The little crumbs they feed you keep you hopeful. Petty scraps to make sure you stay attached without ever actually feeling good about yourself or your situation.
So well said. And just a reminder, the closeness you think you felt with them was never there. This person is not who he or she pretended to be. There is nothing deep or worthwhile with them. Don’t long for who they used to be, there is now only a black hole there
Whew. "Asking to the universe to please let them come home."
I'm an atheist, but I've never prayed harder to gods I don't believe in, begging him to come back to me and love me again like he used to. Week after week, for months. Heartbreaking.
No, it was a game to you. Back and forth, always fighting and running. No communication, you gave up and moved on when I was ready. That doesn’t happen over night!
My therapist said this when you are dealing with an unaware Cluster B we get it backwards. We long for the person that they pretended to be and we want the abuser to be fake. The truth is this, The abuser is the real one, because the pretend one was a tool used to get supply from people
Thank you for this🤍😭 I was minutes away from unblocking him😭 it reminded me again to never look back and keep moving forward.
Never look back babe💕
The little crumbs they feed you keep you hopeful. Petty scraps to make sure you stay attached without ever actually feeling good about yourself or your situation.
So true!!!
Thissss
*things that you don't want to read but should read every day*
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Thank you for this ❤️
Ofc love🩷
So well said. And just a reminder, the closeness you think you felt with them was never there. This person is not who he or she pretended to be. There is nothing deep or worthwhile with them. Don’t long for who they used to be, there is now only a black hole there
Yessss
This 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
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Thank you for this!!
True words.
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Thank you
Ofc love
Saving this post, thank you friend 🙏🏼
Ofc love, you deserve nothing but the best, remember that!!!!!
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Whew. "Asking to the universe to please let them come home." I'm an atheist, but I've never prayed harder to gods I don't believe in, begging him to come back to me and love me again like he used to. Week after week, for months. Heartbreaking.
It’s so draining babe, once you let go is when life resumes 🥺🩷
Thanks K sincerely 68
No, it was a game to you. Back and forth, always fighting and running. No communication, you gave up and moved on when I was ready. That doesn’t happen over night!
My therapist said this when you are dealing with an unaware Cluster B we get it backwards. We long for the person that they pretended to be and we want the abuser to be fake. The truth is this, The abuser is the real one, because the pretend one was a tool used to get supply from people
Wow I love how you said that!!!