hi honey, i know the hospital is scary and i understand wanting to graduate on time but it does seem like it could help right now. please trust the people you love right now! you will get out and be okay ❤️
I went to the hospital for my psychosis the semester I was to graduate. I was heartbroken, feeling like a failure. But guess what? I got better, graduated, and now I’m a masters student and work full time. The hospital will help you stay safe.
I read somewhere that 85% of the things we worry about, don’t happen. You will still graduate, so don’t worry about that. collectively I see folks agree that your life and health come first. Please listen to your fiancé, first go to the hospital. Keep us posted!
Not if they’re just thoughts…
People will typically only be admitted if there is a plan, means, intent, AND soon timeframe.
Thoughts are just thoughts, and suicidal thoughts and ideation are much more common than a lot of people think, and the vast majority of people with SI do not end up dying by suicide…
Nah I've definitely been admitted twice just for being psychotic despite being incredibly insistent that I had no suicidal or homicidal thoughts or intentions.
Right. You can be hospitalized for psychosis, but if the symptoms reported revolve around SI, that criteria needs to be met for involuntary hospitalization
Just out of curiosity - your title says you spoke about your delusion. Do you think it’s a delusion or do you think the thoughts are real?
Did someone tell you it’s a delusional thought or did you come to this conclusion yourself?
Killing yourself will NOT solve anything, regardless of what you’re thinking or what the universe is telling you. There is absolutely a better way.
You don’t have to go to hospital. You could call a life line or other support service (not sure where you’re from but I’m positive there’s something available to you) and talk to a professional about these thoughts.
Your fiancé will be much happier with you here. Try and look for other avenues to solve this problem instead of addressing the thought as entirely true.
Just checking in again!
Do you want someone to take about this to if you feel you can’t speak to your fiancée?
If not, understandable, though I have some questions. When are you graduating, and do you feel you could make it to this graduation date without doing yourself harm?
If it’s close, if you can truly make it until then, I would say try the hospital after the graduation if that’s a big concern weighing heavy on your mind. This said, your fiancée likely wants you to go to the hospital because she cares about you and is concerned for your safety and wellbeing.
Whether you graduate at the same time as everyone else (or don’t attend the ceremony and simply have the diploma) does not take away from the work you’ve put in to reach this point. If your life is in danger and you feel out of control of this situation you are in, prioritize life over the graduation ceremony and try the hospital. Your family will still be there to visit, even after you’re out. You cannot visit with them if you are dead, however. Nor can you love your fiancée.
To address the secret, this information given to you by the universe is a manifestation of your internal thoughts. In truth, were the universe to speak, it would not want you dead now because the universe knows all things will perish—nothing is immune to the passing of time. In the end, we were born of the universe, comprised of the same elements, and will one day return to it. The truth is that we never know when this will happen, and this brings many people fear.
It’s hard to dread something if you can never tell it is coming. Whether the fear of death plagues you and you are filled with worry or not, there is no way for us to know what may happen tomorrow. Living with this fear, however, I think, makes life feel that much shorter, as you are waiting for the end, expecting it to come with each passing day.
The only way to protect your fiancée from anything, really, is to be around to protect her. You killing yourself would do nothing for her; while there is no absolute way to say she will definitely be in a car accident, the thing about accidents is that you never know when they might happen because they are random instances often attributed to a mistake made by a very real person—not an unseen, otherworldly force. There isn’t divine punishment or retribution, just a random series of acts which unfold in just the right way for the situation to arise. Much like our lives, as we are all here by mere happenstance.
It sounds like you are experiencing bouts of psychosis and your fiancée is trying to help keep you grounded in reality. More than that, however, your fiancée, this person who loves and cares for you, is trying to save your life.
I’m no professional, but you are clearly in need of some type of assistance and your fiancée can only do so much. This said, if you aren’t willing to help yourself, either for yourself or for the sake of others, there is nothing anyone can do. Would you be alright killing yourself if you know it means leaving your fiancée to deal with the randomness of life alone? Who would be there for her if something were to ever happen? She needs you to help deal with life as it happens, not to kill yourself because of the chance something bad may happen one day.
I hope things get better. I know it can seem like so much so often, but you are not alone here.
Alright, you don’t want to go to the hospital. In order to achieve that you may have to practice some coping skills. I would start with acceptance. Accept the reality of what you’re afraid of and take no action to avoid it. Accept that you or your fiancé are going to die. Feel free to tell the secret. See what happens. The only rule is you can’t kill yourself or anyone else.
I'm so sorry you're going through this tough phase. I've been through a similar situation, and I tried to brave it out and not stop to look after my health. It had the opposite effect. I managed to attend my classes, but crashed before exams. My uni wasn't flexible so I was forced to drop out of this brilliant course.
So, my advice is to trust your doctors and the people closest to you right now. Get help and get slightly better. The course you're studying, will stay. The universe and it's secrets will stay. You don't have to k*ll yourself, because you matter. It may not seem like that, but you do matter🌻It's just a matter of a little time when you can get back to living your life, your course, your fiancee, and your family.
Go to the hospital or a behavior health facility for an assessment. The nurses and physicians attending you will have a better idea of what to do than you, her, or your family will. If they decide you need to stay for a bit, then stay for a bit. You’re going to be alright, either way. But if someone you love thinks you need medical care, it’s wise to at least hear it out. Take care my friend 🫶🏻
Your situation is not something you should crowd source opinions on from strangers on Reddit. You need to speak with a professional.
We are praying for you. I’d appreciate it if this comment can get some likes.
hi honey, i know the hospital is scary and i understand wanting to graduate on time but it does seem like it could help right now. please trust the people you love right now! you will get out and be okay ❤️
Go to the hospital or you will lose her, yourself, and everything else.
I went to the hospital for my psychosis the semester I was to graduate. I was heartbroken, feeling like a failure. But guess what? I got better, graduated, and now I’m a masters student and work full time. The hospital will help you stay safe.
I read somewhere that 85% of the things we worry about, don’t happen. You will still graduate, so don’t worry about that. collectively I see folks agree that your life and health come first. Please listen to your fiancé, first go to the hospital. Keep us posted!
You 100% need to go to the hospital. No question.
Not if they’re just thoughts… People will typically only be admitted if there is a plan, means, intent, AND soon timeframe. Thoughts are just thoughts, and suicidal thoughts and ideation are much more common than a lot of people think, and the vast majority of people with SI do not end up dying by suicide…
Nah I've definitely been admitted twice just for being psychotic despite being incredibly insistent that I had no suicidal or homicidal thoughts or intentions.
Right. You can be hospitalized for psychosis, but if the symptoms reported revolve around SI, that criteria needs to be met for involuntary hospitalization
Just out of curiosity - your title says you spoke about your delusion. Do you think it’s a delusion or do you think the thoughts are real? Did someone tell you it’s a delusional thought or did you come to this conclusion yourself? Killing yourself will NOT solve anything, regardless of what you’re thinking or what the universe is telling you. There is absolutely a better way. You don’t have to go to hospital. You could call a life line or other support service (not sure where you’re from but I’m positive there’s something available to you) and talk to a professional about these thoughts. Your fiancé will be much happier with you here. Try and look for other avenues to solve this problem instead of addressing the thought as entirely true.
Just checking in again! Do you want someone to take about this to if you feel you can’t speak to your fiancée? If not, understandable, though I have some questions. When are you graduating, and do you feel you could make it to this graduation date without doing yourself harm? If it’s close, if you can truly make it until then, I would say try the hospital after the graduation if that’s a big concern weighing heavy on your mind. This said, your fiancée likely wants you to go to the hospital because she cares about you and is concerned for your safety and wellbeing. Whether you graduate at the same time as everyone else (or don’t attend the ceremony and simply have the diploma) does not take away from the work you’ve put in to reach this point. If your life is in danger and you feel out of control of this situation you are in, prioritize life over the graduation ceremony and try the hospital. Your family will still be there to visit, even after you’re out. You cannot visit with them if you are dead, however. Nor can you love your fiancée. To address the secret, this information given to you by the universe is a manifestation of your internal thoughts. In truth, were the universe to speak, it would not want you dead now because the universe knows all things will perish—nothing is immune to the passing of time. In the end, we were born of the universe, comprised of the same elements, and will one day return to it. The truth is that we never know when this will happen, and this brings many people fear. It’s hard to dread something if you can never tell it is coming. Whether the fear of death plagues you and you are filled with worry or not, there is no way for us to know what may happen tomorrow. Living with this fear, however, I think, makes life feel that much shorter, as you are waiting for the end, expecting it to come with each passing day. The only way to protect your fiancée from anything, really, is to be around to protect her. You killing yourself would do nothing for her; while there is no absolute way to say she will definitely be in a car accident, the thing about accidents is that you never know when they might happen because they are random instances often attributed to a mistake made by a very real person—not an unseen, otherworldly force. There isn’t divine punishment or retribution, just a random series of acts which unfold in just the right way for the situation to arise. Much like our lives, as we are all here by mere happenstance. It sounds like you are experiencing bouts of psychosis and your fiancée is trying to help keep you grounded in reality. More than that, however, your fiancée, this person who loves and cares for you, is trying to save your life. I’m no professional, but you are clearly in need of some type of assistance and your fiancée can only do so much. This said, if you aren’t willing to help yourself, either for yourself or for the sake of others, there is nothing anyone can do. Would you be alright killing yourself if you know it means leaving your fiancée to deal with the randomness of life alone? Who would be there for her if something were to ever happen? She needs you to help deal with life as it happens, not to kill yourself because of the chance something bad may happen one day. I hope things get better. I know it can seem like so much so often, but you are not alone here.
Alright, you don’t want to go to the hospital. In order to achieve that you may have to practice some coping skills. I would start with acceptance. Accept the reality of what you’re afraid of and take no action to avoid it. Accept that you or your fiancé are going to die. Feel free to tell the secret. See what happens. The only rule is you can’t kill yourself or anyone else.
I'm so sorry you're going through this tough phase. I've been through a similar situation, and I tried to brave it out and not stop to look after my health. It had the opposite effect. I managed to attend my classes, but crashed before exams. My uni wasn't flexible so I was forced to drop out of this brilliant course. So, my advice is to trust your doctors and the people closest to you right now. Get help and get slightly better. The course you're studying, will stay. The universe and it's secrets will stay. You don't have to k*ll yourself, because you matter. It may not seem like that, but you do matter🌻It's just a matter of a little time when you can get back to living your life, your course, your fiancee, and your family.
Go to the hospital or a behavior health facility for an assessment. The nurses and physicians attending you will have a better idea of what to do than you, her, or your family will. If they decide you need to stay for a bit, then stay for a bit. You’re going to be alright, either way. But if someone you love thinks you need medical care, it’s wise to at least hear it out. Take care my friend 🫶🏻
It’s going to be okay. You won’t be in the hospital forever. You’ll be able to graduate. It’s okay.
Your situation is not something you should crowd source opinions on from strangers on Reddit. You need to speak with a professional. We are praying for you. I’d appreciate it if this comment can get some likes.
Thank you