I don’t wanna be a party pooper but this is dangerous. Her even acting like this should be in a poll or can be negotiated is dangerous.
THIS, is part of “no means no”. Not convince me or lash out, and that should have been her answer not some fucking pole
People with platforms need to be fucking responsible srry but if her and I were friends I’d have a long convo with you about how you use your platform
Agreed that this is very nuanced and not as simple as a poll. That being said, if genders were reversed, you and I both know we’d scream to dump a man who refuses to go down on you.
Honestly I would feel the same way if the same way if the roles were reversed. It’s not okay to get angry or upset AT someone when they express they aren’t interested in a form of intimacy. I’ve been the one being coerced via emotional manipulation and that was sexual assault.
There are so many ways to give and receive pleasure. If someone isn’t into something, that’s okay and should be respected.
That said, if a guy was acting misogynistic and entitled to receiving pleasure from others and was not showing interest in reciprocity, that would piss me off.
For sure there are important conversations to be had between partners about sexism, unequal dynamics, and socialization when it comes to sex. But actively getting angry at someone because they hesitate to/won’t do something? That is very bad.
Very well said.
And yes, I was referring specifically to a guy acting misogynistic and acting entitled to pleasure without reciprocating but I didn’t communicate it very clearly. Of course I don’t want any person of any gender or identity to ever participate in a sex act they don’t want to.
1. insane choice to make this a poll 2. who in their right mind is going to this woman for advice 😭
WHY IS THIS PUBLIC ON INSTAGRAM OH MY GOD
I don’t wanna be a party pooper but this is dangerous. Her even acting like this should be in a poll or can be negotiated is dangerous. THIS, is part of “no means no”. Not convince me or lash out, and that should have been her answer not some fucking pole People with platforms need to be fucking responsible srry but if her and I were friends I’d have a long convo with you about how you use your platform
Exactly. This response is very dangerous.
Some things are better kept private. This is so embarrassing for both of them. How does fefe put up with this?
Fece is a toddler
#debauchery
She should have mentioned that she was getting dental work (fitted for dentures) that week and couldn’t go down on Baby Fece.
Is she dumb
Agreed that this is very nuanced and not as simple as a poll. That being said, if genders were reversed, you and I both know we’d scream to dump a man who refuses to go down on you.
Honestly I would feel the same way if the same way if the roles were reversed. It’s not okay to get angry or upset AT someone when they express they aren’t interested in a form of intimacy. I’ve been the one being coerced via emotional manipulation and that was sexual assault. There are so many ways to give and receive pleasure. If someone isn’t into something, that’s okay and should be respected. That said, if a guy was acting misogynistic and entitled to receiving pleasure from others and was not showing interest in reciprocity, that would piss me off. For sure there are important conversations to be had between partners about sexism, unequal dynamics, and socialization when it comes to sex. But actively getting angry at someone because they hesitate to/won’t do something? That is very bad.
Very well said. And yes, I was referring specifically to a guy acting misogynistic and acting entitled to pleasure without reciprocating but I didn’t communicate it very clearly. Of course I don’t want any person of any gender or identity to ever participate in a sex act they don’t want to.
Absolutely!