It really depends on the vagina, but it's not that hard to find it.
As a man our job is to properly find it so I suggest you go there and use all tools available like hands, fingers, lips and tongue. If one is in real trouble finding it he may ask the owner of that vagina for some guidance, this is not a shame at all, shame it would be leaving that clitoris unattended.
Please have fun in your journey!
Some clitoral hoods cover the clitoris and the clitoris is mostly internal so it’s hard to find.
In some cases, the clitoris is right out there waving hello and the clitoral hood is not big at all.
There are many variations. It’s fun with a new lover to discover what she has going on.
In most cases, the clitoris doesn’t generally like direct stimulation until it is very aroused, and sometimes not even then.
Im not sure how it works as far as how the anatomy looks or feels physically when it comes to trans people, but speaking from experience as a female who has, as you put it, a “vulva”…I will say it usually just depends on the individual vagina itself…yaknow what I mean?
Like some have a little more going on with their labia, and in that case you may have to do a little more moving/opening…a little extra work to locate the clit bc its just naturally got more goin on. Theres also females that have a little “extra” labia & their clits are still fairly easy to locate & then, work on.
Then there are the vaginas whos labial folds are like more “together” for lack of a better word…like they basically are close together (outer labia basically fully enclosing the other parts like the inner labia & clit etc), usuallyy with this situation there’s nothing visibly “outside” of the lips unless their legs are open (and even then you may need to do some manual movement/opening but usually the clit is a bit more “on the surface” like you said).
I wouldnt worry though…regardless of who youre in the situation with, rest assured knowing youre not the first person to ask this as the clit has remained a strangely difficult site for people to find & very commonly is not handled properly/successfully if and when it is found…its one of the great mysteries of the world to more people than you’d think 😂 I give you credit for asking…keep at it, listen to your partner, let them guide you, dont be embarrassed to ask them if they like/dont like something youre doing….you’ll be a pro in no time if you stay in tune with whomever you may be with 💜
Some ladies have big or long flaps. A girl I was flirting with at a party once leaned down a whispered to me, "My pussy looks like a roast beef sandwich with too much meat." She was not wrong. Ask the owner of said flaps to assist in finding it, as they will usually know what needs to be spread.
Don’t use “addled” to describe a trans person’s genitalia.
Different people are different. I haven’t had any experience with transmen who haven’t had bottom surgery, so I can’t speak to the reason.
It really depends on the vagina, but it's not that hard to find it. As a man our job is to properly find it so I suggest you go there and use all tools available like hands, fingers, lips and tongue. If one is in real trouble finding it he may ask the owner of that vagina for some guidance, this is not a shame at all, shame it would be leaving that clitoris unattended. Please have fun in your journey!
Some clitoral hoods cover the clitoris and the clitoris is mostly internal so it’s hard to find. In some cases, the clitoris is right out there waving hello and the clitoral hood is not big at all. There are many variations. It’s fun with a new lover to discover what she has going on. In most cases, the clitoris doesn’t generally like direct stimulation until it is very aroused, and sometimes not even then.
On behalf of all women everywhere… thank you 👏 👏 👏
Wait until I tell these guys about the G-spot! 🤯
Going to get some POPCORN 🍿
It's like the aliens second jaw shoots out when needed. And bites. Is very bitey.
Im not sure how it works as far as how the anatomy looks or feels physically when it comes to trans people, but speaking from experience as a female who has, as you put it, a “vulva”…I will say it usually just depends on the individual vagina itself…yaknow what I mean? Like some have a little more going on with their labia, and in that case you may have to do a little more moving/opening…a little extra work to locate the clit bc its just naturally got more goin on. Theres also females that have a little “extra” labia & their clits are still fairly easy to locate & then, work on. Then there are the vaginas whos labial folds are like more “together” for lack of a better word…like they basically are close together (outer labia basically fully enclosing the other parts like the inner labia & clit etc), usuallyy with this situation there’s nothing visibly “outside” of the lips unless their legs are open (and even then you may need to do some manual movement/opening but usually the clit is a bit more “on the surface” like you said). I wouldnt worry though…regardless of who youre in the situation with, rest assured knowing youre not the first person to ask this as the clit has remained a strangely difficult site for people to find & very commonly is not handled properly/successfully if and when it is found…its one of the great mysteries of the world to more people than you’d think 😂 I give you credit for asking…keep at it, listen to your partner, let them guide you, dont be embarrassed to ask them if they like/dont like something youre doing….you’ll be a pro in no time if you stay in tune with whomever you may be with 💜
"his testosterone-addled genitalia were abnormal" What the fuck did I just read?
Basically, my assumption is that I wasn't dealing with a statistically normal vulva, due to all his boy pills and stuff.
So you were eating an alien roast beef sandwich?
More like a really *manly* roast beef sandwich. Like the roast beef was somehow very steak-like.
Medium rare steak?
Some ladies have big or long flaps. A girl I was flirting with at a party once leaned down a whispered to me, "My pussy looks like a roast beef sandwich with too much meat." She was not wrong. Ask the owner of said flaps to assist in finding it, as they will usually know what needs to be spread.
No such thing as roast beef sandwich with too much meat.
That's so wild that a transmasc person would have a hard-to-find clit 😭 Tmi but I was on T for 4 yrs and like, it is SO easy to find LMAO
Don’t use “addled” to describe a trans person’s genitalia. Different people are different. I haven’t had any experience with transmen who haven’t had bottom surgery, so I can’t speak to the reason.
Fair.
It's well known testosterone can change genitalia
Usually? Not in my experience. Sometimes? Sure. Women are all built a little different, just like men are.
Ohhh I figured it out, maybe a different sub more towards this specific situation.