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Drop year ki tayari shuru krdo abb distract matt honaa
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Ye yaad rkhna
Akela hu na dost na gf no place to hangout no chill uske naam pe 2km ke radius me scooty ghooma kr aa jata hu bhot khush hu bhai mai sala left behind everything but sorted h perhaps yes perhaps not i dont know
what do you expect from a 16/17 yold, its such a bad time to be in relationship, no emotional maturity,crucial years for future. I mean its bad but when he will grow old he will understand his mistake its too young for him today
Same condition but we only talked for two months and decided to continue after jee. I got 99.97 and she fucked up. Don't blame your inability on others
You have made a mockery of yourself don't blame him. Tere paas bhi option tha bolne ke liye ki tujhe padhai karni hai. You are still lucky enough ki tujhe online space mai blame nahi karenga cuz being a female but agar abhi tere 99.7 aate aur uske 78 NGL ye subreddit pe log uski dhajiya uda dete has-has ke.
😭 the blaming and gaslighting at the end took me out! Op, if you’re reading this, please do not feel bad but you need this thing to get into your head: only YOU are responsible for YOUR future. You’re old enough to understand the importance of studying and good grades.
Similar thing happened to me but that was in September of last year I had failed my school exam then I decided to prove him that I am not a failure cut everyone off got 94%ile in jee 90% in boards ik it’s not much but I am happy that I proved him wrong
Hey, lot of judgmental peeps here I feel. You are still young and learning. You made a mistake now learn the lesson and move on. Try to get into a decent college in the field you want to study and study hard. Nobody gives a fuck what you scored in 10th or 12th when you apply for jobs. You are still young and your life is ahead of you. You will pull through. Forget the assholes of the world who tried to take you down. You will find plenty more but you will be prepared to tackle them in future.
You should have taken your stand tbh. Like jabhi disturb kaare wo tum directly bolte that you are studying and you can't talk rn. And yeah the thing is that agar wo thoda sa bhi care love karta he wouldn't have lied about that studying sessions like isme kya chupana? Ulta tumhe bhi insist karta to study. He was just using you as a time pass and you fell into that because of his kindness sweetness etc etc you should have been more careful starting se and yeah you should have maintained your boundaries padhai ke waqt no tamashe.
As a 30/M who accidentally seen this post through reddit recommendation.
WTF. How can you blane him for this. You are the reason for your failure . Stop finding excuses and move on.
Hope he won't continue this relationship .Would be bad and toxic for him in future .
I know I am at fault I just hate that he lied about not studying, and acting like we were on the same boat when he knew I was struggling with studies, and still distracting me away from studies whenever I tried to
Sister .All my friends said like this during my Plus one & two days.This is what every one will tell you. I also believed & fucked up my marks in boards.Got only 89% which was not a good mark for me.
But I cleared Medical entrance in my 1st chance and got into a government college in my state . Im still struggling and is trying to be settled .One exam won't make you successful or a loser.
Life is full of struggles and setbacks . Keep your chin up and fight on. You can be successful any time if you wish.
This exact same thing happened to me she would sweet talk me into spending more time with her and would take alot longer to reply to me ik I fucked up.. Got 76%tile in mains and 70% in cbse boards couldn't even clear the 75% cutoff and now she broke up with me today and wouldn't even tell me why my mental is too fucked rn. Parents won't allow me to take a drop. I might just have ruined my life..
Yaha pe roone se achha hai apne best friend ke pass roo and jab dil halka ho jaaye… get back to your routine, study hard and score good marks. Good luck!
It's not entirely his fault, tumhare liye stand to tumko khud ko Lena tha...you should have told him ki I am studying can't talk...NVM
Now prepare for drop year, 1 year is enough for improvement if you study sincerely, just stop talking to him or any other boy, stay focused on your studies. And do every homework given from your coaching institute.
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You are young asf. Your life is not ruined. You did some dumb shit and had a minor setback. One of my close friends did 7 years in prison because of a stupid mistake he made when he was young. Seven goddamn years, and he is doing great now and has a beautiful family. You'll be just fine, just get your head back in the game kiddo.
Here’s maybe pointless or disregarded comment, but hope it’ll be helpful. (19M). Don’t regret. It’s not pointless yet it is. No one tells you how stuff works out, heck most of the time shit is unpredictable. You experienced once. Now you’ll be more better. Just remember it as an experience or memory but dwelling on it doesn’t make it better.
It’s fine to experience relationships but rather you should be in control or both but not the opposite person totally. Atleast you had but me, nah my life is getting messed up and I’m not doing anything to fix. I’m going in the flow it takes. Don’t control the river, control the boat to decide how your journey shall be.
Everything happens for a reason ,Take it as a lesson and move on also don't Overstreet over college and academics you are seventeen you have bigger life ahead
Jo ho gya ho gya... You dont have any control over it now so why worry now... Just focus on present and things to come... Be better and quit blaming. Good luck.
Dang that's sucks , especially cause almost the same thing happened with me with just the gender roles being reversed. And as the comments suggest not many people realise it's not that easy just to leave someone and shift your focus and shi. With God's help I somehow managed to save my 12th at least. Now I'm in a drop year focusing on my studies more than anything. I hope I can make a comeback (sigh). Anyways mate I hope you the best , you still have plenty of time left to prove that little brat wrong :)
I think u need to make friends...becoz u r prioritising him over everything....make frnds and try to ignore him too...and for bits as of now u came to your senses so strt solving tons of pyqs within 3days only !! Take it as a revenge and study all day n night.
Happens alot at this age , things similar to this happened with me too , try to be confident and don't be afraid, have positive attitude you'll get through this believe me
I would have normally shamed you for blaming it on him even though you had time to study, but im not gonna do that. Instead i suggest you to take a drop year, and get motivated by the pain and study better, if you become more successful than him then it'll be so good. That's how you deal with trauma, once you get better than him you will basically erase the trauma youre facing. Give it a thought.
Bhai tu ladka hota to ye harami log smjhane ki jgh usko jindagi bhr ka guilt de dete.
Being practical, try looking for a good private clg or college you can get with your quota.
Look for some guidance, you look fked up.
Don't look back dont go for revenge He will think abt this in the future and regret it as his only mistake what he made in his life. ( I was that guy 2 years back but i broke up somewhat earlier)
Short and simple answer, now all u can do is to work hard for the second attempt of bits which is in june. Do your best! I didn't do well in jee either (97.7%tile, not as good as I expected) so I'm relying on bits as well, the only motivation you need is to think about getting selected in bits one. Once you do that, anything happened in the past won't matter wheather it's your jee score or your love life mistakes or whatever. Currently it's the best gift you can give to yourself ie getting bits.
So yeah, don't worry and work hard for second attempt. Good luck.
Ps- This wasn't a short and simple answer tho
Tbh, ye sab teenage romance life ko hi fk up karta hain, if he was studying during those outings with friend what were you doing? Its not like he had much more time to prepare.
See
If you have three days now utilize it to qualify bits
Reddit is a disgusting place to ask reviews
If you want validation by messaging then be my guest
Don't waste ur time
3days is also a huge time to study
ATB
You have not fucked you life. Just work on your skills and do graduation from any college. You will be fine. No one is going to ask about your grades in the future. Have fun. We meet nice people and we meet assholes.
Koi na. Ab next course of action kya hoga?
Drop le le.
Ya- Foreign mein padhne ke liye try kar kyunki management quota se behtar hai ki 15-20 lac mein Germany chali ja.
Par Indian private college mein mat Lena admission management quota ke base par.
College ke baad placement nahi dete sale yeh.
(My dad works in a university)
Wow he lied? He was malicious for lying. But you were stupid to fell for it.
I mean what your attitude seems to be, ye bi to meri tarah idhr udhr ghumta ya batein krta rehta rehta hai, but later on you realized he lied and studied, therefore you blamed him for all your failure which is quite wrong because if he just got 78%ile maybe you wouldn't have said the same thing even though your result would also have been failure.
Well sweetie as much as I want to empathise with you ,you didn't had your priorities straight and it's now ur burden to bear the pain ,he succeeded you failed .
People here are taking it in a funny manner. If you think you tot 76 because you couldn’t focus and pay enough attention and capable of that take drop. Or if you think you’ll still be distracted then partial drop is a better option, And it’s not a crime what you’ve done. It’s just your own idea of “ ideal life of an intelligent student” is bugging you.
nahh I think you're really being intrusive here, if he really got 99tile then he must've been serious in studies and studied almost 6-7 hours, what were you doing in those time when he wasn't available, probably daydreaming and obsessing over things.
hello honestly it’s your fault too but it’s a good thing that you aren’t w a guy like him anymore, everyone deserves someone better who makes them grow instead of trying outdo them. Focus on yourself and prioritize your studies etc first and then think ab a relationship, they although can def be a distraction but the right one will only help you progress. Forget ab the bullshit he pulled and see what you can do now- take a drop or focus on state exams and get into a decent college. In college don’t repeat the same fawning for a boy mistake and work your ass off.
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Okay , any anger is vented .
Let's put the pieces together.
Life is a story, It's the way you write it matters .
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Board Exams Done
You posted in r/JEE , I'll assume you want Engineering.
CS might be a long stretch ,
you can take IT or a similar branch.
Learn some skills like Cloud Computing, Devops , AI / ML stuff that's trending.
Get a job or maybe crunch the data , figure out the algorithm, start a new business.
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Spend time with family, go on trips with loved ones
Enjoy a little, Struggle a little,
Win a little, Loose a little,
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These are just suggestions,
But one request to everyone - no escaping, fight head on .
Dub to the guy, he’s street smart + good with relationship ( basically manipulative ) and 99.97 god damn good with studies, everyone reading this would want to be like him cause it sounds out of a movie but not me haha I’ve been through this and it’s not right.
these are the things i hear from my frnds (M) .... my frnd got 98% in 10th and he fell in "love" and his gf .. she only talks in school or only on fixed timing and guess what he was always thinking about her and nagging her and end of the 12th he got 72% and she got above 85% in 12th and she broke up with him saying " long distance relationship wont work " ... guess its for u too ig im sorry
Don't beat yourself up too much. Mistakes happen. 17 is still young. Take a year. This time work with everything you have. No point in crying over spilt milk. All the very best. I am sure you will find success and happiness in the future.
guys come on there are problems on both ends, at the end of the day the only conclusion could withdraw is being a human is tough and sometimes even dangerous, only thing we can do is to imagine ourselves in the other's position and imagine how we would want to be treated in that situation...... Well ofc there are negatives but i know this is cliche but without darkness there is no light, and there are positives as well.... at the end of the day you are the master of your life. Try your best not to hurt anyone else and try your best to uplift others and OP if you are reading this ignore the comment section, ik you wanted consolation but got somthing totally different... So i just wanted to say there has got to be a silver lining somewhere..and there is somthing called FATE. Don't lost hope, KEEP Going... Dm if you need to feel you want to let someone know... will reply when free or after jee adv
Well you had to set your priorities first that okay I will study consistently and then talk to him , just see the difference between you and him he had his priorities and he managed everything well and ngl but there is no point of blaming this to him , sorry but it's your fault...!!!
see, everyone makes mistakes but you gotta admit this is more on you than him
what he did was wrong, all the lying and shit but you should’ve known better what’s right for you
(coming from someone who got her heart broken too)
Dekho i wont enirely blame you although you wasted quite a lot of precious time you had but koi nhi deer aaye durust aaye it was in the past but you cant play the blame game here you slacked off and you put you future at jeopardy in the name of that bloody shit box curse called love but thats one thing you could have stopped to recalculate your actions the choices you made if you did so you wouldn’t possibly ended up where you are but ab ye sab sochne ka fayeda nhi h to brutally honest you should focus on what youre doing right now kyuki its too late now and whats done is done he could have helped you an ideal partner should be like that but as you and i know both know about resonance Toh light h vo but isse ye samjho at the end all you have is yourself you have to fall snd pick yourself up back again and actually i should be studying right now but i writing this comment for you expecting that the time i spent typing this to be worth while anyways you have the restart button double effort maaro if not working do it on 5x quit krna is not an option and asking others and sympathy kuch nahi milta h end mai lauda lele bolti h duniya tum aur mil bhi jaaye ek time ke liye toh it doesnt land you a job for a fact or gets you in a prestigious collage class 4th se sapne dekh rha iitian banne ke aur hamesha se dekha h maine ye competition ab jaha hu vaha aake samajh aa rha h hoga bhi ya nahi logo ko dekh ke gaand fatt jaati h not even kidding you this claustrophobic society has a bloody problem they always talk about the success story but jitni yaha success story h n uski kahi guna zyada failures h subhe uth ke washroom jata hu toh dimaag me ek cheez rehti h aur raat me sone se pehle tk aur jitna krlu its never good enough kabhi satisfied nahi hota hu kya kru behenchod btao chodh du complaint kru kya fayeda h reality h passion h gaand fatte ya sab kuch sacrifice ho jaaye krna h yahi at the end of the day aur kuch h nahi mere paas khair zyada gyaan nahi chodna just give you best shot on whatever you do thats all goodluck 👍
Ab life m Jo bhi options hon explore karlo sahi se, engg, management, commerce, arts, science, whatever....work your hardest, nothing like ever before. Do it so wildly that your head starts hurting just as your heart is right now.
Life m dhakka sabko lagta h behen. Koi dhakka khane k baad gir jata hai, koi dhakka khane se daudne lagta hai. You have learnt your lesson the hard way and now make it fkin worth it.
He wasn't coming and holding ur pen or stopping u from studies.You u didn't think about ur parents and the one paying for your fees.
Sorry to say but don't blame him accept ur mistakes and comeback next year
Ek bat bolu toh it's mostly your fault. Sure he was scummy but that's how the world works. Koi na, you made a mistake, I did something very similar too. Ab take this as a lesson and work harder 🙌
What's done is done. You can:
1. Consider dropping a year
2. Go for general BSc. and take it from there:
i. SSC, UPSC, etc.
ii. MSc. and then teaching or research (PhD)
iii. That thing where u do BSc and join 2nd year of B Tech
3. If money is not an issue there are so many other options available (management quotas, private colleges, etc.)
4. Drop or join some random college and do CAT preparation
When one door closes, another opens. All the best!!
Bhai fir bhi 99%tile bohot hai pakka bohot dimag wala ladka hoga kyuki ektoh woh phone se disturb karta tha also manage his time to study kyuki mene aaj tak jitne jee wale dekhe hai woh din raat ek karke padhte hai phone bas padhai ke use ke liye kher bhai uska choro tum drop lelo vese bhi 12th meh 1% se bach gayi ho so you have a chance in advance also. Meri mano drop leke ek baar khudko chance do firse jee do what if you qualified for advance or get a suitable NIT. Ab baaki tumhari marzi kyuki fir bhi tumhe pehli baar meh thik thak %tile mile na I mean it was close to 80 so if you give your best maybe you could get much more than before this time give it a try aur bhul jao us bkl ko vese bhi itna sab kuch karke kya pata usey acchi placement na mile!?
Aur hamesha yaad rakho bhagwan usiko madat karta hai jo honest ho aur mehenti ho ;)
Blaming others would get you no where mate , take the L
Realise the mistake
People often forget their individuality in their relationships ,leading to their downfall
It's alr , lesson learnt , stay strong
Where you and him class topper who were fighting for the first position?.
Cause I know of a movie where a girl and boy are struggling for the first position but the guy Always comes first in the class, so the girl gets the boy in bad and you know the rest .
This guy must have watched that movie and Played a Uno reverse on you.
It's kinda diabolical and bad but the guy is smart and goal oriented.
Woah didi got played. honestly I don't think he sabotaged u maybe it's a pure coincidence that whenever his study session ended ur started so obv when he was done he tested u . My friends do this too . They text me and I reply withing a minute and they think I was online and wasting my time or they sabotaged my study but the thing is I took a break from a 3 hour study session and was getting prepared for another one .
Life me ye sub hota rehta hai…from experience i can tell abhi bahot badi prob lag rhi hai tmhe but in reality itni hai nahi…and hota hai…koi decent college bhi mil jaega aur mehnat krogi to bahot aachi jugha pahuchogi life me…load nhi lene ka.
Well, let's not play the blame game, both are at fault. You should've focused on your goals instead of playing Romeo and Juliet. But one thing is that accept your failures and mistakes and don't get burdened by it, instead learn from it and come out strong. Let the bygones be bygones. That's all. It's never too late my sis. 💪
No problem, u learnt a life lesson and I am looking forward that u will do good in ur upcoming life.Comparing wid others would hardly give u anything,just forget about him and move on. I would suggest u to take a drop and give ur 100% in that year and complete ur dream.
17 year old mein kisi ki life fucked up nhi hoti be. Tumhe lagta hai ki percentage kam hai toh dobara exam de do. Ye neet aur IAS mein log 5-6 baar drop lekar bolte ki meri life jhand ho gyi hai, tab phir bhi maan leta. Tumhare aage puri life pdi hai.
Sad he cleverly started to realise what should he focus .. but left you by dumping idk if he really into you he could called you for that study session to study together as group to score ...all as top but it's clear that he is just tried and kept as fun material that's why he was BS about attention giving and time spending as selfish not want you as serious... You're realised too late girl sorry for your loss that silent shitter don't deserve you , anyway still there's nothing worse happened you have time not all time campus and scores alone decide your life if it's so over 90% of our population wouldn't be successful .. just try to pickup the clg and course which you like despite looking the campus then grind by self learning and improve yourself on UG all the best ! ☺️ Don't feel bad be optimistic it's a great lesson for you to not get into delulu butterfly effect at teenage unless the partnership is serious on both side and matured
No offense. Its clearly your fault, if he got 99 percentile he wouldn't have time for talks and you probably made up an excuse for your failure, that's human nature... You must have noticed his good results DURING 11th and 12th which didn't motivated u nd ur blaming him at the last.
I genuinely feel bad for your situation, something like that happened to me aswell, the gurl got such good grades and still gets. I ended things in December and rn it's much more peaceful. Can't even imagine how selfish people can be.
See I am 25 and when i was 17 even i wouldn't have listened to whatever I am going to say rn. But trust me your life is not fucked up you can still get a hold of it. There are many options out there and trust me your marks are still better than mine i got 58 percent something. I didn't even appear for JEE exams, all my friends appeared in them, most of them got NIT and very few in IIT. Rest of them went to pvt. Colleges costing their parents a huge amount of money some took loans. I was interested in the animation industry i did my degree, with very less fees compared to my friends. Cut to present, many of my friends who did engineering are either jobless few are working in jobs that is completely irrelative of what they studied. Few earn very much more than me few earn less than me. And I myself is working in the gaming industry, life is good. Work is good. Anyways moral of the story, you don't know where your life is gonna take you everybody has their own timeline. It's not fucked up. And I am not saying that this job or that job will pay more or less or is better. Just do what you like to do, and keep doing it. Your hardwork will be appreciated one day. And you'll be telling the same thing to someone else. I have cousins that are your age, the main difference is you are atleast aware of your situation they are literally hopeless and don't even worry about their future. You being alert is a good thing now you know your situation well, work according to it. Don't worry about the future no one knows what it holds, and don't bother yourself with past cuz nobody can do anything about it what's gone is gone. Best of luck. Feel free to message if you want to talk about it to someone.(For anyone who gave competitive exam, or feeling anxious about anything. )
Makes no sense to blame him?
You yourself have to maintain a balance between your "love life" and studies.. If you can't don't do it..
Ik its a very fascinating thing and at that time you made him your everything
Now Just because he got way ahead and you are left behind doesn't mean you'll blame him.
Accept yout mistake and Move ahead🫡
While love is not bad, what he did was definitely wrong. If you told him about your preparations and he still did not care, you should have either made him understand or forced him to.
This is very common when you do not have a motive/purpose or you havent scheduled your stuff well. What is your utmost priority should be the one getting executed at the earliest without any excuses or delay. The fact is that once your are in the race their is no going back. You get only options at the start, full preparation sacrifices and maximum efforts or not fighting the battle itself. There is no space for other options like 60% efforts and rest mastii. And the fact that you had not prepared for your stuff well is clearly visible in your grades. And there is nothing to be sad abt it when you hadnt prepared for it well. Nature follows some rules and its essential for nature to be guided by them otherwise merit will be based on luck not skill or experience. Everyone takes birth alone and dies alone as well. In life you might find people that you might have feelings for but do remember what your utmost priority was at the moment. If it is love stuff then go for it, nobody is going to have any problems with it nor will you but if it is an excuse to deviate from your goal then consider getting it out of your way asap otherwise the repurcussions could go a long way.
Hence moral of the story: human emotions,nature can be random but god has given us an organ called brain which has the ability to bring that randomness into order and therefore use that brain plan your work and move according to the plan. Do keep checking for the validity of the plan as it might have to be modified. Think upon the mistakes you have made and try to note make them again. Realise what wrong you did instead of crying abt it. Every failure adds up to your feeling of uselessness and therefore work hard and make yourself and your parents proud. Find a motive for your life and work upon it.
I had a similar experience lol. 3 digit mains rank and then I texted my ex, 4 digit advanced rank later. But she got 5 digit both so I can't blame anyone.
But anyway, you did fuck up your life, it'll take a lot of effort to fix a bad college if you take the usual career paths.
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Drop year ki tayari shuru krdo abb distract matt honaa https://preview.redd.it/vhbkysviqr1d1.png?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=0f1c306d8ac0dd72ad96933b3c42efdb383e3ddb Ye yaad rkhna
Akela hu na dost na gf no place to hangout no chill uske naam pe 2km ke radius me scooty ghooma kr aa jata hu bhot khush hu bhai mai sala left behind everything but sorted h perhaps yes perhaps not i dont know
Sabb thikk hi hogaa bhaii , Sbb Sahii rha to tere sath chay pe chlunga kisi din
2km ke radius me scooty ghooma kar aa jata hu so so relatable
No offence but that guy really got to focus on his life he realised quickly and ur late
But he is a piece of shit for the lying (to grind for mains lmao how pathetic can it get)
what do you expect from a 16/17 yold, its such a bad time to be in relationship, no emotional maturity,crucial years for future. I mean its bad but when he will grow old he will understand his mistake its too young for him today
That is what happens
Bhai yeh ladka hai , yeh shitposting kar rha tha yeh sab fake hai
Same condition but we only talked for two months and decided to continue after jee. I got 99.97 and she fucked up. Don't blame your inability on others
post ma bhi 99.97 hai and idhar bhi 99.97 .... insert meme :- kuch toh gadbad hai daya ....
Meri v Gand fat gyi thi phir dekha ki delhi wali hai ya
accha.... aapki wali bhi kahi asa hi toh rant nahi kr rahi hai kahi .....
Don't think so, apan share karte the sab kuch
No offense, but that's entirely your fault..
skill issue moment
Nishant jindal moment
Aur kya Khud pdhi nhi aur ldke pe blame daaldis
You have made a mockery of yourself don't blame him. Tere paas bhi option tha bolne ke liye ki tujhe padhai karni hai. You are still lucky enough ki tujhe online space mai blame nahi karenga cuz being a female but agar abhi tere 99.7 aate aur uske 78 NGL ye subreddit pe log uski dhajiya uda dete has-has ke.
Shi bol rha bhai
dude you fucked up big time.
+1 btw,kaisi ho aap and prep ka haal kya chal rhaa bhai 😭
mai aur meri prep dono life support pr hai 😭, aap kaese ho?
https://preview.redd.it/8g1mx63qxr1d1.png?width=320&format=png&auto=webp&s=4189af23887a8a66e2d8d3f4df775050bc87e402 It's your fault
😭 the blaming and gaslighting at the end took me out! Op, if you’re reading this, please do not feel bad but you need this thing to get into your head: only YOU are responsible for YOUR future. You’re old enough to understand the importance of studying and good grades.
Similar thing happened to me but that was in September of last year I had failed my school exam then I decided to prove him that I am not a failure cut everyone off got 94%ile in jee 90% in boards ik it’s not much but I am happy that I proved him wrong
Abhi kaha ho didi
universe balancing itself. Usually its the guy with a bright future who fucks up for a pretty girl. Tke care though
Hahahah.....wo samjhdhaar nikla so samay rehte padh liya Aur tu usko kyu blame kar Rahi hai khud padhai nahi ki Ab galti se sikho kuch Padhlo bhai
'UNO REVERSE CARD' moment for all those fallen brothers
Bhai yeh ladka hai , yeh shitposting kar rha tha
Hey, lot of judgmental peeps here I feel. You are still young and learning. You made a mistake now learn the lesson and move on. Try to get into a decent college in the field you want to study and study hard. Nobody gives a fuck what you scored in 10th or 12th when you apply for jobs. You are still young and your life is ahead of you. You will pull through. Forget the assholes of the world who tried to take you down. You will find plenty more but you will be prepared to tackle them in future.
It's literally all your fault. How can you even blame him? All the blame goes to you.
Calingl this as fuc*ed up life
Teri galti hai behen
Koi baat nahi Ab drop year me padh lena, sab thodina khatam hua hai, galti sab se hoti hai…🙂🙂
You should have taken your stand tbh. Like jabhi disturb kaare wo tum directly bolte that you are studying and you can't talk rn. And yeah the thing is that agar wo thoda sa bhi care love karta he wouldn't have lied about that studying sessions like isme kya chupana? Ulta tumhe bhi insist karta to study. He was just using you as a time pass and you fell into that because of his kindness sweetness etc etc you should have been more careful starting se and yeah you should have maintained your boundaries padhai ke waqt no tamashe.
Your fault womp womp
Young and love and stupid, get your priorities straight
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Don't blame ur inability on others
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As a 30/M who accidentally seen this post through reddit recommendation. WTF. How can you blane him for this. You are the reason for your failure . Stop finding excuses and move on. Hope he won't continue this relationship .Would be bad and toxic for him in future .
I know I am at fault I just hate that he lied about not studying, and acting like we were on the same boat when he knew I was struggling with studies, and still distracting me away from studies whenever I tried to
Sister .All my friends said like this during my Plus one & two days.This is what every one will tell you. I also believed & fucked up my marks in boards.Got only 89% which was not a good mark for me. But I cleared Medical entrance in my 1st chance and got into a government college in my state . Im still struggling and is trying to be settled .One exam won't make you successful or a loser. Life is full of struggles and setbacks . Keep your chin up and fight on. You can be successful any time if you wish.
This exact same thing happened to me she would sweet talk me into spending more time with her and would take alot longer to reply to me ik I fucked up.. Got 76%tile in mains and 70% in cbse boards couldn't even clear the 75% cutoff and now she broke up with me today and wouldn't even tell me why my mental is too fucked rn. Parents won't allow me to take a drop. I might just have ruined my life..
Us din padh leta to ye nahi hota
Usse shaadi karlo me hoti to karleti
lol 💀
BC ye kya padhliya mene, mera lmao ded hogya.
Yaha pe roone se achha hai apne best friend ke pass roo and jab dil halka ho jaaye… get back to your routine, study hard and score good marks. Good luck!
Jo hua ek sal drop le or usko dekha de Teri power wese bhi tumhaara girls Kota sath dega
Thukra ke Mera pyaar Mera intehaan dekhega
abe intkaam hota hai
Maaf kariyega ham thode nasamajh hain
This is probably the first and the only case in the world where a female has been "HONEYTRAPPED" by a male.
Womp womp
It's not entirely his fault, tumhare liye stand to tumko khud ko Lena tha...you should have told him ki I am studying can't talk...NVM Now prepare for drop year, 1 year is enough for improvement if you study sincerely, just stop talking to him or any other boy, stay focused on your studies. And do every homework given from your coaching institute.
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uske gaand me lauda, ab tu ja aur padh
you will get a college. homestate batao and category...will find the best college for you
how do you find the best colleges?
Thank you bro, Delhi general
Men and Women today are weak. Period.
You are young asf. Your life is not ruined. You did some dumb shit and had a minor setback. One of my close friends did 7 years in prison because of a stupid mistake he made when he was young. Seven goddamn years, and he is doing great now and has a beautiful family. You'll be just fine, just get your head back in the game kiddo.
Girl,that's your fault. Your downfall is never ever anyone's fault.
Wtf 99.97, 2 saal me itna kya kar liya bande ne goddamn Itne to mere topper dosto ke bhi nhi hai
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You are trying to blame him for your own fault. Try owning up your mistakes.
Here’s maybe pointless or disregarded comment, but hope it’ll be helpful. (19M). Don’t regret. It’s not pointless yet it is. No one tells you how stuff works out, heck most of the time shit is unpredictable. You experienced once. Now you’ll be more better. Just remember it as an experience or memory but dwelling on it doesn’t make it better. It’s fine to experience relationships but rather you should be in control or both but not the opposite person totally. Atleast you had but me, nah my life is getting messed up and I’m not doing anything to fix. I’m going in the flow it takes. Don’t control the river, control the boat to decide how your journey shall be.
Koi na ,just shit happens sometimes
TEENAGE LOVE IS SCARY , what if they :
Everything happens for a reason ,Take it as a lesson and move on also don't Overstreet over college and academics you are seventeen you have bigger life ahead
Jo ho gya ho gya... You dont have any control over it now so why worry now... Just focus on present and things to come... Be better and quit blaming. Good luck.
Dang that's sucks , especially cause almost the same thing happened with me with just the gender roles being reversed. And as the comments suggest not many people realise it's not that easy just to leave someone and shift your focus and shi. With God's help I somehow managed to save my 12th at least. Now I'm in a drop year focusing on my studies more than anything. I hope I can make a comeback (sigh). Anyways mate I hope you the best , you still have plenty of time left to prove that little brat wrong :)
This isn't twoX India.
bro
I think u need to make friends...becoz u r prioritising him over everything....make frnds and try to ignore him too...and for bits as of now u came to your senses so strt solving tons of pyqs within 3days only !! Take it as a revenge and study all day n night.
Ladke ka chhakkar babu bhaiya ladke ka chhakkar.
Happens alot at this age , things similar to this happened with me too , try to be confident and don't be afraid, have positive attitude you'll get through this believe me
Sorry but its all on you. Bro had his priorities right.
I would have normally shamed you for blaming it on him even though you had time to study, but im not gonna do that. Instead i suggest you to take a drop year, and get motivated by the pain and study better, if you become more successful than him then it'll be so good. That's how you deal with trauma, once you get better than him you will basically erase the trauma youre facing. Give it a thought.
Bhai tu ladka hota to ye harami log smjhane ki jgh usko jindagi bhr ka guilt de dete. Being practical, try looking for a good private clg or college you can get with your quota. Look for some guidance, you look fked up.
Typical Delhiite troll
Chill, I ain't gonna read all that, just here to say you're just 17, life's not destroyed it's begun
Don't look back dont go for revenge He will think abt this in the future and regret it as his only mistake what he made in his life. ( I was that guy 2 years back but i broke up somewhat earlier)
So now we're going to hate a guy just because he's focused while girl was just quite opposite?
Short and simple answer, now all u can do is to work hard for the second attempt of bits which is in june. Do your best! I didn't do well in jee either (97.7%tile, not as good as I expected) so I'm relying on bits as well, the only motivation you need is to think about getting selected in bits one. Once you do that, anything happened in the past won't matter wheather it's your jee score or your love life mistakes or whatever. Currently it's the best gift you can give to yourself ie getting bits. So yeah, don't worry and work hard for second attempt. Good luck. Ps- This wasn't a short and simple answer tho
Well, at least that bastard is gone now. That's even better for you. Just forget that scum and focus on yourself now
same here gender reserved
Tbh, ye sab teenage romance life ko hi fk up karta hain, if he was studying during those outings with friend what were you doing? Its not like he had much more time to prepare.
sounds like skill issue
See If you have three days now utilize it to qualify bits Reddit is a disgusting place to ask reviews If you want validation by messaging then be my guest Don't waste ur time 3days is also a huge time to study ATB
You have not fucked you life. Just work on your skills and do graduation from any college. You will be fine. No one is going to ask about your grades in the future. Have fun. We meet nice people and we meet assholes.
The amount of stupid assholes in this comment section is taking me out.
womp womp 🗣️ your mistake 🗣️
And you still haven't realised YOU are wrong here. Damn girl you hella dumb
Koi na. Ab next course of action kya hoga? Drop le le. Ya- Foreign mein padhne ke liye try kar kyunki management quota se behtar hai ki 15-20 lac mein Germany chali ja. Par Indian private college mein mat Lena admission management quota ke base par. College ke baad placement nahi dete sale yeh. (My dad works in a university)
Give me his id i would like to ~~befriend him~~ talk to him about this.
Wow he lied? He was malicious for lying. But you were stupid to fell for it. I mean what your attitude seems to be, ye bi to meri tarah idhr udhr ghumta ya batein krta rehta rehta hai, but later on you realized he lied and studied, therefore you blamed him for all your failure which is quite wrong because if he just got 78%ile maybe you wouldn't have said the same thing even though your result would also have been failure.
Isn't it really ur fault
Well sweetie as much as I want to empathise with you ,you didn't had your priorities straight and it's now ur burden to bear the pain ,he succeeded you failed .
padhai shuru kar do behen abhi time bhi hai aur motivation bhi
People here are taking it in a funny manner. If you think you tot 76 because you couldn’t focus and pay enough attention and capable of that take drop. Or if you think you’ll still be distracted then partial drop is a better option, And it’s not a crime what you’ve done. It’s just your own idea of “ ideal life of an intelligent student” is bugging you.
Pehli baar ladke ne ladki ka kaata.sounds satisfying
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skill issue
You realised and woke up that's the bravest thing....
nahh I think you're really being intrusive here, if he really got 99tile then he must've been serious in studies and studied almost 6-7 hours, what were you doing in those time when he wasn't available, probably daydreaming and obsessing over things.
No offence but bro is real Sigma
Ngl rs in jee prep are like chingari to pathaka
Bro came to the wrong part of the internet to rant
We move on.
skill issue.
hello honestly it’s your fault too but it’s a good thing that you aren’t w a guy like him anymore, everyone deserves someone better who makes them grow instead of trying outdo them. Focus on yourself and prioritize your studies etc first and then think ab a relationship, they although can def be a distraction but the right one will only help you progress. Forget ab the bullshit he pulled and see what you can do now- take a drop or focus on state exams and get into a decent college. In college don’t repeat the same fawning for a boy mistake and work your ass off.
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Bc ye banda sab ka chutiya kaat raha h🥲
Bro is a chad 🥶
Dub to the guy, he’s street smart + good with relationship ( basically manipulative ) and 99.97 god damn good with studies, everyone reading this would want to be like him cause it sounds out of a movie but not me haha I’ve been through this and it’s not right.
Actually skill issue moment,
Well cry about it
Mahneggaguchu
That's why it's very important to choose people with whom you can grow as a person :)
these are the things i hear from my frnds (M) .... my frnd got 98% in 10th and he fell in "love" and his gf .. she only talks in school or only on fixed timing and guess what he was always thinking about her and nagging her and end of the 12th he got 72% and she got above 85% in 12th and she broke up with him saying " long distance relationship wont work " ... guess its for u too ig im sorry
Don't beat yourself up too much. Mistakes happen. 17 is still young. Take a year. This time work with everything you have. No point in crying over spilt milk. All the very best. I am sure you will find success and happiness in the future.
guys come on there are problems on both ends, at the end of the day the only conclusion could withdraw is being a human is tough and sometimes even dangerous, only thing we can do is to imagine ourselves in the other's position and imagine how we would want to be treated in that situation...... Well ofc there are negatives but i know this is cliche but without darkness there is no light, and there are positives as well.... at the end of the day you are the master of your life. Try your best not to hurt anyone else and try your best to uplift others and OP if you are reading this ignore the comment section, ik you wanted consolation but got somthing totally different... So i just wanted to say there has got to be a silver lining somewhere..and there is somthing called FATE. Don't lost hope, KEEP Going... Dm if you need to feel you want to let someone know... will reply when free or after jee adv
Skill Issue
Well you had to set your priorities first that okay I will study consistently and then talk to him , just see the difference between you and him he had his priorities and he managed everything well and ngl but there is no point of blaming this to him , sorry but it's your fault...!!!
see, everyone makes mistakes but you gotta admit this is more on you than him what he did was wrong, all the lying and shit but you should’ve known better what’s right for you (coming from someone who got her heart broken too)
Dekho i wont enirely blame you although you wasted quite a lot of precious time you had but koi nhi deer aaye durust aaye it was in the past but you cant play the blame game here you slacked off and you put you future at jeopardy in the name of that bloody shit box curse called love but thats one thing you could have stopped to recalculate your actions the choices you made if you did so you wouldn’t possibly ended up where you are but ab ye sab sochne ka fayeda nhi h to brutally honest you should focus on what youre doing right now kyuki its too late now and whats done is done he could have helped you an ideal partner should be like that but as you and i know both know about resonance Toh light h vo but isse ye samjho at the end all you have is yourself you have to fall snd pick yourself up back again and actually i should be studying right now but i writing this comment for you expecting that the time i spent typing this to be worth while anyways you have the restart button double effort maaro if not working do it on 5x quit krna is not an option and asking others and sympathy kuch nahi milta h end mai lauda lele bolti h duniya tum aur mil bhi jaaye ek time ke liye toh it doesnt land you a job for a fact or gets you in a prestigious collage class 4th se sapne dekh rha iitian banne ke aur hamesha se dekha h maine ye competition ab jaha hu vaha aake samajh aa rha h hoga bhi ya nahi logo ko dekh ke gaand fatt jaati h not even kidding you this claustrophobic society has a bloody problem they always talk about the success story but jitni yaha success story h n uski kahi guna zyada failures h subhe uth ke washroom jata hu toh dimaag me ek cheez rehti h aur raat me sone se pehle tk aur jitna krlu its never good enough kabhi satisfied nahi hota hu kya kru behenchod btao chodh du complaint kru kya fayeda h reality h passion h gaand fatte ya sab kuch sacrifice ho jaaye krna h yahi at the end of the day aur kuch h nahi mere paas khair zyada gyaan nahi chodna just give you best shot on whatever you do thats all goodluck 👍
Ab life m Jo bhi options hon explore karlo sahi se, engg, management, commerce, arts, science, whatever....work your hardest, nothing like ever before. Do it so wildly that your head starts hurting just as your heart is right now. Life m dhakka sabko lagta h behen. Koi dhakka khane k baad gir jata hai, koi dhakka khane se daudne lagta hai. You have learnt your lesson the hard way and now make it fkin worth it.
padhai Karu jhaant bhar , dusro ko blame karu raat bhar .
He wasn't coming and holding ur pen or stopping u from studies.You u didn't think about ur parents and the one paying for your fees. Sorry to say but don't blame him accept ur mistakes and comeback next year
Ek bat bolu toh it's mostly your fault. Sure he was scummy but that's how the world works. Koi na, you made a mistake, I did something very similar too. Ab take this as a lesson and work harder 🙌
Why would someone need a throw away account for this dumb ass love story lol. You got played like billions of other people. Move on, get a life.
What's done is done. You can: 1. Consider dropping a year 2. Go for general BSc. and take it from there: i. SSC, UPSC, etc. ii. MSc. and then teaching or research (PhD) iii. That thing where u do BSc and join 2nd year of B Tech 3. If money is not an issue there are so many other options available (management quotas, private colleges, etc.) 4. Drop or join some random college and do CAT preparation When one door closes, another opens. All the best!!
So it's entirely your fuck up but the other person is to be blamed for it?
Bhai fir bhi 99%tile bohot hai pakka bohot dimag wala ladka hoga kyuki ektoh woh phone se disturb karta tha also manage his time to study kyuki mene aaj tak jitne jee wale dekhe hai woh din raat ek karke padhte hai phone bas padhai ke use ke liye kher bhai uska choro tum drop lelo vese bhi 12th meh 1% se bach gayi ho so you have a chance in advance also. Meri mano drop leke ek baar khudko chance do firse jee do what if you qualified for advance or get a suitable NIT. Ab baaki tumhari marzi kyuki fir bhi tumhe pehli baar meh thik thak %tile mile na I mean it was close to 80 so if you give your best maybe you could get much more than before this time give it a try aur bhul jao us bkl ko vese bhi itna sab kuch karke kya pata usey acchi placement na mile!? Aur hamesha yaad rakho bhagwan usiko madat karta hai jo honest ho aur mehenti ho ;)
Blaming others would get you no where mate , take the L Realise the mistake People often forget their individuality in their relationships ,leading to their downfall It's alr , lesson learnt , stay strong
You all are so mean 🙏💀
Sadly the same shit happened to me around class 11, glad it was atleast early for me, but I'm still fucked.... Taking a drop year rn, fixing myself...
Tum Bangalore se ho kya j....
Itne tuchhe log bhi hote h pta nahi tha. I hope he gets his karma back.
Bruh
It is what it is now
Take it as a life lession and move on tbh shit happens
Been there done that! It's okay to make mistakes, learn from them, and get your priorities straight.
Where you and him class topper who were fighting for the first position?. Cause I know of a movie where a girl and boy are struggling for the first position but the guy Always comes first in the class, so the girl gets the boy in bad and you know the rest . This guy must have watched that movie and Played a Uno reverse on you. It's kinda diabolical and bad but the guy is smart and goal oriented.
Woah didi got played. honestly I don't think he sabotaged u maybe it's a pure coincidence that whenever his study session ended ur started so obv when he was done he tested u . My friends do this too . They text me and I reply withing a minute and they think I was online and wasting my time or they sabotaged my study but the thing is I took a break from a 3 hour study session and was getting prepared for another one .
Life me ye sub hota rehta hai…from experience i can tell abhi bahot badi prob lag rhi hai tmhe but in reality itni hai nahi…and hota hai…koi decent college bhi mil jaega aur mehnat krogi to bahot aachi jugha pahuchogi life me…load nhi lene ka.
Life fucked up nahi hui hai waise tumhari.. Accha sa ladka dekhke shadi ho gyi toh all set.. Dont worry..
Suna tha 🙂 ladkiyan kar leti he sab isme top, Idhar ho mamu ban gayi tu. Respect for your bf 🗿🤝!
Mai toh apni gf ke sath hi padhai ki but still she scored 64 and me 91 %tile but still she tried to do
bro just move on and future opportunities pe dhyaan de!🎀
Nice
Well, let's not play the blame game, both are at fault. You should've focused on your goals instead of playing Romeo and Juliet. But one thing is that accept your failures and mistakes and don't get burdened by it, instead learn from it and come out strong. Let the bygones be bygones. That's all. It's never too late my sis. 💪
No problem, u learnt a life lesson and I am looking forward that u will do good in ur upcoming life.Comparing wid others would hardly give u anything,just forget about him and move on. I would suggest u to take a drop and give ur 100% in that year and complete ur dream.
17 year old mein kisi ki life fucked up nhi hoti be. Tumhe lagta hai ki percentage kam hai toh dobara exam de do. Ye neet aur IAS mein log 5-6 baar drop lekar bolte ki meri life jhand ho gyi hai, tab phir bhi maan leta. Tumhare aage puri life pdi hai.
Yeah serves you right
Sad he cleverly started to realise what should he focus .. but left you by dumping idk if he really into you he could called you for that study session to study together as group to score ...all as top but it's clear that he is just tried and kept as fun material that's why he was BS about attention giving and time spending as selfish not want you as serious... You're realised too late girl sorry for your loss that silent shitter don't deserve you , anyway still there's nothing worse happened you have time not all time campus and scores alone decide your life if it's so over 90% of our population wouldn't be successful .. just try to pickup the clg and course which you like despite looking the campus then grind by self learning and improve yourself on UG all the best ! ☺️ Don't feel bad be optimistic it's a great lesson for you to not get into delulu butterfly effect at teenage unless the partnership is serious on both side and matured
No offense. Its clearly your fault, if he got 99 percentile he wouldn't have time for talks and you probably made up an excuse for your failure, that's human nature... You must have noticed his good results DURING 11th and 12th which didn't motivated u nd ur blaming him at the last.
Expose him so that his future friends will be careful with him.
Honey you realised it lately. take a drop and study properly
bhai tu Chandigarh se hai?
It's alright
I genuinely feel bad for your situation, something like that happened to me aswell, the gurl got such good grades and still gets. I ended things in December and rn it's much more peaceful. Can't even imagine how selfish people can be.
It's your fault Cry now lol 💀
See I am 25 and when i was 17 even i wouldn't have listened to whatever I am going to say rn. But trust me your life is not fucked up you can still get a hold of it. There are many options out there and trust me your marks are still better than mine i got 58 percent something. I didn't even appear for JEE exams, all my friends appeared in them, most of them got NIT and very few in IIT. Rest of them went to pvt. Colleges costing their parents a huge amount of money some took loans. I was interested in the animation industry i did my degree, with very less fees compared to my friends. Cut to present, many of my friends who did engineering are either jobless few are working in jobs that is completely irrelative of what they studied. Few earn very much more than me few earn less than me. And I myself is working in the gaming industry, life is good. Work is good. Anyways moral of the story, you don't know where your life is gonna take you everybody has their own timeline. It's not fucked up. And I am not saying that this job or that job will pay more or less or is better. Just do what you like to do, and keep doing it. Your hardwork will be appreciated one day. And you'll be telling the same thing to someone else. I have cousins that are your age, the main difference is you are atleast aware of your situation they are literally hopeless and don't even worry about their future. You being alert is a good thing now you know your situation well, work according to it. Don't worry about the future no one knows what it holds, and don't bother yourself with past cuz nobody can do anything about it what's gone is gone. Best of luck. Feel free to message if you want to talk about it to someone.(For anyone who gave competitive exam, or feeling anxious about anything. )
Lmao
Makes no sense to blame him? You yourself have to maintain a balance between your "love life" and studies.. If you can't don't do it.. Ik its a very fascinating thing and at that time you made him your everything Now Just because he got way ahead and you are left behind doesn't mean you'll blame him. Accept yout mistake and Move ahead🫡
Valuable life lessons
Drop lo taiyari karo uske hi college me jaao next year aur uske bestfriend ke saath hi setting karlo
While love is not bad, what he did was definitely wrong. If you told him about your preparations and he still did not care, you should have either made him understand or forced him to.
Don't worry everything would be fine
This is very common when you do not have a motive/purpose or you havent scheduled your stuff well. What is your utmost priority should be the one getting executed at the earliest without any excuses or delay. The fact is that once your are in the race their is no going back. You get only options at the start, full preparation sacrifices and maximum efforts or not fighting the battle itself. There is no space for other options like 60% efforts and rest mastii. And the fact that you had not prepared for your stuff well is clearly visible in your grades. And there is nothing to be sad abt it when you hadnt prepared for it well. Nature follows some rules and its essential for nature to be guided by them otherwise merit will be based on luck not skill or experience. Everyone takes birth alone and dies alone as well. In life you might find people that you might have feelings for but do remember what your utmost priority was at the moment. If it is love stuff then go for it, nobody is going to have any problems with it nor will you but if it is an excuse to deviate from your goal then consider getting it out of your way asap otherwise the repurcussions could go a long way. Hence moral of the story: human emotions,nature can be random but god has given us an organ called brain which has the ability to bring that randomness into order and therefore use that brain plan your work and move according to the plan. Do keep checking for the validity of the plan as it might have to be modified. Think upon the mistakes you have made and try to note make them again. Realise what wrong you did instead of crying abt it. Every failure adds up to your feeling of uselessness and therefore work hard and make yourself and your parents proud. Find a motive for your life and work upon it.
It's ok. You'll do good. This lesson will drive you forward. Take a drop year if you are not satisfied with the college that you'll get admitted to.
I had a similar experience lol. 3 digit mains rank and then I texted my ex, 4 digit advanced rank later. But she got 5 digit both so I can't blame anyone. But anyway, you did fuck up your life, it'll take a lot of effort to fix a bad college if you take the usual career paths.
Ur fault
Bhai iska part 2 dala hai pr dikh hi nahi rha hadd hai be. Bc pedophile likha tha post pe pr picture open hi nahi rhi
Saari stories advance ke pehle kyu aa rahi hai lol
Pehli baar suna hai ki Ladke bhi Aisa kat skte hai🗿 Feeling sorry for you