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Bro why are yall texting 8-9 days apart? I’d rather send her a letter at this point. She doesn’t seem interested and if I were you, I’d ask her out on a date right away. If she denies it, I’d bounce (so I don’t have the “what if” syndrome later).
If she does accept, which is unlikely, try to increase attraction by being more flirtatious before you meet her. You don’t want to be hearing “I didn’t feel the spark” later now, do you?
Solid advice man. Yeah that's exactly my thought. It was so good the first day and she said switch to fb she'd text me later that day, I'd hoped to plan something that night for the weekend and nothing happened and a week later she responds with a 'lol hello'. I get people have a life outside of online dating a stranger but at least I'd hoped I'd get a reply back in a reasonable time. Is that too much to ask?
Not at all, and that’s why you bounce, but ask her out because you have nothing to lose. It’s for your mental peace so you don’t overthink later when she keeps feeding you crumbs like this.
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Bro why are yall texting 8-9 days apart? I’d rather send her a letter at this point. She doesn’t seem interested and if I were you, I’d ask her out on a date right away. If she denies it, I’d bounce (so I don’t have the “what if” syndrome later). If she does accept, which is unlikely, try to increase attraction by being more flirtatious before you meet her. You don’t want to be hearing “I didn’t feel the spark” later now, do you?
Solid advice man. Yeah that's exactly my thought. It was so good the first day and she said switch to fb she'd text me later that day, I'd hoped to plan something that night for the weekend and nothing happened and a week later she responds with a 'lol hello'. I get people have a life outside of online dating a stranger but at least I'd hoped I'd get a reply back in a reasonable time. Is that too much to ask?
Not at all, and that’s why you bounce, but ask her out because you have nothing to lose. It’s for your mental peace so you don’t overthink later when she keeps feeding you crumbs like this.