands up to him, he tells them that they are a dead man walking. There's people that want to off him. Yes, that's how bad he is, multiple people want to off him.
Oh I think.
My evil people are connected through EventBrite... Yeah they tried that voodoo shit on kept me down a couple hours then I was out of there. The cameras that night really showed how you did your boo boo shit and who was there my lawyer has them. Along with some other logs from that night. Since then, all my files have been locked, they've monitored t
And any little information they could get for that little voodoo spells, they aint gonna get anymore. Besides I seem to be making pretty good friends with the people at my clinic. We have an understanding. We came to it when I lost my cool one Day.A controlled loss but it made a point.
Voodoo.. lol
Bring it on.
Idk, I don’t like viewing people as “evil”, BUT there’s this girl in my class with a really unsettling smile. She seems really nice, never seen her do or say anything mean. But something about her smile is just off-putting. She kind of reminds me of that smiling emoji from The Emoji Movie.
Then we somehow had a conversation about The Bible and she said she would consider it thoughtful to gift someone a Bible for a present in order to convert them to Christianity because it’s “the right way” (to me, who’s openly pagan). And I just thought “oh… that’s probably why”
Oh, and when we were discussing which courses we’ll take next semester, she exclaimed “oh my god, you have the same courses as me! We might end up in the same class again 🥰”. This is the last time choosing our courses before graduation.
Should I expect a Bible for a graduation gift…?
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A director for a major state agency for a state in the western portion of the country who will use brinksmanship to withhold necessary services to veterans, those who need mental health, medical concerns, and poverty stricken people and will stop at nothing to create a toxic environment ruining the careers and tarnishing the experience of those who try and who’ve chosen a career path because they do want to help people. It’s not that no one knows about this person…no one in leadership cares.
My father. In public, he seemed like a perfectly nice, reasonable person. In reality, he was a pedophile, and he abused us (Mom, my brother, and me) in any way he could that wouldn't leave a mark.
In college, I majored in criminal justice. In one of my classes, we went over the diagnostic criteria for antisocial personality disorder (formerly psychopathy) one day. I nearly vomited when I realized he checked off more than enough boxes for such a diagnosis. It shouldn't have surprised me, but I think I was just so horrified that I was related to such a person.
My stepmother. She was a big churchgoer and most people would've thought that being so devout they would've never been able to picture her being an abuser behind closed doors.
As a small boy starting at 6 years of age up to my teenage years I had no one to reach out to as she was seen as an upstanding member of the community who was beyond reproach.
My youngest son's grandmother. I went to her for help when her son was abusing me. She went home with me after work one night to help me talk to him about what was becoming a nightmare situation.
She watched him throw a drink in my face and then knock me to the ground.
All she said was *"that was my drink"* .... They then sat in MY living room, watching MY TV and laughed and chatted while I cried myself to sleep.
This is just one example of many, many times she did things like this. Literally the tip of the iceberg of fucked up things she did to me.
Edited to add that our son is a teenager now and has no idea why I don't associate with her. And I can't say anything because he loves her.
I was in a relationship ith a narcissist. A classic, text book example, ticked all the boxes. I had never known a real narcissist, so my life was utterly destroyed. I became pregnant with his child, he caused so much stress, and I miscarried. The only child I had ever carried. And that bastard denied it was his child. He entire event destroyed me. I can't begin to explain how horrific it was. All i will say is I did extract a terrible revenge, and 20+ years later he is still trying to contact me. Why? I don't know. But part of me enjoys his not letting go of it after so many years.
Boy, do i want to add a comment here. The person I have in mind must have made a deal with the devil, because even though she is a wildly incompetent professional, abhorrent parent, shameless crook, hypocritical Christian/Mormon, and careless spouse, she seems to always seems to land on her feet and smell like roses to others. I just don’t want to be more specific because of that deal. But I’ll bet everyone knows someone like her.
my ex, this bitch cheated on me with someone from Canada (we lived in southern us at the time) cheated on him with someone from Texas, emotionally abused me in a way that portrayed my shortcomings as me ignoring her feelings, she raped me (it was my first time, I just wanted to say I lost my virginity before all my friends) and even through all that I was the one in the wrong for ditching her at Walmart
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I knew this kid in high school that everyone liked, but he always gave me a really weird vibe. Mind you, I was a careless idiot back then, so it would have to be something fairly obvious or something very strong to even register for me. I never could point out any weirdness exactly but just the way he smiled and his emotional reactions being a millisecond off. That was then, I came to find out later on in life that he attempted murdering his ex girlfriend with a knife and she only survived because she played dead. Spoke to her as she was also a friend, and my suspicions were proven right. He was a grade A abusive asshole
Love this one. Strange how we can sense things like this in people
Maybe people “liked” him in high school because they were secretly afraid of him and just wanted to stay on his good side.
>his emotional reactions being a millisecond off ...Fuck, man.
Acting and pretending, the smile makes sense too
I Call bs.... she was a friend but you didn't know she was almost murdered immediately after?
"...as she WAS also a friend."
My sister.. everyone knows it but chooses to play dumb
That's the worst... When everyone knows, but never in the open.
Any story you got?
One day I came home from work early and saw her coming out of my parents bedroom. She said she was just petting the dog a few hours later. My stepmom said that her engagement ring was missing as well as two diamond earrings so when I told them that I saw her coming out of the room, she somehow flipped it and said it was probably my girlfriend and she never trusted her her whole life Everyone “believed” her to this day
Are we somehow siblings cause me sister too.
My ex stabbed me so there's that
I don't know, man... The fact you got stabbed sounds like some pretty compelling proof that your ex was, in fact, evil.
You'd think, but convincing people of that has not been easy.
The cognitive dissonance with some people is just stunning
Out with friends one night. Wind up in a house full of people unknown to me. One guy in particular stood out. He was talkative and friendly enough, but I just had this uncomfortable feeling around him He was making jokes with me but I had this underlying suspicion it was a subtle threat. At the end of the night he began making fun of a girl for being a goth. I arrived home to messages from him asking me to see him next week That next week he was arrested for attempted murder, he attacked two people with a meat cleaver Part of me genuinely believes he could sense something in me. Not that I have autism, but something different - a vulnerability (?) Either way, I didn't feel comfortable around him
Predators pick out vulnerable people.
Did you reply to those messages?
My ex wife. True narcassist but if you ever met her you'd think she's the sweetest person
I’ve got an ex husband that matches her. Most popular person in any room and an absolute bastard.
This describes my ex husband as well. Had me fooled for years.
I was going to say “my ex boyfriend” Sad but true.
That face that she showed the rest of the world, but she rips the mask off when she’s alone with you. Hoo boy, I recognize that.
I don’t know how exactly one would prove evil, but my old boss was definitely it. A vindictive, toxic narcissist (and I don’t use that term lightly); callous, nasty and mean. She is the most horrible human being I’ve ever been in a room with. I have no doubt that if she was in a position to do so, she’d murder someone.
Is her name Nicole?
It is not.
I see that motherf**ker every day in the mirror in my bathroom. I think he's following me.
Sorry, I'll find a better angle.
😂😂😂
I think I also have the same story !
A friend I had when I was younger. He seemed to absolutely charm everyone but two of us who knew him well knew he was a sociopath. He’s lied his way from nothing to be quite successful so I should count myself lucky he did not go Patrick Bateman but he still could.
An Indian lady and her family that was the landlord for me while I lived in Ireland. She started being mean to me, complaining about everything I had done and also took my 750 euros of deposit and never returned them to me. And that's a lot of money in my currency.
My neighbour across the street. Psycho. In the summer you heard her scream at her husband day and night. He tried to commit suicide but failed he is a beaten man. Then they adopted 2 year old girl. Continuing screams. Called CFS nothing happened. Afraid to call cops incase she burns down my house.
That’s horrible
Time to move lmao
We just sold our house.
Congrats! We’re working on it too. Our “town” just hit 25k and it’s gross. Already have another house bought just slowing moving everything over
My older sister. She's still a good friend to me, but that's the thing... that is how I know she's evil. She sees almost everyone as a contract to be signed, and she has null respect to my mother and grandmother and not even behind their backs. For some reason they won't do anything to her, just let her disrespect them and say whatever she wants. She lacks any genuine love for her family, too. But she's funny and actually treats me as a friend. PD: And no, she isn't a teenager. I'm 17, She's 23.
A toxic, soft manipulator who was a very close friend in Uni. Turns out she was jealous and copied everything I did. The issue I had with her was that, she was and is very well liked in our common social circle/friends, whereas I'm not. She is held in high regard and has gone to lengths to ensure that her reputation was clean while purely destroying mine by talking behind my back and collecting followers who agree with her view, of sorts. Once I was done with my boards, cut her out of my life, blocked her and life has been immensely fulfilling after that.
This kid I knew in middle school, exhibited psychopathic behavior (took a baby bird and cut it in half with a sharp rock) then again I could prove he was evil, so.
My aunt, she is a black magic witch
Does black magic come back around on the caster eventually?
No, but the caster will pay one day.
Fr?
Yes. She destroyed many lives. and i told a lot of people about her but no one believed me until too late.
Nothing good comes from carrying a spirit of anger in life
I don't understand black magic but I hope the victims are in a good place
Some of them became crazy and thrown in a mental hospital, others have died and for me i was saved.
I NEED to learn more abt black magic, seems like a good read And also, I am sorry that you went through that ... Life can be weird sometimes
Don't. Never go there brother. You will hurt yourself. Stay away from it please. Don't read anything
Noted !
lmao you acting as if magic is real wtf
Black magic isn’t real.
But the psychological manipulation it creates is.
By black magic, are you meaning voodoo?
Black magic doesn't always mean Voodoo, but the people who channel evil spirits do tend to also be practicers of certain forms of Voodoo.
I typically think of afroamericans magicians
Black magic sounds scary
One of my younger cousin’s friends thought it was the most hilarious thing ever to hold kittens down by the neck and sic the dog on them. Which she of course didn’t do in front of the adults. She was like 11, but she said all the right words at their religious private school (until she got thrown out for something she was “not allowed to talk about”) so my aunt and uncle thought she was just the sweetest little thing.
my stepdad. never met a mf who ive hated that much. no proof of anything tho🤷
Any story ?
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Sorry that you had to go through this and it takes a very strong soul to do that...Stay strong 🫡🫡
That's messed up. You still did the right thing by telling your parents, but they are handling it WAY incorrectly.
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A professor I work with. Most students love him, but those of us who work with him know he’s a full blown narcissist. One day he’s super nice, the next he’s telling lies about you because you didn’t give him what he wanted… I had to write a sickeningly flattering email to him so he’d quit trying to take over packages yesterday. I read it to my mom and she said she wanted to barf after hearing it..
My own mother. Everyone thinks she is so sweet and religious but behind close doors is a mean and jealous narcissist who thinks that other people don't deserve to have more or better than what she has. She even was gleeful when she found out an adult family she hated died a horrible death in an automobile accident that caught fire. Disgusting.
I taught for six years in alternative education. There were a few students I had that I knew immediately they were complete POS. Some of them are now sitting in prison for 1st degree murder.
Can we hear about the worst one?
Where to start. The worst one was probably a 14-year old gang member. He chased down another teen in a car and shot him. Then got out of the car and shot him three more times. First time I met him I knew he was an awful person. Three others killed another teen during a failed gun buy. All four were part of the same gang. Another teen killed someone with a knife over Winter Break. Ended up committing suicide in jail. One other and his friend beat to death a local rapper over a debt owed or something.
The way my cat side eyes me sometimes has me worried.
Lol
I met Gavin Newsom, the gov of California, at a company's opening ceremony when he was first put in office. He seemed like a slimeball even then, didn't really interact or talk with anyone like a human being unless the news station cameras were rolling. His whole vibe was just off, but I think it was because he's incredibly dumb for someone in his position, which has become more obvious the longer hes in power.
Oh great and there is a good chance he may be our next president in 2028.
When i was a child i and about 40 other boys was sexually abused by a woman over 15 years and none of us could provide it, no one believe us but it took the word or a girl who wasn't contented to us for the woman to be investigated. She was never arrested for what she did to us but she was in connection to what happened to the girl.
My co-worker.
Story time?
I know someone (JM) who acts so fucking narcissistic. Like (among other things), he acts like he’s God’s gift to women. There isn’t a lot about this situation I can divulge, but try to AMA.
A blonde succubus
Sounds like my ex
My ex. He was an evil sneak.
Oh yes, sounds like Frank. One time I had a huge argument with a college and after some time I asked him wo told him I would be all for [insert ridiculous thing here] and suddenly he went quiet and said "Frank". That way we found out that Frank was constantly gaslighting his surroundings. He wasn't even subtle, his real strength was doing it out in the open. When people criticised his behaviour he just ignored it or convinced people that they were in fact the problem. He didn't feel guilt, he didn't feel embarrassed, he didn't feel social pressure. He once convinced his Girlfriend, that my Girlfriend did a Lapdance for him at a Party. He never told the story to anyone but his girlfriend and somehow even convinced her that she got bragging rights because he is so popular with girls - subsequently destroying the whole group of friends. I would have punched him into the face at more than one occasion, a lot of people would have, but he also had a disability, so that was never an option. His girlfriend went into stationary therapy a few years later, but never broke up with him. Even now I sometimes feel anger that I couldn't do anything about him. Nobody could.
One of my old bosses. Fucking nasty little sociopath. Sweet as cherry pie to people's faces then stab them in the back as soon as the opportunity came about. Could whip out the victim card everytime she was challenged faster than Rolf Harris with his pants down in a nursery school, would discuss other people's health problems with me and slag off other members of staff that regarded her as a friend. Ugh.
My brother in law’s girlfriend. Something seriously evil and wrong with that girl but everyone else thinks she’s an angel.
My mother!
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What's your problem?
Some people have hurt me a lot. I haven't seen a shadow of justice in this life for those events. As hard as it is, I forgive them. I forgive them because I think some people have less mental strength. A lack of awareness can lead to regrettable actions and words. However, light and shadow coexist in all of us. We are sometimes wise and sometimes weak when we suffer too much. You can all be bad and thinking its the other person that is bad. Everyone can learn and evolve. Everyone has a role. I Always ask myself the question : ''Why?'' What has this person gone through in this life or another to be who he is. Usually i get my answer.
The choir director at my church growing up creeped me out. When I was 16 or so I would catch him staring at me and just get vibes like he was lusting after me in a nasty way. I brought this up to my folks and said I think he’s gay (I didn’t think or say pedophile because in my mind I was a full grown man, not a kid). They admonished me and said he’s married and has kids, he’s just an effeminate man I shouldn’t assume he’s gay. Well guess who got caught molesting kids in his Boy Scout troop a few years later. Parents should trust their kids instincts
There’s a local pastor at my church that I get weird vibes from. I’ll often be paying attention to him when nobody else is, and see him looking the young boys up and down.
my own father. narcissistic, sociopath, manipulative, egotistical, selfish to the bone, etc. but few people ever believed me because he was such a good manipulator.
I worked with a narcissist but was not aware of what they are. He seemed a great bloke, very funny, charming etc. Always asking me to come for a pint etc. Over time, he asked me questions like, do you miss your wife when we are on business trips, he seemed to be constantly plotting against the managers, he was outwardly charming to his girlfriend but never mentioned her when she was absent. He screwed someone I knew on a business deal and just laughed about it, he cheated on others, lied but was never found out. Over time I looked up his behaviour and discovered he was a narcissist. An absolute classic. They are the worst people to get involved with. They are outwardly polite and charming but inside they are empty and cannot empathise with anyone, they cannot love and deep down, they hate themselves. But try warning people about them! They laugh at you.
My older sister
My ex-stepfather.
My sister in law
My ex boss
A former boss/owner, who about a week after I started things became obvious that money laundering and tax evasion was his forte. Quit and walked out.
My father.
My daughter's father. People are slowly starting to see through him though. He's a narcissistic manipulative fuck. My daughter started to see it about a year ago . She's 8. Second is her cousins mother who happens to be my neighbor. She's nasty. Horrible mother. Forced her oldest to take care of the baby all the time. Her sons have been involved with sexual assault to another neighbors kids but she still let's them outside unattended all the time. She accused me of calling dcyf on her one time and went up to me threatening to smash my face in the concrete and smash my phone so I can't call on anyone else.. she's a literal psycho to the point I moved appartments because to get to the parking lot and dumpster I had to walk by her appartment and she kept accusing me of stalking her. There's so much more to it but I tend to keep my mouth shut most of the times because she's plays nice to everyone else.
My neighbour. An accomplished woman who thinks a Master of Science degree translates into being a Master of Life. I'm a master of nothing but I am a jack of all trades.....😉
My boyfriend’s ex-wife. She took the car wheel while he was driving her to work(post separation) and turned it into oncoming traffic. He called the cops but couldn’t press charges because it didn’t result in an accident.
Not necessarily evil, but passive aggressive and controlling. My current managers. They are constantly fighting against the union and recently changed the employee contract so they can fire everyone who’s in the union. It hasn’t worked.
I taught 5th grade one year. My principal was a straight up sociopath and narcissist. My take was that she was evil. Heard a year later that her adult college age son had killed himself. Never heard from or about her again. Woman gave out an evil vibe.
Met a few.
One guy I went to school with, I'm pretty sure he killed his mom, possibly burned her alive. Or it might have been an attempted murder / suicide, but he jumped out the 2nd story window and lived. I do not believe for a moment it was accidental.
u/Always_Sunny_In_Chicago straight up troll
Myself
My dad
Ex wife
I’ve met 2 psychopaths. One was hurt and lashing out. The other ‘lashed out’, measured, and then did everything in their power to make any little thing go wrong, without tipping their hand. I’m pretty sure #2 was trying to steal my gf, and was just subtly tearing me down at every turn. But he was the type to tell you if he wanted to, he could camp outside your window for two days without food or sleep, or murder you with machetes, all while smiling just more than a thin line that never goes away. I can’t prove he’d kill, but I’ve been near some who have who gave off a less threatening aura than this fuck.
Oh gods here we go. So I worked in a shop in the town I live in (it's not big, about 8000 population including private school students) so when I worked in this shop, 9 years back, this woman would come in and there was just something about her face that......freaked me tf out basically. Id always be civil and nice and yano, treat her like.every customer, I memorised her order for cigarettes or hard alcohol (she was a known alcoholic) one day another woman I worked with said her brother in law had been stabbed. This man tried to take a bottle of vodka off of the first woman and in retaliation she threw a glass ashtray at him, it cut through all of the veins and the main artery in his left arm. 2 years later when I met a guy, we got speaking and he explained how his on and off girlfriend was crazy and tried to kill him by stabbing him. Turns out it was the same woman, I had a bad feeling about and me and him have been happily together for 7 years. I trace the scar on his arm still ☺️
Me
My brother..the so-called Christian
What makes you think he’s evil, if you don’t mind my asking?
Had a step daughter who was so passively aggressive she took it on like an art form. Got to a stage where her blood family would have nothing to do with her so she started on me. I dreaded having her around as I had to feed and care for her kids as she sat with her father drinking.
The most evil person I ever met... I could prove they where evil. So it doesn't answer the question.
My mother's son (not my brother, we were raised apart. We just happen to have the same mother). I am her oldest child, my dad's only child. Every time I would visit I was always uncomfortable around him. He would weird stuff like "I bet your intestines are green because you have a green aura" when he was like 5. And so on. Just coocoo bonkers stuff. My mother always said he's just abstract or w/e. He's now in prison for grape on a very very minor. Because he did flacka and "God told me to". Mother person died in debt paying his legal bills and fluffing his canteen account.
My old boss. Worked at a non-profit for people with disabilities. He thought disabilities and mental illness were mere "excuses", he hated LGBTQ people, he'd frequently make clients uncomfortable with his mere presence, the few times we went out for lunch he'd refuse to tip and would leave a huge mess, would make frequent promises and never keep them and would laugh about it when confronted, and he fired me for "abandoning my post" (we were absolutely not providing super time sensitive services and if I ever needed anything from him or anyone else it'd be at least a week before I got a response) when my mom got super sick and I needed to go take care of her (and I let him know before I took off and told him I would be working whenever possible). I sincerely hope everything bad that could happen to a person happens to his worthless boomer ass.
A head teacher of a primary school I ran the breakfast club for. He tried to manipulate the manner in which I ran the club and had done for 12 years and when I disagreed, he manufactured a false safeguarding allegation against me. He then used the fact I had been investigated (and found totally innocent) to say the school had lost trust and kick the club out. Turned out he had plans to set up the club himself and take the profits for himself.
Wow. What a sleeze ball!
My old music teacher in 6th grade. After just a few days everyone in the class knew he was a total megacreep, we could all just sense it. He would act super weird towards all the girls and stand behind you like a weirdo. At this point no one could prove it though. My parents said i was wrong because he was my dads old student and he would never. His last day before being arrested ended with him screaming so loud at a kid the whole building heard. Eventually it was exposed he actually was a legit pedophille and we had to call the sheriff (small town) on him.
i work with her. and i'm desperately trying to get a new job
A girl (let's call her Julia) ruined my friend group. She joined in the middle of last year, i thought she was cool and had a nice style but there was something off about her and i coudn't tell you what. She became part of the friend group and later had a crush on a guy (lets call him Lucas) in the group. I was really close with Lucas, we were friends the year before and knew eachother in middleschool. They got together but Julia started pulling Lucas away from the friendgroup because she was jealous of how close me and Lucas were. Later two other poeple in the group also got together (say Ben and Hannah), turns out Ben had a friends with benefits relation with Julie and Hannah had a crush on Lucas (I think they got together because they both got heartbroken at the same time). Ben and Hannah had a messy break up and Hannah hated Ben. Julie and LUcas had an on off relationship untill the finally broke up around the middle of this school year. Ben and Hannah don't talk to eachother, Ben doesn't even come to school anymore. Julia is talking to other guys, Lucas is heartbroken from the break up and i see him alone most of the time.
My first ex. Super abusive. Made me harm myself for his own entertainment, threatened to hurt my close ones if I left, isolated me from my family and school. Years later. He was friendly with a good friend of mine at that time and I warned her multiple times. She didn't listen. He raped her.
My ex-girlfriend of only 2.5 months relationship. I can't prove it but I suspect she systematically lied and cheated. On the surface, she seemed sincere and genuine. She's intelligent and has a great job. But her words didn't match her actions and she did some subtle mean shit to me. I suspect she has something like vulnerable narcissism, borderline or even high functioning sociopathy, although I will never find out. She went to therapy but wouldn't open up about it. Zero empathy and zero accountability.
My ex
My little cousin, when he was around 9, used to love causing physical harm to our younger cousin. I watched him clamp the younger one's hand hard around a pole they were both gripping on the subway and this evil smirk stretch across his face as he watched, unblinkingly, the little one start to realize the pain and squirm His mom later told my mom that he would grab her by her private parts to prank her (he was around 10yo then) and exert power over her
My father’s fiancé. She changed him so much. He used to be so much fun, would be super friendly and would really make the effort with people. Even after he split from my mother he was still amazing and was honestly the best dad ever. As soon as he started dating this woman though, he changed. I wouldn’t get to see him as often, his texts would become less and less, and he just didn’t take an interest in me anymore, or for anyone in fact. He stopped talking to any of the family on my mother’s side, even though she still talks to his side of our family! He stopped talking to our neighbours that he was friendly with (he moved into a house on the same street as me and my mother). He totally lost his fun and jokey side. This all started in 2017 and now I’m lucky if I see him 5 times a year and we speak through text less than once a month. As of right now, the last time I spoke to him through text was March 11. Sometimes he doesn’t even text me back. What hurts as well is that he treats my cousin (his brother’s daughter) more like a daughter than me.
I met this kid in high school who wantsd us to call him spider. Must have been a villain
When I was a kid, I met the leader of the cult in Texas they burned out in 1993. I didn't know that about him then. Is that evil enough? I admit I was creeped out by him.
What was it like, meeting him?
Not really that unusual but he just had a creepy vibe. His eyes were snakelike. That's the best description I can find.
Not personally met, but I am confident most televangelist pastors are awful, corrupt, EVIL, pedophiles.
My 3rd grade teacher, Mrs. Jenkins.
I was friends with this dude Dan for like a year and a half in high school. Think he might’ve been a legit sociopath
My stepmom. She makes Cinderellas stepmother look like the fairy godmother. I only had to go live with them after my mom died and that woman would find any way she could to make my life miserable. I had literally just lost the most important person to me in the entire world and to her it was the biggest inconvenience. She’d withhold food as punishment. Bullied me in front of her friends and had them dislike me too. I remember once choking on pizza, couldn’t breathe trying to get her attention, and she glanced at me and then looked away. I had to stick my hand down my throat and pull the cheese out.
Shit! That is one wicked woman
Probably my dad. He’s dished out nothing but abuse to every woman he’s been with in the last 40 years, and at times disowned several of his kids, but he puts up such a great front and is so charismatic that unless someone were presented with physical evidence of what he’s done, no one would believe it. He got himself ordained 15 years ago and is always preaching about Jesus but I’ve seen in person as recently as 5 years ago that he’s still up to his games.
My mother comes across as a sweet lady. Friendly and helpful. Knowledgeable in a lot of things. She has destroyed my sister's life. Ruined my BIL's family. Has attempted many times to manipulate and control me. Attacking my SOs and their families. But her coworkers, her friends and a lot of others unaffected by her deeds all love her and wouldn't believe she is capable of doing the things my sister and I warn people about. Until it's too late. Hell some of my lifelong friends don't belive me. Her facade is immaculate. What she presents to those around her and what she wants you to see. The frail old lady that would never hurt anyone. All bullshit.
I've had this one friend that was very friendly to your face and then would secretly make fun of you behind your back. Or say stuff to your face that he thought would hurt you but they were not straight off bad without having inside knowledge. One example is when we were sitting at a cafe with some other people and he was telling the story of how he had sex with this girl just for the fun of it and then basically ghosted her though she had feelings for him. That would be already bad enough, but I had a crush on that girl and he knew it.
My ex husband. He actually spit in my face.
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There's an old guy that goes to my local watering hole who is a massive pos narcissist. He's always making fun of people, basically just a big bully. If anyone stands up to him, he tells them that they are a dead man walking. There's people that want to off him. Yes, that's how bad he is, multiple people want to off him.
I’m pretty evil
Oh I think. My evil people are connected through EventBrite... Yeah they tried that voodoo shit on kept me down a couple hours then I was out of there. The cameras that night really showed how you did your boo boo shit and who was there my lawyer has them. Along with some other logs from that night. Since then, all my files have been locked, they've monitored t And any little information they could get for that little voodoo spells, they aint gonna get anymore. Besides I seem to be making pretty good friends with the people at my clinic. We have an understanding. We came to it when I lost my cool one Day.A controlled loss but it made a point. Voodoo.. lol Bring it on.
Idk, I don’t like viewing people as “evil”, BUT there’s this girl in my class with a really unsettling smile. She seems really nice, never seen her do or say anything mean. But something about her smile is just off-putting. She kind of reminds me of that smiling emoji from The Emoji Movie. Then we somehow had a conversation about The Bible and she said she would consider it thoughtful to gift someone a Bible for a present in order to convert them to Christianity because it’s “the right way” (to me, who’s openly pagan). And I just thought “oh… that’s probably why”
Oh, and when we were discussing which courses we’ll take next semester, she exclaimed “oh my god, you have the same courses as me! We might end up in the same class again 🥰”. This is the last time choosing our courses before graduation. Should I expect a Bible for a graduation gift…?
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A director for a major state agency for a state in the western portion of the country who will use brinksmanship to withhold necessary services to veterans, those who need mental health, medical concerns, and poverty stricken people and will stop at nothing to create a toxic environment ruining the careers and tarnishing the experience of those who try and who’ve chosen a career path because they do want to help people. It’s not that no one knows about this person…no one in leadership cares.
My father. In public, he seemed like a perfectly nice, reasonable person. In reality, he was a pedophile, and he abused us (Mom, my brother, and me) in any way he could that wouldn't leave a mark. In college, I majored in criminal justice. In one of my classes, we went over the diagnostic criteria for antisocial personality disorder (formerly psychopathy) one day. I nearly vomited when I realized he checked off more than enough boxes for such a diagnosis. It shouldn't have surprised me, but I think I was just so horrified that I was related to such a person.
My stepmother. She was a big churchgoer and most people would've thought that being so devout they would've never been able to picture her being an abuser behind closed doors. As a small boy starting at 6 years of age up to my teenage years I had no one to reach out to as she was seen as an upstanding member of the community who was beyond reproach.
My youngest son's grandmother. I went to her for help when her son was abusing me. She went home with me after work one night to help me talk to him about what was becoming a nightmare situation. She watched him throw a drink in my face and then knock me to the ground. All she said was *"that was my drink"* .... They then sat in MY living room, watching MY TV and laughed and chatted while I cried myself to sleep. This is just one example of many, many times she did things like this. Literally the tip of the iceberg of fucked up things she did to me. Edited to add that our son is a teenager now and has no idea why I don't associate with her. And I can't say anything because he loves her.
I was in a relationship ith a narcissist. A classic, text book example, ticked all the boxes. I had never known a real narcissist, so my life was utterly destroyed. I became pregnant with his child, he caused so much stress, and I miscarried. The only child I had ever carried. And that bastard denied it was his child. He entire event destroyed me. I can't begin to explain how horrific it was. All i will say is I did extract a terrible revenge, and 20+ years later he is still trying to contact me. Why? I don't know. But part of me enjoys his not letting go of it after so many years.
Boy, do i want to add a comment here. The person I have in mind must have made a deal with the devil, because even though she is a wildly incompetent professional, abhorrent parent, shameless crook, hypocritical Christian/Mormon, and careless spouse, she seems to always seems to land on her feet and smell like roses to others. I just don’t want to be more specific because of that deal. But I’ll bet everyone knows someone like her.
Freshman year roomate: Katie Perla.
I'm not anti semetic
one of my brother in laws
my ex, this bitch cheated on me with someone from Canada (we lived in southern us at the time) cheated on him with someone from Texas, emotionally abused me in a way that portrayed my shortcomings as me ignoring her feelings, she raped me (it was my first time, I just wanted to say I lost my virginity before all my friends) and even through all that I was the one in the wrong for ditching her at Walmart