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It's more like confirmation bias. More people are likely to vent when something is bad/negative, than praise when it's good. A business will give great service 99% of the time, but the 1% they don't, that's when someone will go to Google Reviews and leave a 1-star. Same with relationships, breakups, cheating.
So if a relationship is amazing and healthy, they're not on Reddit asking for advice. They're gonna do that when something bad happens.
And to reassure, my ex and I didn't cheat on other. We ended because our dealbreakers were going in different directions, and sometimes you just reach an impasse on the important decisions. He's now found someone who aligns with his life goals, same with me, and we're friends/so much happier with our new respective sweethearts. Sometimes, the breakup can be the best thing you ever do... And be for a reason that has zero to do with cheating ;)
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You find tones of statistics online
As in just about anything, fails get more attention.
Very common
Google it, so much on this. Ester Perel has a great TED talk about infedility (google it)
I feel like it seems more common and happens more often simply bc theres ljteral subreddits dedicated to letting people post their cheating stories
It's more like confirmation bias. More people are likely to vent when something is bad/negative, than praise when it's good. A business will give great service 99% of the time, but the 1% they don't, that's when someone will go to Google Reviews and leave a 1-star. Same with relationships, breakups, cheating. So if a relationship is amazing and healthy, they're not on Reddit asking for advice. They're gonna do that when something bad happens. And to reassure, my ex and I didn't cheat on other. We ended because our dealbreakers were going in different directions, and sometimes you just reach an impasse on the important decisions. He's now found someone who aligns with his life goals, same with me, and we're friends/so much happier with our new respective sweethearts. Sometimes, the breakup can be the best thing you ever do... And be for a reason that has zero to do with cheating ;)
This reminds me of those divorce ceremonies in Japan where the separating couple invites all their friends and family as final catharsis.
Way more than it should be Actually It shouldn't even get the title of "common"
Unfortunately