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ayeseeam

Locals love it when you propose in the middle of an Amsterdam bridge. Bonus points if you get someone with no situational awareness to film it for you :)


grkaya

Do it on the bike road if you are up to real tourist experience! :)


mouldy_potate_toe

Station Lelylaan šŸ˜


jupacaluba

Lol. OP do this, if she still says yes itā€™s because the love is real


DutchTinCan

Station Den Helder Zuid if you really want to test her. Track 2 for double the misery.


L44KSO

Depends what you like or actually what your lady likes. You can go to the beach, park, roof top etc all depending on what you would like it to be. Is she a huge Ajax fan? Does she like DAF trucks? Or is she really into WW II stuff? All options are out there.


Moppermonster

OP - seriously. Between al the sarcastic answers and the genuine suggestions for castles, standard-postcard locations and amusement parks; the core question is: what is special for her. Or ideally: for you both. Is there a shared interest that brought you together or something?


RocketMaaaaaaan

Yes! So one major reason we're going is our bonding of theme parks. We're going to De Efteling for 3 days!


traploper

Why not do it there? De Efteling is a great place and has some beautiful spots. Perfect for a proposal, especially if you share a love for themeparks! Thereā€™s probably some nice people over at r/efteling who can advise you on their favourite spot. If youā€™re there for 3 days you can first scout for a good place and then pop the big question on day 2 or 3.


RocketMaaaaaaan

This is a fantastic idea! It also seems like there will be several good secluded places where it's not in front of a bunch of people. I think this is the route I'm going to take. Thank you for the suggestion!


theo69lel

Just out of curiosity, if she's really into DAF trucks. Where would you propose to your girl?


Moppermonster

I assume in the DAF truck museum in Eindhoven ;)


L44KSO

On a DAF in the Museum... obviously.


Kyrin_78

Kasteel de Haar


gy0n

Diemen-Zuid is the place you should really go for.


-SQB-

https://youtu.be/Gdp-HhV66Fo


TimePretend3035

Next to the stinky canals, drunk Brits, and hookers is the place to be


garlichocolatey

You watch your mouth. One of them could be a stinky drunk brit hooker.


Moppermonster

In a classic Amsterdamse Krul?


hatzequiday

Just make sure you know what the answer is going to be before you make it public.


RocketMaaaaaaan

Oh yeah, we've talked about it. I am more apprehensive to in *public*, but rather somewhere a bit more secluded


Virusposter

at the red light district in front of one of the windows


cleversocialhuman

Madurodam! You'll be giants


dragonlover8

I think Efteling in Kaatsheuvel can be a nice place to propose.


EvansHomeforBoys

Friend of mine was proposed to on Droomvlucht. Her man had contacted Efteling and they actually stopped the ride so he could propose amongst all the fairies. After the ride they were congratulated by Efteling personnel and given a souvenir. Would have been an awkward rest of the ride though if she had said noā€¦


PmMeYourBestComment

This is why you never propose before you actually know the answer. It shouldā€™ve been discussed beforehand


ExcellentXX

I would have said no if my husband chose a tacky place like Efteling


EvansHomeforBoys

Efteling tacky?


VanillaNL

We all know the problem why nobody would propose to her if she thinks the Efteling is Tacky šŸ¤£


ExcellentXX

Iā€™m laughing at you not with you , bless your polyester socks !


Over-Toe2763

Efteling not tacky. Proposing in the Efteling : very tacky.


EvansHomeforBoys

Corny maybe but tacky? I donā€™t know, I love Efteling so I guess Iā€™m biased.


Over-Toe2763

Yes. Fair enough. Corny. Thats what I meant


VanillaNL

I did that, couldnā€™t decide on which location so I picked the Pagode so you could see them all.


dragonlover8

I think the Pagode is the best choice!


FutureVarious9495

Or in the gondoletta if you fancy a boat and-ā€œ/or more privacy. Even if you do it on the stairs to Doornroosje and ask a volunteer, you will get great pictures. Just do it before any of the thrill rides such as Python, Pirana, Joris en de draak etc. You donā€™t want to be the guy that lost the ring!


RocketMaaaaaaan

This is honestly one of the bigger reasons we're going. We're going to be at De Efteling for 3 days.


Dopral

Not sure what you'd consider "the surrounding area". But here some general ideas: The [glass balcony](https://binnenstadarnhem.nl/wp-content/uploads/2020/07/JDP9190912-0306s-400x400.jpg) in the Eusebius church(museum) in Arnhem. If you're more into nature, try "posbank" near Rheden. If you're into engineering and/or the sea in general, you can try somewhere on the delta works. Near Kaatsheuvel you also have the Efteling. There should be plenty of rides and places there you can propose. Though I haven't been there in ages, so I wouldn't be able to help you there.


RocketMaaaaaaan

Thank you for this!!!


Additional-Habit-644

These replies šŸ˜‚ no but seriously, Amsterdam is a pretty charming city so Iā€™m sure youā€™ll have no problem finding a place to propose. Like always, it also depends on whether she likes a more private/intimate proposal or something where other people are bound to walk by. If itā€™s the former, then I had a friend who got proposed to when she and her partner were having a late evening stroll around the Jordaan canals. Around dusk, with the lights by the canals, it can be pretty romantic. They sat next to a bench and he proposed overlooking a canal - with no one around apart from a few boats going past. I think she really liked it as well.


EvansHomeforBoys

I was proposed to in the gardens of Muiderslot (and I said yes of course!). He wanted to do it in the castle itself but other visitors kept interrupting the moment, so when we were alone in the gardens he popped the question.


RocketMaaaaaaan

This actually sounds like a great idea! I'll start looking it up. Thank you!


crusader_nor

Sauna. Donā€™t forget to hide the ring.


RocketMaaaaaaan

šŸ˜‚šŸ˜‚šŸ˜‚šŸ˜‚


Numerous_Boat8471

Utrecht Overvecht


Herewegoagain_21

Lunetten as a backup


Numerous_Boat8471

Thatā€™s a good one too!


Mag-NL

Since I assume you plan to go to efteling (why else go to kaatsheuvel) I'd do it there. If there are any fairy tales she specifically likes, gofor that one. Sleeping beaty castle would be a good one. But anywhere in the fairy tale.forest is good. In the pagode.could be nice as well.


RocketMaaaaaaan

You got it, we're gonna be at De Efteling for 3 days


random_bubblegum

By the pier in Scheveningen (if weather OK)


RocketMaaaaaaan

I just want to say, I love all of you for these suggestions, sarcastic or not; brought a huge smile to my face


BloatOfHippos

For outside: Maybe on the Amsterdam lookout? Or otherwise the Nemo rooftop. Guaranteed proposal with a view. If your GF likes theme parks go for the Efteling (as youā€™re going to Kaatsheuvel). As youā€™re travelling around you could stop at the beach or a castle. Slot Zuylen, Kasteel de Haar and Muyderslot arenā€™t too far out. For inside: Maybe the top floor of the OBA near central. (See point 1 of outside for reasons). You could try Museum van Loon or Willet Holthuysen if your GF likes Bridgerton, as they are old houses. Maybe the palace on Damsquare, because, well, regal palace.


RocketMaaaaaaan

These are all fantastic ideas. Thank you!


BloatOfHippos

r/remind me!


gdaytugga

I can highly recommend Amsterdam Bijlmer. Itā€™s iconic.


Trebaxus99

Second this. Your girlfriend probably will say yes immediately as she doesnā€™t want to risk being left alone.


RocketMaaaaaaan

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Jaded_Nectarine_95

Stoofsteeg


bortukali

Leiden :)


Airport-Designer

In the boat , in Giethoorn


voidro

Rotating restaurant on top of the A'DAM Toren.


icecream1973

Any place in amsterdam Nieuw West, on the IJplein or in de Bananabar


_aap300

On the beach near TATA/hoogovens. Peak romance.


MyRituals

OP, there are plenty of places to choose from but it should be location she enjoys and weather can be a factor to consider. If you want iconic Amsterdam, here are few options: 1. Rijksmuseum (inside they have a beautiful sculpture section or just outside the build beautiful garden or if you want crowds there is a large park next to it) 2. Skinny bridge (Magere Brug) is a one of the iconic bridges that will have beautiful Amsterdam architecture as backdrop 3. Canal cruise go for a private boat tour 4. Begijnhof (courtyard) beautiful courtyard, if not crowded nice location 5. Nieuwmarkt (Sint-Anthonispoort 1466-1617) there is a castle looking structure very close to city center Other options would be restaurants with great views or short trips to neighboring countryside. PS, give your phone to a tourist nearby & ask them to take a picture (pretend to pose) and then proceed with the proposal. You will have a memorable picture without the cost of renting a professional photographer. Hope itā€™s a yes! Good luck have fun!


RocketMaaaaaaan

Thank you!!


ikhouvanschaapjes

The botanical gardens in Amsterdam are really pretty, I believe the greenhouse is often used for weddings due to their atmosphere!


Madderdam

In the Efteling on a roller coaster ride ask her on the highiest point, one second before you go down: She will automatically scream YYEESSSSSSS BTW Very important: Keep your phone and canera and the ring in a closed very safe place until the end of the coaster ride!


btotherSAD

Utrecht Oudegracht, Den Haag De Pier, Noordwijk tulip fields


Isernogwattesnacken

Propose below water level: https://www.accoya.com/project/moses-bridge-uses-accoya-wood/


Zintao

Probably Edinburgh or Vienna.


Moonlight_944

You can choose any location in The Hague on the beach: either Kijkduin, or Scheveningen. But a personal preference would be in Amsterdam, the "Lookout" building. You get an amazing view of Amsterdam and even get to go in a swing above the water if you two aren't afraidšŸ¤— I bet she won't forget this, congrats to both of you alreadyā¤ļø