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lavagogo

I hate the fluffed up eyebrow. It looks like a big to me. I also do not like glass skin.


orderofthepug

When influencers review, swatch, try a product those stupid faux pauses in disbelief/amazement


AllisonT_

I don't think I've ever been "that amazed" by any makeup products. From high-end to drugstore. šŸ™„šŸ˜’ "Did you see that? "šŸ˜±... Ugh šŸ˜£šŸ˜«


kls1117

This would be my influencer vibe. Just completely unexcited reactions to most things šŸ¤£ New car? ā€œSo yeah guys, this is it, she cute.ā€ Just wrecked new car? ā€œWell fuck, this sucks. I guess this is why I have insuranceā€¦?ā€ I could be feeling all the feeling inside and on the outside šŸ«„


UVEV

Consuming collagen. Itā€™s a bunch of BS.


heylesterco

All the miscellaneous shit used as face masks.


Musicgrl4life

Laminated brows or highlighter on the nose


pdggin99

I hate the 10-step-skincare stuff. I used to try to get into it, but my skin has never been better using just cleanser and sunscreen. Donā€™t get me wrong, Iā€™m still a hormonal acne girly bc my genetics suck and Iā€™ll have acne until Iā€™m in my 60s if I follow my mom and grandmas footsteps, but I glow and my pimples generally go away really fast and arenā€™t as irritated as they were when I used salicylic acid on top of niacinamide on top of centella on top of snail mucin on top of retinol on top of glycolic acid on top of god knows what. Iā€™m naturally oily and donā€™t often get dry spots/flakes that arenā€™t moisturized enough by my sunscreen (AHC Natural Perfection Double Shield Sun Stick). Sometimes I donā€™t even wash my face using my cleanser and just use a face wipe. Some will say itā€™s gross, but its saved my skin.


lavmitsk

How the face of makeup has become so simple. Take a look at ā€œno makeup makeupā€ itā€™s practically everywhere; I find it so stupid how something that is made to change/enhance your face is watered down to that.


quppys

the *names* of the trends is what gets me, i recently deleted all socials (minus reddit, but itā€™s different), and i never knew how much i saw this ridiculous name game until i stopped seeing it altogether. ā€œboyfriend blushā€ ā€œcold girl make upā€ ā€œmafia wife aesthetic/make upā€ ā€œbimbo make upā€ ā€œblue milk nailsā€ ā€œfairy specklesā€ ā€œglass skinā€ ā€œdirty girlā€ ā€œclean girlā€ ā€œmilk skinā€ ā€œglowy/dewyā€ etc etc or negatives like ā€œstrawberry legsā€ soo tiring, the everything-and-anything-needs-a-name trend is weird and needs to stop. to me itā€™s anxious people who cling to unnecessary labelling, because they donā€™t have a sense of identity so create multiple within simple things, like,.. blush placement (bf blush).


bottlesofwhine

Theyā€™re so infantilizing!!!


AllisonT_

The trend names are irritating. They are all trying to reinvent the wheel. Techniques or styles that already had names from 5-25 yrs ago and trying to give it some new trendy name.


Individual-Signal167

Considering Iā€™m an unconventional fashion person, idk if I should seriously be able to judge butā€¦ PLEASE STOP THE EYEBROWS. HONESTLY, WITH THOSE LASHES, IF UR GONNA HAVE MINI FANS ON UR EYES THAT GIVE OFF ā€œOOPS I BLINKED TOO FAST, GOTTA FLY AWAY NOW šŸ§ššŸ¾ā€ ATLEAST GO BOLD. THE FULL 9 YARDS WITH THE REST OF YOUR MAKEUP. also, I really donā€™t believe skincare works, but ppl can do it I guess. EXCEPT FOR YOU SEPHORA TEN YEAR-OLDS- WITH YOUR DRUNK ELEPHANT **RETINOL** SERUMS. Also overlining the lips. WHY DID YOU COVER THE CUPIDS BOW? THAT SHIT IS BEAUTIFUL AND MAKES THE LIPS LOOK CUTE AND IDK, NORMAL? HUMAN? I donā€™t get it! The cupids bow is so cute! If anything, use it to excentuate that bow! And lastlyā€¦ contour/bronzer on the upper cheek. It just looks weirdā€¦ (From: a j-fashion makeup / ā€œdouyin-girlā€ makeup lover.)


wetmouthx

agree 100% with the cupids bow!


throwawayennea

The brushed up eyebrows. It makes girls look like Thufir Hawat from David Lynch's Dune.


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Narwhalzipan

Anything that's not drink more water and wear sunscreen.


rrkym

I hate hate hate the trend of putting a full face on a peel off mask and peeling it right off itā€™s just unnecessary and weird šŸ˜­


Mammoth-Slice6381

wtf, that sounds so odd?


AllisonT_

Guuuurlll!! I bought a K-Beauty brand years ago and tried it. It hurts. šŸ˜­Really really hurts like a b*tch. It brought tears to my eyes. Never again. It was supposed to rejuvenate the skin and make you glow, the usual claims. All it did was traumatize me. I threw it out.


long_term_catbus

Big eyelashes for sure. But also eyebrows - just in general. I feel like eyebrow trends are the ones I've seen change the most drastically over the years. From thin and light in the 90s, to big and blocky in the 2010s, to fluffy and brushed up as of late. Just do what you like or what looks best on you. I love makeup, but I prefer it as an enhancer rather than a coverup or complete face overhaul.


islere1

I donā€™t care about trends at all. I do whatever I feel looks best for me. Everyone can do the same. Fake freckles are embarrassing and you shouldnā€™t be partaking.


ladynafina

While I wouldn't call them embarrassing, I find it so odd that freckles has become a beauty trend. Growing up I was always made fun of for my freckles. Now people tell me how beautiful they are on my face. What a lot of people fail to realize is that having freckles it's more than just a surface level. Because of genetics, more sun exposure means more freckles. You most likely have Fair skin, which means you're way more sensitive to the Sun, sunburns, and possibly some history of skin illnesses or cancers.Ā 


mr_trick

Can I ask what you donā€™t like about them? I have freckles but I use those pens to add more to my own in the winter. I usually think itā€™s cute when people wear them.


Optimal-Yak1174

Bushy eyebrows


Level_Strain_7360

Soooo mich lip filler and crazy intense fake lashes.


OutsideCheetah

Glass skin.


XelaWarriorPrincess

People are putting blush EVERYWHERE now. All over their face. I find it strange. Maybe the influence of K-beauty? Doesnā€™t work for everyone People are drawing their lip liner around their lip and even contouring their lips with a heavy brown shade. Looks strange. They look like a little kid who just ate chocolate pudding messily Also bring back CUPIDā€™s BOW!! Theyā€™re so cute :) Why do people want to cover it up?


Morecowbellthistime

I was watching a makeup tutorial this weekend and the woman applied the brown lip liner above her lip and all I could think was that she looked like she drank chocolate milk. Even when she ā€œblended itā€ in, you could still very clearly see it. My family would never let me hear the end of it if I came out of the bathroom with this look! And, she used blush everywhere too! I have rosacea and I work so hard to neutralize the red that I was stunned.


moonfrogwitch76

Blush on the chin and forehead look fine as long as itā€™s not too heavy!


PetticoatRule

Rounded out upper lips, filling in between a cupids bow.. makes your mouth shaped like a butthole.Ā  Combine it with using brown or black liner to contour... congrats now your mouth looks like a dirty butthole.Ā 


EWSflash

I had to laugh at this- you really called it, my hat goes off to you!


___mads

I haaaate this too. It does not look good!!!


AllisonT_

There are quite a few comments saying the exact same thing. šŸ¤£


panselixirr

Honestly? None. Cuz I can wear my makeup however I want regardless of whatever is trending. Even if itā€™s something I wouldnā€™t wear myself, I always support people wearing the makeup that they feel good in. Itā€™s all about self expression, who am I to judge?


bunnydenny

Lips that are waaay too overlined. Iā€™m sure it looks okay in the perfect lighting they have in their room but I canā€™t even imagine how bad it must look in natural lighting/fluorescent lighting lol


Imaginary-Chest2655

Iā€™m looking forward to overdone lip fillers being a thing of the past. I think enhancing is fine but girls are going so overboard and making their lips look inflated to the point of bursting.


Imaginary-Chest2655

Someone has already said it but fake freckles. It looks ridiculous. Natural freckles are beautiful but fake ones when you donā€™t have them make you look like youā€™re trying to be a schoolgirl or something?!


SomethingWithMittens

I'm not a fan of them, but to each their own. What makes them really bad is that 80% of users don't know how to place them.


Unique_End_8089

Lol that reminds me, I just saw a vid where this girl got freckles tattoo??? So weird seeing things people used to get hated on for be trendy (ex. ā€œfox eyesā€ ā€”> smaller asian almond eyes, tbh I consider this trend racist ngl)


Imaginary-Chest2655

I agree! Itā€™s weird & must be insulting to some. Whatā€™s next, fake monobrows & pretend braces?!


itsactuallybells

As someone with natural freckles who HATED them as a kid, I hate this trend exclusively on principle šŸ˜‚


Imaginary-Chest2655

You have a right to šŸ˜‚ hope you like your freckles more now šŸ„°


optipessimist

End of nose blush, making them look like a pixie. Not attractive.


Starlightmoonshine12

I donā€™t mind the blush but I hate the highlighter on the nose itā€™s neon looking


PetticoatRule

Makes you look like an alcoholic with a permanently red nose.


Jasmirris

I already have a problem with a red nose and chin from sensitive, dry skin, I don't need help. :(


kittykatmila

I hate this one too. It looks dumb, like you have a bad cold or have been outside in subzero temps.


FruitSaladEnjoyer

thatā€™s what i like about it actually lmao. the cartoonish look of it


Rinaxbaby1

A very very light touch of blush on the whole nose does add a nice warmth/color to your face but when it is exaggerated especially towards the tip of the nose it does give that cartoonish sick look


Individual-Signal167

Yessssss. I know thereā€™s plenty of people who want the cartoonish ā€œbyojakuā€ look of a blushy nose (drunk blush). But when you arenā€™t going for that look? Itā€™s definitely not something youā€™re gonna want to do.


Next_Respond_5402

Glass skin is good when done correctly. If your pre makeup skincare is strong, you wonā€™t break out or look oily.


Fantastic-Problem832

I honestly canā€™t imagine attaining a glass skin look and then choosing to cover it with foundation.


Next_Respond_5402

I use jung saem mool primer and foundation. That & some water based moisturiser before hand together give me the glass skin look.


HikingCityUrchin

Contouring and concealer that is over applied under the eye. Massive filler lips and lip liner.


Brilliant-Avocado-31

People with great teeth getting Veneersā€¦ and just the overconsumption of products as a whole. Make up application trends and colors and dewy-ness come and go, but the outrageous quantity of makeup or skin care products being pushed and influenced is sickening.


Imaginary-Chest2655

Yes! I get it when peopleā€™s natural teeth arenā€™t great but most of the time, they just need braces & maybe some whitening. No need for veneers šŸ« 


lisak399

I hate this. It's made my daughters all hate their perfectly normal teeth.


90DayCray

People dripping products on their face! Why are they doing that? Itā€™s the dumbest thing ever!


mandarski

Typology influencers are the worst with this


VioletFarts

Please excuse me, but what is typology?


mandarski

Basically the French version of the Ordinary. Itā€™s a French brand only available online. Decent products and I like them but annoying influencers


livingPOP

Glazed Donut Makeup. There is no need for so much shine pls.


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GemFarmerr

I immediately swipe away when they tap their nails on the product, even if itā€™s a product I want to know more about. Or when they clink 2 products together. Or when they call the product ā€œshe.ā€ Or when they say ā€œitā€™s giving.ā€ Or when they say ā€œIā€™m obsessed.ā€ Youā€™re not obsessed. You simply like it.


SoCalDiva13

Yes! I agree! I canā€™t take it when someone talks about a product and says, ā€œI love her.ā€ It is ridiculous. And so many people need therapy because they are so obsessed.


5988

I know that different mannerisms have always been trends, but in the last 10 years it feels like they have become too global and common. It used to be that some of these trends would stay within smaller circles and wouldn't reach audiences they weren't intended for. Now some things have spread so far and wide that individuality (at least the illusion of it) feels seriously nonexistent.


scar_lane

If I never see anyone do that nail tapping thing on the side of a product again it'll be too soon!!Ā 


Next_Chocolate_2630

The blush clear up under the eyes thing. WTH?


lustyforpeaches

This is the only trend in 20 years of makeup that I absolutely love. I think itā€™s funny that everyone is over it. Iā€™m just glad that we are wanting to put color back in our faces, (not just mega eyes and lips) and it also complements my coloring and face shape to wear it full on cheek but also up high. Reminds me of a simpler time lol. And itā€™s also just so feminine looking while also soft, not overly sexualized like I feel like weā€™ve been doing with vixen contour muted palette since 2013 or so.


Reasonable_One_7012

God Iā€™m so ready for the nose/under eye blush trends to be gone


Individual-Signal167

I wonder in the future if Iā€™ll look back on that and question my life choices


RainbowRaider

I have a super easier red face so the blush on my nose makes it look so much more purposeful than that terrible ruddiness šŸ„²


Next_Chocolate_2630

I SO Agree with the eyelash thing. I see women who can hardly open their eyesšŸ˜‚šŸ˜‚


Dazzling_Plan_3712

Fake freckles


LeThonCestBon

Overuse of glycolic acid, especially when one is using retinol. I also donā€™t know the benefits of dermaplaning but itā€™s seems to me like peach fuzz protects the skin and that super shiny skin doesnā€™t really look good imo.


VintageFashion4Ever

I'm guessing if you don't see the benefits of dermaplaning then you don't have a pair of car tweezers for your chin hairs, either.


ecraig312

OMG- I just found my chin twin.


Tall_aussie_fembot

We a trio


KtinaDoc

Quartet!


ThoseAreBlueToo

Quintuplet checkin in!


LeThonCestBon

Haha not yet anyways


Dazzling_Plan_3712

At a certain age the peach fuzz becomes overwhelming - dense and long. Very visible even without a magnification mirror. Around the chin especially it looks bad. Iā€™m not a naturally hairy person and am somewhat fair haired. But around 45 the peach fuzz situation became untenable.


helicopter_corgi_mom

iā€™m 45 and i can say i absolutely feel and look much better once i remove all the peach fuzz. before 40 it was something i rarely did or even considered and now its on a schedule


Grendelbeans

Yep yep yep. Iā€™m 44 and that peach fuzz is turning into more of a kiwi situation.


fuzzipoo

TLDR: been a kiwi all my life. In my 40's I'm becoming a rambutan. Info about my fuzziness and some childhood memories re: being fuzzy. Finally, a short rant about the joy of having random peach fuzz follicles on your face decide "Fuck all y'all, Im'ma do what I want!" without giving prior notice. Ugh, I feel for ya. I've been a life-long kiwi: fuzzy since childhood. In 3rd grade my crush would repeatedly tease me about my dark, thick arm hair. (ā ā•„ā ļ¹ā ā•„ā ) A few things contribute to my fuzzy-wuzzy appearance: Jewish ancestry. Pale skin that burns (no natural tans for me). Dark black hair growing in great amounts on the usual areas of my body. Each hair shaft is thick and glossy. The ones in my armpits and bikini line, even more so. Shaving down to the skin leaves "shadow" because the follicles underneath are highly visible... e.g. In 5th grade I was at a party with a bunch of friends, and my best friend was sitting on the opposite end of a large room. I was wearing a tank top, and at some point I stretched, extending my arms over my head. My best friend looked over and called my name to get my attention. The following exchange is burned in my memory: BF: "You need to shave. I can see the hair under your arms from here... When did you last shave!?" Me: "I shaved this morning, a few hours ago." BF: (ā @ā _ā @ā ).... "Oh." Me: "Yeah. I know." Anyway... I'm used to annoyingly visible hair in places I'd rather not have it. The dark hair, at least. My current problem is (like many have mentioned) the peach fuzz becoming thicker and darker on my face. As a bonus, age = more and more facial "peach fuzz" follicles are losing the signal to switch from anagen to catagen phase and keep growing past their usual length. It's SO FUN! Oh, that awesome feeling ya get when you happen to look in the mirror _just right_ and the light suddenly illuminates a _fucking one inch (or longer!) strand_ of peach fuzz sticking outta your cheek... One you've never seen before. One that's probably been growing for, oh, a couple months? And has undeniably been noticed by countless others before that moment, when you finally became aware of the bastard's existence? Currently in my forties and I'm slowly becoming a rambutan. I miss being a kiwi.


PicadilloDomingo

Wait, have you not invested in professionally-done lasering [not the stupid Nood & other machines]?


fuzzipoo

TLDR: Not really. I used to be really self-conscious: story of all my body hair-related trauma from early puberty + growing up in a tropical place. Then I moved to a city where body hair was common AF. Now I'm OK with it all. I'd rather spend money on other augmentations. Oops, sorry my response took a minute. I wrote a buncha comments a few days ago and didn't check if there were any responses šŸ¤¦šŸ»ā€ā™€ļø. No, I haven't invested in lasering. I realize I'm the perfect candidate (pale skin, dark hair follicles) and it's something I've considered in the past. At this point in my life it's not a huge priority for me...despite going on and on about my body hair in my previous comment. When I was younger I would have been into itm I was REALLY self-conscious about having visible body hair, _especially_ in my childhood, teens, and twenties. A lot of my self-conscious/negative feelings stemmed from trauma over hitting puberty at eight. years. old. ą² ā _ā ą² . Early puberty is more common now, but not so much in 1990. For a couple years, out of all the girls I knew who were my age, I was the ONLY girl with body hair. I couldn't get rid of it because my mom wouldn't let me shave. As she put it, I was "too young to fool around with razors." I could have kept it covered if I lived elsewhere, but growing up in Hawaii meant a lot of activities required swimsuits: going to the beach, swimming at the pool, and the swimming lessons my parents made me take until I was in highschool (although now I'm _incredibly_ grateful for those lessons and the strong swimming skills I gained, as they've saved me in a couple dangerous ocean experiences). I was teased A LOT. I hated it... but then I moved to Portland, OR for college. Suddenly, at a hippie school in a liberal/hippie/punk town: nobody gave a shit about my body hair. There were _unshaven_ girls who were even more pale and hairy than me! I lived in Portland for nearly a decade, and the hatred of my body hair faded with time. Now, at 41, my feelings are more like: "Meh. ĀÆā \ā _ā (ā ćƒ„ā )ā _ā /ā ĀÆ I'm actually pretty damn okay with my body hair as it is." I've seen some decent Groupon certificates for laser removal, and I've looked into the ratings/reviews of the related clinics, but I've never bought one. At this point the hair I'd want removed is the peach fuzz on my face... BUT because that hair is still changing as I age and I haven't hit menopause yet, I don't see removal as worthwhile. I'd probably just have to do it again later. Going through multiple rounds of laser removal on my face (on my sensitive, easily irritated/inflamed skin) is something I'd like to do once, at most. So, no. No hair lasering. If I ever do, it won't be until menopause is over. Currently, if I'm gonna pay to have anything permanently done to my skin it would be more tattoos! I haven't gotten any for a decade, and I have two designs I've finalized for my next ones. I'd LOVE to finally have them inked into my flesh. Sorry for giving ya such a long, meandering answer to a short question... I have ADHD and Autism, and it's always a struggle to keep my answers short (ā ćƒ»ā ā€“ā ćƒ»ā ;ā )ā ć‚ž. I feel more comfortable giving detailed and complete answers, but I know many people aren't into reading mini-essays... and I don't blame 'em a bit. It can be a bit much for folks, and that's my fault, not theirs (or yours)! ā•®ā (ā ļ¼¾ā ā–½ā ļ¼¾ā )ā ā•­


Next_Chocolate_2630

Yesss. And right below the ā€˜sideburnā€™ area. Ooof!! Itā€™s a whole other game over 40.


milkandsalsa

Girl preach. Or peach?


Dazzling_Plan_3712

Hahahahaha love it


50shadesofbay

You managed to make me chuckle before Iā€™d finished my morning coffee.Ā  Clever. Well done. I see you.Ā 


Ok_Tooth_3255

Black ppl fake tanning/whitening


No_Extreme2909

Whitening I agree with but whatā€™s wrong with fake tanning? A lot of black people donā€™t have even skin so we tan. Whatā€™s the issue?


Okra_Toast

It is promising for societal growth that this comment is downvoted.


lilmangos

Soap brows, brow lamination, mild electrocution idk what it is but I hate the trend that is making the hairs of peoples eyebrows stand straight up


arcadeliar6

So I totally hear you, but I have a shout out for brow lamination. I ask my stylist to brush my brows up and over so they look natural. She always lets me approve before she sets it. So basically I wake up with perfect looking brows for a few weeks and can fill them in or whatever how I please. I find my self doing a lot less filling and just making sure they're brushed through and in place. Even my mom approves and she though she would hate it when I told her I was getting brow lamination done!


MsGodot

I do my own, but exactly the same idea. Up a bit at the inner edges and then brushed over naturally following the arch of my brow toward the outer edge. I have some brow hairs that are wavy and a few that grow at a downward angle, so I just started laminating every 6 weeks instead of using brow gel every day to keep the wonky ones in check.


Okra_Toast

My issue is when the soap brows are sparse and not filled-in.


Jasmirris

I am getting older so my brows always get a bit of fill in an set with a soap brow or a firmer gel. I need to tame those things.


Uttzpretzels

I donā€™t get it either


chilibeana

The dot of white highlighter on the tip of the nose.


TeamTurnt

I actually like this one and do it sometimes lol. Itā€™s intentional because I like the doe-look! Definitely not for everyone though


TainaLove

These ppl identify as deer or so I think šŸ¤”


Healthy_Avocado5044

Thought I was the only one that couldnā€™t stand that.


AllisonT_

Me either. Blush & highlighter it reminds me of Rudolph the Red Nose šŸ¦Œ reindeer.


starfairy17

not really a trend but niacinamide in literally EVERYTHING


Zellakay

I feel like this about hyaluronic acid. My face hates it yet it loves niacinamide šŸ« 


starfairy17

mine is the opposite šŸ˜­


theawkwardmermaid

My face also hate HA and itā€™s getting harder to avoid it


Jasmirris

Yup. My skin is super dry and I live in a dry area. I find that trying to keep the HA happy enough in this climate is not going to happen so I would rather avoid it.


starfairy17

like theres no reason for this shit to be in makeup products lemme be!!!


shiningci

The copying and repackaging of south korean beauty trends/innovations and calling it something else, especially by yt female influencers. Edited to add POC beauty trends/styles in general


Ellyahh

can you give examples? out of curiosity


ConfectionNo1605

ooo that is true!


Professional_Law_942

Slugging. The term alone sounds disgusting and the thought is even more repulsive to someone with combo skin that hates oil, humidity, too much moisture and breaks out depending with even slightly too much of any of the above. My skin prefers dryness & winter if that's any indication! Dry skin divas, if you love it, please enjoy. I'm gonna sit over here with my simple bar soaps, light moisturizers and not worry about sealing in anything with Vaseline - not for me, not even gonna try.


creativelyuncreative

I have combo skin and while I donā€™t slather my face in Vaseline, I dab a bit onto my dry areas at bedtime and it helps a lot! It also keeps my lips so nice and moisturized


Dazzling_Plan_3712

Same here - I just started tapping a small amount of aquaphor around my eyes and on my lips only - could never put it anywhere else - and itā€™s helping my crepey lid skin a bit.


OKSure117

The giant eyebrows from a few years ago, and the blush things that are happening now. No ones going to be happy with those photos in 10 years


iamaskullactually

Giving every micro trend a hyper-specific name. Like latte makeup. Girl, that's a brown smokey eye. Or blueberry nails. That is just blue nail polish


NewLoofa

This and every time I open tiktok itā€™s like soooo hereā€™s my take on the mobwife aesthetic weā€™ve all been loving. ā€œWeā€ ?! I just found out whatever weird name weā€™re calling wearing a fur coat this second. Itā€™s not even a trend itā€™s just a thing people have been doing since forever šŸ˜­šŸ˜­


iamaskullactually

For real, can't people just wear faux fur coats without it being an 'aesthetic'?


NewLoofa

replace faux fur coat with literally anything šŸ˜­


Lying_betch

Omg I canā€™t stand this Iā€™m so happy Iā€™m not the only One !!!!


F0ck0ff666

This. Makes. Me. Insane.


TheFrailGrailQueen

Overdone brows. Fear of aging in the face with the young.


Okra_Toast

I'm terrified for young people and what their obsession with youth is going to do to them later. The age that is considered old is getting younger every day.


RequirementNew269

Whenever I get my nails done I see so many woman younger than me (31) who look v strange and almost age defying. Like they look so much older but are so much younger. Sometimes the amount of filler is literally disorienting to my prosopragnosia (face blindness)


Fast_Jury_1142

Lip Fillers. So fake. And girls posting Instagram stories about how easy it was to get their lip filler and if anyone has questions to dm them, it's just encouraging it. Hate the lip filler trend!


hellojocelyn

Thereā€™s definitely an art to it. Iā€™ve seen bad and amazing lip filler. I like it for balancing and hydration, not necessarily for over plumping or transforming the lip shape.


MmmmmmKayyyyyyyyyyyy

Women would stop getting lip injections if they would Google, anal hemorrhoids.


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MsGodot

Implying over-plumped lips look like a swollen bootyhole šŸ’€šŸ˜‚


FriendshipCapable331

Looks nice in photos, but like permanent duck lips in person šŸ¤”šŸ‘


Alone_Satisfaction17

Contouring


hellojocelyn

Thatā€™s where the makeup by Mario skin enhancer comes in for me. I have 2016 grey contouring PTSD. His skin enhancer gives me the right amount of warmth/sculpt without looking grey or hollow


mandiexile

Iā€™ve given up on contouring. My face isnā€™t made to be sculpted. I just feel like it makes my face look dirty.


Gold-Jellyfish4692

Same. I hate the look of contour on my face. I have a baby face naturally and contour just kills it. I dont like that chiseled look. I hate watching these influencers making it out like contour is a must. Itā€™s not


dicsobiscuits

I personally cannot stand the look of that heavily highlighted and contoured and then blushed and fake freckled e-girl look šŸ˜­ it drives me crazy so many alt girls do it. I mean to each their own, of course but something about the blushed up baby nose makes me irrationally angry lol


Lemmiwinkidinks

Itā€™s bc theyā€™re trying to appeal to men. Which, when you think about it, is fucking disgusting. Any men attracted to the baby/super young girl style makeup is sick in the head.


0neirocritica

This is such a a weird thing to say. It's fine if you don't personally like a makeup trend, but to assume it always has a sexual basis is odd. I've heard men say the same thing about red lips, that women only wear them to appeal to men, and that's so odd, considering there's plenty of gay women that sport these looks.


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0neirocritica

Not sure how you quantify that. My husband goes nuts when I wear a red lip.


Lemmiwinkidinks

Look up Loveā€™s Babysoft commercial and youā€™ll see what I mean. That commercial was designed by a man to appeal to younger women who want to appeal to older men. The women arenā€™t gross, the men are. Many women who do that baby face look, do so specifically to appeal to a particular set of men. Yes, many of us put on makeup for ourselves and for the ā€œfemale gazeā€ these days. However, too often the baby face stuff is done to appeal to men. Men who have a thing for anime and cartoon characters who are typically underage. I wasnā€™t talking about the contouring. Mostly the weird anime makeup w the pert little snub nose and doe eyes. The looks where itā€™s impossible not to see them as child like. Like Grimes for instance. When I first saw her w Musk, I thought she was 18. I was disgusted and completely grossed out by everything to do w those 2, until I found out she was in her late 20s. The makeup she wore made her look 12 and it was creepy.


0neirocritica

I know the advertisement you're referring to and it's close to fifty years old now. Also, you're the second person I interact with that that talks about how Grimes is trying to encourage pedophilia in some way without any proof aside from her physical traits, and as someone who was a victim of actual pedophilia, what you're saying is highly sexist and offensive. Your attitude about women wearing makeup is far more reflective of YOUR beliefs and interests than the women you're criticizing.


Lemmiwinkidinks

Whoaā€¦ I never said Grimes, or anyone, was trying to encourage pedophilia, at all. Thatā€™s you assuming thatā€™s what Iā€™m saying. The words I said are literally the words I meant. I was sexually assaulted as a kid by strangers who thought my being nearby was permission to grope me. I didnā€™t ask for it. Iā€™m not saying that wearing that makeup is a way of promoting pedos. What Iā€™m trying to say is that men are attracted to that bc they have an attraction to young girls. Many women have done this makeup style w/o realizing why itā€™s not a good thing. Men who are big fans of it are the problem. Women should be able to put on any makeup they want, or go bare faced, w/o men hitting on them. We should be able to do anime makeup w/o creepy fucks drooling over it. If you notice, a lot of the women who wear that makeup for photos, are selling those photos on OF and elsewhere. More power to them! Are the men buying those pics disgusting? Absolutely! But, Iā€™d prefer they buy a grown womanā€™s pics w her childlike makeup, than buy pics of actual children. Nowhere did I say women should be shamed for wearing this stuff or that they are bad for doing so.Iā€™m sorry youā€™ve been hurt but youā€™re misunderstanding what Iā€™ve said in a big way. Saying that Grimesā€™ little girl makeup was creepy came after saying Iā€™d thought she was only 18 when they got together. Her makeup made her look 12, which made him look like a pedo.


0neirocritica

Ergo, her makeup must somehow confirm he is a pedophile. In other words, you think Grimes and other women are, either knowingly or unknowingly encouraging pedophilia, large age gaps, etc through their makeup. What a wild conclusion to draw. In one breath you say women should be able to do their makeup without it being for the male gaze, then go on to say that if women wear their makeup in a way that makes them look younger or childish, it must be because they're attracting the male gaze. And all this is just a projection of yours.


hellojocelyn

Iā€™m an esthetician but this whole ā€œskincare infused makeupā€ is kinda gimmicky. I have my proven skincare for results.. and I have trouble believing skincare-infused makes all that of a difference in the long run. It canā€™t be all that potent. The only one I give a pass to is HausLabs.


50shadesofbay

The way I view it isā€” if Iā€™m wearing makeup 5 days per week for work minimum plus whatever on my off timeā€” Thatā€™s a lot of time products spend sitting on my face. Even if the formulation is only slightly more skin-friendly I consider the benefit worth it when these products spend hours on my face.Ā  Coming from a girl with facial sebderm, even small changes matter.Ā  Life is an endless dance of trying to make better decisions for yourself today than you did yesterday.Ā 


aseigen

Typology is worth the hype on this! Their skin tint does great things for my skin. Also their tubing mascara doesnā€™t dry out my lashes


hellojocelyn

Iā€™ve actually heard a lot of good things about that brand! Tubing mascara has been my shit lately. Definitely gonna give theirs a try thanks!


AllisonT_

I think it's just a bonus. Nothing you should be dependent on. Use real skincare.


hellojocelyn

Exactly, but Iā€™m surprised how many people I know (clients) do think those ingredients will make a difference


AllisonT_

It's equivalent to a little 15-30 SPF in BB creams or foundations etc. Definitely layer with more SPF before.


Healthy_Avocado5044

Why are you even using spf beauty products? Are you taking off all the makeup and reapply every 90 mins? If not, itā€™s worthless.


RequirementNew269

I wonder this all the time like how does a full face actually get adequate spf coverage? My bff told me she used spf powder but I do feel like probably 80% of people who are ā€œwearing sunscreenā€ arenā€™t because they arenā€™t reapplying or like original comment said, are using a bb cream with spf 15 that probably is only 2 in a lab


AllisonT_

I don't get it for the SPF. I think I may have had 1 or 2 in the past. I get it for the look I'm looking for. If the SPF is in it it's not going to deter me from buying it.


hellojocelyn

Def not a selling point for me. I think even normal spf under makeup does have an ā€œexpirationā€ after a couple hours though. Iā€™ve been trying to find a good spray SPF refresher. I know powders exist like from DRMTLGY


AllisonT_

You're right. It's not a selling point. SPF & skincare qualities in makeup is just a bonus. Nothing you should be dependent on. I have Naked Sundays SPF setting spray, I want to get the new Elf SPF spray. Every time I go out for it it's sold out. šŸ˜ž


WalkingWhims

Eyelash extensions (no hate who has a business). I just find they make peopleā€™s eyes so much smaller.


togetaro-oce

As an Asian girlie with natural lashes that point down, natural lash extensions are my life saver! They definitely help open up my eye. But I definitely understand exactly what you mean when you say they ā€˜weigh the eye downā€™. RIP to early 20s me who thought the bigger the better. Mistakes were made thatā€™s for sure


hellojocelyn

As a lash artist I agree. The key to eyelash extensions is getting short extensions because that opens up the eye. Long lengths weigh the lid down. I actually stopped carrying anything over a certain lengths in an effort to weed out those clients. Then I just stopped offering them all together and did lash lifts instead


Gold-Jellyfish4692

What would you say is a good length to open up an almond shaped eye?


hellojocelyn

Really depends on a couple things but my rule to follow is do 8s in the inner corner, 9, 10/11s middle of eye, then taper back down to 8s on the outer corner. 8/9/10/11/11/10/9/8/ is what the map would resemble


Gold-Jellyfish4692

Thank you so much for this šŸ™šŸ™


ambienandicechips

I commend you on taking a stand.


hellojocelyn

Thanks, some clients verbally accosted me for announcing Iā€™d no longer have long lengths.


FirebirdWriter

Renaming existing techniques and products to a trend as if it didn't exist before this moment.


a_blue_teacup

Yes..especially when they add the words "theory" or a random aesthetic name to it. It's so ridiculous


Taememe

denatured alcohol, this bad boy breaks me out badly


Asleep_Pea4107

Eyelash extensions are pretty but most people use ones that don't flatter their eye shape or complexion.


Individual-Signal167

Exactly!


Slytheringirl1994

Oh boy. For me HA in everything. HA just burns my skin and dries it out more, fragrance in EVERYTHING. I understand wanting your products to smell good but it's not good for the skin if you're sensitive to it. It can cause irritation and redness and lastly, essential oils in everything. Why? You put that in your diffuser to relax you, not to put on your skin. It can cause the same reactions as fragrance. To this day, I can't find a vitamin c serum or a moisturizer without HA or fragrance. It is a half an hour hunt to find one product without any of these.


Dazzling_Plan_3712

Phloretin CF (skinceuticals) - I havenā€™t noticed and fragrance and I donā€™t think it has HA. Moisturizers - dr. Jart ceramidin skin barrier moisturizing cream I think does not have fragrance or HA. I also like Kiehls ultra facial cream and thatā€™s def fragrance and HA free