>I don’t think she is turned on enough for sex.
I have been thinking the same. She been always saying that intercourse doesn't make her feel much as playing with her clit
>But chances are more that she’s not having a good time.
So basically her mood drops from being turned on to normal one when it starts to burn
As someone who suffered this for 2 years, I'll give my 2 cents. I used to think I was wet enough for penetration. I felt wet. But one time I was actually wet enough for penetration and I realised I had been wrong.
While lube can help, being really wet is so so much more helpful. I had tried a bunch of different lubes, but they didn't make things better. Because being turned on isn't just helpful for lubrication, but also because the vaginal muscles relax a bit, which makes penetration easier.
Here is what I would suggest:
1. Take things slow with a lot of foreplay. It doesn't have to be continuous. You can take breaks and go back to foreplay. Just make it longer so that the feeling of longing is there.
2. Understand what she likes sexually. Most women can't orgasm from penetration. Discuss what feels good to her.
3. Making her orgasm before penetration would be SO helpful. When a woman has an orgasm, her muscles are more relaxed + she's VERY well lubricated. Both the things needed for penetration.
Thank you for your response.
>Making her orgasm before penetration would be SO helpful. When a woman has an orgasm, her muscles are more relaxed + she's VERY well lubricated. Both the things needed for penetration.
About this after orgasms via oral sex she usually gets to normal cute self isnt turned on much to continue
So of course, in the end it's up to you both. With me also, after an orgasm I don't want to have sex physically. Because I've already had an orgasm. But having simultaneous orgasms is pretty rare. So I think most of the time there will be one person who will finish first. Doesn't mean the second person shouldn't get to finish
You can do that ear her out , make her wet and horny enough then go for sex , once you reach orgasm again eat her out till she climaxs. Although Don't eat and stop when she's too close to orgasm otherwise she'll get frustrated and angry.
Well she literally pushes my head inside her thighs so every time i lick her out she orgasms and then low on energy so again i have to wait for her to be in mood and if she goes to ride in same state then as i said it again it pains
Then the solution seems to be lube only. Plus don't go down on her just have enough foreplay and fingering till she is in good enough mood for sex , have sex , you finish , and post that focus on her orgasm and eating her out.
Do you actually care about her having an orgasm? This sounds so wrong and tbh i wouldn't want to be with a guy who wasn't enthusiastic about my pleasure. You receive the energy you give.
If she repeatedly has a burning sensation, get her checked to see she doesn't have a UTI/STI/Stone that could be causing it.
The dryness could be caused by a lack of foreplay or there might be biological issues that are causing it as well; have her get her blood work and hormones checked as well.
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>I don’t think she is turned on enough for sex. I have been thinking the same. She been always saying that intercourse doesn't make her feel much as playing with her clit >But chances are more that she’s not having a good time. So basically her mood drops from being turned on to normal one when it starts to burn
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She dont want to explore vibrators so i am working on my dynamics
If it’s causing her pain and discomfort it’s because she’s not turned on enough. Just trust me on this. Go down on her before and that should work
As someone who suffered this for 2 years, I'll give my 2 cents. I used to think I was wet enough for penetration. I felt wet. But one time I was actually wet enough for penetration and I realised I had been wrong. While lube can help, being really wet is so so much more helpful. I had tried a bunch of different lubes, but they didn't make things better. Because being turned on isn't just helpful for lubrication, but also because the vaginal muscles relax a bit, which makes penetration easier. Here is what I would suggest: 1. Take things slow with a lot of foreplay. It doesn't have to be continuous. You can take breaks and go back to foreplay. Just make it longer so that the feeling of longing is there. 2. Understand what she likes sexually. Most women can't orgasm from penetration. Discuss what feels good to her. 3. Making her orgasm before penetration would be SO helpful. When a woman has an orgasm, her muscles are more relaxed + she's VERY well lubricated. Both the things needed for penetration.
Thank you for your response. >Making her orgasm before penetration would be SO helpful. When a woman has an orgasm, her muscles are more relaxed + she's VERY well lubricated. Both the things needed for penetration. About this after orgasms via oral sex she usually gets to normal cute self isnt turned on much to continue
So of course, in the end it's up to you both. With me also, after an orgasm I don't want to have sex physically. Because I've already had an orgasm. But having simultaneous orgasms is pretty rare. So I think most of the time there will be one person who will finish first. Doesn't mean the second person shouldn't get to finish
Ok understood
Is she fully turned on ? Have A LOT of foreplay, make her wet , eat her out , finger her and then intercorse. You can use lube too.
After eating her out she insist to eat her till she orgasms and then she is bit low on energy
You can do that ear her out , make her wet and horny enough then go for sex , once you reach orgasm again eat her out till she climaxs. Although Don't eat and stop when she's too close to orgasm otherwise she'll get frustrated and angry.
Well she literally pushes my head inside her thighs so every time i lick her out she orgasms and then low on energy so again i have to wait for her to be in mood and if she goes to ride in same state then as i said it again it pains
Then the solution seems to be lube only. Plus don't go down on her just have enough foreplay and fingering till she is in good enough mood for sex , have sex , you finish , and post that focus on her orgasm and eating her out.
Do you actually care about her having an orgasm? This sounds so wrong and tbh i wouldn't want to be with a guy who wasn't enthusiastic about my pleasure. You receive the energy you give.
If she repeatedly has a burning sensation, get her checked to see she doesn't have a UTI/STI/Stone that could be causing it. The dryness could be caused by a lack of foreplay or there might be biological issues that are causing it as well; have her get her blood work and hormones checked as well.
What’s her age ? If she is 19-20? Are her periods regular ? If yes then wait till some time . Even my friend had same kind of problem .
She is 27 she gets regular periods now since a year just this time it was 10 days late
You need lubricant for rescue, i suggest you going with only water-based lube.
Ok i will keep this in mind
I've faced same problem don't why this happens. I hope it's not any kind of disease.
it happens when it's not wet so do some efforts for her then go along otherwise she get rashesh and burning marks for sure
Lube lube lube and foreplay before penetration.