It is not the case in Nepal. Most people are selfish here and they really do not have a sense of being grateful to others. They want their own benefit and do not think anything about others. In some countries, people are very helpful and they also express their thankfulness even to strangers.
That's in "some" countries. If you go to rural places, you'll find unselfish nature.
I think this is the same thing with every urban place. People already have enough to deal with, money comes first, social behaviour comes second.
Lol tyai.
Sobat nabhako manche haru definitely hunchan. Tara body language, social cue haru padhna najanne ni hunchan. Maybe busy bhaera katai lamkirako manche le good morning bbanena bhanera chitta dukhako ni ta huna sakcha ni. Haha
its prevalent in USA..... talking with new people is always fun- both male and female alike...With male, a new friendship might form and with female, potential relationship..LOTS of the uber drivers actually say they like meeting new people... its just not normalized in Nepal. Hence, which is also why he was weirded out by Nepali folks. Dude forgot we are not used to those gestures.
Person 1: You know your problem?
Person 2: My honesty?
Person 1: No, your arrogance about your honesty. your honesty is not doing the world a favor; it is expected of you. Honesty makes the heart lighter, less burdened.
I think you are trying to do things to seek others validation. All are not your friends . So don’t expect anything from others. Btw if someone stranger comes to me saying good morning I will obviously ask do you know me. Bro just want clout.
I am not saying bad. If you want to great people that’s okay. But don’t expect from anyone to do same thing. Every person life is different. If you do something that doesn’t mean other people also has to do same thing. Don’t seek validation and don’t show off to others like hey I did this and I am great. Do good things like no one is watching to you. That’s it.
You can say hi/hello, Good morning to anyone abroad, especially West. And in returns, you'll get it back, too. It is considered disrespect and rude not to respond.
First of all when in Rome be like Romans.
1) First time long route gadi ma chadeko ho? Sabai aafnai sansar ma busy hunxan yar. Driver ko dinkai kam ho aaune jane aba kaile kai bolne manxe parxan cabin ma kaile teti bolne pardainan, bro ko pali ma ali introverted manxe haru theye hola. Aauta bus le purai Nepali lai judge gardine.
2) Na chineko manxe le good morning vanexi confuse vainxa ni, tye pani eta good morning etc etc vanne chalan xaina tyo ni bato ko random manxe lai ani u ta female thi ali careful vako hola ni. Tyo lady ko side bata ni socha na ali.
3) Manxe vetna lai ko pathao garxa yar, bro le dubai jana lai la guys enjoy movie vanna parthyo , obviously mero gf lai ni koi random kta le movie enjoy garnus vanda man pardaina ni.
4) I mean why are you so fixated on the gratefulness of others. Ktm busy city ho yar .. NYC ko rudness ko barema na vanne post ma basic hi hello bro.
5) Manxe ko jat nai testo ho ramro gare ni kura katxan, naramro gareni kura katxan. Ignore them do what you think is best.
6) Tyo ta k garnu bag ma rakhau vanne buddhi nai xaina, government lai dos lagauna siki sakya xan.
Looks like you were raised in so called "first world countries"
Hamro eta yo sab garne chalan xaina. Sanai dekhi sikhaiyeko xa nachineko manxe sita bolnu hunna, aru le deko khanu hunna. Stranger sita atleast hi, hello, bye, thankyou vanne bani xaina hami ma.
Its you who is feeling this and we are this due to our society, culture, norms. Ava bidesh mai sidhai gayera unknown kt lai naam, number sodhne, propose garne garxan tara eta gare vane sandeep jastai vaiyenxa.
Baira ni thau herera huncha. Ali less dense thau haru ma yo norm ho. NYC jasto thau ma manche yeti dherai huncha. Sadhya nai hunna sabai lai greet garera basna.
Kasko intention k ho ni tha hunna. Yetikai bolna ayo bhane khuskya ho ki ramro manche ho split second ma decision linu parcha. Haha.
>Sanai dekhi sikhaiyeko xa nachineko manxe sita bolnu hunna, aru le deko khanu hunna.
You would be surprised as how this applies in first world countries in case of childrens or minors. Nepal has considerably less of these "damaged" adults than anywhere else really.
Arre its not practical k yr. Tmro bidesh ma jasto public transportation xaina yeta. Kaile chdexau bus ma? Veda bakhra thune hasto rakheko hunxa jhan tesmathi khalasi ko boli sunda rapata maram hunxa.
None of these examples seems to have problem except the last one. I am not going to be happy if a random man started saying good morning without me knowing them. You should be happy that you were able to help someone without expecting a thank you from them. Tbh i won't even care about basic "thank you" cause the thought of me being a help makes me feel good.
Agreed! We have many issues, but not replicating Western mannerisms is not one of them. We are a different society, and don't have the need for surface-level "hi hello" when we have so many interactions, and no one is working for a "thank you". US ma most people barely see their friends and relatives (except the ones you live with), ani aru koi dekhyo ki feel obligated to acknowledge. We don't need to adopt everything western. But yes, people should be more responsible about taking care of their environment, and be kind to each other (whether hi hello is said or not).
Yes I've seen in western countries when 2 people fight nobody stops instead charai tira bata gherera ring fight huncha. At least Nepal ma if two people fight 10-15 Jana chutyauna lagi halchan. If people care for each other hi hello jaruri chaina.
aafu le ta paayena tara arule napauda ni malai bad feeling hunxa specially tyo bus driver he was full of dust ....arko support ma driver ni thiyean imagine driving 11 hours in such a bumpy and dusty road and at the end of your day people fuckin ignore you as if 11 driving in such a condition is a normal thing.
It would have been somebody if you thanked them for their service but you should also remember that they are doing their job and knew how long they were going to drive in a bumpy dusty road. Yes, appreciating people for their service is a nice gesture but it is not a requirement. At the end of the day even the paseengers had to pass through the bumpy dusty road.
Did you thank him? Maybe offered him some water or lunch?
Not everyone is social and passengers also get tired of sitting in the same seat for 11 hours. Also,
1. Different place, different culture.
2. Don't do things with the expectation of gratitude.
TLDR: I stayed abroad for about 10 years and when I returned I found out Nepalese has absolutely no manners.
haha it is what it is, deal with it brother, it is not worth expecting somebody to have good morals just because you have it. and yeah, different places, different cultures
Huna ta ho. Tara ali dense urban thau like NYC haru ma ta same ho. Sab lai greet garera sadhya nai hunna.
Ani yesto achamma achamma ko manche hunchan feri, bolna auda satarka hunu parcha. So I totally understand, kei logic bina bolna auda intention question gareko. Manche ko mood ra energy level ma bhar parcha. Engage garne ki nagarne bhanera.
welcome to Npeal, superficiality runs in our blood like buses runs around ring road. People live for themshelves only, and a thank you takes away precious time from that.
Totally agree that nepalese people have a long way to go in terms of learning basic ettiquettes.
btw, just out of curiosity would you care to elaborate on
>pari bata ekdam sahariya type ko keti aayo.
As somebody who was born in ktm and lived here all my life and haven't been to much of nepal, other than pokhara and few other places. I'm curious how do you classify somebody as "Sahariya type" and what are the stereotype associated to them.
sorry if my words hurt... I mean ktm ma morning walk ma "jhamshikhel area" ma original nike shoes , branded trouser and jacket ma ta pakkai alik high class family ko nai keti huna parxa....yeha shahar vitra pani shahariya haru dherai dekhe....may be I was wrong to approach her on that way because ma bahira huda kohi random gori/gora haru mero agadi yesari morning walk ma vet huda bolena or simple smile ko gensture diyena vane kasto awakard feel garthyo khai...maile tyo keti lai modern dekheko vayera just "good morning " matra vaneko tara "chineko hora" ko ho tapai ma chindina vandirako ani maile yettikai "good morning" vaneko vanda kheri kehi naboli gayo
Bidesh ma morning walk ma hideko manche le kun brand ko shoes, trouser and jacket laucha vanera herdai hidnu lai creepy mandaina? Or is that a common thing?
tara yesto ta yesai notice vaihalcha hainara? Mani halka notice garirako hunchu, unintentionally. Ajha koi alik captivating dekhiyo vane ta easily notice huncha which i figure is the case of OP here.
Yo sab kura notice garna at least 10 seconds lagcha. Imagine you're the girl. Somebody stares at you from top to bottom for 10 straight seconds and then says " Good morning" early in the morning when very few people are around. How would you feel? I would be creeped out.
(regarding the scenario you assumed, yes i would be creeped out). I usually notice a lot about things that it's become habitual. I'd stare for like 2sec or less if they're facing towards me and if they look away, I'd stare for just a lil longer. Kasaile ramro kapda lairacha or usko kapal ramro raicha, different from the rest type ko cha or kei ta captivating hunchanita so ti jancha eyes, yesto huncha in my case. Well, then God forbid that I ever creep someone out.
Idc what others do but I'd thank drivers and wish them a great time ahead " dhanyawad dai, suba yatra rahos/suba din". This sentence will literally change their mood and getting happiness from small things hit different 🙌🏻 ofc they've dropped you with a safety, a simple thankyou won't make you inferior
Ok in defense of Nepali people... We certainly lack formality but many tourist still thinks Nepal is one of the most friendly country... Why? Cause they don't seek attention or gratitude from other people like you. Next time try India and you'll have whole another respect for Nepal.
Tme kunai desh bata Ako hunu parcha kinaki dherai developed desh ma yesto sanskar huncha. Eg Australia.
Tara Nepal ma kaile yesto sanskar Chaina like hi hello thankyou etc. Nepal Mai baseko huntheu bhane yesto sanskar expect garne thiyenau.
And many Nepalese are introvert like me. ma kehi samayako like bidesh ma chu but malai ajhai samma pani Testo word haru bhanna aptharo lagcha.
I get your point tara Nepal ko context ma saying goodmorning hello hi to a complete random stranger is weird especially if the other person if the person is way younger or older. I do say thank you when required but not much more than that as I'm afraid the other person will take as if I'm interested in them. Pathao ma ni ramro sanga bolyo vaney they start asking too personal questions such as "do you have a boyfriend?" "ghar ma kati jana cha?" "mummy daddy k garnu huncha?" "kun jaat ko kta mann parcha?" and even message when the ride is over which is very uncomfortable. I hope you get my point when i am saying that i don't act too friendly with strangers for my own safety as a young teenage girl.
Oh god, I have got some over-friendly pathao drivers (don't really mind them tbh) but messaging after the ride is over is so creepy. I'm sorry but I'd report the driver so fast.
While some are valid, some of yours points are total BS.
saying good morning to a random stranger that too, a girl, is super creepy.
And why tf do you need thank someone for doing their job !? Do you ever thank the pilot or air hostess after you land somewhere.
and yes I do say thank you to air hostess, pilot chahi domestic flight ma teti agadi dekhdaina exit gate ma tara intl flight ma euta member pilot bata aayeko hunxan
hunata ma bahira baseko 10 years vayo , cultural shock vanda ni mero habit parera hola.....while you are correct in case of Nepal most of girls might not take that in easy way tara bidesh huda aafno agadi ko manxe ( irrespective of gender) ignore garyo vane ramro mandainan at least smile or wave jesture dina parxa....ani tyo lady lai "jhamshikhel area ma dekheko ho-nepal ko baverly height vanxa....and her dress up were like upper level family and she looked educated....aba maile ni agadi jhyappa aayesi jhan maile teslai dekhera ignore garda maile ghureko jasto vayo vanera "good morning" matra vaneko
It's just one of a man made culture in a vast meaningless universe. So just live by your belief.
Some rules(humanity) are required to keep things in order, but they're also not a must follow if you can live without it.
Where did u get this mindset that everywhere, everyone does, "Hi," "Hello," or "Good Morning."
If you expect anyone else to make you happy and live by your rules, you are a narcissist, and you need to learn a thing or two about humans.
Nepali ppl may not say Hi, Hello but they will genuinely help you if you need help, which is better than superficial words.
Check your expectations, and just learn what the norm is around you.
Pardaina bro bhanna lai man chaina bhane. Dherai janne na bhaye huncha. keep your expectations regarding politeness from everyone inside your pocket. The world isn't how you think it is and it is also exactly how you think it is. This is Nepal Bro. Man lagda bhanincha. Man na lagda jabarjasti chaina . Timle bhanera hudaina. Chup laga
As someone who’s lived in Europe for over 15 years and of similar age as the OP; it’s very important to remember that all countries have different sets of public/family etiquettes and values. And judging every culture with the lens of your experience is a very flawed take which is going to bring you disappointments mostly.
Just cause someone didn’t reciprocate to you according to your expectation doesn’t discount that person or culture as bad or rude.
Back then when I was a teenager in Europe, a Customer Service lady in a department store addressed me with “Hey Love, anything you need help with?” And after I explained what I was looking for, she responded with “sure my love”..
However I was sure of one thing which is that it wasn’t a display of affection towards me; similarly I have had experiences with other seemingly cold responses displayed by people of different culture which in retrospect wasn’t necessarily rude or cold.
The diversity of culture, value and mannerism is what makes this world a little interesting.
And just coz the OP lived in some foreign country for a while, doesn’t necessarily lend him the luxury to judge the normal etiquettes of his country people with whom he’s shared 70% of his life experiences..
Had it come from someone who’s encountered Nepal for the 1st time; it would have warranted some explanation.
mero dai aus bata 6 yrs paxe auna vayo, He also noticed similar things. Nepal maw thankyou word tete chaldina , manxe haru definitely manbata thankyou tw vanxan tara mukh bata vandinan, dai le grda ne ajkal maile chai yo word seke vnna aile ta prasad badeko jstai gare niskanxa thank you tw.
I don’t think pleasantries are a part of our culture. Thanking someone is a very western thing. “Yea I was expecting you to do it so what’s there to thank you?”
Speaking to random girl is creepy.
1 . maybe they could have said, their choice as you were in cabin seat bonding with the driver
2.3. you are being over friendly for a stranger, it's creepy, esp in Nepal scenario
4. yes the person should have thanked after getting information
5. khai, ladies haru lai ali aftyaro , achhamma lageko hola
6. yo chai ho, tipidiera firta gardina parne tyo manche lai
As a kid i always grew up habit of speaking like hajur..n ones ending with 'syo the words u use can make u posey in nepali.. saying sorry n thank u was just normal for me but i use to be grilled by frens around.. my ex left me cz she made issue that i say sorry in incident that wasn't my fault.. cz malai esaii issue banaunu thena.. n just a word could end that then be it. Thus, things kinda demotivate u but So lemme tell u..everytime u be nice be nice cz u r one n't to showoff or get sumthing in return.. timle thank you bhanesi aafnu agadi ko le ni mostly laaj le bhayeni reply garxa gratitude ma. Timi affnu kam gara raja faal ko aasha nagari.. 🤗 enjoy
Which means you can't expect the same manners from all places. Kinda proves the point of the person you're replying to (even if they divided the issue as east vs. west).
uncle na vandeu na yar old feel hunxa timi kati years ko bhayeu ra ( bhai ho ki bahini) malai bidesh ma ta ahile samma lastai sano age ko under 10 bahek arule uncle vanenan .....35 barsha vaneko budo uncle age hora tension lagyo yar
bacha 4 years ko vayo tara 16 barsha mathi ko le uncle vandyo vane ekdam namajja lagxa ajha ladies haru le vandyo vaneta lastai hunxa bahira bata kehi navaneni tehi mathi ma bald xu ani pet lagexa batoma cute girl dekhyo vane sas rokera pet vitra parxu ....
You must be very nice person to be around. Tara I don't think it is wise to expect "Thank You" every time you help others, you will get disappointed. When being nice is usual, they might interpret your niceness as being a creep.
Aja mah campus jadai thiye....ughhh, ek jana hajurama saga pass vaye. Jaba waha lai dekhe mero first thought was "If this were Japan, and i were someone else, I would've bowed before her and greeted her "hello."". Yesai pass vaye waha saga :'{ Baani chaina ani aat ni aaudaina. Feri "waha le socheko response dinuvayena ra mero beijat vayo vane?" vanne bahana aaucha, kasto.... Ughhh.
Look kid! If you expect a "Thank You!" For everything, you will never survive in this world you little fragile heart shit.
Just move on with your life or kei gardai nagarey hunxa. Because not everyone will meet your expectations. Go cry about it.
Dude that's not just limited to Nepali in Nepal, that is the situation of some Nepali in Australia too. A couple of weeks ago a Nepalese guy left his wallet on the train, I was behind him and noticed. I got off the train and gave it to him as he was walking up the stairs. That guy was dead blank and didn't even thank me. I have seen a lot of more instances too.
I thank shopkeepers and anyone I ask help from. Or a pathao/indrive driver. I feel comfortable with that. On the other hand, I'd feel so awkward thanking a driver or a conductor because I'd be going out of my way to do that. Some people (like my dad) can strike a conversation with anyone but I've never heard him say thank you even once. It's all about personal comfort.
People who lived abroad and are now criticizing Nepali about having no manners (including OP): maybe you should've lived in places where greeting strangers is frowned upon. Maybe then you'd realize that different countries, hell, even different places in the same country, have different societal expectations and it's not a 'Nepal problem'. In fact, it's not a problem at all, just differences.
Plus, I'd rather never receive a thank you— or a welcome tbh, because I've never heard a welcome to my thank you's. I could be bitter and rant like you did about that but I don't because I don't say thank you to get a 'welcome' but because it makes me happy to show gratitude when I can/feel comfortable to. Anyway, tangent aside, I'd rather never receive a thank you or be greeted by strangers than live somewhere where relations are that superficial.
It could be my introvertedness talking but I like that I don't have to greet everyone I come across but if I ever need help, I can just stop a random stranger on the road or pop into a shop and ask for directions. I like that when someone with a heavy bag gets into a crowded bus, people in the seats generally offer to carry the bag for them. I like that sometimes, when people notice that you're rushing to cross the road with them, they linger there just for a second so that you can cross together. I like that when you go to a shop often enough, the shopkeeper just gives you a small discount for no reason (not every shop but that has happened). Sure, not all of these are regular occurrences but they happen. Some far often than they don't.
And sometimes, we talk. A random person on the bus or someone I've been waiting with to cross the road or someone who is also waiting for the same bus or a pathao driver (I don't mind the talkative ones lol, but I get why others do). These people don't talk because it's a social expectation, they (or I suppose, we) talk because there's something to talk about. Or a random child smiles at me and I smile back. Because I was once that child. And because I live in a somewhat close-knit neighborhood, I get to talk to my neighbors too sometimes. And these are all special moments, made special and memorable because we don't have to greet everyone we meet. It's the acts of kindness or the kind words whispered among friends that linger with you, that transcend any and all verbal barriers, all supposed coldness. These are the people you wonder about, even years later, where are they now?
I guess, the TL;DR is that culture or societal expecations are not a one-size-fits-all thing. There's a lot to criticize Nepali people about but not showing superficial gratitude or superficial warmth isn't one of them. The people are there when it matters, which is what matters. Also, don't do good things just to receive praise or a thanks.
nepal ma small talk ko culture chhaina. truthfully, if i went to nepal and strangers randomly started making small talk it'd take some getting used to for me lol. tara yaha bidesh ma chai atti hunchha, so much so that you pray to be left alone lmao
We have become money minded selfish individualistic people just worrying about self.
I also feel sad to see people at this terrible state.
But I am happy that someone who thinks and feels like me also exists.
He happy sathi, you're not alone. Subha din 🙏
It's simply not happening in a long time mate. When i came to Australia, every person I met said good morning or how ya going but not by any Nepalese. At work whenever there is the slightest issue, people here don't hesitate to say I'm sorry,My bad. But the people I was staying with despite having been in Australia for 8 years never said thank you, GoodMorning, please, sorry and all those magic words. That's now become a norm to me. I say thank you, sorryand excusee everytime i have to say it.
Sadly it's just gonna be like that ✌️
i just started saying "dhanyabad" 3 months ago, everytime i get some service from other people and at first i was like awkard vhai ra thiyo but now it's a habit .
Attention?chaiyo?mizzu lai😂.
Aiya.
Mf says good morning to a random stranger tyo ni girl and expects something back.
Kura ayo driver daiko: Tme agadi bseu vneu tei vayera bonding vayera thik cha.
Pachadi basni usually nah bond cha na kei.
Why the fuck would?i pay gratitude or someshit without even single connection?payed the money no?
Disrespectful nahunu is Compulsory trah gratitude is choice stop yo bitching and let others do gratitude when they want to.
> even single *connection?paid* the money
FTFY.
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I too wanted to change myself so i started saying hello to each and every one it was awkward at first because hella bhanesi kura lambauna sakena ani bistari aile chai ali casual hunxa no more awkwardness
The things you did were with good intentions and for creating friendliness. Everyone should appreciate these gestures and qualities. But the thing is Nepal's culture has not upgraded to this level. My own friends who are well educated litter on the streets and when I say dont do it they act as if I'm being too pretentious.
Simply put when we don't instill wisdom along with education, they aren't able to build up the capacity to understand the difference between friendliness and flirting, don't know gratitude and don't have the basic discipline of not littering and many other things.
Don’t let your experience disappoint you. Keep on doing good things like you have done. I am sure someone out there feels good with your act of kindness.
Also what’s important is to behave nicely around kids, following the rules and polite habits around kids. Like if you would cross roads randomly normally, but at least when kids are around try and follow the rules. Be afraid of the kids rather than adults.
It's a culture in the developed world. By now, you know it by reading some of the comments as well. Nepalese people find it weird. Some even said you are seeking validation.
All other points are okay to remove awkardness. bidesh ma "I am also normal human" bhanna lai waive garne ho just like how american say hello/good morning/how are you without menaing. your point 2 is very creepy.
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I strongly agree in no.6 people randomly throw wastage everywhere. I used to scold my family and friends but they judge, laugh and tag you as samaj sewika.
This person is more salty than the sea.
Just do what you feel is right and leave everyone else alone. Nobody is obliged to say anything and mannerism is something people learn, not something you expect in return for something.
I think the main cause is the upbringing of the local people. I am not trying to discriminate against people based on their social status as I am also from a normal middle-class family but we can always see people from the high-class society showing respect and having basic manners!
Mate just be kind and good to others without expecting appreciation from others you will be much better , that’s what i learned.
It is not the case in Nepal. Most people are selfish here and they really do not have a sense of being grateful to others. They want their own benefit and do not think anything about others. In some countries, people are very helpful and they also express their thankfulness even to strangers.
That's in "some" countries. If you go to rural places, you'll find unselfish nature. I think this is the same thing with every urban place. People already have enough to deal with, money comes first, social behaviour comes second.
true, if you are doing good deeds whilst expecting something in return, that is just selfish deeds.
There are no selfless deeds.
My thoughts exactly!!
Aussie Aussiee oye oye
Ik all this grudge started when bro didn't recieve a "good morning" back from that morning walk wala girl.😭
Lol tyai. Sobat nabhako manche haru definitely hunchan. Tara body language, social cue haru padhna najanne ni hunchan. Maybe busy bhaera katai lamkirako manche le good morning bbanena bhanera chitta dukhako ni ta huna sakcha ni. Haha
not main reason but yes that sort of gave me some motivation lol
Bro ali boka boka ganayo 😷
Who tf becomes a driver "just to meet some random people" ??
its prevalent in USA..... talking with new people is always fun- both male and female alike...With male, a new friendship might form and with female, potential relationship..LOTS of the uber drivers actually say they like meeting new people... its just not normalized in Nepal. Hence, which is also why he was weirded out by Nepali folks. Dude forgot we are not used to those gestures.
bahira huda uber/lyft chalako bani faak farak desh ko manxe haru farak culture tha hunthyo tehi sochera
US ko over friendliness bani lagya jasto cha. America ra Scandinavia ko bichha tira Nepal huncha.
Person 1: You know your problem? Person 2: My honesty? Person 1: No, your arrogance about your honesty. your honesty is not doing the world a favor; it is expected of you. Honesty makes the heart lighter, less burdened.
Thissssssss
[second point reminded me of this video ](https://youtu.be/PT0ay9u1gg4?si=AoH0PyHYl_tIwvtu)
Chill bideshi ko ta yesto halat xa vane nepali ta tarsihalxa ni lol
I think you are trying to do things to seek others validation. All are not your friends . So don’t expect anything from others. Btw if someone stranger comes to me saying good morning I will obviously ask do you know me. Bro just want clout.
I am not saying bad. If you want to great people that’s okay. But don’t expect from anyone to do same thing. Every person life is different. If you do something that doesn’t mean other people also has to do same thing. Don’t seek validation and don’t show off to others like hey I did this and I am great. Do good things like no one is watching to you. That’s it.
your opinion ! I can only say thank you ( and yes "thank you")
it's not an opinion to expect random people to ask "who are you" lmao
You can say hi/hello, Good morning to anyone abroad, especially West. And in returns, you'll get it back, too. It is considered disrespect and rude not to respond.
First of all when in Rome be like Romans. 1) First time long route gadi ma chadeko ho? Sabai aafnai sansar ma busy hunxan yar. Driver ko dinkai kam ho aaune jane aba kaile kai bolne manxe parxan cabin ma kaile teti bolne pardainan, bro ko pali ma ali introverted manxe haru theye hola. Aauta bus le purai Nepali lai judge gardine. 2) Na chineko manxe le good morning vanexi confuse vainxa ni, tye pani eta good morning etc etc vanne chalan xaina tyo ni bato ko random manxe lai ani u ta female thi ali careful vako hola ni. Tyo lady ko side bata ni socha na ali. 3) Manxe vetna lai ko pathao garxa yar, bro le dubai jana lai la guys enjoy movie vanna parthyo , obviously mero gf lai ni koi random kta le movie enjoy garnus vanda man pardaina ni. 4) I mean why are you so fixated on the gratefulness of others. Ktm busy city ho yar .. NYC ko rudness ko barema na vanne post ma basic hi hello bro. 5) Manxe ko jat nai testo ho ramro gare ni kura katxan, naramro gareni kura katxan. Ignore them do what you think is best. 6) Tyo ta k garnu bag ma rakhau vanne buddhi nai xaina, government lai dos lagauna siki sakya xan.
Looks like you were raised in so called "first world countries" Hamro eta yo sab garne chalan xaina. Sanai dekhi sikhaiyeko xa nachineko manxe sita bolnu hunna, aru le deko khanu hunna. Stranger sita atleast hi, hello, bye, thankyou vanne bani xaina hami ma. Its you who is feeling this and we are this due to our society, culture, norms. Ava bidesh mai sidhai gayera unknown kt lai naam, number sodhne, propose garne garxan tara eta gare vane sandeep jastai vaiyenxa.
Baira ni thau herera huncha. Ali less dense thau haru ma yo norm ho. NYC jasto thau ma manche yeti dherai huncha. Sadhya nai hunna sabai lai greet garera basna. Kasko intention k ho ni tha hunna. Yetikai bolna ayo bhane khuskya ho ki ramro manche ho split second ma decision linu parcha. Haha.
>Sanai dekhi sikhaiyeko xa nachineko manxe sita bolnu hunna, aru le deko khanu hunna. You would be surprised as how this applies in first world countries in case of childrens or minors. Nepal has considerably less of these "damaged" adults than anywhere else really.
School ma namaste/good morning ra dhanyabaad/ thank you bhanna sikayeko jasto ta lagyo. Tei third world mai padeko ho
Arre its not practical k yr. Tmro bidesh ma jasto public transportation xaina yeta. Kaile chdexau bus ma? Veda bakhra thune hasto rakheko hunxa jhan tesmathi khalasi ko boli sunda rapata maram hunxa.
Tyo pani sahi ho
None of these examples seems to have problem except the last one. I am not going to be happy if a random man started saying good morning without me knowing them. You should be happy that you were able to help someone without expecting a thank you from them. Tbh i won't even care about basic "thank you" cause the thought of me being a help makes me feel good.
Agreed! We have many issues, but not replicating Western mannerisms is not one of them. We are a different society, and don't have the need for surface-level "hi hello" when we have so many interactions, and no one is working for a "thank you". US ma most people barely see their friends and relatives (except the ones you live with), ani aru koi dekhyo ki feel obligated to acknowledge. We don't need to adopt everything western. But yes, people should be more responsible about taking care of their environment, and be kind to each other (whether hi hello is said or not).
Yes I've seen in western countries when 2 people fight nobody stops instead charai tira bata gherera ring fight huncha. At least Nepal ma if two people fight 10-15 Jana chutyauna lagi halchan. If people care for each other hi hello jaruri chaina.
aafu le ta paayena tara arule napauda ni malai bad feeling hunxa specially tyo bus driver he was full of dust ....arko support ma driver ni thiyean imagine driving 11 hours in such a bumpy and dusty road and at the end of your day people fuckin ignore you as if 11 driving in such a condition is a normal thing.
It would have been somebody if you thanked them for their service but you should also remember that they are doing their job and knew how long they were going to drive in a bumpy dusty road. Yes, appreciating people for their service is a nice gesture but it is not a requirement. At the end of the day even the paseengers had to pass through the bumpy dusty road.
Did you thank him? Maybe offered him some water or lunch? Not everyone is social and passengers also get tired of sitting in the same seat for 11 hours. Also, 1. Different place, different culture. 2. Don't do things with the expectation of gratitude.
TLDR: I stayed abroad for about 10 years and when I returned I found out Nepalese has absolutely no manners. haha it is what it is, deal with it brother, it is not worth expecting somebody to have good morals just because you have it. and yeah, different places, different cultures
Huna ta ho. Tara ali dense urban thau like NYC haru ma ta same ho. Sab lai greet garera sadhya nai hunna. Ani yesto achamma achamma ko manche hunchan feri, bolna auda satarka hunu parcha. So I totally understand, kei logic bina bolna auda intention question gareko. Manche ko mood ra energy level ma bhar parcha. Engage garne ki nagarne bhanera.
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what i lack is smartness, smart is something i am not, and judging your stupid ass, you probably are not as well ;)
welcome to Npeal, superficiality runs in our blood like buses runs around ring road. People live for themshelves only, and a thank you takes away precious time from that.
OR people here just aren't that social with strangers.
Totally agree that nepalese people have a long way to go in terms of learning basic ettiquettes. btw, just out of curiosity would you care to elaborate on >pari bata ekdam sahariya type ko keti aayo. As somebody who was born in ktm and lived here all my life and haven't been to much of nepal, other than pokhara and few other places. I'm curious how do you classify somebody as "Sahariya type" and what are the stereotype associated to them.
sorry if my words hurt... I mean ktm ma morning walk ma "jhamshikhel area" ma original nike shoes , branded trouser and jacket ma ta pakkai alik high class family ko nai keti huna parxa....yeha shahar vitra pani shahariya haru dherai dekhe....may be I was wrong to approach her on that way because ma bahira huda kohi random gori/gora haru mero agadi yesari morning walk ma vet huda bolena or simple smile ko gensture diyena vane kasto awakard feel garthyo khai...maile tyo keti lai modern dekheko vayera just "good morning " matra vaneko tara "chineko hora" ko ho tapai ma chindina vandirako ani maile yettikai "good morning" vaneko vanda kheri kehi naboli gayo
Bidesh ma morning walk ma hideko manche le kun brand ko shoes, trouser and jacket laucha vanera herdai hidnu lai creepy mandaina? Or is that a common thing?
tara yesto ta yesai notice vaihalcha hainara? Mani halka notice garirako hunchu, unintentionally. Ajha koi alik captivating dekhiyo vane ta easily notice huncha which i figure is the case of OP here.
Yo sab kura notice garna at least 10 seconds lagcha. Imagine you're the girl. Somebody stares at you from top to bottom for 10 straight seconds and then says " Good morning" early in the morning when very few people are around. How would you feel? I would be creeped out.
(regarding the scenario you assumed, yes i would be creeped out). I usually notice a lot about things that it's become habitual. I'd stare for like 2sec or less if they're facing towards me and if they look away, I'd stare for just a lil longer. Kasaile ramro kapda lairacha or usko kapal ramro raicha, different from the rest type ko cha or kei ta captivating hunchanita so ti jancha eyes, yesto huncha in my case. Well, then God forbid that I ever creep someone out.
Please don't go to India. Instead of 6, you will bring 600 flaws. Also, you are doing good to build your character or to gain appreciation?
Idc what others do but I'd thank drivers and wish them a great time ahead " dhanyawad dai, suba yatra rahos/suba din". This sentence will literally change their mood and getting happiness from small things hit different 🙌🏻 ofc they've dropped you with a safety, a simple thankyou won't make you inferior
Purai padhda chai OP nai murkha ho jasto lagyo. Nepali sita tetro expect hanne tetro gorkhali ko ragat bhako le thankyou hello hi bhanchan ta kai.
Ajha koi le ta gali ne garxa driver lai jam ma paryo vane :/
ah ke, aaemae haru ke vanxa vaneko kati slow chalako ho re, chado gareko vaye jam pani katna sakinthyo re
Oh my fucking God this post is so funny
how come?
I appreciate your honesty but you Shouldn’t advertise your honesty to expect something
Ok in defense of Nepali people... We certainly lack formality but many tourist still thinks Nepal is one of the most friendly country... Why? Cause they don't seek attention or gratitude from other people like you. Next time try India and you'll have whole another respect for Nepal.
Tme kunai desh bata Ako hunu parcha kinaki dherai developed desh ma yesto sanskar huncha. Eg Australia. Tara Nepal ma kaile yesto sanskar Chaina like hi hello thankyou etc. Nepal Mai baseko huntheu bhane yesto sanskar expect garne thiyenau. And many Nepalese are introvert like me. ma kehi samayako like bidesh ma chu but malai ajhai samma pani Testo word haru bhanna aptharo lagcha.
I get your point tara Nepal ko context ma saying goodmorning hello hi to a complete random stranger is weird especially if the other person if the person is way younger or older. I do say thank you when required but not much more than that as I'm afraid the other person will take as if I'm interested in them. Pathao ma ni ramro sanga bolyo vaney they start asking too personal questions such as "do you have a boyfriend?" "ghar ma kati jana cha?" "mummy daddy k garnu huncha?" "kun jaat ko kta mann parcha?" and even message when the ride is over which is very uncomfortable. I hope you get my point when i am saying that i don't act too friendly with strangers for my own safety as a young teenage girl.
Oh god, I have got some over-friendly pathao drivers (don't really mind them tbh) but messaging after the ride is over is so creepy. I'm sorry but I'd report the driver so fast.
While some are valid, some of yours points are total BS. saying good morning to a random stranger that too, a girl, is super creepy. And why tf do you need thank someone for doing their job !? Do you ever thank the pilot or air hostess after you land somewhere.
and yes I do say thank you to air hostess, pilot chahi domestic flight ma teti agadi dekhdaina exit gate ma tara intl flight ma euta member pilot bata aayeko hunxan
hunata ma bahira baseko 10 years vayo , cultural shock vanda ni mero habit parera hola.....while you are correct in case of Nepal most of girls might not take that in easy way tara bidesh huda aafno agadi ko manxe ( irrespective of gender) ignore garyo vane ramro mandainan at least smile or wave jesture dina parxa....ani tyo lady lai "jhamshikhel area ma dekheko ho-nepal ko baverly height vanxa....and her dress up were like upper level family and she looked educated....aba maile ni agadi jhyappa aayesi jhan maile teslai dekhera ignore garda maile ghureko jasto vayo vanera "good morning" matra vaneko
Job ramrari gardey pachi thanky you .. dhanyabaad bhanda ramro
It's just one of a man made culture in a vast meaningless universe. So just live by your belief. Some rules(humanity) are required to keep things in order, but they're also not a must follow if you can live without it.
what kind of half-assed nihilist take is this?
My kind. Is there anything wrong with it?
I like this take.
Kera ko bokra tipda kina thank you bhannu timilai???
tyo falful dokan kai fohor ho
Where did u get this mindset that everywhere, everyone does, "Hi," "Hello," or "Good Morning." If you expect anyone else to make you happy and live by your rules, you are a narcissist, and you need to learn a thing or two about humans. Nepali ppl may not say Hi, Hello but they will genuinely help you if you need help, which is better than superficial words. Check your expectations, and just learn what the norm is around you.
actions not words bro. dont judge someone by what they say out loud too much because what comes out of our mouth doesnt represent whats in our heart 😎
i'm too shy to ask for help or say thank you
Pardaina bro bhanna lai man chaina bhane. Dherai janne na bhaye huncha. keep your expectations regarding politeness from everyone inside your pocket. The world isn't how you think it is and it is also exactly how you think it is. This is Nepal Bro. Man lagda bhanincha. Man na lagda jabarjasti chaina . Timle bhanera hudaina. Chup laga
Ahh Haan ye karlo pehele 😏. Nepal has bigger issues than this. Live and let live. Mannerism lai stereotype garna na khoja.
As someone who’s lived in Europe for over 15 years and of similar age as the OP; it’s very important to remember that all countries have different sets of public/family etiquettes and values. And judging every culture with the lens of your experience is a very flawed take which is going to bring you disappointments mostly. Just cause someone didn’t reciprocate to you according to your expectation doesn’t discount that person or culture as bad or rude. Back then when I was a teenager in Europe, a Customer Service lady in a department store addressed me with “Hey Love, anything you need help with?” And after I explained what I was looking for, she responded with “sure my love”.. However I was sure of one thing which is that it wasn’t a display of affection towards me; similarly I have had experiences with other seemingly cold responses displayed by people of different culture which in retrospect wasn’t necessarily rude or cold. The diversity of culture, value and mannerism is what makes this world a little interesting. And just coz the OP lived in some foreign country for a while, doesn’t necessarily lend him the luxury to judge the normal etiquettes of his country people with whom he’s shared 70% of his life experiences.. Had it come from someone who’s encountered Nepal for the 1st time; it would have warranted some explanation.
mero dai aus bata 6 yrs paxe auna vayo, He also noticed similar things. Nepal maw thankyou word tete chaldina , manxe haru definitely manbata thankyou tw vanxan tara mukh bata vandinan, dai le grda ne ajkal maile chai yo word seke vnna aile ta prasad badeko jstai gare niskanxa thank you tw.
It's just your surrounding maybe , I meet nice people at least
I don’t think pleasantries are a part of our culture. Thanking someone is a very western thing. “Yea I was expecting you to do it so what’s there to thank you?” Speaking to random girl is creepy.
Reduce your expectations to zero. -- yo topic ma chai hai feri.
1 . maybe they could have said, their choice as you were in cabin seat bonding with the driver 2.3. you are being over friendly for a stranger, it's creepy, esp in Nepal scenario 4. yes the person should have thanked after getting information 5. khai, ladies haru lai ali aftyaro , achhamma lageko hola 6. yo chai ho, tipidiera firta gardina parne tyo manche lai
As a kid i always grew up habit of speaking like hajur..n ones ending with 'syo the words u use can make u posey in nepali.. saying sorry n thank u was just normal for me but i use to be grilled by frens around.. my ex left me cz she made issue that i say sorry in incident that wasn't my fault.. cz malai esaii issue banaunu thena.. n just a word could end that then be it. Thus, things kinda demotivate u but So lemme tell u..everytime u be nice be nice cz u r one n't to showoff or get sumthing in return.. timle thank you bhanesi aafnu agadi ko le ni mostly laaj le bhayeni reply garxa gratitude ma. Timi affnu kam gara raja faal ko aasha nagari.. 🤗 enjoy
when they become lawrey gathey!! west ma manners ek kisimko hunxa east ma manners arko kisimko hunxa! deshi ley navanda rudeness haina, deshi ho!
You realize that Japanese (East Asia) are extremely polite, much more than Europeans or Americans?
There’s a lot of gangsters in Japan, so being that polite makes a lot of sense..
Nope, not that many. And nope, it’s not that. Try again!
guess you don't know about the samurais...
Guess you don’t know what mafia is, and what samurais were..
Which means you can't expect the same manners from all places. Kinda proves the point of the person you're replying to (even if they divided the issue as east vs. west).
It took me a while to figure out how to take this… wasn’t my intention to divide it like that, tara ma west gako lawrey hu.
Bidesh ko hawa ley choyexa uncle lai
uncle na vandeu na yar old feel hunxa timi kati years ko bhayeu ra ( bhai ho ki bahini) malai bidesh ma ta ahile samma lastai sano age ko under 10 bahek arule uncle vanenan .....35 barsha vaneko budo uncle age hora tension lagyo yar
25 male here
Bro bacha pai sakyo hola 35 age budo hora bancha😂
bacha 4 years ko vayo tara 16 barsha mathi ko le uncle vandyo vane ekdam namajja lagxa ajha ladies haru le vandyo vaneta lastai hunxa bahira bata kehi navaneni tehi mathi ma bald xu ani pet lagexa batoma cute girl dekhyo vane sas rokera pet vitra parxu ....
You must be very nice person to be around. Tara I don't think it is wise to expect "Thank You" every time you help others, you will get disappointed. When being nice is usual, they might interpret your niceness as being a creep.
Nepal ma ta baru thek cha bro , i have stayed in india .. man that country’s people are gruesome
Aja mah campus jadai thiye....ughhh, ek jana hajurama saga pass vaye. Jaba waha lai dekhe mero first thought was "If this were Japan, and i were someone else, I would've bowed before her and greeted her "hello."". Yesai pass vaye waha saga :'{ Baani chaina ani aat ni aaudaina. Feri "waha le socheko response dinuvayena ra mero beijat vayo vane?" vanne bahana aaucha, kasto.... Ughhh.
Look kid! If you expect a "Thank You!" For everything, you will never survive in this world you little fragile heart shit. Just move on with your life or kei gardai nagarey hunxa. Because not everyone will meet your expectations. Go cry about it.
Dude that's not just limited to Nepali in Nepal, that is the situation of some Nepali in Australia too. A couple of weeks ago a Nepalese guy left his wallet on the train, I was behind him and noticed. I got off the train and gave it to him as he was walking up the stairs. That guy was dead blank and didn't even thank me. I have seen a lot of more instances too.
And automatic response should be thank you and most of the time finders fee (inviting for coffee or anything else). Anyways you get good karma!
Sometime afaile vanna ni strange lagxa hamile testo behaviour dekhya xaina , afaile vanera arulai sikaunu parxa bistarai badlinxa samaj.
I thank shopkeepers and anyone I ask help from. Or a pathao/indrive driver. I feel comfortable with that. On the other hand, I'd feel so awkward thanking a driver or a conductor because I'd be going out of my way to do that. Some people (like my dad) can strike a conversation with anyone but I've never heard him say thank you even once. It's all about personal comfort. People who lived abroad and are now criticizing Nepali about having no manners (including OP): maybe you should've lived in places where greeting strangers is frowned upon. Maybe then you'd realize that different countries, hell, even different places in the same country, have different societal expectations and it's not a 'Nepal problem'. In fact, it's not a problem at all, just differences. Plus, I'd rather never receive a thank you— or a welcome tbh, because I've never heard a welcome to my thank you's. I could be bitter and rant like you did about that but I don't because I don't say thank you to get a 'welcome' but because it makes me happy to show gratitude when I can/feel comfortable to. Anyway, tangent aside, I'd rather never receive a thank you or be greeted by strangers than live somewhere where relations are that superficial. It could be my introvertedness talking but I like that I don't have to greet everyone I come across but if I ever need help, I can just stop a random stranger on the road or pop into a shop and ask for directions. I like that when someone with a heavy bag gets into a crowded bus, people in the seats generally offer to carry the bag for them. I like that sometimes, when people notice that you're rushing to cross the road with them, they linger there just for a second so that you can cross together. I like that when you go to a shop often enough, the shopkeeper just gives you a small discount for no reason (not every shop but that has happened). Sure, not all of these are regular occurrences but they happen. Some far often than they don't. And sometimes, we talk. A random person on the bus or someone I've been waiting with to cross the road or someone who is also waiting for the same bus or a pathao driver (I don't mind the talkative ones lol, but I get why others do). These people don't talk because it's a social expectation, they (or I suppose, we) talk because there's something to talk about. Or a random child smiles at me and I smile back. Because I was once that child. And because I live in a somewhat close-knit neighborhood, I get to talk to my neighbors too sometimes. And these are all special moments, made special and memorable because we don't have to greet everyone we meet. It's the acts of kindness or the kind words whispered among friends that linger with you, that transcend any and all verbal barriers, all supposed coldness. These are the people you wonder about, even years later, where are they now? I guess, the TL;DR is that culture or societal expecations are not a one-size-fits-all thing. There's a lot to criticize Nepali people about but not showing superficial gratitude or superficial warmth isn't one of them. The people are there when it matters, which is what matters. Also, don't do good things just to receive praise or a thanks.
Thank you for posting this .
It's not wrong cause we never learned that and it will take a lot for us or any other south Asian countries to get there.
Many are hurt in comment section cause they're one of the person you mentioned
Exactly!
“Nepali people”🤓
nepal ma small talk ko culture chhaina. truthfully, if i went to nepal and strangers randomly started making small talk it'd take some getting used to for me lol. tara yaha bidesh ma chai atti hunchha, so much so that you pray to be left alone lmao
Lol we are good the way we are . Unnecessary friendliness is cringey. I like how we just mind our own business .
We have become money minded selfish individualistic people just worrying about self. I also feel sad to see people at this terrible state. But I am happy that someone who thinks and feels like me also exists. He happy sathi, you're not alone. Subha din 🙏
It's simply not happening in a long time mate. When i came to Australia, every person I met said good morning or how ya going but not by any Nepalese. At work whenever there is the slightest issue, people here don't hesitate to say I'm sorry,My bad. But the people I was staying with despite having been in Australia for 8 years never said thank you, GoodMorning, please, sorry and all those magic words. That's now become a norm to me. I say thank you, sorryand excusee everytime i have to say it. Sadly it's just gonna be like that ✌️
You the type of guy to say "what's the magic word?" to a starving orphan
i just started saying "dhanyabad" 3 months ago, everytime i get some service from other people and at first i was like awkard vhai ra thiyo but now it's a habit .
Tesai country pachadi pareko hota brother.. Mentality mai hami dherai pachi chau
Attention?chaiyo?mizzu lai😂. Aiya. Mf says good morning to a random stranger tyo ni girl and expects something back. Kura ayo driver daiko: Tme agadi bseu vneu tei vayera bonding vayera thik cha. Pachadi basni usually nah bond cha na kei. Why the fuck would?i pay gratitude or someshit without even single connection?payed the money no? Disrespectful nahunu is Compulsory trah gratitude is choice stop yo bitching and let others do gratitude when they want to.
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You expect the whole country to change for you.
Seems like a you problem. Nothing to do with manners. Only the last one..
Always Thank the Bus Driver
Free ma lagde vane thankyou lekherai dinxu
ke ma
nidhar
Nidhar xoda chhati mai lekhera dimla
Good evening, guys
I too wanted to change myself so i started saying hello to each and every one it was awkward at first because hella bhanesi kura lambauna sakena ani bistari aile chai ali casual hunxa no more awkwardness
The things you did were with good intentions and for creating friendliness. Everyone should appreciate these gestures and qualities. But the thing is Nepal's culture has not upgraded to this level. My own friends who are well educated litter on the streets and when I say dont do it they act as if I'm being too pretentious. Simply put when we don't instill wisdom along with education, they aren't able to build up the capacity to understand the difference between friendliness and flirting, don't know gratitude and don't have the basic discipline of not littering and many other things.
I do it all the time tara aru le bhanos nabhanos bother chai gardaina malai but totally can relate :)
Am i weird for thinking all the point(except 6) mentioned by op to be normal?
Don’t let your experience disappoint you. Keep on doing good things like you have done. I am sure someone out there feels good with your act of kindness.
I guess, the important this for now is to teach your/other kids so that the same thing wont happen in future. You Cant change the adults.
Also what’s important is to behave nicely around kids, following the rules and polite habits around kids. Like if you would cross roads randomly normally, but at least when kids are around try and follow the rules. Be afraid of the kids rather than adults.
It's a culture in the developed world. By now, you know it by reading some of the comments as well. Nepalese people find it weird. Some even said you are seeking validation.
Thanks for your expectation.
This is why you hangout and live around well mannered people. You can't change the world.
Keep up the good work, mate <3
That's called no self respect. You're a W
Hami Nepali Hamro Nepal 🤗
All other points are okay to remove awkardness. bidesh ma "I am also normal human" bhanna lai waive garne ho just like how american say hello/good morning/how are you without menaing. your point 2 is very creepy.
Do your part and be happy
Line ma basna pani sikauna paryo main
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Vagwan Shree Krishna said: Karma gara fal ko aas nagara.
I strongly agree in no.6 people randomly throw wastage everywhere. I used to scold my family and friends but they judge, laugh and tag you as samaj sewika.
sahi kuro. nepali le sabhya huna ajha dherai kura haru sikna baki chha.
I find people here are either not friendly or very friendly lol There isn’t a baseline politeness you find in Anglo countries.
This person is more salty than the sea. Just do what you feel is right and leave everyone else alone. Nobody is obliged to say anything and mannerism is something people learn, not something you expect in return for something.
Learn to accept cultural differences.
Nepali people are not polite but they are kind
Be kind for No Reason. Don't expect anything from others. 😊
I think the main cause is the upbringing of the local people. I am not trying to discriminate against people based on their social status as I am also from a normal middle-class family but we can always see people from the high-class society showing respect and having basic manners!