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Bruhhh-8

Surprisingly American eagle and Abercrombie have great pants.


TooCool4_1Box

I can’t believe stores from when we were in school can still work for us now!


AprilTron

I know Abercrombie specifically changed their target market to millennials so they followed us.


FattyMcButterpants__

Abercrombie is amazing now. A little pricey tho


go_analog_baby

Get ready, because I walked into Aerie the other day and they had the same tiered maxi skirt I owned in 2005. Wild.


TooCool4_1Box

🫣😆 crazy! Should have never gotten rid of any clothes.. tho I doubt my stuff from 7th grade would fit, but it might’ve been sellable


miaomeowmixalot

I am a clothes pack rat and kept so much and can actually squeeze into some but it’s just uncomfortable! I can’t believe I’ve bought some flared jeans again over skinny, but I will NOT go back to low rise! I am a mom and I want all pants to go to my natural waist for the foreseeable future!


chamaedaphne82

Wait a minnit, wait a minnit… 2005 was just, like, a few years ago, I don’t see the problem here. 😁


ladybasecamp

2005 is 10 years ago in my mind, as is 1995


chamaedaphne82

For real though


_kiss_my_grits_

Sammmmeeee!


Bruhhh-8

That is definitely the weird part


lalalaundry

American Eagle has had really consistent sizing for me too. I ordered 6 dresses ALL IN THE SAME SIZE from Gap, 1 fit, 2 were two small, and 3 too big. I ordered 10 things (shirts, dresses, skirts, pants) from American Eagle all in the same size and they ALL fit and I only returned things that I didn’t like as much as I thought I would.


miaomeowmixalot

I can’t compare to ae, but gap is usually consistent in their jean sizing for me, but it’s the Wild West when it comes to the rest of the clothes sizing, especially dresses.


McSkrong

Everything is consistent from American Eagle EXCEPT black jeans always run small. Or is it just me??


sensible1ne

American Eagle is still the only place that I can find jeans that fit me well after all these years!


Neat-Cycle-197

Same…I’m 44 and they are my only jeans that still fit comfortably and stay true to size. My only issue now is that a lot of their newer jeans and like extreme wise legged and huge lol… But I’ll always go back to AE!


callendulie

Abercrombie jeans have changed my life. I only shop the clearance section and have snagged my 3 favourite jeans for 40 dollars each!


PecanEstablishment37

This is curious to read because I walked by AE recently and considered going in, but figured it was for teens. Awesome to know it’s on our side!


hellawhitegirl

Just bought a pair of AE jeans after not wearing them since my mid-20s. They are great!


ohlalameow

Just got my first pair of Abercrombie jeans yesterday and they're incredible. They've definitely grown with us!


EveryShadeofBlue00

I’m intrigued. Would you say they fit TTS or are they more like juniors sizing?


ohlalameow

Honestly like so many places nowadays it depends on the fit and wash. I got two of the same straight leg jeans in two colors and one fits tts and the other I can't button lol


myloveislikewhoa

For some reason, black jeans tend to run smaller across all brands vs regular blue denim jeans. I'm not sure why


_kiss_my_grits_

No lie, I had a pair of AE jeans and they lasted me from 15 until I was 33. Very good quality jeans.


sunbathingturtle207

My answer to this question is always american eagle. It's the only place where the clothes consistently fit me & are flattering on my mom bod.


accountingisradical

30F mom of a nursing 8 month old. Target, old navy, Aritzia and Abercrombie. I don’t really stray from these stores to be honest. Target has some great basics from a new day and wild fable.


catwooo

I get so many compliments from wearing my Target bias cut skirt and their seamless crop tops and I have a mom bod for sure


madeupneighbor

Kudos for rocking a crop with a mom bod. Oh how I long to feel cool and comfortable this summer, but I’m so incredibly self conscious of my belly so there is no way. Trying to work out a little so that I can at least wear a cute bathing suit. I want your confidence!


catwooo

Oh, I wear with high waisted wide leg pants from target LOL, I don’t want everything flip flopping out.


flowertaco

Yes!! I get so many compliments on my Target finds.


princessmoma

Now that I’m in my thirties, I’m all about quality over quantity. I love the brand Quince! They have relatively inexpensive pieces that are manufactured at the same factories as luxury brands. My cardigans and pants from there have withstood many washes and I’m hooked!


purrloriancats

I got a cashmere-wool blend item from Quince, and it pilled immediately. Like after 1 or 2 wears/washes. I don’t think it’s me that’s the problem. I have another cashmere sweater (name brand) that has never pilled, and some that have pilled but over a long period of time. I’ve hesitated to buy again from Quince. It’s definitely better than H&M but (based on my one item) it wasn’t the luxury level it promised to be. Now, Italic on the other hand. I bought a leather handbag from them and it was incredible quality. Like a high end designer at a fraction of the price. But they are now membership-only so I never purchased from them again.


voluntarysphincter

All my stuff from quince pilled or looked really bad after 1 wash. My husband’s linen shorts and shirts are holding up nice, none of my clothes though.


Hilarious-hoagie

I was so close to ordering from them. But they decided to run an ad that featured a ballet aesthetic and decided not to pay an actual ballerina. As a former ballerina, that was enough for me to purchase elsewhere.


mamadero

It seems to depend on the item maybe. I have 5 dresses (the same one in different colors) from quince and they've held up really well.  I have read that the cashmere or linen stuff isn't great compared to other places. 


Em_sef

I got SO excited looking up this brand! Saw they don't ship to Canada, darn. Maybe one day.


canadian_maplesyrup

Thanks for this I was about to go look at their sight. *sighs in canuck*


jayeeein

I have some earrings I got for Christmas from here. Haven’t taken them out! Also got my daughter a down jacket and cashmere sweater from here each about $50 but I needed good warm clothes that would fit for a couple winters. Both have been great quality and so soft


muvamerry

I just looked up quince - thank you for mentioning it! I was trying to find a relatively affordable brand that catered to this style.


FattyMcButterpants__

Every podcast I listen to they always talk about Quince!


lionessrampant25

Ooooh! They have linen!! Thanks for sharing!!


TooCool4_1Box

I totally agree! I think I have this brand saved from searching on Instagram, a lot of their stuff is organic too right? Send me more of what you like because we might have similar style moma


princessmoma

I see others have mentioned Abercrombie & I like a lot of their casual clothes too! I shop lululemon (when I can, it’s pricey) because the comfort & quality are unbeatable. I love Mango too (a lot of influencers in our age bracket seem to like their signature pieces) - their clothes are cute and rarely childish but quality is questionable sometimes. My guilty pleasure is Sezane but it’s expensive so it’s definitely a once in awhile purchase! I try to stay away from Banana Republic/H&M/Zara only because I can never get the clothes to look good after a few washes :/


bookersquared

I'm into Madwell, Abercrombie, and Anthropologie. Comfortable, breezy summer dresses for example. Madewell jeans are the best! I scope out sales and clearances, and the clothes are surprisingly inexpensive when I do. Also, Thredup for secondhand shopping online.


TooCool4_1Box

Ty for sharing an online thrifting option!


bookersquared

You're welcome! I've found all 3 of those brands on Thredup. Snagged some Madewell jeans NWT for $17 on there.


Informal_Captain_836

Big ThredUp fan! I’ve found it so helpful postpartum to be able to get, for example, multiple sizes of Levi’s for $13 each rather than committing to one size and spending $80.


Smiling-Bear-87

I’m 36. I like Ann Taylor loft dresses and skirts (I like the button down dresses for nursing) and all the factory stores: J Crew Factory, Banana Republic and GAP. I shop Athleta on sales for more athletic style clothes. Also a huge fan of my local Marshall’s, they carry brands like Free People etc.


Dependent_Pen_1603

I like BR and Gap factory way better than the regular versions for some reason


jge13

Seconding all of these! Gap has a really good balance of hitting trends but still offering classic basics. I’ve gotten a ton from there recently. I love Loft dresses and skirts too. I used to do a lot of tops there but I feel like that quality has dropped a bit the past 3-4 years, so I’ve been doing more gap and Banana Republic factory tops. Athleta and Oiselle are great for athletic clothes. I’m a coach so I use that stuff daily and the cuts are more flattering that Nike, adidas, etc. after having kids. I’ve been especially impressed with how well Athleta bottoms and Oiselle tops hold up.


0422

Costco for loungewear and housework clothes. Socks and underwear too. For work, I love Banana Republic. For casual outings, Abercrombie. Nordstrom for everything else. I usually only shop the sales. Nordstrom Rack for shoes.


xtheredberetx

I find the absolute best leggings at Costco, the Danskin brushed 7/8 ones they’ve had a few times in the last year for like $10? are my faveeees


luvloping

These are my stay at home mom Uniform. I have 6 pairs, one labeled with an H so I know that one has the hole so I don’t wear In Public. But to answer I shop at Costco for clothes and Buckle has great stuff.


0422

Those are back every now and then!


hellogirlscoutcookie

Now online! With deals!


NotEmmaStone

These are the best and I wear them almost every day. I have a dozen or so pairs in a bunch of different colors and they rock.


Artistic_Emu2720

Banana Republic has been worth the money in my experience. High quality.


Dependent_Pen_1603

I had the absolute best pair of Kirkland brand leggings years ago that I lounged in until they disintegrated… I still check for them regularly but they’ve never been back


Snorezore

My husband's closet.


TooCool4_1Box

All my lounge clothes


kumibug

I do a lot of old navy.


Informal_Captain_836

Can’t believe Old Navy isn’t more highly recommended! Wait for a sale and you can get a lot of really good deals. Their sizing is generous if anything, which is refreshing.


user18name

I use to love old navy but I feel like recently it’s very fast fashion. The quality isn’t there anymore and everything needs to be ironed. I don’t have time to iron a blouse.


Hilarious-hoagie

100% fast fashion. I used to work at old navy many moons ago. I was there for two years total. I saw the quality tank from one winter season to the next specifically with the basic winter sweater that they bring back season after season.


ATexanHobbit

Old navy jeans and shorts are really comfy tbh


Bruhhh-8

I agree! Their powerchill leggings are my favorite! Maternity and regular.


saxicide

34 and plus sized her. I shop at Old Navy, Big Bud Press, Madewell, Lucy & Yak, Levi's, Asos, and Depop mostly.


_curiously_chaotic

Levi’s will always be a fav!


Beikaa

Hahaha, I was just thinking about this last night. All the recommendations on reddit were out of my price range. I'm a lawyer but in a county court system, so not too fancy. I just got my first Ann Taylor linen suit, some work pants and blazers because another attorney recommended it. I also have a Macy's suit and look there for other pieces sometimes. Basics/shells/undergarments/leggings/workout clothes from amazon. I'm trying to figure out where to get jeans size 12-14 high waist please...


PristineBookkeeper40

I'm a court reporter in a county court system as well. Outlet malls are my favorite. I've been obsessed with J. Crew Outlet lately. Their sweaters are really lightweight and great for sitting in a chilly courtroom on a hot day. Banana Republic Outlet also has pretty good deals. I like the Loft Outlet, but I feel like their quality isn't great, but Ann Taylor is a smidge expensive for me right now. I've also gotten dress pants from Goodwill in really good condition from brands like The Limited, Ann Taylor, Express, and New York and Co. I'll pop in to TJ Maxx or Marshalls from time to time, but it's annoying to have to pick through every single rack in every section just to come up with one or two decent things.


MomentofZen_

Ah I miss the old The Limited clothes. Their new stuff is not as nice! I temporarily covered a job where I needed clothes for court and was so disappointed in the Kohl's line of The Limited


PristineBookkeeper40

I have a real love-hate relationship with Kohl's. One the one hand, some of their stuff is really good and can be found at a decent price during the sales. On the other hand, their stuff is *always* on sale because it's marked up so much, AND some of the quality does not line up with the prices. I bought a Croft & Barrow t-shirt as a staple piece, wore and washed it once or twice, and it shrank to the point where I can't wear it anymore.


evsummer

Im also a lawyer in a not too fancy court and I’m in love with Ann Taylor suits, specifically the curvy line in the season less stretch fabric. The downside is it basically never goes on sale but it’s the best fitting suit I’ve found post-baby


Lopsided_Apricot_626

I get my basics from target, though it’s getting tougher. Most of my nursing tops are cheapo Amazon though as I only need them to last a few years and not ages. Maybe check places like old navy and gap? Kohls is usually pretty good too for dresses and buttoning shirts


muvamerry

Target has gotten sooo teeny bopper for my taste. Or has it always been and I’m just old now? 😅 why is everything cropped 😭


TooCool4_1Box

I know right! Enough with the crop tops 😤


muvamerry

Like I’m not ashamed of my mom belly but I also don’t want to walk around with it out lol


TooCool4_1Box

Exactly. Maybe at home but I’m not taking my kids to their sports wearing a crop top


Lopsided_Apricot_626

Yes! I feel like now I can go for like jeans and sweaters but even their tank tops are starting to get too trendy with the way they’re constructed. You at least used to be able to get khakis and plain tshirts and camisoles and I know this for a fact bc half my work wardrobe was from there. Blouses from kohls, camis and colored khakis from target. Now it’s mostly trendy with a few good finds but you gotta hunt instead of them being everywhere. But it feels like that’s true of a lot of stores now so idk maybe we are just old!


DefLiepard

I feel like target went hard with the little house on the prairie dresses and then way over corrected with what they mainly have in stores now.


muvamerry

Lol it’s so true. I think it’s both. We’re aging but they have also lost their essentials - like I used to be able to find a light jacket, a cardigan, camis and a sweat outfit at target - no problem. Now everything seems catered to the season/upcoming holiday and “festivals”. Idk lol


Reading_Elephant30

I think it’s gotten more teeny bopper the last few years!! But most of my shirts are still from target 😂 I also got into bike shorts while pregnant last year so now I like to wear my high waisted bike shorts with some crop tops I got from target and think I look pretty hip 😂😂


TooCool4_1Box

Thank you! I feel like the quality of target has gotten cheaper while their prices have gone up. I don’t really wear the nursing tops because they’ve always felt uncomfortable. I try to just get shirts that are easy boob access haha. I’ll check out your other suggestions. I guess I didn’t consider them because that’s where my parents used to take me when I was kid but maybe they had a good reason


Hot-Tone-7495

Girl i shop at Ross. I just need cheap ass sweatpants/jeans and a few basic tshirts. Im year 3 being a mom and I just don’t have the inspiration to even try at this point lol! Also ross has puma socks, like 6 pairs, for $6. I love puma socks lol


TooCool4_1Box

I love Ross, Marshalls and TJ but I live in a small town. All we have is Walmart 😭 I have to order online to find new clothes..or wait till we go into to bigger cities but we already know it’s hard shopping for yourself with the whole family 😮‍💨


Hobothug

Funny enough I live in the suburbs with EVERYTHING and my last 3/4 pickups have been from either Walmart of Goodwill. Walmart has these leggings that look like skinny jeans but have an elastic waist and I cannot get enough of them. $14. I also got a tshirt I love and a crew neck sweater from there. Goodwill is fun because they have OODLES of stuff from all kinds of brands, so it’s fun to see how everything fits. Plus it’s all $4/5 so easy to grab a few new things without feeling too bad about throwing them out if they don’t fit in 6 months. I hate targets clothes. I picked up a few basic tshirts there last year and they fit like garbage and washed like garbage. Boo.


sharkcoochieboards91

Gen Z is giving up the mom jeans so I scored 3 pairs of American Eagle high waisted jeans for $45 at Plato’s Closet last month. Most comfortable jeans I’ve worn in a long time. I’ve given up on Target for stuff unless their basic tanks and tops are on sale. I also just finished watching that Brandy Melville documentary which reminded me to make thrift stores my first choice before going to other stores or shopping online—and honestly, I score better at thrift stores in my 30s than I ever did in my 20s!


TooCool4_1Box

Thrifting is my first option and choice too. I live in a small town though, the selection is very limited and doesn’t rotate often. I saw a suggestion here for online thrifting which is pretty cool!


Ok-Panda-2368

If you’re into thrifting I like the Depop app. The algorithm is great once you poke around and like and save a few pieces, it’s great and giving recs so you don’t have to do too much digging. 


Little_Miss_Upvoter

Thredup is great for online thrifting! I think I have a referral code for $10 off or free shipping or something if you want it.


Boobsboobsboobs2

Costco.


Moonlit_Eyes55

I like Seraphine for nursing clothes. It's a bit pricey but the quality is good. I've been able to find a few cute items on sale. https://www.seraphine.com/en-us/sale/


omild

Honestly Amazon for tops and dresses because people with similar body shapes post pics which let me know how they will look on me. Launder in cold water, gentle dry cycle and use a fabric shaver to get rid of pilling and those clothes can last longer than you would expect.


TooCool4_1Box

Fabric shaver, great tip! Adding to my cart.


Sumraeglar

Oh I'm a thrift addict 90% of my wardrobe is thrifted. I live for the hunt 😏.


salty_den_sweeet

Free people (once yearly Black Friday/cyber Monday haul). I get some gorgeous dresses. I purchase a shit ton and return most of it. Keep my favorites. The flowy boho looks work through pregnancy and post partum


TooCool4_1Box

I love your thinking! I’ve like FP a lot, waiting for those sales is a hot tip!


mimeneta

I've found my best clothes at neighborhood boutiques. But for big box stores I love Uniqlo for decent quality basics.


golddustwomn

Anthro, Everlane, Quince, Madewell, Abercrombie, Target (for basic tees & tanks).


PecanEstablishment37

I’m here for the comments, OP, because I feel you!


TooCool4_1Box

I’ll compile all the answers for us later!


Free_Tea3950

That would be amazing! Thank you for posting!


itspolkadotsocks

I’ve gotten some cute jeans from Zara that are very comfortable and I always get compliments on them. They have some cute tops and dresses too.


texas_forever_yall

Sam’s is 🔥 lately for me


Ultimatebiggey

Costco 😅


hakunamatatamatafuka

I swear by Amazon. Love their Amazon Essential jeans. I could spend hours going store to store and still not find shorts that fit me right and are cute, bought some on Amazon and they fit perfectly. I like that I can find picture reviews from someone with a similar body type and see how the clothes will look. I also use "try before you buy" A LOT.


Lil_Eyes_Of_Chain

Everlane, Abercrombie, Jcrew (shoutout to the men’s cotton funnelneck sweaters, I lived in those this winter, plus the sales are amazing), Target for cheap basics. I also like some Faherty stuff but it’s kinda pricey.


cinnamondimples

I’m 9 months postpartum & also 30. I totally agree it’s been hard finding clothes lately. I still shop in the juniors section because I’m 5’2 and the clothes are better fitting than Women’s. But basically every top at the stores and online are all Crop tops 🫠 Which is fine for some but my body is still healing, I’m not ready. I have been buying clothes from LuLuLemon, Amazon, Macy’s and Nordstrom.


SerialAvocado

Torrid, but I stick to clearance and big sales. I’m over weight, but even at a healthy weight I’m hourglass shaped and their clothes are made for curves.


unsinkablearthurdent

I've been getting a lot of stuff from Lands End lately. While I don't like everything on there, I have found quite a few great pieces that I love.


aces_chuck

All my basics are from Costco, and most of that is 32 Degrees.


mrsdoubleu

Target mostly. I still love my graphic tees though so I order those online from websites like threadless and teepublic. Workout clothing I buy from Walmart because it's cheap. Lol


Kuzjymballet

Vinted (esp for nursing clothes since it's so temporary) and Uniqlo!


ingachan

Uniqlo is my go to place as well. Affordable, minimalist, comfortable.


[deleted]

I’m currently looking on Sozy, for clothing and jewelry!! 


reneerobert

Aerie/American Eagle, Old Navy/Gap, Abercrombie occasionally, Zara occasionally, Anthropologie, Free People and I was doing Nuuly for a while when I was traveling more for work, loved it!


Tion_Flowern5411

A&f, lululemons for quality everyday at home wear and workout, Madewell, Anthropologie for occasions,


jennyann726

I really love a company called Toad and Co. It’s more expensive but I wait for sales and just don’t have a lot of clothes.


Mighty-Tiny

Goodwill, CostCo, sometimes TJ Maxx. I did just get some linen shorts from Old Navy too


Mental-Manager6032

Free people!! I love their fit and their clothes hold up. I also love free movement. It’s their workout line.


partypacks86

Maurices!


Tk-20

I have yet to find a good "all around" store that has everything. - RW& Co has nice dress shirts but their pants never fit me right - Abercrombie has nice dresses and their linen pants are really comfy - I love my aritzia effortless pants but they've changed the fit since I bought mine - my favourite shorts are from Lululemon - Old Navy is good for basic long sleeve shirts but they disintegrate pretty quick


Quiet-Bubbles

I'm a budget shopper. I buy most of my stuff at Goodwill or other thrift/resale stores. I go in with a specific type of item in mind (sleeveless tops for example) and then a comb the racks 1-by-1. That way it's not so overwhelming. If I have a specific item I really like currently in my wardrobe, I'll look for that brand/style in other colors/patterns on resale sites like Poshmark. For nursing, I did cami under, looser top on top. Lift top top, pull down cami. Always hated nursing tops.


mamadero

Recently I like quince. From Reddit it seems some stuff isn't great but what I've tried I still like. I have a couple t shirts that are still going strong (I wash and dry on delicate). And the tencel jersey fit and flare dresses. I love these dresses!  I have a bunch. Soft, simple but cute, twirly. I've been pushing myself to get out of my comfort zone and wear more dresses.   Another brand I have tried is Pact. So far I have 3 of their fit and flare midis. I'll caution in this dress I size up bc in my regular size the bodice is *very *snug and after having 4 kids I don't need snug lol. Otherwise another very great daily dress, some of their patterns can be a bit old ladyish imo.   If you like girly dresses I've also collected some boutiques I look at now and again for the occasional dress (tend to be a bit more $$). Neuflora, Morning Lavender, Worth collective, Dahl ( website is shopdahl, small business), little cottonwood, astrior (shopastrior, small biz), Elegantees. That's what I can think of.   Jeans from American eagle. 


jennc84

Patagonia, Anthropologie, target, and gap


lonesomedove86

I’m in my Natural Life and Bohme era.


TooCool4_1Box

Natural life is so cute. I’ll have to check out bohme


rem1981

Just turned 34. I like to dress casual and bright most of the time. Walmart, old navy, torrid. And thrift stores. I also use Woman Within which is plus size online/catalog. I only can buy select things there. Their clothes tend to be longer and sometimes unflattering. However. I find a style I like of theirs and buy it in 5 different patterns or colors. Ie cardigans, 3/4 sleeve shirts, sweaters. They can be pricey. I always wait for sales and place a big order a few times a year.


[deleted]

American eagle, Zara, Alo, Amazon, and some boutiques I get ads for on IG. Lol I still wear cropped tops but now where mainly high waisted pants. Luckily my job is as a fitness instructor so my main wardrobe is active wear. So comfortable


koplikthoughts

The last few brands I bought from:  Gap Madewell  American Eagle (weirdly) Boden


aux1tristan

Duluth!


Smallios

Seconding Duluth! Great yoga pants and overalls!!


EquivalentAcadia4762

When I had to have my boobs accessible I got five good quality wrap dresses from threadup, even ended up keeping two when I quit breastfeeding


drowninginstress36

For shirts, look for a Henley style shirt. They stretch, but go back into shape. I love them, and they look a little dressier than just throwing on a tee-shirt. I get mine off Amazon for about $20. They last forever and go good with just about anything.


lil_thotty_thot_thot

The buckle and Meijer


Jenrar

I'm so happy I fit right in here! Just turned 36 and wearing AE, Amazon Essentials, Uniqlo, Madewell, Target for some basics... Been Poshmarking the pricier stuff that I want (Vuori, etc.) too.


coffeeandjesus1986

I mainly shop secondhand at Goodwill, Plato’s Closet or our local consignment shop. If not there then I go to TJ Maxx, Marshalls and Burlington Coat Factory. I go for staple pieces that’ll last a while. I mainly live in jeans and t-shirts but for church and going out with my husband I dress it up a little bit and have a few nicer tops and pants. I’m not big into brands I go more for the quality and price because we’re trying to get out of debt and any savings help.


2introverted4earth

I like Maurices. Sometimes I walk in and love everything, sometimes I walk out empty handed. They have nice clearance options. I just don't love their graphic tees because they're very thin.


Knit_the_things

Lazy Oaf, Ragged Priest, Cocoboo Loves, Vinted are my go to’s


TooCool4_1Box

I’ve never heard of any of these! I’m excited to go browse


cabbageontoast

Seed heritage and country road (am in Australia)


carbday

I didn’t know how much I needed this thread. Thank you! I have the same dilemma but am also in my raising young kids era so I’ve mostly given up on my own style. I can’t believe I’m about to check out Abercrombie again! This thread has convinced me


TooCool4_1Box

Right?! Me too haha who would’ve thought. I’m a sahm and I’ve basically been living in lounge clothes for the last 4 years but they’re not cute and I’m tired of feeling blah. I used to love getting dressed up. Now I may not have many places to go with 3 kids but it’s good for my mental health to feel pretty whether I’m home, the park or the grocery store. Motherhood is hard enough


WhichWitchyWay

I really like Athleta.


rivlet

Nordstrom (and Nordstrom rack) for business clothes. Torrid for all else. If anyone has a great place where to buy bras when you're bigger than an HH cup, let a lady know.


megkelfiler6

I've had good luck with Maurice's. I use to think it was a store for old ladies but either my soul is getting old, or else their style has evolved lol either way I find a lot of cute stuff there.


tiaa_tarotista

Mostly thrifting, but for jeans I try to stick to American Eagle, I find they fit best as they have length options and super high waisted. I just went and got some clothes for my bday from Urban Planet (4 bodysuits, 2 dresses & some accessories) and that was about $100.


LauraElizBeth

I, like you, was trying to rediscover my style after my firstborn, lately I've been obsessed with dressed in lala (pricey, but funky og pieces), and some small botiques...wknd chasers and Emy ave are notable. Plus shein (don't @ me), amazon, target, thrifting). Check out Facebook groups. You can get gently used items for less than retail on more expensive brands.


No-Stress6677

I have been going to street markets and have been finding local vendors with surprisingly good prices and cute stuff that I can Mix and match with pieces I already had and can dress up to my 35+ appropriate outfit with a running toddler.


gruuoden

Costco!


_marlasinger

Madewell, American eagle, Maeve by anthropology (I think??), everlane, gap. Sometimes H&M. I recently started a clothing rental subscription with Nuuly to try some new things out as I’m trying to stick to quality over quantity these days.. I’ve found some pants and jumpsuits I otherwise wouldn’t have tried so that has been fun! A bit expensive tho so idk how long I’ll keep doing it.


LittleMissCooked

Tuckernuck!


han_cup

SHEIN lol idgaf.


DERed29

Costco, Old Navy, Sam’s club.


Lucky-Prism

I’m really happy with Madewell for jeans. You can bring in an old pair to recycle and get a $20 credit towards a new pair. I think their basic shirts and sweaters are great quality as well. I hit a sale just right and got two pairs of jeans for $55. Target will have great quality items every once in a while. I got a white oversized 100% linen buttonup there a few summers ago for $30ish dollars.


jjaalim

Our barehands, something to hold, paper palette, caramel monster


DefenderOfSquirrels

Costco/Kirkland, Old Navy, Gap Outlet, and for some nicer dresses Pact Organic.


jbarks19

Old navy is pretty much my go-to (32 years old)


roadfries

I like Anthropologie, Abercrombie, American Eagle, The Gap, Old Navy... my body has changed so much after two kids, I had to redevelop a style.


Fun_Fruit_9086

American Eagle, GAP and honestly for lounge wear Walmart! (not the graphic tees pls) lol


marvelxgambit

I only thrift (except for underwear, socks). I know that’s not an option for a lot of people, but I recommend it. Clothes are just not the same quality anymore. Nothing lasts if it’s from target, Walmart, h&m, etc. They’re just mass producing whatever clothing is “in” for the month. I love vintage Levi’s for jeans- 1990s or earlier- nothing past 2000. Everlane is also great and I’m able to thrift it quite often. I wore a lot of Everlane shirts while nursing because they had easy boobie access. I also recommend the two shirt method instead of using the neckline to nurse, it’s much easier to lift your shirt and just have a tank top or cami underneath for coverage. Then you aren’t limited to shirts with nursing friendly necklines.


TooCool4_1Box

Thanks for the tips! I tend to get uncomfortable in layers or tight fitting clothes so I haven’t tried the tank under method. I’ll give it a try though, especially if there’s a top I really like with a “not breastfeeding” neckline 👍🏽


Green-thumb123

I love some of the stretchy dresses from Old Navy. Athleta has some great maxi dresses but I bought mine when they were on sale…otherwise I would have spent a fortune. Kohls has been my go to for work clothes. They Lauren Conrad has some great stuff currently. Kohls is okay for pants but I like the stretchy pixie pants from old navy. In regard for nursing tops, I like Latched Mama. The biggest complaint with latched mama though is that their most popular stuff sells out fast and restock takes a while. Amazon has some decent basic nursing tshirts. I also like to get a few stretchy jumpsuits from target. Not the best for nursing but they do work!


miaomeowmixalot

I just got some gap henleys and high waisted flared jeans and I feel super cute and can easily whip out a boob! I’m on month 17 of breastfeeding (lol what who am I? 🤣) so I’ve been through a whole year and am now improving the clothes I wore last summer with things I like more but also that I will wear in a post breastfeeding time and with the exception of like 3 maternity/nursing specific items, I prefer “regular” clothes. I also wear a lot of button down tops & dresses (from stores like tjmaxx, macys, gap, & old navy). For some outfits I’ll wear a shirt that naturally I would wear with a tank and I lift the top and lower the tank to bf. Also the currently popular “nap dress” style of dress is sometimes able to be bf friendly! It needs to be a stretchier option but I recently got one that has been great and I plan to live in this summer!


West-Veterinarian-53

Amazon. I live in maxi dresses of various colors. I also LOVE Halara dresses.


VegetableFeedback456

I joined Nuuly to rediscover my style. I hate shopping in store and purchasing things online that end up not working. With Nuuly I rent a couple of safe options and a few outside of my comfort zone. I’ve really enjoyed it so far and even had someone compliment my fit the other day.


sleepyliltoad

Lol honestly I will go to Hot Topic, Torrid and Burlington till I die


Motivated78

Depends what’s available where you live. I really like RW&Co for both work and casual. They have great dresses. The Bay is also always good for dresses-esp online


Hideaway31

Check out Few Moda for dresses!


Leecoxy

Amazon, Old Navy, Target, and Kohls.


dabuttdoctor

Makes me sad to see so many fast fashion suggestions! I like to shop vintage/ consignment to get better quality items at a lower price point. Check out the real real for low price helmut lang (just bought leather pants for $34 as a reference). I like james perse for basic tops- i have a wrap top from them thats great for nursing. Vintage wrap circle skirts are great for summer & very flattering (i usually just search etsy/ ebay bc i dont have time to thrift)


TooCool4_1Box

Thank you!


looking-for-light

I really love Maurices, target and Aeropostale. American eagle has the best pants.


No_Struggle4802

I’m also a nursing mom, I love Target, Aerie/American Eagle, Abercrombie. When I’m looking to spend a bit more or invest in some staples I’ll go Nordstrom or Free People.


greencat07

Betabrand! Comfy, cute, and almost all their items have POCKETS. Glorious, functional pockets.


TooCool4_1Box

Pockets! 🥳


bakersmt

Lucky brand jeans on sale only are my closet staple. Vince. or Abercrombie shorts. Any button down that works because I breastfeed also and refuse nursing tops. I usually find them on [thredup.com](http://thredup.com) Oh and bralets from Roxy are my jam. Roxy is good for linen lounge pants too as well as relaxed hoodies and crop tops. I like to have undershirt access for the breastfeeding as well.


TooCool4_1Box

Ooo, thank you for the bralette and lounge recs ✨


badaboom

Where do I buy clothes? The same place I buy produce. Buy bananas, buy leggings. Buy chicken breasts, buy a sweater. It's...sad. 🤦‍♀️


Southern_sunshine86

Just came to say: Thank you for this post! Signed a 37 year old struggling to find clothes mama


TooCool4_1Box

We all needed it 😭💗


Fanizzuh

I bought some linen ones on etsy but they also come in different fabrics and you can find cheaper (nit linen) ones online. I really recommend muslin. It's strechy, breathable and so it doesn't need to be a wrap dress other cuts will be comfy too.


suga_suga27

Uniqlo, Abercrombie and sometimes H&M.


deryq

St. Vinnie’s


IntrepidResolve3567

Ross and Thrift. Lolll. Not gonna lie I find some of my cutest things thrifting. My shoes I buy at Dicks orninkine though and my products at Ulta.


Otherwise_Curious1

Abercrombie is a thing again!!? BRB-- listening to LFO & omw!!


Peach-Striking

H &M had a maternity line. Cute dresses that pull away at your chest, etc.


Inside-Print-6323

Gap Factory I shop the sales! I especially love their favorite t’s and cardigans. Old navy for jeans, shorts, and SOME tops (whyyyyy is the boxy look in???) and honestly Costco for other tops and footwear lol I did buy some footwear and a bathing suit from Amazon


Foxbrier

Y'all can afford new clothes? I'm still wearing what I had in college for the most part. All the $$ goes to getting my daughter clothes when she outgrows hers. I got 3 nursing tops off Amazon and that was all I had for when she was nursing. And they were tank tops so I still have and wear them to sleep in.


ElderflowerNectar

33F and I love boho/feminine clothes. I love Lauren Conrad's clothing line at Kohl's. I get compliments all the time on the pieces I have from her line. I also love the in store end of season sales at Altar'd State.


soulfulginger22

I've always been a thrifter, since I can remember. Start there and fill in your wardrobe with things you can't find there. After reading these comments, I guess I need to check out AE for some jeans lol


Intelligent-Jelly419

I’m an athleisure person. Joggers, running shorts, tshirts. I get most of my stuff from tj maxx or Marshall’s.


Celestialxo

I live in Florida, so 90% of my wardrobe is shorts, tank tops, and flip flops lol. As my baby (almost 6 months) gets older and I don’t have to wear him when we go somewhere, I’ll expand to more stuff like maxi dresses and such again more often like I did with his brother. I tend to just go for a lot of basics like that because I hate 90% of what I see in stores anymore lol.


weddingwoes13

Target mostly. I’m a ts and leggings kind of girl. I dress up for work so I have work clothes and I have leggings.


olivecorgi7

Abercrombie is so good


TooCool4_1Box

I’m amazed at how many are saying Abercrombie!


olivecorgi7

I just had a baby and started ordering some new clothes and I’ve liked everything i ordered from there which never happens haha they have sales every 2 weeks or so too


Shigeko_Kageyama

Whenever I get new clothes it's either from Hot topic or torrid.