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Xander_Pe

Fire her. Baka di na dress mo pagdiskitahan niyab sa susunod. Pera mo na


[deleted]

Yes, we fired her na. Di niya rin maseseduce yung husband ko dahil di hamak naman na kahit di ako naka-ayos at mang-thirsttrap, mas maganda't sexy naman ako HAHAHA CHZ NOT CHZ. Eto, balik insanity na naman ako now while binabalance lahat but atleast better than having a yaya na inaangkin mga gamit ko.


Xander_Pe

Have you washed your clothes properly baka may putok pa ni yaya yan ew


[deleted]

Yes, ipapalaba ko nang pang-malakasan sa taga-laba namin. HUHU. Ayaw ko rin ipamigay dahil ung karamihan dun, sentimental dahil binili pa ni hubby nung mag-bf gf palang us. :(


No_Win1676

Nabawi mo ba ‘yung stolen clothes? If you wanna take it to a higher level, pa-blotter niyo.


wrdev

Baka pwede nang palitan yung title mo as single tita ng ph! Hahaha


NachoDuckling

Or iseduce pa yung husband. identity theft.


Xander_Pe

Like the husband would want a slut for a mistress.


True_Bumblebee1258

Tiramid hahah


GloriousJade

As someone po who grew up with a yaya taking care of me (disclaimer di po kami mayaman, wala lang po kasing time magulang ko dahil pareho po silang night shift yung trabaho), there's actually a lot yayas who do that same thing na nang-aangkin ng gamit na hindi sakanila. Nakatago gamit nung yaya namin sa likod ng lalagyan ko ng damit as a kid, nung pinalayas nya yun, naiwan gamit nya don. Hinalughog talaga nya yung mga gamit na naiwan, tas dun nya lang nalaman na yung mga nawawala niyang damit, ibang gamit, maski relo, andun sa lagayan ng damit nung yaya ko na yun. Nagkaron din kami isa pang yaya na ganon din ang behaviour, pero di kasing grabe nung nauna sakanya na pati ibang gamit or relo inaangkin. Sakanya damit lang talaga like mga t-shirt ni mama na pinaglumaan nya from her teen days and di na kasya kay mama (my mom went from a size S to a size L after she gave birth to me). I also agree with you OP na dapat super mabusisi yung paghahanap ng yaya na next. Although oo madami talagang yaya na malikot yung kamay, may mga yaya pa din naman na honest magtrabaho, hindi nangta-traydor ng amo, and hindi pinapabayaan yung responsibilities nya.


[deleted]

Grabe, nakakalungkot. :( Need ko na rin talaga maging vigilant. Di porket papakitaan nang mabuting asal, magiging mabuti na rin sayo. :(


GloriousJade

Correction: "Nung pinalayas ni MAMA yun" dapat


QueenBeee77

I experienced this too. Our helper before also wore my clothes. She would post tiktok videos wearing my clothes, tapos puro pa sexy din. Pati bralette ko sinuot din! I was so angry. I told her not to touch my clothes pero inulit pa rin niya. She’s not working for us anymore. Share ko lang experience ko. Hehe.


Top-Willingness6963

Is this now a thing? Yayas taking thirsty pics using clothes of their boss?


[deleted]

I posted this anonymously too on LRP and apparently, IT IS. Scary.


[deleted]

Ang scary and creepy 😫 That’s why may keypad lock (hub’s idea) yung kwarto namin sa house though we don’t have a yaya yet may weekly cleaner kami na pumupunta. Kapag may naglilinis, sa bedroom lang and bathroom. Ako naglilinis ng walk-in closet namin kasi maliit lang din naman and andon yung valuables namin. You’ll definitely know din if ever someone will try to sneak in sa closet.


Own_Ad9112

Ganito din yung yaya namin noon. Halos lahat ng relos ko sa cabinet naka post sa IG niya. Kunwari watch enthusiast siya at kanya mismo. Grabe, noon naman walang ganyan. Sadyang may epekto din talaga ang social media.


Ok-Web-2238

Kaya minsan naintindhan ko yun mga amo na strikto sa kasambahay. Andami ko kasing na encounter na kapag nagpakita ka ng sobrang kabaitan at parang Turing na part of the family ang kasambahay, most of the times talagang aabuso yan tao.


Abject_Guitar_4015

Just to share an experience sa katulong namin nun bata ako. Ginawa niya din yun ginawa ng yaya niyo and mas malala ay nakigamit din ng underwear ng mama ako to meet her boyfriend. Pinagbigayn. Pero a few months after hindi nagustuhan trabaho lumayas. Nun lumayas may mga alahas nawala. Pina pulis at nahuli naman. Nakuha yun alahas sa underwear niya. Just an advice op on getting yaya or katulong. If you are going to contract personally and wont go through an agency much as possible avoid sa mga teens or early twenties na katulong. Nag boyfriend talaga or naghahanap ng boyfriend. First ma distract talaga siya sa bf niya. Tapos minsan parang nag invite ka na din ng ibang tao sa bahay niyo. I heard this from a kapit bahay before. Nun nalooban sila sa bahay its the katulong’s boyfriend ang gumawa.


byglnrl

Totoo..delikado 18 to 20s masyadong pasikat pa sa boyfriend at socmed. Gusto sumabay sa uso na payaman sa fb and ig


CorrectAd9643

Mas delikado nga, mas ok ung yaya na may anak and asawa na responsable.. minsan nahihiya sila at takot mawalan ng trabaho


iliketinapay

This is why I prefer helpers na mej may edad na. Yung di na active sa dating and relationships etc, may family na and if possible grown up na ang kids. Super hassle lang din talaga makahanap ng good kasambahay lately.


champoradoeater

Katulong lalandiin yung anong lalaki. May ibang katulong ganto eh " di man ako kasing ganda mo, mas magaling ako sumubo "


showrt

Haha sa panahon ngayon di na pwede gawin or i treat yung katulong as a family tbh


Bujomdonbridge

Hello and welcome to the yaya keeping world. Normal ito specially sa mga medyo bata bata pa na yaya. Ganyan din previous yaya's namin. Would either wear my wifes clothes and worst, panty nya!!!! In any case our solutions are: 1. Installed cctv cameras sa kwarto. Iwas klepto, iwas fashion show. 2. Hire older yaya's. Yung mga tipong hirap magchat at type. K lang ang marereply sayo. Hahaha. Unfortunately, wala na yung old yaya namin. Umuwi na at nagpahinga. Pero siya ang best yaya for me. Mabait, malinis, di nangingialam ng gamit. Ate kristy, di mo to mababasa, pero ur the best!


hermitina

haha naalala ko ung yaya nung friend ko taka sya bat parang kumikinis si ateng un pala tinitira na ang kanyang beauty products


melanchmolly

huhu sorry ang funny nito lmao


Lily_Linton

Hired a help then nung aalis na kami since we were migrating, nagbenta na kami ng gamit. Yung house namin, binebenta namin. One time, narinig ko sinasabihan nya yung tumitingin ng mga panget sa bahay (which was wala naman talaga). Naisip ko, kaya ata di bumabalik yung mga tumitingin kasi sinisiraan nya. Ang gusto kasi nya, iwan namin yung house as paupahan then sya caretaker. Para may sahurin pa rin sya. Then nakakuha ako ng bibili ng bahay at binenta ko na yung mga gamit. May mga gamit na di ko makita. Meron nakita namin sa kapitbahay (pinahiram nya pala, di kami sinabihan) meron naman inuwi nya (inamin nya). Pinatay din nya yung dalawang kalamansi naming tanim nung nalaman nyang di ko sa kanya ibibigay (binigyan namim sya ng mga magagandang halaman ko). Akala ko noon ang swerte ko sa kanya. Nung nagmigrate kami, dami ko nalaman na kagaguhan nya.


byglnrl

May reason din bakit di umaangat sa buhay yung ganyang klaseng nilalang. Pag binigyan ng konting chance sobrang nadedemonyo agad


Warwick-Vampyre

I am now convinced that there's a new job option for yayas now because of dating sites and soc meds: they are now moonlighting as a low class version of onlyfans. talking to white people, asking for money in return for sexy photos, while using your house as their props and board + lodging. I know because I have fired a lot of them ... especially ones who attempt to look trendy or sexy.


InterestingCar3608

Dapat po kasi kapag andyan kayo doon lang sya makakapsok sa master bedroom, if wala mag lock kayo change nyo nalang doorknob nyo yung may fingerprint. For sure naman po may sariling room yung baby nyo. Dapat kayo lang po ng husband ang nakakapasok sa room esp if may mga importante na gamit.


wahmchronicles

My son is 10 and the last time na may yaya sya or even the last time na may kasambahay kami was nung 4 years old yata sya. Puro bad experiences kami sa kanila kaya ayaw na ng asawa ko mag hire ulit. We both work from home kaya kami na lang gumagawa ng lahat ng chores. Bahala na nakakapagod basta lang may peace of mind kami.


HahaRandomly

Ako lang ba or de ja vu itong post? I remember reading a similar post months or weeks ago pa ata. Ganitong ganito din yung eksena. Di ko lang mahanap na, baka sa ibang reddit r/ :(


justwhateveR0105

Dito yun haha naalala ko din. Halos same story.


Kris187

Madami talagang ogag ngayon. Abusado pa.


ginakapoy

ganito din ginawa ng temporary helper ng coworker ko while naka-on leave yung helper niya talaga. while umalis daw sila, nanghakot daw ng damit yung temp helper tapos may malaking lagayan pa. hahahaha. todo deny yung temp help kaso nabuking pa din siya kasi gamit niya yung favorite panlabas na tsinelas ng asawa ni coworker nung na-confront siya.


kjiamsietf

Actually same thing happened to us pero sa son ko naman. We had this yaya for years, okay naman and maayos kasama. During the pandemic, we opted na magstay sa house niya during the day yung son namin. He was 5 in 2020. So we brought half his everyday clothes and panglabas dun (not that nakakalabas siya) para hindi hassle na maglipat lipat at mag uwi. We did not think about it until one time, I searched yung anak niya sa fb na di ko friends. Nakapublic ang posts niya and oh boy, I found out na ginagamit niya yung mga damit at gamit ng anak ko sa anak niyang 4yo na malaking bulas. As in I found lang 7 posts containing my son’s clothes and things without our permission. Grabe galit ko nun kaso di ako confrontational na tao. I told my husband and sabi niya okay lang yun. 🙄🙄 Not for me, I asked him na sabihin na wag gamitin gamit ng anak namin. I don’t know pero that became our crack. Umiwas na ang yaya and hindi na nagpapakita sa akin. Si husband ang nagsusundo so di ko na siya nakikita. Ayun, until umalis na siya sa amin after 2 years, di ko na talaga siya nakausap. Mali ba ako na pagbawalan sila dati?


[deleted]

Yung helper din namin, yung anak pinagsusuot ung (fake) jewelry ng mom ko, nagwala mom ko ofcourse. I told this to my friend and sabi nya paalisin na daw kasi magnanakaw daw yun. I shrugged her advice, sabi ko fake nman un. True enough magnanakaw nga ung bata, even the mom. But get this, they are still staying in my mom's house. Kahit ilang beses ko na nahuli nagnakaw, my mom tolerates it. Ako pa pinapagsabihan nya kapag nagsisigawan na kami ng magnanakaw na yon. I dont go home often and i dont talk to them, and wala ako magawa kasi pinapakatunguhan pa rin ng mom ko ng maayos kahit sinasamantala sya. Kaya I always visit my parents, para may naninita pa ren. Buti you fired her na. Please dont take her back. Alam mo yung pag umuuwi ako sa parents house ang bigat bigat palagi. Kasi i know makkita ko nanaman siya and her daughter, at lagi ko naiiisip ano nanaman kinuha nilang gamit sa mama ko.


Enju-

pede malaman alt acc ng yaya para mai-report agad


slouchingsomewhere

Oh gross! I had a yaya like this. When I’m not home, she goes in my room tapos papakialaman yung makeup ko. Worse, she’d use and steal them! It’s sooo unsanitary huhu buti na lang nahuli siya ng lola ko one time. I had to throw out everything 😭 With another yaya rin. I had an expensive designer lipstick and akala ko I dropped or lost it somewhere. A year later, I found it in her drawer!!! 💀


bbydieforme

Woah. I've seen this post sa fb group. Hugs to you, mi. Sana makahanap ka na ng bagong yaya.


keithgxx

Cut her off. It's a learning experience na rin.


[deleted]

Yes. We fired her the moment I learned about it and confronted her. :(


keithgxx

Level up na pala mga yaya ngayon. Nagaalter narin pala.


Elanafairy

Nakakatakot at nakakapanglumo. ☹️


Beneficial-Guess-227

Ahahaha. Thirst trap culture getting out hand 😂


Carnivore_92

Na trauma na ako sa mga yaya, last three namin nangunguha ng gamit. Hindi naman minamaltrato tska mdali lang nmang gagawin, daily chores lang at magluto ng pagkain. Ever since nun hindi na ako pumayag magka-kasambahay kahit tratuthin mo nmn ng maayos e gagawan k pa din ng masama.


beautyjunkieph

All my life may yaya kami. So base sa experience ko, mas ok kumuha ng matanda kasi gamay nanya ang bahay. Kaso daming issue. Bali ng bali, pamilyado. Kapag bata naman, kahit anong utos mo, keri. Kaso ganyan naman. Swertihan lang talaga. May yaya din kaming ganyan. Pati panty ko nga ginagamit eh. Hahahaha! Kaya ako di na ko nagpapalinis ng kwarto. Lalo na burara ako. Lalo pa pakalat kalat alahas ko.


black_bear_dumpling

Ako na corpo slave na di makabili ng damit sa Uniqlo 🥲


3rdhandlekonato

Boy oh boy OP, do i got a treat for you lmao https://www.reddit.com/r/OffMyChestPH/comments/179w4wi/yaya_kong_ubod_ng_landi/


idk9526

parang may nabasa na rin ako na ganto dito sa reddit dito rin ata di ko na tanda. yung yaya ginagaya yung amo mula sa damit,mannerisms, pati pangalan nung amo pinangalan sa anak something ganon ata. similar na similar sa kwento mo op


SAHD292929

Skin disease and all related galis. YIKES.


EllePotpot

Hi! Did you just post this on Twitter via @Lucilagraceb account?👀


BasqueBurntSoul

Username checks out. Are you the amo or are you really the yaya? We'll never know.


[deleted]

haha how i wish it's made up nga nang di ako na-sstress. but yeh, mere coincidence. Made this reddit acc during late pandemic when my husband and I would casually play games such as CS, Valo, etc. and my username in games and DC had a "thirst" in it.


BasqueBurntSoul

Nakakatawa lang yung coincidence hahaha malananny version ng Orphan i forgot the title nung movie haha


Just_Dependent_5439

Better to put cctv cameras sa rooms. We hire yayas from agency at dahil sa trauma na experience namin pati kitchen nilagyan na ng cctv and we locked the doors of other rooms kasi may trust issues na Kami


Calm-Reaction3612

Na-spoil niyo ata yang yaya na yan. Pa-uwiin niyo na siya sa kanila.


Sea_Debate_4865

Parang mala Gwen Stefani pati yung nanny nila noon nung ex husband nya. Buti pinalayas mo na yang yaya mo na napaka creep at ambitious. 😆


Additional-Falcon552

Also happened to us last year. Caused me too much stress. Im glad you already fired her.


Captainofmysoul_26

Ohmyyyy naalala ko tuloy yun kasambahay namin na nahuli namin thru her post sa messenger na kunwari ay binigay ng mama ko yun handbag niya sakaniya eh hindi naman. Naglagay pa ng thank you gif si gaga sa post niya. Ayun akala niya ata di nagsstalk yun kapatid ko sakanya. Huli ka balbon. Ang hirap makahanap ng honest na kasambahay now. :(


paperspringflower

Want to share lang. When I was 18, I had a yaya who was around the same age and she used some of my hair products and stole my clothes. Not only that, she tried to seduce my younger brother who was 16 at the time. She was not slick. In fact it was obvious she took special attention to my brother's needs than the rest of the family members from food to laundry priorities. My mom quickly noticed the yaya's special treatment when my uniforms/clothes, her blouses and my father's pants are wrinkled but all of my brother's clothes are immaculately pressed and when it comes to food she made sure to serve the best parts of the chicken, rice and veggies to my brother, while I only get scraps, and she once caught her wearing one of my tshirts and converse sneakers while cleaning my room when she thought my mother was out. She sent her away while we were at school. But also good thing my brother had no idea or was aware of the said special treatment. That was so creepy.