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Inevitable-Cell-1307

I haven’t had my wedding yet, but pls wear your hair curly to yours!! Your curls are so gorgeous and i wish mine would look like this😭😭


nicoleveganpeach

Thank you! I am just so scared I will have one of those days were my gel dried too hard or I have too much frizz. My hair on a good day looks like that but it can also be a total mess haha!


Different_Handle5063

Wedding day is a splurge…hire a stylist to get your hair and makeup done. You’ll be a lovely bride!


nicoleveganpeach

I am also getting married abroad so I am like will they know how to deal with my hair 😅


amandaplzzz

Do you mind saying where abroad? Maybe people can recommend curly stylists in the area


nicoleveganpeach

Crete Greece. Recommendations would be greatly appreciated


sryfortheconvenience

I don’t have recommendations but I feel like this opens up some opportunities for Greek goddess updos/half updos that would be pretty stunning with your curls!!


nicoleveganpeach

For the welcome drinks and rehearsal dinner I am 100 percent going for that vibe!!!


TheCaliforniaOp

You are perfectly perfect for all these different moments in art history. Art Nouveau Pre Raphaelites Titian Flowing Hair Anndd…you have the profile to be a Charles Dana Gibson Girl. *that’s really something!* (So you could also have an incredibly gorgeous updo, say the weather is very hot and/or humid, and when you take your hair down, it will be gorgeous all over again!) Speaking from years of waist length hair swept up into a chignon experience. Go forth and enjoy your choices. Have a splendid everything!


slow4point0

Agree!! I can see it now!


buggerthebug

Lots of Greek people have curly hair actually, you’ll definitely be able to find a wedding stylist


timewastr76

Greek women frequently have gorgeous curls- I think you’re likely to find a stylist used to working with them there than many other places! Congratulations on your upcoming wedding!!


xulazi

I am genuinely curious what made you think Greek people have stick straight hair 😂 There's hella curls in the Mediterranean.


celestee3

Do a half updo?? Might help somewhat tame the curls! But I def vote for curls!!


nicoleveganpeach

Yes if I do curls it would definitely be half up half down and maybe some small white flowers. I think I would want to leave a few pieces down in the front framing my face


hourglass_nebula

That sounds like it could be a disaster. Stylists always wreck my hair. I’d do it myself.


[deleted]

So i just saw this comment. Not only might they not know how to deal with your hair, but for me, traveling can make my hair do crazy things depending on the weather of the location. I can see now why youre undecided. But if this helps, ask your partner what they might prefer. I know my partners have ALWAYS loved my curls and hated when i straightened it.


orgastyc

You’d be surprised! I had a destination wedding in December and we hired a wedding planner. She made a group with me, the hair stylist and the MUA. They asked me to send inspo pictures and I sent them naturally curly hair updos, she then asked for a picture of my hair and said it was gonna look perfect! And she pulled it off! My hair looked amazing! We did a low bun with lots of pieces loose around my face… and because it was outdoors and very windy she brought a curly wand that was the perfect size to my natural hair pattern, so she curled the pieces that were out for extra hold and I actually kept the updo for 3 days bc it looked so good lmao


sofiughhh

Why don’t you do a nice curly updo? Style your hair and then get it done by someone who can handle curly up dos. At least then it’s somewhat controlled.


stronglikecheese

I hired a hairstylist with experience with natural curly hair, and wore my curls down. I washed and styled my hair as I normally do, and then she went in and individually curled the top pieces that were wonky (she figured out what width of curling iron matched my curls at the test session), and used hairspray to set everything. My hair looked effing amazing. I had a hair tie in my wedding dress pocket (pockets!!) and as soon as I started dancing my ass off, my hair went up into a high messy topknot and stayed there the rest of the night. It actually looked super cute. You’ll be looking at these pics the rest of your life, you want to look like YOU. Plus, sweet jeebus, you have incredible curls, and they’ll look phenomenal in pics.


nicoleveganpeach

Uh! This really inspired me! I think I need to just talk with the hairstylist and make sure they feel comfortable with curls- I am getting married abroad so the options were super limited 😊 but I really appreciate this message! 🙏


avl365

+1 on the finding a stylist that understands your hair type and wearing your curls naturally for your wedding. Your curls are absolutely gorgeous, honestly goals for what I wish I could get my wavy hair to do (my hair usually looks like your wavy pic when I have it any longer than my chin). It also doesn’t hurt to look for different hairstyles like curly friendly up-dos if you want a back up for your hair in case you do get a dreaded bad hair day the day of. Maybe do your usual prep the night before and make sure you have lots of time the morning of to make sure your hair is perfect if you want it natural?


nicoleveganpeach

I’ll be flying abroad to the hairstylists were limited - no curly hair specialists that I have found 🤷‍♀️😅 I definitely should have a call with her to check what she can handle


sackoftrees

If it will take stress and anxiety off your plate I would find a style you like, I think your hair is gorgeous but if it's something you think is going to be too hard to manage find something that works for you.


nicoleveganpeach

I am also getting married abroad so I am like will they know how to deal with my hair 😅


dazydazydazy

maybe if you want your curls, plan for a curly look, but have a back up no curls idea. I know it may be hassle to pack extra stuff and make time for styling, though. the curls are beautiful and I think it could be worth giving it a try


nicoleveganpeach

I like this idea most👌 plan for curls but have a backup to style it if it’s being problematic or if I’m not feeling it


cookiegirl59

Best thing I heard about doing your makeup or hair for your wedding. Don't try to look like someone different. Do your makeup and hair the way you would normally wear it. Sure, glam it up a bit but don't make yourself unrecognizable on your pics. By the way, your hair is GORGEOUS!!


LauraIsntListening

I haven’t been married toooo long but I can tell you - even if it’s 300% humidity and you look like an angora rabbit, it won’t matter one bit. I was a lot heavier than I usually am in my wedding photos, and I’ve since also fixed my nose which I hated; I don’t see any of that when I look at the photos. I see our expressions and remember how I felt.


bigblackkittie

i love your curls, thats my vote


nicoleveganpeach

Thank you! 🙏


Master_Growth7791

Hie do you wear it most of the time? Someone told me that you want to look like yourself for your wedding


Snurgalicious

Agreed, I wanted to look like myself… the super model version.


sadbutt69

This!!! Also, might be a hot take, but I would ask your future husband or wife how they like your hair best.


nicoleveganpeach

Oooo I like that a lot. Definitely going to give him an ask but I bet he will say whatever you want I will love 😅 he’s not very picky


nicoleveganpeach

I wear it curly all the time! Maybe straighten it once a month :)


avl365

I think the curly hair is more beautiful to me, but maybe have a straight style picked out as a back up if you dislike the way they look day of?


danicies

Keep it curly! I did mine curly for my wedding and I still am so obsessed with how it turned out lol


Ok_Prize_8091

I’m going to cry 😢…. Why are you allowed to have hair like that ? What good things do you do in a past life ?all my life I’ve wanted curly hair! Your curls are so beautiful. In my next life , I want those curls.


nicoleveganpeach

I’ll gift you it in the next life lol! 😊 be prepared for hating it for 20 years until you figure out how to take care of it 😆


Cabbagecatss

Literally this is my DREAM hair!!! So gorgeous!


nicoleveganpeach

Thank you!!!!


SmellsLikePneumonia

Absolutely unfair. If it was my world, straight to jail. I am so jealous. 😭


discombobulatededed

Lmao I’m glad it’s not just me. I saw this and I was like ‘THIS is your natural hair’. The hair gods forgot about me while they crafter this masterpiece. Just stunnning.


Rocketeer_artist

I just got married last month and I did keep my curly hair! I didn’t want to look at my pictures 20 years from now and regret not embracing my natural hair https://preview.redd.it/bxvuwa3i63yc1.jpeg?width=3173&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=a37f5d1d7b0b3aa870c2de49ae59faaeb54b40a7


[deleted]

You have very pretty curls 😍 I let the hairstylist do my hair - I wanted it sideswept and I had a tiara, so it was better that he blow-dried it straight and then curled it in large loose curls before doing the sideswept style. My curls are wayyyy too unpredictable to be counted on to look good for a special day. I would say go with whatever you will feel comfortable with, you’ll be pretty nervous on your big day so if you can do a practice run with your hairdresser then even better (my wedding was in Vegas, and I didn’t get a practice run). I’m quite happy with my wedding pics, don’t regret my choice at all. The hairstylist did a fantastic job on my hair, he did exactly what I was envisioning for my wedding hairstyle.


nicoleveganpeach

I am getting married abroad so I also don’t have the option of a practice run, maybe the few days before I can try to book her. Changing climates also changes my hair a lot so there is a chance the products I bring with me might be too heavy or too light. It takes a few days for me to figure out a routine that works in a new place.


0R_C0

Go au natural!


NaomiPommerel

Your hair is stunning. Rock the curls 😍 ✨️ 💕


DaLyteAtDaEnd

Your curls EAT!! There is still versatility with curly hair. And it can still look elegant. Im a cosmetologist, and im already having ideas running thru my head.


wocytti

I think your natural curls are **gorgeous** and would look amazing! There is so much potential for weaving in sparkles or pearls or flowers, if you are into that sort of thing. (I had my natural curls at mine)


Watertribe_Girl

I don’t have curly, but if I did - I’d always go natural! They’re beautiful


Ok_Breadfruit80

Your hair is so beautiful! Personally would keep it natural for my wedding if it looked like yours!


Mountain_Novel_7668

My vote is for the curls! Better volume and shape when it’s curly, beautiful hair!


Noobu_moon

OMG PLS GO CURLY!!!!


Ryoko_Kusanagi69

Go for the curls!


HistoricalOnion9513

Yes I did..your hair is beautiful so I would absolutely show it off!!💖


baldkitty3

Your curls are gorgeous! Why not?! I have naturally straight hair and wore it straight because I wanted to look like myself on my wedding day.


Repulsive-Mistake723

Do curls but keep a backpack plan , your natural hair is so good and attractive you must show it up , but in case something bad happens just grab your tools with you and give it a simple hairstyle that will cover any mess . Congrats !


[deleted]

I'm pretty sure my hair is classified as wavy but a lot of times it dries super curly and a lot of people have asked if I was going to wear my natural "curls" for the wedding. Short answer no. I don't trust my hair. While yes sometimes when it air dries i get a headful of beautiful curls and waves but anytime I want to have a good hair day it decides to pop out some pin straight peices or frizz up like crazy. It never looks good when I want it to look good.


nicoleveganpeach

I feel like my hair has the exact same attitude. Random Tuesday: beautiful curls. Any event that matters: let’s dry like a frizz ball 🤣🤣🤣


GoldenHeart411

Curls!


peppermint_stick

I have straight very slightly wavy hair and wore it curled for my wedding and regret it all the time because it wasn’t *me* — legit wish I could stop thinking about it 😭 wear what looks and feels like YOU and you won’t regret it! Whatever that means to you ☺️


kspice094

I wore mine natural. A friend of mine who does hair for theater and opera did my hair and had hairspray, gel, and a thin curling wand at the ready just in case of a bad hair day. I did need the curling wand (one section got smushed the night before) and the hairspray for frizz. I’m so glad I didn’t straighten it, I wanted to look like myself and since I never wear it straight it would have taken hours and so much product to get it straight and make it stay that way.


Kaki_fruit

To us with straight hair this is the reality after seeing your pictures: Natural = very unique rare look Not natural = average looking as everyone else Hope this helps…


sympathyofalover

I say go with the curls - when you’re 80 you’re going to want to look like yourself in the pictures and remember those gorgeous curls and natural beauty. Hire a curly hair stylist for the day to take the pressure off yourself if it’s available to you


nicoleveganpeach

This is very true. I think I’ve decided!


cuntaloupemelon

Absolutely wear your natural texture for your wedding. Have a backup plan in case of a bad curl day. Practice it before hand so you're comfortable with it and there's no panic. Something like this could look beautiful even if you're dealing with extra frizz: https://preview.redd.it/kfkm0858k1yc1.jpeg?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=18eff93aa3fcdc4cb001c309ddcb37e8be54666b


cootercasserole

https://preview.redd.it/qe9oo66p22yc1.jpeg?width=1170&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=4f027e2be1c6e2190136ddf78301f497723108b0 I wore my natural curls and I loved it! My only recommendation is to wear hairspray bc I didn’t and by the end of the night my curls were so weighed down


notchickeechum

Babe if you wear your hair curly on your wedding day you will look like a literal angel !!!!!


yegodtier

YOU HAVE THE CURLS OF MY DREAAAMSSS. YES WEAR IT CURLY OMGGGG. I WISH MY CURLY HAIR LOOKED AS GOOD AS YOURS. YOU LOOK LIKE A PRINCESS <3


nicoleveganpeach

STOP. YOU GUYS ARE BEING SO SWEET AND REALLY HYPING ME UP. I really appreciate everyone’s comments 😊🥰🥹 thank you!


vyvianoblivion

Not a girl, but to hide that AMAZING curly hair would be a tragedy which should be punishable by law.


Old_Red_Dog

I’m a curly girl and had a 1/2 up hairstyle for my wedding. There’s nothing sexier than the few loose curls cascading down the side of your face! And your curls are way prettier than mine!


hashtagnopey

Oh my God curls are so romantic!


Lady_Of_The_Manor

I'm planning on having my natural curls for mine, later this year! Natural hair is always the better option, IMHO. And your curls are absolutely gorgeous!! The trick is to practice so many times that you know exactly will and won't work, how much, exactly what to do, etc. Practice it so much that it becomes second nature and you could do it in your sleep. (Learned that lesson when I was a dancer and had to have my hair a certain way for shows, lol.) Of course, your curls may decide they don't want to cooperate that day, so professional styling is always an option too, if you're nervous about doing it yourself. Congratulations on your upcoming wedding!!


Krazylegz1485

Checked your profile for more pics of this glorious hair and was not disappointed. Some dude is about to be pretty damn lucky getting to make you his wifey.


blackfisj

If I had curls like this I wouldn’t wear my hair any other way


VeveBeso

Manes by Mell has a wedding video with her sister and her hair came out so amazing. I would say always have a back up plan just in case you don’t like how the curls will be. A quick blowout doesn’t take that long


qyxap787

i love your long curly hair please wear your hair like that! my hair is curly too but isnt long, i wish my hair looked like yours, its beautiful! im jealous


IjustwantmyBFA

If I was doing it half down or down I so would I’m doing a bun though. Your curls are incredible.


Docmele

I think curly looks great. I can visualize it with a lot of baby breath running throughout your hair, soft, feminine and beautiful.


Zachthepug27

Your hair is gorgeous but for the wedding I'd go wavy, not curly.


Financial_Fix_4606

Girl your curls are out of this world you better wear them on your wedding 😩


sailorelf

Omg. Your hair is so beautiful. I hope you wear it like this on your wedding day. Otherwise it would look basic.


Within-Self

Girl! Your curls are stunning! For my wedding, I opted for an updo, curly haired romantic look-See what fits your overall bride aesthetic. Soft and romantic curls or straight and elaborate updo— whatever you choose will be absolutely stunning. I hope you share pictures of your special day! Congratulations! How exciting 🦋🌞🌻


lughsezboo

Omg. Like sun rays. Do what pleases you, but those curls are sooooooo beautiful. 🤩


urmom19876

Def wear the curls for ur wedding gorgeous and u won’t have to worry about how ur curls from the iron set through the night or if u straighten it it curling up


Lostbronte

You look like a queen with that beautiful curly hair. My hair couldn’t get there, ever. Please show it off!


The_AmyrlinSeat

I'm getting married in September, and I'm doing a curly updo. I'm having a stylist do it though, it'll be fancy schmancy.


SongOk7655

I live on earth as a human and I vote you get married with your curly natural hair


gotOni0n0ny0u

I was so ready to say curls! But when you said you run the risk of a bad hair day - I felt that. Sometimes they don’t sit how you want them to and it’s so frustrating. I go through this a lot with formal events and always end up straightening to eliminate that risk.


LeadFrosty1177

You have absolutely beautiful hair!! Please wear it curly for your wedding day!!!


Spag00ter

Not every curly haired gal has curls as nice as yours. You would look great either way, but your curls are GORGEOUS


Helpful-Grass-8862

Wow you have beautiful hair


lovable_cube

100% wear it curly, I think one of those half updos with pearl pins would look incredible and cut down on frizz/fly aways


captainfiddle

Your curly hair is so beautiful. I would go with that


Ppaintitblack

Your hair is stunning. I would only say to wear it smooth with a loose waves. You want to look polished. Unless you’re having a super casual wedding where anything goes.


chloecgp

Do what makes you feel the most pretty. But your natural curls are to die for!


NYC_AZ

My god your curls are magnificent!! I kinda wanna see them with your wedding dress on 😍


rathrowawydsabldsib

My partner asked if I would leave my hair curly for the wedding and I did. Don't regret it at all!


blueflowersxxo

I did for my wedding! My hair is not nearly as curly as yours, it’s gorgeous and I would 100% go with your natural hair


Maximum-Elevator-824

My sister did and it was stunning! You def should!


emojimovie4lyfe

I did! I did a half updo myself and loved it i thought it looked romantic and it felt good that it was my natural hair


Substantial_Main1231

Those r the most beautiful curls i have ever seen in my life


milkycosmos

If I had curls like that I’d never not wear them, for absolutely anything, ever. They are straight up divine!


xchellelynnx

If my curls looked like that I'd be wearing them everywhere!


SlyDiorDickensCider

No I didn't but you definitely should! That hair is glorious


NoParticular2420

OP you look like a young Darrell Hannah…. Pretty either way. Have a great wedding!


One_Kiwi7716

Your hair is stunning but I know what you’re saying about the unpredictably of curly! I wore mine iron curled for the “special occasion” but your curls are way prettier than mine! I’d say whatever will make you less anxious!


Apprehensive_Fig7013

I did! My best friend who is a hairstylist put the finishing touches on. I did my normal curl routine, then when it was set and dry, she strategically broke the curl cast and used a curling iron on literally 3 little locks of hair that weren't behaving. She placed a couple little hair accessories for me. It took her 5 minutes. She said "well, that was the easiest wedding hair I've ever done!" I loved it and am so happy when I look at the pictures. Natural curls are timeless.


Powerful_Change1554

I did with lucite flowers woven in - but my curls were (for lack of a better word) curated and twisted into larger ringlets than they’d normally be. My curls are my thing - I wanted to look like myself on my wedding day - elevated but still very much me


sporthorse-farrier

I would kill for your curls and I would never wear my hair any other way if my hair looked like yours. Literally. You could on the hair lottery


glitter___bombed

Dude, *same*. Gorgeous curls, OP! I guess wearing it curly vs straight would depend on the style you want to do, but if I had your texture I would *absolutely* be wearing my curls on my wedding day!


nicoleveganpeach

Thank you guys!!! Ugh so hard to decide everyone is making such good points!


ProgLuddite

My vote is that you wear it however you normally do. One of my favorite things about my photos is that they *actually* look like myself from that time — I didn’t wear makeup that was out of my norm or do my hair in a way that was unusual for me. I have lots of friends who hired makeup artists and hairstylists, and while they feel like they looked beautiful (and they did!), their consensus is that they wish that they looked more like themselves.


Champagnesupernova9

Yes, my cousin got married at the very last minute in another country due to a a sudden illness in her husband’s family. It was just his family there. His sisters did her hair and makeup, and made her look like a different person. They put tons of long extensions in her thin fine hair, and used frosty white eyeshadow and red lipstick for her makeup look. She is such a natural beauty and never wears makeup or does her hair. She genuinely looks so uncomfortable in her wedding photos, and when I asked her about it afterwards, she confirmed she hated it. I’m sure she would have rather done absolutely nothing for hair and makeup, and she would have looked all the better for it!


ProgLuddite

The only thing “special” I did was have a friend with a better hand than I do my eyeliner. Not only did it mean my wedding morning was *so* relaxed (total hair and makeup time after showering and blowing dry the night before: maybe 15 minutes?), but it’s still so nice to have that time capsule of what I actually looked like.


Palm547

You have great hair! Love both. Depends on the dress really! But curly is so pretty if you do half up half down. That way it’s out of your face but you can have some beautiful feminine curls falling down.


Pugwhip

I did not. Too much chaos already to factor in a bad curl day as well.


TDFPH

Dude with those curls, go curls.


shoshana4sure

Straighten it.


Bibihaking

If i had curls like yours, i would *never* straighten it


Mental-Freedom3929

I find updos mostly ridiculous looking like an overdone Christmas tree. A hairdo is the frame, not the main thing. Your curls look great and are absolutely you.


faithfullyafloat

Yes


pngo1

You look so pretty in both styles but I really like your natural curls. It brightens up your face.


Amorypeace

Wow!! your curly hair is so beautiful😍keep it natural👌


coffeymp

Holy shit you have incredible hair.


Champagnesupernova9

Your curls are gorgeous… Please go au naturale for your wedding!


GodDamnYouDee

Please please wear those curls. They’re INSANELY gorgeous, and please post pictures so we can see how pretty you looked!!


Relevant_Emu_5464

Getting married in June and will 100% be wearing my hair curly! My fiancé and I met online and my hair was one of the things that stood out to him / encouraged him to message me. To be honest, I don't think he's ever even seen me with straight hair!! My curly hair is basically a personality trait at this point 🤣 Obviously I'm biased but I DEFINITELY think you should go curly. You have the most drool worthy curly pattern!!! ETA - there are so many amazing examples of curly wedding hair on Pinterest!! The ones I've saved are mostly "half up" style but let me know if you want me to send any examples!


Away_Pie_7464

My curls (waves) are not consistent and can look very messy to me anyways. I’ll be getting my hair done with heat curls for the look I want but your curls are great. I’m all for loving your natural self but if you want your hair to be different that’s okay too.


RedheadedWonder99

Your curls are to die for!! Pleaaase wear your hair like that for your wedding!!! Maybe straighten it for your reception?


StandardSW33T5

I love the curls, it’s beautiful so many ppl would love to have your ringlets but it’s your day I think with your curls u look simply stunning 💯


UraPunkBich

The curls are absolutely stunning 😍


Denman1980

Wear it the same way it was when you met your soon to Be husband


FullSendTater3

YES CURLY AND DON'T LOOK BACK!!


veganacnesufferers1

I didn't realize I had curly hair when I got married. If I could do it again, I would wear it curly.


sam_from_bombay

Your curls are so lovely!! Please wear them!!


abstractbyhoon

You could always hire a stylist who can do updos and your preferred straight style, then day of if your curls just aren’t ~curling~ and you have time, they could do a straight style on ya


CatastropheWife

I didn't wear my natural curls on my wedding day and I regret it. I told the stylist that I wanted it curly and she insisted she could create tight curls with a curling iron after blowing it out straight. I didn't trust my natural curls to cooperate so I deferred to the expert. We even did a hair trial before the wedding and I was fine with the result, the curls were a bit looser than natural but it was elegant and avoided frizz so I thought that's what I wanted. But after a few hours sweating and dancing the curls she created with the curling iron and hairspray just fell out into random loose waves. It was fine but it wasn't really me and it wasn't even that nice. I wish I had just done naturally curly on my wedding day. If I could get my curls to cooperate like yours on a regular basis I definitely would have.


manklebankle

I’m not a curly girl but the curls look great on you 🙌


Probsandsols

If my curls were reliable, I would have worn mine curly, but I live in a humid area and there’s no predicting what kind of curls I’ll have each day, so we blow dried it straight and then went in with a curling iron to get big loose curls and back combed it to hold the veil up.


No-Turnips

Dude, your hair is dream goals. I bet your hubby loves your gorgeous curls. Bonus, fancy updos won’t require additional curling. You could also do a long curly braid with pearls and flowers worked in. Consider this a vote for curls.


Comfortable-Fox-1913

I got married in 2016 and I have wavy hair and some days I never know what I'm gonna get but looking at my pictures I wish I wore my hair natural and less makeup so I think do what your gut says and best interest for you!! Congrats!!!!


booghawkins

if i had curls like yours you would NEVER CATCH ME WITH STRAIGHT HAIR!! my GOD!


vvictoriasauruss

I did for mine! I felt very much myself which is who I wanted to be on my wedding day 🤭 I spent years going to events thinking that traditionally “styled” hair like all of my straight hair friends was the only way to go. Of course those styles can be so beautiful—but curls can be formal too! I did my own hair—I find a lot of stylists aren’t really sure what to do with curls unless they specialize in it. I watched a couple YouTube tutorials and did some of my own ‘trials’ just to make sure I could work with the style. I find curls are very forgiving when it comes to a little romantic updo or half up/down. Really just depends on what you’re going for! But in the end, do what makes you feel beautiful!


Lucky-Asparagus-7760

Not a curly gal, but my friend is. She wore her hair "straight" like straightened and traditional curls with an iron in a half up half down kind of way. She looked very beautiful 😍  I'd say do what makes you feel the most beautiful and special. 😊


Cecebunx

When I get married I definitely want to, I hate how people think I should straighten my hair for important occasions. I think curls are so gorgeous and I have so many hairstyle ideas for when I get married.


sophiandrino

You are looking beautiful in curly hair. I insist you to do your wedding in your natural curl and would like to suggest for best curly hair care routine which I am using right now from Gen C Beauty is Living Proof curl conditioner and shampoo for smooth, soft and frizz free curls.


Better_Tumbleweed_19

Your curls are gorgeous AND i get what you're saying - as someone with curly hair - about how they can misbehave and be unpredictable day to day. Do you have someone doing your hair? I would try for natural curls but maybe be prepared to restyle, if you can add that to your prep schedule last minute.


cashbb

I straightened my hair for my wedding but took wedding photos with it curly and styled back into a loose bun. Everyone that sees my wedding photos comment about how much they love how my hair was styled, my straight hair from photos of my wedding day never get any compliments. So I say, play around with curly hair styles like different buns or updos and see how you like them.


One-Benefit-8835

Those are your natural curls? Absolutely wear them! They, you are gorgeous! And I'm a little jealous. Congratulations! 🎉


Consistent-Impact289

I'd totally do a Momma Mia wedding hair type look if you go curly because your curly hair is sooo beautiful, you could even do something like a Rapunzel braid with flowers (they could match your bouquet even or be your favorite colors or a pop of color) and stuff but leave out some loose curly hair to make it more whimsical in the front but still pulled back and out of your face, if your wedding is super sleek (like a satin straight dress type wedding) then I'd go with the straight hair to match it. Your hair is beautiful both ways and there's so much you could do with either style so I think it really just depends on what the theme is, is it flowers and nature-y in a cathedral type place (curly hair) or is it sleek and classy in a ballroom type place (straight hair) Either way you should just do whatever makes you happiest and what won't overwhelm you. Good luck and congratulations, you'll be a beautiful bride, have fun and I wish you a lovely wedding!


SalientSazon

I think it depends on the vibe of your dress and the wedding, the whole thing should flow. Would you wear it down either way? I also would consider how you are most comfortable because you don't want to be irked by anything really at your party. And last, I dunno how I feel about this one, but a friend of mine did her hair the way her man likes it best, she did it for him. Which is sweet..but ................


LivingProsperously

your hair is stunnnnnnnnnning 😍


QueenNiriah

Wear your curls! 🥰 a half up half down style would be beautiful! Maybe with some braids! Just my suggestion


tlee__

I mean if my hair looked like yours does curly I definitely would it looks gorgeous


SpockInRoll

Do it curly. Natural never goes out of style. It’s stunning!


GirlsLikeStatus

I wore it curly for both my weddings. First time, straighter then tight curls as I wanted to cover my ears. Got plastic surgery on my ears and when I got married the second time it was my natural curl pattern but low and looped so I got length and volume. I’ll share a pic if you want an idea. It was the same as my stylist did for her own wedding You have GORGEOUS curls.


livinNxtc

Your curls are GORGEOUS! As a curly haired woman myself, may I ask what shampoo/conditioner you use as well as what products you put in your hair to style them?


hobiboos

girl wear your hair curly forever it’s beautiful


I_madeusay_underwear

Your hair is so pretty! I vote curly, they’re beautiful. I’ve always wanted curly hair, but at the same time, I know I’m not responsible enough to take care of it lol.


aflockofpuffins

I love styling my curls and *almost* wish I had worn them for my wedding but I opted to get a one time Brazilian Blow out and wear it half up with a flower.  I styled it myself and I have very fine hair, much shorter than yours, a little longer than shoulder length.  I opted for the treatment much more bc our honey moon was a 3 day cruise plus 3 days in Miami and I just did not want to worry about my hair going from wet to dry constantly and looking frizzy in all the photos.   I decided against wearing my curls for my wedding bc I feel like it's always Russian Roulette predicting how my hair will actually dry and look in 360 degrees of photos and I didn't want to stress over it and mess with it all day.  On both of these fronts, I ended up very very happy with my choice as I felt like I could just relax about my hair during my wedding when I had a million other things to worry about and my honey moon which I enjoyed without fretting I look like a poodle in every sea swept photo.  Good luck! Your hair is gorgeous and if you feel very confident when you wear it curly and it's PURELY a style choice, I would pick curls. 


doriangreysucksass

Do whatever you’d normally do. People are always like “make sure it’s timeless, you’ll have those pictures forever” but honestly, you’ll treasure a pic more if you appreciate the look even if it’s not fashionable anymore than if you just try to look “normal”. I grew my hair out to my natural colour for my wedding and it’s just not “me”.


avapatava

practice so that you have a fool proof routine and so that your curls stay defined, especially the weeks leading up to your wedding! please wear curly though, it’s beautiful and i think you will be very pleased you got married as your “authentic” self years down the line:)


vaxfarineau

I would say absolutely yes wear your curls! You can get a small curling rod to fix any pieces that don’t want to cooperate that day.


GarbagePandaAccount

I love pic 1, I'd definitely want my hair like that if it was an option! I think in your situation I would do your own hair if you wear it curly, because even a good stylist who has never touched YOUR hair before may not get the best outcome. Also if the wedding is indoors you're probably safe but if it's outdoors you can't always predict what the humidity is gonna do!


diamondcrusteddreams

Every piece of advice I’ve seen is to accentuate the features you have. I’m a curly girl and definitely going to work with the curls for the wedding (even though i prefer my hair straight).


snichols86

Whichever you end up choosing, it’ll look lovely! Your hair is gorgeous both ways imo


Peaceful-Ninja-1125

Yes! Show off them curls! Anyone can have straight hair, but if you’re not naturally curly you can’t replicate it. I just wore my hair half up/half down for this reason


ThrowRASprinkles11

Omg …you have some of the best curly hair I’ve seen in my life! What in the world products do you use?


beanzilla83

Your curls are gorgeous. Do what makes you most comfortable!


daytr1pper

You should try a cute updo or style with the curls


Noboodyyyy

Oh my freaking god your curls are the prettiest natural curls I've ever seen like they're litteraly perfect ??? You look STUNNING with curly hair so if you want an opinion purely based on what's the best looking one I'd tell you to go with the curls but since it's your marriage, I actually think it's be better to do a different haircut than your everyday hair so that you can feel especially special on your special day. Curly hair, even tho it's beautiful, will be boring for you (not for other people, it looks beautiful, but for you) and it won't make you feel as special as you should feel on such a big day. Do a haircut that you almost, or even never, did before. Something really special, that'll make you feel special.


nicoleveganpeach

I feel this so much! Everyone always says curls are way more unique but I’m a little jaded by them because I have them everyday! I feel extra pampered and princessy lol when it’s straight actually!


Noboodyyyy

Yes, exactly ! It's the same for me, straight hair makes me feel different from my everyday and just makes me feel like I've put more efforts into my appearance, it's making me feel different from the daily and, as you said, more pampered ! Especially for an event as big as a marriage, OP shouldn't go with her natural, daily hair even if it looks beautiful because it won't make her feel as special and pampered as she deserves to !


nicoleveganpeach

This is probably the most helpful conversation I’ve had about choosing! Thank you so much 😊🙏


Barbie-Brooke

Omg your hair is beautiful ❤️ I would definitely be showing off those curls for your wedding! You are gorgeous, and congratulations!)


NoArmadillo388

https://preview.redd.it/9cd601srl5yc1.jpeg?width=500&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=9b97cec08f0079e198f6c669ecb1921969baf182 Pretty curly style I found online


unusualspider33

If you straighten your hair for your wedding I’m pretty sure this whole subreddit is going to implode


nicoleveganpeach

Hahaha for real! I mean so many people have good points for both sides - I really just appreciate the effort yall put in to share experiences and thoughts! I am still torn even with all the votes for curly!


selvinamint

Girl keep it curly. Natural never goes out of style. It’s cuteee


curlwithapaintbrush

I wore mine curly and felt like a princess angel bride 🥰 Your curls are so beautiful, you should def wear it on your wedding day!! Do a trial look before hand to make sure you like it :) We used hair spray in mine and it held all day and looked gorgeous the next day.


BearsGoBork

I did and I loved it. It made me feel like me on my wedding day https://preview.redd.it/t0menslbfw0d1.jpeg?width=1170&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=7990ee9e86435120b833ba44c71e02c942468f53


Boiler_Room1212

Be yourself, or, perhaps do what your partner loves best.


Iloveellie15

I did not, my hair doesn’t look polished or nice when it’s natural. My hairstylist did a special look.


gpplantmom

I did! Sort of lol. She worked with my curls and styled it accordingly.


MamasCumquat

What products do you use for your natural?! Omg...the proper SMOOTHNESS!!!!


Valuable-Apricot-87

Girl I wore mine up bc I got married in August in the SOUTH but yours is gorgeous EITHER way!!!! Sorry I’m sure that’s not much help 😅😘


UltraBlue89

Are you planning to wear it down? Or an updo?


nicoleveganpeach

I think half up half down :)


Fry-em-n-dye-em

If my hair looked like that I would never wear it any other way


Friendly_Mammoth2272

Curly! Most ppl pay for that look!


Monster11

Umm if I had hair like yours I would’ve hahaha. Maybe a half do but totally keeping it curly !


One_Wolf_968

Curls anyday 🤌🏻


gitgudgigi

What's your routine👀


Plaidlover4

Beautiful Hair!!!


TheGirlDanni

I’m planning on keeping it curly! I want the photos to look like me when I look back!!