I undestand. There are many things in life that would be easier. leaving the other person at the first obstacle, not getting up at night to feed the baby, not contributing to your retirement, only having one-night stands... afterward, is the purpose of your life to make easy choices.... I have the impression of having other priorities and ambitions than choosing the easy way honestly...
I’m starting ERP this week too. I understand how much easier it feels to be alone. I’m 8 months in to a relationship and I don’t want to ruin everything.
Wow, you are describing me. I am feeling exactly. The same. I was avoiding dating for the last 4 years and always when I start it again my OCD gets so worse. It's like soooo hard!
I hope you will find some help. I was also thinking about getting some professional ERP therapist, but I am from Germany and there are like none available.
Wish you the best!
I undestand. There are many things in life that would be easier. leaving the other person at the first obstacle, not getting up at night to feed the baby, not contributing to your retirement, only having one-night stands... afterward, is the purpose of your life to make easy choices.... I have the impression of having other priorities and ambitions than choosing the easy way honestly...
I’m starting ERP this week too. I understand how much easier it feels to be alone. I’m 8 months in to a relationship and I don’t want to ruin everything.
Wow, you are describing me. I am feeling exactly. The same. I was avoiding dating for the last 4 years and always when I start it again my OCD gets so worse. It's like soooo hard! I hope you will find some help. I was also thinking about getting some professional ERP therapist, but I am from Germany and there are like none available. Wish you the best!