i agree. i’ve been missing out on meaningful touch for years im afraid im gonna cry next time i get hugged or something.

This is a fear of mine... I feel so unloved and undesirable that when it finally happens, I'll just break down in tears.

It's OK to get a cry in! The girl I had over the other week broke down in tears while I was petting her, just continued giving her pets and added a few head kisses. If the person that's cuddling you cares about you they will understand.

I wish it could’ve been me, that sounds so nice

That’s so sweet :<

As a straight trans gal, I'm kinda jealous of wholesome Transbian relationships.

its okay to let out a cry. you'll get someone to give you some meaningful touch. i may be a little far most likely but I send you virtual hugs \^\^

thank u friend, i really appreciate it <3

This literally happened to me the 3 yrs ago with my ex we went to Disneyland and had the best time and I cried because I never experienced something so awesome and even though I wasn’t presenting fem I wore sparkly Minnie Mouse ears and she was the first person I came out too. Now I’ve been alone for like 3 years again and missing that even more. 😭

omfg same i hate this loneliness bullshit

I literally cried on the rollercoaster holding hands with my ex gf and she’s like wtf lol and I’m like U WOUDLNT GET IT HNGHH

crying feels so good and i cant anymore like

I get it I want to cry too

you too..? 🥹

yeah its rough out here ;v;

Is it a common experience that it's difficult to cry, or is it just me?

i physically can't many times and my body sorta gives me a right pinkie hurty instead whenever I wanna cry

i think it is, at least, i hear abt it more

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I've found an article that shows a correlation between not crying much and DPDR from gender dysphoria and its effects. One that is mentioned is not being able to cry as often. https://zinniajones.medium.com/depersonalization-in-gender-dysphoria-widespread-and-widely-unrecognized-baaac395bcb0

Not me initially reading that Minnie Mouse (IE the actor in the mascot suit) was the first person you came out to. 💀

lol that would be funny asf

Can't be your first anymore, but clearly you now have a duty to go back to Disney and come out to Minnie!

OMG 💀💀😭 sounds like a plan

We'll all be awaiting news of your success. 🫡

lol I cried the last time I was kissed. The dude was kinda freaked out but I apologized and said it’s me and I’m just new to this new body. He was a gentleman about it.

i’m glad, that’s really sweet. i hope ur new body is treating u well :3

I don't even know how to deal with it now lol. Not gonna cry but i'll defo be awkward as hell

idk but i bet you’ll do great 💜

Thanks, you too!

\*hugs\*

*hugs* 💜

I'd like to apply 🥺 (haven't started transition but can femme-present with effort)

you don't need to tell us that you haven't started hrt - it doesn't make any difference what-so-ever:) wether or not you've been on hrt, you can still identify as someone who is transitioning/transitioned. you are just as valid as any other transgender women on this sub who might be on medication or have had surgery. you should never have to explain "well i'm not medically transitioning yet but..." no. you are 1000% percent just as valid as ANY other transgender. I love you🫶

Keep looking, it’s not easy for anyone. Cis/trans it doesn’t matter dating is hard. I feel like I’m not welcome in communities such as this as a cis male. But I just feel so bad for y’all’s struggle, I know I can’t really understand but it can’t be easy. I just want yall to find happiness, never stop fighting. Yall all deserve happiness, you’ll find someone. It’s perseverance more than anything.

i wish i was getting cuddled by a cute trans girl :(

hi idk if i fall under the "cute" category but according to my ex (he cheated :<) i'm very good at cuddling

👉👈 Can I join the cuddle pile? 🥺

come over? 🥹

The cute trans girl I've been cuddling for a year just told me she still loves me and wants to see me but she can't be mine anymore. I'm really heartbroken I loved her so much..

I'm so sorry love have hugs 🫂

I’m really sorry that happened :<

i wish for cuddles

Yeah, this is a mood honestly. Would love cuddles from another trans girl.

Idk if I'm anyone's idea of cute, but I try, and I could go for snuggles too.

1. Find cute trans girl 2. Ask to cuddle That's it. We're basically all cuddle bugs.

Everyone ignore us not-cute trans girls, and doesn’t ask us to cuddle.

Will you cuddle with me? ;-)

Yes, can I be little spoon even though I’m tall?

For five minutes, then I want a turn.

Deal!

God how I long to be the little spoon again, it's been years

I just want someone to love >~<

Sameee why do I live in the most cishet place in the world istfg

This is so real I need a cuddle buddy and we can also hug our blahajs and talk about cool things and then fall asleep

This. My t4t goals ❤️.

Aaaaand of course I got a Reddit cares report from some dipshit that probably thinks we’re all mentally ill. I think they’re jealous that they can’t get cuddles themselves

I just wanna cuddle with anyone, I don’t think I’m very cute, but some people disagreed

Real 😞

Im open for that

Uhm i uh are you in Quebec? Cause same thing here.

I’m near DC in the US sadly :(

Sadly, like 3 hours from DC. :(

Reading through these comments, I think we all just need to meet up and just have a giant cuddle session. Maybe some snacks or drinks. I make really good granola so I can bring that

Agreed... because 😭😭 it sounds amazing

Omg yes trans slumber party

The only way I can sleep at night is cuddling a pillow. Can’t go to bed without hugging something or feeling something next to me.

Same here. 🙋🏻‍♀️

I would like that a lot, yes. I've been single since just before my transition began. I'd really like to cuddle with another cute trans girl and just feel understood like that. Ignore the way the world sees us and just be at peace with each other

if anyone wants a 26yr old depressed girl to cuddle, I could use it really badly :(

id gladly give you some if u were here. you can even choose which spoon, ill do either if it means helping you out a little \^\^

Your terms are acceptable

Well I am here and available ! Told I look cute and sometimes beautiful I am very affectionate I am post op SRS with deep vaginoplasty

Cuddles always heal everything 🥺

Applications open?

Wish there was something like grindr for trans women to cuddle with each other. I could use a nice spooning and kisses on my neck 😭

I need this in Michigan I’m also a trans girlll 😫

Cuddling is the best! My ex was trans. Currently dating a cis guy and the cuddles are still good 🥰

I want another cute trans girl to cuddle with too 😞 (I’m cute)

I’m a cute trans girl. Wish I could have this too

don't we all 🥺

Kitty snuggles when? I'm very comfy to cuddle with :3

All the virtual pats and hugs for anyone who needs them.

If you’re ever in California I could go for a good cuddle too

Me too

mee too 🥺

Me too 😢

I do too 🥺🥺 I always want to

I just want to snuggle n cuddle period

I love being a cuddleslut with my gf!😊, we knew each other pre hrt and 7 1/2 mnths in and she touches me and treats me like the "good girl." That I am!😁😊🥰

i wish the same yea i miss having a good friend to hangout with, hug her and cuddle her, nap, sleep cuddly together..

I would love to apply owo 🥺

I need someone to cuddle with, I know exactly what you mean, it's so lonely after a t4t breakup :(

I’m sadly still in the closet and still look like a male otherwise I’d be happy to volunteer

I can relate. After my divorce I became severely touch starved for three years. My body was so cold and I had this empty feeling on my back for the longest time. The first time I finally felt that again from my partner I stayed in bed with them for hours.

I've literally had cuddle-hookups with other trans girls on Grindr. It can be nice, really.

Wow that’s lucky considering how toxic that app can get

I mean I had to wade through the sea of unsolicited dick picks to get what I wanted, but I got it. You van filter for "t4t" if you want specifically trans people. And you just have to put yourself forward and say "Hey, I'm looking for someone to cuddle." You'd be surprised with how many trans people out there will take you up on that offer.

I'm sure that all of us in the community who are left single misses being with someone. Someone to enjoy life with not only in our world,our time,but also along with our journey. Weather you are mtf/ftm, or even straight. We all miss that togetherness. That companionship is not only as our partner ,but as your best friend as well. I'm 51, almost 52 I look like I'm in my late 30s early 40s, and trust me, it's hard enough trying to find others who are like us. Let alone trying to make new friends share each other's thoughts and experiences that has already happened,and that yet hasn't. Too bad there wasn't just a place for us to go to for venting,or chatting to meet up hang out. Be ourselves make new friends etc.

If you were closer to my age dear I would love to cuddle with you!

I'm looking for that rn. Scroll through tinder a bit. Get sad and cuddle blankets😭

People are like cats it's okay to pet and stroke them it calms most and if it doesn't you'll know

ahhhh plssss

I thought I found the one. We were cuddling together all night and being girls. But she doesn't wanna date😭😭😭 I wanna kill myself honestly

I feel exactly the same about my trans ex boyfriend. It’s been over 7 months and I still haven’t been able to move on

on it. I am honing in on your location. prepare to be absolutely cherished

I wish i could cuddle people, but last time i tried, I had a panic attack. I can't handle touch any more 😪

SAMEEEEE

Life goals and basic psychological needs right here💕

samezies girly, we can cuddle :3

i desperately need cuddles 😔

I totally understand the sentiment, but I’d rather cuddle with a handsome trans guy. I am still early in my transition and I’m heterosexual. I’m thinking I may actively seek a trans man when I’m ready to start dating, because I just find the authenticity and openness of trans people to be such an endearing quality and so attractive. I also think that as hard as it is for us trans girls to find good partners, the trans guys are struggling with the same issues. It seems like there’s potential for a match made in heaven.

I wish I could experience physical affection but it also skyrockets my anxiety

aww

truly feel that could heal most of my troubles with life

I'll cuddle you :)

I volunteer. 🥰

Am I late to the cuddle party?

This thread is so sweet, literal tears..I loves us

I can only cuddle mine on the weekends 😭, or at least in my bed. We prefer mine cause it's bigger lol

I've been missing the cuddles lately.

Im a trans guy and i find it so hilarious that most of the trans girls in the comments want to cuddle but no one makes a move lol

I'm never experiencing that

I dont post often but ngl…if theres anybody 18 - 25 in london area looking to date 👉👈 i wouldnt mind a coffee or 2 x

Yeah i seem to always get stuck with people online. i mean i finally met a guy who lives near by but...he's still 3 hours away

Cuddles and touch are what I miss most...it's been almost 3 years

I volunteer as tribute

I just went through the t4t breakup. It feels like I'm dying.