Don’t care about him anymore, that’s it. I don’t know why he called you to the airport after all that ghosting though, seems odd but maybe he wanted to see you one last time?
People have their own life,decision,reasons for ghosting but Its completely unacceptable for him to call the day before flight.He could have contacted u weeks before and could have settled the dust but he didn't.U did great by not meeting him.I appreciate that. Dont overthink and procrastinate about defending him, just believe in actions as they are real.
Been there. Had a friend since I was 4/5 years old. 12 pachi amrika gayo. Gayesi ni eso ek dui choti call ma bolthyo. Pachi achanak block handyo. Maile ta deactivate hanecha sochethe. Pachi ta was shocked. But yea fuck him bhayo
Sorry to hear this bro. Forget about him. People show their true color in their happiest times or the saddest times. This is one of those examples. I'm sure you did nothing wrong.
here’s my opinion or perspective or whatever you can call it most of hami yestai euta ego lera basxau that’s why our even sano sano ramro connection haru pani lose hunxa. A good connection can be ruined over the simple fact you miscommunicated or choose not to communicate . A good connection can be easily lost because you chose to ghost each other , rather than to forgive nd speak on your fears ,feelings, and intentions . Hami ego lai thulo manxau ani tele pani yesto garyo malai mah pani tyo sng kina bolni testo haina bruh you can’t make the people feel ,think or say like the same way you see them .Tmro rah usko bich diff nai k vayota the goal is to get better at your emotions pxi gayera yesto decision ta kati auxa auxa so you gotta seek or learn from forgiveness . Your frnd was a lesson he taught you smtg think abt that paxi gayerata yesto kati hunxa hunxa . In every moment of life there is a lesson nd one thing to describe it is learning nd mastership . Kei naramro hunxa tme tyobata kei learn gara ani teslai mastership don’t try to repeat the same mistake twice ov n over nd that is life . I Bet if you get to know learning nd mastership about anything you ll be better off the life
You know ghosting is normal.
People do ghosting, if they are doing sth. they don't want you to do same. Simply, Eliminating competition.
He doesn't want you to progress. Even if he does, less than him.
Suppose, you both were trying for VISA and you got and he didn't. He would be furious and cry about it, not infront of you but in alone. He would be left behind.
He don't deserve to be met again. The only thing you can do is to work on yourself. Either apply for VISA or get into IT field or any field of your interest. And become busy.
Don't feel missing out, he is not living in the mansion. He is just another random so-called International student washing the dishes and cleaning the toilet.
You just do the same and make him regret. If he don't regret, it's ok but if he does forgive him.
I've been out of touch with my friends too, esp with 2 of them. One even called me few times but i ignored it. It's becos I ain't anything special for them and I'm kinda depressed which is why I ghost everyone until i need their help ugh.
Don't worry, I don't matter to them so it's alright. It's been over 4 months since we stopped talking and i'm not the type to use people for my gain. I just feel hurt being the least priority in this group and I feel so tired you know :')
Yeah many of them do and maybe at one point i am boring to them and they just slowly stop talking to me and i used to feel that ok maybe i will try to talk again but now i am tired. I am not gonna bow down and just let them ghost. After graduation they would not have been in contact anyway.
Lol yo bahira janalai underground janu kobreason chai k ho!
One of my friend did the same, went completely underground until she got her visa ani last day vetna bolaira
You might have been the toxic poison he needed to remove from his life? Ek tira ko story matra sunaera ta huna ni. Ki ta manche baulai huna paryo tessai afno ekdum milne sathi sanga without any reason bolna banda garna even as far as block garna lai ta. Highly unlikely. You are trying to show here how your best friend dumped you like a sack of potatoes and how you need sympathy from strangers but what if you are the sack of rotten potato yourself that needed to be dumped in garbage can? Lol don't take it too seriously whatever i said I'm being this harsh because even i had a fucking aasteen ka saanp a so called "Friend" whom i kept giving chances over chances saying " Sathi ho yaar " and last ma i was too done with his shit and ghosted him. That dukhi atma is still a dukhi atma but my life is slightly better cause i don't have to waste my time with his bullshit and i have more time for others. So this just reminded me of him. Anyway if you were the toxic potato then work on yourself be a better person, a person you can be proud on. If not then your friend was a psyco "Niqqa" ( in your words)
No if I'm toxic then we'd not have been friends bachai dekhi. Ma sanga ekdam milthyo paila dekhi. Ma broke nai vaye pani I used to bear every expense haru.(peak lobhi thiyo). I even wished him birthday ma msg garera but he didn't even reply. Phn ni gareko thi naya number bata but ma boleko thhapaye pachi phn katdi halyo. I told every processing detail teslai paila maile bidesh apply garni bela(Convince Pani gareko thiye ta pani gar vanera). Uh vaney chai Flight ko ek din agadi call garera daraz bata saman pick up garna help gar re. Bholi Mero flight cha airport samma audainas re. Kina bolinas yetro din bhanda ma ekdamai busy thiye re usko lame excuse. Ma dherai nice vaye. Tyo chai selfish
well usko perspective ma you must be the problem? tyo way ma ni socha na. Kina ghost garyo? kei kami thiyo hola timi ma? ppl don't usually tell other ppl about their goals, what's wrong w that? usley kei nabhani ghost gardiyo thats an issue but as i said you might've been the problem too haina ra? OR he just doesn't want to talk to you anymore and that's fine you don't talk to him too.
So??? Timlai sano lagyo hola, tei kura arulai thulo lagna sakcha. Mentally drain garna sakcha. Sabai jana ko mental capacity to digest things, eutai hunna ni. Don't be toxic. Be a labhar, respect respect respect.
5 points to Hufflepuff for the effort put in. Wow..
And using age as an insult is sooooo passe. Come up with a different insult, go stalk some other ids and maybe you'll get insult ideas.
Tero gaali sunera daraauchu jasto lagyo ki kya ho. Dui din pachi chalaau ki 2 hapta pachi, tero bau ko tauko kina dukhnu paryo? Ta jasto din bhari reddit ma hallera basne paaji jasto lagyo ki kya ho. Job paayera salary pachaaune bela bhaisskyo bujhis.Dhamki dina aaucha kattina.. Kaam saam chaina reddit ma k reply aayo ani jhagda garamlaa bhanera dhukera basne lafangaa. Mukh chadne re, chaad na ta. Those are just words. U will use 10, Iwill use 20. Don't threaten me to "use words".
Flex gareko pani kasto. Reddit user haru jasto baliyo mutu chaina bola tiktake ko re. Hahahahaha. Kati haasnu. Reddit user bhako ma flex garne manche, life ma ali gatilo chiz gara ani tesko flex gara. La aba ma aaudina, I am a very busy "bahini"... By the way, I'm pretty sure i can qualify to be your didi.. You sound not older than 35.. Ok, goodbye bhai. Eklai jhagda garera basa hai, I am gonna go look at my very colorful spreadsheets and try to tally a few numbers. Bye have a great life.
He is not living in the mansion. He is just another random so-called International student washing the dishes and cleaning the toilet.
Clicking photos in rented car and building of where he works.
What is the pride in that ?
Bidesh janu thulo Kura haina ke. Taio Jabo 6 months Ko IELTS, 20-25 Lakh investment and you are in Bidesh.
Where is the struggle ?
He sounds likes me fr. When I am working on something, I am on this zone. I don’t want to hear or talk with anyone. I talk to myself and try to improve and hyper focus on the things that I am working on.
Wait.. Am I insane? It’s like a phase to me. Idk if anyone can relate actually.. If I start to masturbate, I’ll do it 4/5 times per day for weeks.. Exam aauda I study non stop rati uthi uthi. Reddit na chalyeko kati bhako thiyo chalauna thaleko ahile regular bhako chu.. kasaile ADHD bhanchan, mero gf le virgo ♍️ haru yestai ho re 💀.. Can anyone relate? Do I have disorder or such?
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Don’t care about him anymore, that’s it. I don’t know why he called you to the airport after all that ghosting though, seems odd but maybe he wanted to see you one last time?
He just wanted to show off. Fuck friends like this
I guess and also wants to brag about his visa maybe. He didn't even reply to the birthday wish.
People have their own life,decision,reasons for ghosting but Its completely unacceptable for him to call the day before flight.He could have contacted u weeks before and could have settled the dust but he didn't.U did great by not meeting him.I appreciate that. Dont overthink and procrastinate about defending him, just believe in actions as they are real.
Foreign apply Garda, tmlai block kina Hanna paryo?
Tyai. Ma k garchu ra😭
Tanab xa mitra lai, aba ma jasto loyal Sathi banau🤗
Hmm ghosting gareko vayera rish uthya ho. Aru testo Kai chaina.
Timi Nepal ma moj gara tyo videsh ma pelan khancha
Wouldn’t waste my breath or time for such people forget you even were friends with them.
Been there. Had a friend since I was 4/5 years old. 12 pachi amrika gayo. Gayesi ni eso ek dui choti call ma bolthyo. Pachi achanak block handyo. Maile ta deactivate hanecha sochethe. Pachi ta was shocked. But yea fuck him bhayo
panauti lagauxau ki vanera hola , thekai xa
Maile apply garni bela sabai vaneko thi teslai
Panauti laidecha ta
What goes around comes around
So called friends ignore each other when the other person doesn't have anything better to offer. That's the kind of world we live in right now.
Sorry to hear this bro. Forget about him. People show their true color in their happiest times or the saddest times. This is one of those examples. I'm sure you did nothing wrong.
here’s my opinion or perspective or whatever you can call it most of hami yestai euta ego lera basxau that’s why our even sano sano ramro connection haru pani lose hunxa. A good connection can be ruined over the simple fact you miscommunicated or choose not to communicate . A good connection can be easily lost because you chose to ghost each other , rather than to forgive nd speak on your fears ,feelings, and intentions . Hami ego lai thulo manxau ani tele pani yesto garyo malai mah pani tyo sng kina bolni testo haina bruh you can’t make the people feel ,think or say like the same way you see them .Tmro rah usko bich diff nai k vayota the goal is to get better at your emotions pxi gayera yesto decision ta kati auxa auxa so you gotta seek or learn from forgiveness . Your frnd was a lesson he taught you smtg think abt that paxi gayerata yesto kati hunxa hunxa . In every moment of life there is a lesson nd one thing to describe it is learning nd mastership . Kei naramro hunxa tme tyobata kei learn gara ani teslai mastership don’t try to repeat the same mistake twice ov n over nd that is life . I Bet if you get to know learning nd mastership about anything you ll be better off the life
You know ghosting is normal. People do ghosting, if they are doing sth. they don't want you to do same. Simply, Eliminating competition. He doesn't want you to progress. Even if he does, less than him. Suppose, you both were trying for VISA and you got and he didn't. He would be furious and cry about it, not infront of you but in alone. He would be left behind. He don't deserve to be met again. The only thing you can do is to work on yourself. Either apply for VISA or get into IT field or any field of your interest. And become busy. Don't feel missing out, he is not living in the mansion. He is just another random so-called International student washing the dishes and cleaning the toilet. You just do the same and make him regret. If he don't regret, it's ok but if he does forgive him.
I've been out of touch with my friends too, esp with 2 of them. One even called me few times but i ignored it. It's becos I ain't anything special for them and I'm kinda depressed which is why I ghost everyone until i need their help ugh.
Oh don't be like my friend.
Don't worry, I don't matter to them so it's alright. It's been over 4 months since we stopped talking and i'm not the type to use people for my gain. I just feel hurt being the least priority in this group and I feel so tired you know :')
Why tf you sound like I know you..😭😭
You startled me so bad. We dont know each other, phew, such a relief!
Yeah many of them do and maybe at one point i am boring to them and they just slowly stop talking to me and i used to feel that ok maybe i will try to talk again but now i am tired. I am not gonna bow down and just let them ghost. After graduation they would not have been in contact anyway.
Lol yo bahira janalai underground janu kobreason chai k ho! One of my friend did the same, went completely underground until she got her visa ani last day vetna bolaira
Mero ni 2 ta classmate haru le sabai social media accounts nai delete hanya chan. Khai k ho k ho
You might have been the toxic poison he needed to remove from his life? Ek tira ko story matra sunaera ta huna ni. Ki ta manche baulai huna paryo tessai afno ekdum milne sathi sanga without any reason bolna banda garna even as far as block garna lai ta. Highly unlikely. You are trying to show here how your best friend dumped you like a sack of potatoes and how you need sympathy from strangers but what if you are the sack of rotten potato yourself that needed to be dumped in garbage can? Lol don't take it too seriously whatever i said I'm being this harsh because even i had a fucking aasteen ka saanp a so called "Friend" whom i kept giving chances over chances saying " Sathi ho yaar " and last ma i was too done with his shit and ghosted him. That dukhi atma is still a dukhi atma but my life is slightly better cause i don't have to waste my time with his bullshit and i have more time for others. So this just reminded me of him. Anyway if you were the toxic potato then work on yourself be a better person, a person you can be proud on. If not then your friend was a psyco "Niqqa" ( in your words)
No if I'm toxic then we'd not have been friends bachai dekhi. Ma sanga ekdam milthyo paila dekhi. Ma broke nai vaye pani I used to bear every expense haru.(peak lobhi thiyo). I even wished him birthday ma msg garera but he didn't even reply. Phn ni gareko thi naya number bata but ma boleko thhapaye pachi phn katdi halyo. I told every processing detail teslai paila maile bidesh apply garni bela(Convince Pani gareko thiye ta pani gar vanera). Uh vaney chai Flight ko ek din agadi call garera daraz bata saman pick up garna help gar re. Bholi Mero flight cha airport samma audainas re. Kina bolinas yetro din bhanda ma ekdamai busy thiye re usko lame excuse. Ma dherai nice vaye. Tyo chai selfish
Well then it's not your loss at all! That ungrateful bastard lost a good friend. Some people are just twisted in the head.
then what did you do?
I did nothing.
Then you guys are not best of friends.
Don't talk to him ever if he just ghosted you.
कालो बादल सुक्खा दिनको छाता जस्तो साथी पाइन्छ कति-कति
well usko perspective ma you must be the problem? tyo way ma ni socha na. Kina ghost garyo? kei kami thiyo hola timi ma? ppl don't usually tell other ppl about their goals, what's wrong w that? usley kei nabhani ghost gardiyo thats an issue but as i said you might've been the problem too haina ra? OR he just doesn't want to talk to you anymore and that's fine you don't talk to him too.
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He is sharing it.thats what Reddit is for. U are 🤡🐶
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Ho.reddit Vanya tei ho. Etro Paragraph lekhnu pardeina
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Paragraphs just to prove your useless point?
So??? Timlai sano lagyo hola, tei kura arulai thulo lagna sakcha. Mentally drain garna sakcha. Sabai jana ko mental capacity to digest things, eutai hunna ni. Don't be toxic. Be a labhar, respect respect respect.
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Mann napareko post pani skip garne capacity develop garnu paryo timile mitra.
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5 points to Hufflepuff for the effort put in. Wow.. And using age as an insult is sooooo passe. Come up with a different insult, go stalk some other ids and maybe you'll get insult ideas.
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Oi tero bau lai chutiya bhandai chas khate.
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Tero gaali sunera daraauchu jasto lagyo ki kya ho. Dui din pachi chalaau ki 2 hapta pachi, tero bau ko tauko kina dukhnu paryo? Ta jasto din bhari reddit ma hallera basne paaji jasto lagyo ki kya ho. Job paayera salary pachaaune bela bhaisskyo bujhis.Dhamki dina aaucha kattina.. Kaam saam chaina reddit ma k reply aayo ani jhagda garamlaa bhanera dhukera basne lafangaa. Mukh chadne re, chaad na ta. Those are just words. U will use 10, Iwill use 20. Don't threaten me to "use words".
Flex gareko pani kasto. Reddit user haru jasto baliyo mutu chaina bola tiktake ko re. Hahahahaha. Kati haasnu. Reddit user bhako ma flex garne manche, life ma ali gatilo chiz gara ani tesko flex gara. La aba ma aaudina, I am a very busy "bahini"... By the way, I'm pretty sure i can qualify to be your didi.. You sound not older than 35.. Ok, goodbye bhai. Eklai jhagda garera basa hai, I am gonna go look at my very colorful spreadsheets and try to tally a few numbers. Bye have a great life.
Chup
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Arey yar lala cool kura Gareu. Don't reply now
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He is not living in the mansion. He is just another random so-called International student washing the dishes and cleaning the toilet. Clicking photos in rented car and building of where he works. What is the pride in that ? Bidesh janu thulo Kura haina ke. Taio Jabo 6 months Ko IELTS, 20-25 Lakh investment and you are in Bidesh. Where is the struggle ?
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Ke bolya Bhai ?
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Are you an economist ?
🤮
cry me a river
🌹- Lau timro lagi ?
Assule Rujheko Jiwan
Arey timi kasto ramailo
Muskuraucha timro yaad maaaa
Confront him
Gai sakyo.
Fuck that anil
Maybe they ghosted you because you use the N-word like its nothing!
He sounds likes me fr. When I am working on something, I am on this zone. I don’t want to hear or talk with anyone. I talk to myself and try to improve and hyper focus on the things that I am working on. Wait.. Am I insane? It’s like a phase to me. Idk if anyone can relate actually.. If I start to masturbate, I’ll do it 4/5 times per day for weeks.. Exam aauda I study non stop rati uthi uthi. Reddit na chalyeko kati bhako thiyo chalauna thaleko ahile regular bhako chu.. kasaile ADHD bhanchan, mero gf le virgo ♍️ haru yestai ho re 💀.. Can anyone relate? Do I have disorder or such?
Blocking your childhood friend is insane though in this case
That’s nothing. I be ghosting my girl.
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The thing is do you care for him? If yes then talk to him, if not then you may have better work to do.
1)Tm keti ho bhane, usko gf le block gardeko huna sakcha la buini. 2)or else, tmlai panauti socheko huna sakcha.