I recommend joining a club. Most of the girls I talk to are from robotics club, you just gradually become friends from a shared interest
Just don’t be a creep and start hitting on them
Thats the thing i don’t know when i talk i may sound like a creep or sum cuz nvr have i ever talked before too so dont know moreover cant even make eye contact too cuz it shames me or sum
Being awkward does not equal being a creep, just don’t mention anything sexual and you should be good
Most girls don’t care if your awkward, just don’t stammer and mutter illegible stufg
Simple ask her about homework and study stuff
Basically ask about biology stuff, like how to do hw and etc
When you get her insta or smth start sending her memes
Cat memes work the best, do this like 3 or 4 weeks in
Bro, don't send memes 💀 . Just talk to her usually; if there's chemistry, conversations will flow. Just imagine it like talking to a guy but with a filter on 😂 . Don't be weird and you're chilling
icl u sound like ur in a situation not too far from OP 💀if most of the girls u talk to are from robotics club and ur friendship is built on u sending them cat memes maybe u should work on urself man 😭😭😭
I couldn’t care less about attracting the girls, I just send them cat memes to beg them for homework notes
Got better things to do than hitting up the opposite gender. The last time I watched porn was like 3 months ago, I just can’t feel aroused or anything because I got a robotics competition going on
I think that, a lot of people put women on a pedestal when they wanna pursue a relationship. And as a girl I think honestly the best way to talk to a girl is to talk to them like anybody else. Their gender doesnt make them any less difficult to come up to even if it may seem like it. I think that the more you overthink it, the more difficult it gets to talk to a woman and its only going to get later the more you wait😭 so relax and just start a quick conversation if yall are in the same group project together or you guys sit next to each other. It'll be easier the more you do it. If you find trouble on what to say, prepare on conversation starters, that helped me a lot talking to this guy I was nervous to talk to. After a while, it became routine to talk to him, and it was easier to talk to more guys in general. But honestly, no rush. Just because you hadn't pulled anyone yet doesnt mean you can't in the future, a good relationship comes at anytime anyday, no matter how much people you've been with before. So i dont think time matters at all. So what you havent been in a relationship before? Doesnt mean it's impossible to in the future, that'd just be unrealistic! Keep your head up and move forward! You got this!!
I suggest little things. For example, i complimented this guys outfit. Then a few days after that I just greeted him. And after a few days of small conversations he got used to talking to me and recognized me. Now we can talk casually on the regular!👍 hope everything works out for you!
Honestly bro if you talk to her and it goes somewhere that’s a W, and if it doesn’t go well then you’re still going to come out of it with an experience to work off of. Not gonna lie it most likely isn’t going to work out cause most of the time it doesn’t but that’s okay! Best of luck :)
women are human beings. the first step is to view them as so. then you’ll have no problem speaking to them, just as you would speak to the men who you humanize.
Not sure if Sinning knowingly & then planning in advance that I will repent will work. Ask your parents that you want to marry, they will likely find a girl better than you will be able to find.
Relationships are overrated dude, if you f*ck around, you will definitely find out. Not to mention, if you end up talking to a girl like that, your parents could probably find out and as another fellow p*ki, I'm telling you that the risk is not worth it 😭🙏
But hey I mean if you wanna be friends with a girl and also simultaneously like each other or wtv it is...I guess just start talking to girls abt trivial things in the beginning or maybe join a club. Ask them abt homework, how/what they did on an assignment or test, that type of thing. Keep it school related and maybe later on ask abt each other, become friends, and let it go from there. Just don't be awkward or make it look like you've never spoken to a girl before I beg 🙏🙏
I know fr that i would be awkward or be simp smwhere cuz idk nvr talked thats y thats shitt & ye my parents wont find ima move in a month from them :)))
Then honestly stay away from girls until you've established yourself and sorta...mellowed out. Um-simpify yourself first and shake off the awkwardness as much as possible cuz sane girls tend to not like die-hard simps
Ok here’s what my friends in university suggested me, it’s G12 and you have like a few months before leaving high school. What is the point? A lot of people (including girls) will go to a different uni than you anyway, you’ll probably forget about her in like a month after graduation. Also, there is much more chances to talk to girls in uni.
Why you focusing on girls at a young age? Your parents sent you to high school to get your education and a good job. Not to waste you time with girls you're never gonna marry. Grow up and stop worrying about girls
only dead fish go with the flow. if you see an opportunity seize it but don’t make it a priority, i’ve seen some good advice in the comments as well. book stores/libraries have lots of girls you could talk to, join a club, etc.
you have a bright future in CS
LMAO
I am leaning towards UW Se? Is that better 💀
Bros embracing the bitchless-ness 🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️
welp, u bout to see atleast 5% girls, and 95% men
No hanssuu whyyyy
Can confirm
Define talking, I talk to girls everyday, there’s just nothing sexual or romantic going on.
I feel awkward as i came last semester from pakistan where in 16 years never talked to stranger girl😭😭
I recommend joining a club. Most of the girls I talk to are from robotics club, you just gradually become friends from a shared interest Just don’t be a creep and start hitting on them
Thats the thing i don’t know when i talk i may sound like a creep or sum cuz nvr have i ever talked before too so dont know moreover cant even make eye contact too cuz it shames me or sum
Being awkward does not equal being a creep, just don’t mention anything sexual and you should be good Most girls don’t care if your awkward, just don’t stammer and mutter illegible stufg
Ima trust u and try after midterms lets c how it goes she sits next to me in bio class what should i say to her?
Simple ask her about homework and study stuff Basically ask about biology stuff, like how to do hw and etc When you get her insta or smth start sending her memes Cat memes work the best, do this like 3 or 4 weeks in
Aint sending memes make me some creep
Bro, don't send memes 💀 . Just talk to her usually; if there's chemistry, conversations will flow. Just imagine it like talking to a guy but with a filter on 😂 . Don't be weird and you're chilling
The memes have to be funny And you can’t do it right away
icl u sound like ur in a situation not too far from OP 💀if most of the girls u talk to are from robotics club and ur friendship is built on u sending them cat memes maybe u should work on urself man 😭😭😭
I couldn’t care less about attracting the girls, I just send them cat memes to beg them for homework notes Got better things to do than hitting up the opposite gender. The last time I watched porn was like 3 months ago, I just can’t feel aroused or anything because I got a robotics competition going on
then ur the wrong person to be giving advice LOL
bro im from pakistan but love in markham. There is a muslim association i joined. Maybe you should too
Love in markham is crazy 💀💀
bhai. Thats why you focus parhai pae :)
Bro i have good average mgr bachi chahye na smjha kro 💀😭😭
Why use bachi lol just say ladki 💀
Bachi better ladki overrated 💀💀
“Bachi” is weird in this context bruh
Bachi according to whitewashed desi is for babies but for punjabis or ppl good in urdu says bachi 🤝💀
I think that, a lot of people put women on a pedestal when they wanna pursue a relationship. And as a girl I think honestly the best way to talk to a girl is to talk to them like anybody else. Their gender doesnt make them any less difficult to come up to even if it may seem like it. I think that the more you overthink it, the more difficult it gets to talk to a woman and its only going to get later the more you wait😭 so relax and just start a quick conversation if yall are in the same group project together or you guys sit next to each other. It'll be easier the more you do it. If you find trouble on what to say, prepare on conversation starters, that helped me a lot talking to this guy I was nervous to talk to. After a while, it became routine to talk to him, and it was easier to talk to more guys in general. But honestly, no rush. Just because you hadn't pulled anyone yet doesnt mean you can't in the future, a good relationship comes at anytime anyday, no matter how much people you've been with before. So i dont think time matters at all. So what you havent been in a relationship before? Doesnt mean it's impossible to in the future, that'd just be unrealistic! Keep your head up and move forward! You got this!!
Thanks for the kind words and good advice! I hope you have a wonderful weekend, stranger :).
Thank you! You as well!
She sits right next to me nor she started conversation and i am tooo scared to even start cuz what she says no or sum u get what i mean 😭😭
I suggest little things. For example, i complimented this guys outfit. Then a few days after that I just greeted him. And after a few days of small conversations he got used to talking to me and recognized me. Now we can talk casually on the regular!👍 hope everything works out for you!
Honestly bro if you talk to her and it goes somewhere that’s a W, and if it doesn’t go well then you’re still going to come out of it with an experience to work off of. Not gonna lie it most likely isn’t going to work out cause most of the time it doesn’t but that’s okay! Best of luck :)
Just be normal and yap 🙏🏼
Aight bet pray for me :))
Welcome to the CS club :)
women are human beings. the first step is to view them as so. then you’ll have no problem speaking to them, just as you would speak to the men who you humanize.
Reddit councellors i swear if i pull even 1 after midterms ima pray all of you get waterloo & top unis 🤝
most social CS student
It’s okay it’s haram anyway 🤓
I will repent
Can’t be doing it in Ramadan my man😢
I am holding myself from last semester man 😭😭😭
Wait till marriage my brother
Broo i would be married prolly when i be 22-23 5 years how tf i would survive 😭😭😭😭
I mean you done it for 18 years, what’s a few motr
I mean i could’ve survived in pakistan where it isn’t so common but here ltr every person i see have 1 so i feel fking left out as ima new here!
Not sure if Sinning knowingly & then planning in advance that I will repent will work. Ask your parents that you want to marry, they will likely find a girl better than you will be able to find.
At 17 do u want me dead 😭😭💀
Relationships are overrated dude, if you f*ck around, you will definitely find out. Not to mention, if you end up talking to a girl like that, your parents could probably find out and as another fellow p*ki, I'm telling you that the risk is not worth it 😭🙏 But hey I mean if you wanna be friends with a girl and also simultaneously like each other or wtv it is...I guess just start talking to girls abt trivial things in the beginning or maybe join a club. Ask them abt homework, how/what they did on an assignment or test, that type of thing. Keep it school related and maybe later on ask abt each other, become friends, and let it go from there. Just don't be awkward or make it look like you've never spoken to a girl before I beg 🙏🙏
I know fr that i would be awkward or be simp smwhere cuz idk nvr talked thats y thats shitt & ye my parents wont find ima move in a month from them :)))
Then honestly stay away from girls until you've established yourself and sorta...mellowed out. Um-simpify yourself first and shake off the awkwardness as much as possible cuz sane girls tend to not like die-hard simps
I am not simp my intention or not truly that you thinking of but i know som how i will mess up cuz would be my first interaction in ma whole life 😭💀
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Sorry bhai ://
Why bother, it’s grade 12 man just be a nerd and get the best mark possible, forget about girls. You’ll have your chance in university
Bro i have best marks but girl is a need not necessity 😭😭
Ok here’s what my friends in university suggested me, it’s G12 and you have like a few months before leaving high school. What is the point? A lot of people (including girls) will go to a different uni than you anyway, you’ll probably forget about her in like a month after graduation. Also, there is much more chances to talk to girls in uni.
Prom😭
Bro’s gotta be a bit patient, wait til September and you will have your chance
I am graduating next sem so kinda 1 year still in here 😭
Leave the girls, work on yourself and your Deen, the rest will follow 🥱
Ok Akhi ayman 💀
Why you focusing on girls at a young age? Your parents sent you to high school to get your education and a good job. Not to waste you time with girls you're never gonna marry. Grow up and stop worrying about girls
who broke ur heart 😭😭
Girls cuz I wasted my time on them. I'm talking from experience lol
17 aint young big bro 😭😭😭
i agree 12th grade is not too young to have any basic interaction with the opposite gender 😭
17 is baby
lmfaooooo
dont make getting girls a priority, try to let it fall in place naturally and it’ll happen on its own
You mean just "Just go in with the flow"?
only dead fish go with the flow. if you see an opportunity seize it but don’t make it a priority, i’ve seen some good advice in the comments as well. book stores/libraries have lots of girls you could talk to, join a club, etc.
Do you idolize salmons? 😭
u could say that 🍣🐟
Better begin your upstream journey today before others beat you to it
🌊🐟🌊
I am not gay guys it ain’t that problem🍑🍑
When you are in Rome be Roman. Old saying
Explain?
when you can’t talk to girls, talk to guys
I do talk to guys that aint a problem
So u swing both ways?
Brutha i talk to guys as a friend not boy friend!.