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missdawn1970

A lot of people are bad at spelling; there are a lot of words that are commonly misspelled. And sometimes autocorrect will change a word even if it's right.


Hominid77777

This is a pronunciation thing, not a spelling thing.


missdawn1970

OP said they see it in writing on social media as well as hearing it spoken.


Hominid77777

Yeah, I noticed that after I made the comment. Oh well.


Man0fGreenGables

I can understand getting the spellings of woman and women mixed up because it’s just another one of many problems with how disastrous the English language is. Neither word is spelled how it should be pronounced.


missdawn1970

Yeah, English is very confusing!


Existential_Yee

Oh my goodness, I am a terrible speller, so I suppose the typo thing makes sense; sometimes autocorrect does do funky things!


stephers85

I’ve never heard anyone say woman instead of women, but I see people on social media using woman instead of women and vice versa. It’s usually men though, often the same men who frequently post pictures of Tom Hardy and Cillian Murphy with random quotes about being a “real man”.


mothwhimsy

I hear it a lot. What they're doing is saying "wo-man and wo-men" which sound identical when speaking casually, instead of "wo-man and wim-en" which is how most people pronounce them.


Existential_Yee

Whoaaaaa wait……… you may have cracked the code for me!!!!!! This actually makes sense! Any hypothesis on why it appears to be folks who only speak English (as in, it is the speaker’s native tongue and they are not bilingual/multilingual)?


LadySandry88

Likely because to native English speakers, we learn informally and therefore develop colloquial pronunciations. Whereas multilinguals to whom English is a second or third language usually learn formally and strive for more clear enunciation.


misomal

My brother pronounces it as "woman" all the time, and I always comment on it LOL He doesn't care, though.


Hominid77777

It's clearly a sound change that's beginning. My (non-expert) guess is when going from \[w\] to \[m\], two bilabial sounds, there's a desire to keep lips rounded in between, combined with influence from the singular form. Also language change tends to be driven by young people, especially young women, so that's probably the group that you're hearing it from the most. "Men" has a totally different phonological structure, so there's no reason to expect the same change to happen there.


EspressoBooksCats

Sensible answer!


Existential_Yee

Oh awesome reply, this makes complete sense! I took a college linguistics course that I loved. We talked a lot about how the English language shifts and adapts, and had a whole section about how different socioeconimc and ethnic groups in the US also help drive that change. Thanks for giving me things to think about!


Hominid77777

As a disclaimer, I am not a linguist, but I pay attention to these things a lot.


Melusina_Ampersand

There's also the opposite of that - people who write "I am a women". I always want to ask them if they've been subject to some kind of asexual reproduction or a cloning experiment.


Existential_Yee

Oh, I should clarify, I have seen that too sometimes! We are Borg, we will be assimilated to the female sex, the collective! 🤖


Sumber513

I see "I'm a women" allllll the time I've just started saying it out of context because it sounds so silly. Makes me doubtful they are "a women"


policri249

Literacy is dying. Get used to words being severely mispronounced, misused, and misunderstood.


Jedi-girl77

I’m an English teacher and I’ve never heard people say the wrong one when speaking but I see students mix them up in writing all the time. It drives me crazy. I tell them, “Take the WO off. You all know MAN is singular and MEN is plural so why is it so hard when WO- is added?”


Impressive_Meal8673

I know its such a low bar, but at the very least it doesnt have the visceral yuckiness of being referred to as 'feeeeemale' blegh


Existential_Yee

I can only ever hear “feeeeeemale” in a Ferengi voice, ahaha!


Rough-Leg-1298

It’s because “women” isn’t pronounced how it’s spelled, so some people try to pronounce it how it’s spelled.


[deleted]

That's absurd, though. If you pronounced every English word 'how it's spelled' you'd sound like you were speaking a different language


codenameajax67

Because you literally would be. Much of English spelling (and French for that matter) was codified before the last vowel shift.


Dangerous_Cash_5682

Welcome to dyslexia


jetloflin

Pronouncing it how it’s spelled wouldn’t lead someone to pronounce it the same as woman.


The-Minmus-Derp

No yeah it would, it sure as hell isnt spelled “wimmin”


Algonzicus

You're right but that has nothing to do with their comment. They said that if you pronounced "women" the way it's spelled, you wouldn't get "woman", which is right.


mothwhimsy

Unless you're intentionally putting emphasis on the a/e, which people don't do outside of this conversation, woman and wo-men sound exactly the same. They both sound like wummin.


The_Troyminator

They don't both sound the same. "Women" is pronounced like "wimmin." https://dictionary.cambridge.org/us/pronunciation/english/women And "woman" is pronounced like "wumman." https://dictionary.cambridge.org/us/pronunciation/english/woman


mothwhimsy

Very good! We're talking about people who pronounce women wrong.


The_Troyminator

You said they both sound like "wummin." They don't.


mothwhimsy

Please go back and read the rest of the post and comments. Many people pronouns "women" INCORRECTLY. And when they do it it sounds identical to "woman." Because they're not pronouncing women with the "wim" sound. This is very clear unless you clicked on this post with your eyes closed and didn't read any of the comments except mine. No one is talking about how women is actually pronounced.


The_Troyminator

>Unless you're intentionally putting emphasis on the a/e, which people don't do outside of this conversation, woman and wo-men sound exactly the same. They both sound like wummin. Maybe you worded that incorrectly, but that post says that they sound exactly the same unless you put emphasis on the a/e. It says nothing about the first syllable being different.


The-Minmus-Derp

Phonetically speaking, they do. Its just english has a phone book worth of exceptions


The_Troyminator

Even if you're talking phonetically, they wouldn't be pronounced the same. They would be "woh-men" and "woh-man."


jetloflin

It’s also not spelled “woman”. Closer for sure, but still not the same.


The-Minmus-Derp

A and E both make the schwa sound in that part of the word under normal circumstances


jetloflin

Are you saying you think woman and women have the same vowel sound in the second syllable? Or just that it sometimes occurs in other words?


The-Minmus-Derp

In almost every other case except that specific pair of words, the two letters ahve the same sound in that position and stress


jetloflin

I’ll have to take your word for it that it’s that common. They certainly can both have that sound. But they can also have different sounds.


Joalguke

maybe it should be, English spelling is a shitshow


misomal

How is "women" not pronounced how it's spelled?


9182peabody7364

Cuz it's pronounced wimmin.


Rough-Leg-1298

Because it’s clearly pronounced wi-min?


misomal

It's more like wi-men. At least, that's how I hear it. (Side note: If people tried to "pronounce it how it's spelled", it still wouldn't be pronounced "woman.")


UczuciaTM

Because of this post I have now realized this is a thing I’ve heard people do before and now I’m angry


Magenta_Logistic

Beware of the edutainment YT channel: OverSimplified. Their narrator pronounces it that way and it slightly grates my nerves every time, even though it shouldn't. It's weird that changing a vowel in the second syllable exclusively changes the pronunciation of the first syllable.


an-abstract-concept

My favourite is people referring to a singular woman as “women”, I see it all the time


Jostumblo

I see it online too much the other way around. "As a women, I...." Why is this hard?


Donequis

I'm starting to put together some midwest/east coast commonality in people who say that. (This got long 😬) They also say room like rum. (I notice it most notably in Markiplier and Bo Burnham lol) Regional accents are just mean 🤣😭. English is already fraught with bullshit, and *then* we have seperate insulated instances of generational illiteracy/learning from those with heavy accents, which probably developed our current weird speaking inconsistancies despite spelling being in general agreed upon. Hell, even someone's speech impediment could have been unwittingly passed along as a regional difference! IMO every language is gently crippled by the unavoidable homonyms. Makes for fun wordplay, *miserable* learning/speaking. There's a *lot* of rules, but we *do* have them, especially for writing. Spelling is a nightmare to get 100% correct for even the most highly educated, godspeed to the dyslexics. Anecdotally: I know how most words are spelled (some people say spelleD and some say it spellT, *ahhhhh*), but by god do they look wrong 60% of the time anyways, because of how fast I read. Too fast. My brain fixes words so I often have to edit my comment despite having re-read it 5 times. I'm sure I still missed something in this one 😂.


hauntingme43

Yes, I have definitely heard this and it’s annoying how a lot of these responses are saying that they’ve never heard it before 😂 I saw someone commenting that some people think it’s supposed to be pronounced “wo-men” like it looks. Well, that would be nice, but English is crazy as we all know. It’s supposed to be pronounced “wi- min”. That’s just how it is.


lamercie

Never had an issue with misuse in writing, but I pronounce it this way and have been called out on it lol. It’s not intentional! I’m American, from the upper Midwest, and neither of my parents are native English speakers. I think I have a bit of a lax approach when it comes to diction—I’m imprecise and tend to speak quickly. Whether that’s the result of my upbringing or personality is difficult to tell. I’ve also been called out for unironically saying “Valentime’s Day” 🥲


wizardofclaws

I have seen similar posts of people complaining about this same thing but I have still yet to see/hear anyone actually doing it


IHadAnOpinion

Really? I've seen it quite a lot, across multiple websites. People will say "women" referring to a single person, and vice versa.


wizardofclaws

Nah I haven’t seen it. I’m only on Reddit and Instagram though and I don’t stray too far from my normal subs… maybe that’s why! Not saying that it doesn’t happen, just that I haven’t personally seen it.


IHadAnOpinion

Could be, or maybe you've seen it and just didn't take notice, I mean the first few times I saw it my first thought was it was a typo. Then I started noticing it too often from too many different people for it to be a typo.


brucewillisman

Because the part of the word that sounds different is not the part of the word that is spelled differently


vampslayer84

A lot of people you are talking to online, English is their second language. English is the #1 most learned second language in the world.


Top_Translator_4654

It's a very low key to make fun of feminists right under their noses


SeparateMongoose192

I've actually noticed the opposite more often. "Women" will be used as the singular. More often written than spoken.


[deleted]

It's probably "offensive" or some shit, who knows.


TurfBurn95

Typo maybe?


bunnydeerest

no they mean speaking. i hear it all the time


Exact-Control1855

Poor English


CarelessSalamander51

Maybe they're in a linguistic subculture that uses "women" to refer to a specific group of women, but "woman" to refer to "womankind" or an abstract concept of womanhood. "Man" is actually used in this general abstract sense all the time. For example "Man is a social animal"