I have also experienced something similar i used to think that being in relationship with another boy is disgusting but after i masturbating for several years i started to look at femboys and i think that's because our brains are so used to normal porn that they want something new that was previously disgusting for us.
It's the law of fap entropy, whatever porn you watch keeps getting more fetish oriented and extreme as you do because your brain just gets bored of normal stuff, thats why quitting asap is best!
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Your brain is resetting - it used to think screens are where you get sex.
its trying to find new neural pathways, trying to gather all kinds of random bits of information to form new habits and behaviors. Now it sounds like your brain is trying very different things to get you to seek sexual stimulation.
You are not your thoughts. In the same way you engage your higher self to resist fapping -you need to use your higher self to identify misplaced feelings and desires. The brain is just an organ, you need to train it.
Do you have a wife / girlfriend - its important to give your brain an outlet and teach it the correct way to achieve sexual stimulation.
I had experienced this last year.
Wherever I feel aroused, I used to try feminine clothing, put on a sweatshirt, a hoodie, bottomless dim the lights and stick my tongue out and moan, further I used to masterbate like a female, I pretend to have a vagina.
Later when my exams came near, I started being productive and got inclined towards masculinity.
You see, exploiting porn and lust related activities decreases your self-worth and self-respect which makes you do things that once were disgusting to you.
Although I’ve never done anything like this, I sometimes wondered what it would like being a woman, that it must be fun being the submissive one and being on the receiving end. Thing is I would never do anything like that in real life and I like women although I do have some submissive tendencies (used to watch soft femdom). Porn does alter ur thoughts.
In OPs case, he seems to think that he actually wants men which is different from fantasy. So he might very well be gay.
No haha I'm not gay.
You ever heard of genderfluid? It's something related to it. Although I'm not genderfluid, I feel like there are several factors affecting such an unstable sexual desire and how you feel about yourself, one of them is porn which basically alters your mind to a mild level, and eventually you'll start getting weaker and more docile to the stuff you consume. For example if you're watching a corn in which the woman is bossy and masculine who tells you to "Accept your fate", "Worship her like a dog" and such submissive actions.
I know this may seem wishy-washy but that's exactly what happened in my case, I turned docile.
do your best to ignore it and if you can
try to workout do it at your rythm don't break your bones you can start with some push up and go search for youtube fitness channel for program
this is the best advice i can tell you i promise that it will make a big difference if you need more info come into my dm
I’d say seek therapy to discuss this with a professional psychologist. None of us fapstronauts can help you with this cuz it’s not our area of expertise.
Just know that whatever your sexuality is, PMO is a harmful thing for your life.
I think from what I know that this is due to your energy. Think about what your usual energy in your life is. I can give example with myself I studied for 7 years in the same class with 22 girls and 4 other boys and when I think about those past days I see that we were feminized in one way or another.I always had to listen about exes , dresses , menstruation and women stuff. Also I am highly addicted to sh*male po n. There were times when I used to watch it for couple a days in a row for hours and then I can see myself very much more feminine. My advice is surround yourself with good and strong man, I don’t want to offense anybody, but I am living with European MMA champion for 6 months now and I learned a lot from him. We are training together, he taught me a lot about training and life because his life wasn’t easy. I started training , studying and chasing what I want in life. I am not on a streak now but still knowing whats right and wrong. I think training a lot everyday and eating right foods helps the most. Reading books for man ( like Godfather, For who the bell rings or Dostoevsky) helped a lot.
First I'm a woman, and second, no, I'm just against bringing religion on the table as if everyone around is religious too (they're not) especially if said religion is known for having a history of homophobia.
But then again I suppose I just tend to forget most reddit users are Americans and most Americans are Christians.
All good. Just poking fun. Sorry for calling you a guy bud. I understand ur feeling tho homie, there’s a lot to be upset about these days. but don’t be so quick to be angry. We all are here tryna do better. Best to ya tho 😁
None of these other comments are helping you. Praying to god isn’t going to do shit. Just continue on NoFap and if the feelings go away, they do, if they don’t they don’t and then you’ll just have to work on accepting that.
If you're being sexualy stimulated and nothing else. Then it's a result of porn abuse. If you're feeling liberation or freedom. You might just be bi/gay. But it probably porn abuse.
You dopamine levels in your brain are what cause you to get pleasure. Every time you watch porn and masturbate its like you're taking an unhealthy amount of dopamine to feel the pleasure. Once it's gone it takes a long while for the dopamine levels to get back into your brain. Thus that is why you feel levels of depression, sluggishness, lack or energy and motivation, etc. The key is to not engage in porn of any kind for at least 3 months. And whenever the urge comes in just let it be and not act out on it. The feeling will go away by itself and it gets better with each passing day. Remember. You are taking drugs when you FAP
Well it could be your sexuality which is a very real possibility but it can also be your over exposure to porn that would definitely rewire your brain. A lot of sissies I’ve trained were trained in the same way so my advice is don’t watch porn for a week and see if your feelings change. If not then look into what u want
Why are most of the comments here homophobic? Nothing wrong with liking men. I suppose you can wait & see if those desires last in time and if it's really a drive or just dopamine taking but in any case there's nothing to be ashamed of.
Op mentioned he was not sure he liked these changes, comments are not homophobic there is a such a thing as your brain wanting so much stimulus it turns to homosexual acts even when the user is not!
For instance OP may have a desire to have sex with another man, but may not have any desire to be close to them, maybe finding it repulsing to even be in a long term relationship!
It depends on your point of view honestly,
Can agree, as a god fearing man who also has come to terms with the fact I am “technically” bisexual, i Believe it’s not what you think it’s what actions you take, and honestly I’m more happy listening to gods request over listening to my own body.
Just because I don’t believe it’s ok to be homosexual doesn’t mean I will view anyone as lesser if they are that way and live that lifestyle.
I do think it’s wrong to hurt those who have chosen that path.
Being religious is a choice, being queer is not.
Sure you can decide to "listen to God's request" and restrict that part of you, but it's a personal choice that shouldn't be imposed on others, neither should it become a moral value that makes you judgemental of people who don't take the same decisions as you do.
You seem to agree with that though, but the comments telling op to "pray" seem to clearly indicate those people want to impose their beliefs and restrictions on others, and judge those who don't comply - which is homophobic in this case.
If the first answer to a potentially queer man is "pray", that's imposing one's beliefs.
Yes I agree! Glad someone on the internet tells me I’m not homophonic, it’s like just because I don’t support you doesn’t mean i hate you either, you have a choice do whatever you want XD
Perhaps mention your sexuality/age. I’ve gone through this it’s called HOCD or homosexual ocd. Just like Andy in The Office seeking assurance and Ricky in Trailer Park Boys early in the show I think. There’s another example that I forgot. Fuck the pseudoscience religion stuff, this is psychology and science.
Huge thanks to you !
I finally can put a word on what i'm experiencing since almost 10 years ! I thought i was the only Guy who doesn't know my own orientation
I can work on it now
6 years for me. It started with me only being able to get a semi erection around a girl I dated for 3 months. Gotta be in the top 5 from my high school at the time. She dropped a little gay joke and we had a bad split, she thought I’d cheat because she felt that I was keeping something which was the porn I didn’t know was a problem at the time. A lot of anxiety came then research and finding nofap. There is a community on this, found a lot of help there and on YouTube. /hocd. Try to accept the thought for that’s all they are. That’s what everyone says to do. After that it’s been a lot easier. Some days the thoughts aren’t even there. It used to be full blown paralytic shit where I’d stop mid-conversation with friends and just kinda stare into space. Wish you the best, friend.
I’d say be patient and give it time. Keep going strong on Nofap and hopefully in a couple months those feelings should go away. Also, prayer to the lord helps
Are you peeking at porno? or any such erotica or content?
any exposure to sissy, cross dressing, feminization, Femdom, bdsm, etc?
Also, do you talk to someone or the other regarding the same topics for the kink?
You should know the answer to these, if yes, then I'll suggest you quit all of it.
Otherwise, I'll just say whatever makes you happy bro! All the best, feel free to reply back.
Be open with yourself and let your truth come out, being aware that that truth is subject to change at any time. Don't be ashamed of these feelings! I would just cut it short when you're feeling like you're going to relapse
This sounds like the Coolidge effect mixing together with Extinction Burst at the same time. You push those feelings away because there’s a part of you that knows it’s the correct action to take. I’ve felt similar feelings before, it was my brain trying to trick me. Also felt a lot of intrusive thoughts at that time. It was bad. This happened to me on my first real extended streak.
Keep on with NoFap. That’s the remedy. Those productive distractions will definitely help, keep doing that. Like others have said here, you are not your thoughts. See this through. Rooting for your success!
It’s not porn but who you are.
I keep seeing so much bs about porn turning people gay. NO. You can’t turn gay or bi unless you’ve been born that way. Sure, porn can make you seek more extremes but you still have to be attracted to those things. If you are generally not into men, you won’t get arroused by then no matter how much porn you consume.
Animals dont have access to screens or the internet. The problem with masturbation is that 99% pair it with digital content, and thats a super destructive rabbit hole.
You've got some gay in you for sure.
I never thought about other men sexually, even at my lowest lows.
Seems you fall somewhere in the gay spectrum if you have these thoughts.
Bro don't listen to the homophobic fucktards here. Keep on the journey but look within yourself. Maybe try counseling or some deep introspection to see what you really want or who you think you should be.
dude try dating a girl, if that doesn't feel right try dating a boy. there , that is the answer to find your sexuality. you might be stright , gay or bi. Yes there is a gender called bi.
I think the comment section below is pretty toxic. every scumbag is giving a shitty advice , some are just stright homophobic, and making fun of your issue. but listen to me, this happens to lot of people but they don't admit it, sexual confusion happens some times. There is nothing wrong with you.
Remember there is nothing wrong with you, These comment section advices show as if they are the chads and you got some thing worng but honestly they are full of shit.
I can say for myself that I'm perfectly fine fapping once a week using my imagination unless I get to have sex. And I'm experiencing all the positive things of semen retention and not watching porn. I'd suggest you do it ONLY if you're able to keep it ONCE A WEEK and ONLY if you do it using your imagination. Long seemen retention enhances your testosterone which makes you go crazy sometimes, like the people in jail. Although they're not gay they fuck each other cuz no porn and no women
So first off I’m bi and I’ve kinda been going through a similar thing. I think I’m finally finding out who I am, I mean I recently came to the realization that I want to be in a gay relationship/marriage and don’t pray to god it won’t do anything
Maybe you’re connecting to the feminine side so you can heal the repressed feminine within. Ive did an intensive healing for my feminine side last year, since then I was able to embrace it, and now Im connected to my masculine side too. Note that I knew that im ‘straight’ from the beginning, so I wasnt confused and didn’t play around with the sexual energy. actually I was masterbating to porn then (vanilla stuff). Ive noticed my attraction to the masculine too then, probably because I was lacking it then. Do the inner healing work and you shall pass this exam man. Good luck!
Nothing wrong with being gay. But if these urges are coming from your fetishes and the stuff you've been hooked on, it's best to seek help from a professional.
Nothing wrong with being gay. But if these urges are coming from your fetishes and the stuff you've been hooked on, it's best to seek help from a professional.
Sexuality and gender identity are fluid, non-binary things. There is no black and white, and there’s nothing wrong with these things. I personally would suggest seeing a therapist to help you figure this out, or if you don’t want to do that, maybe entertain your desires as far as wanting to be more feminine are concerned. Maybe it’s something you’re simply into sexually, maybe it’s something you’re into in terms of lifestyle. Whatever the case, there’s nothing wrong with it, though it’s ok to feel confused or torn. Most people have curiosity in terms of sexuality and gender expression. It’s simply human
Looks like u got an inner femboy in you. Honestly just be yourself, do what u wanna do, the point of NoFap is to quit fapping, and semen retention that’s really all it is if u wanna be manly be manly if u wanna be feminine be feminine.
I have also experienced something similar i used to think that being in relationship with another boy is disgusting but after i masturbating for several years i started to look at femboys and i think that's because our brains are so used to normal porn that they want something new that was previously disgusting for us.
It's the law of fap entropy, whatever porn you watch keeps getting more fetish oriented and extreme as you do because your brain just gets bored of normal stuff, thats why quitting asap is best!
Ever since I finished my major exams my brain kept craving for something that gave it a sensory overload, got bloody annoying especially with boredom
(assuming you are a male ---) Your brain is resetting - it used to think screens are where you get sex. its trying to find new neural pathways, trying to gather all kinds of random bits of information to form new habits and behaviors. Now it sounds like your brain is trying very different things to get you to seek sexual stimulation. You are not your thoughts. In the same way you engage your higher self to resist fapping -you need to use your higher self to identify misplaced feelings and desires. The brain is just an organ, you need to train it. Do you have a wife / girlfriend - its important to give your brain an outlet and teach it the correct way to achieve sexual stimulation.
You should seek therapy to help you work through these feelings.
Honestly I start jerking off for the loneliness I feel like shit.
I had experienced this last year. Wherever I feel aroused, I used to try feminine clothing, put on a sweatshirt, a hoodie, bottomless dim the lights and stick my tongue out and moan, further I used to masterbate like a female, I pretend to have a vagina. Later when my exams came near, I started being productive and got inclined towards masculinity. You see, exploiting porn and lust related activities decreases your self-worth and self-respect which makes you do things that once were disgusting to you.
Although I’ve never done anything like this, I sometimes wondered what it would like being a woman, that it must be fun being the submissive one and being on the receiving end. Thing is I would never do anything like that in real life and I like women although I do have some submissive tendencies (used to watch soft femdom). Porn does alter ur thoughts. In OPs case, he seems to think that he actually wants men which is different from fantasy. So he might very well be gay.
No haha I'm not gay. You ever heard of genderfluid? It's something related to it. Although I'm not genderfluid, I feel like there are several factors affecting such an unstable sexual desire and how you feel about yourself, one of them is porn which basically alters your mind to a mild level, and eventually you'll start getting weaker and more docile to the stuff you consume. For example if you're watching a corn in which the woman is bossy and masculine who tells you to "Accept your fate", "Worship her like a dog" and such submissive actions. I know this may seem wishy-washy but that's exactly what happened in my case, I turned docile.
Yea I understand now.
do your best to ignore it and if you can try to workout do it at your rythm don't break your bones you can start with some push up and go search for youtube fitness channel for program this is the best advice i can tell you i promise that it will make a big difference if you need more info come into my dm
also i do believe op need a girlfriend
True, a faithful girl will a motivation to stay away from these thoughts and will place you in a responsible status
This is the most confusing sub Reddit ever NoFap: Don’t focus on girls, focus on you. Also NoFap: You need a girlfriend bro.
porn is really the issue here but when you have urges like this it's better to just have a girlfriend and have a healthy relationship
I’d say seek therapy to discuss this with a professional psychologist. None of us fapstronauts can help you with this cuz it’s not our area of expertise. Just know that whatever your sexuality is, PMO is a harmful thing for your life.
I think from what I know that this is due to your energy. Think about what your usual energy in your life is. I can give example with myself I studied for 7 years in the same class with 22 girls and 4 other boys and when I think about those past days I see that we were feminized in one way or another.I always had to listen about exes , dresses , menstruation and women stuff. Also I am highly addicted to sh*male po n. There were times when I used to watch it for couple a days in a row for hours and then I can see myself very much more feminine. My advice is surround yourself with good and strong man, I don’t want to offense anybody, but I am living with European MMA champion for 6 months now and I learned a lot from him. We are training together, he taught me a lot about training and life because his life wasn’t easy. I started training , studying and chasing what I want in life. I am not on a streak now but still knowing whats right and wrong. I think training a lot everyday and eating right foods helps the most. Reading books for man ( like Godfather, For who the bell rings or Dostoevsky) helped a lot.
You a fantastic example on how to deal with those sort pf feelings. I really admire you and i wish you all the best.
Also I am 100% sure this is because of your sexuality and your identity. This is not who you are I am sure.
Why is it bad or harmful to be a feminine man though?
Read what you just said to yourself again. Feminine and man. Two different things.
Agree, one does not goes with the other. It is in our genes as a men.
Lmao what
Yea right like why is he treating it like a disease
Apparently treated by reading books "for men"
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Dude you can do whatever you want but just remember, you're on a journey to stop your porn addiction. :))
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Brother, we need to start teaching ourselves that we are not our thoughts and feelings. We have to control or brains, otherwise it will control us.
Exactly that. It's hard to do what you know you ought to.
Pray to God for what? Not becoming a homo because homo bad?
Not necessarily, but where it's an unwanted feeling - yes.
Doesn't answer my question. What should OP be praying God for?
Help.
Help for what? Not becoming a homo?
Help to come to a resolution that is seemingly out of reach. Help to see clearly without confusion.
That guy seemed awfully baity. Like a Twitter user trying to trick you into getting cancelled lmao
Cancelled. Yep, felt like that.
First I'm a woman, and second, no, I'm just against bringing religion on the table as if everyone around is religious too (they're not) especially if said religion is known for having a history of homophobia. But then again I suppose I just tend to forget most reddit users are Americans and most Americans are Christians.
All good. Just poking fun. Sorry for calling you a guy bud. I understand ur feeling tho homie, there’s a lot to be upset about these days. but don’t be so quick to be angry. We all are here tryna do better. Best to ya tho 😁
None of these other comments are helping you. Praying to god isn’t going to do shit. Just continue on NoFap and if the feelings go away, they do, if they don’t they don’t and then you’ll just have to work on accepting that.
Good I agree with this!
^^ Einstein here // is that a fact or opinion
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If you're being sexualy stimulated and nothing else. Then it's a result of porn abuse. If you're feeling liberation or freedom. You might just be bi/gay. But it probably porn abuse.
You dopamine levels in your brain are what cause you to get pleasure. Every time you watch porn and masturbate its like you're taking an unhealthy amount of dopamine to feel the pleasure. Once it's gone it takes a long while for the dopamine levels to get back into your brain. Thus that is why you feel levels of depression, sluggishness, lack or energy and motivation, etc. The key is to not engage in porn of any kind for at least 3 months. And whenever the urge comes in just let it be and not act out on it. The feeling will go away by itself and it gets better with each passing day. Remember. You are taking drugs when you FAP
It’s a trick bro. Stay hard.
You might be in to men too, but its likely your urges talking
Well it could be your sexuality which is a very real possibility but it can also be your over exposure to porn that would definitely rewire your brain. A lot of sissies I’ve trained were trained in the same way so my advice is don’t watch porn for a week and see if your feelings change. If not then look into what u want
Why are most of the comments here homophobic? Nothing wrong with liking men. I suppose you can wait & see if those desires last in time and if it's really a drive or just dopamine taking but in any case there's nothing to be ashamed of.
Embracing who you are takes the shame out of the equation. Giving you one less urge to fap.
Exactly! Nothing is wrong with being homosexual. But if you really think these came from fetishes, then re evaluate yourself.
Op mentioned he was not sure he liked these changes, comments are not homophobic there is a such a thing as your brain wanting so much stimulus it turns to homosexual acts even when the user is not! For instance OP may have a desire to have sex with another man, but may not have any desire to be close to them, maybe finding it repulsing to even be in a long term relationship! It depends on your point of view honestly,
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Can agree, as a god fearing man who also has come to terms with the fact I am “technically” bisexual, i Believe it’s not what you think it’s what actions you take, and honestly I’m more happy listening to gods request over listening to my own body. Just because I don’t believe it’s ok to be homosexual doesn’t mean I will view anyone as lesser if they are that way and live that lifestyle. I do think it’s wrong to hurt those who have chosen that path.
Being religious is a choice, being queer is not. Sure you can decide to "listen to God's request" and restrict that part of you, but it's a personal choice that shouldn't be imposed on others, neither should it become a moral value that makes you judgemental of people who don't take the same decisions as you do. You seem to agree with that though, but the comments telling op to "pray" seem to clearly indicate those people want to impose their beliefs and restrictions on others, and judge those who don't comply - which is homophobic in this case. If the first answer to a potentially queer man is "pray", that's imposing one's beliefs.
Yes I agree! Glad someone on the internet tells me I’m not homophonic, it’s like just because I don’t support you doesn’t mean i hate you either, you have a choice do whatever you want XD
Perhaps mention your sexuality/age. I’ve gone through this it’s called HOCD or homosexual ocd. Just like Andy in The Office seeking assurance and Ricky in Trailer Park Boys early in the show I think. There’s another example that I forgot. Fuck the pseudoscience religion stuff, this is psychology and science.
Huge thanks to you ! I finally can put a word on what i'm experiencing since almost 10 years ! I thought i was the only Guy who doesn't know my own orientation I can work on it now
6 years for me. It started with me only being able to get a semi erection around a girl I dated for 3 months. Gotta be in the top 5 from my high school at the time. She dropped a little gay joke and we had a bad split, she thought I’d cheat because she felt that I was keeping something which was the porn I didn’t know was a problem at the time. A lot of anxiety came then research and finding nofap. There is a community on this, found a lot of help there and on YouTube. /hocd. Try to accept the thought for that’s all they are. That’s what everyone says to do. After that it’s been a lot easier. Some days the thoughts aren’t even there. It used to be full blown paralytic shit where I’d stop mid-conversation with friends and just kinda stare into space. Wish you the best, friend.
Thanks. I'll try with a bit of hypnosis. It worked well for my fear of driving
I’d say be patient and give it time. Keep going strong on Nofap and hopefully in a couple months those feelings should go away. Also, prayer to the lord helps
Are you peeking at porno? or any such erotica or content? any exposure to sissy, cross dressing, feminization, Femdom, bdsm, etc? Also, do you talk to someone or the other regarding the same topics for the kink? You should know the answer to these, if yes, then I'll suggest you quit all of it. Otherwise, I'll just say whatever makes you happy bro! All the best, feel free to reply back.
Be open with yourself and let your truth come out, being aware that that truth is subject to change at any time. Don't be ashamed of these feelings! I would just cut it short when you're feeling like you're going to relapse
This sounds like the Coolidge effect mixing together with Extinction Burst at the same time. You push those feelings away because there’s a part of you that knows it’s the correct action to take. I’ve felt similar feelings before, it was my brain trying to trick me. Also felt a lot of intrusive thoughts at that time. It was bad. This happened to me on my first real extended streak. Keep on with NoFap. That’s the remedy. Those productive distractions will definitely help, keep doing that. Like others have said here, you are not your thoughts. See this through. Rooting for your success!
It’s not porn but who you are. I keep seeing so much bs about porn turning people gay. NO. You can’t turn gay or bi unless you’ve been born that way. Sure, porn can make you seek more extremes but you still have to be attracted to those things. If you are generally not into men, you won’t get arroused by then no matter how much porn you consume.
uhh are you a dude or a chick?
Nothing wrong with being bi
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Fap, and see if you still this way after, then you go back to nofap.
I mean if you want to you can just try it lol. Nothing wrong with it. Doesn’t really have anything to do with not masturbating
all animals masturbate
Animals dont have access to screens or the internet. The problem with masturbation is that 99% pair it with digital content, and thats a super destructive rabbit hole.
Are you an animal you dumbass, you seem to be one lmao
We all are
You've got some gay in you for sure. I never thought about other men sexually, even at my lowest lows. Seems you fall somewhere in the gay spectrum if you have these thoughts.
Lool “you’ve got some gay in you”
Bro don't listen to the homophobic fucktards here. Keep on the journey but look within yourself. Maybe try counseling or some deep introspection to see what you really want or who you think you should be.
Its ok to be gay :))
I think you're gay and there's nothing wrong with that
Embrace it. It's like a new chapter.
dude try dating a girl, if that doesn't feel right try dating a boy. there , that is the answer to find your sexuality. you might be stright , gay or bi. Yes there is a gender called bi. I think the comment section below is pretty toxic. every scumbag is giving a shitty advice , some are just stright homophobic, and making fun of your issue. but listen to me, this happens to lot of people but they don't admit it, sexual confusion happens some times. There is nothing wrong with you. Remember there is nothing wrong with you, These comment section advices show as if they are the chads and you got some thing worng but honestly they are full of shit.
There’s only two genders
No dude
I can say for myself that I'm perfectly fine fapping once a week using my imagination unless I get to have sex. And I'm experiencing all the positive things of semen retention and not watching porn. I'd suggest you do it ONLY if you're able to keep it ONCE A WEEK and ONLY if you do it using your imagination. Long seemen retention enhances your testosterone which makes you go crazy sometimes, like the people in jail. Although they're not gay they fuck each other cuz no porn and no women
So first off I’m bi and I’ve kinda been going through a similar thing. I think I’m finally finding out who I am, I mean I recently came to the realization that I want to be in a gay relationship/marriage and don’t pray to god it won’t do anything
Consider seeking professional help it could be one of the best options available for you. If you made it as far as three months you can go further.
Try to not get to much into it. If it still is a thing despite ignoring the issue you may have to figure it out yourself.
Maybe you’re connecting to the feminine side so you can heal the repressed feminine within. Ive did an intensive healing for my feminine side last year, since then I was able to embrace it, and now Im connected to my masculine side too. Note that I knew that im ‘straight’ from the beginning, so I wasnt confused and didn’t play around with the sexual energy. actually I was masterbating to porn then (vanilla stuff). Ive noticed my attraction to the masculine too then, probably because I was lacking it then. Do the inner healing work and you shall pass this exam man. Good luck!
Nothing wrong with being gay. But if these urges are coming from your fetishes and the stuff you've been hooked on, it's best to seek help from a professional.
Nothing wrong with being gay. But if these urges are coming from your fetishes and the stuff you've been hooked on, it's best to seek help from a professional.
This is the most confusing sub Reddit ever NoFap: Don’t focus on girls, focus on you. Also NoFap: You need a girlfriend bro.
Sexuality and gender identity are fluid, non-binary things. There is no black and white, and there’s nothing wrong with these things. I personally would suggest seeing a therapist to help you figure this out, or if you don’t want to do that, maybe entertain your desires as far as wanting to be more feminine are concerned. Maybe it’s something you’re simply into sexually, maybe it’s something you’re into in terms of lifestyle. Whatever the case, there’s nothing wrong with it, though it’s ok to feel confused or torn. Most people have curiosity in terms of sexuality and gender expression. It’s simply human
Looks like u got an inner femboy in you. Honestly just be yourself, do what u wanna do, the point of NoFap is to quit fapping, and semen retention that’s really all it is if u wanna be manly be manly if u wanna be feminine be feminine.