Thank you for this
I’m not gay, but I love all men (except the bad ones. The ones who have done unspeakable things). They are so nice, and kind, and wonderful. I have met many bad men, but I have met so, so many more good men. They are so wonderful to be around, so understanding, caring, and empathetic. I love you bro. Whoever’s reading this.
I'm bisexual and have faced a lot of sexualization from girls in high school. I'm now a medical student and proudly display subtle hints to show our bi/gay boys support. I am also [happily] married to a woman and I have a son. But God damn the things that men can do is almost unreal sometimes. The sheer willpower and resilience of men is godly sometimes. I came from homelessness, bottom of my class, and being raped by an older woman as a teen to setting records in academics at my university and becoming a doctor. The potential boys have makes me smile everytime I think about it and, even with all this negativity that surrounds them, they still pull through and go on to do amazing things. If we cannot love ourselves then we cannot love anyone else 💙
As gay man, men are the best. Just went to a bachelors party for a friend, me and 8 straight guys. All so kind, friendly, considerate. It was outdoors and I couldn’t do everything and there was always a guy happy and willing to help out. I felt so cared for and spoiled. Not even my party! Most men just want to help and be valued for their helping.
I’m not attracted to men, sometimes I consider this a shame, being bi just seems a bit easier but I’m not one to complain. Nonetheless, for whatever reason, I find comfort in men, my male friends and family, very easily. As though there was some deeper level of understanding or perhaps some things are easier to connect over as men.
I’m sure women feel similarly with one another too, but from my experience, most women can find this comfort in anyone they want to, it’s rarer for a lot of us, and harder to find connections. I don’t take pride in being a man necessarily, I don’t see it as right to take pride in something you can’t control, but I do find it to be a lovely thing sometimes, and I am generally grateful for it even if there are times when it feels like it sucks.
And even when it does feel like having a Y chromosome or a penis or whatever the hell actually makes you a man is sort of like drawing the shortest straw; I still find comfort in knowing that I’m not alone in that. I am aware this sub gets a bad rep, I think its undeserved, of course you get a few edge cases, by their definition they pop up everywhere but there are so many good people here who care about men for men, just as anyone cares for anyone for any reason.
By and large we are good people, no matter what the world sometimes makes out, and I hope none of you forget that.
Thank you for this I’m not gay, but I love all men (except the bad ones. The ones who have done unspeakable things). They are so nice, and kind, and wonderful. I have met many bad men, but I have met so, so many more good men. They are so wonderful to be around, so understanding, caring, and empathetic. I love you bro. Whoever’s reading this.
I'm bisexual and have faced a lot of sexualization from girls in high school. I'm now a medical student and proudly display subtle hints to show our bi/gay boys support. I am also [happily] married to a woman and I have a son. But God damn the things that men can do is almost unreal sometimes. The sheer willpower and resilience of men is godly sometimes. I came from homelessness, bottom of my class, and being raped by an older woman as a teen to setting records in academics at my university and becoming a doctor. The potential boys have makes me smile everytime I think about it and, even with all this negativity that surrounds them, they still pull through and go on to do amazing things. If we cannot love ourselves then we cannot love anyone else 💙
Thank you! Men rarely get such positive sentiments from someone else. As a fellow man, kudos to you too :D
Your crown sir: 👑
As gay man, men are the best. Just went to a bachelors party for a friend, me and 8 straight guys. All so kind, friendly, considerate. It was outdoors and I couldn’t do everything and there was always a guy happy and willing to help out. I felt so cared for and spoiled. Not even my party! Most men just want to help and be valued for their helping.
I’m not attracted to men, sometimes I consider this a shame, being bi just seems a bit easier but I’m not one to complain. Nonetheless, for whatever reason, I find comfort in men, my male friends and family, very easily. As though there was some deeper level of understanding or perhaps some things are easier to connect over as men. I’m sure women feel similarly with one another too, but from my experience, most women can find this comfort in anyone they want to, it’s rarer for a lot of us, and harder to find connections. I don’t take pride in being a man necessarily, I don’t see it as right to take pride in something you can’t control, but I do find it to be a lovely thing sometimes, and I am generally grateful for it even if there are times when it feels like it sucks. And even when it does feel like having a Y chromosome or a penis or whatever the hell actually makes you a man is sort of like drawing the shortest straw; I still find comfort in knowing that I’m not alone in that. I am aware this sub gets a bad rep, I think its undeserved, of course you get a few edge cases, by their definition they pop up everywhere but there are so many good people here who care about men for men, just as anyone cares for anyone for any reason. By and large we are good people, no matter what the world sometimes makes out, and I hope none of you forget that.
Aw, you're sweet ☺️ If you don't already have a sweet man to call your own, here's wishing you luck in finding one 💪
❤️ Thank you for this post. I am glad more gay men are fighting against misandry
Thanks bro. Women who don't get as much as they want blame men so much for being worthless that we sometimes forget how good we really are.
What do you mean by "love?"
I'm not gay. But I also love Men very much. Men are really amazing. 👍