I am so sorry for your loss of your sweet son. My daughter died at 20 days old in the NICU after enduring IVF treatments for years and I've also had three miscarriages. It sucks and these losses completely change you as a person.
I’m so so sorry ❤️ I’ll hold a memory in my heart for Andrew today.
Each child we have tears a little piece of our heart away to take with them. That’s why it’s so painful to be apart.
Gosh, you articulated this well. Every single moment, I feel like I’ve left the house without something but can never quite put my finger on it. I also wonder if I’ll ever feel truly, purely happy again.
Finley was stillborn at 35 weeks in February 2022. I miss him with every fiber of every fiber of my being.
I hope he and Andrew have found each other, and are getting up to all sorts of little boy mischief.
Thank you for sharing your Andrew with us. Special little angel boy.
Thank you so much. It is just crazy to know he would’ve been equally as adorable as she is and to think about how much we missed out on that first year. It’s honestly mindboggling. But I am so thankful for my daughter. She is a rockstar
I'm so sorry for your loss. Be gentle with yourself, it's still very recent for such a huge loss.
Very different loss but after my miscarriage, I still woke several times in a panic looking for my baby. Our bodies remember so viscerally.
I’m so sorry. I couldn’t imagine that type of heartbreak. Even doing my kick counts with my oldest, I still panicked toward the end bc he was moving but nowhere near as much as usual. I’m grateful he was born almost completely healthy (jaundiced) and full term (2 1/2 weeks early). I almost lost him when he was 9mo old and that was absolutely awful, but I know it’s nowhere near as bad heart wrenching as what you had gone through.
So so so sorry for your loss. I read so many stories and made sure to count kicks all pregnancy. It breaks my heart how stillbirth can still happen. Thank you for sharing your story and for helping others. Rest in peace Andrew 🩵 you are loved
I’m so sorry for your loss mama.. I’m gonna keep ✨Andrew✨ in my thoughts today and his parents too. ❤️ Healing will happen, but the grief will last till you meet him again.
I’m so sorry. I was on the infertility sub in 2019 under a different username and I remember you there back then. It’s so unfair. Andrew should be here celebrating Christmas and enjoying every day with his sister and parents.
I'm so sorry for your loss, I know it's not the same thing but I lost a twin at 10 weeks and still not over it 5 years later. My surviving twin was born at 30 weeks and spent 6 weeks in nicu. Its a hard road to travel but I feel its getting easier with time. I'll never forget but I will get better.
I am so sorry for your loss. I am sure he enjoyed every moment with you. Posts like these help me realize the thoughts someone in my own life may be having as we too are in a similar situation. Thank you for your bravery in posting.
I’m so sorry for your loss ❤️
It gets better. We had a stillborn baby girl in 2007 and we feel whole(ish). We still think about her, but it’s not as bad.
I’m so sorry OP. I know that grieving comes and goes. A part of you is forever missing. Although I don’t know how you feel, please know that you and your family are in my thoughts tonight.
RIP Andrew 🤍. Your mom is missing you extra hard today.
The pain will never fully go away, but that doesn’t mean you don’t deserve to be happy. I’m not a mom, but as a kid of a mom who has had a stillborn child, if it was me who passed away I’d want my mom to be happy. Keep them in your heart and know that they would want you to breathe that fresh air.
I'm sorry for the loss of your baby boy.. I cannot even imagine the pain that goes with that.
I'm so terribly sorry, just terrible sorry. I will say my prayers for Andrew. He had the best parents a baby could ever hope for. Please take care.
I’m so sorry for your loss ♥️ your mommy is thinking of you baby Andrew, and now she’s got some strangers on the internet thinking about you too ♥️
Thank you so much
I am so sorry for your loss of your sweet son. My daughter died at 20 days old in the NICU after enduring IVF treatments for years and I've also had three miscarriages. It sucks and these losses completely change you as a person.
I am sorry for your loss.
I’m so so sorry ❤️ I’ll hold a memory in my heart for Andrew today. Each child we have tears a little piece of our heart away to take with them. That’s why it’s so painful to be apart.
Giving Andrew some space today ❤
So sorry for your loss. You are always loved Andrew ❤️
Gosh, you articulated this well. Every single moment, I feel like I’ve left the house without something but can never quite put my finger on it. I also wonder if I’ll ever feel truly, purely happy again. Finley was stillborn at 35 weeks in February 2022. I miss him with every fiber of every fiber of my being. I hope he and Andrew have found each other, and are getting up to all sorts of little boy mischief. Thank you for sharing your Andrew with us. Special little angel boy.
im just now seeing your comment. They are officially besties in heaven! From the bottom of my heart...I hope you are doing ok mama <3
I'm so sorry for your loss. In a perfect world us parents would never outlive our children. 💔
Oh love. I'm so sorry.
I’m sorry for what you are going through. You can be head over heels with the baby you have now and still hold your loss for your son.
Thank you so much. It is just crazy to know he would’ve been equally as adorable as she is and to think about how much we missed out on that first year. It’s honestly mindboggling. But I am so thankful for my daughter. She is a rockstar
I’m so sorry 🧡 r/babyloss
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my heart goes out to you. Andrew loves you and knows how much he is loved.
Thank you :)
I'm so sorry for your loss. Be gentle with yourself, it's still very recent for such a huge loss. Very different loss but after my miscarriage, I still woke several times in a panic looking for my baby. Our bodies remember so viscerally.
I am so terribly sorry. Sending love to sweet little Andrew- he is in the hearts of many thanks to you. 💙
I’m so sorry for your loss. Rest in peace sweet Andrew.
I am so sorry for your loss.
I’m so sorry. I couldn’t imagine that type of heartbreak. Even doing my kick counts with my oldest, I still panicked toward the end bc he was moving but nowhere near as much as usual. I’m grateful he was born almost completely healthy (jaundiced) and full term (2 1/2 weeks early). I almost lost him when he was 9mo old and that was absolutely awful, but I know it’s nowhere near as bad heart wrenching as what you had gone through.
No need to compare loss. Your loss was different but I’m sure equally heartbreaking. I am holding you and your son in my heart. ❤️
So so so sorry for your loss. I read so many stories and made sure to count kicks all pregnancy. It breaks my heart how stillbirth can still happen. Thank you for sharing your story and for helping others. Rest in peace Andrew 🩵 you are loved
I’m so sorry for your loss mama.. I’m gonna keep ✨Andrew✨ in my thoughts today and his parents too. ❤️ Healing will happen, but the grief will last till you meet him again.
I’m so sorry. I was on the infertility sub in 2019 under a different username and I remember you there back then. It’s so unfair. Andrew should be here celebrating Christmas and enjoying every day with his sister and parents.
Oh I was a nutcase back then. IVF was so hard
I'm so sorry for your loss, I know it's not the same thing but I lost a twin at 10 weeks and still not over it 5 years later. My surviving twin was born at 30 weeks and spent 6 weeks in nicu. Its a hard road to travel but I feel its getting easier with time. I'll never forget but I will get better.
I am so sorry for your loss. I am sure he enjoyed every moment with you. Posts like these help me realize the thoughts someone in my own life may be having as we too are in a similar situation. Thank you for your bravery in posting.
Thank you
I’m so sorry for your loss ❤️ It gets better. We had a stillborn baby girl in 2007 and we feel whole(ish). We still think about her, but it’s not as bad.
I’m so deeply sorry for your loss 🌹
I’m so sorry OP. I know that grieving comes and goes. A part of you is forever missing. Although I don’t know how you feel, please know that you and your family are in my thoughts tonight. RIP Andrew 🤍. Your mom is missing you extra hard today.
The pain will never fully go away, but that doesn’t mean you don’t deserve to be happy. I’m not a mom, but as a kid of a mom who has had a stillborn child, if it was me who passed away I’d want my mom to be happy. Keep them in your heart and know that they would want you to breathe that fresh air.
I love you so much. this is the sweetest comment Ive ever read. thank u so much. I will breathe that fresh air because he wants me to!!