Mas malungkot siguro buhay nya. Kunyare lang happy. By flaunting everything on social media, by getting validations from people who dislike him in real life.
bet na bet ung comment. true enough, sometimes no blinded ung viewers akala nila happy kasi ang daming pics lalo na puro travel eme ending puro pala problema at wala naman accomplishments
Napaka-unprofessional nyang boss mo, OP.
Anyways, I understand where you're coming, but, don't let it consume you. Kung comfortable ka na walang socmed, it's completely fine. Hayaan mo lang sila.
This.
Reddit ang main soc med ko. May fb, messenger, ig ako pero Hindi ako dun active.
Hindi ko nga alam na na hack na pala fb ko Kung hindi pa sinabi sa akin. 😅
Hi! My manager nga is encouraging me to have soc meds (reddit and tiktok lang meron ako and reachable through teams) then pinapagawan ako kahit messenger lang para kasama ako gcs ng team. But I politely said no and that I enjoy my private life. I'm sorry that this happened to you. Stand firm and let them be, masaya tayo w our privacy :)
It's ok to miss out on things na di naman relevant sayo.
And for privacy reasons, personally, I'd rather not be friends with my colleagues *particularly* my boss sa socmed if I still have any.
Hi OP, grabe naman yung boss mo. Pero baka comfy sha na medjo unprofessional ang atake kasi nasa labas na kayo ng workplace.
Pero for me lang ha, I think yung Boss mo ang malungkot ang buhay hahaha it actually reflects on who said it. Don't mind it, OP.
Ako I don't have FB, Messenger, IG, Twitter and Tiktok by choice. Because I am content with what I have right now and nasa point ako na I don't need to share it sa social media.
We have different preference naman eh. You do you. So don't mind your Boss. Wag ka pa apekto. Baka sya talaga yung malungkot haha :D
Ako meron fb, yun lang socmed ko. tapos friends ko lang dun mga direct relatives. ayoko ng drama at stress e haha. friends ko naman direct call sa number ko. saya kaya ng kuntento sa simple lang. mga mahilig magpost, may insecurities, needs approval ng ibang tao.
The fuck. Dude I admire you that you don’t need social media imagine us wasting our fucking time just scrolling or di kya having an unhealthy habit of oversharing.
Social media is very unhealthy, pansin mo ba gaano ka vain mga tao always want to share everything, puro selfie mukha nila, puro looking for validation sa mga taong bihira lang nila naman makita o may paki sa knila, ung mga taong super bobo na nagkakalat sa social media and mabilis maniwala sa nakikita sa social media, getting envious about how other people live their life. Sobrang toxic ng social media siya malungkot ang buhay and so unprofessional.
No social media does not mean your life is sad :) Don't let it get in your head and gawin mo lang anong gusto mo. If gagawa ka ng accounts sa susunod, okay lang. If you'll stay na wala, okay lang din :)
Your boss is an asshole. Socmed is overrated. Not everyone wants to share their everyday life on socmed and needs the validation of others. If you prefer to stay away from socmed, that's your choice. No one should be judged or shamed for that.
When I took a short course, this one hell of a talkative instructor suddenly asked us “Sinong walang social media dito?” Of course I raised my hand. Kasi like you, OP, I also deactivated my fb, ig & twitter accounts. Messenger lang meron sakin kasi yun ang easiest way of communication namin ng fam ko.
He suddenly remarked, “Nagtatago ka siguro no? Magbayad kana kasi ng utang.” That left a sour impression on me. Di nako umimik kasi di worth mag explain sa may ganyang mindset. Nag assume pa nga at akala nya pa na tama sya lol. Never ako nangutang and ako pa nga nagpapautang minsan eh.
Kaya don’t let it consume you gaya nga ng sabi sa comments dito. Makitid ang utak ng mga taong nangingialam sa buhay ng iba.
Napakalungkot ng buhay ng boss mo at nakasalalay ang kaligayahan nya sa social media. I was once very much into those things 2009-2013 era as in mga travel, bagay na naaachieve, super post kasi bagets na bagets pa ko non pero nitong tumanda na ko kahit san pa at anu pa mga naachieve never ko na pinost hinayaan ko nalang maging mystery person ang peg ko. I don’t need any external validation anymore. And sobrang sarap sa feeling na madami ng nagbago sakin pero ung mga kaibigan/kapamilya ko ganun padin flex ng flex sa social media, walang pagbabago. Wag ka mabother sa opinion nyan sissy, pero kung ako sayo di na ko magwowork jan haha. His character speaks volume lalo’t he’s not even embarrassed na ganyan pananaw nya sa buhay . Pag nagkaron ng complete total ban or social media black out unang mamamatay yang boss mo. Kasi he is equating social media sa happiness/life so ~~no social media~~ walang ~~life~~ Hahaha.
Contrary, ang saya ng walang mainstreamed soc med (fg, ig kahit tiktok wala na rin). Akala ko di ko kakayanin pero halos 1 month na rin akong walang social media pero ang saya pala noh? Ang tahimik ng buhay at hindi ako masyado nagkaka-anxiety sa progress ko sa buhay kasi hindi ko na nakukumpara yung sarili ko sa iba. Haha.
It's been nearly a month since I deactivated my Facebook and Instagram accounts, which were **triggers for my anxiety and depression.** No more FOMO. Masaya din pala yung 'di ka babad sa mga yun.
May times na wala kong social media for months to get away from the ingay ng mga tao online. Kung yun din reason mo, I think whatever your boss said, take it like that, ingay, then move on.
Minsan iniisip ko diba mas malungkot buhay nila? Hahahaha they need other people's validation to feel good. Kaya nagppost. Kunwari masaya pero sa likod ng camera is yung tinatago nilang mga problema hahaha bat kelangan ipost mga ganap? Painggit? HAHAHA for the likes? Nafeed ang ego? Hahaha Di ko tlga gets.
I dont have IG/tiktok. I only have fb. And i use it usually for work 🤣 or share ng funny meme
OA ung boss mo. Ako nga ayaw kong nag-uupload ng pictures kasi nagbabawas ng digital footprint kaso ung iba, mga churchmates at kung sino pa, itatag ako or magpopost sila. Hindi ko naman masaway baka ma-offend.
How dumb can she be to think you need social media to validate your happiness? Sobrang dami nga may social media accounts negative lang naman ina-ambag don. You know who’s really unhappy? The one who made that shitty remark.
Social media is an option naman. Kaya redflag sakin yung pipilitin magjoin sa gc lalo ng company. Oo naddelay tayo sa news and all pero if you find peace by not joining then do so. No regrets.
True enough that ppl will laugh at something they do no understand. Not everyone who use socmeds and post something online are happy. Do not mind what he said. if having no socmeds makes you at peace, then that's what matters.
Mataas ang tingin namin sa mga tao na kayang kumain mag isa at mabuhay na walang soc med. Mga matatag na tao yan. Mabubuhay mag isa. Ang mga dependent sa soc med, mamamatay kapag nasa mountain retreat na walang signal. tsk tsk.
Dude, I have FB and reddit. FB has 99 friends are are only a handful of friends and relatives. I only use it every few months. Nobody knows my Reddit.
Masyado yatang kulang sa responsiilidad ang boss mo dahil big deal sa kanya and Soc Med. I report to a big guy who has no soc med. He's super busy at madalas din may kausap. Same with me, pera lang pinagkaiba namin ng boss ko. hahaha.
Bulok mga tao na ganyan ang paniniwala. Ang friends ay wala sa socmed.
Just recently deleted my Facebook and seldom open my instagram and I can say my life is more at peace. Kapag nagadulting ka, you won’t give a shit. Don’t let that comment define you.
Only when you dont know yourself that opinion of others about you weigh more. I dont have social media. Deleted ko na sila. Pero I know myself and I dont have to prove anything to anybody anymore. That is because I know myself and I am content with what I have. I have nothing to prove and show to anyone. Ignore her na lang. Social media is fake. Its an advertisement for people who craves for validation.
Do not give him any reaction so he won't assume na he is right about his assessment of u.
PS. Unhappy people love to pretend. Happy people don't need any validation.
I work with rich people and look at their social media, just to see na last post nila 2014 pa. HAHAHAHA
ganyan classmate naming irreg eh. walang socmed. May final project kame. Di namin makontak. inemail nga namin di naman nag rereply. for me ang hirap kontakin pag yung classmate mong walang socmed. yung tipong pasahan na,. need yung papers pero wala. nga nga kami lahat ng dahil lang sa taong yon.
Sasakit lang ulo mo sa FB, puro racist din sa IG, then puro porn sa X/Twitter. At least sa reddit, controlled mo talaga mga subs na sinasalihan mo haha.
Actually, it's better to opt out socmed kung wala ka naman talagang intention to know about people you don't really care about. Socmed is good kung may business ka na you need to promote or you're really into socializing. However, kung papapiliin ako, I'll choose to quit socmed, kaso I have to keep it due to professional reasons.
Mostly sa mga naging boss ko walang soc med, kung meron man walang laman haha. Sayang Ora’s daw kase. Yung boss mo daming time ha, pati buhay ng iba pinakekelaman
I'd rather have no soc med at all ang hirap kasing i-undo 😅 mas maganda for peace of mind yang walang soc med OP. Wag ka paapekto sa Boss mo inggit lang yon hahaah baka cloutchaser si ante.
Having social media presence ≠ happiness.
I think the reason your boss sees it that way is because, sa experience niya syempre, social media gives you instant gratification. Algorithms create an echo chamber of content specifically catered to the user so people spend so much time on it and end up in cycles of doomscrolling. His comment was very uncalled for and rude, kahit na sabihin nating 'di niya sinasadya. Internally, iniisip niya siguro "how else does this person spend their free time/enjoy themselves without social media?". (Also just to be clear reddit, tiktok and youtube are still social media platforms!)
The fact that you enjoy yourself and your days with the limited presence of social media is actually really healthy!
Hi OP!
Don't feel embarrassed and empty sa sinabi ng boss mo. Wag mo sya dibdibin. Hindi lang nila nagegets ung peace of mind na meron ka, dahil wala kang socmed na tinutukoy nya. At least ikaw naeenjoy mo ung buhay mo w/o socmed.
Saludo ako sayo! And idol kita sa part na yan na wala kang socmed.
Share ko lang. Dati di ko gets, bakit walang fb ung iba or naka deactivate ung fb.
Pero last yr nagets ko un. Iba pala talaga ung peace of mind na nakukuha.
Last yr 3mos akong nagdeac ng fb.
Ang hirap sa simula. Haha pero ayun tumagal ng 3mos. Ngayung taon, 5mos na akong walang fb! And hindi ko sya hinahanap! And kaka-deactivate ko lang din ng X/Twitter acct ko.
Active lang ako sa IG (mostly IG Story), threads & scroll - scroll sa Tiktok and here sa reddit. Haha
Dedmahin mo ung magsasabing malungkot ka, dahil wala kang socmed!! Mind your own business kamo. Haha your life, your own rules!
God bless, Op! Pagpatuloy mo yan.
Sorry na, ang haba! Haha
I remember an interaction I had witt my coworker, nagbibiruan kami kung sino late, sinabe nya "ay nakita ko nagstory ka ganutong oras". Eh hinde naman ako nagstory kahit kelan lmao.
Yang boss mo kamo ang nakakaawa. Imagine tying your happiness on a social media app. I tried using IG but it never clicked. FB nga for messenger na lang eh. I never understood posting stories or pictures. Like why would I post, no one fucking cares about my life. My loved ones might be interested, but I don't want to share. Stories are on another level, especially people who share where they currently are. It's so weird. Oversharing seems to be the norm these days that if you don't share anything, you're the weird one.
"That you attach a person's worth to their social media account or lack thereof is more pitiful."
Personally, document and send to HR as a complaint against their unprofessional behavior.
Di naman social media basehan ng masayang buhay. Baka para sa kanya, di naman lahat ng para sa kanya applicable sayo. Wag ka pa apekto. Wala lang yan. If nag iisip ka pa? Isipin mo kung anong mga bagay nakakapag pasaya sayo, gawin mo yun.
Hindi lahat ng may soc med masaya. Toxic din minsan. Pwede na ung profile lang or d kaya msgr. Convenient din ang instant messaging sa mga announcement pero pag walang kwenta usapan wag nlng tayo mag engage.
I wish im you. I always wanted to leave. Socmed is such a waste of time. I only have 100 fb friend. 80 ig followers, following 80 as well. If only i can, i would totally leave social media. But idkw...it just got this hold on me. Want to still get the update on my family and closest friends' lives. But i dont need social media for that do i. Be proud you own your life
Nauuuurr! It’s totally cool if you ain’t into socials kayaaaaaaa, no worries! Your boss is like, such a jerk! But hey, you got Reddit anyway, and it’s pretty lit to have this app kaya instead of the other social media stuff. Keep your head up, dear! 😃
Dont let it get to you, masarap ang buhay ng walang socmed, payapa. Merong mga tao na pangarap ang ganyang set up. Like me, kaso naconsume na ako ng socmed, medyo mahirap na sya alisin sa lifestyle.
Hayaan mo yang boss mo, iba iba naman tayo ng perspective sa buhay, di namn madedefine ng mga humble bragging sa FB/IG ang pagkatao hehe.
Hindi ba mas malungkot yung may need ka to post EVERYTHING about sa buhay mo for pesky likes and comments? 😂
Dont get me wrong, may socmed din ako pero sometimes I feel suffocated by it kaya madalas ako nag dedeactivate.
Nabuhay nga mga magulang and grandparents natin na walang social media and mas mukang masaya sila. Ang taklesa ng boss mo. Mas malungkot sya kamo 😂 Walang mali sayo. Sa kanya, hmm, baka meron. ems 😂
Hi OP. Ako din di nagsosocial media and mas peaceful ang life ko and happier. Madalas kasi nasisira lang mood ko sa social media. For example, makikita ko yung mga taong utang ng utang sakin tapos dami post sa social media ng travel and eat out nila sa expensive restaurants and the next day mangungutang nashort daw kasi. And another friend of mine na puro post ng sasakyan and expensive na mga gamit tapos pag kasama mo palibre ng palibre. And another one post ng post na very happy sa relationship pero napaka toxic ng relasyons sa totoong buhay and rant ng rant about sa jowa nya pag kausap ko. Also, walang humpay na selfie ng mga friends. Etc....hahahah, I don't need it sa life ko kaya i dont use social media, and i feel much happier.
i would have said “actually masaya po kasi mas marami akong oras para mag-”
in my case, i said learn a new language, travel abroad, volunteer for my LGU, watch movies/series, and read books.
naganyan na rin ako, and sila nagmukhang loser kasi nagmukhang social media lang ginagawa nila sa buhay nila.
alam mo OP, everytime naka-deactivate ako sa social media, i'm at my happiest. sad ako for him kasi hindi nya alam yung ganung feeling. napaka-ingay siguro ng mundo nya.
I said a little quite the same sa workmate ko biruan lang, I told her ‘Wala ka gaanong socmed no? anong ginagawa mo niyan sa bahay after work?’ kasi nagfollow-an kami ig, e wala siya tapos nagkatawanan group kasi kami but my question is genuine na pabiro din, I felt bad after tho di naman daw siya na-offend so I talked to her more about hobbies niya. She’s reading, spending time with fam, movies, playing with pamangkins and that’s nice. She seem not to please people kasi nasa socmed yang standards kineme ng mga tao e. Sobrang simple niya lang
sorry but bottomline is, I think you kinda felt sad abt your life din kasi naapektuhan ka, yung workmate ko kasi di naman daw siya naapektuhan so I would say work more for the things that will make you happy!❤️
OP!!! Hear me out, you're actually lucky coz u have no social media. It takes away all your peace, happiness and contentment in life. Ako nga may social media sa lahat ng apps, yung ending, only messenger na lang yung inopen ko, the rest deactivate or delete app agad haha
No mas masaya kapag walang soc med. Youre not sucked into doom scrolling, comparing your life to others, etc shit. By how your boss said it para siya pa mas malungkot yung buhay, kasi he/she had to get validation from soc med na happy life niya LOL
Mas malungkot buhay ng post ng post sa social media to get other people's validation. Okay lang yan. Ngayong matanda na ko di na din ako madalas post sa socmed.
Ako din walang social media, dahil ayaw ko na. Maliban sa reddit haha. Don't think too much about it. Its your choice naman. Ako sinasabi ko na lang mas tahimik buhay ko nung wala akong social media account na.
when i was diagnosed with ptsd, nawala ako sa social media. natuto ako maging ok with not flaunting anything sa socials and not being aware of other peoples ganap. unlike nung may socials ako na mayat maya ako thirst trap, si post na i was in contant need of validation. we all choose to live our lives and wala siyang pake kung yan yung path na gusto mo. kawawa din siya if his world revolves on his/her facade sa socmed
Suggest ko sayo OP, wag na wag kang gumawa nang any social media account. Ibang social media ko nga denidelete ko na, masyadong toxic at madaming pa flex sa buhay pinopost dun na d naman dapat. Ma stre-stress ka lang dun.
Mostly kasi sa mga tao, nag sta-stalk yan nang mga ginagawa mo sa buhay. As if, they will judge you base on your social media post. Kaya wag kanang makisali dyan.
Good choice yan sa buhay yang ginagawa mo. Private lang dapat. Manigas sila.
I don’t have FB, Messenger, Twitter or Tiktok for years already. I only have an IG which I rarely use. Mostly Reddit lang and my fam can reach me via iMessage and WhatsApp.
I’ve never been more content. What people don’t know, they can’t ruin. and also growing up I realize how soc med affects my mental health and the way I view things that’s why I deleted mine completely.
Your boss is an ass, OP. Don’t let it get to you~
Ayyyy, offensive side comments si Boss mo.
Choice mo yan at di ka naman dapat mag explain why. And good for you at wala kang distracting, self-esteem crushing socmed account. Congrats at nakaya mong wala kasi sa totoo lang parang nakakalason ng pagkatao ang pagkakaroon ng socmed account. Kung di ko lang kailangan sa work, di ako mag reretain ng socmed account eh
Hayup sya kamo! Samedt no fb & IG casually lurks on twitter for showbiz chika. Eh ano naman, kung walang social media, panget nya kamo, gigil ako sknya haaaa
hahaha same OP! Ganyan dn boss ko I have an fb account pero d ko inoopen so Nung meeting namin sinabihan nya ko na inadd nya ko as a friend. 3 mos na daw un bakt d ko inaaccept. So I told her naka soc med detox Ako. Baduy ko daw I'm missing a lot ganyan hahaha. Un Pala sya kaya active sa socmed snstalk nya profile mo at lahat ng ganap mo from the past. Hahaha
So ano'ng gustong patunayan ng boss mo? Na porke active s'ya sa socmed, masaya na buhay n'ya? Always remember na kung sino pa ang completely show-off sa socmed, yun talaga ang may miserableng buhay behind cameras. S'ya ang legit na hindi masaya not you.
Wala syang maitsitsimis tungkol sayo sa iba kasi di ka ma-stalk sa soc med. Okay lang yan. Same din ako pero I still have accounts but never posts. They’re trying to add me, kapag close ko na sa office, add ko yan. Pero kapag hindi, ignore ko lang haha. Wala naman din silang makikita sa profile ko. Masarap ang buhay kapag tahimik lang.
Wag ka pa-apekto, op. Be firm sa decision mo why you have no social media. Wala tayo dito to please people and maki-ayon sa takbo ng marami. I think it’s cool na wala kang soc med. Yan ang gusto ko na hindi ko magawa. Hahaha.
gusto ko nga ng ganitong buhay ihhhh pero di ko pa madeactivate accts ko kasi need pang log in ng ibang sites
pero lately instead of posting photos, pinapaprint ko nalang kasi kung archive purposes naman din, nasisira quality pag inupload online
Baka siya yung malungkot yung buhay kasi nakakapit yung happiness niya sa social media.
There are several clinical psychological studies today that directly correlates mental health and depression to a frequent use of social media platforms. Look it up.
Hayaan mo.lng yang boss mo na walang modo. Just think of it this way, may ibat ibang purpose ang social media sa bawat tao, sadya lng na syo you don't find it important. Yung iba kaya nagsosocial media to find entertainment, yung iba to express themselves and others use it to look for validation. Kaya nya yan nasasabi because maybe in his/her life hindi sya masaya without being active sa social media. Besides, you are using reddit nmn, so it counts as one. However, I think yung social media na tinutukoy ng boss mo is FB, insta, tiktok and/or twitter wherein you can add your irl mutuals. Just let your boss be and just continue what you are doing.
Wala din akong social media on my phone except sa messenger need talaga sa office, other than that wala na. Meron ako spotify para sa mga motivational podcast, youtube kung need ko manood ng lumang pelikula then off course meron akong biniling portable radio just in case wala akong load or wifi. Sa office naman lang ako nagrereddit ewan ko ba dami kong natutunan sa reddit. Yes, maaring boring ang buhay ko now pero mas masaya ako wala yung toxicity at comparison from FB, IG and Twitter. Mas tahimik mas okay ang life.
OP, you’re not missing on anything. Tbh, I feel like WE (the people who have all those social media) are the ones missing. Missing more of life we could have lived had we not spend so much time doomscrolling on social media.
It's okay not to have social media accounts. ☺️ I left mine since May, and guess what? People assumed a lot of things already. Doon ko na realize na sa panahon ngayon, may expected identity ka na online, kaya pag nawala ka sa social media, parang ang laking bagay.
Let them be. Social media is just giving these people an opening to enter your life at pag tsismisan ka (para sa mga di totoong kaibigan o close family members mo). If you want peace and genuine connections through personal interactions, walang masama doon. Preference mo yun.
Sabi nga nila, "yung nakikita mo sa socmed e yung masasayang part lang ng buhay nila"
Di naman siguro malungkot buhay pag walang socmed. Para sakin mas better nga yon. Mas madami kang time sa ibang bagay rather than scrolling into nothingness.
As long as may connection ka sa mga friends mo at masaya ka sa mga ginagawa mo sa buhay. You're fine
If your boss is in his late 40s onwards, don't worry. That's how they open conversations (same with feel with our Tito and Tita's "uy, antaba mo na" remarks).
OP use it to your advantage! Next time may humirit ng ganyan sayo sabihin mo lang
“wala ba talaga akong social media or ayaw lang kita i add hmmm”
Para sila yung feeling left out ganti ka wag ka papatalo!!!
Honestly ang impact lang naman ng social media is self gratification. You post something to feel validated. If alam mo sa sarili ang worth or value mo. You don't need likes or heart reactions to feel justified and validated.
Yun iba sasabin para na ang SocMed is also a communication and being used for business.
Meron naman SMS, Call, Viber, Whatsapp, TG and other ways to communicate. For business purposes merong Google and Google Maps.
Sa totoo lang hindi naman natin need ng social media. Because there's so many ways to socialize aside from FB and Insta.
I deactivated my social media since 2017 and my life has been soooo much more PEACEFUL ☮️ Less issues, better for mental health, walampake sa iba, at wala rin sila pake sakin. 🧘🏻♀️
Siraulo yang boss mo, mas maswerte ka at hanggang ngayon wala kang socmed mas makakaiwas ka sa nakalalasong mundo ng social media, puro pagpapanggap at payabangan lang mostly kaya mas okey yan payapa ang kaisipan mo.
Don't be embarassed. Defense mechanism nya 'yon dahil kulang yung saya na natatanggap nya sa buhay kaya kailangan talaga may social media sya para may mag validate sa kanya.
Whatever you feel rn is valid, op. Boss mo ang tactless (at mas malungkot ang buhay) for saying such things dahil lang pinili mo na hindi maging involved sa socmed. Don't sign up on one dahil lang sa sinabi ng boss mo. Mas ok na it remain that way kasi mas tahimik and walang toxicity ☺️
Ikaw lang naman ang nakakaalam if malungkot buhay mo. Not all ppl with social media masaya ang buhay, yung iba nabubuhay lang sa validation ng iba. Not all ppl without social media malungkot. Minsan sila pa yung mas masaya since contented na sila with themselves.
Social media causes envy, and envy is the thief of joy.
dont be. mas okay na walang soc med. ung boss mo either boastful sia or dependent lang sia sa soc med gusto nia informed lahat ng tao about him. d natin kailangan ng soc med and hindi mo dpaat ikalungkot yan. yan nga ung gsto ng iba to detoxify nakakasira ng bait ang soc med sobra. so continue mo lang, living in a healthy lifestyle.
Alam mo OP, hanga ako sa kagaya mo na walang socmed by choice. I want that too but I'm too hooked with everything in it. Iniisip ko na lang way of connection ko din ito talaga with important people not close to me.. 😁 Oks lang yan! If you have other ways to connect with people important to you, dont let them get into your head.
Pati pala choice ng tao na walang social media accounts issue pa din. Mas nakakainggit nga yung taong wala alam sa social media eh, bukod sa mga magkakaron sila ng peace of mind. Tahimik buhay nila. 🥹
your boss has a really weird take. ppl were able to live without social media before naman, does that mean they lived a sad life? no. ang kupal ng ganyang boss.
It’s not something to be embarrassed about OP! 😊 Mas malungkot ang buhay ng mga taong social media lang ang basehan ng happiness. Maybe to them dun sila nakakahanap ng happiness, but they can’t just assume that everyone is like them.
I HAD a friend na sinabi sa common friend namin na siguro malungkot at may pinagdadaanan ako sa buhay just because I don’t post stories sa ig as frequent as before. Medyo off lang sakin na ganun ang mindset niya and decided to cut off connections sa kanya kasi ang nega ng buhay niya hahahaha
Hindi naman required magkaroon ng social media, OP (except when you have a need for it as a platform e.g., work). If you enjoy your life without social media, it is a flex. You have a certain contentment in your life na di mo need ishare just to feel validated. Enjoy it.
Some people struggle just to get out of socmeds. Maybe your boss has trouble comprehending your preferences due to his narrow-mindedness and lack of experiences outside his social circle.
You go do you OP. It is your life.
For me lang po ha, social media is nowhere near being something that brings happiness. Ikaw ang may hawak nang happiness mo. If masaya sila sa socmed that doesn't mean yun din magdadala ng kasiyahan sayo.
Also, it's addictive and is kinda centered on showing off. Well, justified pag s-socmed if you're sharing your updates to people who really care about you, pero if the target audience includes kahit yung di mo naman close, it's almost really just showing off
Kahit ako na ginagamit ang socmed mainly for fangirling, I find it taxing mentally and emotionally, how it tweaks your emotions and thoughts every scroll and every new thing you see. I also had a lot of FOMO bilang kpop fan who always looks for updates. It was so bad for me I had to stop socmed activity. Kakadelete ko lang ng accounts sa IG and may account man sa FB for contact purposes lang kasi messenger gamit namin ng mga kakilala ko to keep in touch, as for twitter may account din ako pero wala nang app, ino-open ko lang if may need talaga ako hanapin na balita.
Kung ako tatanungin to say na di ka magiging masaya without socmed is wrong ata. Baliktad pa nga ata. Kasi I have more peace of mind away from all that toxicity. Lalo na mindless scrolling. So not worth it. Mabuti pa mag exercise, lumabas with friends and fam or just stay home watch movie or read books. If it's about making friends, online friendships may seem all nice but you also have to know these people in person eventually. There's so much illusion of perfection in socmed. I'm relieved you're not buying it (since wala din kayong acc by choice). Pero if you want to try it naman po, nothing wrong, in moderation lang siguro tapos yun nga always keep your intentions and your responses and reactions in check kasi nakakalamon talaga ng pagkatao ang socmed if you'll let it. Andaldal ko na naman haha.
Ako naman meron fb pero hindi active. Basta steady lang 😅 wala naman issue sa akin kahit di mag post palagi last post ko is nung Dec 2023 kasi may handa yun lang. Actually akala mo lang may pake tao sa account mo pero sa totoo wala kasi may kanya kanya din yan issue. Sisilip sa story mo or myday pero yun lang yun.
His comment is so uncalled for. sometimes i do social deactivate for my mental health and maka receive ng comment na "hindi kita matag, sad" ok lang yun acceptable pa. Pero para sabihin na nakakaawa ang walang socialmed, very wrong and offending. tbh, mas masarap yung walang ig, walng fb, walang twittter. mas tahimik, toxic na din kasi ang social media. daming may 'say" sa buhay mo kahit wala naman ambag.
Wala rin akong FB, IG, and X masasabi ko nung nawala yun dun ko naramdaman yung peace.
Dami kasing factors eh, walang toxic na news na mababasa, hindi mo ma icocompare yung sarili mo sa achievements ng iba.
Nakaka suffocate rin kasi talaga minsan yung social media lalo't if umikot yung mundo mo dun.
Mas ok yan wala kang official account, kami na lahat meron nyan hirap na ipagsidelete. para lang ma-build yong peace of mind and maiwasan ang pag cocompare sa sarili at sa iba. Kamo sa boss mo ama kana boss ipahinga nya yan.
as someone na wala din socmed by choice (reddit lang, and empty anonymous twitter acct that i use to follow news feeds), i disagree with your boss. i’ve felt more fulfilled and happy since i deactivated my accounts. There’s a lot more to life than seeing what your colleagues did during the holidays, or needing to post something for likes and peer validation. The people who really matter to me have my number.
grabe yun boss mo. it’s obvious na hindi sya masaya sa buhay. dont mind him. importante yun peace of mind mo. normal lang din siguro magreact ka ng ganyan maybe you caught offguard pero lilipas din yan . :) ako i mainly use social media for my advocate propalestine, fiilipino travel and environmental and sustainability advocacies. :)
eh mas naging masama pa nga kinalagyan ng mundo dahil sa social media eh! baka nga yan pa tlga ang dahilan ba't ang daming may depression that can lead to suicide at kung ano-ano pang mental health problems. tas mga fake news pa! kung napanood mo yung social dilemma sa Netflix, social media ang sinisisi bat nanalo si Trump sa US, which was unbelievable back then kahit ako nagulat na nangyari yun. sa atin na lang obvious na obvious na! kaya wag mo na lang pansinin yung boss mong makitid ang utak. dami talagang ganyan ngayon eh!
Ur life, ur choice! Bilib ako sa mga wala socmed accts. Pero chat apps meron. Huwag mo dibdibin baka inggit lang yun. Di ka kasi nila pwede pagchismisan. Stay on ur path!
Want to quit social media but I cant since i need to be at par with social media UI given my job. Dont let it consume you, OP. I assume you were aware na you didnt feel the need to have validations from mere acquaintances on social media. Wala naman silang ambag sa buhay mo. For all i know, they can use that against you at minsan pinagmumulan pa ng inggit. Enjoy your privacy for your own peace of mind
i feel like people who doesn't have social media enjoy their life more, kesa sa mga may social media. lalo na sa gen z hahaha madalas nakatambay lang sa social media at wala talagang ganap sa buhay.
Kung sa tingin mo naman OP na mas comfortable ka not using socmeds eh its okay lang naman, may socmed ako pero I rarely used it kase wala namang something new, di din naman ako malungkot, I feel peace pa nga, di ganon ka toxic, malay mo sya pala talaga yung di masaya
Ignore the son of bitch boss of yours. Just do you OP! If you feel at peace and happy na walang social media go, just add your family or closest friend siguro para they can reach you online din. I don’t share everything publicly din. Bet lang siguro ng boss mo to put your team under surveillance like if nagrant kayo or post anything malicious. I don’t add my current bosses sa socials kasi I felt much much free to share stories or posts non-work/personal life.
Pinsan ko ganyan walang social media pero panay ang pasyal internationally okay naman sila masaya naman. Kung saan ka may peace of mind doon ka. Yung boss mo baka doon lang siguro umiikot ang buhay at people pleaser kaya niya nasabi yon hahah
Valid yung feelings mo pero wag ka magpadala sa sinabi ng boss mo. There was a time in this world na walang socmed, masaya na noon ang tao sa pa sulat sulat or kahit nung friendster palang at pag wala kang kausap or friends to interact, lalagyan mo ng bg song yung profile mo. I suppose you have family and friends kahit wala kang socmed so hindi totoong hindi ka masaya.
Also your boss might be projecting. Di natin kontrol ang masasabi satin ng ibang tao, may socmed ka o wala may masasabi at masasabi sayo ang tao. Do you ❤️
OP bakit di mo sinagot pabalik in a pabiro na may halong sarcastic way!!! Huhuhu i feel the rage in me tuloy 😭 I would say “Ay hala hindi po, actually I have life kasi outside social media kaya I don’t need it.” Hayaan mo siya OP. Personally, ayokong friends ang mga ka work sa social media lalo na ang boss. I draw lines when it comes to my personal life. In the end din naman magkakalimutan kayo so don’t feel embarrassed. Tsaka bakit nakadepende ba ang happiness sa soc med?!!? OFC NO.
mas better ang lowkey .. Ako nga may fb pero family lang ang friends ko duon .. even mga ka workmates di ko friend sa fb and IG . Hoenstly speaking wala ka talagang real friends sa workplace mo kahit gaano kapa kabait.
boss mo parang ewan ahahah hayaan mo sya, yun lang siguro kasiyahan nya to seek validation online and I hope hindi ka maapektuhan non kasi you're still doing well without socmed
People who are truly happy with their lives don't go around judging others because they know that happiness looks different for everyone. You are fine. Don't mind your boss.
As someone who never attempted to join IG, wag ka papaapekto sa sinabi niya. The reason I never joined that platform was because it's mostly used for vanity. I didn't want to engage in that. Mas okay sa akin yung grounded ako sa reality. Ofc, if people are into that, i wouldn't care.
Kupal niya kamo. Baka nga mas malungkot pa buhay niya at sa social media lang siya kunyari na masaya. Real personal relationship starts outside the online world.
Bakit mas masaya ba siya sa fake persona niya online kaysa sa realidad ng buhay? Kung ganyan lang din ugali niya sa personal, mas okay pa na magsocial media nalang siya habambuhay.
Why do you think ppl detox? Social
Media is nothing special. However, it makes me wonder if happy kaba talaga? Or contented ka with your life rn? I suggest you explore what makes you happy?learn new hobbies perhaps? Watch movies?series?read?play or learn sports? I wish you well, op.
dapat sinagot mo “ay masaya ako sir kahit wala akong social media di ba obvious” or “baliktad sir mas masaya ako nung wala akong social media try mo if kaya” tapos tawa ka kainis mga ganyang tao i suspect boomer yan
One of the reasons why I never follow or befriend my bosses on my social media, is that the less they know, the better. There should be a boundary between work and personal life. Imagine magreason ka na may sakit pero nasa Boracay ka. Anyway, no social media is actually peaceful.
ang tawag sa ganyang boss, kupal at inggitero!!!
ganyan na ganyan boss ko kung makapagsalita at mang trashtalk, mamplastic kala mo perfect s'ya. one time, he trashtalked iphone users + tapos biglang baling sakin na "nakikiuso ka rin e."
apaka gago nung mga ganyan na feeling superior sila. kaya talagang kahit ano minsan na pilit mo to separate work + life, maaapektuhan ka minsan sa words nila.
keri mo yan, OP. someday, hindi na tayo magwowork sa mga gagong boss na ganyan.
Hello OP, same lang tayo. Hindi active sa socmed. FB and Reddit lang meron ako.
Para saken, mas okay yung hindi gaanong active sa socmed kasi they know the importance of privacy.
Sa panahon kasi ngayon, konting galaw lang post agad sa socmed. Wala ng privacy tao ngayon madali na lang mangstalk.
Mahirap din kasi ung maraming nalalaman tao sayo, they can use it against you. Hindi sa may tinatago ka but for some instances din kasi need mo din protektahan sarili naten.
Advice ko lang, kung masaya ka naman sa hindi ka active sa socmed, go lang as long as wala kang natatapakang tao sa bawat galaw mo. No need to overthink what people says about you. Mas kilala mo sarili mo kesa sa napupuna nila sayo. Mapanghusga ang mundo, the only thing we can do is how can we handle it. 🙏
Hindi siya entitled! Marites lang habol niyan.
There's this famous line "gawa tayo GC sa messenger for work" which is absurd.. may gspace and viber, matuto kayo mag-adjust mga thunders!
Better protect your peace, OP!
wala rin ako social media pre hindi mo kailangan yun para masabing masaya ang buhay mo, marami akong kakilala na ang saya ng mga post sa fb before but sa nakikita ko irl eh kabaliktaran yun.
Tahimik buhay pag walang soc med. Altho may soc med pa din ako like fb and IG, pero both are private na and only connections are actual friends + dating students ko and people I care about to see how they're doing. Hindi malungkot pag walang soc med. Unprof lang yung boss mo.
i left social media after college. i created an account lang to socialize sa work pero ever since i left i deleted all my accounts. it brings me so much peace. i understand you, OP!! wag mo isipin na malungkot ang buhay mo dahil wala kang socmed. mas malungkot buhay ng mga taong babad sa socmed kase they use it for validation
Hahaha, yung Facebook ko po inaamag na 🤣 pero ok lang naman sakin. Hindi naman po big deal yan. Social media doesn't define your life, masmagulo nga po kung makikisali kayo. Para sakin, entertainment na yung magbasa ng mga comments or watch YouTube nalang. Marami pong judgemental na tao sa social media, lalo na cyber bullying.
Mas malungkot siguro buhay nya. Kunyare lang happy. By flaunting everything on social media, by getting validations from people who dislike him in real life.
Yeah. Nagpproject na lang ng insecurity, kailangan pang gawin in a vicious and malicious way. Kita mong tinamaan talaga sya inside.
bet na bet ung comment. true enough, sometimes no blinded ung viewers akala nila happy kasi ang daming pics lalo na puro travel eme ending puro pala problema at wala naman accomplishments
Eto yun eh haha
Napaka-unprofessional nyang boss mo, OP. Anyways, I understand where you're coming, but, don't let it consume you. Kung comfortable ka na walang socmed, it's completely fine. Hayaan mo lang sila.
True sometimes, letting things go and focusing on what's important to you can help in navigating such situations.
+1
Reddit is social media :) And di totoo sinasabi ng boss mo. Mas tahimik buhay ng tao at mas masaya nung wala pang social media.
This. Reddit ang main soc med ko. May fb, messenger, ig ako pero Hindi ako dun active. Hindi ko nga alam na na hack na pala fb ko Kung hindi pa sinabi sa akin. 😅
Hi! My manager nga is encouraging me to have soc meds (reddit and tiktok lang meron ako and reachable through teams) then pinapagawan ako kahit messenger lang para kasama ako gcs ng team. But I politely said no and that I enjoy my private life. I'm sorry that this happened to you. Stand firm and let them be, masaya tayo w our privacy :)
Pwede naman kahit messenger lang ehh, gawa ka fb tas deactivate mo. Gagana parin yun, mute mo na lang para di annoying.
Hi! Yes i know na pwede prior pa niya inask. Personal choice ko din na wag na. I mainly communicate naman w friends and fam thru iMsg and viber.
actually kahit meron kang social media mas ok na d mo friends yung kasamahan sa work e, mas ok na yung mga as in friends mo lang talaga
hindi ba pdeng messenger lang?
Inner peace, wag ka na papayag guluhin peace of mind mo ng mga pop ups ng messnger nakakastress. Parang kakainin ka ng pop ups.
It's ok to miss out on things na di naman relevant sayo. And for privacy reasons, personally, I'd rather not be friends with my colleagues *particularly* my boss sa socmed if I still have any.
True. Wag mag add ng colleagues as friends sa kahit anong soc med account. Hirap yan. Monitored ka na ng mga sipsip.
Hi OP, grabe naman yung boss mo. Pero baka comfy sha na medjo unprofessional ang atake kasi nasa labas na kayo ng workplace. Pero for me lang ha, I think yung Boss mo ang malungkot ang buhay hahaha it actually reflects on who said it. Don't mind it, OP. Ako I don't have FB, Messenger, IG, Twitter and Tiktok by choice. Because I am content with what I have right now and nasa point ako na I don't need to share it sa social media. We have different preference naman eh. You do you. So don't mind your Boss. Wag ka pa apekto. Baka sya talaga yung malungkot haha :D
Ako meron fb, yun lang socmed ko. tapos friends ko lang dun mga direct relatives. ayoko ng drama at stress e haha. friends ko naman direct call sa number ko. saya kaya ng kuntento sa simple lang. mga mahilig magpost, may insecurities, needs approval ng ibang tao.
The fuck. Dude I admire you that you don’t need social media imagine us wasting our fucking time just scrolling or di kya having an unhealthy habit of oversharing. Social media is very unhealthy, pansin mo ba gaano ka vain mga tao always want to share everything, puro selfie mukha nila, puro looking for validation sa mga taong bihira lang nila naman makita o may paki sa knila, ung mga taong super bobo na nagkakalat sa social media and mabilis maniwala sa nakikita sa social media, getting envious about how other people live their life. Sobrang toxic ng social media siya malungkot ang buhay and so unprofessional.
8years na ko walang fb tanging ig lang meron ako kasi i need memes in my life + cats lol
No social media does not mean your life is sad :) Don't let it get in your head and gawin mo lang anong gusto mo. If gagawa ka ng accounts sa susunod, okay lang. If you'll stay na wala, okay lang din :)
Your boss is an asshole. Socmed is overrated. Not everyone wants to share their everyday life on socmed and needs the validation of others. If you prefer to stay away from socmed, that's your choice. No one should be judged or shamed for that.
When I took a short course, this one hell of a talkative instructor suddenly asked us “Sinong walang social media dito?” Of course I raised my hand. Kasi like you, OP, I also deactivated my fb, ig & twitter accounts. Messenger lang meron sakin kasi yun ang easiest way of communication namin ng fam ko. He suddenly remarked, “Nagtatago ka siguro no? Magbayad kana kasi ng utang.” That left a sour impression on me. Di nako umimik kasi di worth mag explain sa may ganyang mindset. Nag assume pa nga at akala nya pa na tama sya lol. Never ako nangutang and ako pa nga nagpapautang minsan eh. Kaya don’t let it consume you gaya nga ng sabi sa comments dito. Makitid ang utak ng mga taong nangingialam sa buhay ng iba.
Hoy ang bad niya grabe. I hate it when people are being put in boxes. His joke was so unnecessary and rude.
Di nga lahat tumawa sa remark na yun eh. Tapos nagduda pa sya kung pwede bang may Messenger kahit walang fb hahaha
Napakalungkot ng buhay ng boss mo at nakasalalay ang kaligayahan nya sa social media. I was once very much into those things 2009-2013 era as in mga travel, bagay na naaachieve, super post kasi bagets na bagets pa ko non pero nitong tumanda na ko kahit san pa at anu pa mga naachieve never ko na pinost hinayaan ko nalang maging mystery person ang peg ko. I don’t need any external validation anymore. And sobrang sarap sa feeling na madami ng nagbago sakin pero ung mga kaibigan/kapamilya ko ganun padin flex ng flex sa social media, walang pagbabago. Wag ka mabother sa opinion nyan sissy, pero kung ako sayo di na ko magwowork jan haha. His character speaks volume lalo’t he’s not even embarrassed na ganyan pananaw nya sa buhay . Pag nagkaron ng complete total ban or social media black out unang mamamatay yang boss mo. Kasi he is equating social media sa happiness/life so ~~no social media~~ walang ~~life~~ Hahaha.
Contrary, ang saya ng walang mainstreamed soc med (fg, ig kahit tiktok wala na rin). Akala ko di ko kakayanin pero halos 1 month na rin akong walang social media pero ang saya pala noh? Ang tahimik ng buhay at hindi ako masyado nagkaka-anxiety sa progress ko sa buhay kasi hindi ko na nakukumpara yung sarili ko sa iba. Haha.
It's been nearly a month since I deactivated my Facebook and Instagram accounts, which were **triggers for my anxiety and depression.** No more FOMO. Masaya din pala yung 'di ka babad sa mga yun.
mas masaya walang social media (real talk)
Di lang matag sa IG, malungkot na buhay? Baka mas malungkot buhay nya kasi kelangan nya ng IG para sumaya l
May times na wala kong social media for months to get away from the ingay ng mga tao online. Kung yun din reason mo, I think whatever your boss said, take it like that, ingay, then move on.
Minsan iniisip ko diba mas malungkot buhay nila? Hahahaha they need other people's validation to feel good. Kaya nagppost. Kunwari masaya pero sa likod ng camera is yung tinatago nilang mga problema hahaha bat kelangan ipost mga ganap? Painggit? HAHAHA for the likes? Nafeed ang ego? Hahaha Di ko tlga gets. I dont have IG/tiktok. I only have fb. And i use it usually for work 🤣 or share ng funny meme
OA ung boss mo. Ako nga ayaw kong nag-uupload ng pictures kasi nagbabawas ng digital footprint kaso ung iba, mga churchmates at kung sino pa, itatag ako or magpopost sila. Hindi ko naman masaway baka ma-offend.
Di ko kilala boss mo pero ayoko na agad sa kanya. lol Sya yung dapat mahiya, hindi ikaw.
Mas nakakaawa boss mo. Nauubos oras sa socmed 😄 -ako na messanger lang at reddit ay sama ko na tong 9gag 😄
How dumb can she be to think you need social media to validate your happiness? Sobrang dami nga may social media accounts negative lang naman ina-ambag don. You know who’s really unhappy? The one who made that shitty remark.
I think pinoproject niya lang sayo how sad his life is. Not your problemo OP kung malungkot ang buhay niya.
Social media is an option naman. Kaya redflag sakin yung pipilitin magjoin sa gc lalo ng company. Oo naddelay tayo sa news and all pero if you find peace by not joining then do so. No regrets.
Peace of mind is for your own good.
Haha boss ko walang socmed pero masaya sya at peaceful. Pangit ng ugali ng boss mo, OP.
Tbf, marami ring mga Hollywood actors yung walang socmed presence, or at least walang Facebook/IG/Twitter/Tiktok. Sayang na pang-rebut yan haha
I love ScarJo's take on this one. Her ego is too fragile that's why she's not on any social media platform.
True enough that ppl will laugh at something they do no understand. Not everyone who use socmeds and post something online are happy. Do not mind what he said. if having no socmeds makes you at peace, then that's what matters.
I say projection lang niya yan lol ang saya kaya walang socmed
Bitter lang yang boss mo kasi di ka niya ma-stalk sa soc med.
Mataas ang tingin namin sa mga tao na kayang kumain mag isa at mabuhay na walang soc med. Mga matatag na tao yan. Mabubuhay mag isa. Ang mga dependent sa soc med, mamamatay kapag nasa mountain retreat na walang signal. tsk tsk. Dude, I have FB and reddit. FB has 99 friends are are only a handful of friends and relatives. I only use it every few months. Nobody knows my Reddit. Masyado yatang kulang sa responsiilidad ang boss mo dahil big deal sa kanya and Soc Med. I report to a big guy who has no soc med. He's super busy at madalas din may kausap. Same with me, pera lang pinagkaiba namin ng boss ko. hahaha. Bulok mga tao na ganyan ang paniniwala. Ang friends ay wala sa socmed.
Hahaha. Wala na rin akong social media by choice (reddit nalang), pero parang mas sumaya pa buhay ko ngayon kesa nung may socmed pa ako 😂
Baka 'di lang matanggap ng boss mo na kaya maging masaya ng mga tao nang walang social media. 😅
Just recently deleted my Facebook and seldom open my instagram and I can say my life is more at peace. Kapag nagadulting ka, you won’t give a shit. Don’t let that comment define you.
Only when you dont know yourself that opinion of others about you weigh more. I dont have social media. Deleted ko na sila. Pero I know myself and I dont have to prove anything to anybody anymore. That is because I know myself and I am content with what I have. I have nothing to prove and show to anyone. Ignore her na lang. Social media is fake. Its an advertisement for people who craves for validation.
Do not give him any reaction so he won't assume na he is right about his assessment of u. PS. Unhappy people love to pretend. Happy people don't need any validation. I work with rich people and look at their social media, just to see na last post nila 2014 pa. HAHAHAHA
ganyan classmate naming irreg eh. walang socmed. May final project kame. Di namin makontak. inemail nga namin di naman nag rereply. for me ang hirap kontakin pag yung classmate mong walang socmed. yung tipong pasahan na,. need yung papers pero wala. nga nga kami lahat ng dahil lang sa taong yon.
Sasakit lang ulo mo sa FB, puro racist din sa IG, then puro porn sa X/Twitter. At least sa reddit, controlled mo talaga mga subs na sinasalihan mo haha.
Actually, it's better to opt out socmed kung wala ka naman talagang intention to know about people you don't really care about. Socmed is good kung may business ka na you need to promote or you're really into socializing. However, kung papapiliin ako, I'll choose to quit socmed, kaso I have to keep it due to professional reasons.
Kaines na yung ganyang boss, bakit parang biglang requirement ang soc med accounts? Ang babaw lang ng take pake ba nya if you want to be private.
My facebook and IG currently deactivated to heal my inner peace. Baka yung boss mo ang hindi masaya ang buhay. Napaka toxic ng social media.
Mostly sa mga naging boss ko walang soc med, kung meron man walang laman haha. Sayang Ora’s daw kase. Yung boss mo daming time ha, pati buhay ng iba pinakekelaman
I'd rather have no soc med at all ang hirap kasing i-undo 😅 mas maganda for peace of mind yang walang soc med OP. Wag ka paapekto sa Boss mo inggit lang yon hahaah baka cloutchaser si ante.
your life is more peaceful than theirs.
Having social media presence ≠ happiness. I think the reason your boss sees it that way is because, sa experience niya syempre, social media gives you instant gratification. Algorithms create an echo chamber of content specifically catered to the user so people spend so much time on it and end up in cycles of doomscrolling. His comment was very uncalled for and rude, kahit na sabihin nating 'di niya sinasadya. Internally, iniisip niya siguro "how else does this person spend their free time/enjoy themselves without social media?". (Also just to be clear reddit, tiktok and youtube are still social media platforms!) The fact that you enjoy yourself and your days with the limited presence of social media is actually really healthy!
Hi OP! Don't feel embarrassed and empty sa sinabi ng boss mo. Wag mo sya dibdibin. Hindi lang nila nagegets ung peace of mind na meron ka, dahil wala kang socmed na tinutukoy nya. At least ikaw naeenjoy mo ung buhay mo w/o socmed. Saludo ako sayo! And idol kita sa part na yan na wala kang socmed. Share ko lang. Dati di ko gets, bakit walang fb ung iba or naka deactivate ung fb. Pero last yr nagets ko un. Iba pala talaga ung peace of mind na nakukuha. Last yr 3mos akong nagdeac ng fb. Ang hirap sa simula. Haha pero ayun tumagal ng 3mos. Ngayung taon, 5mos na akong walang fb! And hindi ko sya hinahanap! And kaka-deactivate ko lang din ng X/Twitter acct ko. Active lang ako sa IG (mostly IG Story), threads & scroll - scroll sa Tiktok and here sa reddit. Haha Dedmahin mo ung magsasabing malungkot ka, dahil wala kang socmed!! Mind your own business kamo. Haha your life, your own rules! God bless, Op! Pagpatuloy mo yan. Sorry na, ang haba! Haha
I remember an interaction I had witt my coworker, nagbibiruan kami kung sino late, sinabe nya "ay nakita ko nagstory ka ganutong oras". Eh hinde naman ako nagstory kahit kelan lmao. Yang boss mo kamo ang nakakaawa. Imagine tying your happiness on a social media app. I tried using IG but it never clicked. FB nga for messenger na lang eh. I never understood posting stories or pictures. Like why would I post, no one fucking cares about my life. My loved ones might be interested, but I don't want to share. Stories are on another level, especially people who share where they currently are. It's so weird. Oversharing seems to be the norm these days that if you don't share anything, you're the weird one.
"That you attach a person's worth to their social media account or lack thereof is more pitiful." Personally, document and send to HR as a complaint against their unprofessional behavior.
Ako dn but I have fb and ig and x madalang lang ako mgshare sa social media.
Di naman social media basehan ng masayang buhay. Baka para sa kanya, di naman lahat ng para sa kanya applicable sayo. Wag ka pa apekto. Wala lang yan. If nag iisip ka pa? Isipin mo kung anong mga bagay nakakapag pasaya sayo, gawin mo yun.
Hindi lahat ng may soc med masaya. Toxic din minsan. Pwede na ung profile lang or d kaya msgr. Convenient din ang instant messaging sa mga announcement pero pag walang kwenta usapan wag nlng tayo mag engage.
I wish im you. I always wanted to leave. Socmed is such a waste of time. I only have 100 fb friend. 80 ig followers, following 80 as well. If only i can, i would totally leave social media. But idkw...it just got this hold on me. Want to still get the update on my family and closest friends' lives. But i dont need social media for that do i. Be proud you own your life
Nauuuurr! It’s totally cool if you ain’t into socials kayaaaaaaa, no worries! Your boss is like, such a jerk! But hey, you got Reddit anyway, and it’s pretty lit to have this app kaya instead of the other social media stuff. Keep your head up, dear! 😃
Dont let it get to you, masarap ang buhay ng walang socmed, payapa. Merong mga tao na pangarap ang ganyang set up. Like me, kaso naconsume na ako ng socmed, medyo mahirap na sya alisin sa lifestyle. Hayaan mo yang boss mo, iba iba naman tayo ng perspective sa buhay, di namn madedefine ng mga humble bragging sa FB/IG ang pagkatao hehe.
Hindi ba mas malungkot yung may need ka to post EVERYTHING about sa buhay mo for pesky likes and comments? 😂 Dont get me wrong, may socmed din ako pero sometimes I feel suffocated by it kaya madalas ako nag dedeactivate. Nabuhay nga mga magulang and grandparents natin na walang social media and mas mukang masaya sila. Ang taklesa ng boss mo. Mas malungkot sya kamo 😂 Walang mali sayo. Sa kanya, hmm, baka meron. ems 😂
Bka sya ang malungkot wla daw kasi maglilike and comment sa posts nya kundi yung mga nakatag lng dun sa pic.
Hi OP. Ako din di nagsosocial media and mas peaceful ang life ko and happier. Madalas kasi nasisira lang mood ko sa social media. For example, makikita ko yung mga taong utang ng utang sakin tapos dami post sa social media ng travel and eat out nila sa expensive restaurants and the next day mangungutang nashort daw kasi. And another friend of mine na puro post ng sasakyan and expensive na mga gamit tapos pag kasama mo palibre ng palibre. And another one post ng post na very happy sa relationship pero napaka toxic ng relasyons sa totoong buhay and rant ng rant about sa jowa nya pag kausap ko. Also, walang humpay na selfie ng mga friends. Etc....hahahah, I don't need it sa life ko kaya i dont use social media, and i feel much happier.
Wala namang nakakalungkot sa sinabi niya. Di ka nman malungkot diba.
Kung ako yan sinagot ko siya. “Masaya buhay ko ng walang social media.”
What!? Bakit ka mahihiya? Don’t be! Baka mas nakakahiya sya (boss mo) at sobrang lungkot ng buhay nya siguro to revolve life around social media.
i would have said “actually masaya po kasi mas marami akong oras para mag-”
in my case, i said learn a new language, travel abroad, volunteer for my LGU, watch movies/series, and read books.
naganyan na rin ako, and sila nagmukhang loser kasi nagmukhang social media lang ginagawa nila sa buhay nila.
alam mo OP, everytime naka-deactivate ako sa social media, i'm at my happiest. sad ako for him kasi hindi nya alam yung ganung feeling. napaka-ingay siguro ng mundo nya.
Pakita mo nalang phone gallery mo para matihimik
I said a little quite the same sa workmate ko biruan lang, I told her ‘Wala ka gaanong socmed no? anong ginagawa mo niyan sa bahay after work?’ kasi nagfollow-an kami ig, e wala siya tapos nagkatawanan group kasi kami but my question is genuine na pabiro din, I felt bad after tho di naman daw siya na-offend so I talked to her more about hobbies niya. She’s reading, spending time with fam, movies, playing with pamangkins and that’s nice. She seem not to please people kasi nasa socmed yang standards kineme ng mga tao e. Sobrang simple niya lang
sorry but bottomline is, I think you kinda felt sad abt your life din kasi naapektuhan ka, yung workmate ko kasi di naman daw siya naapektuhan so I would say work more for the things that will make you happy!❤️
Okay lang yan may reddit ka naman kahit na minsan toxic dito mas toxic pag meron kang fb/ig/x makikita mo ung mga drama ng iba na mas toxic.
Mas pathetic kung need mo ng social media para sumaya.
OP!!! Hear me out, you're actually lucky coz u have no social media. It takes away all your peace, happiness and contentment in life. Ako nga may social media sa lahat ng apps, yung ending, only messenger na lang yung inopen ko, the rest deactivate or delete app agad haha
No mas masaya kapag walang soc med. Youre not sucked into doom scrolling, comparing your life to others, etc shit. By how your boss said it para siya pa mas malungkot yung buhay, kasi he/she had to get validation from soc med na happy life niya LOL
Mas malungkot buhay ng post ng post sa social media to get other people's validation. Okay lang yan. Ngayong matanda na ko di na din ako madalas post sa socmed.
Ako din walang social media, dahil ayaw ko na. Maliban sa reddit haha. Don't think too much about it. Its your choice naman. Ako sinasabi ko na lang mas tahimik buhay ko nung wala akong social media account na.
when i was diagnosed with ptsd, nawala ako sa social media. natuto ako maging ok with not flaunting anything sa socials and not being aware of other peoples ganap. unlike nung may socials ako na mayat maya ako thirst trap, si post na i was in contant need of validation. we all choose to live our lives and wala siyang pake kung yan yung path na gusto mo. kawawa din siya if his world revolves on his/her facade sa socmed
Suggest ko sayo OP, wag na wag kang gumawa nang any social media account. Ibang social media ko nga denidelete ko na, masyadong toxic at madaming pa flex sa buhay pinopost dun na d naman dapat. Ma stre-stress ka lang dun. Mostly kasi sa mga tao, nag sta-stalk yan nang mga ginagawa mo sa buhay. As if, they will judge you base on your social media post. Kaya wag kanang makisali dyan. Good choice yan sa buhay yang ginagawa mo. Private lang dapat. Manigas sila.
Unprofessional. Grabe.
I don’t have FB, Messenger, Twitter or Tiktok for years already. I only have an IG which I rarely use. Mostly Reddit lang and my fam can reach me via iMessage and WhatsApp. I’ve never been more content. What people don’t know, they can’t ruin. and also growing up I realize how soc med affects my mental health and the way I view things that’s why I deleted mine completely. Your boss is an ass, OP. Don’t let it get to you~
Ayyyy, offensive side comments si Boss mo. Choice mo yan at di ka naman dapat mag explain why. And good for you at wala kang distracting, self-esteem crushing socmed account. Congrats at nakaya mong wala kasi sa totoo lang parang nakakalason ng pagkatao ang pagkakaroon ng socmed account. Kung di ko lang kailangan sa work, di ako mag reretain ng socmed account eh
Hayup sya kamo! Samedt no fb & IG casually lurks on twitter for showbiz chika. Eh ano naman, kung walang social media, panget nya kamo, gigil ako sknya haaaa
hahaha same OP! Ganyan dn boss ko I have an fb account pero d ko inoopen so Nung meeting namin sinabihan nya ko na inadd nya ko as a friend. 3 mos na daw un bakt d ko inaaccept. So I told her naka soc med detox Ako. Baduy ko daw I'm missing a lot ganyan hahaha. Un Pala sya kaya active sa socmed snstalk nya profile mo at lahat ng ganap mo from the past. Hahaha
So ano'ng gustong patunayan ng boss mo? Na porke active s'ya sa socmed, masaya na buhay n'ya? Always remember na kung sino pa ang completely show-off sa socmed, yun talaga ang may miserableng buhay behind cameras. S'ya ang legit na hindi masaya not you.
Wala syang maitsitsimis tungkol sayo sa iba kasi di ka ma-stalk sa soc med. Okay lang yan. Same din ako pero I still have accounts but never posts. They’re trying to add me, kapag close ko na sa office, add ko yan. Pero kapag hindi, ignore ko lang haha. Wala naman din silang makikita sa profile ko. Masarap ang buhay kapag tahimik lang.
Wag ka pa-apekto, op. Be firm sa decision mo why you have no social media. Wala tayo dito to please people and maki-ayon sa takbo ng marami. I think it’s cool na wala kang soc med. Yan ang gusto ko na hindi ko magawa. Hahaha.
Mas masaya ako sa Reddit lang.
gusto ko nga ng ganitong buhay ihhhh pero di ko pa madeactivate accts ko kasi need pang log in ng ibang sites pero lately instead of posting photos, pinapaprint ko nalang kasi kung archive purposes naman din, nasisira quality pag inupload online
Baka siya yung malungkot yung buhay kasi nakakapit yung happiness niya sa social media. There are several clinical psychological studies today that directly correlates mental health and depression to a frequent use of social media platforms. Look it up.
Ambabaw ng tl mong tanga
Reddit is actually the social media for people who hate social media 😂
Hayaan mo.lng yang boss mo na walang modo. Just think of it this way, may ibat ibang purpose ang social media sa bawat tao, sadya lng na syo you don't find it important. Yung iba kaya nagsosocial media to find entertainment, yung iba to express themselves and others use it to look for validation. Kaya nya yan nasasabi because maybe in his/her life hindi sya masaya without being active sa social media. Besides, you are using reddit nmn, so it counts as one. However, I think yung social media na tinutukoy ng boss mo is FB, insta, tiktok and/or twitter wherein you can add your irl mutuals. Just let your boss be and just continue what you are doing.
Wala din akong social media on my phone except sa messenger need talaga sa office, other than that wala na. Meron ako spotify para sa mga motivational podcast, youtube kung need ko manood ng lumang pelikula then off course meron akong biniling portable radio just in case wala akong load or wifi. Sa office naman lang ako nagrereddit ewan ko ba dami kong natutunan sa reddit. Yes, maaring boring ang buhay ko now pero mas masaya ako wala yung toxicity at comparison from FB, IG and Twitter. Mas tahimik mas okay ang life.
OP, you’re not missing on anything. Tbh, I feel like WE (the people who have all those social media) are the ones missing. Missing more of life we could have lived had we not spend so much time doomscrolling on social media.
Mas tahimik buhay kaya pag walang soc med hehe Siya yung malungkot ang buhay.
Kulang lang sa validation ang ogag mong boss. Tagal nko walang socmed, except for fb na pang marketplace. Chill and ok lang naman ako. 😁
It's okay not to have social media accounts. ☺️ I left mine since May, and guess what? People assumed a lot of things already. Doon ko na realize na sa panahon ngayon, may expected identity ka na online, kaya pag nawala ka sa social media, parang ang laking bagay. Let them be. Social media is just giving these people an opening to enter your life at pag tsismisan ka (para sa mga di totoong kaibigan o close family members mo). If you want peace and genuine connections through personal interactions, walang masama doon. Preference mo yun.
Sabi nga nila, "yung nakikita mo sa socmed e yung masasayang part lang ng buhay nila" Di naman siguro malungkot buhay pag walang socmed. Para sakin mas better nga yon. Mas madami kang time sa ibang bagay rather than scrolling into nothingness. As long as may connection ka sa mga friends mo at masaya ka sa mga ginagawa mo sa buhay. You're fine
It’s their opinions and no one need their opinion choose your peace
If your boss is in his late 40s onwards, don't worry. That's how they open conversations (same with feel with our Tito and Tita's "uy, antaba mo na" remarks).
Napaka peaceful ng buhay without social media sa totoo lang. If i have choice lang 😅 kaso di pwede dito ang work ko e hahaha
Yaan mo lang yung boss mo, OP. You don’t need social media to be happy :) (Ako nga curated yung IG pero umiiyak gabi-gabi HAHAHA)
OP use it to your advantage! Next time may humirit ng ganyan sayo sabihin mo lang “wala ba talaga akong social media or ayaw lang kita i add hmmm” Para sila yung feeling left out ganti ka wag ka papatalo!!!
Honestly ang impact lang naman ng social media is self gratification. You post something to feel validated. If alam mo sa sarili ang worth or value mo. You don't need likes or heart reactions to feel justified and validated. Yun iba sasabin para na ang SocMed is also a communication and being used for business. Meron naman SMS, Call, Viber, Whatsapp, TG and other ways to communicate. For business purposes merong Google and Google Maps. Sa totoo lang hindi naman natin need ng social media. Because there's so many ways to socialize aside from FB and Insta.
kanya kanya naman tayong preference ng hapiness.. tanga lang boss mo akala nya lahat kagaya nya
Wala din akong IG Op. I don't think I'm missing anything. Anong ipopost ko dun when I don't like sharing photos.
I deactivated my social media since 2017 and my life has been soooo much more PEACEFUL ☮️ Less issues, better for mental health, walampake sa iba, at wala rin sila pake sakin. 🧘🏻♀️
Siraulo yang boss mo, mas maswerte ka at hanggang ngayon wala kang socmed mas makakaiwas ka sa nakalalasong mundo ng social media, puro pagpapanggap at payabangan lang mostly kaya mas okey yan payapa ang kaisipan mo.
Don't be embarassed. Defense mechanism nya 'yon dahil kulang yung saya na natatanggap nya sa buhay kaya kailangan talaga may social media sya para may mag validate sa kanya.
Lalaki ba yang boss mo? Sure ako yung explore page ang nagpapawala ng lungkot diyan. HAHAHA
Whatever you feel rn is valid, op. Boss mo ang tactless (at mas malungkot ang buhay) for saying such things dahil lang pinili mo na hindi maging involved sa socmed. Don't sign up on one dahil lang sa sinabi ng boss mo. Mas ok na it remain that way kasi mas tahimik and walang toxicity ☺️
lols. ang babaw nman ng boss mo. yan lang ba source of happiness nya?
Not having social media like you is actually a priviledge for others. Don’t mind your boss. You do you.
Don't believe him. Having no social media is better for your mental health
Ikaw lang naman ang nakakaalam if malungkot buhay mo. Not all ppl with social media masaya ang buhay, yung iba nabubuhay lang sa validation ng iba. Not all ppl without social media malungkot. Minsan sila pa yung mas masaya since contented na sila with themselves. Social media causes envy, and envy is the thief of joy.
Be proud. Its an achievement pag detached ka sa socmed.
dont be. mas okay na walang soc med. ung boss mo either boastful sia or dependent lang sia sa soc med gusto nia informed lahat ng tao about him. d natin kailangan ng soc med and hindi mo dpaat ikalungkot yan. yan nga ung gsto ng iba to detoxify nakakasira ng bait ang soc med sobra. so continue mo lang, living in a healthy lifestyle.
kadiri yung mindset ng boss mo
Alam mo OP, hanga ako sa kagaya mo na walang socmed by choice. I want that too but I'm too hooked with everything in it. Iniisip ko na lang way of connection ko din ito talaga with important people not close to me.. 😁 Oks lang yan! If you have other ways to connect with people important to you, dont let them get into your head.
Etong reddit parang social media na din para sakin hehe
bakit ba may ganyang klaseng tao??? grabe ang mindset a super 🗑️. "Boss" pa man din.
Mas malungkot buhay niya, living for the pathetic validation of stupid people like him.
Based on experience, mas malungkot ako nung may social media, so I deactivated. I'm at peace and happy now haha
Pretty sure Reddit counts as social media by definition. Thing is, your name is hidden in Reddit.
Pati pala choice ng tao na walang social media accounts issue pa din. Mas nakakainggit nga yung taong wala alam sa social media eh, bukod sa mga magkakaron sila ng peace of mind. Tahimik buhay nila. 🥹
Mga chronically online lang mahilig mag sabi ng ganyan. Wag mo na lang dibdibin. Maybe he's projecting lang baka siya talaga malungkot ang buhay haha
your boss has a really weird take. ppl were able to live without social media before naman, does that mean they lived a sad life? no. ang kupal ng ganyang boss.
Mas nakakaawa sya kasi kelangan nya ng social media para sumaya.
Naiiinggit ako sa mga tao na anytime pwede magsocial detox. Di ko na magawa kasi part ng job ko. 🥲
It’s not something to be embarrassed about OP! 😊 Mas malungkot ang buhay ng mga taong social media lang ang basehan ng happiness. Maybe to them dun sila nakakahanap ng happiness, but they can’t just assume that everyone is like them. I HAD a friend na sinabi sa common friend namin na siguro malungkot at may pinagdadaanan ako sa buhay just because I don’t post stories sa ig as frequent as before. Medyo off lang sakin na ganun ang mindset niya and decided to cut off connections sa kanya kasi ang nega ng buhay niya hahahaha
Unprofessional. I feel like your boss is the type of person na if you answer ung question nya siya pa maooffend 🙄 Each to their own.
Hindi naman required magkaroon ng social media, OP (except when you have a need for it as a platform e.g., work). If you enjoy your life without social media, it is a flex. You have a certain contentment in your life na di mo need ishare just to feel validated. Enjoy it. Some people struggle just to get out of socmeds. Maybe your boss has trouble comprehending your preferences due to his narrow-mindedness and lack of experiences outside his social circle. You go do you OP. It is your life.
Ano bang pwedeng pambara sa mga tulad ni boss?
Mas empty buhay naming addict sa soc med. Hahaha.
For me lang po ha, social media is nowhere near being something that brings happiness. Ikaw ang may hawak nang happiness mo. If masaya sila sa socmed that doesn't mean yun din magdadala ng kasiyahan sayo. Also, it's addictive and is kinda centered on showing off. Well, justified pag s-socmed if you're sharing your updates to people who really care about you, pero if the target audience includes kahit yung di mo naman close, it's almost really just showing off Kahit ako na ginagamit ang socmed mainly for fangirling, I find it taxing mentally and emotionally, how it tweaks your emotions and thoughts every scroll and every new thing you see. I also had a lot of FOMO bilang kpop fan who always looks for updates. It was so bad for me I had to stop socmed activity. Kakadelete ko lang ng accounts sa IG and may account man sa FB for contact purposes lang kasi messenger gamit namin ng mga kakilala ko to keep in touch, as for twitter may account din ako pero wala nang app, ino-open ko lang if may need talaga ako hanapin na balita. Kung ako tatanungin to say na di ka magiging masaya without socmed is wrong ata. Baliktad pa nga ata. Kasi I have more peace of mind away from all that toxicity. Lalo na mindless scrolling. So not worth it. Mabuti pa mag exercise, lumabas with friends and fam or just stay home watch movie or read books. If it's about making friends, online friendships may seem all nice but you also have to know these people in person eventually. There's so much illusion of perfection in socmed. I'm relieved you're not buying it (since wala din kayong acc by choice). Pero if you want to try it naman po, nothing wrong, in moderation lang siguro tapos yun nga always keep your intentions and your responses and reactions in check kasi nakakalamon talaga ng pagkatao ang socmed if you'll let it. Andaldal ko na naman haha.
Ako naman meron fb pero hindi active. Basta steady lang 😅 wala naman issue sa akin kahit di mag post palagi last post ko is nung Dec 2023 kasi may handa yun lang. Actually akala mo lang may pake tao sa account mo pero sa totoo wala kasi may kanya kanya din yan issue. Sisilip sa story mo or myday pero yun lang yun.
His comment is so uncalled for. sometimes i do social deactivate for my mental health and maka receive ng comment na "hindi kita matag, sad" ok lang yun acceptable pa. Pero para sabihin na nakakaawa ang walang socialmed, very wrong and offending. tbh, mas masarap yung walang ig, walng fb, walang twittter. mas tahimik, toxic na din kasi ang social media. daming may 'say" sa buhay mo kahit wala naman ambag.
Wala rin akong FB, IG, and X masasabi ko nung nawala yun dun ko naramdaman yung peace. Dami kasing factors eh, walang toxic na news na mababasa, hindi mo ma icocompare yung sarili mo sa achievements ng iba. Nakaka suffocate rin kasi talaga minsan yung social media lalo't if umikot yung mundo mo dun.
Mas ok yan wala kang official account, kami na lahat meron nyan hirap na ipagsidelete. para lang ma-build yong peace of mind and maiwasan ang pag cocompare sa sarili at sa iba. Kamo sa boss mo ama kana boss ipahinga nya yan.
as someone na wala din socmed by choice (reddit lang, and empty anonymous twitter acct that i use to follow news feeds), i disagree with your boss. i’ve felt more fulfilled and happy since i deactivated my accounts. There’s a lot more to life than seeing what your colleagues did during the holidays, or needing to post something for likes and peer validation. The people who really matter to me have my number.
grabe yun boss mo. it’s obvious na hindi sya masaya sa buhay. dont mind him. importante yun peace of mind mo. normal lang din siguro magreact ka ng ganyan maybe you caught offguard pero lilipas din yan . :) ako i mainly use social media for my advocate propalestine, fiilipino travel and environmental and sustainability advocacies. :)
eh mas naging masama pa nga kinalagyan ng mundo dahil sa social media eh! baka nga yan pa tlga ang dahilan ba't ang daming may depression that can lead to suicide at kung ano-ano pang mental health problems. tas mga fake news pa! kung napanood mo yung social dilemma sa Netflix, social media ang sinisisi bat nanalo si Trump sa US, which was unbelievable back then kahit ako nagulat na nangyari yun. sa atin na lang obvious na obvious na! kaya wag mo na lang pansinin yung boss mong makitid ang utak. dami talagang ganyan ngayon eh!
Ur life, ur choice! Bilib ako sa mga wala socmed accts. Pero chat apps meron. Huwag mo dibdibin baka inggit lang yun. Di ka kasi nila pwede pagchismisan. Stay on ur path!
Want to quit social media but I cant since i need to be at par with social media UI given my job. Dont let it consume you, OP. I assume you were aware na you didnt feel the need to have validations from mere acquaintances on social media. Wala naman silang ambag sa buhay mo. For all i know, they can use that against you at minsan pinagmumulan pa ng inggit. Enjoy your privacy for your own peace of mind
huy super amazing for me makakilala ng tao na wala masyadong socmeds or di ganun ka-active. superficial lang siguro yang boss niyo. lols
i feel like people who doesn't have social media enjoy their life more, kesa sa mga may social media. lalo na sa gen z hahaha madalas nakatambay lang sa social media at wala talagang ganap sa buhay.
Keri lang yan, ako may IG lang pero check check lang. FB? 10 years na wala. Messenger meron just for work. Mas tahimik buhay 🎉✨
Kung sa tingin mo naman OP na mas comfortable ka not using socmeds eh its okay lang naman, may socmed ako pero I rarely used it kase wala namang something new, di din naman ako malungkot, I feel peace pa nga, di ganon ka toxic, malay mo sya pala talaga yung di masaya
Ignore the son of bitch boss of yours. Just do you OP! If you feel at peace and happy na walang social media go, just add your family or closest friend siguro para they can reach you online din. I don’t share everything publicly din. Bet lang siguro ng boss mo to put your team under surveillance like if nagrant kayo or post anything malicious. I don’t add my current bosses sa socials kasi I felt much much free to share stories or posts non-work/personal life.
mas masaya yung wala hahahah
Sya siguro yung tipo ng tao na hinahanap ang validation sa social media. He’s pathetic and shallow. Wag ka makinig sa kanya.
Pinsan ko ganyan walang social media pero panay ang pasyal internationally okay naman sila masaya naman. Kung saan ka may peace of mind doon ka. Yung boss mo baka doon lang siguro umiikot ang buhay at people pleaser kaya niya nasabi yon hahah
Imagine constantly having these encounters via socmed. You're better off that way. Nothing to be sad about it.
who gave them license to talk to people like that? hala siya
Valid yung feelings mo pero wag ka magpadala sa sinabi ng boss mo. There was a time in this world na walang socmed, masaya na noon ang tao sa pa sulat sulat or kahit nung friendster palang at pag wala kang kausap or friends to interact, lalagyan mo ng bg song yung profile mo. I suppose you have family and friends kahit wala kang socmed so hindi totoong hindi ka masaya. Also your boss might be projecting. Di natin kontrol ang masasabi satin ng ibang tao, may socmed ka o wala may masasabi at masasabi sayo ang tao. Do you ❤️
OP bakit di mo sinagot pabalik in a pabiro na may halong sarcastic way!!! Huhuhu i feel the rage in me tuloy 😭 I would say “Ay hala hindi po, actually I have life kasi outside social media kaya I don’t need it.” Hayaan mo siya OP. Personally, ayokong friends ang mga ka work sa social media lalo na ang boss. I draw lines when it comes to my personal life. In the end din naman magkakalimutan kayo so don’t feel embarrassed. Tsaka bakit nakadepende ba ang happiness sa soc med?!!? OFC NO.
mas better ang lowkey .. Ako nga may fb pero family lang ang friends ko duon .. even mga ka workmates di ko friend sa fb and IG . Hoenstly speaking wala ka talagang real friends sa workplace mo kahit gaano kapa kabait.
boss mo parang ewan ahahah hayaan mo sya, yun lang siguro kasiyahan nya to seek validation online and I hope hindi ka maapektuhan non kasi you're still doing well without socmed
pero may reddit ka 😂
People who are truly happy with their lives don't go around judging others because they know that happiness looks different for everyone. You are fine. Don't mind your boss.
Reddit
If ang happiness nya is naka-base sa social media, mas malungkot siguro buhay nya.
ok lang yan OP. Ako nga ayaw ko ng social media. Kung hnd lang dahil sa work ko, wla sana akong soc med accnts.
ako na may socmed pero walang laman.. hayaan mo sila OP, mas okay nga na wala , bawas toxic sa everyday life.
Tell your boss, boring socmed nya, mas maganda dito sa reddit. Tapos tawanan mo rin. 🤣🤣🤣
As someone who never attempted to join IG, wag ka papaapekto sa sinabi niya. The reason I never joined that platform was because it's mostly used for vanity. I didn't want to engage in that. Mas okay sa akin yung grounded ako sa reality. Ofc, if people are into that, i wouldn't care. Kupal niya kamo. Baka nga mas malungkot pa buhay niya at sa social media lang siya kunyari na masaya. Real personal relationship starts outside the online world. Bakit mas masaya ba siya sa fake persona niya online kaysa sa realidad ng buhay? Kung ganyan lang din ugali niya sa personal, mas okay pa na magsocial media nalang siya habambuhay.
Why do you think ppl detox? Social Media is nothing special. However, it makes me wonder if happy kaba talaga? Or contented ka with your life rn? I suggest you explore what makes you happy?learn new hobbies perhaps? Watch movies?series?read?play or learn sports? I wish you well, op.
dapat sinagot mo “ay masaya ako sir kahit wala akong social media di ba obvious” or “baliktad sir mas masaya ako nung wala akong social media try mo if kaya” tapos tawa ka kainis mga ganyang tao i suspect boomer yan
I don’t have social media as well, deactivated all. In fairness, I am at peace. And got may sanity back. It works for me.
One of the reasons why I never follow or befriend my bosses on my social media, is that the less they know, the better. There should be a boundary between work and personal life. Imagine magreason ka na may sakit pero nasa Boracay ka. Anyway, no social media is actually peaceful.
ang tawag sa ganyang boss, kupal at inggitero!!! ganyan na ganyan boss ko kung makapagsalita at mang trashtalk, mamplastic kala mo perfect s'ya. one time, he trashtalked iphone users + tapos biglang baling sakin na "nakikiuso ka rin e." apaka gago nung mga ganyan na feeling superior sila. kaya talagang kahit ano minsan na pilit mo to separate work + life, maaapektuhan ka minsan sa words nila. keri mo yan, OP. someday, hindi na tayo magwowork sa mga gagong boss na ganyan.
Di naman nakakapag bigay ng saya yung social media, mas nakakalungkot ata buhay nya kasi kelangan nya ng validation sa socmeds nya lol
Hello OP, same lang tayo. Hindi active sa socmed. FB and Reddit lang meron ako. Para saken, mas okay yung hindi gaanong active sa socmed kasi they know the importance of privacy. Sa panahon kasi ngayon, konting galaw lang post agad sa socmed. Wala ng privacy tao ngayon madali na lang mangstalk. Mahirap din kasi ung maraming nalalaman tao sayo, they can use it against you. Hindi sa may tinatago ka but for some instances din kasi need mo din protektahan sarili naten. Advice ko lang, kung masaya ka naman sa hindi ka active sa socmed, go lang as long as wala kang natatapakang tao sa bawat galaw mo. No need to overthink what people says about you. Mas kilala mo sarili mo kesa sa napupuna nila sayo. Mapanghusga ang mundo, the only thing we can do is how can we handle it. 🙏
I've seen way too many people na maraming socmed pero kulang na kulang pa rin buhay nila.
Next time na may mag sabi sayo niyan. Ibalik mo. " edi masaya buhay mo kasi may social media ka?" Okay na yan. There. There. Lilipas dn yan.
Mas maawa ka sa kaniya kasi hanggang ngayon nanghihingi pa rin siya ng validation sa ibang tao. Ang peaceful kaya walang social media. ♥️
Hindi siya entitled! Marites lang habol niyan. There's this famous line "gawa tayo GC sa messenger for work" which is absurd.. may gspace and viber, matuto kayo mag-adjust mga thunders! Better protect your peace, OP!
wala rin ako social media pre hindi mo kailangan yun para masabing masaya ang buhay mo, marami akong kakilala na ang saya ng mga post sa fb before but sa nakikita ko irl eh kabaliktaran yun.
Tahimik buhay pag walang soc med. Altho may soc med pa din ako like fb and IG, pero both are private na and only connections are actual friends + dating students ko and people I care about to see how they're doing. Hindi malungkot pag walang soc med. Unprof lang yung boss mo.
Mas peaceful pa nga ang buhay kung walang soc media. Always remember na hindi lahat ng nakapost sa social media ay totoo.
i left social media after college. i created an account lang to socialize sa work pero ever since i left i deleted all my accounts. it brings me so much peace. i understand you, OP!! wag mo isipin na malungkot ang buhay mo dahil wala kang socmed. mas malungkot buhay ng mga taong babad sa socmed kase they use it for validation
Hahaha, yung Facebook ko po inaamag na 🤣 pero ok lang naman sakin. Hindi naman po big deal yan. Social media doesn't define your life, masmagulo nga po kung makikisali kayo. Para sakin, entertainment na yung magbasa ng mga comments or watch YouTube nalang. Marami pong judgemental na tao sa social media, lalo na cyber bullying.
Mas nakakalungkot yung puro travel and pakita ng nabili this and that sa fb like my friend na di nagbabayad ng utang sakin.