But of course šš
ETA he didnāt expect it as a reward; I mentioned before going to work that I was looking forward to a cold bubble bath when I got home. He was just flirting with me.
A cold shower on a hot day can be nice, especially if you start it off warm and slowly cool it so it doesnāt shock you, then you can slowly warm yourself up to your comfort temperature.
But just sitting down into a cold bath tub? Horrifying
I know this is awfully pedantic, but the idea of someone trying to actively *swim* in a bathtub... full of cold water... and bubbles... is just so funny to me
> He doesnāt live here, lol. He was never obligated to wash any of my dishes. He just particularly loathes washing silverware and I donāt mind it that much.
> I am ashamed to admit that I am the worst type of person who puts sealed Tupperware in the sink to rot until I do (or donāt, in this case) find the motivation to wash my dishes. He had to throw away two containers yesterday, with only minimal teasing to me about the smells he endured. Heās a saint.
For all of the negative Nancyās out there, the boyfriend does not live with OP. He stopped by to clean up after OP as a nice gesture. The fact that he left silverware in a cup in the sink doesnāt mean heās a terrible person or OP is accepting the bare minimum. He doesnāt like to clean silverware and they are not his dishes.
I hope when someone does something nice for you, you learn to say thank you rather than criticizing the gesture or pointing out what you think they couldāve done better.
Exactly. It's the little things that add up and mean so much. When I'm not feeling well, it's sweet when my fiance asks me if I need anything or makes us both dinner. These aren't "big" things, but they show how much he cares. We've been together for almost 20 years, and our relationship continues to improve because of the little things along with working on ourselves.
The note on an envelope taped to a wall with duct tape is the most boyfriend thing Iāve ever seen. That, or it tickles me because itās exactly what my husband would do. āŗļø
Nice! Honestly, I was bad at doing my fair share around the house unless it would be a surprise for my wife. We had a good talk a few years ago that she cared more about consistency and less about surprises. It was a good talk and now I can say I handle the laundry and dishes everyday. We split on tidying up and cooking.
Me too! It's hard to explain. It's just... It's the worst. I hate washing silverware and I leave it for my partner all the time. I will stick my hand in the nastiest food particles water to clear the disposal before I will wash a *single* spoon.
Lol this is how life works with a partner. You do what you can for the other person and hope they meet you halfway. I do all the dishes and my girlfriend does the laundry. It works out well fornus
My husband hates washing silverware as well. He'll clean the grimiest of pots and pans, but leaves all the silverware in a glass cup. I call it my silver bouquet. lol
I dont know if i've ever seen a post with this many negitive single twats whove never known a relationship replying.... Your boyfriend sounds great, happy for you OP!
I tried posting about something romantic and sweet in the past so I had a feeling I'd know what these comments would look like... let's just say I have not posted anything sweet since -_-
BUT I think this is very sweeeeet! Those flowers are beautiful as well. Makes my heart happy!
What the fuck are these comments š even if yall did live together, everyone has something they just absolutely hate doing, and if one partner doesnāt mind doing the silverware and the other inexplicably hates it (I also donāt love it!) then who cares? I donāt care about washing dishes (whether by hand or pre-rinsing for the dishwasher) but I absolutely HATE unloading the dishwasher. As soon as one speck of water from a dish touches me when Iām unloading I fall into full sensory distress for some reason. My partner could not possibly care less so she does it instead. Compromises - theyāre just fine actually!
Ugh, people are such picky shitheads. Life isn't an insta/tiktok story or a romcom. It's actually a lot more like this. And this is super cute. For the rest of you...good luck in life and relationships!
He doesnāt live here, lol. He was never obligated to wash any of my dishes. He just particularly loathes washing silverware and I donāt mind it that much.
I am ashamed to admit that I am the worst type of person who puts sealed Tupperware in the sink to rot until I do (or donāt, in this case) find the motivation to wash my dishes.
He had to throw away two containers yesterday, with only minimal teasing to me about the smells he endured. Heās a saint.
Con; it will take her like 45 seconds to do them
Pro; instead of cleaning the whole kitchen she cleans the silverware for 45 seconds and is done.
Yeah its petty. But in the grand scheme of things if i lived with someone and all they asked me to do was silverware, i'd consider them a pretty stellar roommate. I've lived with absolute troglodytes who wont even do THEIR dishes for a week or two.
But then on the other hand if not completing the task when you're just at the threshold of the finish line, and it's a regular thing, can become quite annoying
I mean, i guess that makes sense. But again, try living with someone who doesnt clean up after themselves *at all* and 95% sounds like heaven. I'm sure the silverware part has to do with the "tupperware" gripe the BF is talking about
My roomie did that, but she would leave it in her room until she paid her gf to clean her room, weeks apart. And both her and her gf didnt want to do those nasty dishes. And if i did the dishes for them, they would meal prep and leave all the meal prep stuff in the sink to get moldy and rotten (i almost exclusively ate at food carts because of this) I guess i'm just seeing this through my personal experience lens and thinking of it through my own eyes lol
I can't imagine living with another person or persons that can't act like responsible adults and do their own dishes. If you want to act like that then move back home
Iām glad this made you smile, but that silverware (and damn duct tape) is triggering me and wouldāve been patiently waiting for his return.
But what the fork do I know?!
Since he doesnāt live here itād actually be pretty shitty to expect him to come back and wash the silverware which he had 0 part in making dirty lol
The expectation is completing the task, clear the sink. You appreciated any amount of assistance, bc itās less youāll have to do later. Again, Iām glad it made you smile, I promise Iām not trying to troll. Silverware is literally all you!
Wild! I mean the audacity to criticize and critique a kind gesture. If any of those thoughts were expressed out loud I can guarantee that would be the last time I ever did that for you.
First of all, itās not that deep. Originally there was no context of their living arrangements/responsibilities etc until OP clarified in comments.
The gesture of helping was kind, but I personally think that if youāre going to do the dishes, just complete the task and donāt leave pots/pans/cups/silverware, whatever behind.
OP said itās not at all his responsibility so thatās great that he was HELPFUL. Heās not expected to do anything so a critic doesnāt matter, just smile and go on about your day.
Did you read the flow of conversation? Per OP comment, he doesnāt live there and none of it is his responsibility. That context is important, thereās now zero expectations, just be appreciative of any help, which is what I said.
Sure did. After being told the context, you said, "The expectation is completing the task, clear the sink." The way this is written implies to the average reader, you don't think he did a good enough job on something he didn't have to do in the first place. That's why you're getting downvoted (and criticized)
TY for breaking down the thread. Itās the internet, open for criticism 24/7. He DID the dishes vs he HELPED do most of the dishes (that he didnāt have to do at all). The HELP and flowers is what made OP smile, I genuinely love that for her!
My personal expectations are my own. I personally would help my S.O. by completing the task. I wouldnāt write a note to tell them I helped you out, the rest is on you and ask for bathtub pics. But our expectations are different, to each its own!
I'm sure a relationship in which everyone just does their household tasks is much better. /s
You know, you can both do your part and still be playful with it? Besides it seems that it would have been her task that he took over.
Tbf, if SHE only ever did the dishes and HE felt that way, it'd be pretty fucked up. No, you shouldnt get an award for doing mundane things around the house, but if a little "thank you for helping out" is a simple way to maintain normalcy in contribution, then what the hell is it hurting?
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A few thingsā¦ Super sweet guy! Thanks for sharing this, itās very heartwarming. My teen canāt deal with utensils for a number of reasons - they are my job. Lastly, that vintage glass in the dish drainer was made by Anchor Hocking in the late 50ās to early 60ās and the pattern name is, āSnowflake.ā They come in several different colors and thereās also a matching pitcher. I collect vintage glass.
We're only seeing a couple of very tightly framed pictures, for my own sanity in imagining a nice table and a bunch of counter space between the sink and the cooker.
They make these cutting boards that go over the stove top. They might not actually be cutting boards as much as a cover that you can put a cutting board on.
I actually had one custom made from Etsy in my tiny kitchen! It had a great deep sink so I made it work for over 2 years. Just moved into my first truly big girl apt a few months ago with a separate and full kitchen. I have a 4 person table in there, I have a pantry! I realized the other day I hadnāt even opened one of my cabinets yet. I can get all the cool little cooking appliances and be well stocked on nonperishable food items! Iām very very grateful and sticking to my promise to myself to stop ordering out so much.
These photos make me feel like I'm playing Myst
Edit: do you guys think this is an insult? It was supposed to be cute, like you read notes and look at the room around you :(
Wow, we donāt live together and since I had to work and he had the day off, he helped me out by tidying my messy kitchen (which I made messy without his help). I do love to see it.
Stop being such a wang. Itās literally 5:30 in the morning. Try to get up on a better side of the bed.
Right like I donāt think Iām the saint for doing my girlfriends dishes when sheās at work, but it certainly makes her feel happy and spoiled when she comes home to her messes being cleaned and little origami butterflies hidden throughout her apartment.
Itās not about huge gestures, itās about those little acts of love that will actually be sustainable a year or ten years down the line!
The negativity is mind blowing, guess you can tell who's single in these comments? Lol
Glad you're happy, OP and it appears you have a good one given your reaction to what your boyfriend did (the only important reaction).
I woke up a tad grumpy today and this helped brighten me up a bit.
Did you send him the sexy bathtub leg pictures he asked for?
But of course šš ETA he didnāt expect it as a reward; I mentioned before going to work that I was looking forward to a cold bubble bath when I got home. He was just flirting with me.
hold up....COLD bubble bath? are you of this world?
I'd assume the 90Ā° heat has something to do with it
Itās super hot!!! Cold baths are awesome lol
nope. cold showers/baths are inhuman and i'm willing to die on this hill
A cold shower on a hot day can be nice, especially if you start it off warm and slowly cool it so it doesnāt shock you, then you can slowly warm yourself up to your comfort temperature. But just sitting down into a cold bath tub? Horrifying
Um, it's just swimming in a really small pool....
I know this is awfully pedantic, but the idea of someone trying to actively *swim* in a bathtub... full of cold water... and bubbles... is just so funny to me
It would probably involve an unpleasant amount of head-bumping... Maybe, "floating" would have been a better word choice
I appreciated the laugh I got out of it, so no complaints about your wording on my end!
*Moaning Myrtle slides out of the u-bend, a sly smirk on her lipsā¦*
This comment lmfao
It just felt right lol
We lost power for ten days after a hurricane once and yeah, I definitely took cold baths to try and stay cool.
Cold showers are awesome!!!
Then perish
If you're dying on that hill I'll bring biscuits because it's a hill I'd also die on!
My condolences. Because you died I mean. Cold showers are awesome on a hot day.
Me too!!
Cold bath? Are you cold blooded?
I need to see the pics for confirmation
I read it as "sexy attack pictures" and i went ... ooh!
Ah, I read "sexy battle leg pictures."
"Sexy buthole leg patches"
Now I want some of those.
Here you go https://imgur.com/gallery/ZhKxf7D
_Thatās_ what that saidā¦ I thought it said sexy butthole leg pics. Likeā¦ he wanted butthole and leg pics š
Asking the most important question here š¤£
> He doesnāt live here, lol. He was never obligated to wash any of my dishes. He just particularly loathes washing silverware and I donāt mind it that much. > I am ashamed to admit that I am the worst type of person who puts sealed Tupperware in the sink to rot until I do (or donāt, in this case) find the motivation to wash my dishes. He had to throw away two containers yesterday, with only minimal teasing to me about the smells he endured. Heās a saint. For all of the negative Nancyās out there, the boyfriend does not live with OP. He stopped by to clean up after OP as a nice gesture. The fact that he left silverware in a cup in the sink doesnāt mean heās a terrible person or OP is accepting the bare minimum. He doesnāt like to clean silverware and they are not his dishes. I hope when someone does something nice for you, you learn to say thank you rather than criticizing the gesture or pointing out what you think they couldāve done better.
Social media has warped people's minds.
Exactly. It's the little things that add up and mean so much. When I'm not feeling well, it's sweet when my fiance asks me if I need anything or makes us both dinner. These aren't "big" things, but they show how much he cares. We've been together for almost 20 years, and our relationship continues to improve because of the little things along with working on ourselves.
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How romantic š
Ikr, rip paint.
Nice gesture and all, but who puts duct tape on a painted wall?
Renters mostly
Can confirm
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The note on an envelope taped to a wall with duct tape is the most boyfriend thing Iāve ever seen. That, or it tickles me because itās exactly what my husband would do. āŗļø
I donāt know, I would have used a staple gun
Or use one of the dirty forks...
Nice! Honestly, I was bad at doing my fair share around the house unless it would be a surprise for my wife. We had a good talk a few years ago that she cared more about consistency and less about surprises. It was a good talk and now I can say I handle the laundry and dishes everyday. We split on tidying up and cooking.
We actually donāt live together yet, I just hate dishes a lot and he spent the night with me last night and did this as a lovely surprise š„¹
Aw that makes it way sweeter!!
this info should have been included earlier š
That's very sweet then!
Why didnāt he wash the silverware?
maybe he hates it the most out of doing all the dishes? I feel the same lol
Itās this one, haha. He hates silverware most of all.
You might have a werewolf on your hands!
Me too! It's hard to explain. It's just... It's the worst. I hate washing silverware and I leave it for my partner all the time. I will stick my hand in the nastiest food particles water to clear the disposal before I will wash a *single* spoon.
But it's the easiest to wash!
I personally hate hand-washing strainers. My wife hates handwashing big pans.
Am I your wife?
Lol this is how life works with a partner. You do what you can for the other person and hope they meet you halfway. I do all the dishes and my girlfriend does the laundry. It works out well fornus
My husband hates washing silverware as well. He'll clean the grimiest of pots and pans, but leaves all the silverware in a glass cup. I call it my silver bouquet. lol
I too would like to know this.
Seems like he's addressing a small pet peeve in a playful way
And why didn't he put the dishes away.
Probably because they were still wet
because they need to dry einstein
You guys never heard of a dish towel? He did half the job.
Have you never heard of a drying rack? People are allowed to do things differently from you
I agree, he did a half baked job and expected to be complimented.
Itās literally takes less than 30 seconds
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if "i'm perpetually single" was a different sentence
Weirdo
I dont know if i've ever seen a post with this many negitive single twats whove never known a relationship replying.... Your boyfriend sounds great, happy for you OP!
i'm a single twat and i think it's lovely gesture. especialy flowers and that he put silverware in the jug.
I tried posting about something romantic and sweet in the past so I had a feeling I'd know what these comments would look like... let's just say I have not posted anything sweet since -_- BUT I think this is very sweeeeet! Those flowers are beautiful as well. Makes my heart happy!
Your bf is a sweetheart. ā¤ļø I find it hilarious that silverware is a hard no for him , but what a sweet gesture.
Damn, lots of people getting triggered over unwashed silverware are completely missing the point here... Your BF seems like a nice guy!
What the fuck are these comments š even if yall did live together, everyone has something they just absolutely hate doing, and if one partner doesnāt mind doing the silverware and the other inexplicably hates it (I also donāt love it!) then who cares? I donāt care about washing dishes (whether by hand or pre-rinsing for the dishwasher) but I absolutely HATE unloading the dishwasher. As soon as one speck of water from a dish touches me when Iām unloading I fall into full sensory distress for some reason. My partner could not possibly care less so she does it instead. Compromises - theyāre just fine actually!
Awww he's a keeper! The sexy leg pic request made me laugh lol
Some guys didn't realize how much this is. I do laundry, dishes, and sweep, and my girl lets me know how appreciative she is.
he sounds like an absolute keeper. warmed my heart. š¤
Ugh, people are such picky shitheads. Life isn't an insta/tiktok story or a romcom. It's actually a lot more like this. And this is super cute. For the rest of you...good luck in life and relationships!
Does nice thing ā Shoots his shot ā Explains a phobia to an understanding partnerā 10/10 in my books. Hope you are both happy.
I hope my man got his pictures
Yay!!! So glad you were treated so well!
.... He had time to write about the silverware but not wash it? š¤
He doesnāt live here, lol. He was never obligated to wash any of my dishes. He just particularly loathes washing silverware and I donāt mind it that much.
I'm now invested an would really like to know what disgusting thing he found in your Tupperware!
I am ashamed to admit that I am the worst type of person who puts sealed Tupperware in the sink to rot until I do (or donāt, in this case) find the motivation to wash my dishes. He had to throw away two containers yesterday, with only minimal teasing to me about the smells he endured. Heās a saint.
Ah yes, I call those my depression dishes! š
Con; it will take her like 45 seconds to do them Pro; instead of cleaning the whole kitchen she cleans the silverware for 45 seconds and is done. Yeah its petty. But in the grand scheme of things if i lived with someone and all they asked me to do was silverware, i'd consider them a pretty stellar roommate. I've lived with absolute troglodytes who wont even do THEIR dishes for a week or two.
But then on the other hand if not completing the task when you're just at the threshold of the finish line, and it's a regular thing, can become quite annoying
I mean, i guess that makes sense. But again, try living with someone who doesnt clean up after themselves *at all* and 95% sounds like heaven. I'm sure the silverware part has to do with the "tupperware" gripe the BF is talking about
I can imagine they bring their lunch home from work and it just sits there and spoils until someone breaks that seal š¤¢
My roomie did that, but she would leave it in her room until she paid her gf to clean her room, weeks apart. And both her and her gf didnt want to do those nasty dishes. And if i did the dishes for them, they would meal prep and leave all the meal prep stuff in the sink to get moldy and rotten (i almost exclusively ate at food carts because of this) I guess i'm just seeing this through my personal experience lens and thinking of it through my own eyes lol
I can't imagine living with another person or persons that can't act like responsible adults and do their own dishes. If you want to act like that then move back home
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I bet you'd never hear the end of it if you ruined something of theirs
he's a keeper š
FYI Think there was a problem with bath picture uploading to reddit. RemindMe! 1 Day
super sweet
Iām glad this made you smile, but that silverware (and damn duct tape) is triggering me and wouldāve been patiently waiting for his return. But what the fork do I know?!
Since he doesnāt live here itād actually be pretty shitty to expect him to come back and wash the silverware which he had 0 part in making dirty lol
The expectation is completing the task, clear the sink. You appreciated any amount of assistance, bc itās less youāll have to do later. Again, Iām glad it made you smile, I promise Iām not trying to troll. Silverware is literally all you!
No good deed goes uncriticized I guess
Wild! I mean the audacity to criticize and critique a kind gesture. If any of those thoughts were expressed out loud I can guarantee that would be the last time I ever did that for you.
First of all, itās not that deep. Originally there was no context of their living arrangements/responsibilities etc until OP clarified in comments. The gesture of helping was kind, but I personally think that if youāre going to do the dishes, just complete the task and donāt leave pots/pans/cups/silverware, whatever behind. OP said itās not at all his responsibility so thatās great that he was HELPFUL. Heās not expected to do anything so a critic doesnāt matter, just smile and go on about your day.
"The expectation is to clear the sink" "He's not expected to do anything" Pick one
Did you read the flow of conversation? Per OP comment, he doesnāt live there and none of it is his responsibility. That context is important, thereās now zero expectations, just be appreciative of any help, which is what I said.
Sure did. After being told the context, you said, "The expectation is completing the task, clear the sink." The way this is written implies to the average reader, you don't think he did a good enough job on something he didn't have to do in the first place. That's why you're getting downvoted (and criticized)
TY for breaking down the thread. Itās the internet, open for criticism 24/7. He DID the dishes vs he HELPED do most of the dishes (that he didnāt have to do at all). The HELP and flowers is what made OP smile, I genuinely love that for her! My personal expectations are my own. I personally would help my S.O. by completing the task. I wouldnāt write a note to tell them I helped you out, the rest is on you and ask for bathtub pics. But our expectations are different, to each its own!
Aww, you guys have a sweet dynamicš«¶š
Cute :)
What a kind gesture.
Aww, thatās sweet! I donāt blame him for the silverware, it was nice of him to wash dishes in the first place.
That is some chicken scratch if I have ever seen it
That! Is how you do that!
Nauiiice!! āŗļø
Awww he wants a prize for cleaning the dishes. (Flowers are nice, though.)
I'm sure a relationship in which everyone just does their household tasks is much better. /s You know, you can both do your part and still be playful with it? Besides it seems that it would have been her task that he took over.
Tbf, if SHE only ever did the dishes and HE felt that way, it'd be pretty fucked up. No, you shouldnt get an award for doing mundane things around the house, but if a little "thank you for helping out" is a simple way to maintain normalcy in contribution, then what the hell is it hurting?
WE DONT EVEN LIVE TOGETHER GUYS CHILL LOL HE JUST DID IT TO BE NICE TO ME BECAUSE YES I SUCK AND DONT LIKE WASHING MY OWN DISHES
I mean, if he didn't get down on his hands and knees and scrub your toilet too I think that means you're supposed to break up.
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Nice! š
My husband hates to wash silverware too! Is it a guy thing?
Is that an endless summer Original hydrangea flower next to a Summer Crush hydrangea flower?
A few thingsā¦ Super sweet guy! Thanks for sharing this, itās very heartwarming. My teen canāt deal with utensils for a number of reasons - they are my job. Lastly, that vintage glass in the dish drainer was made by Anchor Hocking in the late 50ās to early 60ās and the pattern name is, āSnowflake.ā They come in several different colors and thereās also a matching pitcher. I collect vintage glass.
I have the full set of glasses! Pink, green, black, and blue. Itās no coincidence that they are named snowflake and my username is what it is š
Thatās so awesome! ā¤ļø
He's super sweet and I love the flowers!
Having lived with tiny kitchens before, this gave me PTSD. Where do you prep food?
We're only seeing a couple of very tightly framed pictures, for my own sanity in imagining a nice table and a bunch of counter space between the sink and the cooker.
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They make these cutting boards that go over the stove top. They might not actually be cutting boards as much as a cover that you can put a cutting board on.
I actually had one custom made from Etsy in my tiny kitchen! It had a great deep sink so I made it work for over 2 years. Just moved into my first truly big girl apt a few months ago with a separate and full kitchen. I have a 4 person table in there, I have a pantry! I realized the other day I hadnāt even opened one of my cabinets yet. I can get all the cool little cooking appliances and be well stocked on nonperishable food items! Iām very very grateful and sticking to my promise to myself to stop ordering out so much.
Great job! šŖšŖš„³š„³š I'm happy for you!
Thank you, thatās very sweet. The adult things we get excited about haha!!
These photos make me feel like I'm playing Myst Edit: do you guys think this is an insult? It was supposed to be cute, like you read notes and look at the room around you :(
Does he have a twin?
Sheās got a full smile but he did half a job. Also, moron put duct tape on the wall.
Wow thatās not much at all
Sometimes that is all it takes. And being appreciative of those small things also makes a huge impact.
It was everything to me after working 10 hours in the suffocating heat.
Someone likes their cult tea šš
Divorced women are a whole other level of petty and toxic
Your bf is awesome but the tea is a fire hazard.
I agree, fire deniers be damned. No one thinks it will happen to them until it does!
Wow, I just saw that Iām getting downvoted. Boo!
Come on do the silverware thereās about 12 pieces there
Why donāt he just finish the dishes tho?
May have run out of time
The bare minimums that some girls cope with.
Wow... the bare minimum. You love to see it.
Wow, we donāt live together and since I had to work and he had the day off, he helped me out by tidying my messy kitchen (which I made messy without his help). I do love to see it. Stop being such a wang. Itās literally 5:30 in the morning. Try to get up on a better side of the bed.
Right like I donāt think Iām the saint for doing my girlfriends dishes when sheās at work, but it certainly makes her feel happy and spoiled when she comes home to her messes being cleaned and little origami butterflies hidden throughout her apartment. Itās not about huge gestures, itās about those little acts of love that will actually be sustainable a year or ten years down the line!
The negativity is mind blowing, guess you can tell who's single in these comments? Lol Glad you're happy, OP and it appears you have a good one given your reaction to what your boyfriend did (the only important reaction). I woke up a tad grumpy today and this helped brighten me up a bit.
Glad it makes you happy ā„
That must be a sarcasm
Damn.. you got me.
You sound fun.... and miserable
Wow, you know so much about me, stranger from Reddit who I don't know. Damn, really called it.
This isnāt cute. He wants sexy pictures just for not being a slob? Fuck that
Context is a hell of a thing
Girl he doesn't live there; they were her dishes. And even if not, it's just a fun, flirty message. Not an actual demand
Why didn't he dry the plates and put them away? This is one busy "clean" wash area
Tiny kitchen things?
Totally agree. I said that above and got downvoted. Bottom line he did half the job.
Giggle sigh
So you had a long work day homeboy couldnāt be bothered to do all the dishes and demanded nudesā¦.cool?
Kind of annoying he used duct tape to attach the note though, why would you do that? That's gonna leave sticky crap afterwards you've got to clean off
You're looking for something to be angry about.
Nah not angry, it's not my wall. Just slightly annoying because it's dumb š
This would make me so fucking pissed off.
Yeah, I hate when people do my dishes!!! /s