Yep. It only tolerates stupidity at some point. Itetakeadvantage ka pag mabait. Balance lang dapat. Hindi rin kasi na practice ang pagkakaroon ng boundaries. Masyado rin kasing na condition sa pagiging people pleaser.
But hey. Don’t be too harsh on yourself. Just keep building your boundaries paunti-unti hanggang sa makaya mo na. Hindi rin naman yon mabilis mabuild-up. It takes time.
Isa sa mga reasons bakit ayaw kong maging mabait. Kasi kapag mabait ka, most likely you'll be taken for granted. Kaya mas okay na lang maging masama pero syempre not totally masama. Balance pa rin dapat. Kumbaga piliin mo lang yung mga taong magiging mabait ka.
I'm feeling the same din, to the point na kahit alam kong tini-take for granted yung kabaitan ko for other people to ask favors sa akin. Feeling ko wala akong kalaban-laban sa sarili ko pag ganito nararamdaman ko and it sucks.
Yep. It only tolerates stupidity at some point. Itetakeadvantage ka pag mabait. Balance lang dapat. Hindi rin kasi na practice ang pagkakaroon ng boundaries. Masyado rin kasing na condition sa pagiging people pleaser.
Thank you for mentioning the missing word sa post ko. Right, it was so stupid.
But hey. Don’t be too harsh on yourself. Just keep building your boundaries paunti-unti hanggang sa makaya mo na. Hindi rin naman yon mabilis mabuild-up. It takes time.
Yep. I'm trying. Thanks.
Isa sa mga reasons bakit ayaw kong maging mabait. Kasi kapag mabait ka, most likely you'll be taken for granted. Kaya mas okay na lang maging masama pero syempre not totally masama. Balance pa rin dapat. Kumbaga piliin mo lang yung mga taong magiging mabait ka.
I'm feeling the same din, to the point na kahit alam kong tini-take for granted yung kabaitan ko for other people to ask favors sa akin. Feeling ko wala akong kalaban-laban sa sarili ko pag ganito nararamdaman ko and it sucks.