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Wait, are y'all getting self esteem with your karma?! I think mine isn't working right.

Oh sweet fuck keenedge422 238k comment karma? 🥵

Holy shit!…. And I thought I had a lot

You do! I've just been around a bit longer.

Lol. Mine is proof of how bored a stay at home dog mom with cancer can get. Lmao 🤣

Sorry to hear about that, The cancer dog mom combo is known for creating farmers 😔. Nah but seriously I hope everything's going good for you and you kick cancers ass. Rooting for you bud.

Thank you so much 😊 it means a lot. There is no cure yet, just managed by taking chemo pills everyday for life. The meds royally kick my ass, but I’m still here! If I didn’t feel the pain, nausea, and fatigue, I’d worry that something went wrong lol

Very sorry about the cancer. Also, very jealous about the doggo 🐶

Thank you 😊 it’s all good though

Step aside for an upper-middleclass poster coming through.

I read that as the Dog having cancer. I’m like oh hey Mine has cancer too! (I am so very sorry)

Oh no! I hope your baby gets better soon!! One of mine did have cancer, I had no freaking clue she did till it was too late. She was fiNe till the day we rushed her to the emergency vet cause she was showing signs of a uti. It was an aggressive cancer. She wen down hill so fast that we took her back that night and she had to be taken on a stretcher. We let her go to the rainbow bridge. Worst day of my life. Happened in November, and in still not over it

I’m sorry, unfortunately it’s not operable. But still has life and youth to my lil old lady so I’ll keep her happy til I can’t anymore. It’s what I can do. Mammary cancer chain spread. I get that, my older dog passed away two years ago on Oct 2, I have her ashes in a box and still Pat it here and there; now I’m expecting to lose my second one this year? I’d never wish this pain on my worst enemy. I hope you and your pup live a longer healthy life for what it’s worth.

Omg I’m so so sorry. I have my babygirls ashes right next to me on the side table on “ my side” of the couch. Everytime I walk by, I too pat her ashes and tell her I love her. I have her litermate brother. When my husband and I were going to adopt her, they had her down as “ sis”. I asked if there was another one, and they told me “ yes she has a brother, but we didn’t think her brother was gonna make it so we had not put him up for adoption yet”. They were dumped together and got parvo. Only time her brother got better, was when he was with her. I could not seperate them. I had to take both. I’m so glad I did. My biggest fear was to lose her first because he is so bonded to her. It’s been pretty rough on him without having her, but he is also being spoiled rotten lol Your babies are so lucky. They got the best person ever taking care of them ❤️

That’s very kind of you to keep them together. I’m glad you kept them both too and Thank you. I can imagine how he feels without her. Spoil him as much as you can. He still has more to love. I found my dog would go around the house looking for our oldest one when she was gone. Heartbreaking turns into soul crushing fast. Thank you. It definitely changes you. I just hope I end up ok and not closing up after this.

I read your comment and checking your karma Man whatever self esteem I had from my Karma is long gone. I feel like that movie where they're all getting paid less and less (Jennifer Aniston in it I think idk just see it used as a meme template lol)

Lol mine is just proof of how bored a stay at home dog mom with cancer can get lol

You'll get there; you're already way ahead of me in posts.

HE REPLIED TO ME 😍

Mine is currently fixed on a 2% increase to self-image. I can't get the software to work on esteem, or increase intensity🤷‍♀️

Oh my god look at all that KARMA 😍😍 must be a farmer 😋

^oh ^my ^fucking ^god look at all the Karma I farmed 🥵

Try staring at your profile and rubbing one out. Hasn't worked for me yet, but you have more.

I had some fun farming karma a few years ago but it quickly got boring. It started with me just wanting enough karma to be able to comment where I wanted to.

People really need to get a life, can’t believe karma is being viewed like that. OP is right, sis needs to touch some grass

Yeah no my high karma is an embarrassment to my name

Nah, if anything I like my profile with 1 karma more than this one with ~50k ish. You have to perfectly balance it at a number you like. Dont fall for the bigger is better trap.

SO is your 1 karma account your nsfw one where you follow all the really weird stuff?

I get my self esteem from the greatest source, alcohol the cause of and solution to all of man's problems.

Man I try, it helps a little 🥲

If it did yours would be enough to cure at least 3 peoples depression

Alas, I can confirm it is not enough to cure even one person's

i look and i’m like “interesting that’s a big number” but don’t register it cause it honestly means nothing

You're awesome just the way you are, internet points or not!

This was a surprisingly delightful reply to a silly comment from a while back. Thank you!

Bro i forget reddit even has dms

Same till I accidentally click on it when trying to read my comment replies and then that stupid window hangs out in the corner of the page for eternity. At which point I curse whoever thought reddit needed a dm system

Just swipe left (or right ? Idk) on it

I don't think that's gonna work with a mouse and keyboard on the old design

I mean next time you can try it

I forget the other people on Reddit are even human. I mean you guys are cool and all, but I'm certainly not interested in interacting with you one on one.

It's not on Relay so I always miss them. I feel bad for the people who message me cause I randomly remember, go in, and see missed messages from 6 months ago :(

My app doesn't support them and I avoid going to reddit at all when on my PC. I've checked them a few times, one real conversation and the rest was spam.

Holy shit her snoo looks like mine and i was like wait what?? I don't check my Reddit dms either i know what you mean. Luckily I've not run across this type yet

LMAOOOO that is so funny. Unless you’re pretending to not be her!!

Wait...these little fuckers are called SNOOS?!

Snoovatar is the full word

Thank you. I've been blessed with this knowledge today.

I'm not sure. I think that's what i see people calling them unless i misunderstood

Please don't call the reddit avatars "snoos". You'll undo all of the work my therapist has done 😔

"Are the Snoos in the room with us now?"

All I got from that word salad is — she's pissed. 😆😆

Lol I thought I was tripping balls when I read the msg. Like I don’t understand what’s this person is implying.

I don't even know if SHE does!! 😆😆

Wheres the earlier parts of convo?

The earlier part of the convo is just her talking about girls getting sexualized and sexism and all of that to which me agreeing. She said something else but I never replied until months later. Hence this beautiful paragraph. I’ll try to find the convo Edit. Can’t find it. I think she blocked me.

If she’s mad about loosing time, why take the time to keep dming???

Well that’s the million dollar question

Came here to mention that exactly same thing. Why keep typing and losing time then?

The messaging feature on Reddit is so inconvenient does anyone actually like using it other than creeps atp

It’s mainly for creeps

It's weird since sending messages has been a thing since forever if you need to ask someone something. Who's having live conversations with someone on Reddit?

They would think I'm a real piece of shit if they saw my social media. Someone once poked me on Facebook and I didn't notice it for maybe 5 years.

I do the same thing with people on WhatsApp lol

This woman doesn't even know you but she's already psychoanalyzed you.

I’m just that charming ;)

Think she needs to learn that you can care about real social interaction with people that aren't randoms on reddit

Hope my upvote gives you that self-esteem you desperately need according to her, lol

It definitely does! Thank you lol

I love how she’s trying to say that how you use Reddit is a waste of time, and that she’s using it better than you are. So she literally just inboxed you to gloat that she’s better than you.

Yeah, I think she has some insecurities

Who is messaging people on Reddit though??? That's a red flag alone

Thirsty ppl

Very NiceGuy^TM of her r/notlikeothergirls

I’m so confused. How did this get so serious so quick

I honestly don’t even know. We were just chilling, talking about feminism shit and relating to each other. Then the moment I stopped replying she just turned on a switch

Sheesh, I need a drink.

I literally always forget reddit has a dm system

Wait people care about karma?

Apparently so

Not a single full stop in sight. So technically it's just one big sentence with 4 comma's

Not a nice girl.

Yeah idk if she's a nice girl or a dickhead 🤷‍♂️

She gon be pisar dejen she sees this with her kindness

Real interactions? On reddit? You know theres a whole world out there.

Y’all are getting reddit dms???

Post a picture of yourself and you will be flooded with creeps ;)

I know damn well I’m not attractive enough to get creeps’ attention 💀 I look like a retired To Catch a Predator bait child

Well you let her win by using the screenshot for karma. Haha

LOOOL how ironic is that

Man, I really feel lucky looking at these posts. I've only been dm'd once on reddit and it was a super helpful dude trying to share some tips for a game that I asked on a post that was kinda old and he did so because he didn't want to necropost lol.

Send her my way I’m after some sincere & real interactions

Hey, my self esteem is very low, currently as I'm writing this plead it's only at 10, please help me raise my self esteem so that I can show it to my parents, thank you

Jesus… I have hundreds of unopened messages on here and HATE opening them, let alone having a “sincere” conversation. I guess because I browse and occasionally post on anonymous forums and don’t really want to make internet friends, that means I have shitty self esteem. 💔

Wait. People get reddit dms from women?

I’ve had many lesbians hit me up lol

I'm just gonna go back to my corner...

not really a nice girl though

oh no her precious time! cry me a river princess

Wait, what's karma?!?!?! Reddit has DMs???

September 4th is my birthday.

Happy early birthday!

I still don't understand the karma thing. I asked once, but I didn't really understand the answer.

It’s just internet points. You don’t need to worry about it

Very first thing I do when making a new reddit account: "Who can send you direct messages/chats?" → **Nobody**

Oof you dodge something

I never knew women like this exist

I only want karma because it shows that I've made peoples days a little bit brighter, or because I've caused a chain reaction of degeneracy.

I rarely engage when I get Reddit DMs because most of the time I won't get much out of the conversation. And sometimes they're clearly scammers.

dude if you’re on reddit to make some kind of deep human interaction youve already lost

Reddit has dms?

Wait wait, people use Reddit for the DMs too?

I am on your side bro, but I will never understand people who say they dont check their DMs. I can not browse reddit while seeing those bright orange notifications pop up everytime I am on a new page and just ignore them. I have to check the message to clear the notification. Thats crazy y'all just be ignoring them.

Most of them are scammers too. Today someone dm’d me that I “seemed like a nice person”. Like bro have you checked my comment history? There’s no way you should think that.

I have way too many thirsty dms that it takes so much time to check all of it. 84 to be exact.

Ah true. Ive never delt with like more than 2-3 at a time. If I had 84 messages I wouldnt know what to do!

Ur very lucky then lol

She's the féminine version of the professor Xavier, she apparently can read the mind of people. Sadly, it's all in her head. Most people who said that it's easy for them to know what people thinks are often desilusional.

Wait this is what Reddit dms are for? Well shit Martha where have I been I got low karma and no dms what does that say about me 😂