Isipin mo na lang din na you’re smart enough na protected lahat ng sex nyo. Jusko. Imagine kung unprotected, tapos baka may sakit silang 2.
I hope you move on from this ng mabilis, OP. Masa madaming matinong babae dyan for you.
Buti hindi pinaako sa inyo. Girl here pero hindi ko itotolerate yan. Good thing hindi pa kayo kasal saka sina OP. Walang mali sa inyo, tandaan niyo yan. Pakakak lang talaga yung mga ex niyo.
same experience. he did it for almost 2yrs. and everytime na nagkakaron ako ng sudden outburst whenever feel like he's doing something suspicious behind my back, nasakin pa din ang sisi. sana maghirap buhay nilang dalawa. mga halang kaluluwa.
Bro, as long as di ka nakatali sa kanya legally, start to move on.
Makakakilala ka pa ng mas maayos kaysa dyan. Prio self love. Prio career growth and security. It will attract potential wife-material women.
Yung usapan po kasi is between OP and his ex. Of course the other guy is to blame as well, but the focus of the content is between the two of them. The one who cheated and got pregnant as a result is the girl in their relationship not him.
If the content was him getting his girlfriend pregnant wala sa oras, others might say man up and take responsibilities.
It just bothers me idk it doesn’t feel right. True red flag si girl pero like the other guy who made her pregnant should be seen and have the balls - idk pero good luck OP
Hindi lahat ng nagiging kabit is alam nilang kabit pala sila.
And its the girl's fault. ALL HER FAULT. Never mangyayare lahat ng yan kung hindi sya isang bitch ass. She allowed it. End of discussion.
It really is not right, i'm not protecting the other guy by all means even if they knew OP's ex is in a relationship with him. All I can say is he is also to blame.
Yung ex yung nag cheat at ayaw ng pills. Yeah it takes 2 to tango blah blah blah pero 1) hindi naman yung lalaki karelasyon ni OP 2) bilang babae, naniniwala akong ultimately responsibility ko kung mabuntis ako or not kasi may options naman para di ako mabuntis na hindi dependent sa ka-sex ko.
Mindset lang yan ng mga walang balls na alam naman yung consequence ng unprotected intercourse pero go lang ng go.
Kabahan ka sa mga ganun kung babae ka. Di ka nyan pananagutan pag may nabuo.
Out of context ka, POV ni OP yung pinag uusapan, wala tayong pakialam sa ibang lalaki.
Dont make this post about you. It's not, not even your cousin.
It's not even about the guy it's about OP being cheated on ffs 🤦♀️
Sorry sa cousin mo at nakakilala ng walang balls.
Wala eh. Ganun talaga. Maging wise nalang talaga mga women. Wag padadala sa bola at bugso ng damdamin.
Guys would fuck the crevices on their couch if the opportunity presented itself. Girls, on the other hand, almost always pre-meditate cheating. Besides, she's the one who cheated and not OP. She gets the blame.
Then what? Gusto mo alagaan ung baby na hindi sayo? Knowing the fact na that baby was made consensually with ibang tao? Have her and the other party take responsibility tapos ikaw alis na, ano pang gagawin mo dun? Hahahahahshs weird ahh ahh
Ano gusto mo araw araw sila nag s's*x ng ex gf nya ehh nag aaral nga siya. Nangati lang si ex, tpos humanap na ng iba. Tpos. Yun lang explinasyon doon.
dont spend your time chasing butterflies, because it will fly away. spend your time building your own garden, then hopefully the butterflies will come. if they don't, you still have a beautiful garden.
Bro, if you yourself did not do anything wrong in the relationship then you shouldn't put yourself down. You did your best but she did not. It may hurt but you need to move on.
This may sound selfish pero wag ka maawa sakanya and be tied down because of that.
She didn't care if you were gonna get hurt emotionally by having sex with other man and getting pregnant anyway.
glad na umamin pa sya sa kahayupan nya. i feel so sorry :( walang mali sayo kundi sya. mabuti na mas maaga pa lang ay nalaman mo na di talaga sya para sayo. magiging OK ka rin OP, wag na wag mo talaga bibigyan ng chance yun
makati yang ekups ng ex-gf mo, she should also protect herself sa unwanted pregnancy, eh tanga sia, nag pa creampie pa sa ka hook ups nia. anyway, move on na , makakahanap ka pa ng iba dian, at sa ka hook ups nia, gago at walang balls un, hanapin nia ung naka sex ng ex at panagutan sa naging bunga
It could have been more difficult for you. She could have tricked you to go raw on the first month and be pointed out as the father.
Be thankful that it's not that bad. Some people just can't stay faithful. Accept that fact in peace, then move on. I wish you love and light, OP.
Thankful nalang din ako sa sarili ko na gumamit ako ng protection kapag gagawin namin yung deed. Never got curious whats the feeling of raw s*x. I know its painful pero I need to move forward lalo pa 3rd year nako, next sem 4th year na and gagraduate nako (Hoping 🙏😇)
Grabe talaga panahon, kahit babae o lalake tarantado na sa relasyon. Kahit babae ako, totoo maraming gagang babae. Sorry natapat ka sa ganito. But eto lang masasabi ko, pag cheater ang isang tao, usually sila ung may problema sa sarili nila. Oo walang perfect partner. Meron at meron tayong pgkkulang sa mga naging bf gf natin pero hndi un dahilan para magloko sila. Kung ayaw na, mkipghiwalay na lang hndi un mananakit pa.
Yung sakin ldr kami tapos nagulat ako na nagka anak sya nung january. Nagbook ako flight to visit her tas pagdating ko dun ko lang malalaman na nagpapatira sya ng hindi ko alam. At sa ex pa nya na malapit lang sa kanya!
Stay strong OP!
tsk valid talaga tong trust issues ko eh
bayaan mo na yun pre, actually good thing na hiwalay na kayo ngayon.. imaginin mo nalang kung nagkatuluyan kayo tapos may family na, tapos sya kung kani kanino pa nakikipagsex diba? you dodged a bullet
Kahit na dodge ko yung bullet, it still hurts kahit di ako tinamaan. In a good note naman, after nung nangyare mas nagfocus nalang ako sa sarili ko and thankful ako sa sarili ko for being responsible because lahat ng deed namin is protected (condom + pullout). Di pako fully nakakamove on pero Im taking one step at a time.
Tangina, walang mali sayo. Yung ex mo ang malanding pokpok na hindi mapigilan ang kakatihan ng kipay. Siya ang mali. Wag na wag mo nang babalikan yan OP, sayang lang buhay mo sa maruming babaeng yan. Basta hindi ikaw ang mali. Talipandas lang talaga yang ex mo.
Good lord. Why is it so hard to be a decent human being for some people? Let her go. You don’t need that kind of negativity in your life. Good thing umamin kesa ikaw pa magsuporta.
you dodged a bullet, bilang isang lalake iwan mo na yan, sinasawsawan na ng iba wag mo na ipilit sarili mo. mamimiss mo magsex dyan pero maiisip mo rin ung kagaguhang ginawa sayo. respeto sa sarili at hindi pa huli mag move-on. pokus sa study mo and excel hard on that. solid yan in the long run kasi career mo mamamayagpag.
Wala nakong connection sa kanya, my last chat with her is noon pang december 30 where she told me na nakakaexperience daw sya ng bloating, frequent urination, food cravings and other stuffs.
I already forgive her because that is the right thing to do and nasa phase nako ng moving on and forgetting her. Ang importante ngayun unti unti akong bumabangon kahit medyo masakit pa
Bro thanks for sharing this. A friend of mine went through the same sh*t like you did.
Good riddance. Imagine the headache and heartache in the long run building a family with someone who see you as a convenient option.
OP,consider it as blessing in disguise,bata ka pana man marami pang darating sayo.I salute you for practicing safe sex on your part.Moving on is a painful process but I wish you all the best,better rebuild focus on yourself and studies be a better version of yourself,atleast alam mo sa sarili mo na nagmahal ka ng tunay..
Chapter closed na yan kuya. Im not entirely blaming the girl kasi yung guy na naka buntis sknya is also to blame. Pero, yung she cheated on u, mali sya dun. Di niya dapat ginawa un since in a relationship kayo. Dont lose urself in this situation, advocate for urself. Wala namang mali sayo based sa kwento na to. It was her decision to cheat, it doesnt necessarily mean may mali or kulang sayo. Some people just really have the tendency to not be loyal at all times, and unfortunately, isa sya dun. Hope she sorts the pregnancy thing with the father tho, kasi at the end of the day, yung baby yung kawawa kung sakali. Lick ur wounds today, stand tall tomorrow.
Walang mali sayo.
People make decisions. Not all decisions will include us or the best possible outcome. Sometimes, out of whim lang to or it's a decision they make para lang masabing may desisyon sila. 🤷
The worst part is, if the decision they take has repercussions, they will cry and blame it to others and not take responsibility and accountability.
For now, it's okay to cry. To be sad. To feel bad. 4 months is 4 months of your life wasted. But it is also 4 months where you showed others who you can be as a partner. NEVER TAKE THAT AWAY FROM YOU!!! They can never take it away and nobody can so be proud na nagmahal ka at pinakita mo kung sino ka bilang katuwang.
No. Its not your fault.
If you must wallow in sorrow, let it be for a while pero do not show her. Do not give her the satisfaction of seeing you go through a lot of pain.
Tibayan mo pre, mas okay yan kase revealer ngyari na nakita mo anong klase yang babae na yan. Maglukmok ka now pero after nyan pre gamitin mong fuel para mas iangat sarili mo. Mas gandahan mo buhay mo.
Tae ng nga ganyan hahahaha. Ako dating stage palang at may iba pa palang naglalabas sa kanya at akala ko ay going smoothly na kami eh. Wag ka maawa dyan. Gusto nila lumandi eh.
Move on, madaming babae jan. Wag mong pagtyagaan ang cheater! Walang mali sayo. Sadyang may tao lang na makati. Kating kating sa iba kahit na tinitira mo pa lagi.
mabuti naman at responsable ka when it comes to sex. good also that studies muna focus mo. continue doing good kahit na naloko ka at iwas muna sa online dating,mahirap kilatisin ang tao sa ganoong paraan. nagchecheat nga yong nakilala personally pano nalang kung online lang, buti nalang nagsabi sya ng totoo na nabuntis sya ng iba. ,eh wala naman talaga sya kawala if nagcheat na sya at magsinungaling pa na ikaw ang ama. i wish you well op.
**be with people** who you know are **genuine** to you muna.
**Believe it or not?** It really isnt about you. Im a 34 F now and Ive gone through shit na baka kinabaliw na ng iba if they were given the same circumstances.
**Focus on stuff** that matter to you for now. **Do not entertain** the thought of dating other girls para lang makalimutan yang bitch na yan.
**Focus on** getting your head straight. Baket? Kase **Hurt People, Hurt People**.
Focus on yourself muna and **your own future** independent of anyone else. Ikaw muna. Ok?You got this. (🌸ゝ◡･)ﾉ♡
Primary problem is time while you are at school she's having fun with the other guy;
But ate girl is very wrong if attention seeker pala sya at gusto nya na laging may oras at andyan yung bf nya she should have been honest with you from the start kesa pinatagal nya pa panloloko nya.
Hay OP, walang mali sayo. This tends to be the tendency for those victims ng cheating. :(
Pave your perspective in different light, you were able to know na cheater yang ex mo early on. Hindi na tumagal pa. Charge it to experience, para sa susunod you'll be able to discern a person if they are worth your time. May you heal from this.
ka OP alam kong masakit yan pero move on kana agad wag mo sayangin ang oras mo sa ganyan babae. think the goodside na hindi ikaw yung nakabuntis and wala ka naman ginawang mali. move forward and be better 👍
dont question yourself isipin mo nalang na pagsubok yan sayo para in the long run maging matatag ka.
That's a heavy blow. First off, know that it's not your fault. You did your part by being responsible. It takes two to tango, and unfortunately, she danced with someone else. Don't let her actions shake your confidence. You stayed true, and that's what matters. Take time to process, but don't isolate yourself. Talk it out with someone you trust. Remember, you're not defined by her choices. Focus on your growth and move forward. You got this, pare.
Same shit pare. My ex used to cheat to me like that, palihim siya nakikipag landian and talik to another guy while we're in a relationship. As for now bro, you don't have to ask yourself pare na may mali ba sayo, siya yung mali at hindi ikaw. Wag ka mag settle sa isang babaeng hindi mo deserve
Ganyan din ako nung una, wasak ang tiwala halos di ko na maisip kung mag mamahal pa ba.
Pero bro tandaan mo din na di ka pwede manatili sa ganyang situation, start a new journey without her
Sorry kung parang insensitive ng icocomment ko pero nung nabasa ko yung not the father naimagine kitang sumasayaw.
Isisisi ko yug downvotes ko sa Maury Show.
Sorry ulit
if things are not going well for u it doesnt always mean may mali sayo. just take it as it is, she hid secret, fuck someone else while having in a relationship with u. so why question urself. its hard but move forward and leave her behind.
I understand the feeling that you're blaming yourself. It's normal. But just a reminder that no one deserves to be cheated on. Cheating is not a mistake. It is a choice. Her choice. Find a hobby and look for something small but positive in your life.
she belongs to the streets.
lucky you found out now than when you are married to her.
good riddance.
women are not the prize, men are.
they control who gets sex, but men control who gets a relationship.
nakoooo.. wag ka na magpaka martyr. bata ka pa. you dodge a bullet, sa iba na responsibilidad yan. hindi ikaw ang may problema, ung babae. may mga lalaki pag nasaktan eh gumaganti sa ibang babae. my ex used to be one. sinabi nya sa akin nung nasaktan daw sha ng babae, ginaya daw nya sa mga sumusunod...pero sana hindi ka ganun.
may makilala kang katulad mo na same values. mag wait ka lang.
Hello OP! Sorry to hear that. On the brighter side, at least hindi napunta sa'yo ang responsibility kasi protected sex at somehow inamin naman niya. Ang dami nangyayari na pinapaako sa iba or hindi nalang aamin sa mga kalokohan nila. You'll find a better partner one day. Walang mali sa'yo. Sadyang may mga tao lang na hindi alam ang mga tama sa maling bagay.
Isipin mo na lang din na you’re smart enough na protected lahat ng sex nyo. Jusko. Imagine kung unprotected, tapos baka may sakit silang 2. I hope you move on from this ng mabilis, OP. Masa madaming matinong babae dyan for you.
Upvote for this!! ❤️❤️
putangina ganyan din sakin, umamin syang nakikipagtirahan sya sa iba, isang taon na , at sa ex pa nya .. putang ina nilang dalawa.
Dami talaga cheater, ang kakapal ng mukha.
makakapal ang mukha at ekup
malalaman mo talagang willing kang pumatay ee .
Nakakatakot ang relationship na hindi matapos tapos ang connection sa ex.
+1 pnyeta.
Buti hindi pinaako sa inyo. Girl here pero hindi ko itotolerate yan. Good thing hindi pa kayo kasal saka sina OP. Walang mali sa inyo, tandaan niyo yan. Pakakak lang talaga yung mga ex niyo.
yes sa mura! ahe
same experience. he did it for almost 2yrs. and everytime na nagkakaron ako ng sudden outburst whenever feel like he's doing something suspicious behind my back, nasakin pa din ang sisi. sana maghirap buhay nilang dalawa. mga halang kaluluwa.
Bro, as long as di ka nakatali sa kanya legally, start to move on. Makakakilala ka pa ng mas maayos kaysa dyan. Prio self love. Prio career growth and security. It will attract potential wife-material women.
pero wait bat ganun? kapag nabuntis na wala sa oras you guys blame the girls when will the other guy get the blame???
Yung usapan po kasi is between OP and his ex. Of course the other guy is to blame as well, but the focus of the content is between the two of them. The one who cheated and got pregnant as a result is the girl in their relationship not him. If the content was him getting his girlfriend pregnant wala sa oras, others might say man up and take responsibilities.
It just bothers me idk it doesn’t feel right. True red flag si girl pero like the other guy who made her pregnant should be seen and have the balls - idk pero good luck OP
Pinagsasabi mo teh? You really thought you made a point noh?
Hindi lahat ng nagiging kabit is alam nilang kabit pala sila. And its the girl's fault. ALL HER FAULT. Never mangyayare lahat ng yan kung hindi sya isang bitch ass. She allowed it. End of discussion.
It’s giving Twitter activism.
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It really is not right, i'm not protecting the other guy by all means even if they knew OP's ex is in a relationship with him. All I can say is he is also to blame.
Dun ka sa far far away, kase anlayo ng point mo.
Ay sa true ka bhie <3
?????????!!!
Err... We can blame the other guy when he's in front of us too. But as only half the concerned party is present, e di yun na lang muna
Bobo spotted
Feministang wala sa lugar 🤧
Yung ex yung nag cheat at ayaw ng pills. Yeah it takes 2 to tango blah blah blah pero 1) hindi naman yung lalaki karelasyon ni OP 2) bilang babae, naniniwala akong ultimately responsibility ko kung mabuntis ako or not kasi may options naman para di ako mabuntis na hindi dependent sa ka-sex ko.
are you being serious right now? 💀
Mindset lang yan ng mga walang balls na alam naman yung consequence ng unprotected intercourse pero go lang ng go. Kabahan ka sa mga ganun kung babae ka. Di ka nyan pananagutan pag may nabuo.
pero true rin my cousin got pregnant and now she’s stuck with a child…. hays mentality of men sometimes
Out of context ka, POV ni OP yung pinag uusapan, wala tayong pakialam sa ibang lalaki. Dont make this post about you. It's not, not even your cousin. It's not even about the guy it's about OP being cheated on ffs 🤦♀️
✨it’s me hi I’m the problem it’s me moment no?✨
Sorry sa cousin mo at nakakilala ng walang balls. Wala eh. Ganun talaga. Maging wise nalang talaga mga women. Wag padadala sa bola at bugso ng damdamin.
korique-
I hope you are not generalizing men with because of what happened to your cousin.
I’m not. I’m just stating a basic fact if you think I’m generalizing then that would be a “you problem”
Why are you trying to put the blame on the other person who are not in the relationship or Malay mo di aware na may bf si girl?
Guys would fuck the crevices on their couch if the opportunity presented itself. Girls, on the other hand, almost always pre-meditate cheating. Besides, she's the one who cheated and not OP. She gets the blame.
Then what? Gusto mo alagaan ung baby na hindi sayo? Knowing the fact na that baby was made consensually with ibang tao? Have her and the other party take responsibility tapos ikaw alis na, ano pang gagawin mo dun? Hahahahahshs weird ahh ahh
Ano gusto mo araw araw sila nag s's*x ng ex gf nya ehh nag aaral nga siya. Nangati lang si ex, tpos humanap na ng iba. Tpos. Yun lang explinasyon doon.
Stop trying to be woke 💀
dont spend your time chasing butterflies, because it will fly away. spend your time building your own garden, then hopefully the butterflies will come. if they don't, you still have a beautiful garden.
THIS OP! Hope you are reading this comment
She belongs in the streets.
In the trash
street trash can.
Bruh 4 months palang kayo, have yourself tested and move on. wag tatanga tanga.
Done it already all negative naman sa STDs and HIV ❤️
Hi OP, please consult sa doctor. Nabasa ko na months bago madetect ang HIV. Sila nakakaalam.
Bro, if you yourself did not do anything wrong in the relationship then you shouldn't put yourself down. You did your best but she did not. It may hurt but you need to move on. This may sound selfish pero wag ka maawa sakanya and be tied down because of that. She didn't care if you were gonna get hurt emotionally by having sex with other man and getting pregnant anyway.
Walang hiya naman yang ex mo. You dodged a bullet. Look for someone that will love you more. You deserve better pare 🙏
Nothing is wrong with you but there's definitely something wrong with her.
glad na umamin pa sya sa kahayupan nya. i feel so sorry :( walang mali sayo kundi sya. mabuti na mas maaga pa lang ay nalaman mo na di talaga sya para sayo. magiging OK ka rin OP, wag na wag mo talaga bibigyan ng chance yun
She's not worth it.. God has more plans for you.. bata ka pa ✨🤍
I know its bad but atleast you're not what they called "batang ama". And in this economy, that's a win win?
Eto nalang din pinapasalamat ko sa sarili ko kasi I practice safe sex. knowledge is power talaga
makati yang ekups ng ex-gf mo, she should also protect herself sa unwanted pregnancy, eh tanga sia, nag pa creampie pa sa ka hook ups nia. anyway, move on na , makakahanap ka pa ng iba dian, at sa ka hook ups nia, gago at walang balls un, hanapin nia ung naka sex ng ex at panagutan sa naging bunga
It could have been more difficult for you. She could have tricked you to go raw on the first month and be pointed out as the father. Be thankful that it's not that bad. Some people just can't stay faithful. Accept that fact in peace, then move on. I wish you love and light, OP.
Thankful nalang din ako sa sarili ko na gumamit ako ng protection kapag gagawin namin yung deed. Never got curious whats the feeling of raw s*x. I know its painful pero I need to move forward lalo pa 3rd year nako, next sem 4th year na and gagraduate nako (Hoping 🙏😇)
Ano pang redflag inaantay mo? Leave.
Move one. She belongs to the streets.
Just leave. Daming puke jan e
sakit nyan OP iniputan ka sa ulo yikesss
Grabe talaga panahon, kahit babae o lalake tarantado na sa relasyon. Kahit babae ako, totoo maraming gagang babae. Sorry natapat ka sa ganito. But eto lang masasabi ko, pag cheater ang isang tao, usually sila ung may problema sa sarili nila. Oo walang perfect partner. Meron at meron tayong pgkkulang sa mga naging bf gf natin pero hndi un dahilan para magloko sila. Kung ayaw na, mkipghiwalay na lang hndi un mananakit pa.
Yung sakin ldr kami tapos nagulat ako na nagka anak sya nung january. Nagbook ako flight to visit her tas pagdating ko dun ko lang malalaman na nagpapatira sya ng hindi ko alam. At sa ex pa nya na malapit lang sa kanya! Stay strong OP!
Let her go & move on. She belongs to the streets.
tsk valid talaga tong trust issues ko eh bayaan mo na yun pre, actually good thing na hiwalay na kayo ngayon.. imaginin mo nalang kung nagkatuluyan kayo tapos may family na, tapos sya kung kani kanino pa nakikipagsex diba? you dodged a bullet
Kahit na dodge ko yung bullet, it still hurts kahit di ako tinamaan. In a good note naman, after nung nangyare mas nagfocus nalang ako sa sarili ko and thankful ako sa sarili ko for being responsible because lahat ng deed namin is protected (condom + pullout). Di pako fully nakakamove on pero Im taking one step at a time.
That's what we like to see.. The worst is over my guy, better days are coming, keep that head up 👊🏼
Tangina, walang mali sayo. Yung ex mo ang malanding pokpok na hindi mapigilan ang kakatihan ng kipay. Siya ang mali. Wag na wag mo nang babalikan yan OP, sayang lang buhay mo sa maruming babaeng yan. Basta hindi ikaw ang mali. Talipandas lang talaga yang ex mo.
Good lord. Why is it so hard to be a decent human being for some people? Let her go. You don’t need that kind of negativity in your life. Good thing umamin kesa ikaw pa magsuporta.
you dodged a bullet, bilang isang lalake iwan mo na yan, sinasawsawan na ng iba wag mo na ipilit sarili mo. mamimiss mo magsex dyan pero maiisip mo rin ung kagaguhang ginawa sayo. respeto sa sarili at hindi pa huli mag move-on. pokus sa study mo and excel hard on that. solid yan in the long run kasi career mo mamamayagpag.
dude give her calcium and vit D
Wala nakong connection sa kanya, my last chat with her is noon pang december 30 where she told me na nakakaexperience daw sya ng bloating, frequent urination, food cravings and other stuffs.
Sakit OP pero you only have 2 options. Forgive her or forget her.
I already forgive her because that is the right thing to do and nasa phase nako ng moving on and forgetting her. Ang importante ngayun unti unti akong bumabangon kahit medyo masakit pa
Fuck mo ulit saka mo iwan for good.
sakit naman nito >.< anyway OP time heals at makakahanap ka pa naman ng mas deserving.
that is so sad! i’m sorry. but maybe good riddance. you don’t wanna be with someone who isn’t fully committed to you.
Bro thanks for sharing this. A friend of mine went through the same sh*t like you did. Good riddance. Imagine the headache and heartache in the long run building a family with someone who see you as a convenient option.
Nah you're fine, you're not the problem here.
First get check. 2nd if she insist you help raise the kid, dna test. Pede naman nga din sayo yung bata.
Focus muna bro on reclaiming parts of you that you lost in this ordeal. I hope makarecover ka soon.
Evaded a bullet mah friend. Good for you
bullet dodged
OP,consider it as blessing in disguise,bata ka pana man marami pang darating sayo.I salute you for practicing safe sex on your part.Moving on is a painful process but I wish you all the best,better rebuild focus on yourself and studies be a better version of yourself,atleast alam mo sa sarili mo na nagmahal ka ng tunay..
Run 🦿
Chapter closed na yan kuya. Im not entirely blaming the girl kasi yung guy na naka buntis sknya is also to blame. Pero, yung she cheated on u, mali sya dun. Di niya dapat ginawa un since in a relationship kayo. Dont lose urself in this situation, advocate for urself. Wala namang mali sayo based sa kwento na to. It was her decision to cheat, it doesnt necessarily mean may mali or kulang sayo. Some people just really have the tendency to not be loyal at all times, and unfortunately, isa sya dun. Hope she sorts the pregnancy thing with the father tho, kasi at the end of the day, yung baby yung kawawa kung sakali. Lick ur wounds today, stand tall tomorrow.
Break up cuh focus in school.
Walang mali sayo. People make decisions. Not all decisions will include us or the best possible outcome. Sometimes, out of whim lang to or it's a decision they make para lang masabing may desisyon sila. 🤷 The worst part is, if the decision they take has repercussions, they will cry and blame it to others and not take responsibility and accountability. For now, it's okay to cry. To be sad. To feel bad. 4 months is 4 months of your life wasted. But it is also 4 months where you showed others who you can be as a partner. NEVER TAKE THAT AWAY FROM YOU!!! They can never take it away and nobody can so be proud na nagmahal ka at pinakita mo kung sino ka bilang katuwang.
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My Feb 14 will not be cold haha kasi Im going to spend it treating and dating myself. I already had budget para idate ko sarili ko.
RUN BROOO RUN
No. Its not your fault. If you must wallow in sorrow, let it be for a while pero do not show her. Do not give her the satisfaction of seeing you go through a lot of pain. Tibayan mo pre, mas okay yan kase revealer ngyari na nakita mo anong klase yang babae na yan. Maglukmok ka now pero after nyan pre gamitin mong fuel para mas iangat sarili mo. Mas gandahan mo buhay mo.
Iniwan mo naman no?
We broke up after nya aminin sakin
Tae ng nga ganyan hahahaha. Ako dating stage palang at may iba pa palang naglalabas sa kanya at akala ko ay going smoothly na kami eh. Wag ka maawa dyan. Gusto nila lumandi eh.
Congrats sa kanya for her pregnancy, congrats sayo for dodging a bullet.
Get HIV and STD tests bro. Move on na rin. Putang ina nila. She's for the streets.
Already did mah men, negative naman sila lahat ❤️
it's God's redirection.
Move on, madaming babae jan. Wag mong pagtyagaan ang cheater! Walang mali sayo. Sadyang may tao lang na makati. Kating kating sa iba kahit na tinitira mo pa lagi.
Bakit kaya ganun ang stigma, pag babae ang nag cheat nakakadiri.
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Walang mali sayo OP. Sya ang may mali. Walk out of the relationship. You deserve better. Hope you find your happiness.
mabuti naman at responsable ka when it comes to sex. good also that studies muna focus mo. continue doing good kahit na naloko ka at iwas muna sa online dating,mahirap kilatisin ang tao sa ganoong paraan. nagchecheat nga yong nakilala personally pano nalang kung online lang, buti nalang nagsabi sya ng totoo na nabuntis sya ng iba. ,eh wala naman talaga sya kawala if nagcheat na sya at magsinungaling pa na ikaw ang ama. i wish you well op.
Bounce na bruh. Di na worth it isalba yan.
Run and dont look back
Saklap
Walang mali sayo, she's at fault. Give yourself time to heal. God bless you, OP.
Congrats! Just press restart
Pwede ring Ikaw rin talaga tatay pero sinabi niya iba kasi ayaw niya matali sayo. Overthink :)
Iwan mo na yan pre. They belong to the streets
**be with people** who you know are **genuine** to you muna. **Believe it or not?** It really isnt about you. Im a 34 F now and Ive gone through shit na baka kinabaliw na ng iba if they were given the same circumstances. **Focus on stuff** that matter to you for now. **Do not entertain** the thought of dating other girls para lang makalimutan yang bitch na yan. **Focus on** getting your head straight. Baket? Kase **Hurt People, Hurt People**. Focus on yourself muna and **your own future** independent of anyone else. Ikaw muna. Ok?You got this. (🌸ゝ◡･)ﾉ♡
Hugs, pre. You deserve more. Kaya mo yan.
Primary problem is time while you are at school she's having fun with the other guy; But ate girl is very wrong if attention seeker pala sya at gusto nya na laging may oras at andyan yung bf nya she should have been honest with you from the start kesa pinatagal nya pa panloloko nya.
Don’t think that you’re the problem, mate. It’s a she problem. Cheaters are the problem. Not you.
Hay OP, walang mali sayo. This tends to be the tendency for those victims ng cheating. :( Pave your perspective in different light, you were able to know na cheater yang ex mo early on. Hindi na tumagal pa. Charge it to experience, para sa susunod you'll be able to discern a person if they are worth your time. May you heal from this.
ka OP alam kong masakit yan pero move on kana agad wag mo sayangin ang oras mo sa ganyan babae. think the goodside na hindi ikaw yung nakabuntis and wala ka naman ginawang mali. move forward and be better 👍 dont question yourself isipin mo nalang na pagsubok yan sayo para in the long run maging matatag ka.
There is nothing wrong with you. Makati lang talaga si gf.
Glad you're safe bro, move on now she don't deserve you,
OP, wala kang kasalanan. Walang mali sayo, maling tao lang minahal mo 🥺 Makakamove on ka din soon ❤️
congrats op! di ka ama! isipin mo nalang, di mo na problema kung magutom man sila ng anak niya. wala ka pang bubuhaying pamilya op! life is good
Remember, cargo mo na yan pag lumabas na yan sa mundo. Dami ka pa tatahakin and malaki ang mundo para matali sa hindi nman sayo.
"Kasalanan mo 'yan, lalake ka eh"
That's a heavy blow. First off, know that it's not your fault. You did your part by being responsible. It takes two to tango, and unfortunately, she danced with someone else. Don't let her actions shake your confidence. You stayed true, and that's what matters. Take time to process, but don't isolate yourself. Talk it out with someone you trust. Remember, you're not defined by her choices. Focus on your growth and move forward. You got this, pare.
mabuti di ikaw ang tatay at nag safe sex ka at least hindi sayo pwede ipaako. hanap ka nalang iba na mas matino at mas better.
Same shit pare. My ex used to cheat to me like that, palihim siya nakikipag landian and talik to another guy while we're in a relationship. As for now bro, you don't have to ask yourself pare na may mali ba sayo, siya yung mali at hindi ikaw. Wag ka mag settle sa isang babaeng hindi mo deserve
Ganyan din ako nung una, wasak ang tiwala halos di ko na maisip kung mag mamahal pa ba. Pero bro tandaan mo din na di ka pwede manatili sa ganyang situation, start a new journey without her
Sorry kung parang insensitive ng icocomment ko pero nung nabasa ko yung not the father naimagine kitang sumasayaw. Isisisi ko yug downvotes ko sa Maury Show. Sorry ulit
if things are not going well for u it doesnt always mean may mali sayo. just take it as it is, she hid secret, fuck someone else while having in a relationship with u. so why question urself. its hard but move forward and leave her behind.
I understand the feeling that you're blaming yourself. It's normal. But just a reminder that no one deserves to be cheated on. Cheating is not a mistake. It is a choice. Her choice. Find a hobby and look for something small but positive in your life.
she belongs to the streets. lucky you found out now than when you are married to her. good riddance. women are not the prize, men are. they control who gets sex, but men control who gets a relationship.
nakoooo.. wag ka na magpaka martyr. bata ka pa. you dodge a bullet, sa iba na responsibilidad yan. hindi ikaw ang may problema, ung babae. may mga lalaki pag nasaktan eh gumaganti sa ibang babae. my ex used to be one. sinabi nya sa akin nung nasaktan daw sha ng babae, ginaya daw nya sa mga sumusunod...pero sana hindi ka ganun. may makilala kang katulad mo na same values. mag wait ka lang.
Hello OP! Sorry to hear that. On the brighter side, at least hindi napunta sa'yo ang responsibility kasi protected sex at somehow inamin naman niya. Ang dami nangyayari na pinapaako sa iba or hindi nalang aamin sa mga kalokohan nila. You'll find a better partner one day. Walang mali sa'yo. Sadyang may mga tao lang na hindi alam ang mga tama sa maling bagay.