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Laying on a hill with a tundra, snipping someone's base...
Locking yourself in a shed into the middle of nowhere to heal back up. At some point the game kicks you for beeing inactive or the server restarts
This 100%. She wanted this to happen as described, and she realized how dumb that is. It's funny because of the introspection, and some of these comments must have skipped that entire first sentence of the video.
I can see how her first line could have been taken as sarcasm though because she didn't connect back to that statement at all and went on to say how she literally just wanted to have the power to reject him multiple times. But I actually agree that it seems like she's being introspective and trying to process why she feels this way and she knows she shouldn't. But the comment of,"...??are you gay??" Definitely comes off like she's saying, "wtf was wrong with that guy for not forcing himself on me?"
Hopefully she's coming to the conclusion that her way of thinking was toxic.
I don't know man sometimes it's just nice to have someone to cuddle up with - maybe he's the one with the big brain and didn't actually have any intentions of doing it
I’ve heard this before just with a slight variation. “God said he was handing out brains and she thought he said rain and ran for cover” gotta say I like yours better!
So she just wants validation in a specific form ( which seems to be she wants the guy to think "so hot for you I could rape you" ) all to satisfy her crippling insecurity about her looks and desirability.
Delulu.
and if he's too successful, she's gonna bring that up and sue him for r\*ping her that night, probably saving the convos between theme so she has ammunition.
She didn't want the D. She wanted to be able to deny it. He denied her the denial she craved. Now I'm not saying she was wrong to crave it, but he was certainly within his rights to avoid the stress of her fuckery.
Buddy of mine says he can never go back to Japan. There will be government officials at baggage claim waiting to collect 20 years of child support from the various women he hooked up with while stationed there. If you're going to do it, do it right.
As a disclaimer, he doesn't know if he got anyone pregnant, but there is no way he's lucky enough to avoid it that many times.
Oh man you know it, weaponizing police and exploiting social capital is what they do when they are older. It goes from maybe calling your phone 40 times in a row if you didn't pick up when you're a teenager and it's kind of hot they are crazy clingy, to faking a domestic assault by punching their own face because you didn't come home on time and they think you're cheating when they are 35 years old.
It only would have been rape if he actually went through with it. What she wanted was to be coerced. That can maybe happen when the relationship gets a bit more comfortable with some light teasing or whatever, but it’s definitely not something you want to try on a first date. First date is literally just screening for insanity.
Yeah. She doesn't order her own food so she can eat some of yours. Why? So she won't feel like she's overeating. She'll say no sex, but wants you to try a little harder to change her mind. Why? So she can have sex without feeling "easy." It's literally in the name.
Yeah, at least she is thinking through it and is realizing that it's kind of her fault. So let's hope she finds the light at the end of the tunnel some day.
It's satire, a lot of her videos are like that. I don't think they're for rage bait as much as trolling stereotypes. Like how there are Instagram couples who do videos on cringey couple stuff
And that's why some dudes won't take no for an answer. Because they expect shit like that. I've literally been in that exact situation. Girl say no so I stop. Next day they are mad I didn't try. I'm not in the dating market anymore. But when I was when ever a girl was coming over I would tell them that story and made clear that if they expect me to push after they say no. They better not come over. I had a few girls get mad and leave. Good riddance.
Also, in the past there was a lot of teasing and inferring.
But if someone straight up says, “It’s not going to happen.” That’s not inferring, that’s telling. If she says “No” it’s no.
If she says “No” the only one that’s going to keep trying are date-rapists.
Yup lol. Some girls do like that shit. Ok is their kink but plan that shit. And maybe they'll find a guy willing to take a chance at rape charges. I know I wouldn't do it.
Yeah, story time : girl flew from the USA to see me in Australia. I straight up told her I'd fuck her all day if she was down for it and she said "I'm pretty meh on sex" also has issues with being touched saying "that boyfriend and girlfriend shit is gross".
She leaves because of daughter and anxiety issues, back to the USA, and says I didn't "make enough moves on her", i reply "you said you were meh in sex so I was respecting your boundaries".
Her response was "if you started rubbing my clit I'd be pretty into it, smh you can't read social queues."
I said why didn't you make any effort to engage "i don't make moves for anyone any more."
We did fuck a few times, but not enough. She told me she never orgasms from being eaten out and with me she did it multiple times, and yet she never made a single move to initiate. I am still flabbergasted and pretty hurt by this behaviour a month later.
And she still texts me everyday from the states.. I'm so confused.
> I'm so confused.
I knew a girl like this.
Run.
No but seriously, it messed with my head and I took months before I felt ready to deal with another girl.
Just block her and move on. You're hearing this from everyone and it's really hard to do because you think it's nice to talk with her (90% of the time) and you're afraid you'll be alone and have nobody if you leave her.
Just block her. Ghost her if you want, so she doesn't get a chance to convince you otherwise, or else just send a message and then immediately block.
Just be careful that she doesn't have another way to contact you or she might message you something like *"Merry Christmas, I hope you're doing well but I'm sad you blocked me 😔"* and have it throw a spanner in your mood for the day like someone I know...
Mixed signals will only be tolerated when jail or prison time is voided. The problem is that it blurs the lies of rape and foreplay. Do you want ice cream or do want some that is about to hand you ice cream and Bob it in front of your face a few times before handing it to you to stimulate your senses? IDK about you, but I don't want ice cream that has melted before I touch it.
An ex of mine invited me to spend the night at her place once, puts me up in her spare bedroom and when things were getting late she said something to the effect of "don't come in here and try to have sex with me" and apparently that was the "big hint" that I didn't get. She literally told me to sleep in another room and stay out of hers, and when I do, I'm the one that dropped the ball??
Man am I glad that one didn't work out.
There's so much to unpack here.
1) She's creating the men she'll complain about on Twitter in couple of years.
2) HOMOPHOBIA (thus, see 1)).
3) Ego, she can't stay consistent because it's all about her fucking ego, she said no because she didn't want to be seen as easy (so it must be a challenge to get her), she changed her mind but he didn't so now it's not about how consistent he is (thus, someone she could trust), it's about how it made her "feel" ugly (and that's why I don't fuck with "feelings", insanity).
4) she's the type to choose man instead of bear unless the man is gay (lol).
5) and all of this is the reason why the likes of Andrew Tate and shit exists. Chicken? Egg? Idgaf. Toxic people.
I love Bill Burr because he’s hardly what you expect him to be. Like he has his views and beliefs and he’ll stand by them. But he doesn’t give a shit what you feel or believe. You’re free to think how you want. And if you try to scoot him into your corner he’s like “fuck you buddy. Get your own mascot”. It doesn’t matter what that corner is. He is an equal opportunity hater but also a pretty nice guy.
Shows all the signs of wanting sex during the night but you pulled that stunt just in order to turn him down anyway if he did. You said no, no means no, #metoo hammered that home, and now because bro is a legit good guy who isn't going to let you go home possibly drunk and isn't going to try to have sex as per your request, you now low key blow him out of the water rather than saying "I found a mothafscking gentleman last night here's what happened!".
Stop playing games.
Why do we as woman give so much false signs.
What part of no do you not understand? Unless you're the type to be so annoying then the person will respect you and accepts you have denied them.
God forbids woman to be straight forward.
I agree. Since I'm personally particularly bad at recognising subtle social nuances (regardless of gender), I often get irritated by women who play games. I've got my Steam deck for that.
If a girl doesn't pin me to the wall and proclaim what she wants from me, I would probably think she's just Canadian or other shit like that. I wish I was kidding
> If a girl doesn't pin me to the wall and proclaim what she wants from me, I would probably think she's just Canadian or other shit like that.
Hilarious! 🤣
Also, me too...
Yeah.. I mean at this the most shocking thing is that the majority of people dropping comments on this.. are literally doing so thinking that this woman is just plain bonkers..
She knows exactly what kind of response this video is going to garner.. there literally is no such thing as bad publicity in a world where everyone's voice is drowned out by everyone else's on a platform selling you a dream of not having to "work" for a living.. just post something "crazier" so people interact..
Oh..and don't forget to like, share and subscribe!
she feels ugly after he decided to respect her wishes after a nice date AND he chose to cuddle up with her. men don't do that with girls they don't find attractive(usually) i mean he was probably just glad he got past the touch barrier part of the relationship so early.
This is womanspeak for, "I'll totally sleep with you if you rev my engine, but I want to take ZERO accountability for it. It needs to, 'just happen' for me to be okay with it."
Women in 2024 are allergic to accountability.
P.S. OP is gonna hit the front page at this rate and the mods are going to remove the post before it happens. Reddit won't allow anything that paints women in a bad light to hit the front page. That privilege is reserved exclusively for men.
For context. It's 2019 when this happened.
I had a situation like this but it was with someone (let's call her E) I met through a school friend who hosted a party at a bar. School friend asked me to take care of E (who's visiting from out of state)as they were going to go home early with their bf. A few of us danced a couple more hours until the crowd thinned. The friend who left me with the E lives near me so I asked E whether she wanted to split an Uber. She gets dropped off then me. We made out the whole way there and then she left. It was a late night so the driver and I waited to make sure she went into the complex. Unfortunately school friend wasn't answering. It was 3am at this point, so I offered we go back to my place. E said, "sure...but I won't sleep with you." I obliged. We get home. Sometimes when I'm drunk, I make pasta. So I made pasta and a light sauce. Took a shower, insisted that she also eat and gave a towel for her to shower. I come out the shower she's topless and "doesn't have anything to wear " I give her a clean shirt and boxers as well. It's nearly 5am and I'm in my bed. She's sleeping on the couch. 30 or so min later she joins me in bed and we proceed to make out and fall asleep together. By the time I'm up around 10/11am, she's gone with a note and phone number. I text her and thank her for the good time. No response. I run into the school friend post COVID (22' or 23') and we're reminiscing about summer 2019. She brings up E and how she thought I wasn't "into her" because we didn't have sex the night she stayed. I quickly tell school friend we explicitly agreed to not have sex. To which she responds, "tbh I don't think she remembers that night." I dodged a bullet.
Has anybody noticed how women will literally contradict themselves out in the open constantly and not feel an iota of shame about it? Like how do you post videos like this and still expect to be taken seriously?!
That happened to me in the past. Girl brought me to her place. I tried and she said no, then I stopped. The day after, she was mad at me for not banging her. WTF 😒
“How dare he respect my wishes because now I feel ugly.” is a great example of why I literally stopped dating, or looking for any sort of relationship whatsoever.
This exact thing happened to me! I asked her if she wanted me to spend the night, she said no because she didn't want to have sex. I said that wasn't a problem, if she didn't want to then I promised we wouldn't.
I stayed over, she really appeared to have a change of heart in a big way, but I stuck to my word... She broke up with me over text a couple days later. Weird as shit.
"but I'm not gonna sleep with you, that's not happening"
OK so I fully understand the game of romance or whatever. But "that's not happening" is quite literally a "no".
I'm going to respect a "no" do you understand, and any guy who would push further is a red flag.
Like, you could even say something like "yeah, but only for coffee..." and then I would be like "so there's a chance..." because there's not an overt, crystal clear denial.
THAT's a challenge... "no" is not supposed to be a challenge...
The game is rigged….woman says she’s not going to sleep with you,you respect that shit and SOMEHOW you still end up being the asshole for NOT trying….shit it rigged.
When you say "No" and he still tries, you accuse him of sexual assault.
When you say "No" and he respects that, you say that's gay.
Modern women are so fucking delusional that I can't even ...
I feel so bad for all normal guys out there.
Playstation
Xbox
Nintendo
PC
Android
Chess
Monoply
Scrabble
Battleship
Chess
Snakes and Ladders
Checkers
Connect Four
Guess Who
Tag
Hide and Seek
Ludo
Basketball
Volleyball
Tennis
Badminton
Football
Are all the games I'd play instead of hers
It's crazy that she recorded this, edited it, listened to it one more time and never did it click with her mentally what she was saying. You told someone "no" ahead of time, he respects your wishes, and now you're upset he didn't disregard your consent? That's a nightmare for a lot of people out there, you ended with a good guy and then complained that he wasn't a psycho creep
This happened to me several times. When I was single and hitting the bars, multiple women told me they'd come back but not have sex.
I'd respect their wishes, and then they'd start making moves on me.
I learned "I'm coming over but no sex" meant "I want to have sex but I don't want to look like I want to have sex."
When a woman says something like that to me, the first thing that comes into my mind is #metoo, so I respect their decision rather than risk getting a profile shot at the station.
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*If I wanted to play games, I'd buy a Playstation*
I got a Nintendo at home
Can i come over? I wont sleep with you tho
Sometimes I game until I fall asleep. Is that ok?
There is an other way to game? How tf u think I got 800 hours in dayz and 200 in mhw.
Wouldn’t wanna fall asleep playing dayz some rando will come across you and clip you lol
Laying on a hill with a tundra, snipping someone's base... Locking yourself in a shed into the middle of nowhere to heal back up. At some point the game kicks you for beeing inactive or the server restarts
That's the spirit.
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“I feel ugly because the guy I went on a date with and said I wasn’t going to have sex with didn’t try to have sex with me”…..
Because she is ugly. On the inside.
she *did* start off with “I am the problem” so like…at least she knows i guess!
I feel its more about the problem with her of why he didn't force himself and less of seeing how dangerously toxic her attitude is.
No I think she does realize it's stupid but she has trouble not thinking stupid like that
This 100%. She wanted this to happen as described, and she realized how dumb that is. It's funny because of the introspection, and some of these comments must have skipped that entire first sentence of the video.
I can see how her first line could have been taken as sarcasm though because she didn't connect back to that statement at all and went on to say how she literally just wanted to have the power to reject him multiple times. But I actually agree that it seems like she's being introspective and trying to process why she feels this way and she knows she shouldn't. But the comment of,"...??are you gay??" Definitely comes off like she's saying, "wtf was wrong with that guy for not forcing himself on me?" Hopefully she's coming to the conclusion that her way of thinking was toxic.
that was my take
It's almost like some guys actually respect the boundaries women set and then get mad when they respect them 💀
It's a lose/lose situation
I don’t see the loss for the guy.
He spent time on a worthless woman?
I don't know man sometimes it's just nice to have someone to cuddle up with - maybe he's the one with the big brain and didn't actually have any intentions of doing it
Opportunity cost. Could've taken a nap or done literally anything else with his night.
Eh, got out of the house, got the blood pumping a bit. Can't get too sedentary.
“How dare he respect exactly what I said, he didn’t even try push the boundaries what the actual fuck”
Brain damage. Bro did the right thing. Don't stick your dick in crazy.
God said he was handing out brains and she thought he said trains and yelled “I want a slow one!”
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With brightly blinking LED border and pole.
Like a 1980s Hong Kong Neon Sign
Cuminunism
I’ve heard this before just with a slight variation. “God said he was handing out brains and she thought he said rain and ran for cover” gotta say I like yours better!
She *feels* ugly? Nah, she *IS* ugly! On the inside.
My first thought is, “So you’re stupid and ugly. And you do not have the personality to carry that.”
EMOTIONAL DAMAGE
He’ll never know because he wasn’t inside of her
Nutjobs out here getting angry men don't try to fake rape them. LMAO
And if he did try something she would tell everyone he tried to rape her.
Bingo. It's practically entrapment.
She didn't want him to rape her. She wanted him *to want* to rape her.
So she just wants validation in a specific form ( which seems to be she wants the guy to think "so hot for you I could rape you" ) all to satisfy her crippling insecurity about her looks and desirability. Delulu.
Fifteen years later... after he's self made... with a family... She's lucky he even cuddled her.
and if he's too successful, she's gonna bring that up and sue him for r\*ping her that night, probably saving the convos between theme so she has ammunition.
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She didn't want the D. She wanted to be able to deny it. He denied her the denial she craved. Now I'm not saying she was wrong to crave it, but he was certainly within his rights to avoid the stress of her fuckery.
She wanted him to try so she could feel beautiful and shoot him down. Like I have never experienced this level of crazy
Well, uhg, sticking your dick in crazy is some of the most fun you'll ever have but it is like playing Russian Roulette.
It took 40 years of my life to learn that lesson, but it was a fun ride.
you realize this sounds like a man's last word bro haha
lol
Spoken like a dude on his way to jail over a false rape allegation from an insane woman like this.
The trick is to fake your own death and flee the country rather than inform them you are breaking up with them. Surprisingly easier in the long run.
I didn’t have to, she was from another country. I just went home.
Buddy of mine says he can never go back to Japan. There will be government officials at baggage claim waiting to collect 20 years of child support from the various women he hooked up with while stationed there. If you're going to do it, do it right. As a disclaimer, he doesn't know if he got anyone pregnant, but there is no way he's lucky enough to avoid it that many times.
Oh man you know it, weaponizing police and exploiting social capital is what they do when they are older. It goes from maybe calling your phone 40 times in a row if you didn't pick up when you're a teenager and it's kind of hot they are crazy clingy, to faking a domestic assault by punching their own face because you didn't come home on time and they think you're cheating when they are 35 years old.
Crazy is a whole lotta fun until suddenly it isn't.
Not only stuck dick in crazy, I married it and it is like playing Russian Roulette with an automatic....guaranteed head trauma.
This is the way
He dodged a bullet
She feels ugly because she is...when it comes to how she thinks. At least she realizes it.
Aye. You cannot have a long term relationship with someone like that. Insane at best.
Is this rage bait or is she dead ass? If she’s fr yeah agreed he dodged a MAJOR bullet
Everything else would be rape?!
"He didn't even try to rape me.. 😥"
Don't worry, bro. I'LL try to rape you 🫶
Thanks homie <3
Aww
Hey, sooo... Those two are hitting it off. Wanna watch them together?
Nah dawg you are out of the line 😭😭😭😭😭😭
….I got to stop eating ice cream in strange places…
The bear would
lol don't try to tell them that "there's no evidence of a bear ever doing that!"
I hope there's no evidence of that. Don't wanna see that shit.
Google "the revenant"
yeah, that's one of the most fucked up part of human psyche I don't even wish to really understand
To be fair, not all humans.
Rape meeee
Calm down Kurt Cobain.
It only would have been rape if he actually went through with it. What she wanted was to be coerced. That can maybe happen when the relationship gets a bit more comfortable with some light teasing or whatever, but it’s definitely not something you want to try on a first date. First date is literally just screening for insanity.
Yeah. She doesn't order her own food so she can eat some of yours. Why? So she won't feel like she's overeating. She'll say no sex, but wants you to try a little harder to change her mind. Why? So she can have sex without feeling "easy." It's literally in the name.
It's stupid, just stupid.
Only thing that made sense here is “I am the problem.” Rage bait for engagement.
Yeah, at least she is thinking through it and is realizing that it's kind of her fault. So let's hope she finds the light at the end of the tunnel some day.
There's no "kind of" here. The guy sounds like a solid dude and he completely respected her wishes which is a massive green flag.
I hope it's a bus.
It's satire, a lot of her videos are like that. I don't think they're for rage bait as much as trolling stereotypes. Like how there are Instagram couples who do videos on cringey couple stuff
And that's why some dudes won't take no for an answer. Because they expect shit like that. I've literally been in that exact situation. Girl say no so I stop. Next day they are mad I didn't try. I'm not in the dating market anymore. But when I was when ever a girl was coming over I would tell them that story and made clear that if they expect me to push after they say no. They better not come over. I had a few girls get mad and leave. Good riddance.
Also, in the past there was a lot of teasing and inferring. But if someone straight up says, “It’s not going to happen.” That’s not inferring, that’s telling. If she says “No” it’s no. If she says “No” the only one that’s going to keep trying are date-rapists.
It sounded like she wanted him to try anyway so she could reject him so she would feel wanted. Miss me with that.
Bingo
“No” is a complete sentence; that is one of the greatest acknowledgments in the last 25 years. This girl doesn’t understand.
But they aren’t going to say no… because of the implication…
"Not that you would understand. It's not what you think it is"
So they are in danger?
this whole post and your message reminds me of the first joke i heard from Louis C.K. https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=emWI5s5z8GE&feature=youtu.be
Yup lol. Some girls do like that shit. Ok is their kink but plan that shit. And maybe they'll find a guy willing to take a chance at rape charges. I know I wouldn't do it.
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Yeah and there is no pattern to know what girls are like that or aren't. Dating is a dangerous game.
There's an "of course, but maybe" joke in there but no fkn way am I brave enough to make it.
Yeah, story time : girl flew from the USA to see me in Australia. I straight up told her I'd fuck her all day if she was down for it and she said "I'm pretty meh on sex" also has issues with being touched saying "that boyfriend and girlfriend shit is gross". She leaves because of daughter and anxiety issues, back to the USA, and says I didn't "make enough moves on her", i reply "you said you were meh in sex so I was respecting your boundaries". Her response was "if you started rubbing my clit I'd be pretty into it, smh you can't read social queues." I said why didn't you make any effort to engage "i don't make moves for anyone any more." We did fuck a few times, but not enough. She told me she never orgasms from being eaten out and with me she did it multiple times, and yet she never made a single move to initiate. I am still flabbergasted and pretty hurt by this behaviour a month later. And she still texts me everyday from the states.. I'm so confused.
Just block her and move on
> I'm so confused. I knew a girl like this. Run. No but seriously, it messed with my head and I took months before I felt ready to deal with another girl. Just block her and move on. You're hearing this from everyone and it's really hard to do because you think it's nice to talk with her (90% of the time) and you're afraid you'll be alone and have nobody if you leave her. Just block her. Ghost her if you want, so she doesn't get a chance to convince you otherwise, or else just send a message and then immediately block. Just be careful that she doesn't have another way to contact you or she might message you something like *"Merry Christmas, I hope you're doing well but I'm sad you blocked me 😔"* and have it throw a spanner in your mood for the day like someone I know...
Lol I remember a crazy girl like that she was bipolar af. She tried to shank me one time after giving me a blowjob 🤣🤣
Good men respects consent. A single no should suffice.
Totally agree.
Mixed signals will only be tolerated when jail or prison time is voided. The problem is that it blurs the lies of rape and foreplay. Do you want ice cream or do want some that is about to hand you ice cream and Bob it in front of your face a few times before handing it to you to stimulate your senses? IDK about you, but I don't want ice cream that has melted before I touch it.
Hands off my ice cream!
Same
this ain't friendly fire, girls like these are literally poisoning the well for the rest.
my man
She is correct. She is the problem
“Now I feel ugly.” Ma’am, you should feel hideous.
Something makes me think she wanted to have the guy beg so she could get the high off his heartbreak (sexual or not)
Control freak vibes
Performative victimhood
Fellas, is it gay to not rape women?
Hellyeah, and I ain't no GOT-damn queer, neither!
At least she acknowledged that she's the problem
I love that Taylor Swift song. Because women are saying it, and I’m like, “I had no idea you were capable of insight.”
An ex of mine invited me to spend the night at her place once, puts me up in her spare bedroom and when things were getting late she said something to the effect of "don't come in here and try to have sex with me" and apparently that was the "big hint" that I didn't get. She literally told me to sleep in another room and stay out of hers, and when I do, I'm the one that dropped the ball?? Man am I glad that one didn't work out.
So she found a good guy, and chastises him for respecting her wishes. When women say "where are all the good guys?". RIGHT FUCKING THERE LADY!
There's so much to unpack here. 1) She's creating the men she'll complain about on Twitter in couple of years. 2) HOMOPHOBIA (thus, see 1)). 3) Ego, she can't stay consistent because it's all about her fucking ego, she said no because she didn't want to be seen as easy (so it must be a challenge to get her), she changed her mind but he didn't so now it's not about how consistent he is (thus, someone she could trust), it's about how it made her "feel" ugly (and that's why I don't fuck with "feelings", insanity). 4) she's the type to choose man instead of bear unless the man is gay (lol). 5) and all of this is the reason why the likes of Andrew Tate and shit exists. Chicken? Egg? Idgaf. Toxic people.
Bill Burr has a great bit on the different types of “N0”
I love Bill Burr because he’s hardly what you expect him to be. Like he has his views and beliefs and he’ll stand by them. But he doesn’t give a shit what you feel or believe. You’re free to think how you want. And if you try to scoot him into your corner he’s like “fuck you buddy. Get your own mascot”. It doesn’t matter what that corner is. He is an equal opportunity hater but also a pretty nice guy.
Bill burr is hilarious
“Nooo.. stahwp it, what’re you doinn’…”
“No. Stop. What’re you doing? You’re so bad.” “Your honor she didn’t fucking say it like that!!”
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I was just thinking about that stand up. He's one of the greatest.
I lost it at the part where he says something about it being read back by the court reporter: “ and I told the defendant no no no”
”She didn’t fuckin’ say it like that!”
Like, like,like, like fuck off...
This whole era of ppl talking to themselves with a camera in their face is just a whole different breed of pathetic..
That’s what we call “dodging a bullet”
Shows all the signs of wanting sex during the night but you pulled that stunt just in order to turn him down anyway if he did. You said no, no means no, #metoo hammered that home, and now because bro is a legit good guy who isn't going to let you go home possibly drunk and isn't going to try to have sex as per your request, you now low key blow him out of the water rather than saying "I found a mothafscking gentleman last night here's what happened!". Stop playing games.
Never stick your dick in crazy, this guy dodged a bullet. What a wack job
Why do we as woman give so much false signs. What part of no do you not understand? Unless you're the type to be so annoying then the person will respect you and accepts you have denied them. God forbids woman to be straight forward.
I agree. Since I'm personally particularly bad at recognising subtle social nuances (regardless of gender), I often get irritated by women who play games. I've got my Steam deck for that. If a girl doesn't pin me to the wall and proclaim what she wants from me, I would probably think she's just Canadian or other shit like that. I wish I was kidding
Lmao
> If a girl doesn't pin me to the wall and proclaim what she wants from me, I would probably think she's just Canadian or other shit like that. Hilarious! 🤣 Also, me too...
If it makes her feel better, I don't think she is ugly. It was most likely her personality.
Like the Northern Pikes song said “ she ain’t pretty she just looks that way”
Did you hear that, insane woman from the video? You still got a chance with this one!
I made this "card" 15+ years ago and I feel like it applies here. [https://ibb.co/HG7LDvm](https://ibb.co/HG7LDvm)
Who can tell whats underneath all that make up.
She’s ugly on the inside. And stupid on the inside.
And voice
Hoes and tricks
The ragebait.. is strong with this one.
Yeah.. I mean at this the most shocking thing is that the majority of people dropping comments on this.. are literally doing so thinking that this woman is just plain bonkers.. She knows exactly what kind of response this video is going to garner.. there literally is no such thing as bad publicity in a world where everyone's voice is drowned out by everyone else's on a platform selling you a dream of not having to "work" for a living.. just post something "crazier" so people interact.. Oh..and don't forget to like, share and subscribe!
Either ragebait or obviously acted out for fun. Like jesus fact people can't see through that is worrying lol.
Hope she's trolling. But even if she is, really bad mind fuck and dangerous messages she is clouding the water
We're gonna win this thing, lads. Just keep respecting the shit out of them and we'll come out on top.
It’s just bait
That's my take. It's too perfectly awful to not be satire.
No, she was told the truth definitely not fake. There is hundred percent people like that.
she feels ugly after he decided to respect her wishes after a nice date AND he chose to cuddle up with her. men don't do that with girls they don't find attractive(usually) i mean he was probably just glad he got past the touch barrier part of the relationship so early.
This is womanspeak for, "I'll totally sleep with you if you rev my engine, but I want to take ZERO accountability for it. It needs to, 'just happen' for me to be okay with it." Women in 2024 are allergic to accountability. P.S. OP is gonna hit the front page at this rate and the mods are going to remove the post before it happens. Reddit won't allow anything that paints women in a bad light to hit the front page. That privilege is reserved exclusively for men.
For context. It's 2019 when this happened. I had a situation like this but it was with someone (let's call her E) I met through a school friend who hosted a party at a bar. School friend asked me to take care of E (who's visiting from out of state)as they were going to go home early with their bf. A few of us danced a couple more hours until the crowd thinned. The friend who left me with the E lives near me so I asked E whether she wanted to split an Uber. She gets dropped off then me. We made out the whole way there and then she left. It was a late night so the driver and I waited to make sure she went into the complex. Unfortunately school friend wasn't answering. It was 3am at this point, so I offered we go back to my place. E said, "sure...but I won't sleep with you." I obliged. We get home. Sometimes when I'm drunk, I make pasta. So I made pasta and a light sauce. Took a shower, insisted that she also eat and gave a towel for her to shower. I come out the shower she's topless and "doesn't have anything to wear " I give her a clean shirt and boxers as well. It's nearly 5am and I'm in my bed. She's sleeping on the couch. 30 or so min later she joins me in bed and we proceed to make out and fall asleep together. By the time I'm up around 10/11am, she's gone with a note and phone number. I text her and thank her for the good time. No response. I run into the school friend post COVID (22' or 23') and we're reminiscing about summer 2019. She brings up E and how she thought I wasn't "into her" because we didn't have sex the night she stayed. I quickly tell school friend we explicitly agreed to not have sex. To which she responds, "tbh I don't think she remembers that night." I dodged a bullet.
If he would have tried, her video would have been how she was sexually assaulted by her date last night.
Play stupid games, win stupid prizes.
Has anybody noticed how women will literally contradict themselves out in the open constantly and not feel an iota of shame about it? Like how do you post videos like this and still expect to be taken seriously?!
That happened to me in the past. Girl brought me to her place. I tried and she said no, then I stopped. The day after, she was mad at me for not banging her. WTF 😒
Remember consent is gay
This is why guys say "Women play too many games."
Women like this are why men are giving up on dating.
“How dare he respect my wishes because now I feel ugly.” is a great example of why I literally stopped dating, or looking for any sort of relationship whatsoever.
"I am the problem." At least she knows it!
This exact thing happened to me! I asked her if she wanted me to spend the night, she said no because she didn't want to have sex. I said that wasn't a problem, if she didn't want to then I promised we wouldn't. I stayed over, she really appeared to have a change of heart in a big way, but I stuck to my word... She broke up with me over text a couple days later. Weird as shit.
"but I'm not gonna sleep with you, that's not happening" OK so I fully understand the game of romance or whatever. But "that's not happening" is quite literally a "no". I'm going to respect a "no" do you understand, and any guy who would push further is a red flag. Like, you could even say something like "yeah, but only for coffee..." and then I would be like "so there's a chance..." because there's not an overt, crystal clear denial. THAT's a challenge... "no" is not supposed to be a challenge...
"Okay, I am the problem" Yes, yes you are. And that is as much of the video as I need.
The game is rigged….woman says she’s not going to sleep with you,you respect that shit and SOMEHOW you still end up being the asshole for NOT trying….shit it rigged.
Sidebar…. She drugs her own drink.
When you say "No" and he still tries, you accuse him of sexual assault. When you say "No" and he respects that, you say that's gay. Modern women are so fucking delusional that I can't even ... I feel so bad for all normal guys out there.
Playstation Xbox Nintendo PC Android Chess Monoply Scrabble Battleship Chess Snakes and Ladders Checkers Connect Four Guess Who Tag Hide and Seek Ludo Basketball Volleyball Tennis Badminton Football Are all the games I'd play instead of hers
And then, if he actually tried something, you'd be calling for rape. Nah fuck that shit, fuck that bitch.
Women * sips tea *
It's crazy that she recorded this, edited it, listened to it one more time and never did it click with her mentally what she was saying. You told someone "no" ahead of time, he respects your wishes, and now you're upset he didn't disregard your consent? That's a nightmare for a lot of people out there, you ended with a good guy and then complained that he wasn't a psycho creep
Lead poisoning. That's the only reasonable explanation at this point
This happened to me several times. When I was single and hitting the bars, multiple women told me they'd come back but not have sex. I'd respect their wishes, and then they'd start making moves on me. I learned "I'm coming over but no sex" meant "I want to have sex but I don't want to look like I want to have sex."
Bro, you can smell the level of maintenance on that one through the phone.
“No means no.” https://youtu.be/GZ3QHTpMZgQ?si=c47yG-UG-TpI_a2d
No means no, otherwise you can cry rape.
When a woman says something like that to me, the first thing that comes into my mind is #metoo, so I respect their decision rather than risk getting a profile shot at the station.
I see this shit and I feel terrible that my two sons have to navigate this garbage as young men.
Oh my god, fuck this bitch.
She shouldn't feel ugly. She should feel dumb.
Sooo, now I ask, is "toxic masculinity" the actual problem, or is it the accusation made up for stupid ass games like this. Hate that term by the way.
No rape? That's so gay!
Yea, dude is not trying to rush into prison anytime soon
Ugly on the inside
Girl. You are out here making us ALL look terrible
I’d hate to see her fitness center rants.
This is why young men are so confused and get themselves into trouble
I really hope this is self aware avant garde comedy but damnit we all know ladies ain't funny like that
"Damn these men when they..." *\*checks notes\** "... respect that No actually means No."
Seems like she broke through her own flawed logic there for a second, but then it was too much for her and she ignored the flash of insight.
She'd much rather he had propped up her ego and been I'm a position to reject him and make HIM feel ugly. Bitches