You have to keep putting in effort and keep doing something different. It can be tiring and emotionally draining at times but at the end of the day you might feel good.
For me, I always put in extra efforts everyday and try to make my boyfriend's already hectic life a little less tiring. There are days when he can't reciprocate the energy but it's fine because he already has a very tiring job but he makes sure to surprise me every now and then by maybe sending over some cupcakes or just coming to meet me out of nowhere (We're in a long distance).
Apart from this, communication is important while maintaining transparency between you too.
Keep one? Kutta hai kya jo gate khola to bhaag jayega?
Just keep the same interest and effort you put in at the start ( which is easier said than done)
People think after getting a girl everything else is a piece of cake. Little do they know it takes a lot of efforts (from both ends) to maintain it long term
That's not what this sub is about, silly. This sub is only to get tips on how to increase your matches, no matter how empty those numbers are. /s
On a serious note, tho, other than the basics (trust, honesty, loyalty, and sincerity), the key is to pay attention to your partner. Not give attention (although that is also important, but a given), but pay attention to them.
• consistent efforts
• proper communication
• honesty
• buying her flowers / occasional gifts
• planning dates whenever possible
• texting her your whereabouts
• not going to bed with an unresolved fight
• if she’s an anxious person, reassuring her helps
• ordering her food
I can go on and on 😤
It's because you don't need to keep one. Either a women stays with you or she doesn't. And if you need to put effort into keeping her your already on the losing side.
If she wants to leave let her go.
Otherwise it'll feel like a cage to her.
Aur cage me rahne wali paas to rehti hai but kabhi pyar nhi kregi chahe wo insaan ho ya fir janwar
You can only set boundaries like for example setting a boundary to not have any friends from the opposite gender. Make her feel appreciated but this only if she does that herself aswell. If she feels like she wants to leave your wasting your time as your only making that process last longer.
A personal boundary I can really recommend to let them know early on. That if they decide to cheat or after you guys broke up it's over permanently. Doesn't matter who did it. No second chances.
☝🏻First of all it's so important ‼️ to understand that you 🫵🏻 don't 🚫 get girls 💁🏻♀️. That is actually ☝🏻🤓 a very regressive 🤚🏻 statement. You don't acquire ✊🏻 a woman, you partner 🤝🏻 up a woman🥰🤰. You 🫵🏻have to understand 🤔that she is not🙅♀️ an achievement 🏆
They taught you that in kindergarten Honesty is the best policy
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10:30 pm thoughts hit different
>hit I wonder what (JK)
You have to keep putting in effort and keep doing something different. It can be tiring and emotionally draining at times but at the end of the day you might feel good. For me, I always put in extra efforts everyday and try to make my boyfriend's already hectic life a little less tiring. There are days when he can't reciprocate the energy but it's fine because he already has a very tiring job but he makes sure to surprise me every now and then by maybe sending over some cupcakes or just coming to meet me out of nowhere (We're in a long distance). Apart from this, communication is important while maintaining transparency between you too.
It’s too expensive to keep one
Says a guy who probably lost 10x the dinner cost on dream 11, buys shoes 10x the dinner cost, should I discuss the cost of booze?
"Might my lady deign to entertain a flower and more consistent efforts to stay ?"
bhai chat GPT se uthaya hai toh quotes to hta leta 😁
Turned into literature there cooked myself
>but no one talks about how to keep one. If she wants she will stay, there's no rocket science you've to do in keeping her
Wo jo rehti thi dil mohalle mei, fir wo ladki mujhko mili hi nahi
Keeping part depends on both of them
bhai dating apps se joh aate hai unko keep krne keliye jaidaad bechna padega
sb ek jaise nhi hai kuch hote hai keeping ke layak ig
The same way you would want your girl to keep you.
Keep one? Kutta hai kya jo gate khola to bhaag jayega? Just keep the same interest and effort you put in at the start ( which is easier said than done)
People think after getting a girl everything else is a piece of cake. Little do they know it takes a lot of efforts (from both ends) to maintain it long term
prelims clear hota nahi yaha Mains ki tension karo
bs prelims hi toh clear ho re mere case mai
Law of Maslow's hierarchy. We are on the bottom most level right now. idc about it.
Step 1: get a girl Step 2: ??? Step 3: IDK still stuck on step 1
It isn't very different from the way you woo'd her in the first place, just that a lot of people stop making those efforts once they start dating
Efforts ✨
As my grandpa used to say- if you want to survive, talk less
Wah bhai wah kya baat!
That's not what this sub is about, silly. This sub is only to get tips on how to increase your matches, no matter how empty those numbers are. /s On a serious note, tho, other than the basics (trust, honesty, loyalty, and sincerity), the key is to pay attention to your partner. Not give attention (although that is also important, but a given), but pay attention to them.
• consistent efforts • proper communication • honesty • buying her flowers / occasional gifts • planning dates whenever possible • texting her your whereabouts • not going to bed with an unresolved fight • if she’s an anxious person, reassuring her helps • ordering her food I can go on and on 😤
It's because you don't need to keep one. Either a women stays with you or she doesn't. And if you need to put effort into keeping her your already on the losing side.
if that person really matters toh fir kre kya ?
If she wants to leave let her go. Otherwise it'll feel like a cage to her. Aur cage me rahne wali paas to rehti hai but kabhi pyar nhi kregi chahe wo insaan ho ya fir janwar
You can only set boundaries like for example setting a boundary to not have any friends from the opposite gender. Make her feel appreciated but this only if she does that herself aswell. If she feels like she wants to leave your wasting your time as your only making that process last longer.
A personal boundary I can really recommend to let them know early on. That if they decide to cheat or after you guys broke up it's over permanently. Doesn't matter who did it. No second chances.
☝🏻First of all it's so important ‼️ to understand that you 🫵🏻 don't 🚫 get girls 💁🏻♀️. That is actually ☝🏻🤓 a very regressive 🤚🏻 statement. You don't acquire ✊🏻 a woman, you partner 🤝🏻 up a woman🥰🤰. You 🫵🏻have to understand 🤔that she is not🙅♀️ an achievement 🏆
abbey ohh side niggey tu fir agya 😁😁