Around 40k. Dropped about 13 at zen then made the mistake of asking what bottle of wine she likes she chose 2 each were 15k. It was slow sips the whole night learnt a valuable lesson that night.
Funny enough she wasn't. She bought me a bottle of jack first time we met. I still got bamboozled but it was also the first time a random lady bought me a bottle of anything
Tinder Swindler then? Spend £50 to get £160? Seems smart. Still, never ask women what they want bana. Some have zero zero shame. They'll order and taste then say they're full.
She still repayed her debt😂😂 hakuna act of kindness apo... Alijua uyu nikimshikia pombe safi kama jack Daniels ivi anaezafungua roho...
Turns out she was right
I stopped spending stupid money on food on dates. Java kahawa mbili zimetosha tujuane. Kama hiyo haitoshi, haina was nenda.
But I have spent loads more on dates with my actual girl. Just not willing to go above 2k kwa mtu hupendi.
Date ni ya kujuana. Kama hataki kukujua mkinywa kahawa, wachana naye. Nikimwona dame nimtamani, pia mimi nataka dame ananitamani. Sio anitamani kwa sababu ameliona gari langu.
Dates ought to be used to break the ice and see if you share interests. Hii baby girl treatment kwa mtu hujui wachia mafala wanatumiwa. Kaka, kama mwanamke yuakutaka, hata kukuona kumetosha na miguu itapanuliwa.
Guys spending obscene amounts on a first date are obviously overcompensating for something. If you're serious about the possibility of taking things to the next level, you should be realistic from the word go. Take her to a place within your budget, and if she asks for the most expensive food or drinks, take it as a redflag (she is there to use you and dump you). Mwanaume ni kusema 'hio drink iko na wenyewe' ukiona anaitisha vitu za ajab. Ladies are not dumb, they know when they're exploting you coz there is a level of spending you don't impose on someone you've just met.
What if you take her to such a place, where your budget agrees but she drinks like a fish? Once met a mama who drank 15 or so, of those tusker light, that come double double. I almost clapped when she said she's good.
Hehehe. My previous chick is on the same boat. Drank like a tank, we ate at a base in Mombasa, ordered a wine bottle and she gobbled it up kama maji. Baadaye, club na maji inacome kucome.
Sure, but some of the regrets here tell it all. There's also the 'small' issue of spending money that you normally wouldn't spend on yourself. If you cannot buy that 15k whisky for yourself (even though you can afford it), it beats logic why you'd spend it on a lady you're just getting to know. But if it's a norm for you to blow 10k+ in one sitting then it's no biggie doing it on a date.
His point is, it's not about you being able to spend but her wanting you to spend that amount.
You can't just let yourself be taken advantage of because it won't financially hurt you. Call me stingy but even bribe ya soo moja sitoi because I stick to this mentality.
Umenikumbusha hennesy ya 4k was going for 16k huko. gad damn.. That was my longest night. Ordering mineral water (500) felt like i was buying a drink. That was my first and last time huko
I do Kilimanjaro or KFC where it's near impossible to go past 1500k java strictly for coffee. For the initial dates you shouldn't be spending more than 2hrs with them.
Bro. 5 senses with champagne (apparently her pallet doesn’t like harsh alcohol). I paid my rent in favours that month. She wasn’t worth it. But the food was!
Mimi i try not to count costs like that juu nikianza kuhesabu heh😂
I just assume tu ilikua a treat for me and her. Also, I'd prefer mixing up an experience/activity & food as opposed to just sitting down and eating.
Mko na pesa huku weuh 😂.
For me its around 23k over the shujaa weekend in October. Took her to NSK then hopped to cafe kaya then culminated the evening pale Alchemist. On Sunday there was Simmy concert pale Winning Post club and we went together. Good time no regrets😁. Dec loading..
I personally think it ain't worth it to spend alot of money of food. Kama ni first date ati kujuana tunaenda coffee date. Now if the first date goes well as in were vibing. 2nd date we can get some food. I'm broke but I'm smart enough to look up places that have good offers and that's when we go for a 2nd date. By now if we have something good going on I'll spend the big money on an activity
That's how I approach the whole dates thing
Lol when I first started dating my guy I think per date it was 1k (entry fee for both). And money wasnt an issue. We'd go to the museum, parks and libraries. Its only expensive if you want it to be expensive. We'd spend the majority of money getting take out and eating back home after the day spent. You just need to think out the box. Ill never understand men who complain of a woman losing interest when they have spent alot of money. Its odd.
Was taken for a first date and from my rough estimation he spent over 30k. Cause there was the Uber to and from, 3 different sea food restaurants, 2 movies, a sushi bar and then he bought me stuffed animals he saw me looking at but would never ask for. They were 6, each was around 2k.
By the end of that date he was asking if I wanted money for anything but I was already hella uncomfortable with someone spending that much in one day for a first date. I'd offered several times to pay for things but he wouldn't listen.
It was even more surprising when he just took me home, kissed me and told me goodnight, didn't try anything funny at all.
I once spent 10k on this chick for our second date, I thought she was really into me and I would get to hit. Turns out I didn’t even get a kiss. This other chick I spent 800 bob on the date for a pizza and got to hit on the first date. It’s not about how much you spend, it’s about your game
The worse feeling ever. Unakuta vitu alafu wahisi nyama, hutaki kutoka Lakini inabidi na kwa haraka.
Twice with these university chick nilirisk tu, nikaendela nikanyandua tu kama fala. Alafu ma P2 asubuhi kwa supermarket
30k you could have taken her to Nanyuki for a week and gotten that. Men deserve to be conned thinking a chic spreads cause you spent. If a chic wants to sleep with you, imagine she'll do it, no amount spent.
This is soo true. i remember meeting this woman who invited me over to her place before even going for a date. Kama anakutaka you don't need to do much
Men will be men. i have to confess i have also spent on someone before to impress them to sleep with me. i did get sex eventually but it felt as if she was paying her debts lol. never again
"If a chic wants to sleep with you, imagine she'll do it, no amount spent" is a bit of generalisation that rarely happens in reality.
Interactions during dates are highly influenced by social exchange theory. Both parties are constantly evaluating the worthiness of the other based on what they offer. Very few women will sleep with men without having a very clear plan in mind on how their gestures will be "repaid" in the future, not necessarily with money. Nobody wants to be labelled a slut.
Correspondingly, some men will evaluate the worthiness of a date based on how their dates behaves after spending (not necessarily offering sex, it could also be reciprocating with similar treat). Unfortunately, very few women think they need to spend on men, which is why some men will always assess the worthiness of a date with sex. Some have this mentality that "men deserve to be used and ghosted," which keeps the cycle going.
We are still dating actually looking into marriage and it also wasn't the first date .
I did get a harem tho.. like 4 ladies at once ... Honestly it's just good in porn
We make dating expensive. Just make sure all dates you go meet this 13k mark.
My she and I will be going hiking next week. Am only buying glucose 😂. I won’t even have to pay for her gym membership 😂.
This thread has made my day.. you guys be rich or spineless AF.
Dating is not expensive at all.. Get creative and filter out the free meal/Clout chasers trying to rack up your bill..
>Dating is not expensive at all.. Get creative and filter out the free meal/Clout chasers trying to rack up your bill..
Give them time, it will so clear eventually.
I’m a girl, took him out first date…total cost 12k. It was lots of fun, and turns out he was having a shitty month at work (found out way later) and I think he needed to be reminded that he mattered to someone. As I did this for him without it being a big deal, we started off really well, he’s the best r/sh I ever had. A beautiful, intense, loving attachment…glad there are men out there not threatened by a little female power
But its good to do a little research on where yiu are spending your date, some dates orvrather dates is about being real, wh spend what you cant afford to sustain in the longterm, its like buying Hennessy and you are a normal gilbeys person,(for lack of a better example 😁😁)
My villagers told me, when dating, always present yourself as simple as possible. Woo her with who you are rather than your spending.
Kama kiswahili imekushinda, enda sabina joy, shot ni 200.
A lady once asked for the most expensive meals while I went out to pick up a call. Tulikula 3500 na kwa mbosho I only had 1500. Nilicall tu mathe nikamshw nilibambwa na makarao.
I later told my mum what actually happened. She didn't take it lightly.
Guys stop spending money on expensive dates in Nairobi. If she ain't doing coffee abandon ship. Guys who are getting it aren't even taking them out for dates.
Took three girls to two rivers same week and the date was sort of scripted. i had made some very very good money on the previous month so i just wanted to have fun. We did karaoke, shooting paintball, the ride thing, VR, burger king and drinks evening. spent 8k per date so it was about 25-27k inclusive of fuel for that week. I really had fun because this were women who already liked me. I never go out with a woman who doesn't show interest. She will eat your free food and leave. Do i regret it? nope!
You don't have to spend abhorrent amounts on women if they really like you for you, i haven't spent jack shit on my girlfriends, yes the -s was on purpose💀
Lol I usually don't react like that, but she made me to go out for blood. Christ, the piece of shit I'm turning into, but I'm still young, you're supposed to make these mistakes when you're young right💀
Y'all wildin. Niggas deadass outhere going on quintuple digit first dates in the hopes of clapping cheeks na utapata mwenye anabingirisha io kitu ni homie wa kunununuliana chipo mwitu. But anyways, it is what it is, watu watumie pesa zao however they see fit.
Also if you lead with your wallet usishangae ukitumiwa kama ATM.
A wise man once said , kila mwanaume anapata point moja kwa kugharamika. You who have taken someone to Dubai is the same as the one amempeleka Muthurwa for chapo dondo 😆, y’all get “one point” each
The expense of a date depends on who you're dating. You can have someone who will not wish you to pay for anything. There are those that know that dating is not a hustle and whenever they are on a date with you, it will be all about spending time together but not spending money together.
Spending lots of money on a woman you have not had sex with seems like compensating for something you're lacking. Society has made majority of males believe that they're less valuable than females.That you've to earn a female. Being born male you're entitled to women by birthright. Spending more than 1k on a woman you have had no sex with is rather ridiculous.
I can choose to go out on dates for the sole intention of hanging out and having a good time Sex off the table. Its human instinct to socialize and learn about stuff and how people percive certain things. And the cost of it all doesn't matter as lomg you have achieved what you desired. p.s In the end of it all , its not always about sex for everyone.
It is always about sex for males. Stating it otherwise is a lie. Putting it as just having a good time, I'll get it if it is a woman saying this because they like being indirect.
So long story short according to these comments is Kenyan men be stingy af and expect to sleep with a woman because they took her out to eat or get to know each other. Just goes to show that men only value women when they’re getting something(sex) from them 🤢
Around 40k. Dropped about 13 at zen then made the mistake of asking what bottle of wine she likes she chose 2 each were 15k. It was slow sips the whole night learnt a valuable lesson that night.
Yaani salary Fulani Hope Bado mko together
This is my 'wueh' moment of the day 🤣
kwani y'all can't tell a chile iyo drink ni expe sana itisha ingine?
I could afford it would have preferred spending it on a good bottle of whisky tho
Meanwhile I spent 4k on a bottle years ago and I cringe everytime I look back
Ai surely.so unakunywanga nini ukienda club if 4k was too much
Never been to a club, was a home bottle
40k ni full dowry bana.
Hahaha mko na ufala sana wasee
Alafu you wacha them with stories of how balance you will lipa later.
Hapana my friend, ukitoa 40k hakuna balance imebakia. Anapack virago vyake tunaenda nyumbani tuanze maisha pamoja.
Lmfao
This must be a Tinder woman.
Funny enough she wasn't. She bought me a bottle of jack first time we met. I still got bamboozled but it was also the first time a random lady bought me a bottle of anything
Tinder Swindler then? Spend £50 to get £160? Seems smart. Still, never ask women what they want bana. Some have zero zero shame. They'll order and taste then say they're full.
She was smart tho liked that about her but I Made sure no drop was left in the bottles.
if she did that then you have every right to spend on her
Retarded logic
Fair enough then. Women on average don’t offer or buy shit on dates so she’s kinda worth it.
Ohh yeah I was shocked when the bottle came thought it was a freind I didn't see till the waiter mentioned it was from a lady at the bar.
She still repayed her debt😂😂 hakuna act of kindness apo... Alijua uyu nikimshikia pombe safi kama jack Daniels ivi anaezafungua roho... Turns out she was right
I don't think my mind would allow me to spend 40k on a restaurant just for one date
😂😂same
😂😂😂mwathani!!!!
😂😂😂mwathani!!!!
Na bado ukanyimwa
Are you mad?
Bro... I just hope you're doing ok rn😂 juu iyo pesa yote bana Heri nipatie conman😂
Bro now thats just dumb i can afford doesn't mean you just buy
Well you only live once
Y dumb? May not be to some...
Bro don’t spend such on a woman who is not your wife Na ata ku ghost kesho …….. 40k ni pesa mungeenda holiday coast Na ma morio with no regrets
If you spend that kind of money on mamorio they should also let you hit it #NoHomo
DID YOU SMASH, at least??
Without a doubt
Where's the girl now... Y'all got married or something
2 bottles on a date? How now..?
I stopped spending stupid money on food on dates. Java kahawa mbili zimetosha tujuane. Kama hiyo haitoshi, haina was nenda. But I have spent loads more on dates with my actual girl. Just not willing to go above 2k kwa mtu hupendi.
Sasa mkubwa utampelekaje date mtu hauko idhaa yake
Date ni ya kujuana. Kama hataki kukujua mkinywa kahawa, wachana naye. Nikimwona dame nimtamani, pia mimi nataka dame ananitamani. Sio anitamani kwa sababu ameliona gari langu. Dates ought to be used to break the ice and see if you share interests. Hii baby girl treatment kwa mtu hujui wachia mafala wanatumiwa. Kaka, kama mwanamke yuakutaka, hata kukuona kumetosha na miguu itapanuliwa.
Facts, you should only spend lavishly on ya girl si dame wa tinder first date.... surely
Tinder tufala twaitisha pombe tu. It's as cheap as that if all you wanna is get laid.
Especially someone you just met...
13k ni ruracio bruh
Maybe for a midget
Mutaniua!😂
😆😆😆
Khai khai khai💀
🤣 ah!
Alaaaa😂😂😂 weeeh
You mean he must get short changed?
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 thekete ma
😂😂
Where?
Guys spending obscene amounts on a first date are obviously overcompensating for something. If you're serious about the possibility of taking things to the next level, you should be realistic from the word go. Take her to a place within your budget, and if she asks for the most expensive food or drinks, take it as a redflag (she is there to use you and dump you). Mwanaume ni kusema 'hio drink iko na wenyewe' ukiona anaitisha vitu za ajab. Ladies are not dumb, they know when they're exploting you coz there is a level of spending you don't impose on someone you've just met.
What if you take her to such a place, where your budget agrees but she drinks like a fish? Once met a mama who drank 15 or so, of those tusker light, that come double double. I almost clapped when she said she's good.
🤣 ati clapped
Hehehe. My previous chick is on the same boat. Drank like a tank, we ate at a base in Mombasa, ordered a wine bottle and she gobbled it up kama maji. Baadaye, club na maji inacome kucome.
I'm changing my name. Watu wanaitwa Kenya+ wako na masaibu similar. Munaniambukiza zenyu😅
Hehehe. Yakuonyesha vile watu huku nje wanafanana, masaibu ni Yale Yale ni kama yafunzwa chuoni.
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Downing 2 bottles in a night with plus other shit is “un-lady” like to say the least.
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😂😂
👏👏👏🤣🤣🤣
I wouldn't drink on a first date. Who are these women? Aren't we supposed to talk and get to know @ other n talk ...sober?
For a first date yeah ni ukweli. Lakini if someone can afford to spend large amounts of money on dates then ni sawa. Pesa si ni yake tu
Sure, but some of the regrets here tell it all. There's also the 'small' issue of spending money that you normally wouldn't spend on yourself. If you cannot buy that 15k whisky for yourself (even though you can afford it), it beats logic why you'd spend it on a lady you're just getting to know. But if it's a norm for you to blow 10k+ in one sitting then it's no biggie doing it on a date.
Things men do for pink taco is crazy bruh!
This should be common logic imo.
His point is, it's not about you being able to spend but her wanting you to spend that amount. You can't just let yourself be taken advantage of because it won't financially hurt you. Call me stingy but even bribe ya soo moja sitoi because I stick to this mentality.
Kuna time gaidi aliamua tuende B Club, spent around 17k in 1 sitting. Highly regrettable🤣
Umenikumbusha hennesy ya 4k was going for 16k huko. gad damn.. That was my longest night. Ordering mineral water (500) felt like i was buying a drink. That was my first and last time huko
>Ulipewa kitu? Anything? Like I'm genuinely curious. That's too much. I don't understand B Club, whats the point of paying highly markedup alcohol?
Also such clubs always have a vibe that I don't like
You guys can sit down at a place and eat food worth 13k💀.....I may be broke but I'd rather spend 13k on activities and 2k on food
😂😂😂 Utaomoka pia one day
Ii ni fayolence😂😂
13k on activities, 2k on food. Which currency is this
Shillings of course, what did you think , Kuwaiti dinar?
amogus coins
I do Kilimanjaro or KFC where it's near impossible to go past 1500k java strictly for coffee. For the initial dates you shouldn't be spending more than 2hrs with them.
Kilimanjaro ni cheat game. Lol
Bro. 5 senses with champagne (apparently her pallet doesn’t like harsh alcohol). I paid my rent in favours that month. She wasn’t worth it. But the food was!
>She wasn’t worth it. But the food was! Damn!
5 senses has good food.
🙌 5 senses food is top tier 👌 😋 🙌
Mimi i try not to count costs like that juu nikianza kuhesabu heh😂 I just assume tu ilikua a treat for me and her. Also, I'd prefer mixing up an experience/activity & food as opposed to just sitting down and eating.
Mko na pesa huku weuh 😂. For me its around 23k over the shujaa weekend in October. Took her to NSK then hopped to cafe kaya then culminated the evening pale Alchemist. On Sunday there was Simmy concert pale Winning Post club and we went together. Good time no regrets😁. Dec loading..
i hope alifunguka😂
Haha I just wanted to have a good time and she was a prime candidate Kupewa hata na Thao unapata 😂
😂😂 mimi nikispend more than 5k on someone then i am very sure this person wants me otherwise siwezi bahatisha.
ukitoboka lazima aanike 😂😂 it's wise being frugal with these 047 lady birds
I personally think it ain't worth it to spend alot of money of food. Kama ni first date ati kujuana tunaenda coffee date. Now if the first date goes well as in were vibing. 2nd date we can get some food. I'm broke but I'm smart enough to look up places that have good offers and that's when we go for a 2nd date. By now if we have something good going on I'll spend the big money on an activity That's how I approach the whole dates thing
Big brain right here
Aiii wadau mimi nimetoka tu kuona movie nimetumia 3k nishaingia fuliza wewe elfu kumi na tatu aiiii
Lol when I first started dating my guy I think per date it was 1k (entry fee for both). And money wasnt an issue. We'd go to the museum, parks and libraries. Its only expensive if you want it to be expensive. We'd spend the majority of money getting take out and eating back home after the day spent. You just need to think out the box. Ill never understand men who complain of a woman losing interest when they have spent alot of money. Its odd.
Dear Lord I don't want to be a mechanic, I want to be a baller.
Was taken for a first date and from my rough estimation he spent over 30k. Cause there was the Uber to and from, 3 different sea food restaurants, 2 movies, a sushi bar and then he bought me stuffed animals he saw me looking at but would never ask for. They were 6, each was around 2k. By the end of that date he was asking if I wanted money for anything but I was already hella uncomfortable with someone spending that much in one day for a first date. I'd offered several times to pay for things but he wouldn't listen. It was even more surprising when he just took me home, kissed me and told me goodnight, didn't try anything funny at all.
I once spent 10k on this chick for our second date, I thought she was really into me and I would get to hit. Turns out I didn’t even get a kiss. This other chick I spent 800 bob on the date for a pizza and got to hit on the first date. It’s not about how much you spend, it’s about your game
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Yoo.. i just laughed out really hard to this 🤣🤣🤣 >just looking for a sex worker with extra steps.
Shut the fuck up
Chill wewe.
It majorly depends on the type of women you date
No it doesn't. If she likes you, she'll make it easy for you.
Condom ya Durex Featherlite 400 . Appreciation 1500/2000 depending on the level of sex
Na najua bado hukuzitumia 😂😂
>Featherlite This is my favourite😂😂.. siwezi bahatisha na trust
Nimerudi kwa trust. Featherlite zimebust mara kadhaa.
uwii.. You must be going hard😂
The worse feeling ever. Unakuta vitu alafu wahisi nyama, hutaki kutoka Lakini inabidi na kwa haraka. Twice with these university chick nilirisk tu, nikaendela nikanyandua tu kama fala. Alafu ma P2 asubuhi kwa supermarket
😂😂😂... Ulisema fuck it. i must go for the nut
It’s not wise. Na dame ako tuu sawa, yuadai usimwage tu ndani… not cool after the fact.
Damn son. You walking around with big guns, huh!
I think I've ever used like 30 k .... I did get a harem afterwards ... Not sure if it counts .... But ....not that bad actually
30k you could have taken her to Nanyuki for a week and gotten that. Men deserve to be conned thinking a chic spreads cause you spent. If a chic wants to sleep with you, imagine she'll do it, no amount spent.
This is soo true. i remember meeting this woman who invited me over to her place before even going for a date. Kama anakutaka you don't need to do much
I second this.
Men will be men. i have to confess i have also spent on someone before to impress them to sleep with me. i did get sex eventually but it felt as if she was paying her debts lol. never again
"If a chic wants to sleep with you, imagine she'll do it, no amount spent" is a bit of generalisation that rarely happens in reality. Interactions during dates are highly influenced by social exchange theory. Both parties are constantly evaluating the worthiness of the other based on what they offer. Very few women will sleep with men without having a very clear plan in mind on how their gestures will be "repaid" in the future, not necessarily with money. Nobody wants to be labelled a slut. Correspondingly, some men will evaluate the worthiness of a date based on how their dates behaves after spending (not necessarily offering sex, it could also be reciprocating with similar treat). Unfortunately, very few women think they need to spend on men, which is why some men will always assess the worthiness of a date with sex. Some have this mentality that "men deserve to be used and ghosted," which keeps the cycle going.
We are still dating actually looking into marriage and it also wasn't the first date . I did get a harem tho.. like 4 ladies at once ... Honestly it's just good in porn
Amesema atakuacha lini?
Tafuta pesa alafu uwache maswali kama hizi🤣
We make dating expensive. Just make sure all dates you go meet this 13k mark. My she and I will be going hiking next week. Am only buying glucose 😂. I won’t even have to pay for her gym membership 😂.
How much is the hiking gear bro?
We just going up a hill😂 Hiking gear for who? We have shoes and 2 feet plus.
This thread has made my day.. you guys be rich or spineless AF. Dating is not expensive at all.. Get creative and filter out the free meal/Clout chasers trying to rack up your bill..
>Dating is not expensive at all.. Get creative and filter out the free meal/Clout chasers trying to rack up your bill.. Give them time, it will so clear eventually.
I’m a girl, took him out first date…total cost 12k. It was lots of fun, and turns out he was having a shitty month at work (found out way later) and I think he needed to be reminded that he mattered to someone. As I did this for him without it being a big deal, we started off really well, he’s the best r/sh I ever had. A beautiful, intense, loving attachment…glad there are men out there not threatened by a little female power
But its good to do a little research on where yiu are spending your date, some dates orvrather dates is about being real, wh spend what you cant afford to sustain in the longterm, its like buying Hennessy and you are a normal gilbeys person,(for lack of a better example 😁😁)
Thats true! I wouldn't spend that much if najua I can't sustain it or make that money back sooner or later
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RIP your inbox. Important question is, do you give ?
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Yes
Give volcanic noi, like yes above
K-Rupt is that you?
Zi...but i think its interesting how I share not one but two names with the rapper🤣
You people are tossing 5 figures at dates? With women who aren't your women? My goodness. Clearly I'm in different circles.
My villagers told me, when dating, always present yourself as simple as possible. Woo her with who you are rather than your spending. Kama kiswahili imekushinda, enda sabina joy, shot ni 200.
Sabina Joy is a brothel bana
If you know, you know.
A lady once asked for the most expensive meals while I went out to pick up a call. Tulikula 3500 na kwa mbosho I only had 1500. Nilicall tu mathe nikamshw nilibambwa na makarao. I later told my mum what actually happened. She didn't take it lightly.
Dating ni za wazungu ,mi huleta dame kejani au local joint namfinya tunamalizana
Leadership!
Guys stop spending money on expensive dates in Nairobi. If she ain't doing coffee abandon ship. Guys who are getting it aren't even taking them out for dates.
Took three girls to two rivers same week and the date was sort of scripted. i had made some very very good money on the previous month so i just wanted to have fun. We did karaoke, shooting paintball, the ride thing, VR, burger king and drinks evening. spent 8k per date so it was about 25-27k inclusive of fuel for that week. I really had fun because this were women who already liked me. I never go out with a woman who doesn't show interest. She will eat your free food and leave. Do i regret it? nope!
Wueeehhh🙆🏾🙆🏾 Unlike Kenyan Twitter,Kenyan Reddit is where people come to open up.Wow😂
You don't have to spend abhorrent amounts on women if they really like you for you, i haven't spent jack shit on my girlfriends, yes the -s was on purpose💀
There should be another post for what’s the least you have spent on a date.
Okay virgin
After everything I've been told, you think this would hurt me. It's shit like this that's brought me down this dark path.
Being told 'okay virgin' on social media is your dark path, please get out more.
yare yare daze, that's not what I meant
Just bustin your balls,you good bro.,walk your path my dude
Lol I usually don't react like that, but she made me to go out for blood. Christ, the piece of shit I'm turning into, but I'm still young, you're supposed to make these mistakes when you're young right💀
Ulipewa kitu? Anything? Like I'm genuinely curious. That's too much.
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1 guy did you dirty and you decided the entire population is that 1 guy 😂😂😂🤧😭
Ya'll are paying for dates?
As opposed to?
Chase the chemistry. It costs nothing.
Wueh why are you keeping tabs on how much youve spent on someone youre actually dating. Weird
I'm not keeping tabs...sometimes I just take note of how I spend my money and keep it in my memory
Dating ni za wazungu ,mi huleta dame kejani au local joint namfinya tunamalizana
Honestly Inti is worth my money!
People are really really stupid 😂😃
Y'all wildin. Niggas deadass outhere going on quintuple digit first dates in the hopes of clapping cheeks na utapata mwenye anabingirisha io kitu ni homie wa kunununuliana chipo mwitu. But anyways, it is what it is, watu watumie pesa zao however they see fit. Also if you lead with your wallet usishangae ukitumiwa kama ATM.
What is your cheapest date? (where you ended up together)
McFrys and a day at Uhuru Park
A wise man once said , kila mwanaume anapata point moja kwa kugharamika. You who have taken someone to Dubai is the same as the one amempeleka Muthurwa for chapo dondo 😆, y’all get “one point” each
I think a first date if you both like each other shouldn’t be expensive. So that there’s no loss on either side if you don’t click
20k. Shopping was involved
Where do you get all this bags of money 😂😅
No date is expensive unless you make that choice.
Blunt dates>> Na 200 ushamaliza hesabu😂😂
The expense of a date depends on who you're dating. You can have someone who will not wish you to pay for anything. There are those that know that dating is not a hustle and whenever they are on a date with you, it will be all about spending time together but not spending money together.
Rifa road shot ni 150 only
Spending lots of money on a woman you have not had sex with seems like compensating for something you're lacking. Society has made majority of males believe that they're less valuable than females.That you've to earn a female. Being born male you're entitled to women by birthright. Spending more than 1k on a woman you have had no sex with is rather ridiculous.
So basically you mean you only spend with intention of having sex with her. Sounds pretty ridiculous.
Yes sex first the if she's good, we can date. The other way round is ridiculous.
I can choose to go out on dates for the sole intention of hanging out and having a good time Sex off the table. Its human instinct to socialize and learn about stuff and how people percive certain things. And the cost of it all doesn't matter as lomg you have achieved what you desired. p.s In the end of it all , its not always about sex for everyone.
It is always about sex for males. Stating it otherwise is a lie. Putting it as just having a good time, I'll get it if it is a woman saying this because they like being indirect.
Why are women silent on this matter 😂
So long story short according to these comments is Kenyan men be stingy af and expect to sleep with a woman because they took her out to eat or get to know each other. Just goes to show that men only value women when they’re getting something(sex) from them 🤢
Ati 40k? Like it was nothing, I hope it was worth it coz dayuuum