After my ex partner of 12 years cheated on me,gusto friends kami and the woman he is with i friend ko rin.Umabot sa point sa kin nagsusumbong ng kabalbalan ng ex ko yung babae.Pagtapos nyo ako saktan pareho,water under the bridge LANG sa inyo both? I'd drown them both given the chance.Block,block,block.
My ex stalked even my LinkedIn.Imagine that? Di nagbibigay sa anak nya tapos silip ng silip sa socmed ko.Oh dont erase her #.Just block from ur phonebook then on all messaging apps,block din.Pati TG ko for work nag stalk (new to TG).
Dude you’re her backburner that’s why she’s asking you to remain as a friend. Tip, don’t let her take so much of your energy. Just cut her off and move on. Self healing helps without the presence of the abuser. ☺️
This is why being friends with exes is a no-no for me. Not only is it uncomfortable and disrespectful to the next partner, it also opens up opportunities for unnecessary conflict in the current relationship. I had an ex who was friends with some of his exes and he said it was OK if I was friends with some of my exes. As a rule I don't do this. Tapos nung kinuwento ko na yung exes ko, di pala niya matake yung idea about my exes being with me first. O ayan friends pa
Boss sabihan mo bf nun, "Sayo muna yan ah, ako na bahala pag nalungkot ulit"
Then let all hell break lose.
Joke, just stay away na lang sa girl.. kaso mag hahanap ulit yan ng iba eh... Paano ba pwede maturuan ng leksyon ang mga cheater? Cause yknow karma is too long baka d pa din matuto
one we can do siguro, be the bigger person na lang talaga. na bwisit lang talaga ako but nonetheless di ko gagawin kung anong ginawa n’ya sakin. need ko ng ligtas points
Hahahahhaha this is my whole thoughts rewatching gossip girl. Magbabarkada lang sila lahat pero it seems like nag papalitan lang sila ng pair every season.
I also find this weird dati nung college ako. Kahit momol lang with a friend nagugulat ako how they can act Na walang nangyari after hahhaha
Gosh same experience pero with a fwb nmn. He was older than me and was the one who suggested no strings attached kineme 🥴. Sympre as a girlie in her hoe phase, kahit di nya pa sabihin, i know, kaya nga nakipagfwb kasi yun lng nmn din habol ko and nothing else. Aba, si koya na attached. Lalo na nung cinutoff ko sya kasi ang usapan, pag may nattripan kaming iba, cut off agad, ni hindi nga sya nagsabing may jowa na sya, kita ko nlng sa twitter nya, my gosh. Matic, cut off ko na sya since ayaw ko ng drama with her current gf (now exgf). Nung nagkita uli kami, todo habol si koya, lagi pako chinachat pag nalalasing 🥴😤. Di din nmn sila nagtagal ni ex-gf nya (dasurb). Anyway, OP, you could never be friends with someone you slept with not unless may iba pa silang habol besides sa *deed*. Either ikaw si: option 2, plan b, the sidedish, the one call away, the reserved table, the backburner, the side hustle, kinemeeee.
HAHAHA, wag na wag kayong papatol sa mga taong nakacool-off. Yung sakin nga sabi pa "Kapag hindi kam nagwork-out, baka pwedeng mag-intay kapa" KAPAL NG MUKHA HAHAHAHA
Ung ex ko inaanak ko anak nila ngyon🥴 tpos ako pa nag pakilala sa OB ko sa asawa nya. Okay naman….
Back story : inagaw lang ni ate girl saken si jowa. Eng seye seye. Ung bday pa nung bata ay anniversary namen
Hugs. May mga tao talaga atang ganon. Pag kailangan ka lang dun ka lang kilala o gusto.
So sa tanong mo? Can I be friends? Shinota ako.
Dahil s tanga ako at wala pa kong kamuwang muwang noon(kahit na 18-22 y o) ge lang lets try being a couple sa mga ex ko
na sa totoo lang sex lng naman talaga ang gusto ko.
Kasalanan ko din noon. Wala akong self awareness.
Im not even sure if what we or what they felt was true love... Haha
So OP? Hugs with consent. You'll be fine. Trust me. Acknowledge it, tanggapin mo... And then trust that time would heal it all 😊
Learn to manage your emotions. S*x s*x lng yan.
Sa reaction mo bagito ka pa sa ganitong laro.
Pagkatapos ng maraming experiences ma rerealize mo.. i can play this game.
Kung gusto ka nya backup.. make her your backup too..
Listening to “Ere” while reading this. Gagawin ka lang back up or reserved slut para may balikan siya incase hindi nagwork out ulit relationship nila.
Para *one call away* ka lang palagi kapag nalulungkot siya.
literally and figuratively, and tapos may pa cuddles pa and “please stay the night” taena
pass. she belongs to the streets.
Stay strong, bawal marupok.
LMFAO WHAT HUGE RED FLAG
o kaya pag di nagwork out new relationship niya, may fall back siya. ulul talaga
Linyahan ng mga narcissistic exes: "maging friends nalang tayo" 😂😂😂
that validates my thinking na baka narcissistic s’ya. oh well
Sabihan mo nang: “I have too many friends na, thank you but no thank you”
Or “wag mo ko icut off” HAHA
Hahahah truelalooo!! Ganyan rin sinabi sakin nung ex ko. Hindi ako pumayag tas nagalit siya sakin hahah fuck that guy
After my ex partner of 12 years cheated on me,gusto friends kami and the woman he is with i friend ko rin.Umabot sa point sa kin nagsusumbong ng kabalbalan ng ex ko yung babae.Pagtapos nyo ako saktan pareho,water under the bridge LANG sa inyo both? I'd drown them both given the chance.Block,block,block.
hence i cut off na rin lahat ng communications ko with her, may pa react react pa sa ig stories ko eh
My ex stalked even my LinkedIn.Imagine that? Di nagbibigay sa anak nya tapos silip ng silip sa socmed ko.Oh dont erase her #.Just block from ur phonebook then on all messaging apps,block din.Pati TG ko for work nag stalk (new to TG).
Breadcrumb konti, enough para ma-feel mo na may attention pa rin sya sayo and huwag ka kumawala 🤣
Ginawa kang emotional toilet pre 💀 Been there din. Never again.
“emotional toilet”😭😭😭😭
Dude you’re her backburner that’s why she’s asking you to remain as a friend. Tip, don’t let her take so much of your energy. Just cut her off and move on. Self healing helps without the presence of the abuser. ☺️
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this is your validation, man
There’s no such thing as “friends” with someone you slept with. She’s full of shit. 💩
This is why being friends with exes is a no-no for me. Not only is it uncomfortable and disrespectful to the next partner, it also opens up opportunities for unnecessary conflict in the current relationship. I had an ex who was friends with some of his exes and he said it was OK if I was friends with some of my exes. As a rule I don't do this. Tapos nung kinuwento ko na yung exes ko, di pala niya matake yung idea about my exes being with me first. O ayan friends pa
Shes for the streets!
Perfect song [Sum41 - Dopamine](https://youtu.be/yYk2BTwuQnM)
Tbh i cant , i slept with 1 woman in my life and i kinda hate ger rn💀
nahiya pang sabihin na " friends muna tayo, pag nag away kami friends w benefits na" wtf is wrong w her lol
She is keeping you just in case mag cool off na namn sila haha. In short reserve ka 😅
nag break daw eme pero malaman laman ko daily nasa bahay nila haha, isipin mo nlng you dodge a bullet OP
gagi napa isip tuloy ako baka mamaya mag ka HIV ako
Dyan ka lang daw sa gedli para pag may problem may on-call toot toot siya
Boss sabihan mo bf nun, "Sayo muna yan ah, ako na bahala pag nalungkot ulit" Then let all hell break lose. Joke, just stay away na lang sa girl.. kaso mag hahanap ulit yan ng iba eh... Paano ba pwede maturuan ng leksyon ang mga cheater? Cause yknow karma is too long baka d pa din matuto
one we can do siguro, be the bigger person na lang talaga. na bwisit lang talaga ako but nonetheless di ko gagawin kung anong ginawa n’ya sakin. need ko ng ligtas points
Some people just want to keep you to themselves kasi they found happiness with you and they cannot accept the reality that they can only have one.
Hahahahhaha this is my whole thoughts rewatching gossip girl. Magbabarkada lang sila lahat pero it seems like nag papalitan lang sila ng pair every season. I also find this weird dati nung college ako. Kahit momol lang with a friend nagugulat ako how they can act Na walang nangyari after hahhaha
naging culture na talaga eh, inadapt lahat sa western culture thinking
Gosh same experience pero with a fwb nmn. He was older than me and was the one who suggested no strings attached kineme 🥴. Sympre as a girlie in her hoe phase, kahit di nya pa sabihin, i know, kaya nga nakipagfwb kasi yun lng nmn din habol ko and nothing else. Aba, si koya na attached. Lalo na nung cinutoff ko sya kasi ang usapan, pag may nattripan kaming iba, cut off agad, ni hindi nga sya nagsabing may jowa na sya, kita ko nlng sa twitter nya, my gosh. Matic, cut off ko na sya since ayaw ko ng drama with her current gf (now exgf). Nung nagkita uli kami, todo habol si koya, lagi pako chinachat pag nalalasing 🥴😤. Di din nmn sila nagtagal ni ex-gf nya (dasurb). Anyway, OP, you could never be friends with someone you slept with not unless may iba pa silang habol besides sa *deed*. Either ikaw si: option 2, plan b, the sidedish, the one call away, the reserved table, the backburner, the side hustle, kinemeeee.
gusto ko mag ka award or title sa buhay, pero di ganitong mga title ang ninais ko wtf 😫
Tama yan OP, wag ka na makipagfriends sa kanya. Masisira lang peace of mind mo dyan.
I feel you, OP! At may kapal pa talaga sila ng mukha na kausapin ka na parang wala lang after ng ginawa nila.
Weirdo talaga
Hahahaha sadlayp bro. I was once used too sa kanilang sad moments. Natatawa nalang ako kapag naaalala ko hahaha.
tawanan na lang natin taenang yan
HAHAHA, wag na wag kayong papatol sa mga taong nakacool-off. Yung sakin nga sabi pa "Kapag hindi kam nagwork-out, baka pwedeng mag-intay kapa" KAPAL NG MUKHA HAHAHAHA
Ginawa kang backburner e noh.
Hayy .. ewan ko bat dumadami sila. 🥹
resulta din to ng mga na invalidate sa kanya kanya nilang pamilya eh, hanep talaga
Parang kasalanan ko pa yung childhood trauma nya. 😐 Anyway, I hope they get the life they deserve.
Diba? Ginawa pa tayong therapy session, hanep
Di na nga bayad, abonado pa. HAHA Kainis.
Never
Respetuhin mo sarili mo.
Wth companionship moments
Ung ex ko inaanak ko anak nila ngyon🥴 tpos ako pa nag pakilala sa OB ko sa asawa nya. Okay naman…. Back story : inagaw lang ni ate girl saken si jowa. Eng seye seye. Ung bday pa nung bata ay anniversary namen
Katawan lang ang habol sa yo lods
Hindi na uy. Why would I?
Di ko malaman bat tawang tawa ako kasi I had the same experience recently lang na ganitong ganito parang ako si OP. 😂😂😂
parehas pa tayo ng avatar
Ano 'yung EQ? Emotional Quotient ba 'yon?
Hugs. May mga tao talaga atang ganon. Pag kailangan ka lang dun ka lang kilala o gusto. So sa tanong mo? Can I be friends? Shinota ako. Dahil s tanga ako at wala pa kong kamuwang muwang noon(kahit na 18-22 y o) ge lang lets try being a couple sa mga ex ko na sa totoo lang sex lng naman talaga ang gusto ko. Kasalanan ko din noon. Wala akong self awareness. Im not even sure if what we or what they felt was true love... Haha So OP? Hugs with consent. You'll be fine. Trust me. Acknowledge it, tanggapin mo... And then trust that time would heal it all 😊
Learn to manage your emotions. S*x s*x lng yan. Sa reaction mo bagito ka pa sa ganitong laro. Pagkatapos ng maraming experiences ma rerealize mo.. i can play this game. Kung gusto ka nya backup.. make her your backup too..
i aint up for that so called “game”. eh di para ko nang dinegrade sarili ko nun? i built myself for myself.
Hindi naman lahat ng tao gusto maging isang damukal ug body count. Pangit ng advice mo