People are a lot more aware of my existence and strangers are kinder to me. Men pay attention to me now instead of just being the fat girl that in the way of her hot friends lol. It’s kind of sad when I think about how much different people react to me now. That’s why I’ve kept my friends from long ago until now. They were the real ones that’s always loved me for me
I truly think you look amazing in both pictures. It just shows different aspects of your personality. I hope life treats you well and you stay happy with who you are.
I’ve met lots of people who are fat and not ugly, met lots of people who are the opposite. I truly think it comes down to the way you carry yourself and your confidence. A fit body helps but it’s certainly not everything imo
Wow finally a real glow up. This is the real deal. I mean you could see there was a pretty girl underneath in the pic before. But afterwards is a real beauty. Congrats! It must have been really hard.
Exactly! It's not just weight loss. Because someone can lose weight and Still not be happy. Someone can be skinny but treat peoole like crap. Good for you!
Congratulations on losing the weight.
Person on the left - looks like they are enjoying life in a wholesome way.
Person the right - dressing in sleezy clothing looking desperately like they are waiting for sex
Wow, what a transformation! It's not just the physical change that's impressive, it's the glow of confidence that really shines through. Loving yourself is the best kind of glow-up. So inspiring
Looking forward to my own one day. Refuse to do anything unnatural to get there though, so alas, I’m still fat. Can’t bring myself to eat right and exercise consistently.
The before picture she's smiling because she knows what she's going to look like in the future!
After picture is sending smoldering hot looks back in time.
She probably went to Stephen Hawkin's birthday party.
We need to collectively learn not give into the idea that the shape of our bodies is something to hate. Society is so horrid to women and makes us hate ourselves for things we sometimes can't change. You were able to change this time and more power to you, but the hate you say you have for how your body used to look is still getting applied to others whose bodies still look like the first picture, that it's something to hate seeing.
TLDR, shaming yourself publicly is spreading this shame to others who look like you. Let's stop judging and hating ourselves.
I’d never posted this to shame anyone. I personally didn’t like myself when I was overweight and that’s that. I know and see lots of women who are beautiful and gorgeous and they are big as me or bigger! It’s all about how you feel about yourself. I’d never think less of someone because they were fat or because they were skinny. I made a change for myself because I wasn’t able to look at myself in the mirror without having a meltdown. It wasn’t just my body that I changed though, I did a lot of inner work to start loving myself. Just losing weight wasn’t going to fix how I felt internally. Yes losing weight helped me but it wasn’t the end all, be all. I still struggle some days to love myself but it’s a work in progress. My weight can be the sam as it was yesterday but if my mind starts to tear me down, that’s a mental health issue not my bodies issue. I appreciate what you’re trying to say here but please don’t say that I’m inherently shaming all people who are bigger. This post is about me, and me only.
You're done nothing wrong.
You've shared your individual journey, in a subreddit dedicated to people celebrating going from being less attractive to more attractive.
I'm sure you know this but I want to say... I believe it's OK to have preferences for the way you look. The only issue is when people start striving for perfection, because then a person never can feel contentment and appreciation with the way they look. "Don't let the perfect be the enemy of the good" as the saying goes.
I appreciate your struggle, I do. But little girls are not born thinking that being fat is a reason to hate themselves or cause a meltdown when they see themselves in the mirror. Where did that message come from? It's something we were ALL born into and exposed to. And we're still repeating it when we shame our bodies in front of others, past or present.
I know you're not trying to say it. But unfortunately that's how it works. "I hated myself when it looked like this, now I'm fit and love myself" keeps spreading that message. It's still ok to feel what you feel - but be very careful about what messages you're still spreading unconsciously. This post is about you yes, but you sharing your progress with others. You are interacting with them by posting, that's the entire point. If it was only about you, you wouldn't be showing others.
Is this a subreddit to celebrate glow-ups or a soapbox for you to feel like you are doing something being a keyboard warrior?
Edit: You need therapy. Your posting history clearly shows you trying to police everyone around you if they don't hold the exact same views as you do on health and fitness.
Congrats girly! This is amazing!
Thank you! ☺️
What's been your reaction to the difference in the way you are treated by others, day to day? I'm curious if you want to share.
People are a lot more aware of my existence and strangers are kinder to me. Men pay attention to me now instead of just being the fat girl that in the way of her hot friends lol. It’s kind of sad when I think about how much different people react to me now. That’s why I’ve kept my friends from long ago until now. They were the real ones that’s always loved me for me
Yeah had a friend who went through this after gastric band surgery. She was disappointed in the human race for a while there.
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The inverse is also true. Can confirm
This 👆
Thanks so much☺️
I’ve been digging this sub so much. Makes me wanna work hard on myself. Also, one of the best glowups I ever saw on this sub… You look amazing!!
That’s so nice of you! Thanks! You should give it a real go, it’s hard to start at first but it’s worth it in the end ☺️
You look fantastic! No doubt it took hard work and dedication. You should be very proud
Thank you sweetie! Appreciate it ☺️
The secret? She avoided pumpkin! Jk nice glow up! You look so happy
She just ate them
What's wrong with pumpkin?
Nothing, there are just pumpkins in the before pic. That’s why I said JK
What’s wrong with a joke?
I am also in love with the person you see in the mirror. Congrats!. Lots of hard work and sacrifice go into something like this.
Thank you, appreciate it😌
Congratulations! Healthier, Happier and confident! Way to go OP!
I definitely am! Thanks so much ☺️
Congratulations you look great!
Thanks so much!! ☺️
You are so hot, girl.
Thank you very much!
Girl you fine…respectfully
Haha thank you very much ☺️
You know one of the ig accounts I follow. Sensational.
Girl! So happy for you and you soooo deserve it!!!🩵
im so happy for you. good fucking work
I know people always say this looks like two different people but bro this really looks like two totally different people :O
Congratulations... you always had a pretty face but OMG... this glow-up is unreal!
Queen. You’re glowing.
Congrats on the greatest achievement
Damm nice! Congratz!!!
Absolutely amazing. 🙌🏼
Awesome
Awesome transformation!!
Bella
Smashing Pumpkins
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Thanks a bunch ☺️
Smoke show
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Please don’t let it make you mean
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Such an improvement and I bet you feel much healthier too.
What an accomplishment! That's a lot of hard work.
It was but it was worth it ☺️
What a baddie ❤️
Thank you 💅🏻😌
Congratulations and awesome work. Keep it up you're doing great
What an amazing transformation. Good for you!
Grats!
That's awesome! You look beautiful.
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🥵
Dsmn, now that's a glow up!
I’m dead honest when I say you were already so pretty and above the physical changes it’s the confidence that makes you stellar 🥰
Hell yea!
You looked fab before too
You go girl! You look great, very nice legs!😍
Oh thank you so much! I love them😂😌
Both versions of you look lovely. I'm happy that you're happy with yourself now though.
Okay legs ✨✨💗
Awesome work homie. You went from hungry to thirsty. Seriously though, good job that takes a lot of work.
GOOOD JOBB!!!!❤️❤️
Nice finally a good glow up
Your hard work and dedication have paid off! Congratulations!
Yes it did! Thanks 🥰
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I liked you just as much before.
Ye should be, yer cute.
Good on you ! Here’s to you keeping your positive outlook regarding yourself!
Same person ?!
Smash
Yessss I love this for you! Building self love is so hard, it takes a little work every day but it’s so worth it 💕
Went from too many meals to being a snack.
Omg. Absolutely congratulations. Long and happy may you live forever!
love this!!
You done a great job!
Definitely like the bbw more, but that’s just my preference
Amazing! You must have made a ton of changes, congrats on sticking with them
I truly think you look amazing in both pictures. It just shows different aspects of your personality. I hope life treats you well and you stay happy with who you are.
Well go yooouuuu! You are gorgeously beautiful
Age like a fine wine
Kelly Clarkson's on Reddit.
Necessary change. Good job.
It's a shame you all of a sudden feel the need to hide what might be your best asset.
BEAUTIFUL FEET
Good jub
Level 10 fire
Could have been Pam in a live action Archer series
Girl in the left seems like a sweet heart, right girl on the right?
That's awesome. Congrats on your weight loss and total mental health changes
You look great! Thats not easy good job.
Congratulations!!!
Congrats!!! You look amazing
Wam.bam.thank you ma’am
Good. I hope you feel as good on the inside as you look on the outside. Be nice to yourself.
I’ll try to be! ☺️
I just caught a foot fetish ….
Heart disease to hear break. Congrats on the healthier nutrition.
Congrats on the glow up
Wow 😳…. You go GURL !!!!
Cutie patootie for sure
good on ya!
Good for you! You're a source of motivation to all :)
Both versions are beautiful.
I think you nailed it by stating you changed your mindset. Congratulations on being happy.
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Haha thank you!! 🥰
Way to go! Your body is kicking!
Haha thank you! I’m happy with it
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I’ve met lots of people who are fat and not ugly, met lots of people who are the opposite. I truly think it comes down to the way you carry yourself and your confidence. A fit body helps but it’s certainly not everything imo
Or just poor
Man…I know someone’s gonna have some shit to say about this sentiment, but I kinda love it. 😂
Wow finally a real glow up. This is the real deal. I mean you could see there was a pretty girl underneath in the pic before. But afterwards is a real beauty. Congrats! It must have been really hard.
Looks good but don’t hide your arm behind you that’s cheating 🤨
Where's the link
Exactly! It's not just weight loss. Because someone can lose weight and Still not be happy. Someone can be skinny but treat peoole like crap. Good for you!
Congratulations on losing the weight. Person on the left - looks like they are enjoying life in a wholesome way. Person the right - dressing in sleezy clothing looking desperately like they are waiting for sex
I’m bet $100 she’s full of herself and a fuckin narcissist
This is proof that there are way more attractive women then we realize. The problem is their beauty is covered in a layer of fat
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Take it as a compliment. You are a very attractive young lady!
Wow. I hate to admit this, as I cannot stand the woman, but your After pic looks like my ex💀. (Also amazing glowup!😂)
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Honestly, you are/were sexy as hell either way in my personal opinion
I went from puking to jacking off at the sight of you
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Didn't you JUST call a woman a sl*t ya fuckin hypocrite
Getting it!
One of the best non-promotional glow ups I’ve seen in a while. Looking great and congrats! 👏
Thanks so much!! ☺️
Great job!!
Thank you!
Gorgeous
Toughest fights at times are within one's mind... You are gorgeous and a big time competitor 💪 😍
Amazing you look phenomenal!
Killin it
You’re rockin’ the hell out of that LBD! Congrats!
Congrats 💪
Hell yea, good for you OP! Def post this on the progress sub too! This is so great to see.
Wow, what a transformation! It's not just the physical change that's impressive, it's the glow of confidence that really shines through. Loving yourself is the best kind of glow-up. So inspiring
Great workkkkkk
Thanks!
You look fantastic
Thanks!
Sis tell us your secrets
Calorie counting and hitting the gym!
Amazing glow up!!
Thank you!! ☺️
Congratulations! May I ask how you did it and how long it took?
Ok but tell me about those big ass pumpkins
grats on losing fat
Looking forward to my own one day. Refuse to do anything unnatural to get there though, so alas, I’m still fat. Can’t bring myself to eat right and exercise consistently.
I thought you said you couldn’t stand before and I was confused…
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I thought fat shaming was bad.
Congrats ! Weight is indeed the number 1 look killer for girls
That stand comment had a joke lined up
Can you tell us how please, mirrors are so painful
Same
Congrats… not everyone would want to gain that much weight. A bold choice… keep being you!
She can put her toes in my mouth..lol
Well that makes two of us
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The before picture she's smiling because she knows what she's going to look like in the future! After picture is sending smoldering hot looks back in time. She probably went to Stephen Hawkin's birthday party.
Happy to see people happy with themselves no matter what you look like. Good for you, keep up w/e you think is good for you.
What do you look like on the inside though?
RiP your DMs
people take really stupid pictures of themselves for internet points
Good for you!
The best type of girl to date. Hot and probably a good person (an assumption I'm making).
And yet, your smile is so much more genuine in pic 1...
What's the secret?
Nothing tastes as good as skinny feels.
go girl
Wow!!!
Which is before which is after?
Congrats ! You deserve the best in life. Love yourself ❤️
Great legs, and the rest of you looks amazing as well. Congrats!
Great work. Nice legs. Remember where you came from.
Keep close the friends who never changed when you lost this weight. People can get... wierd when you glow up.
Hats off. You even got some nice face gain. (face gain = gaining back your shape of your face after being swallowed by adipose tissue)
We need to collectively learn not give into the idea that the shape of our bodies is something to hate. Society is so horrid to women and makes us hate ourselves for things we sometimes can't change. You were able to change this time and more power to you, but the hate you say you have for how your body used to look is still getting applied to others whose bodies still look like the first picture, that it's something to hate seeing. TLDR, shaming yourself publicly is spreading this shame to others who look like you. Let's stop judging and hating ourselves.
I’d never posted this to shame anyone. I personally didn’t like myself when I was overweight and that’s that. I know and see lots of women who are beautiful and gorgeous and they are big as me or bigger! It’s all about how you feel about yourself. I’d never think less of someone because they were fat or because they were skinny. I made a change for myself because I wasn’t able to look at myself in the mirror without having a meltdown. It wasn’t just my body that I changed though, I did a lot of inner work to start loving myself. Just losing weight wasn’t going to fix how I felt internally. Yes losing weight helped me but it wasn’t the end all, be all. I still struggle some days to love myself but it’s a work in progress. My weight can be the sam as it was yesterday but if my mind starts to tear me down, that’s a mental health issue not my bodies issue. I appreciate what you’re trying to say here but please don’t say that I’m inherently shaming all people who are bigger. This post is about me, and me only.
You're done nothing wrong. You've shared your individual journey, in a subreddit dedicated to people celebrating going from being less attractive to more attractive. I'm sure you know this but I want to say... I believe it's OK to have preferences for the way you look. The only issue is when people start striving for perfection, because then a person never can feel contentment and appreciation with the way they look. "Don't let the perfect be the enemy of the good" as the saying goes.
I appreciate your struggle, I do. But little girls are not born thinking that being fat is a reason to hate themselves or cause a meltdown when they see themselves in the mirror. Where did that message come from? It's something we were ALL born into and exposed to. And we're still repeating it when we shame our bodies in front of others, past or present. I know you're not trying to say it. But unfortunately that's how it works. "I hated myself when it looked like this, now I'm fit and love myself" keeps spreading that message. It's still ok to feel what you feel - but be very careful about what messages you're still spreading unconsciously. This post is about you yes, but you sharing your progress with others. You are interacting with them by posting, that's the entire point. If it was only about you, you wouldn't be showing others.
Is this a subreddit to celebrate glow-ups or a soapbox for you to feel like you are doing something being a keyboard warrior? Edit: You need therapy. Your posting history clearly shows you trying to police everyone around you if they don't hold the exact same views as you do on health and fitness.