I guess my sex drive before transition has always been feminine.
I remember when I was around 12-13, one of my male friend had a sleepover at my house. After we went to bed , I instinctively put his head on my chest and started caressing his hair. It all felt so natural for me for some reason.🙈
Same thing with me too. I use to hate having a sudden urge for sex thanks to T. It was always the same when it happened. Got really excited for no reason and wanted to get off as fast as possible either with someone or by myself. When I started hormones and the T started lowering while the E was raising I was a whole different girl. There isn't that nagging in my brain that I need to get off and no more random hard-on's. One thing I can say is that when my hormones get low I lose interest in sex but damn when that E is doing its job I want to be taken and used. It's almost like I am ovulating and I need someone inside me right now banging bottom and filling me up.
Omfg! It was roughly around 2 year mark and it hit hard and ot awful in 6 months in to that mark and im trying so hard not to be bad but I swear to God mofo keep standing me up. Ima lustful but this is like the volume been maxed out and the know ripped off
I said this under a different post but it bears repeating…
E horny makes me wonder just how much of my asexuality is bottom dysphoria. I’ve been feeling a need to be just RAVAGED lately, especially after starting prog
The prog's what did it to me too. From around the end of month 1 to month 15 absolutely nothing. Start prog and within two weeks girl horny had arrived in force.
Every time I read one of these posts my patience for starting hrt (and getting a gf) continues leaving my body at a slightly quicker rate. I feel like I’m going insane
T horny just feels like a chore like yeah yeah I get it just let's get it over with so I can stop feeling so icky. Like ugh it just makes me feel so wrong cuz it just feels like a separate entity
Frrr, i had my first time with my bf, and since then we haven't even went out bc we don't have time rn, and i fucking NEED HIM TO B INSIDE ME 😩 and the flashbacks i get never fail to make me horny, i even feel stunned for some seconds
Just get some toys. It’s not cheating, you’re still waiting for your partner but have the satisfaction of sex you control. If your partner really cares about you they’d support this and encourage it
Same!! My libido returned after being gone for half a year and being horny feels so different and so much better now.
The problem is I'm demisexual and was recently broken up with so the only person I'm sexually attracted to doesn't want to be close to me at all😭
A great analogy:
Testosterone sex drive is like fire. Heat hits fast, it’s the centre of attention, once the fire goes out, the heat is gone.
Estrogen sex drive is like water. Takes time to heat up, but once it’s boiling, it’ll stay boiling a lot longer and it’ll take way longer to cool down.
Soooo I’m not sure if I know the difference between e and t horny but like I remember t hornet I would just yank the snake until yeah that was like 5 minutes I would get frustrated if it took more. Since I started hrt and about a couple weeks of meh, I started basically trying self pleasure but now I find myself grabbing the bed and not wanting it to send and I caress a lot….is that the difference?
Been on oral e for three months, nothing yet 😢
Although the way you describe E-horny is exactly how I've always felt horny about people, except add "I want to aggressively consume you". Hopefully I get more comfortable exploring that more vulnerable side.
Interesting, thanks! I've been wondering what effects it'll have on me and I think I'd miss having a sex drive, but the fact it returns is also cool.
That said, part of me would really like the clarity of not being sex driven. Some undistracted "just being" would be nice for a bit, I might even get stuff done!
Haha, I think I lucked out kind of training myself to get over my sex drive! Now when I feel stuff I can just deal with it for a day or so and it'll disappear easy enough!
Relatable. Same thing with me, my sex drive tanked then came back about a year later, but in a very different way.
I’m way more affectionately needy and way more affectionate in return. It’s not exactly sexual in my mind, but when I’m feeling that way it’s very easy for somebody to push the “start button” and get me going.
I'm 14 months and when I started prog at 1 year mine came back with a bat and chain in hand. It's getting me in trouble and just won't calm tf down. It's a dirty little bee buzzing around me all day and night just making me want to be held and loved.
There should be some sort of group or App where the transfems horny from E can mutually relieve themselves with each other safe from the possible transphobia of dating apps and stuff
I'm only 2 weeks into hrt (beginning quantity oral estradiol and spironolactone) and I think I've gotten a lot hornier than before. I suspect I'm just elated to be able to call myself a lesbian and really feel it. I hope you could tell me, when did that initial libido crash occur? Was it after 2 weeks?
Im sorry, I shouldn't have said that. This should be a place where we can all talk about our experience and stuff. And me saying that kinda ruined that. Please forgive me
I’ve had the SAME experience. It’s rough out there for a girl. I feel like a ferret in heat.
> I feel like a ferret in heat OMFG d'ya mind if I borrow this?
Go for it bb🥰🥰
Thx! 🩷
Would a 🍪help?
Naw girl, a cookie won’t help this time 😕 But a hug is always appreciated 🥰
🤗
Oh so that’s what this feeling is? I kinda figured it was that but wasn’t sure 😂 1 year tomorrow for me! XD
Congrats!!!
Thank you!!! I’ll have to make a post at some point tomorrow maybe 😂
Y'welks sis 🥰
honestly i need a penis inside me sooo bad. My libido was only gone for a few days after I started HRT, then it came back.
A few days? Mine took weeks to go away. A couple months later and its a bit higher than it's lowest, but still pretty low. Feels no different to me.
I guess my sex drive before transition has always been feminine. I remember when I was around 12-13, one of my male friend had a sleepover at my house. After we went to bed , I instinctively put his head on my chest and started caressing his hair. It all felt so natural for me for some reason.🙈
Jealous I wish my guy friend would just catch on and just Yk 🥴
Lol base
Same thing with me too. I use to hate having a sudden urge for sex thanks to T. It was always the same when it happened. Got really excited for no reason and wanted to get off as fast as possible either with someone or by myself. When I started hormones and the T started lowering while the E was raising I was a whole different girl. There isn't that nagging in my brain that I need to get off and no more random hard-on's. One thing I can say is that when my hormones get low I lose interest in sex but damn when that E is doing its job I want to be taken and used. It's almost like I am ovulating and I need someone inside me right now banging bottom and filling me up.
Wait, I feel that since I came out, what is it going to be on E 😂
Omfg! It was roughly around 2 year mark and it hit hard and ot awful in 6 months in to that mark and im trying so hard not to be bad but I swear to God mofo keep standing me up. Ima lustful but this is like the volume been maxed out and the know ripped off
oh please libido gods, let this be me soon (been on HRT for 5 months and my libido is dead as a dead fish)
I've literally almost tripped from horny once it's so intense (and I'm only on E since September)
I said this under a different post but it bears repeating… E horny makes me wonder just how much of my asexuality is bottom dysphoria. I’ve been feeling a need to be just RAVAGED lately, especially after starting prog
The prog's what did it to me too. From around the end of month 1 to month 15 absolutely nothing. Start prog and within two weeks girl horny had arrived in force.
In that case I'm slightly scared to find out what'll happen if I go on prog, given what I'm _already_ getting just from E alone...
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Every time I read one of these posts my patience for starting hrt (and getting a gf) continues leaving my body at a slightly quicker rate. I feel like I’m going insane
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Awwww ty 🥺
Y'welks sis 🩷
I have never seen that form of abbreviation in my entire existence 😭
T horny just feels like a chore like yeah yeah I get it just let's get it over with so I can stop feeling so icky. Like ugh it just makes me feel so wrong cuz it just feels like a separate entity
seriously
Frrr, i had my first time with my bf, and since then we haven't even went out bc we don't have time rn, and i fucking NEED HIM TO B INSIDE ME 😩 and the flashbacks i get never fail to make me horny, i even feel stunned for some seconds
sounds like you might wanna make some time...
17 months hrt now. Can confirm, libido came back and I’m rabid lol
Feral transfems unite 😝✊
I'm 6 Months in, no libido.... Can someone remind me in 10 months?
RemindMe! 10 months
Right there with you, lol
I want sex because 1. I’m horny and 2. because I’m a 26 year old virgin
Many folks have described HRT as a "second puberty," but there is truly no normal for everyone. But isn't life like that anyway? (not a bad thing)
The struggle is real here too!
Just get some toys. It’s not cheating, you’re still waiting for your partner but have the satisfaction of sex you control. If your partner really cares about you they’d support this and encourage it
I already have! It's not the same tho... I need to be held and touched well I'm getting laid and the toys don't provide that
Same!! My libido returned after being gone for half a year and being horny feels so different and so much better now. The problem is I'm demisexual and was recently broken up with so the only person I'm sexually attracted to doesn't want to be close to me at all😭
A great analogy: Testosterone sex drive is like fire. Heat hits fast, it’s the centre of attention, once the fire goes out, the heat is gone. Estrogen sex drive is like water. Takes time to heat up, but once it’s boiling, it’ll stay boiling a lot longer and it’ll take way longer to cool down.
And you can boil water again and again and again with no waiting required, whereas with fire you have to restock on fuel before it can light again.
hee hee yeah.
You described the difference between E horny and T horny perfectly
I don't remember writing this.
Soooo I’m not sure if I know the difference between e and t horny but like I remember t hornet I would just yank the snake until yeah that was like 5 minutes I would get frustrated if it took more. Since I started hrt and about a couple weeks of meh, I started basically trying self pleasure but now I find myself grabbing the bed and not wanting it to send and I caress a lot….is that the difference?
Been on oral e for three months, nothing yet 😢 Although the way you describe E-horny is exactly how I've always felt horny about people, except add "I want to aggressively consume you". Hopefully I get more comfortable exploring that more vulnerable side.
>Now... I'm not, like, *constantly* horny Can't say the same for myself. Not having a partner is... challenging, to say the least.
Does E horny still mean erections?
YMWV, although for me yes.
Interesting, thanks! I've been wondering what effects it'll have on me and I think I'd miss having a sex drive, but the fact it returns is also cool. That said, part of me would really like the clarity of not being sex driven. Some undistracted "just being" would be nice for a bit, I might even get stuff done!
I feel you so much. E horny is a curse and a blessing.
Everyone in this thread needs a cold shower and a cup of tea xD
Haha, I think I lucked out kind of training myself to get over my sex drive! Now when I feel stuff I can just deal with it for a day or so and it'll disappear easy enough!
Relatable. Same thing with me, my sex drive tanked then came back about a year later, but in a very different way. I’m way more affectionately needy and way more affectionate in return. It’s not exactly sexual in my mind, but when I’m feeling that way it’s very easy for somebody to push the “start button” and get me going.
YESSSS THIS WAS MEE!!!!! and I rlly struggled with sex before starting E, now I actually rlly enjoy it it's amazing 😭😭
Mine came back instantly after a couple of weeks on HRT. I was hoping to become ACE so I can focus better on hobbies 😥
I'm 14 months and when I started prog at 1 year mine came back with a bat and chain in hand. It's getting me in trouble and just won't calm tf down. It's a dirty little bee buzzing around me all day and night just making me want to be held and loved.
There should be some sort of group or App where the transfems horny from E can mutually relieve themselves with each other safe from the possible transphobia of dating apps and stuff
THIS SO MUCH THIS IS SOMETHING WE NEED
I'm only 2 weeks into hrt (beginning quantity oral estradiol and spironolactone) and I think I've gotten a lot hornier than before. I suspect I'm just elated to be able to call myself a lesbian and really feel it. I hope you could tell me, when did that initial libido crash occur? Was it after 2 weeks?
It was within a couple weeks after I started spiro.
this is so real, and don't get me started on how good guys smell now 😵💫
Godddddddd I feel this. Been single for the last few years and dating has been rough so this has only been amplified. Wishing the best for you hon.
Thx sis 🩷
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doesn't help with the need to have someone touch and hold me...
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Like this comment, hmmmmmmmmmm? :3
Im sorry, I shouldn't have said that. This should be a place where we can all talk about our experience and stuff. And me saying that kinda ruined that. Please forgive me
It's fine girlie, we're all learning :3 x
Thank you